Entitled people can't fathom that concept. It's mind blowing how many people literally think they're going to turn into some big star by just existing on social media.
I've been disconnecting myself. The second hand embarrassment watching people try is too much.
I agree with you. If he doesn't want a real job (he does do OnlyFans from what I understand and that's his source of income) he could at least drive for UberEats or something similar like Nicole did and I think she at least had a studio apartment.
Apparently sofie is ok with his working situation otherwise she wouldn’t have moved in with him…. Or she’ll see she’s not on with it. To each their own….
Reminds me of Razvan. They don’t want to take a regular job - cook, construction, office job, etc because they put all their eggs in one basket (influencer or actor). They just want to focus on their dream and hope that the money will flow later.
LA is expensive and many people work 2-3 jobs just to pay the bills. Even those that are auditioning for acting roles are working as a waiter full time. If he wants a family he needs to demonstrate that he can provide first
Edit to say Brad Pitt supported himself by driving strippers in limos, moving refrigerators and dressing as a giant chicken while working for El Pollo Loco This is when he moved to Hollywood and was auditioning.
Completely. I don’t like amanda but if razvan already said he won’t work to support a family unless its acting and he’s not established…. That would be insane for amanda to accept
He’s a narcissist so he really believes he got it and doesn’t need to lower himself to those standards (of working when come on, he’s got his looks). He’s just so cocky and full of himself. He even treat his lady like trash. I saw he was a lowlife from the second episode 😒
This guy thinks being a light skin with blue eyes automatically makes him some sort of star 😂 good looking people are a dime a dozen not only all over the world, but all over LA. He looks really petite too. Idk. But it’s embarrassing that he’s acting like he’s some big shot when he’s living like that. This dumb ass lives in a single dorm ass room using hot plates, but wants to propose to this girl?? Idk… maybe…. establish yourself financially first. Next he’s pushing the “I want kids” talk, with nothing in his bank account. Dumb as hell.
Exactly, he literally lives in LA, there are so many bars and restaurants that he could work at that would at least get him a studio with an indoor bathroom lol
That's what I don't understand about so many people seeking those kinds of "dream jobs." You either have to work and save money first, then you can support yourself while you work on that dream. OR you work while pursuing it, and once it becomes something that can fund your life, you can switch to it first time.
It's literally what "day job" refers to.
That’s so funny to me, as if he has a face or personality for either. I swear so many people in today’s society so badly need to be taken down a peg and have the realization they’re not shit.
💯 x 💯 we see his abusive, controlling narcissistic bs .. u see she knows ... its blindingly apparent her face when he pulls his sht ... I hope she breaks free of him ...
Yeah that’s probably why he’s dating a 23 year old. No woman in her 30s would date him, he’s a walking red flag. I say this as someone who was also a dumb bitch in her early 20s and I dated an absolutely awful man in his 30s. Didn’t snap out of it until I was 25!
Agreed, seems like he’s living in the cheapest part of LA because he thinks “since I’m close to LA more gigs” and I’m sure he’s certain this 90 day stint will put him out there so “just one more year babe”
This mentality is so cringe and such a red flag in lacking maturity. It’s always the same narcissistic, materialistic and cocky people who think they are so close to their “big break”, sign up for embarrassing tv shows to plug their sex pages and refuse to get an actual steady job and grow the hell up. I feel like these types of people were never told no by their parents or anyone growing up. And trust me- if you have the talent it doesn’t take years and years to get noticed
Omg. That is ridiculous. He just looks like a normal guy. So basically doesn't want to do hard work and trying to figure out a way to get an easy ride. What a waste of time.
He doesn’t have the height, chilled features to make it as a model ! Is he very good looking yes but even as a model the window to make the most money is very small.
Like seriously dude. Just like Sophie said, “I got an apartment in the countryside and did waitressing and never asked for money” once she probably was an adult or so (she’s still young only 23!) so.. this man is in his thirties?? And yet he is trying to mooch off of her family money and thinks that’s fine?? Like dude at this point just move somewhere cheaper and make a “sound financial decision” as Danielle would say lol. But to be honest I think to him being poor is a personality trait at this point.
It really is. He’s so hellbent on making her look materialistic, like basic comforts are only for spoiled rich girls. He wants to have some kind of “starting from nothing” romanticized relationship, which is pretty pathetic at his age.
'You want a bathroom INSIDE the apartment?' that's some bougie-ass stuff right there. 💀 I get the vibe that he likes that Sophie's a submissive girlfriend.
He doesn’t respect her at all and it’s sad. If he just actually listens to her he would find out that she is not so materialistic as he perceives. Just because she came from money doesn’t mean she can’t be down to earth. He is the one who is stuck in his past life of being in the hood imo
Right. It’s all performative. He *wants* her to be materialistic so he can have his little hood love story. He doesn’t even seem to know much about her really
He could afford a place with an indoor toilet on a McDonalds salary in SoCal. He’ll have roommates but it’d probably be less people sharing a bathroom than what he has now. This is the “I have no job save for door dash once a week” life. It’s pathetic how little effort he puts into anything other than treating Sophie like shit.
His behavior makes me realllly uncomfortable. He’s so quick to lash out and become aggressively defensive and doesn’t take accountability for anything. I’m worried for this poor young girl and how quickly his behavior could wear her down and delude her self worth.
