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You should ask it from yourself not from fellow redditors


anujgpatip

He/She should ask the parents


No_Library_7838

Parents gave birth to me, because of peer pressure and not for any reason. They are not here anymore.


InternationalKale368

Damn sorry to hear that mate. All i can say is that life is a fresh and clean canvas and you get to be the painter and let your imagination run wild on this canvas. You will get some strokes wrong but you can always retry.


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You get to die one day


No_Library_7838

Why do a job or work so hard? To live?, And, to live for what? At the end it amounts to nothing


Icantdecide111

Study some good philosophers, they will help you find a way to enjoy the suffering called life just like the rest of us.


noobintellectual

So you could see the northern lights one day or whatever you want , life is meaningless so you just make your own meaning it could be anything ( as long as it's not harming you or anyone else) think of you when you were a child what did you want , i think you owe them that much.


CulturalButterfly825

Why does the sun rise before setting? Why there's light before darkness? It's not about the destination, it's about the journey. And to answer your question, many live and work hard but there's only some who actually make the journey worth living


No_Library_7838

I'll get trapped in the endless corporate rat race and then die one day. My whole life will be spent by keeping food on the table. And the rising costs just to live a normal life. Also, I hate working. The best option for me is euthanasia. But, for that i have to go to Canada or Netherlands. In the future, I will.


LongConsideration662

Frr


basilliskk

Because of the journey


Adventurous_Elk_9922

randomly


obelixx99

Biryani


DeRangedRykeR

Kaha ki


Bhallaladevaa

Highway wale dhaabe ki


Left-Goat-5766

i can attest to the fact biriyani is the reason and purpose of life


Impressive_Spell_121

Life is what we make of it, and it depends a lot on the circumstances you are living in. I just give below about my experience. I was in a dark place for a long time for a lot of reasons, and death definitely seemed peaceful than the shenanigans of life. I am talking about SA, physical & verbal abuse, bad relationships, job politics, mother suiciding, narsicistic father etc, for 27 years. I saw no point in living it that time. I mean, what possibly could be even beautiful about it as all I saw was the bad side of life. However, I strive hard to move away from those circumstances & finally, things have a little peaceful day by day. A lot of personal growth happened when I was more independent & alone. I started to find meaning in mundane things, watching of seasons, experiencing contrasting emotions, self reflection ability, watching netflix, a clean home, reading novels, travelling, beauty of watching a sunset or nature, etc. I realised that if I hadn't been alive, I wouldn't have been able to experience any of these little things. I wouldn't experience being a CONSCIOUSNESS & ability to perceive things, emotions & the good side of life. But why did I feel so different emotions now? I mean, life is still unpredictable. Anything could go wrong at any moment, I still have traumas & nightmares, so why do I see meaning in being alive? The answer for ME was the difference in my life perspective when i was living "according to others/society" vs. "according for myself". When I say, "myself," I had to let go a lot of anger, guilt, duties, and expectations and only care about being good human & not a perfect "somebody to someone".


0408_parth

This ain't the time for the 3 am talks


thisistheway0426

One piece


DeRangedRykeR

https://preview.redd.it/3adw4t2acnuc1.jpeg?width=600&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=372f6eee8dc66f8c7ef5c5fdc48702cfed98b65a


Kaya347

Born Randomly, Live Randomly.


No_Library_7838

I like the thought. Also, nice to see a fellow a Phasmophobia enthusiast.


DifficultCan5103

*REVENGE* Bhai tu bhi ek aisa dund le reason kiski gand Marni he Aise log jo terpe look down karte the


thegoldenlion4

Revenge is a poison in your own heart. It will hurt you too, forgive those who hurt you but never forget what they did. Live for yourself. Build a good life for yourself. Become the best of what you can be. The rest will take care of itself.


Adventurous_Elk_9922

point hai


Historical_monk26

If we knew the answer to this question, we would have sorted out lives by now. No one in human history knows this answer 


No_Library_7838

Euthanasia should become available for those who wants to leave this bs early


LongConsideration662

True


kmanju5683

But what if you opt for it now and later realise you shouldn't have because it's really a one time decision and yeah by the time you regret you won't be there anymore..... I feel if it becomes legal, depressed people would just go and do it.


Wise_Friendship2565

…..so I’ve got a view that people should have a choice about this. I don’t buy into this whole do some good, etc, etc. Everyone is built different and the same way we talk about respecting people’s choices about religion, their career, who they marry, whether they want to have a child, etc. in the same way we should respect people’s choice if they not longer want to continue and provide safe space for doing so


No_Library_7838

Agreed and very sensible viewpoint.


piyushpratim04

Mom will get sad if you die.


No_Library_7838

My parents are not here anymore


piyushpratim04

Oh. Apologies. On the contrary, mom will get sad seeing you early in heaven.


