I subbed to a cosplayer I follow on Twitter for a month. Wanted to see more of her stuff and also how OF worked.
I canceled and deleted my account after the month was up though; it was pretty much almost the same stuff she put on twitter anyway, just more angles of the same cosplays.
As with anything SAAS model, part of the allure for the business is that people are busy and will forget to cancel. The lower the amount you charge the more likely that happens.
We can all wish more consumers would recognize this, but as with a lot of things in life - being an aware consumer you directly benefit from others who are not.
Yea, I understand that. I think these platforms are best thought of as adult tipping services like Patreon, and if you’re a regular consumer of someone’s work you should try to throw the artist a few bucks every now and again
You buy a month, you rip the entire profiles content (scripts exist to do this), you cancel. Then you repeat again in like 4 months.
Now you have 4 months of content afterwards for the price of 1 month.
You keep the rip content for personal use because I fear it could go from simple piracy to being called revenge porn.
That's one thing I don't understand about onlyfans, the majority of them you are subscribing to content that you don't know what it is, or it could potentially just be pics of them in underwear
Well, in that case, I was expecting exclusive cosplays she didn't make public. There were a few to be sure but the majority was stuff I'd see on my usual Twitter updates but with more angles.
But yeah, OF is a bit misleading that way but I feel it was purpose-built to be like that.
>it was pretty much almost the same stuff she put on twitter anyway, just more angles of the same cosplays.
Lol I read this and was like wtf? (never used OF) initially. I now realize OF isn't adult only content. I seriously thought it was exclusively adult content so at first I thought you got scammed. 😂
Yeah, she did have some suggestive poses but no explicit nudity.
Then again, I wasn't expecting her to have anything explicit on there either. It was just a more elaborate collection of her publicly available content.
I have bought a few single month discounted subscriptions, like $3-6 dollars. They were:
(1. Of people who do the things I’m Into, and
(2. They had a video archive of more than 60.
I never directly interacted with the people, I just wanted to see their video archives. I’ve only bought I think like 4 times and I cancelled my subscriptions so it was just the single month
What one porn industry guy said (forgot where I read) about why he wasn’t scared of piracy or tube sites. Explained that 99% of porn is an impulse buy anyway, basically all their revenue.
I've never subscribed to any OF pages, but I asked this question to someone and he explained: you can see a lot of porn for free, but I can see that chick from highschool who rejected me piss herself, or my neighbor deep throat a cucumber, or the barista who can't spell my name right stick foreign objects up her ass, all for less than the price of a subway sandwich.
There was this girl in my senior year of HS who had a crush on me. She was cute, a little on the chubby side, and dorky. She joined the tennis team bc she wanted to hangout since she was only a sophomore. It felt weird for me to go for a girl that young so I kept my distance and just played nice.
2 years later she was graduating and I happened to have stumbled in her Twitter page through mutual friends and later saw her at a party except I didn’t recognize her since she lost a lot of weight.
Since then she’s been trying to live an “influencer life” she’s currently dating a local rapper with family money that pays for their vacations and ventures and soon after she started her OF page where she openly announced on her social media.
I admit, I paid for a subscription out of curiosity even though I was very reluctant at first knowing most of these girls are just trying to scam idiot guys for instagram pics. To my surprise she actually posted explicit photos and videos on her page but I haven’t subscribed after that first month and lost touch with her so idk what she’s up to now
No they didn’t. I remained anonymous. OF has the same layout as Twitter where you have your homepage where you see the posts of the person(s) you follow / your notifications / your DMs / and your profile and settings. You can chat through DM. Creators can message you with locked content you can unlock for a fixed price by them
That’s all I learned from my time using the site
yeah they post regularly but then will DM you something more explicit like a sex tape or something for 10 dollars. thats why subscriptions are so cheap, to lure you in
my understanding is that it's both and it's up to the creator. Your monthly sub gets you access to their "anything goes twitter feed" but within that feed they CAN have extra stuff that you pay one time for.
That's the question I have too. There isn't anyone I know who I specifically want to see. But I do think it would be awesome knowing the person even though id never tell them or anyone else I found it.
I also see where a "near you" feature would be the absolute wrong move in terms of safety for the women so I don't see how, short of digging through all the profiles, I could realistically find anyone I know.
I'm very skeptical of those who say they found their exes doing that. Either you're tipped off or it's nearly impossible to find.
There are fanfics of employers finding out, but how? Any OF provider would use their real name?
I've had this happen with a couple of girls I know, and in my experience it was because the girl (people in general really) tends to use the same or similar user names across all social media. Then add ot the fact that I use Twitter exclusively for adult content, I saw a username one day and clicked on it and lo-and-behold it's so-and-so.
In the other instance I just was already following her on IG and she started promoting her OF on there.
I believe it's regional. I had a friend who did OF for a bit, she had to be careful to not show any tattoos or her face, because it shows your profile to people within a certain distance from you, apparently. I can't confirm this as I've never used it.
Lol my friends showed me this telegram group for the city and state we live in. Where is shows all the girls that do OF in the state and dude there where so many chicks I went to school with, even some teachers, and mom's That made it to that groupchat and I got to see chicks I knew going crazy on OF in that telegram. But it was free in the telegram lol.
I would guess they are speaking metaphorically. That is a pretty good answer. I have never joined, even the free version, because you still have to register a card, and I would rather stay married.
Have you never lived in any area other than a major metropolis.? Word travels fast no matter what the gossip is.
Once 1 single person in town finds out Katie is shoving stuff in her online for cash everyone knows.
I think most top pages’ revenue comes from messaging between the OF page and consumers. Those messages cost money to send, and extra content can be sold there too.
Some consumers spend a loooooot of money on what they believe is a genuine connection.
I always thought it was for the connection to the person doing the content until I found out some of them outsource their DMs.
I know someone who was hired by a very popular OF creator, and she gets paid a good chunk of money to answer all of her DMS and sext with the people that pay for it. Blew my mind.