I know the term is used and abused around on reddit, but he does have "gaslighting" tendencies. Making Sophie question observed reality with the lies about the crap on his phone, DARVO when confronted about bad behavior, and trying to delude her that in the Year of our Lord 2023 that having a smelly hovel outhouse is "totally normal, totally cool" is crazy, and fits the definition.
Guessing that stupid dance he did at the airport is what he's using as an audition tape. He was the only one of the two that was impressed by it and spoke of it constantly about the effort he put into practicing so he didn't mess it up. Then the proposal was done practically in the doorway. Everything about it was so juvenile and embarrassing coming from a 32 yr old man. I would have been pissed if I were her.
Indeed. But he made it seem so romantic *to himself*. " I did a special dance for her at the airport, then a surprise proposal to her on the way out, and then home for a romantic candlelit dinner I prepared".
Eat that churro girl! ick.
Her face literally turned bright red while she repeatedly asked what he was doing… the fact that he didn’t see it as cringe in any way shows his level of delusion
" However, despite the issues the couple has faced, [*Sophie*](https://www.instagram.com/p/CyW4qDBR5j4/?img_index=1)’s Instagram reveals she’s still in America. On October 13, Sophie posted photos from Bijou Lounge in Austin, Texas. Meanwhile, Reddit user u/[*bbykenz666*](https://www.reddit.com/r/90dayfianceuncensored/comments/17bmmn6/already_filming_more_sophie/) shared a video of Sophie filming for ***90 Day Fiancé*** at XO Nightclub Austin. Rob and Sophie's relationship may not be perfect, but it seems they are still trying to work through it. "
From here: [https://screenrant.com/90-day-fiance-is-sophie-still-together-us-rob/](https://screenrant.com/90-day-fiance-is-sophie-still-together-us-rob/)
Unless her and Rob get married and she gets her green card, I don't see why she would be filming in the US though.
Unfortunately this reeks of them filming for Happily Ever After.
I can't believe he thinks she's being bougee because she wants a bathroom inside her apartment. There's a reason he's with a 23 year old - no woman his age would put up with his crap and his living situation. Every time he claps back at her she immediately backs down. He's just gross!
That made me SO uncomfortable. The LAST thing I want to do after flying all day, leaving my entire life behind, in a new country that I don’t feel safe in…. Is have sex. And the fact he pressured her into it is just gross. That would be the end of it for me. I’ve been in similar situation with an ex, and it did not get better
“I’m a guy” acting like he cannot respect his girl needs sleep because being a guy means he must have sex when he wants or expects it or…he will die… he’s such a toxic moron
He absolutely did. When she said she had fallen asleep for a few minutes before he started nudging her awake. Ugh just the way he gloated about it too like it was deserved it and was entitled to her body after all the “effort” he put into those “surprises”.
Noticed he kept saying he “did the dance for her” and “embarrassed himself for her” like girl did not ask for that, you did the dance because you wanted the attention and think you’re such hot shit that everyone should be looking at you as the main character.
I had an abusive ex and he always would do surprises in this way. Like they are trying to do something but miss the mark and it ends of being so embarrassing and cringy. And they can tell that you are just being nice when you are “impressed” by the effort and they call you out for not being into it and it’s so awkward….And then they act like it was the grandest most thoughtful thing ever and you didn’t appreciate it. It’s like a sociopath trying to guess what someone will find romantic because they actually don’t get it.
That gave me ultimate rape vibes. This guy has serious accountability issues. He’s angry. He gives a abuse vibes. I worry for this girl. He throws a fit when he feels like he’s being criticized or doesn’t get his way. I’ve been following this franchise for many years and he’s giving some of the most toxic energy. Immediately turned off by him.
And the way he addressed it the next day was so disgusting, "I tried to put you to sleep", and staring at his phone while she talked.
It reminded me of a Chris Brown song, "Fuck you back to sleep". So gross. I get Chris Brown vibes from this guy; angry, entitled, and doesn't respect women.
How embarrassing for him that his much younger girlfriend was able to work and afford her own much nicer apartment. I think he keeps bringing up her family having money just to bring her down because he’s insecure and knows she actually is capable of paying her own way, unlike him.
He’s one of those people who will never ever, under any circumstance admit that they were wrong. I bet he told everyone he was easily going to make it big in LA, so he won’t leave and won’t admit that his apartment is a shit hole in a dangerous area because that would mean admitting he was wrong and that it didn’t work out.
He could be trying to get away from family, could be trying to live some "dream" of being a model/dancer/singer. A lot of people stay there for a while, thinking they're gonna catch some big break.
according to his instagram he moved to austin texas in july and posted on his story last night “let’s be clear, i WANTED to move and was working on it”
As someone from the Golden State...like the Architect in *The Matrix*, "there are certain levels of survival (we are) prepared to accept". Great weather, beach nearby, good vibes will cover a multitude of sins (being able to afford only a crackerbox in the hood, sticking with a job you don't necessarily like).
Also, when they were on the beach, he said, "This is why I came to California." Isn't California known as a generally more expensive state to live in? So he came from somewhere else and *chose* to live like this, but isn't trying to find new opportunities or anything? I'm all for adventure and whatever, but he has another person's feelings and comfort to consider, and there are more affordable areas to live in, maybe even some that allow relatively easy travel to the ocean via a short road trip. No but instead, he doesn't take her opinions or feelings seriously at all, and throws her family's money in her face for wanting perfectly reasonable things like indoor plumbing. Gosh, the audacity. Don't you know toilets are SO boujee?
