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How the entire movie is set to describe the life of a girl who seemingly have a perfect life with a perfect boyfriend, the "other guy" is seemingly a romantic looser but he gets the girl because the script sets the other dude to be a jerk and give an excuse for a traumatic break so the romantic other is there for her
except she has been seeing him the entire time either way.
Jim and Pam from the office relationship in a nutshell. Cant believe how many people call it "relationship goal" when she cheated on her fiance, but its okay because "he was a jerk to her".
Yeah, this one kills me.
Yes, Roy was a bad partner.
But he wasn't holding Pam captive. She could have left him at any time, but that would have required being single again and she didn't want that.
So instead she monkey branched. Roy was her placeholder.
IF is the key phrase. And yeah, that’s a thing. But if she thinks you’re the best for her, then she’s loyal. There are women out there for you who see you as a catch, as a man worthy of love and affection.
If you keep running into those girls that treat you that way, I would look inside yourself to see how you are attracting those women and start to find better women. Married for 10 years, loyalty and respect go much further than attraction.
The last one i watched that follows this to the line was _"The F word"_ with Daniel Radcliffe
There are just so many, like holy shit
Is this a fetish or something? A boyfriend suddenly starting to act like a douche so you get a pass to explore new ventures lol
It makes sense that that would be a fantasy for some women.
They get to eat their cake, and have it. They have a great BF, until they want a new one, then they get a perfectly morally justified reason to switch over. With a new person they can shit talk with their gal pals over booze at the next girls night out in the bargain.
Before we go judging them the key word here is **fantasy**. Let's not pretend that the average male fantasy world is all sunshine and rainbows.
It’s even worse what they did in Sweet Home Alabama. Patrick Dempsey’s character is perfect, and he never stopes being perfect. He is so perfect, in fact, that when she leaves him, he is gracious and accepting and absolves her completely.
Also, how are there TWO movies that cast Patrick Dempsey as the romantic foil who checks every single box for an ideal partner, is not chosen in favor of a guy who the romantic lead already tried and failed to have a successful relationship with, and is gracious about this to an extent that defies all logic and reason? All while being super wealthy and looking like Patrick Dempsey??? My suspension of disbelief has its limits.
It’s absolutely true. If you love someone or even just respect them as a person the last thing on your mind is being intimate with someone else. If the opportunity comes and you’re stuck on someone else, do yourself and your partner a favor by ending it. Then explore your options and maybe even keep some bridges from burning.
What about the people that just got bored and once someone that excites them comes along? Most of the time it’s just lust but at the moment it feels like love. That’s burning a bridge after using a zip line.
Part of loving your partner is being faithful in the face of temptation, not leaving cause you think you found something better. I only say that cause a big chunk of the time, any new person they could be intimate with, they have no idea what kind of person they are other than on the surface.
ONLY time that might ok, is if after spending time with them, you find you GENUINELY love this person, and after that you need to sit yourself down and make some changes, just make them in the right order and properly.
Showing up at someone's wedding and yelling "I object!" to profess your love for them and that explain why they should marry you instead of whomever they were literally just about to tie the knot with.
"I don't actually love my fiancee, but I will still marry them unless someone I actually love objects at my wedding. I can't just call the wedding off and try to find someone I love that loves me back, I just need this one person who is probably not making a move because I'm going to marry someone else to be brave and interrupt my wedding and say how much they love me."
It’s probably from a much older tradition when arraigned marriages were more of a thing. Families “selling” off their daughter to other families in order to form an alliance or something.
Nope, it was for legal reasons: "If someone knew a member of the couple to be already married, underage, unbaptized (church law), or forcefully coerced into the union, it was considered their duty to object. The same was true if they knew the couple to be too closely related by blood."
Came here to say this. Weddings often require years of planning and are astronomically expensive. Why wait until the very last moment?
At this point itd be less awful to wait until they got married and cheat with them
I'd love to see a movie where the woman does this... only for the credits to be the woman's parents, and now ex fiancé, berating her for wasting all of their time and money due to her indecisiveness.