No_Library_7838

There's no heaven or hell. There's nothing after this.


MinimumWerewolf441

Watch why not die by maths unplugged this will solve your problems


Agreeable_Warning_85

So will you die


NaturalCreation

Reasons emerged after you're born. How can there be reason before? Reason's existence is dependent on you living.


leftover191

See, I'm not a preacher, and I don't follow any religion blindly. There's this thing someone said to me, at a very early age. Seems like not too many people know about it. Let me give you my own little understanding of that. If you want to skip, then it's okay, but if you are going to read, please read till the end. First of all, Live. Work hard to earn money. Have a place to live, clothes to wear and food to eat. That's the only role of money. Usually this is the only step in people's lives. But it's the first. Second, Awareness. To be aware, your body and mind needs to be fit and calm respectively. That's the only way to truly observe your surroundings and only when you are not worried about your living and health, you can find answers. Third, Now this is the last step. I don't know what it is. But this is the reason for our existence. We have to figure it out. Go crazy, I have no clue.


No_Library_7838

What if I don't want to work hard to earn money? Theb homelessness and starvation to death right? But, sad there's no euthanasia in this country. Most of the problem of people would've been solved


leftover191

Well, I gave you a reason to live, and answered your question. By your reply, it seems like you are 15-16 year old kid. Dw, this will soon be over.


No_Library_7838

I'm 24 year old. I don't want to work still. I am done with life and want to quit peacefully.


BN155

I think your parents should be able to answer this! They might have thought something good and planned about a child who will take care of them and will be their support. Meanwhile the Le Child - Give me some reasons as to why live this life, i was born into randomly one day.


No_Library_7838

I'm not their retirement investment and they are not here anymore


BN155

If that's how you think about yourself then definitely you need to ask someone who knows you better rather than talking to strangers. You may not get to hear what you want to hear. And what do you mean your parents are not here anymore?


No_Library_7838

Mom died when I was 3 years old and dad died 4 years ago. I have no one


leftover191

So you live alone? Or do you have your father's/ mother's side of the family to support you?


No_Library_7838

I live on the money saved by my parents and alone


psr7185

Soul and body are two different things. The person who realises this doesn’t care about anything. He/she can find joy in every aspect of life.


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anujgpatip

Did you check this? ​


Joesalqmurrr

He who has a why to live for can bear almost any how.” ― Friedrich Nietzsche. Find your 'why' !!


Work_is_a_facade

Therapy is your answer


No_Library_7838

They couldn't convince me


Work_is_a_facade

You need to find the right fit. Someone without a big ego - very common in India


OkSale9653

If you die and born randomly again worst than this life.. Then what? Nobody knows what the life will offer you. Mayve the good things yet to come. Thats why you need to complete the journey.


_Void_0

According to me experience of existence itself is a reason. Materialism and luxuries don't matter as much.


Every_Method4221

No reason. Its all stupid. _Life is a suffering_ ~ Buddha


PRTK_35

Experience


No_Library_7838

For what?


PRTK_35

For nothing Just experience life The meaning of life is what you make of it...


Uchiha_Bitch

This


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No_Library_7838

Rope is painful l. Give me some Pentobarbital or Nembutal .But, it isn't available.


leftover191

I'm reporting this post. Not because the post itself, but your replies seems stupid.


No_Library_7838

Why? Because, someone not following your biases and society? Wants themselves to free from all this? Stupid


leftover191

My biases and my society? Dude, do what you want. You wanna be free, who's stopping you? People do all kinds of things in this world, who are "my society/biases" to stop them ? Part of nature, I suppose.


monica_1105

My sister’s queer. She’ll have no one to support her if I’m not around. I live for that. At the end of the day when things get too difficult, you live for the people you love cause you can’t see them in pain. It sounds preachy but when you end your life, you don’t end your grief, you pass it on.


pandasurfingreddit

This is just a simulation/game, and it doesn't matter shit with what you do in it. Being a human is the best gift here, eat, move, fuck and use your brain to the fullest. What more do you want to do? When will you stop? Why do you want to stop?


F_R_O_S_B_Y_T_E

There is no reason, you were born one day and u got the key to die as well. All it takes is ur choice


Macavity_mystery_cat

Read the myth of sisyphus where camus debates life and suicide ..the purpose and what not.


KissMyAash

You don't want to live because you don't want to work. You don't want to die because it's painful. Are you the kind of guy who sees a problem with everything? You are 24 for fucks sake, you've not even experienced life, don't hate on something you don't know shit about. Maybe try spending all the energy that you are wasting trying to find easy ways to die on trying to find a purpose to live. Everyone gets into existential crisis. Nothing new. But you live anyway, find a purpose anyway, and live for that purpose. Find out doing what brings you joy and do that. Go live in a forest and get food from nature if you don't wanna work. There's a solution for everything, and it's definitely not death.