And what's up with the online cheating thing. Such a ragey douche bag thing to be like, "OMG wHeN aRe YoU gOnNa lEt tHiS gOoooooo???" Like gawwwd I know I'm the one who fucked up, whyyyy do YOU have to be so sensitive about iiitttt??!!!
Everyone is saying he doesn't work... How did his girl get a sponsor? Even if she's the one who financed her moving here, doesn't she need an American sponsor who is financially stable?
He sucks period in every way. He's so negative towards Sophie who is actually trying to be nice and patient and careful to cater to not hurt his feelings, even tho she's the one coming into a foreign place. I hate how he keeps trying to say "the first thing she did was get angry about something i cant control" like when was she "angry" ? she questioned the sirens and gunshots bc shes not used to it and she did it all very calmly. he's a little bitch if he thinks thats her angry lmao
He's in his 30s and still hitting young girls in the DMs and making poor financial decisions 🤦♀️. There are important priorities than bringing someone who is still a kid into your life. Get it together
The “LA lifestyle “ pretend you have it on social media but reality of lot of people who live in this city are less then a paycheck away from homelessness just to say they have the beach in their backyard that they never go to anyway 🤕
He is not half the player he thinks he is. Time to join reality and man up. Get a job, do something.
Your rich fiance said "fuck family money", moved out and hustled, all while having her family cut her off.
Maybe you should see the example she sets and work for a living.
Probably moved to LA to become a actor/model/singer. Thinks he is a hard mofo, but is really just a big softie like his homie said. Lazy TLC writers made a dumb story with some fool trying to claim only rich mofos have indoor bathrooms in Merica.
He doesn't work??? Lmao he def thinks he's too good to work and should have a sugar mama or something. His face is attractive but he clearly doesn't work out so he needs to come back to earth a little bit. He's not a supermodel
Didn’t he mention something in his introduction that he likes attractive women only, since he consider himself good looking? He needs to be punched in the nose.
Yes he said that ugh 😑 he needs to be humbled so bad. And when Sophie was eating the churro he was like "yeah you eat that churro" like obviously sexualizing her and she just laughed it off and he was staring at her so creepily. It was so gross honestly even grosser than Escott
I thought when they do this visa they had to show they could support the person? I mean idk cali prices but if he has a home without a bathroom in the home I’d assume he can’t afford to support someone else
He is poor AND miserable. He seems to lack ambition. Like, he drives that car, he can pay for his gym membership, for renting a whole ass dance classroom to practice his corny little dance, but he can’t get out of the ghetto? Disgusting. Not to mention, the way he gaslight her like, I can’t.
Can someone explain why this mother fucker thinks he is in any position to have children? He isn’t even setting himself up for that 10 years from now. He is sitting on his ass waiting for things to happen for him.
It’s not tone deaf at all. His behavior would be more acceptable if he was 18/19 maybe even up to 22, however he’s in his 30s.
His defensiveness when his self perceived limitations are highlighted by someone 10 years younger than him show us why he’s not even a little bit financially successful.
He has accepted a borderline camping living situation, yet in the preview for next week seems astonished that his s/o doesn’t want to procreate? He’s emotionally stunted.
If you listen to him talk he spins everything to make himself the victim in whatever scenario they are in, somehow “poor Rob just has it SO MUCH worse than everyone else in the whole wide world 😩” 😭 - why would he put in ANY work to get in a better situation if he thinks her family will just bail them out? He’s legit mentioned getting money from her family several times in the 4 days of filming while simultaneously telling her (paraphrasing) “we aren’t gna talk about it the whole trip” ….he thinks if he keeps pushing it (just like he did for sex) she’ll eventually give in (just like she did).
I doubt he’s bothered to try a trade cuz he thinks he’s too pretty to get his soft hands dirty or callusy & it’s “easier” to be an influencer 🙄🥴
Men *with that mindset* who are in their 30’s dating women in their late teens/early twenties are doing it cuz they can’t manipulate women in their own age group so they find less experienced women & use them til they can’t give anything else….and I’m sure it’s even easier to manipulate a foreigner cuz she doesn’t know the culture or what opportunities he’s leaving on the table. If he was dating a girl who grew up in the hood he claims he grew up in, she would tell him to stop whining & do something about it. She would prob have several hustles of her own & expect that he be just as ambitious, if not more.
Rob is a mf knob & I hope Sophie ends up on The Single Life!
Love that he tied to dress up “sex” after a long ass flight as “the cherry on top” like no sir, I’m sure it wasn’t even worth the trouble. 🤢 what an asshle.
This man’s a loser. He makes her feel bad for wanting basic necessities (bathroom, privacy, seating) and calling her “privileged” because he can’t get his ass up and get a real job. Meanwhile his instagram looks like a totally different person.
I feel so bad for her, I think she has more underlying issues with trying to hide her bi-racial features, being bisexual and all at such a young age. I hope the knob is her awakening moment by the end of this. I’m rooting for her(her only) sadly.
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is this not a grown tent? maybe that’s his “job”
He doesn’t want a normal people job, he wants to be a mode or something. I guess he doesn’t have a mirror, because he does not have model looks or influencer charm.