I mean, it's not structurally dissimilar to the old phone sex hotlines. The models on the cable TV ads weren't the people taking the phone calls either.
That’s probably my position on it.
I can see any porn star doing degrading things on PornHub for free. But I would pay good money to see one of my admin staff stick something up her arse, or someone from my school do the same.
It’s the frisson of potentially “knowing” the person.
And this is why I don’t subscribe to any accounts.
I can guarantee that none of the women I’m interested in are doing OF and I’m not inspired to search for them anyway.
That’s because they’re saving it for private messaging so it’s just between you too. Her page would be full of appetizers and dinner/dessert would be in her DMS 😉
It's one of those odd things, where even if I'm not that attracted to her, if a woman I knew was like "hey, wanna see me naked for $5 and we never have to acknowledge it happened? I'd immediately pay her $5.
Naked people are fun to look at and a part of me always kind of wonders what my friends look like without clothes. Not enough to make things weird by asking, and I don't want to do anything to change the platonic relationship. But still, boobs are boobs. If they're on a woman I probably wouldn't mind seeing them.
Will never forget my buddy when he began his brief “fuck boy” phase, where a chick from HS that we both knew and he had a crush on hit him up out of the blue one day asking him to buy her OF.
I will never forget the absolute and utter pride of “This chick ignored ALL my attempts throughout high school, and now she’s messaging ME to buy her nudes. I WIN!!” as I just listened and laughed.
I've known 2 women who openly admitted to me they upload Onlyfans content and by what these women told me. They don't respect the men giving them money. They are laughing at them and who can blame these women.
One said to me "I made £600 in a month once from old creepy sad lonley desperate men" and she agreed with me when I said I think it's a waste of money but it's still easy money for her and the other one showed me this Indian guy who was thinking he was gonna be in a relationship with her and she was laughing at him. These men pay money send DMs to these women thinking a connection is being built and the women are laughing at them. And how do you know its actually the women replying. Could be a [friend ](https://youtu.be/7LoRkZxFNG0) of hers
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Men are giving them money whilst they laugh at them. It's not only a waste of money but it's really pathetic on the men's part. Easy money off creeps. I don't blame the women and I don't see why they should respect men like that. I'm laughing at those men too.
Don't subscribe to any OnlyFan content if you have any self respect
I agree that the men are pathetic but it's not like men respect the women they pay on Only Fans. Men on here are talking about how they enjoy degrading women they know.
Guys like the one you replied to are just doing it to be laughing at the women who show some sort of rejection or disrespect (in his mind) to him. Big red flag. Either side laughing at the other or taking advantage of it are crazy and disrespectful.
I bought it twice, one month each, when they were super hot and advertising on Reddit. TBH I just wanted to see their butthole.
It was good content but I didn't like the interface, and there were a lot of 20 second videos, basically a TikTok thirst trap but with tits out.
I have no interest in the chat aspect.
The ppv content is what turns me off. There was one woman who fills a very specific niche that I enjoy, and when I subscribed she basically came across as a one of those Bahraini street merchants I’ve ran into in the past who never take no for an answer. She swapped “my friend” with “daddy”.
I haven't done it myself, but I get it. Sometimes you wanna see ***that*** person naked.
I once had a 4tb leak file. But I refused to pay money to keep the mega account active for that much storage, so it went away.
This is the best answer. If there’s a public person that you sort of grow an interest to, the whole aspect of seeing that person in a sexual way feels more attractive than just one random pornstar
Should someone’s connection to porn really be that personal, though? I’ve never quite understood why people put so much thought/stock into watching other people have sex or watching one person do solo acts when the person in the porn doesn’t know about or even give a crap about your existence. If the goal is to get off, any explicit imagery of consenting adults regardless of *who* the person/people are should work. I’m sure I’m the odd one out with my thinking, though.
It's because some people are so lonely that they do go that far to feel any level of intimacy. Sexual gratification through porn is usually very physically oriented, and just barely upholds the illusion of slight intimacy, if that. The people who do what you're talking about are just that desperate to feel something.
In any case. It's all unhealthy as shit. Get rid of it.
I also think this is the best answer. Everyone gets off to different things, if they can afford it and it isn’t hurting anyone, who cares? I buy stupid stuff all the time, at least what they’re buying is giving them some satisfaction.
It's gotten to the point women who are "mid" but smile and laugh are 10x hotter than the porn stars. Just like how irl a woman who's interesting and shows you attention is hotter than a woman who's just more attractive.
Seriously I don't get how people can like certain stuff- zero chemistry, fake moan, purposely crappy line delivery, caked in makeup, having sex in a way you yourself have never done and don't want to do- over a couple posting- two normal people a girl who even if she is out of your league at least looks like the girls you know and are into. actually likes the dude she's with and communicates like a human. What's to gain in the first one unless you are just a porn addict and can only get off to fake stuff or never had sex and don't know what "normal" is?
Maybe cuz I'm not a porn guy but seems like most mainstream actress porn is just weird. The age of iphones and people being open about sex has allowed normal couples to post normal sex so ig it's probably getting better now that it's not all scripted. Still don't get why you'd pay for anything other than a woman virtually interacting with you specifically one to one cuz you can just get whatever else on any number of porn sites
> I don't sub to OF but I'd guess it's because videos on PornHub, XVideos, etc have all become so fake that it's become a parody of itself.
Also the standards seems to be getting precipitously lower in terms of participants.
Wouldn't be shocked if OF is a big reason why that is. If you *actually* attractive and what to lewd shit and/or porn, you can just start an Instagram, twitter, OF or w/e instead.
It’s not about seeing just anyone naked man, if the daughter of my moms good friend that I’ve had a crush on my entire life makes an OF, I’m paying 5.99 to see that. But I’ll never pay that much to see Sara jays personal content, idk her
I too found out someone I had recently started seeing had one. Very beautiful but that was a deal breaker for me on top of having 2 children while I have 0. She has a large social media presence so it’s not like just a few people have access to it.