Trying to win someone over. You don't want someone who isn't interested, and you don't want someone who's lukewarm toward you. You don't want someone who plays hard-to-get. If the other person doesn't *want* you, then any relationship you have won't be worth having.
Trying to manipulate someone into doing what you want. You can't build true love on top of a pile of lies.
One of my favorite TV shows is *Crazy Ex-Girlfriend*, partly because the main character keeps trying to live her life like she's in a movie, and it keeps not working, and eventually she gets herself sorted out. You can't manipulate someone into loving you, you can't lie your way into happiness. There is no "meant to be" or "the one," and there are no signs from the universe: there's the world you live in and the decisions you make. Your life isn't a story. One of the best lines from the show is "Life doesn't make narrative sense," which goes against trying to imagine that your life is a movie.
I freaking love that show and everything you just wrote is basically a perfect summary of it's message. I also really like how they tackled Rebecca's mental health journey
I only had beach sex one time. And then it sucked so we hopped on a bus while trying to remain horny. And then we did it on a bed but I still got sand in my mouth.
I was going to ask whether sand or glitter would be the worst for getting everywhere, but I think I have to give the award to sand, because at least glitter makes you sparkle.
That is an excellent move for one specific reason, it is for crazies to get together and out of the dating pool.
This is why I fully endorse people bringing out their crazy on day one.
That worked on a friend of mine.
A guy who was pursuing her came outside her bedroom window in rain and asked her to dance with him in the rain.
Her heart melted
The classic "slap then kiss" by a women. It's a romantic movie trope... but in reality, she is actually committing assault. Definitely **NOT** romantic.
i'd legitimately start punching if a anyone tried and slapped me...
...and it's not out of prejudice, hate/anger or any kinda of vendetta agaisn't slappers, it's because the last time someone slapped me, i lost hearing in my right ear for 3 days
Turning up at your best mate’s house, with a load of placards under your arm, pretending you’re carol singers and then showing creepy love letters on the placards to his new wife. After stalking her for years.
Not taking no for an answer. "I'm not leaving until you agree to go out with me!" or "Just one date, and then I'll leave you alone!" and the like. Creepy.
Reminds me of that god awful movie the Notebook. The main guy manipulates that poor woman into going out with him by threatening to kill himself in front of her (and her date, if I remember correctly). The girl I saw it with at the time thought it was so romantic to be "pursued" like that, when really it was just manipulative stalking.
It’s romantic to women because it’s Ryan Gosling. Substitute him for a slightly overweight fast food worker from Birmingham with a neck beard and they would change their tune fast!
That's Netflix adaptation logic
If you neglect the core cooking porn audience to pander to the incest demographic, you will deserve neither and lose both
Dropping literally everything and everyone for that one guy/girl you met for a week during the course of the movie and everything felt so magical
Especially if you cheated with that person
And then the movie ends wit you two getting married
When a man forces himself onto a woman who is saying no and even fighting him off.
I don't think I need to explain why it's a horrible idea in real life, but in movies it's often shown as sexy and seductive -- and the woman ends up wanting it.
My buddy had a hot younger coworker who almost got him to leave his wife for her but i kept telling him over and over, if you get with her there is no longevity in your relationship because the foundation is based upon cheating. You're a cheater, shes a home wrecker, you two will never trust each other.
Calling someone’s work to ask them out when you don’t know them well.
Recently I had this happen with a guy I’d seen once - he called my office as a grand romantic gesture to ask me to be his valentine. it did not have the desired effect
Falling in love with a prostitute. Escort, hooker, whatever they call them now. Pretty Woman. No way in real life that would happen. That definitely only works in movies.
The guy who won't give up on trying to win the girl over. He won't take no for an answer because he wants her so bad. This is a terrible idea in practice.
Obsessing over a woman from a distance, even if it’s very romantic and innocent obsession. Thinking about how good you would be together, how well you would treat her, etc.