He wants to be an “influencer.” Which is fine but you need a real job until you make. The truth is he is lazy and doesn’t want to actually work. But hey, when the ocean calls you what can you do?
He’s pretty entitled and a snob. He probably thinks being a waiter is beneath him. Honestly, he’s young and able bodied, he could reasonably get a job anywhere.
Also, what was up with his remark about having a bathroom in your house as being bougie? We must all be bougie, especially those of us with multiple bathrooms.
He chooses not to have a job and focus on “modeling”. I think he doesn’t want to get out of the situation, I live in SoCal as well and know there are plenty of programs to help with housing costs especially if you’re living the way he does. Idk man I couldn’t be with a man who gaslights me into thinking that asking for a house with an indoor bathroom makes me selfish and spoiled lol. Like I’d rather have my man have a roommate with an indoor bathroom than an outhouse, but that’s just me lol.
He’s trying to make it as a model or “influencer” but his attitude is worse than his bathroom situation
He can still do that while working a job that puts food on the table
Entitled people can't fathom that concept. It's mind blowing how many people literally think they're going to turn into some big star by just existing on social media. I've been disconnecting myself. The second hand embarrassment watching people try is too much.
He did buy the fancy Taco Bell dinner on night 1…
Then guilt her into sex…
Nothing says romance like vigorous sex after eating a bean burrito.
We need this printed on mugs, please
🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️🙋🏻♀️
😂🤣😂🤣
This is the best thing I’ve heard all week :)
“I’m a man” 🤢🙄 I woulda told him men respect the word no, self absorbed little boys see it as a challenge.
💯
Ah, *fine dining*. All he needs is three seashells in the ~~en suite~~ detached washroom, and he's balling.
When he said Suck that Churro to her I wanted to slap him!!!
Right. But he doesnt want to. He thinks his looks will carry him. Hes gonna have a really hard time aging 😆
So far his looks have only carried him to the outhouse.
😂😂😂👏👏👏
He's totally gonna be that "old dude/young clothes" guy, hanging out at the barber shop, annoying the young heads.
your flair 💀😂 my favorite line
I agree with you. If he doesn't want a real job (he does do OnlyFans from what I understand and that's his source of income) he could at least drive for UberEats or something similar like Nicole did and I think she at least had a studio apartment.
His OF must me trash if this is how he’s living OMG…
Apparently sofie is ok with his working situation otherwise she wouldn’t have moved in with him…. Or she’ll see she’s not on with it. To each their own….
She’s young, she’ll get tired of that mess. I believe she’s on OF also, I’m sure she makes more money than him.
Yeah, she lived there before, she knew what she was getting into
Sophie is looking for fame
He’s lazy
and a mooch. I cannot believe the nerve of him telling her to get money from her family. go work you useless bum
That's why he's pissed she doesn't want kids, figures he'll knock her up and from then on he's invited on her family vacations.
Squeezing your ass cheeks and jerking off camera takes stamina though.
Reminds me of Razvan. They don’t want to take a regular job - cook, construction, office job, etc because they put all their eggs in one basket (influencer or actor). They just want to focus on their dream and hope that the money will flow later. LA is expensive and many people work 2-3 jobs just to pay the bills. Even those that are auditioning for acting roles are working as a waiter full time. If he wants a family he needs to demonstrate that he can provide first Edit to say Brad Pitt supported himself by driving strippers in limos, moving refrigerators and dressing as a giant chicken while working for El Pollo Loco This is when he moved to Hollywood and was auditioning.
Let’s not forget Oussama, who has vowed to die on the hill that is his derivative art.
Razvan is at least mildly successful tho- he has a bathroom!
The bar is in hell 😂
Completely. I don’t like amanda but if razvan already said he won’t work to support a family unless its acting and he’s not established…. That would be insane for amanda to accept
He’s a narcissist so he really believes he got it and doesn’t need to lower himself to those standards (of working when come on, he’s got his looks). He’s just so cocky and full of himself. He even treat his lady like trash. I saw he was a lowlife from the second episode 😒
This guy thinks being a light skin with blue eyes automatically makes him some sort of star 😂 good looking people are a dime a dozen not only all over the world, but all over LA. He looks really petite too. Idk. But it’s embarrassing that he’s acting like he’s some big shot when he’s living like that. This dumb ass lives in a single dorm ass room using hot plates, but wants to propose to this girl?? Idk… maybe…. establish yourself financially first. Next he’s pushing the “I want kids” talk, with nothing in his bank account. Dumb as hell.
Not only propose…expects her to jump at having kids with his ass!
When you need a 2x4 to hold the hatchback open 🤦🏻♀️
Exactly, he literally lives in LA, there are so many bars and restaurants that he could work at that would at least get him a studio with an indoor bathroom lol
He strikes me as the kind of guy to lose his cool quick, especially if someone gives him orders.
That's what I don't understand about so many people seeking those kinds of "dream jobs." You either have to work and save money first, then you can support yourself while you work on that dream. OR you work while pursuing it, and once it becomes something that can fund your life, you can switch to it first time. It's literally what "day job" refers to.
That’s so funny to me, as if he has a face or personality for either. I swear so many people in today’s society so badly need to be taken down a peg and have the realization they’re not shit.