I'm in a similar position. Girl from high school. Was ugly then, is ugly now. But she's apparently so proud and she kept offering me discounts or whatever. I almost gave in just to see the freak show.
Hey, ugly girls can have WAP too. I would have subscribed for a month just to see.
It's less than the price of a visit to Starbucks and it's someone you know. I wouldn't mind paying if they were eager to show me.
2 reasons:
The most ethical way to consume pornography is content that you pay for straight from the creator.
The tube sites are full of stolen content, revenge porn of peoples ex’s, and even rapes and people who are underage. Buying straight from a creator avoids that.
Second, creators are more likely to make porn that caters directly to my kinks and fantasies instead of having to scroll through thousands of videos trying to find a woman having a genuine orgasm.
Having said all that, I can totally understand why, after all these years of free porn and how much there is out there, people don’t want to pay for porn. But we really should try to move that way.
Yeah, but if you know anything about the Amouranth situation you can never even know if the first point applies. Even a streamer as famous and successful as her was not doing what she was doing out of her own will. It's literally impossible to tell.
Amouranth, one of Twitch's top female streamers, pioneered the way for or at least became a huge reason why "hot tub streams" became the meta on Twitch - streams where a female streamer would hang out with chat while wearing a swimsuit in a hot tub. Much like the content metas in subreddits, Twitch's front page also goes through phases where there's always some new "in" thing. Explcit NSFW content isn't allowed on Twitch though, these streams were running on a loophole which is why they became so big.
Anyway, she want on to open an *absurdly* successful OF account, but recently it came to light that her husband was a deranged lunatic who was forcing her to do the hot tub streams and OF stuff. In a leaked phone call he said something like "*I* built this empire off of *you,* don't make me take it away" as well as threatening to kill her dogs and shit. This was a normal phone call for her, apparently. Pretty heinous shit through and through.
Hope I could fill you in properly! (\^\^) And to anyone else reading, do correct me if I was wrong about anything.
I shared a Reddit thread that summed up the situation in another comment but it got autoremoved for being a link.
TL;DR apparently she is seeking emtional counsel and legal help but it doesn't seem like she's divorcing her husband any time soon.
:(
I’ve stopped watching porn due to the ethics. I really just use my imagination but I believe if you’re going to watch porn it should be paid for and I’m glad women have platforms like OF to support themselves
Honestly I think I'm getting to this point. There were some content creators that got in big trouble. It was billed as amateur which it was, to much. Basically they would convince drunk woman at the bar to do a porn and screw them over on payment. Also it was clear the sex was way rougher than expected. I remember watching one and being like WTF she is obviously in distress. It put me off for a long time. Then sure enough the lawsuits started coming out and pornhub dropped them. Of course pornhub knew of the BS and looked the other way. After that I stick with mainstream pornstars who have been in the biz for awhile. I know it's not perfect, but after that I just can't see amateur porn the same.
yeah but what if there's a specific butthole you wanna see? We need a phonebook type of service, where people list their buttholes...
for now? There's onlyfans.
I would depending on the artist/person. As hentai artists flock to there now. And if I liked a person from twitter or youtuber i'd sub. But only if I could afford to.
Only tried it once, and it was a waste of money.
But the reason I tried it is I saw clips (on Reddit) from an OF creator that I very much enjoyed, and I wanted to see the rest. The kind of porn that pretty much checks all of the boxes of things I’m into, which isn’t super easy to find. Figured it was worth $10 to get access to hours of great porn I could download and keep on my hard drive for future use. But it turned out the $10 subscription price was only the beginning, and they require “tips” on top of that for the full videos. So fuck that.
Not only fans but I pay someone to talk to me. I have no feelings of love for her, it’s nice to have someone ask me how my day was even if it’s boring.
OF appeals to those that want a more personal experience, whether that's just seeing much more targeted content from a particular Creator (likely one from a smaller niche), wanting personalized content (getting a video of your favorite porn star moaning your name), or interaction with a porn star (assuming she's not Angela White-level popular, there's a good chance that she'll be the one answering her DMs, and she wouldn't ever bother to respond to your messages anywhere else.
It's also an outlet for those thirsty guys that absolutely need to send dick pics to women for validation. Dick Ratings are a huge market for OF Creators, despite the fact that they lie for almost every single rating.
OF is great for the industry, allowing fans to have a greater say in what is made and allowing Creators to make a real living without being exploited. If you just want to jerk off to the free stuff on the Hub, nobody is stopping you. If you have an itch for a particular video that you can't find, hit up an OF Creator and you'll have it in your inbox in a matter of hours or days.
My former employee was suing me for unemployment (after disregarding instructions that ended up killing a patient and then she stormed out) and I was looking to prove that she was still working and had an income.
She didn’t know I’d stumbled across it, so it was a REALLY fun hearing.
My BIL mentioned, “She’s weirdly cagey about everything. Like a girl who has an OnlyFans.”
So I asked around and hunted around until I found it. Subscribed, downloaded, printed, filed.
Asked a bunch of questions about her having alternative sources of income, which she denied outright.
Produced the rather damning evidence. She denied everything frantically. The referee rolled his eyes and decided in my favor.
Not too dramatic. But very satisfying.
maybe i shouldn’t say this… but for the few people who will see this comment here’s a spoiler:
they don’t actually message you back.
i am romantically entwined with a top 1%-er and she has a literal team of people who respond to messages and send presaved photos.
oops 😬
had to say something ;)
Especially since a lot of that content is free on 3rd party sites. Not to mention the backbone of the internet was/is porn. There's so much free stuff you could never finish it all.
I have in the past and would again. I pay to support a particular girl. At times it also showed you to have contact with them but that hasn't been something I've been interested in.
The folks I know, I sub to support and see they're doing alright. It takes guts to put their pride and finances on the line like that, no matter the circumstances, so I don't want them to feel unsupported, at least til they "make it" right? Like 100+ subs and they're all set to go. Usually they're pretty hot but there's a weirdness to it that doesn't do it for me. Other folks I sub to are just doing what I like. They're real people or couples who are treating their own or each other's intimacy with respect and near genuine enthusiasm. I dig that. Common porn is just so degrading, hokey, or creepy. Even in my porn mood, I don't want to watch someone being not okay, ya know?