KissMyAash

And if you're gonna say there's no reason to live, I'll say there's no reason to die. Death is as uncertain as life. You can't guarantee what's next.


laikina

living in forest sounds like it would make it worse (for me at least), would be just as boring and purposeless but without the comfort of modern amenities (plus i have huge fear of bugs lol)


KissMyAash

To each their own ig?


forza_del_destino

You came here to experience life, so experience life without causing any problems to others.


AloneCan9661

I’ll say this. Go to Manali and experience the beauty of the mountains. Go to Shimla and see the stars. Then go to Ladakh and get yourself to Hanle and see the stars. Big difference. Take a break if you can.


Square-Flight3315

"Do not take life too seriously. You will never get out of it alive" - Elbert Hubbard but seriously take some time off. be alone or with your loved one during that time off, it will help you clear your mind a bit.


Matt_Murdock5O6

Boobies


006CJ

Rather it's better to find it yourself, and to find it u gotta live a little


killerba

I would suggest you go to Kodaikanal and take a heroic dose of 🍄. I got the some very insightful answers to some of the questions I had in mind. English language isn’t sophisticated enough for me to explain it over reddit. If you have nothing to lose, there’s no harm in keeping an open mind and trying this out once. Hope this is convincing enough for you. I’m pretty damn sure, you will be convinced of this if you actually try it out yourself. Let me know how it goes..!


heisenburger_hb

live like a game. don’t think too much. No amount of pressure to perform in life is worth it


sometimessomething24

I am not going to lie. This life is meaningless. It depends on you what meaning you want to give to your life. If you want to give it meaning, then it's okay; if you are not, then it's also okay. Just find some activities that you would enjoy, because these activities will make this journey easier.


Practical_Dream_6200

There are no reasons really. I too want to snuff it out but yet to find a good way to go. Encouraging you to embrace your feelings and stop prolonging the misery


HighSchoolTobi

You learnt enough to communicate in English that you are feeling directionless in life. Had you been born as a different species, or as a rock .....you would have missed this ability to connect. You have vision to see for yourself the beauties of nature and the celestial bodies. These giant machinations of the universe would have continued to function without anyone witnessing their magnificence if some lost soul had not turned their eyes skyward. Life doesn't have any meaning. We choose to give it meaning. And by giving meaning to life we give meaning to everything- the cosmos, the people, the fish....everything. To some this lack of purpose in life... its depressing. To others it's liberating. I would suggest you read the poem The View from Halfway Down if you get the time.


RoketRacoon

I can write a lengthy reply if you are interested.


MonsterG9

Now you have to choose any one of below https://preview.redd.it/hknr9fh8fouc1.png?width=1080&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f920d42f2a00e937d6ae6fdeace23f5a09d3b575


uxfazent

I don't think you asked this question to be convinced, really. You have already decided that you don't want to live. So nothing is going to really change your views. Everyone has different reasons, and they won't make sense to you until you actually want to try to live. Go towards spirituality, people say it helps them, something larger than this world.


thegoldenlion4

It's not up to us to choose the circumstances of our birth but it is entirely up to us if what we make of it. Aspire great dreams. See them materialize by one means or another. Have ambitions, chase them. Live a good life so that when death finally claims your breath you can meet it as an old friend, smiling and peaceful.


monk1101

We all were born; we all will die; so whynot experience and die


Krez_Alive

Finding the reason of life is one of the best reasons to live for.... Litrature is wast , Science is intriguing, Search why in everything. Live for answers by the help of questions


[deleted]

You are right. There are no good reasons to live. People may give variety of reasons and I can disagree with all. My mantra is: Just keep living till death. Don't be over ambitious. Maintain a low profile. Don't expect anything from others. Do what you like. Don't overdo things.


FedMates

The odds of any of us being born are **1 in 400 trillion**.


ultimateninja268

Tandoori momos


Lady_Scarecrow

You are a cosmic soul who has come to experience an amusement park called life. Some rides are fun, some may make you dizzy and sick. But overall you gotta get your money’s worth because you have paid in stars! (Whenever I feel like life is meaningless, I just try making it as magical as possible)


Uchiha_Bitch

The more you search for answer the more you end up with nothing. Keep searching or make your own, it's up to you.


Benimaru101

i think living is cool


Left-Goat-5766

i live to torture my parents. just to teach society lesson not to give birth.


Left-Goat-5766

anyway u r here. might as well make the best of it. have a fun time. nothing else matters.