He looks like a completely different person from his instagram. I barely see the resemblance past the filters.
💯 x 💯 we see his abusive, controlling narcissistic bs .. u see she knows ... its blindingly apparent her face when he pulls his sht ... I hope she breaks free of him ...
Yea his personality is shit. I wonder what attracted her to him to begin with.
Filters
I think this is absolutely the case and why he came on the show. He wants that influencer lifestyle
He is actually scary ..
There is no reason why he shouldn't be able to afford an apartment share situation where he gets his own bedroom and ensuite bathroom. The man is 32!!
Is he that old? If he hasn't made it by now in modeling, good luck! Big youth culture in So Cal.
Yeah that’s probably why he’s dating a 23 year old. No woman in her 30s would date him, he’s a walking red flag. I say this as someone who was also a dumb bitch in her early 20s and I dated an absolutely awful man in his 30s. Didn’t snap out of it until I was 25!
Agreed, seems like he’s living in the cheapest part of LA because he thinks “since I’m close to LA more gigs” and I’m sure he’s certain this 90 day stint will put him out there so “just one more year babe”
This mentality is so cringe and such a red flag in lacking maturity. It’s always the same narcissistic, materialistic and cocky people who think they are so close to their “big break”, sign up for embarrassing tv shows to plug their sex pages and refuse to get an actual steady job and grow the hell up. I feel like these types of people were never told no by their parents or anyone growing up. And trust me- if you have the talent it doesn’t take years and years to get noticed
Omg. That is ridiculous. He just looks like a normal guy. So basically doesn't want to do hard work and trying to figure out a way to get an easy ride. What a waste of time.
Welcome to LA! Lots of people waiting on ''their big break"
He doesn’t have the height, chilled features to make it as a model ! Is he very good looking yes but even as a model the window to make the most money is very small.
"chilled features" ha ha ...or chiseled features, that would work too!
And this is why most of my high school students are going to be broke as a joke after they graduate.
He's not nearly good-looking enough, either.
His wallet, his car, his home, his furnishings, his attitude screams LAZY
He uses a stick to hold his car trunk open!
I'm sorry, that's not a stick. That's a whole ass 2x4. Man has LUMBER holding his trunk open.
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I can’t stop laughing 😂😂🤣🤣🤣
His worn-out steering wheel creeped me out.
It was disgusting. Like the spot on the inside of Gino's door where he touches it with his thumb when he goes into the house.
Or Sarper's dusty & cum-stained PlayStation controller. That's a deal-breaker as far as I'm concerned.
He's just trying to humble her! Lol. This man is a LOSER. I hope she realizes that soon.
Men obsessed with ‘humbling’ women are such a red flag 🚩🚩
Style over substance
I hate his apartment so much 😭 even just a small amount of creativity could make that space look so much nicer.
I think he wants to tear her down so he can pimp her out. That's his idea of work.
“Manage” her “career” for her 🤣
You should see his instagram 🤣🤣 Someone commented that he posts like he’s someone famous for a bum & then it got deleted.
What’s his IG handle ?
I’m not proud to say that I found it but it’s robwarne_
The way he liked a comment from someone about how they find his girl annoying despite not even being halfway through the first episode 💀
 I think he wants to live the L.A. lifestyle on a McDonald's salary...
Like seriously dude. Just like Sophie said, “I got an apartment in the countryside and did waitressing and never asked for money” once she probably was an adult or so (she’s still young only 23!) so.. this man is in his thirties?? And yet he is trying to mooch off of her family money and thinks that’s fine?? Like dude at this point just move somewhere cheaper and make a “sound financial decision” as Danielle would say lol. But to be honest I think to him being poor is a personality trait at this point.
It really is. He’s so hellbent on making her look materialistic, like basic comforts are only for spoiled rich girls. He wants to have some kind of “starting from nothing” romanticized relationship, which is pretty pathetic at his age.
'You want a bathroom INSIDE the apartment?' that's some bougie-ass stuff right there. 💀 I get the vibe that he likes that Sophie's a submissive girlfriend.
He doesn’t respect her at all and it’s sad. If he just actually listens to her he would find out that she is not so materialistic as he perceives. Just because she came from money doesn’t mean she can’t be down to earth. He is the one who is stuck in his past life of being in the hood imo
Right. It’s all performative. He *wants* her to be materialistic so he can have his little hood love story. He doesn’t even seem to know much about her really
Yeah it’s really sad bc she is a cool girl. Def emphasized by the fact he doesn’t even know she doesn’t want kids yet lol
The irony is that we are all seeing how much more humble she is than him lol. He sucks *so hard*.
What irritated me is when he mentioned he’s not even from LA??? So you chose to live like this??
Wait he's not? Where is he from? I just assumed he was sticking around because it's what he knows but this is crazy information.
He’s from Kansas City, MO
😱💀
Was he raised there by B Grateful?
Oh my gosh seriously?
Omg no 😿 I’m from KC and it’s so freaking cheap here. It’s the one perk to living here.
He could afford a place with an indoor toilet on a McDonalds salary in SoCal. He’ll have roommates but it’d probably be less people sharing a bathroom than what he has now. This is the “I have no job save for door dash once a week” life. It’s pathetic how little effort he puts into anything other than treating Sophie like shit.
