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As the titles claimed I (27 m) want to become more confident and charming with women, romantically. I have no issue talking with them and being around them. My , self-perceived, issues it that I don’t know how to take it further than that , in person or online.
Growing up I was introverted and didn’t socialize much. So I didn’t develop the social skill to properly court someone into a relationship. By a struck a luck I was able to have a girlfriend for a few year. Now I’m single again and still a novice at courting.
Is there a book recommendations? YouTubers? Podcasts? To help me be better at this. *** I don’t intend to be a player or a womanizer. I’m not interested in hypermasculinity advice that degrades women to my benefit. I want to be a chill guy that knows how to court women I’m interested in to want to get into relationship with me.***
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I’m 23 so my knowledge is limited but what I’ve learned is to slowly push boundaries as you get more comfortable with her. If a chick likes you then she’ll be fine with this. If she doesn’t then she won’t and she’ll either say something or pull away. Hug her. Then hug her for longer. Brush against her. Put your arm around her. If she initiates touch then expedite the process. Rest a hand on her thigh or stomach. Eventually you just gotta go in for the kiss and then you’re pretty much set. You don’t gotta go in blind though. A massive tell that she wants this is when you’re really close face to face, she’ll look into your eyes endearingly
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I’m 23 so my knowledge is limited but what I’ve learned is to slowly push boundaries as you get more comfortable with her. If a chick likes you then she’ll be fine with this. If she doesn’t then she won’t and she’ll either say something or pull away. Hug her. Then hug her for longer. Brush against her. Put your arm around her. If she initiates touch then expedite the process. Rest a hand on her thigh or stomach. Eventually you just gotta go in for the kiss and then you’re pretty much set. You don’t gotta go in blind though. A massive tell that she wants this is when you’re really close face to face, she’ll look into your eyes endearingly