You don’t know her, she’s a human being and putting any person on such a pedestal will only lead to disappointment and unfair expectations for her.
Rescuing your divorced wife and estranged children from some kind of apocalyptic calamity along with her new incompetent, less masculine, but more stable partner.
Growing up in the 70s and 80s, I watched a lot of movies that made it okay to cheat on your SO as long as it was before you got married because you technically weren’t breaking your vows.
The ways they try to justify a girl cheating . Like it’s almost never that the girl breaks up with the rich asshole boyfriend before kissing the protagonist. And then they do Olympic level mental gymnastics to still portray her a morally flawless
The guy (or girl) who keeps on doggedly chasing down the love interest who doesn't return their affections.
It's called STALKING, people, and it's not cute or romantic.
If its love, if you really love her? Dont ever give up, coz loves worth fighting for...
Pretty words, horrible advice. Really messed me up in my teenage years. Sorry to the girls i didnt give up on coz i loved them too much if i could go back in time and be less creepy i would. 90s romcoms steered me wrong and nobody around me was there to tell me theres a point i should move on.
Saying I Love You too quick. It worked on my first gf (after a week) and then I've definitely scared off some girls by saying it too soon. I think 2 weeks is the bare minimum but realistically wait a month.
suprising somebody with romantic plans or weekends away.
My SO has OCD and if i were to pay for and book a weekend away or do anything unexpected, I would be expecting a mild to major panic attack.
One of the couple convinces the other one to do something immoral / illegal and just as the security guard is about to catch them in the act, they both manage to sprint off giggling into the sunset ending with hysterical laughter at how "naughty" they were.
In real life, a partner who tries to rope you into dangerous illegal activities which can affect your future does not give a shit about you.
More or less, everything. Leaving your spouse/lover of X years because you went through an ordeal with someone for a few hours, grand romantic gesture for someone that outright and very openly rejected you, forcing yourself on another person because "they want to be chased", ignoring boundaries because there is some hint of sexual attraction, just pick a cliche' and it can be turned into a felony.
Juggling between two partners because you can’t choose who to be with.
OR How the entire movie is set to describe the life of a girl who seemingly have a perfect life with a perfect boyfriend, the "other guy" is seemingly a romantic looser but he gets the girl because the script sets the other dude to be a jerk and give an excuse for a traumatic break so the romantic other is there for her except she has been seeing him the entire time either way.
Jim and Pam from the office relationship in a nutshell. Cant believe how many people call it "relationship goal" when she cheated on her fiance, but its okay because "he was a jerk to her".
Yeah, this one kills me. Yes, Roy was a bad partner. But he wasn't holding Pam captive. She could have left him at any time, but that would have required being single again and she didn't want that. So instead she monkey branched. Roy was her placeholder.
I found nearly every guy is a placeholder. She will dump you in a heartbeat if she thinks there’s a better option.
IF is the key phrase. And yeah, that’s a thing. But if she thinks you’re the best for her, then she’s loyal. There are women out there for you who see you as a catch, as a man worthy of love and affection. If you keep running into those girls that treat you that way, I would look inside yourself to see how you are attracting those women and start to find better women. Married for 10 years, loyalty and respect go much further than attraction.
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I never got why Idris Elba treated Jim like shit, but looking back at all the stuff Jim did, I get it!
Try saying that in the r/dundermifflin community and people lose their shit.
perfectly describes Outer Banks John B and Topper w Sarah
The last one i watched that follows this to the line was _"The F word"_ with Daniel Radcliffe There are just so many, like holy shit Is this a fetish or something? A boyfriend suddenly starting to act like a douche so you get a pass to explore new ventures lol
It makes sense that that would be a fantasy for some women. They get to eat their cake, and have it. They have a great BF, until they want a new one, then they get a perfectly morally justified reason to switch over. With a new person they can shit talk with their gal pals over booze at the next girls night out in the bargain. Before we go judging them the key word here is **fantasy**. Let's not pretend that the average male fantasy world is all sunshine and rainbows.