Sophie’s from the U.K., they call it a Royale with cheese…
They got the metric system, they don’t know what the fuck a quarter pound is 😂
That's one BAD MOTHER FUCKER
This right here 😂!
Because he is rob the knob
Her mom was exactly right, dudes a loser
His behavior makes me realllly uncomfortable. He’s so quick to lash out and become aggressively defensive and doesn’t take accountability for anything. I’m worried for this poor young girl and how quickly his behavior could wear her down and delude her self worth.
Apparently they aren’t together anymore per a spoiler alert below. Which would be great news
Great ⬆️
I think from the comments following, that might not be true. They're apparently filming potentially for a new season.
I know the term is used and abused around on reddit, but he does have "gaslighting" tendencies. Making Sophie question observed reality with the lies about the crap on his phone, DARVO when confronted about bad behavior, and trying to delude her that in the Year of our Lord 2023 that having a smelly hovel outhouse is "totally normal, totally cool" is crazy, and fits the definition.
Guessing that stupid dance he did at the airport is what he's using as an audition tape. He was the only one of the two that was impressed by it and spoke of it constantly about the effort he put into practicing so he didn't mess it up. Then the proposal was done practically in the doorway. Everything about it was so juvenile and embarrassing coming from a 32 yr old man. I would have been pissed if I were her.
Indeed. But he made it seem so romantic *to himself*. " I did a special dance for her at the airport, then a surprise proposal to her on the way out, and then home for a romantic candlelit dinner I prepared". Eat that churro girl! ick.
Her face literally turned bright red while she repeatedly asked what he was doing… the fact that he didn’t see it as cringe in any way shows his level of delusion
Spoiler Alert!! I read earlier that he & his fiancée are no more. Yay! She can do so much better & must have figured that out.
I hope so. He gave off such an aggressive vibe
Yes! So many red flags!
Yeah thank god I was scared for her I’ve seen this type of guy with a sweet younger girl before and it doesn’t play out well
Watching their scene now and he is so agro.
He seemed more intent on tearing her down than being her partner
" However, despite the issues the couple has faced, [*Sophie*](https://www.instagram.com/p/CyW4qDBR5j4/?img_index=1)’s Instagram reveals she’s still in America. On October 13, Sophie posted photos from Bijou Lounge in Austin, Texas. Meanwhile, Reddit user u/[*bbykenz666*](https://www.reddit.com/r/90dayfianceuncensored/comments/17bmmn6/already_filming_more_sophie/) shared a video of Sophie filming for ***90 Day Fiancé*** at XO Nightclub Austin. Rob and Sophie's relationship may not be perfect, but it seems they are still trying to work through it. " From here: [https://screenrant.com/90-day-fiance-is-sophie-still-together-us-rob/](https://screenrant.com/90-day-fiance-is-sophie-still-together-us-rob/)
Thank god! Please let it be true. He is awful
This is the best spoiler alert if it’s true! 👏🏽👏🏽
This is fantastic news❤️
They saw her filming a few days ago.
I would see what she was filming for. Hopefully Single Life.
Unless her and Rob get married and she gets her green card, I don't see why she would be filming in the US though. Unfortunately this reeks of them filming for Happily Ever After.
Ughhhhhhh. I hope not. Run, girl!
I hope he got his act together and that’s why they moved to Texas !
I can't believe he thinks she's being bougee because she wants a bathroom inside her apartment. There's a reason he's with a 23 year old - no woman his age would put up with his crap and his living situation. Every time he claps back at her she immediately backs down. He's just gross!
Also, sounds like he made his 23 year old TV-fiancé have sex with him when she wanted to sleep instead
That made me SO uncomfortable. The LAST thing I want to do after flying all day, leaving my entire life behind, in a new country that I don’t feel safe in…. Is have sex. And the fact he pressured her into it is just gross. That would be the end of it for me. I’ve been in similar situation with an ex, and it did not get better
“I’m a guy” acting like he cannot respect his girl needs sleep because being a guy means he must have sex when he wants or expects it or…he will die… he’s such a toxic moron
And yet the networks keep on putting these MFers on TV!!
Poor girl can't even take a proper shower after to feel human again. Fuck that guy.
I read this in a British accent
Agreed
He absolutely did. When she said she had fallen asleep for a few minutes before he started nudging her awake. Ugh just the way he gloated about it too like it was deserved it and was entitled to her body after all the “effort” he put into those “surprises”.
The surprises sucked. The biggest surprise was his bathroom which is a bad surprise
RIGHT. Like that dumbass dance he did was so confusing and cringe.
Noticed he kept saying he “did the dance for her” and “embarrassed himself for her” like girl did not ask for that, you did the dance because you wanted the attention and think you’re such hot shit that everyone should be looking at you as the main character.
I had an abusive ex and he always would do surprises in this way. Like they are trying to do something but miss the mark and it ends of being so embarrassing and cringy. And they can tell that you are just being nice when you are “impressed” by the effort and they call you out for not being into it and it’s so awkward….And then they act like it was the grandest most thoughtful thing ever and you didn’t appreciate it. It’s like a sociopath trying to guess what someone will find romantic because they actually don’t get it.
That gave me ultimate rape vibes. This guy has serious accountability issues. He’s angry. He gives a abuse vibes. I worry for this girl. He throws a fit when he feels like he’s being criticized or doesn’t get his way. I’ve been following this franchise for many years and he’s giving some of the most toxic energy. Immediately turned off by him.