Suspicious_Airline89

Life ain't got no meaning, it's you who decides for whom to live, for what to live or for why to live. It can be as stupid as a tv show [ Yes I love to watch the One Piece] or as childish as to explore the whole world. I have my own list of things I want to do like scuba diving, paragliding, dinner in Greece, hiking and what not. You should go out and experience new things, interact with new people (maybe you'll find the one), and do crazy ass shit. Coz one day you'll leave this world behind, so live a life you will remember. No one wants to be a part of the rat race but everyone starts from there. Try figuring it out asap, go star gazing. You won't realise why you want to live but you'll find something wholesome while doing so. I also agree with the "death by choice" concept. It'd take so many people out of misery, but making it a choice would lead to so many deaths under small inconveniences. Leaving helpless under and overaged people to suffer.


GlowwRocks

Bro we need something for live for, as u said ur parents aren't here anymore. N ig u dont have close friends or support system, u do sound ab it depressed so therapy would be good... And maybe get a pet, a cute cat, if u have the energy to take care of them.. Also try to find some purpose in ur life.. It can be anything...Maybe some way where u can impact others positively.. Once u do that, u can tie ur ambitions to ur purpose, it can also be travelling n exploring different cultures... No need to be in corporate rat race (I hate corporate) but h can start ur own business n do something of ur own. Maybe join some communities Hope u find ur reason to live this random life. Also another point, there is a spiritual belief that our soul chose to come into this life to learn and to level up spiritually


ggmaobu

If you are religious, then you know there no point in killing yourself.


BrownSkinBoyy

Life is a journey. Complete it.


munimji3

Bhai tu to ese bat kar raha hai jese you dont have any money left to spend....Struggle sab kar rhe hai yaha....sabka story hai apna....ab aya hai is duniya me, to Accha kuch jii kar hi jana bhai....itna load kyu lena kisi chij k liye....Minimal life ji le....kharcha jyda ho raha hai to dekh kaha jyda ho raha hai.... Adha tension to hamko comparison se hota hai bc...ki Sala me hi kyu piche reh gaya....भाई tu piche nai reh gaya....tu vahi hai jaha is Waqt tuje hona tha...trust the universe and god.. jyda mt soch.


Pretty-Job7097

https://preview.redd.it/gou9nj5x7nuc1.jpeg?width=750&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=eddccd377331f3b11438c05f2b5fdfcb5243e2cc


DeRangedRykeR

https://preview.redd.it/9i664cmhcnuc1.png?width=303&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e11b6a485002e5de2f75c7057e0c00576e46e410


omega7112

Shunyam Shunyam Sarvam Sunyam. If indeed you have come to that realization, then congratulations and hold onto this break through. If it is one of them teenage existential angst - then have patience, it will pass!


No_Library_7838

Nope. I'm not a teenage anymore.


multifunction1

Ok


scan_line110110

You don't have to if you don't want to. Go to Canada or any of the countries that have legal euthanasia.


No_Library_7838

Do they just give it to anyone who wants it? If it is, I will start giving out most of my things and my house, as I have no one. Will donate the money to some cancer foundation, then travel to Canada to avail the euthanasia.


scan_line110110

I think you need to be a citizen, but you can google around.


Kitchen_Biscotti_215

Live darling , because you are afraid to die.


No_Library_7838

Living is not free. It requires money. And I despise having to work. So I am trying to find a way out of this life, painlessly. I might travel to a country such as Canada to get euthanasia and exit this.


Kitchen_Biscotti_215

Dang you serious ?


No_Library_7838

Yes, I am.


Kitchen_Biscotti_215

Oh ! I dont know what to say now but if it helps They say If life gets too heavy take life hour by hour Day by day. Like lets just live for today and see what comes tomorrow then when tomorrow comes think lets just live for today lets see what comes tomorrow.


No_Library_7838

You are a good person.


Open-Willingness1747

Dont live then who cares


No_Library_7838

Euthanasia is not available here nore is any painless way to die with 100% success rate and not leaving you as a Vegeta afterwards.


mikasa_jeagerE

You can end it anytime.


No_Library_7838

There's no painless methods available.


leftover191

Why need a painless method? You aren't going to experience it for long anyway, lol


No_Library_7838

Dignity to die with a painless method. Your society will not let me exit peacefully, as they banned all methods of painless suicide.


leftover191

Awwww, poor thing


No_Library_7838

Aww, stupid thing


mikasa_jeagerE

Did you really explore ? Dosage should be enough that’s all. You can just end it in sleep.


No_Library_7838

Numbutal or Pentobarbital isn't even available here. Clonazepam? You would just vomit in your sleep and might end up in a comd and brain damage. Sodium nitrate method is same and end up the user being brain dead and a vegetable. Only solution is euthanasia, but it's not available in this country. Might have to travel to Netherlands or Canada for that.


mikasa_jeagerE

They give really good suggestions in r/suicidewatch.


Ok-Eye-6127

Why would encourage someone to die...cruel as your name eh


mikasa_jeagerE

Just being helpful.