The mental gymnastics they did to try and portray Sarah as still a good person in the last season would even impress flat earthers
That level of dedication towards global warming and we would have the thiccest ozone layer
It’s even worse what they did in Sweet Home Alabama. Patrick Dempsey’s character is perfect, and he never stopes being perfect. He is so perfect, in fact, that when she leaves him, he is gracious and accepting and absolves her completely. Also, how are there TWO movies that cast Patrick Dempsey as the romantic foil who checks every single box for an ideal partner, is not chosen in favor of a guy who the romantic lead already tried and failed to have a successful relationship with, and is gracious about this to an extent that defies all logic and reason? All while being super wealthy and looking like Patrick Dempsey??? My suspension of disbelief has its limits.
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Always choose the 2 one. If u love the first one enough wouldnt be an 2 option. At least thats what someone told me.
It’s absolutely true. If you love someone or even just respect them as a person the last thing on your mind is being intimate with someone else. If the opportunity comes and you’re stuck on someone else, do yourself and your partner a favor by ending it. Then explore your options and maybe even keep some bridges from burning.
What about the people that just got bored and once someone that excites them comes along? Most of the time it’s just lust but at the moment it feels like love. That’s burning a bridge after using a zip line. Part of loving your partner is being faithful in the face of temptation, not leaving cause you think you found something better. I only say that cause a big chunk of the time, any new person they could be intimate with, they have no idea what kind of person they are other than on the surface. ONLY time that might ok, is if after spending time with them, you find you GENUINELY love this person, and after that you need to sit yourself down and make some changes, just make them in the right order and properly.
Yup its like juggling 2 headaches to the point where the only way to find relief is them bailing on you or you bailing on them.
Or you can drop them both if they're both headaches? Why do that to yourself?
Did you direct this directly at Daisy Duck?
Showing up at someone's wedding and yelling "I object!" to profess your love for them and that explain why they should marry you instead of whomever they were literally just about to tie the knot with.
and then your friend ends up marrying a dragon
What an ass
Not Shrek 💀
\#Relatable
"I don't actually love my fiancee, but I will still marry them unless someone I actually love objects at my wedding. I can't just call the wedding off and try to find someone I love that loves me back, I just need this one person who is probably not making a move because I'm going to marry someone else to be brave and interrupt my wedding and say how much they love me."
It’s probably from a much older tradition when arraigned marriages were more of a thing. Families “selling” off their daughter to other families in order to form an alliance or something.
Nope, it was for legal reasons: "If someone knew a member of the couple to be already married, underage, unbaptized (church law), or forcefully coerced into the union, it was considered their duty to object. The same was true if they knew the couple to be too closely related by blood."
Ohh very interesting, thank you!
Came here to say this. Weddings often require years of planning and are astronomically expensive. Why wait until the very last moment? At this point itd be less awful to wait until they got married and cheat with them
I'd love to see a movie where the woman does this... only for the credits to be the woman's parents, and now ex fiancé, berating her for wasting all of their time and money due to her indecisiveness.
Stalking people and threatening to kys if she says no this happened in the note book
It’s literally the biggest Little bitch move
The notebook is such a bad movie. Their relationship was so toxic.
Trying to win someone over. You don't want someone who isn't interested, and you don't want someone who's lukewarm toward you. You don't want someone who plays hard-to-get. If the other person doesn't *want* you, then any relationship you have won't be worth having. Trying to manipulate someone into doing what you want. You can't build true love on top of a pile of lies. One of my favorite TV shows is *Crazy Ex-Girlfriend*, partly because the main character keeps trying to live her life like she's in a movie, and it keeps not working, and eventually she gets herself sorted out. You can't manipulate someone into loving you, you can't lie your way into happiness. There is no "meant to be" or "the one," and there are no signs from the universe: there's the world you live in and the decisions you make. Your life isn't a story. One of the best lines from the show is "Life doesn't make narrative sense," which goes against trying to imagine that your life is a movie.