And the way he addressed it the next day was so disgusting, "I tried to put you to sleep", and staring at his phone while she talked. It reminded me of a Chris Brown song, "Fuck you back to sleep". So gross. I get Chris Brown vibes from this guy; angry, entitled, and doesn't respect women.
I haven't watched the episode but holy fuck and he did that shit on camera? I know I'll get downvoted but he's kinda rapey
If he pressured her into sex then and made her feel bad for not wanting it then yeah rapey vibes.
He has zero ambition. Why else defend an outhouse in a city?
How embarrassing for him that his much younger girlfriend was able to work and afford her own much nicer apartment. I think he keeps bringing up her family having money just to bring her down because he’s insecure and knows she actually is capable of paying her own way, unlike him.
He’s bringing it up because he wants her to use it to support them both. He’s reminding her that he knows it’s there.
He's in LA. That's enough to be poor, but he also probably refuses to do any "normal" work because it's beneath him.
He’s probably gotten by on his “looks” most of his life. In the words of Judge Judy, beauty fades, dumb is forever.
But why does he want to stay in LA? It’s not even a nice area.
He’s one of those people who will never ever, under any circumstance admit that they were wrong. I bet he told everyone he was easily going to make it big in LA, so he won’t leave and won’t admit that his apartment is a shit hole in a dangerous area because that would mean admitting he was wrong and that it didn’t work out.
He could be trying to get away from family, could be trying to live some "dream" of being a model/dancer/singer. A lot of people stay there for a while, thinking they're gonna catch some big break.
He’s probably in LA just to say he’s in LA
according to his instagram he moved to austin texas in july and posted on his story last night “let’s be clear, i WANTED to move and was working on it”
> “let’s be clear, i WANTED to move and was working on it” "Sure, ~~Jan~~ *Rob*".
Ok, fair enough. But in that case when Sophie complained, he should have said “don’t worry this is only temporary, I’m working on moving elsewhere”
Ah, another cool expensive city. Smart
As someone from the Golden State...like the Architect in *The Matrix*, "there are certain levels of survival (we are) prepared to accept". Great weather, beach nearby, good vibes will cover a multitude of sins (being able to afford only a crackerbox in the hood, sticking with a job you don't necessarily like).
Also, when they were on the beach, he said, "This is why I came to California." Isn't California known as a generally more expensive state to live in? So he came from somewhere else and *chose* to live like this, but isn't trying to find new opportunities or anything? I'm all for adventure and whatever, but he has another person's feelings and comfort to consider, and there are more affordable areas to live in, maybe even some that allow relatively easy travel to the ocean via a short road trip. No but instead, he doesn't take her opinions or feelings seriously at all, and throws her family's money in her face for wanting perfectly reasonable things like indoor plumbing. Gosh, the audacity. Don't you know toilets are SO boujee? And what's up with the online cheating thing. Such a ragey douche bag thing to be like, "OMG wHeN aRe YoU gOnNa lEt tHiS gOoooooo???" Like gawwwd I know I'm the one who fucked up, whyyyy do YOU have to be so sensitive about iiitttt??!!!
L-A-Z-Y
Everyone is saying he doesn't work... How did his girl get a sponsor? Even if she's the one who financed her moving here, doesn't she need an American sponsor who is financially stable?
We never heard about the K1, I wonder if she’s just there on her regular passport?
She has said multiple times they only have 90 days to get married.
Oh I’m wrong then! Honestly this season I haven’t been able to focus on. I retract my statement! Lol
She probably just used her own financial info to apply.
He sucks period in every way. He's so negative towards Sophie who is actually trying to be nice and patient and careful to cater to not hurt his feelings, even tho she's the one coming into a foreign place. I hate how he keeps trying to say "the first thing she did was get angry about something i cant control" like when was she "angry" ? she questioned the sirens and gunshots bc shes not used to it and she did it all very calmly. he's a little bitch if he thinks thats her angry lmao
He's in his 30s and still hitting young girls in the DMs and making poor financial decisions 🤦♀️. There are important priorities than bringing someone who is still a kid into your life. Get it together
The “LA lifestyle “ pretend you have it on social media but reality of lot of people who live in this city are less then a paycheck away from homelessness just to say they have the beach in their backyard that they never go to anyway 🤕
I love how of all the beaches he could have taken her to, he chose Venice??
He is not half the player he thinks he is. Time to join reality and man up. Get a job, do something. Your rich fiance said "fuck family money", moved out and hustled, all while having her family cut her off. Maybe you should see the example she sets and work for a living.
Probably moved to LA to become a actor/model/singer. Thinks he is a hard mofo, but is really just a big softie like his homie said. Lazy TLC writers made a dumb story with some fool trying to claim only rich mofos have indoor bathrooms in Merica.
He’s the definition of a bum. He’s one of those dudes who expect a woman to do everything for them
He doesn't work??? Lmao he def thinks he's too good to work and should have a sugar mama or something. His face is attractive but he clearly doesn't work out so he needs to come back to earth a little bit. He's not a supermodel
No joke but I think he has an OnlyFans and does that for income.
Didn’t he mention something in his introduction that he likes attractive women only, since he consider himself good looking? He needs to be punched in the nose.