Also just want to mention that pretty often guys are being paid to "manage" OF accounts so youre usually texting a guy who just tells you what you want ot hear.
Idk no way I’m giving people money for a service that they have to pretend to have interest in me. Subjective but I’m not a big fan of strip clubs for that reason.
Agreed. If it's not someone who genuinely knows you and likes you there's no point.
Either,
A. You're the casual hookup type - get on the apps and find a casual hookup for free. If no look there, free porn.
B. You're the real feelings type - you might not want to see randos naked anyway so you for sure can't justify *paying* for it and you'd want someone to *really* care about you not pretend for money.
I respect that you guys have cash to spare and want personalized porn, more power to you. But you’ve totally fucked up the online dating market now as tinder is basically just girls selling their onlyfans now.
100%. After my wife’s passing I dabbled in dating apps. Met a few nice women but most of them in there are OF models that refer you to their link. It’s impossible.
People form an emotional bond with celebrities and content creators. There’s a term for it (but I can’t remember what it’s called). It’s really big with content creators on places like YouTube and TikTok. Basically, the viewer feels like they have some sort of emotional bond with this person. Almost as if they’re close friends, despite the content creator not even knowing who they are. It’s very common.
I’d wager a gamble that the same goes for onlyfans, except it’s much more intimate because she’s undressing for “you”.
Guys that buy video games instead of playing free ones, why?
Guys who pay for a gym membership instead of just jogging, why?
Guys who eat out instead of making their own food cheaper, why?
Guys who pay for streaming subscription instead of watching something for free on YouTube, why?
Guys who buy expensive clothes instead of cheap clothes, why?
Anyways, I just don't get why people lose their minds over paying content creators for nice porn.
Because the video games you pay for tend to be better than free ones
Gyms have more equipment and stuff to help with certain body parts and working out and it can be a more sociable place as well.
Because food at restraunts tend to be of better quality and again. Depending on its reputation and rating. It can also be a social gathering for relatives and friends to meet up and connect.
YouTube censors a lot of movies and TV shows unless you pay YouTube for said movies of TV shows. Someone illegally uploading a full movie or TV show that isn't there's isnt in YouTube T&Cs and is copyright. Streaming services aren't illegally uploading a full movie or TV Show
Because expensive clothes are of better quality than cheap ones
I don't understand how onlyfan content creators are any different than some person uploading their porn to pornhub or something for free. Higher quality porn... 🤣🤣🤣. No such thing.
I really just want to support my grandma
Just have her post content on /r/oldladiesbakingpies
What in the accursed fuck
With a reaction like that, I’m leaving that unclicked.
na, def worth the click for some chuckles
The pics aren't nsfw, and the titles are filthier than a grease monkey rolling in an oil field
I doubted you hardcore for a sec, but I closed my eyes and trusted you. I will never doubt you again.
i will never doubt them either.
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Praise be to you, redditor
Then I’ll scroll through later.
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*with pies
It's SFW don't worry
The sub is sfw despite all the images and titles making it seem otherwise. Dont ask me why I risked it though lmao.
Oh come on who doesn't want to see an aged stunner expertly fingering multiple wet pies in one sloppy session
It is HILARIOUS I could not stop laughing
You’re missing out on some good shit
I find it interesting that such amazing titles can be attributed to such innocent pictures. It's where headline writers go to stretch their legs.
That's actually not as bad as I thought it was going to be..
I had to go look. Thank you for that. That is horrible and hilarious at the same time. BTW. SFW
Please explain why i just joined that sub..
😂🤣🤣 snap!
The same reason I did. Because we have issues.
i had 3 heart attacks before opening 3 different pics
Really thought this was gonna be grannies fingering themselves. Curiosity got the better of me and I had to see 🤣
OnlyGrans
Gotta support the family business
Same!
Your grandma got them yams, no cap.
I mean if you can’t support your own
I want to support this guys grandma as well
I subbed to a cosplayer I follow on Twitter for a month. Wanted to see more of her stuff and also how OF worked. I canceled and deleted my account after the month was up though; it was pretty much almost the same stuff she put on twitter anyway, just more angles of the same cosplays.
I did the same thing. I don’t understand being subbed in perpetuity, but I saw enough of their work prior that I thought of it as a tip
Same; sent her a single message that I appeeciate her work and quality of her cosplays. She probably will never see it but I don't mind.
As with anything SAAS model, part of the allure for the business is that people are busy and will forget to cancel. The lower the amount you charge the more likely that happens. We can all wish more consumers would recognize this, but as with a lot of things in life - being an aware consumer you directly benefit from others who are not.
This. People subscribe out of curiosity then forget
Guess what, every month, there’s hundreds like you who is curious and subs.
Yea, I understand that. I think these platforms are best thought of as adult tipping services like Patreon, and if you’re a regular consumer of someone’s work you should try to throw the artist a few bucks every now and again
You buy a month, you rip the entire profiles content (scripts exist to do this), you cancel. Then you repeat again in like 4 months. Now you have 4 months of content afterwards for the price of 1 month. You keep the rip content for personal use because I fear it could go from simple piracy to being called revenge porn.
tl:dr; wanted to see cosplayer naked. she didn't post nudes. cancelled the account.
Not even sure why they’re trying to pretend that isn’t the case lmao
That's what I told my wife too. She still left me though.
I was talking about that with a friend After a while, there's only so many positions and pics they can take, that it gets boring
That's one thing I don't understand about onlyfans, the majority of them you are subscribing to content that you don't know what it is, or it could potentially just be pics of them in underwear
Well, in that case, I was expecting exclusive cosplays she didn't make public. There were a few to be sure but the majority was stuff I'd see on my usual Twitter updates but with more angles. But yeah, OF is a bit misleading that way but I feel it was purpose-built to be like that.
