I know this isn’t what you were asking but…
My partner was the most jealous person in the world. Can’t be friends with this girl, have to check in with her constantly, this and that. Then she went and cheated on me.
Honestly none of these responses strike me as reassuring. I think these men find their partners’ lifestyle/personality to be helpful but there hasn’t been any acts or habits. And yea cheaters won’t let you be happy because they themselves are unfaithful. It’s a twisted psychology that I definitely have picked up on in the past.
The person who cheated on me I genuinely thought would never do that so I honestly don’t know how you predict it. Shit sucks out there man, it’s due to our hyper-sexualized and greedy society. Nobody believes in life after death, nobody has values or anything so why the fuck not just get drunk and fuck someone you find attractive. Everything is about material fulfillment.
For the most part she is damn near oblivious when she is being hit on, which is quite a bit. I mean sex just doesn't occur to her much especially any more. It is just not high on her priority list, and therefore she is not actively seeking it elsewhere. She expects me to be ready to go once she puts her mind to it, which I'm not a huge fan of, but will take what I can get when I get it.
She works from home and is generally a homebody and we have a Ring camera so I can see whenever someone is at the house.
She’s such a homebody I’m not even sure how that would be possible. She’s either at work, at home, or out with me.
She pays all the bills, if she wanted to be with someone else it'd make way more sense for her to dump me instead of cheat while supporting me lol
I know this isn’t what you were asking but… My partner was the most jealous person in the world. Can’t be friends with this girl, have to check in with her constantly, this and that. Then she went and cheated on me.
Honestly none of these responses strike me as reassuring. I think these men find their partners’ lifestyle/personality to be helpful but there hasn’t been any acts or habits. And yea cheaters won’t let you be happy because they themselves are unfaithful. It’s a twisted psychology that I definitely have picked up on in the past.
The person who cheated on me I genuinely thought would never do that so I honestly don’t know how you predict it. Shit sucks out there man, it’s due to our hyper-sexualized and greedy society. Nobody believes in life after death, nobody has values or anything so why the fuck not just get drunk and fuck someone you find attractive. Everything is about material fulfillment.
What kinds of acts or habits were you expecting?
My partner doesn't purposefully do anything to reassure me that they are faithful. I trust them fully. But they are introverted and at home a lot.
For the most part she is damn near oblivious when she is being hit on, which is quite a bit. I mean sex just doesn't occur to her much especially any more. It is just not high on her priority list, and therefore she is not actively seeking it elsewhere. She expects me to be ready to go once she puts her mind to it, which I'm not a huge fan of, but will take what I can get when I get it.
Agree. As freeing and inviting as it is, nothing good comes easy!