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Hatred_shapped

Start? That would imply it stopped at some point 


BeautifulArtichoke37

What’s the attraction then?


Hatred_shapped

Life. 


Very-very-sleepy

I laughed cos my ex-husband would have said this. hahaha


EstablishmentKey5676

I manage to get her upset without even saying anything


madeofice

That’s because you should’ve said something


Red-Dwarf69

But if you said something, it would be the wrong thing and also upsetting. Neat, isn’t it?


CarltheWellEndowed

Annoyed, fairly regularly (I couldn't live with me so I cannot blame her). Passing anger? A couple times a week maybe. Actually mad? Rarely. Maybe a couple times a year.


neondragoneyes

Every time I inhale. Every time I exhale.


doomsday344

once a month


Fogarache

OMG! How is that possible?


baap_ko_mat_sikha

Lucky


baltinerdist

Two to three times in the ten years or so we’ve been together. We just talk to each other. If something is bothering us, we don’t let it get to the point of being upset. There has never been raised voices, insults, expletives, fights, not one time. I genuinely don’t understand people who live with fighting in their household. Use grown up words. Talk to each other. You supposedly love this person, don’t do things that hurt them.


paco1764

All day, every day. It's exhausting.


TacSemaj

0% because I don't have one.


pullin2

Never. In fact sometimes I ask if everything's OK, and she says:"I'M FINE!!" really loud.


LroyJ

Like.. per day??


maiden_burma

daily stuff i dont do. Stuff i do do. Stuff she asked me to do but i did them 'wrong' if i acted like her i wouldnt blame me if she divorced my ass. But it's like a chihuahua vs a big dog. the chihuahua gets away with abject violence whereas the big dog would be in the pound for looking at someone wrong


FactOk3586

Weekly it's a joy to be married 😐


ilContedeibreefinti

What kind of things does she get mad about?


FactOk3586

Cause I cracked the egg shell....


dassketch

Are you even married if the answer isn't "when *isn't* she? Ha haaaaaa, I gotta go drink now..."


Prudii_Skirata

My wife has only gotten mad at me once, near the beginning of our relationship... Not sure when it'll finally blow over, but we're 2 decades in at this point. I'll update if things change 😅


truncated_buttfu

I hear her upset maybe once per month or so. She's a very calm and zen person. I think she's been properly upset with me three times in the 11 years we've been together. Upset enough to raise her voice that is. There have been some sighs and grunts as well through the years of course.


dixiedregs1978

Maybe a few times in the last 40 years. We talked it through and got it behind us.


ailenchu04

We haven't been angry in 2 years, thanks to some very good techniques we use.


_pout_

You're both that good at Judo?


SnooTigers1583

Interested in the techniques you are describing, if you want to share them ofcourse


maiden_burma

his wife's been dead for 2 years. No, no he didnt do it. It was natural. It was her time


toskies

Actually upset, probably a few times a week. It's usually when too many things annoy her at once. My wife seems perpetually annoyed with me based on how she acts around me or how she answers me when we're having a conversation. She gets kind of mean pretty frequently though. Nothing physical. Just sharp-tongued.


paco1764

Same. Really puts a damper on my day to day life.


NefariousnessSea4710

I don’t think my wife has ever been “mad” at me she’ll get irritated and annoyed sometimes but in about 15 minutes she’s over it. I definitely can be annoying but I blame that on my autism 😂 we’ve only been married for two years and dated for 3 so there’s definitely still plenty of time for her to be mad at me


maiden_burma

my wife is also over it in short order. But i am not. Her yelling at me still hurts even if she's forgotten all about it 2 minutes later


NefariousnessSea4710

Bro are you me? That truly is the most irritating this she does acts like nothing happened and then is upset because I’m still holding a grudge from 15 minute ago and need to process my emotions 😂


maiden_burma

i might be you. I'm autistic as well :p dated for 5 years, married for 1 i love her


Muted_Preparation_13

Imagine getting married


goated95

My wife and I haven’t fought in a while. She’ll feel a way when I do some small shit around the house that kinda annoys her but that’s anybody lol


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NefariousnessSea4710

Damn son you got close to hippos? That’s sick


From_Adam

Been married since 2010. We’ve never had an argument where we raised our voice at one another. Doesn’t mean we don’t get annoyed with one another at times.


mtl_jim2

Whenever I do something to piss her off


azuth89

Most of the time we're more like...lovingly exasperated with each other lol. We've had a few fights but it's not even once a year these days. We did have some stuff to learn about each other and conflict resolution early on and had more back then but hey, live and learn.


Louisville82

Seriously upset? Maybe 2-3 times in 20 years. Annoyed, maybe once a month?


Historical-Pen-7484

Hardly ever upset with me, but upset about something in general I'd say is several times a week.


sbwcwero

Almost never. We have been living together now for two years. She got upset at me one time because I said something I hiding have. That’s the only time and she’s never brought it up. I tend to still apologize for it and she doesn’t ever think about it


Sideshow-Bob0000

Daily


breddif

0% at the stuff she should be, but randomly at something really really small or odd.


TacoStrong

Like 1-2 times in the last 15 years? Little disagreements here and there are more common but for her or I to be truly upset just doesn’t happen, we flow.


feedmedamemes

Not often, only when I start to get absent minded to the relationship because of stressful situations which I then tend to overthink. So really not that often. What are you guys doing?


MannerNo7000

Is it because you are the embodiment of your name?