I think I know this cosplayer you're referring to. I had a feeling her OF content wasn't worth it. Just like her patreon acct too.
I'm now curious to know if you guessed right.
>it was pretty much almost the same stuff she put on twitter anyway, just more angles of the same cosplays. Lol I read this and was like wtf? (never used OF) initially. I now realize OF isn't adult only content. I seriously thought it was exclusively adult content so at first I thought you got scammed. 😂
Yeah, she did have some suggestive poses but no explicit nudity. Then again, I wasn't expecting her to have anything explicit on there either. It was just a more elaborate collection of her publicly available content.
Wanted to know "how OF worked" LMAO
I have bought a few single month discounted subscriptions, like $3-6 dollars. They were: (1. Of people who do the things I’m Into, and (2. They had a video archive of more than 60. I never directly interacted with the people, I just wanted to see their video archives. I’ve only bought I think like 4 times and I cancelled my subscriptions so it was just the single month
They were 1?? Bro that's not the age of consent in **any** jurisdiction wtf
My mistake, I reformatted it so it is more clear.
We all make mistakes in the heat of passion Jimbo.
Once when I was seven years old I sat on a banana, and of course, that changed my life
What one porn industry guy said (forgot where I read) about why he wasn’t scared of piracy or tube sites. Explained that 99% of porn is an impulse buy anyway, basically all their revenue.
I've never subscribed to any OF pages, but I asked this question to someone and he explained: you can see a lot of porn for free, but I can see that chick from highschool who rejected me piss herself, or my neighbor deep throat a cucumber, or the barista who can't spell my name right stick foreign objects up her ass, all for less than the price of a subway sandwich.
Yeah, but how do you find these people you know irl on OF?
Beats me dude, I never paid for porn in my life
..but I have committed to porn..
There was this girl in my senior year of HS who had a crush on me. She was cute, a little on the chubby side, and dorky. She joined the tennis team bc she wanted to hangout since she was only a sophomore. It felt weird for me to go for a girl that young so I kept my distance and just played nice. 2 years later she was graduating and I happened to have stumbled in her Twitter page through mutual friends and later saw her at a party except I didn’t recognize her since she lost a lot of weight. Since then she’s been trying to live an “influencer life” she’s currently dating a local rapper with family money that pays for their vacations and ventures and soon after she started her OF page where she openly announced on her social media. I admit, I paid for a subscription out of curiosity even though I was very reluctant at first knowing most of these girls are just trying to scam idiot guys for instagram pics. To my surprise she actually posted explicit photos and videos on her page but I haven’t subscribed after that first month and lost touch with her so idk what she’s up to now
Obvious question. Do they know who you are, or do you just have a username. I thought it was cam to cam though. So surely she would recognise you?
No they didn’t. I remained anonymous. OF has the same layout as Twitter where you have your homepage where you see the posts of the person(s) you follow / your notifications / your DMs / and your profile and settings. You can chat through DM. Creators can message you with locked content you can unlock for a fixed price by them That’s all I learned from my time using the site
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You get general content for the subscription but you have to pay for some other more specific stuff. Usually it's more explicit.
So it's like subscribing to prime and then having to pay to lionsgate to watch a movie I like. Legit scams
yeah they post regularly but then will DM you something more explicit like a sex tape or something for 10 dollars. thats why subscriptions are so cheap, to lure you in
my understanding is that it's both and it's up to the creator. Your monthly sub gets you access to their "anything goes twitter feed" but within that feed they CAN have extra stuff that you pay one time for.
It depends on the creator. Most of the better ones have all access with their account, some have different tiers
It shows them your email address so she likely knew it was you.
I have like 4 different emails lol only one has my real name
for the jobs or school lol pussyeater@gmail would be a badass email to put on a resume though
They are probably publicizing it in some way through instagram, tiktok, etc.
That's the question I have too. There isn't anyone I know who I specifically want to see. But I do think it would be awesome knowing the person even though id never tell them or anyone else I found it. I also see where a "near you" feature would be the absolute wrong move in terms of safety for the women so I don't see how, short of digging through all the profiles, I could realistically find anyone I know.
I'm very skeptical of those who say they found their exes doing that. Either you're tipped off or it's nearly impossible to find. There are fanfics of employers finding out, but how? Any OF provider would use their real name?
I've had this happen with a couple of girls I know, and in my experience it was because the girl (people in general really) tends to use the same or similar user names across all social media. Then add ot the fact that I use Twitter exclusively for adult content, I saw a username one day and clicked on it and lo-and-behold it's so-and-so. In the other instance I just was already following her on IG and she started promoting her OF on there.
I believe it's regional. I had a friend who did OF for a bit, she had to be careful to not show any tattoos or her face, because it shows your profile to people within a certain distance from you, apparently. I can't confirm this as I've never used it.
You can block your entire region so people in your area or any area you block, can't see you..
Lol my friends showed me this telegram group for the city and state we live in. Where is shows all the girls that do OF in the state and dude there where so many chicks I went to school with, even some teachers, and mom's That made it to that groupchat and I got to see chicks I knew going crazy on OF in that telegram. But it was free in the telegram lol.
I would guess they are speaking metaphorically. That is a pretty good answer. I have never joined, even the free version, because you still have to register a card, and I would rather stay married.
Wait, so your main reason is that your wife doesn't find out, not that it's wrong and disrespectful to your wife??
Onlyfinder.com type in a location and the people who are dumb enough to use their real location will pop up
Sometimes they just post about it on their facebook or have an Instagram they use to post bikini pics. That's how you get the OF link.
They advertise it on their Instagram like everyone else
They advertise it on their social media this isn't new
Lol wtf? Is there something on that app that highlights the people in your area?
Single women in your area are looking for you. Fool me once…
Have you never lived in any area other than a major metropolis.? Word travels fast no matter what the gossip is. Once 1 single person in town finds out Katie is shoving stuff in her online for cash everyone knows.
I think most top pages’ revenue comes from messaging between the OF page and consumers. Those messages cost money to send, and extra content can be sold there too. Some consumers spend a loooooot of money on what they believe is a genuine connection.