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The show is well-written, and there are lots of lines that are good advice, but that's one of my favorites.
I freaking love that show and everything you just wrote is basically a perfect summary of it's message. I also really like how they tackled Rebecca's mental health journey
1000% agree
Beach sex hands down. Drop your pants and sand immediately flies to your junk like metal to a magnet
I only had beach sex one time. And then it sucked so we hopped on a bus while trying to remain horny. And then we did it on a bed but I still got sand in my mouth.
Should’ve showered first..
I don't like sand
It's coarse and rough and it gets everywhere.
I had sex on a beach once in 2004 and I'm still trying to get the sand out
I was going to ask whether sand or glitter would be the worst for getting everywhere, but I think I have to give the award to sand, because at least glitter makes you sparkle.
The only time I’ve done this was at a resort with beds on the beach. This is the way.
I would say any sex in water source. Water washes away the natural lubricants and it gets very friction'y.
Yeah, your tender bits do not need to be sanded down or vigorously exfoliated.
Stalking. And that’s what it is. Stalking
Continuing pursuing after the woman says she’s not interested. Bad idea all around lol.
I’m not a man but I’d say laying your coat on a puddle 😂
But how will she cross it then? Going around it is just unreasonable.
Jump over it like a Mary! (Seinfeld)
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>I’m not a man but I’d say laying your coat on a puddle 😂 Can confirm. Walk around lmao
holding onto a ferris wheel and threatening to jump unless you go on a date
That is an excellent move for one specific reason, it is for crazies to get together and out of the dating pool. This is why I fully endorse people bringing out their crazy on day one.
Both characters to me were four cents short of a nickel.
I saw the notebook. So many ways that could've backfired.
Standing outside her bedroom window and playing the guitar.
That worked on a friend of mine. A guy who was pursuing her came outside her bedroom window in rain and asked her to dance with him in the rain. Her heart melted
I should try that worst she can say is no
https://youtu.be/uyS7KKF6I3Y
The classic "slap then kiss" by a women. It's a romantic movie trope... but in reality, she is actually committing assault. Definitely **NOT** romantic.
i'd legitimately start punching if a anyone tried and slapped me... ...and it's not out of prejudice, hate/anger or any kinda of vendetta agaisn't slappers, it's because the last time someone slapped me, i lost hearing in my right ear for 3 days
Turning up at your best mate’s house, with a load of placards under your arm, pretending you’re carol singers and then showing creepy love letters on the placards to his new wife. After stalking her for years.
God I hate that movie. “Prison, Actually” would be a better title if you followed some of those plots & characters through to their logical conclusion
Throwing rocks at someone’s window
That’s just vandalism
Anything slow motion. It’s very hard to slow down time
Pot helps.
Women cheating. Men stalking.
I would say both men and women cheating and stalking lol
Yes but it's seen as acceptable in movies how the comment put it.
Running through fields of tall grass or wheat.
I didn't know Theresa May was on reddit.
Having sex up against a wall. Looks all cool and romantic on film but damn near impossible irl
Learned this the hard way 🤦♀️
Making out against the wall is cool at times, but yeah insertion aint happening like that
Proposals in front of a lot of people, especially if they all know you. I feel cringe
Not taking no for an answer. "I'm not leaving until you agree to go out with me!" or "Just one date, and then I'll leave you alone!" and the like. Creepy. Reminds me of that god awful movie the Notebook. The main guy manipulates that poor woman into going out with him by threatening to kill himself in front of her (and her date, if I remember correctly). The girl I saw it with at the time thought it was so romantic to be "pursued" like that, when really it was just manipulative stalking.
It’s romantic to women because it’s Ryan Gosling. Substitute him for a slightly overweight fast food worker from Birmingham with a neck beard and they would change their tune fast!
Oddly specific on that one...
If anyone, let alone Ryan Gosling, threatened to kill himself in front of me. I would be calling the police
Having sex with your relatives when they get stuck in the washing machine… an oven would be much more believable.