Yes he said that ugh 😑 he needs to be humbled so bad. And when Sophie was eating the churro he was like "yeah you eat that churro" like obviously sexualizing her and she just laughed it off and he was staring at her so creepily. It was so gross honestly even grosser than Escott
He’s literally a dime a dozen in LA. He’s completely below average in this city and clockable as a fuckboy from 1000 yards.
Sadly he’s exactly the type of thirty something to date a 22 year old. I was a Sophie once lol. Never again.
Exactly! There’s no way he could bring a woman in their 30s to that place!!
I would genuinely think he’s unwell. I live in LA I have a beautiful studio for like $1500. In Inglewood he could do like $1200
Just because he has colored eye he thinks he’s a model. In my opinion he’s not handsome at all in the face.
I thought when they do this visa they had to show they could support the person? I mean idk cali prices but if he has a home without a bathroom in the home I’d assume he can’t afford to support someone else
He is poor AND miserable. He seems to lack ambition. Like, he drives that car, he can pay for his gym membership, for renting a whole ass dance classroom to practice his corny little dance, but he can’t get out of the ghetto? Disgusting. Not to mention, the way he gaslight her like, I can’t.
He seems like a hater and that’s what’s holding him back
Can someone explain why this mother fucker thinks he is in any position to have children? He isn’t even setting himself up for that 10 years from now. He is sitting on his ass waiting for things to happen for him.
It’s not tone deaf at all. His behavior would be more acceptable if he was 18/19 maybe even up to 22, however he’s in his 30s. His defensiveness when his self perceived limitations are highlighted by someone 10 years younger than him show us why he’s not even a little bit financially successful. He has accepted a borderline camping living situation, yet in the preview for next week seems astonished that his s/o doesn’t want to procreate? He’s emotionally stunted.
The most immature 32 year old to ever grace the show. He acts like he’s 17.
If you listen to him talk he spins everything to make himself the victim in whatever scenario they are in, somehow “poor Rob just has it SO MUCH worse than everyone else in the whole wide world 😩” 😭 - why would he put in ANY work to get in a better situation if he thinks her family will just bail them out? He’s legit mentioned getting money from her family several times in the 4 days of filming while simultaneously telling her (paraphrasing) “we aren’t gna talk about it the whole trip” ….he thinks if he keeps pushing it (just like he did for sex) she’ll eventually give in (just like she did). I doubt he’s bothered to try a trade cuz he thinks he’s too pretty to get his soft hands dirty or callusy & it’s “easier” to be an influencer 🙄🥴 Men *with that mindset* who are in their 30’s dating women in their late teens/early twenties are doing it cuz they can’t manipulate women in their own age group so they find less experienced women & use them til they can’t give anything else….and I’m sure it’s even easier to manipulate a foreigner cuz she doesn’t know the culture or what opportunities he’s leaving on the table. If he was dating a girl who grew up in the hood he claims he grew up in, she would tell him to stop whining & do something about it. She would prob have several hustles of her own & expect that he be just as ambitious, if not more. Rob is a mf knob & I hope Sophie ends up on The Single Life!
Love that he tied to dress up “sex” after a long ass flight as “the cherry on top” like no sir, I’m sure it wasn’t even worth the trouble. 🤢 what an asshle.
I could’ve sworn he said he works different jobs here and there meaning he has 0 dollars.
Cuz he is a loser
This man’s a loser. He makes her feel bad for wanting basic necessities (bathroom, privacy, seating) and calling her “privileged” because he can’t get his ass up and get a real job. Meanwhile his instagram looks like a totally different person. I feel so bad for her, I think she has more underlying issues with trying to hide her bi-racial features, being bisexual and all at such a young age. I hope the knob is her awakening moment by the end of this. I’m rooting for her(her only) sadly.
https://preview.redd.it/zhja0zcxxyvb1.png?width=3060&format=png&auto=webp&s=17c6d1c332ad4885fdc6aa901c1e45cb528fcb10 is this not a grown tent? maybe that’s his “job”
How the heck did he afford to bring her over with a K1? Also, who is sponsoring her?!?
He doesn’t want a normal people job, he wants to be a mode or something. I guess he doesn’t have a mirror, because he does not have model looks or influencer charm.
He’s already too old to start a modeling career. Besides that he’s kind of average for any entertainment career in LA that’s based on looks.
He wants to be an “influencer.” Which is fine but you need a real job until you make. The truth is he is lazy and doesn’t want to actually work. But hey, when the ocean calls you what can you do?
I can’t stand watching this man on screen. His tone is awful and all that he does is argue!
He’s pretty entitled and a snob. He probably thinks being a waiter is beneath him. Honestly, he’s young and able bodied, he could reasonably get a job anywhere. Also, what was up with his remark about having a bathroom in your house as being bougie? We must all be bougie, especially those of us with multiple bathrooms.
Hes a modern day scrub
He chooses not to have a job and focus on “modeling”. I think he doesn’t want to get out of the situation, I live in SoCal as well and know there are plenty of programs to help with housing costs especially if you’re living the way he does. Idk man I couldn’t be with a man who gaslights me into thinking that asking for a house with an indoor bathroom makes me selfish and spoiled lol. Like I’d rather have my man have a roommate with an indoor bathroom than an outhouse, but that’s just me lol.