I always thought it was for the connection to the person doing the content until I found out some of them outsource their DMs. I know someone who was hired by a very popular OF creator, and she gets paid a good chunk of money to answer all of her DMS and sext with the people that pay for it. Blew my mind.
I mean, it's not structurally dissimilar to the old phone sex hotlines. The models on the cable TV ads weren't the people taking the phone calls either.
That’s probably my position on it. I can see any porn star doing degrading things on PornHub for free. But I would pay good money to see one of my admin staff stick something up her arse, or someone from my school do the same. It’s the frisson of potentially “knowing” the person.
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And this is why I don’t subscribe to any accounts. I can guarantee that none of the women I’m interested in are doing OF and I’m not inspired to search for them anyway.
Yeah but I’d say about 70% of the time they’re just posting slightly more lewd photos there. They don’t actually do anything crazy.
That’s because they’re saving it for private messaging so it’s just between you too. Her page would be full of appetizers and dinner/dessert would be in her DMS 😉
Many answers in this thread but this is the real one lmao
Honestly, that's not a ridiculous thing to say.
It's one of those odd things, where even if I'm not that attracted to her, if a woman I knew was like "hey, wanna see me naked for $5 and we never have to acknowledge it happened? I'd immediately pay her $5. Naked people are fun to look at and a part of me always kind of wonders what my friends look like without clothes. Not enough to make things weird by asking, and I don't want to do anything to change the platonic relationship. But still, boobs are boobs. If they're on a woman I probably wouldn't mind seeing them.
Will never forget my buddy when he began his brief “fuck boy” phase, where a chick from HS that we both knew and he had a crush on hit him up out of the blue one day asking him to buy her OF. I will never forget the absolute and utter pride of “This chick ignored ALL my attempts throughout high school, and now she’s messaging ME to buy her nudes. I WIN!!” as I just listened and laughed.
I've known 2 women who openly admitted to me they upload Onlyfans content and by what these women told me. They don't respect the men giving them money. They are laughing at them and who can blame these women. One said to me "I made £600 in a month once from old creepy sad lonley desperate men" and she agreed with me when I said I think it's a waste of money but it's still easy money for her and the other one showed me this Indian guy who was thinking he was gonna be in a relationship with her and she was laughing at him. These men pay money send DMs to these women thinking a connection is being built and the women are laughing at them. And how do you know its actually the women replying. Could be a [friend ](https://youtu.be/7LoRkZxFNG0) of hers https://youtu.be/7LoRkZxFNG0 Men are giving them money whilst they laugh at them. It's not only a waste of money but it's really pathetic on the men's part. Easy money off creeps. I don't blame the women and I don't see why they should respect men like that. I'm laughing at those men too. Don't subscribe to any OnlyFan content if you have any self respect
I agree that the men are pathetic but it's not like men respect the women they pay on Only Fans. Men on here are talking about how they enjoy degrading women they know.
Guys like the one you replied to are just doing it to be laughing at the women who show some sort of rejection or disrespect (in his mind) to him. Big red flag. Either side laughing at the other or taking advantage of it are crazy and disrespectful.
Ooooooo MG. Hahahahahah
He seems to forgetting that he's paying these ppl while he's getting back at them.
I bought it twice, one month each, when they were super hot and advertising on Reddit. TBH I just wanted to see their butthole. It was good content but I didn't like the interface, and there were a lot of 20 second videos, basically a TikTok thirst trap but with tits out. I have no interest in the chat aspect.
How were the buttholes?
Perfect. Worth the entry fee.
There's an entry fee to their butthole?
Found John Mayer's reddit handle
The ppv content is what turns me off. There was one woman who fills a very specific niche that I enjoy, and when I subscribed she basically came across as a one of those Bahraini street merchants I’ve ran into in the past who never take no for an answer. She swapped “my friend” with “daddy”.
I haven't done it myself, but I get it. Sometimes you wanna see ***that*** person naked. I once had a 4tb leak file. But I refused to pay money to keep the mega account active for that much storage, so it went away.
This is the best answer. If there’s a public person that you sort of grow an interest to, the whole aspect of seeing that person in a sexual way feels more attractive than just one random pornstar
Should someone’s connection to porn really be that personal, though? I’ve never quite understood why people put so much thought/stock into watching other people have sex or watching one person do solo acts when the person in the porn doesn’t know about or even give a crap about your existence. If the goal is to get off, any explicit imagery of consenting adults regardless of *who* the person/people are should work. I’m sure I’m the odd one out with my thinking, though.
It's because some people are so lonely that they do go that far to feel any level of intimacy. Sexual gratification through porn is usually very physically oriented, and just barely upholds the illusion of slight intimacy, if that. The people who do what you're talking about are just that desperate to feel something. In any case. It's all unhealthy as shit. Get rid of it.
I also think this is the best answer. Everyone gets off to different things, if they can afford it and it isn’t hurting anyone, who cares? I buy stupid stuff all the time, at least what they’re buying is giving them some satisfaction.
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It's gotten to the point women who are "mid" but smile and laugh are 10x hotter than the porn stars. Just like how irl a woman who's interesting and shows you attention is hotter than a woman who's just more attractive. Seriously I don't get how people can like certain stuff- zero chemistry, fake moan, purposely crappy line delivery, caked in makeup, having sex in a way you yourself have never done and don't want to do- over a couple posting- two normal people a girl who even if she is out of your league at least looks like the girls you know and are into. actually likes the dude she's with and communicates like a human. What's to gain in the first one unless you are just a porn addict and can only get off to fake stuff or never had sex and don't know what "normal" is? Maybe cuz I'm not a porn guy but seems like most mainstream actress porn is just weird. The age of iphones and people being open about sex has allowed normal couples to post normal sex so ig it's probably getting better now that it's not all scripted. Still don't get why you'd pay for anything other than a woman virtually interacting with you specifically one to one cuz you can just get whatever else on any number of porn sites
> I don't sub to OF but I'd guess it's because videos on PornHub, XVideos, etc have all become so fake that it's become a parody of itself. Also the standards seems to be getting precipitously lower in terms of participants. Wouldn't be shocked if OF is a big reason why that is. If you *actually* attractive and what to lewd shit and/or porn, you can just start an Instagram, twitter, OF or w/e instead.