> an oven would be much more believable “What are you doing chef-bro?!”
That's Netflix adaptation logic If you neglect the core cooking porn audience to pander to the incest demographic, you will deserve neither and lose both
Nah, they'll be too busy wondering why there's hardcore sex in their reality tv bake-off.
God, keep up! It's the only way Chef Rams-in can save his marriage!
What movie did I miss watching!?
Stopping a wedding and running away with the bride/groom.
The long passionate kissing in the rain.
Try it spiderman style.... Hahaha nooo.
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Being a Ted Mosby.
Dropping literally everything and everyone for that one guy/girl you met for a week during the course of the movie and everything felt so magical Especially if you cheated with that person And then the movie ends wit you two getting married
The cringey grand geastures
Opposites attract…. IRL you need someone you share interests with to make it last.
Telling your platonic same-sex friends *every last detail* of your dating and sex life.
Women do this to a terrifying degree.
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On the plus side, at least she didn’t come up and ask if you wanted her bf to give you a few pointers!
Dude here - I had a friend who would like….PRY me about it. It’s incredibly uncomfortable.
Dont have while cooking it looks in movies but not so much in real life… food gets burned, extremities get burned it just makes for a bad night…
When a man forces himself onto a woman who is saying no and even fighting him off. I don't think I need to explain why it's a horrible idea in real life, but in movies it's often shown as sexy and seductive -- and the woman ends up wanting it.
Being persistent to the point of creepy. Like dude if you have to be told no more than once then go get shit on by a horse.
Shower sex
Foreplay only, unless there are magically 2 showerheads. Usually the worst part of a shower is when you turn it off and you are immediately cold.
I think the worst part is that water is horrible lube
I am selfish in the shower. My temp is set at Mordor and it will * not * be changed.
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Agreed.
For me it's shower sex. I'm way to tall and my gf is practically a midget.
I'm 6'4" and my wife is 4'11". I hear you too well.
Your poor neck and back. 😄
Heh. You’re not wrong
Standing in the rain.
The "regular" guy doing everything in his power to steal the "good" girl away from her hot, bad boy, douchey bf/husband.
Helping someone leave an abusive relationship = good Making someone leave a relationship just so you can be with them = bad
My buddy had a hot younger coworker who almost got him to leave his wife for her but i kept telling him over and over, if you get with her there is no longevity in your relationship because the foundation is based upon cheating. You're a cheater, shes a home wrecker, you two will never trust each other.
Rose petals on the bed, in the bath. Who's going to clean this shite up?
An on and off girlfriend. That's just stressful, it's better to breakup and find someone that you are truly compatible with.
Public Proposals.... puts the other person in an awkward position.
Calling someone’s work to ask them out when you don’t know them well. Recently I had this happen with a guy I’d seen once - he called my office as a grand romantic gesture to ask me to be his valentine. it did not have the desired effect
Kissing a girl while she is sleeping
Having sex with your step sister Wait...what kind of movies are we talking about...
>Having sex with your step sister > >Wait...what kind of movies are we talking about... hahaha, good joke)
fucking in the shower, awkward, bit slippery underfoot
Not giving up despite them clearly saying they're not interested.
Using a limo and flowers to propose in the brothel area. (Pretty woman...)
Grand gestures or the idea of “she keeps saying no, if I try harder it’ll be a yes”
Everything.
Stalking and harassment
I just saw Roman holiday. Taking a drunk girl back to your pad to crash for the night in your bed is a no no. Even if it was Audrey Hepburn 😂
Having romantic, beautiful love making without anyone taking a pee break
Falling in love with a prostitute. Escort, hooker, whatever they call them now. Pretty Woman. No way in real life that would happen. That definitely only works in movies.
Chasing your love interest around everywhere: aka stalking them!!!
Waking up the whole neighborhood playing sappy love songs outside a women’s window.
The guy who won't give up on trying to win the girl over. He won't take no for an answer because he wants her so bad. This is a terrible idea in practice.