It’s not about seeing just anyone naked man, if the daughter of my moms good friend that I’ve had a crush on my entire life makes an OF, I’m paying 5.99 to see that. But I’ll never pay that much to see Sara jays personal content, idk her
People are willing to pay for things that they like.
It's really not more complicated than that. I pay for a Netflix subscription because it has shows I like. Pretty much the same concept at play with OF
What a wild and crazy concept!
... it's feet isn't it...
Discovered someone I know advertising on Reddit. I find her revolting, but I was curious to see how deep the rabbit hole went.
I too found out someone I had recently started seeing had one. Very beautiful but that was a deal breaker for me on top of having 2 children while I have 0. She has a large social media presence so it’s not like just a few people have access to it.
Sounds like my friend, though given the popularity this is probably more common than I'd like to believe lol
I'm in a similar position. Girl from high school. Was ugly then, is ugly now. But she's apparently so proud and she kept offering me discounts or whatever. I almost gave in just to see the freak show.
Hey, ugly girls can have WAP too. I would have subscribed for a month just to see. It's less than the price of a visit to Starbucks and it's someone you know. I wouldn't mind paying if they were eager to show me.
I get what you're saying bro but trust me this ain't it
She must be ugly ugly 🤣
Deadass
Horny brain dumb
2 reasons: The most ethical way to consume pornography is content that you pay for straight from the creator. The tube sites are full of stolen content, revenge porn of peoples ex’s, and even rapes and people who are underage. Buying straight from a creator avoids that. Second, creators are more likely to make porn that caters directly to my kinks and fantasies instead of having to scroll through thousands of videos trying to find a woman having a genuine orgasm. Having said all that, I can totally understand why, after all these years of free porn and how much there is out there, people don’t want to pay for porn. But we really should try to move that way.
Yeah, but if you know anything about the Amouranth situation you can never even know if the first point applies. Even a streamer as famous and successful as her was not doing what she was doing out of her own will. It's literally impossible to tell.
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Amouranth, one of Twitch's top female streamers, pioneered the way for or at least became a huge reason why "hot tub streams" became the meta on Twitch - streams where a female streamer would hang out with chat while wearing a swimsuit in a hot tub. Much like the content metas in subreddits, Twitch's front page also goes through phases where there's always some new "in" thing. Explcit NSFW content isn't allowed on Twitch though, these streams were running on a loophole which is why they became so big. Anyway, she want on to open an *absurdly* successful OF account, but recently it came to light that her husband was a deranged lunatic who was forcing her to do the hot tub streams and OF stuff. In a leaked phone call he said something like "*I* built this empire off of *you,* don't make me take it away" as well as threatening to kill her dogs and shit. This was a normal phone call for her, apparently. Pretty heinous shit through and through. Hope I could fill you in properly! (\^\^) And to anyone else reading, do correct me if I was wrong about anything.
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I shared a Reddit thread that summed up the situation in another comment but it got autoremoved for being a link. TL;DR apparently she is seeking emtional counsel and legal help but it doesn't seem like she's divorcing her husband any time soon. :(
Yeah, that’s about how I reason as well, although I’ve never paid for OF
I’ve stopped watching porn due to the ethics. I really just use my imagination but I believe if you’re going to watch porn it should be paid for and I’m glad women have platforms like OF to support themselves
Honestly I think I'm getting to this point. There were some content creators that got in big trouble. It was billed as amateur which it was, to much. Basically they would convince drunk woman at the bar to do a porn and screw them over on payment. Also it was clear the sex was way rougher than expected. I remember watching one and being like WTF she is obviously in distress. It put me off for a long time. Then sure enough the lawsuits started coming out and pornhub dropped them. Of course pornhub knew of the BS and looked the other way. After that I stick with mainstream pornstars who have been in the biz for awhile. I know it's not perfect, but after that I just can't see amateur porn the same.
I recently learned it from the Netflix documentary, Money Shot: The Pornhub Story. It really enlightened me.
>Buying straight from a creator avoids that. Uhh, I think we have very definitively been shown that OF does *not* guarantee that at all.
Points I never considered. Nice one.
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For a price of “0” you can still see a butt hole, r/asshole Edit: somehow i got one with dm as well.. so i got extra with a “0”
yeah but what if there's a specific butthole you wanna see? We need a phonebook type of service, where people list their buttholes... for now? There's onlyfans.
I would depending on the artist/person. As hentai artists flock to there now. And if I liked a person from twitter or youtuber i'd sub. But only if I could afford to.
Only tried it once, and it was a waste of money. But the reason I tried it is I saw clips (on Reddit) from an OF creator that I very much enjoyed, and I wanted to see the rest. The kind of porn that pretty much checks all of the boxes of things I’m into, which isn’t super easy to find. Figured it was worth $10 to get access to hours of great porn I could download and keep on my hard drive for future use. But it turned out the $10 subscription price was only the beginning, and they require “tips” on top of that for the full videos. So fuck that.
If you've seen one woman naked, you want to see the rest of them naked. - Ron White
Pay for content you enjoy. Especially if you can give directly to the content creator.
To help out a small business owner
Most Men are slaves to their desires
I edit PMVs so I like to get the highest-quality video files.
So I can keep tabs on my neighbour…
Not only fans but I pay someone to talk to me. I have no feelings of love for her, it’s nice to have someone ask me how my day was even if it’s boring.
Are you taking on new employees?
I might later if they play Pokémon go I’d definitely switch to a different person.