Obsessing over a woman from a distance, even if it’s very romantic and innocent obsession. Thinking about how good you would be together, how well you would treat her, etc. You don’t know her, she’s a human being and putting any person on such a pedestal will only lead to disappointment and unfair expectations for her.
Rescuing your divorced wife and estranged children from some kind of apocalyptic calamity along with her new incompetent, less masculine, but more stable partner.
Paris
Stalking
Stalking.
Serenades
stalking
Kissing in the rain or upside down kissing like in Spider-Man
Sex on the beach
50 shades of grey. Sick, clearly abuse. Edit: sorry, I replied with a movie. I would say jealously and anger seen as love.
Saying "I love you more" It's not a competition
Growing up in the 70s and 80s, I watched a lot of movies that made it okay to cheat on your SO as long as it was before you got married because you technically weren’t breaking your vows.
The ways they try to justify a girl cheating . Like it’s almost never that the girl breaks up with the rich asshole boyfriend before kissing the protagonist. And then they do Olympic level mental gymnastics to still portray her a morally flawless
Deep kissing in the rain
The guy (or girl) who keeps on doggedly chasing down the love interest who doesn't return their affections. It's called STALKING, people, and it's not cute or romantic.
That scene from the Notebook with the ferris wheel where he basically coerces her into agreeing to a date with threats if self harm.
If its love, if you really love her? Dont ever give up, coz loves worth fighting for... Pretty words, horrible advice. Really messed me up in my teenage years. Sorry to the girls i didnt give up on coz i loved them too much if i could go back in time and be less creepy i would. 90s romcoms steered me wrong and nobody around me was there to tell me theres a point i should move on.
Showing up at a girl’s house unwanted and blasting a boombox at her bedroom window.
Stalking the woman you’re interested in
Sex with a vegan vampire (twilight saga breaking dawn)
Fucking on the beach , so I’ve heard
Sex in the shower.
Asking someone out on a date and when they say 'no' continuously ask again until they say yes.
Stalking.
Arriving at airports last minute.
Shower sex
but why?)
Most romantic outdoor sites don’t account for bugs or humidity
Stalking
Shower sex.
Kissing in the rain lol
Saying I Love You too quick. It worked on my first gf (after a week) and then I've definitely scared off some girls by saying it too soon. I think 2 weeks is the bare minimum but realistically wait a month.
Jesus even a month feels too quick. I was thinking more like 2 or 3 months at the very earliest. You don’t even know someone after a month
Giving a damn
Shower sex is a lot less roomy in real life.
Inviting them over for a Steven Seagal movie marathon.
Being really hot and cold/ will they won't they. Especially if there is some dark secret that is causing it.
Stalking🙄 not cool for either of the genders
Not taking no for an answer in trying to get a girl to go out with you.
Stalking
Immediately going to sleep after doing the deed and getting up in the morning all fresh.
Putting your coat down in a puddle for the lady to walk through.
Sex in car
Unrequited love as a whole lol
Codependency
Being toooooo nice.
Walking up and kissing someone. Consent is a thing.
shower sex isnt all the movies make it seem
suprising somebody with romantic plans or weekends away. My SO has OCD and if i were to pay for and book a weekend away or do anything unexpected, I would be expecting a mild to major panic attack.
One of the couple convinces the other one to do something immoral / illegal and just as the security guard is about to catch them in the act, they both manage to sprint off giggling into the sunset ending with hysterical laughter at how "naughty" they were. In real life, a partner who tries to rope you into dangerous illegal activities which can affect your future does not give a shit about you.
More or less, everything. Leaving your spouse/lover of X years because you went through an ordeal with someone for a few hours, grand romantic gesture for someone that outright and very openly rejected you, forcing yourself on another person because "they want to be chased", ignoring boundaries because there is some hint of sexual attraction, just pick a cliche' and it can be turned into a felony.
Stealing a bride from the altar on the day of her wedding.