OF appeals to those that want a more personal experience, whether that's just seeing much more targeted content from a particular Creator (likely one from a smaller niche), wanting personalized content (getting a video of your favorite porn star moaning your name), or interaction with a porn star (assuming she's not Angela White-level popular, there's a good chance that she'll be the one answering her DMs, and she wouldn't ever bother to respond to your messages anywhere else. It's also an outlet for those thirsty guys that absolutely need to send dick pics to women for validation. Dick Ratings are a huge market for OF Creators, despite the fact that they lie for almost every single rating. OF is great for the industry, allowing fans to have a greater say in what is made and allowing Creators to make a real living without being exploited. If you just want to jerk off to the free stuff on the Hub, nobody is stopping you. If you have an itch for a particular video that you can't find, hit up an OF Creator and you'll have it in your inbox in a matter of hours or days.
Loving the attempt to make it appear the same as what's on twitch and youtube
DICK RATINGS??? *opens incognito tab"
Why do you think it’s nickname is lonely fans?
My former employee was suing me for unemployment (after disregarding instructions that ended up killing a patient and then she stormed out) and I was looking to prove that she was still working and had an income. She didn’t know I’d stumbled across it, so it was a REALLY fun hearing.
LOL That was brilliant! Can you tell us more?
My BIL mentioned, “She’s weirdly cagey about everything. Like a girl who has an OnlyFans.” So I asked around and hunted around until I found it. Subscribed, downloaded, printed, filed. Asked a bunch of questions about her having alternative sources of income, which she denied outright. Produced the rather damning evidence. She denied everything frantically. The referee rolled his eyes and decided in my favor. Not too dramatic. But very satisfying.
Some would call this revenge porn. (Because it was good revenge, and it revolves around porn, get it?)
I imagine a Law & Order move where the attorney asks "Is this picture representing you using a cucumber inside your anus?"
I'm looking forward to her r/TIFU post
maybe i shouldn’t say this… but for the few people who will see this comment here’s a spoiler: they don’t actually message you back. i am romantically entwined with a top 1%-er and she has a literal team of people who respond to messages and send presaved photos. oops 😬 had to say something ;)
The same reason that some people pay to watch twitch. Its free, but some people pay anyways
Only Grans for life!
I really like /r/onlyfans
Especially since a lot of that content is free on 3rd party sites. Not to mention the backbone of the internet was/is porn. There's so much free stuff you could never finish it all.
I have in the past and would again. I pay to support a particular girl. At times it also showed you to have contact with them but that hasn't been something I've been interested in.
The folks I know, I sub to support and see they're doing alright. It takes guts to put their pride and finances on the line like that, no matter the circumstances, so I don't want them to feel unsupported, at least til they "make it" right? Like 100+ subs and they're all set to go. Usually they're pretty hot but there's a weirdness to it that doesn't do it for me. Other folks I sub to are just doing what I like. They're real people or couples who are treating their own or each other's intimacy with respect and near genuine enthusiasm. I dig that. Common porn is just so degrading, hokey, or creepy. Even in my porn mood, I don't want to watch someone being not okay, ya know?
Fr why? There is so much free content on the internet
I think its because of the personal aspect. Guys pay these girls to sent them personal messages and stuff. Its like rent-a-girlfriend
This is very sad imo.
Yea pretty sad, do they really think these people care about them at all?
They don't. It's a job. Jobs are for money. They're paying someone to pretend to like them.
Also just want to mention that pretty often guys are being paid to "manage" OF accounts so youre usually texting a guy who just tells you what you want ot hear.
Idk no way I’m giving people money for a service that they have to pretend to have interest in me. Subjective but I’m not a big fan of strip clubs for that reason.
Agreed. If it's not someone who genuinely knows you and likes you there's no point. Either, A. You're the casual hookup type - get on the apps and find a casual hookup for free. If no look there, free porn. B. You're the real feelings type - you might not want to see randos naked anyway so you for sure can't justify *paying* for it and you'd want someone to *really* care about you not pretend for money.
Considering you're more than likely chatting with her boyfriend or someone else entirely anyway, yea it's pretty sad.
The insecurity radiating off the comments on this post could power electrical grids the world over for millennia.
I just wanted to see a specific woman's tits.
I be wanting to fuck them smh 🤦🏻♂️
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Loneliness.
I respect that you guys have cash to spare and want personalized porn, more power to you. But you’ve totally fucked up the online dating market now as tinder is basically just girls selling their onlyfans now.
100%. After my wife’s passing I dabbled in dating apps. Met a few nice women but most of them in there are OF models that refer you to their link. It’s impossible.
People form an emotional bond with celebrities and content creators. There’s a term for it (but I can’t remember what it’s called). It’s really big with content creators on places like YouTube and TikTok. Basically, the viewer feels like they have some sort of emotional bond with this person. Almost as if they’re close friends, despite the content creator not even knowing who they are. It’s very common. I’d wager a gamble that the same goes for onlyfans, except it’s much more intimate because she’s undressing for “you”.
Parasocial relationships(not the correct spelling but Ludwig talked a lot about it in his video “I am not your friend”
It's called a parasocial relationship, https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parasocial_interaction
Guys that buy video games instead of playing free ones, why? Guys who pay for a gym membership instead of just jogging, why? Guys who eat out instead of making their own food cheaper, why? Guys who pay for streaming subscription instead of watching something for free on YouTube, why? Guys who buy expensive clothes instead of cheap clothes, why? Anyways, I just don't get why people lose their minds over paying content creators for nice porn.
Because the video games you pay for tend to be better than free ones Gyms have more equipment and stuff to help with certain body parts and working out and it can be a more sociable place as well. Because food at restraunts tend to be of better quality and again. Depending on its reputation and rating. It can also be a social gathering for relatives and friends to meet up and connect. YouTube censors a lot of movies and TV shows unless you pay YouTube for said movies of TV shows. Someone illegally uploading a full movie or TV show that isn't there's isnt in YouTube T&Cs and is copyright. Streaming services aren't illegally uploading a full movie or TV Show Because expensive clothes are of better quality than cheap ones I don't understand how onlyfan content creators are any different than some person uploading their porn to pornhub or something for free. Higher quality porn... 🤣🤣🤣. No such thing.