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Thisiswhyimbroke.com might be good for brainstorming.
fountain pen can a nice desk ornament, and it’s fun to scribble with it when your stuck on something.
nice pair of leather shoes/boots, possible handmade by an artisan. I’m fascinated with this myself.
Fancy Italian espresso machine/milk foamer thing.
Starting some kind of collection can be fun, every year you can him a vintage stamp lol. Sounds kinda weird but a memory can be associated with each one and it’s might be cool after a while. Always some excitement for the novelty of a new one. Maybe marvels also.
Recliner chair / gaming chair
Heated/ cooled / weighted blanket.
Fossil or cultural artifact in a nice case/frame.
Adjustable weight dumbbells
Old time-y fixed blade razor / safety razor (maybe not the best idea if young kids have access to your bathroom)
Mechanical keyboard
Heated mug
Reading pillow
Massage gun / percussion thingy
Leather gloves
Duck tape
Chlorine
Bone saw
Vat of acid
Fake passport
1,000,000 in unmarked bills
Fake glasses with attached nose
🤣 I used to work as an install haz mat specialist and let's just say I know how to get those chemicals in large quantities so I first read that like "weird, but okay and doable?"
Hmm let’s see he has a 29 year old wife that makes time for him 5-7 days a week and wants to buy a 3 fold Father’s Day gift. I’d say he has enough haha!
Thoughtful of you!
Its a bit hard to think of a pure luxury thats not an experience or practically useful. Maybe something like an assortment of fancy chocolate.
Honestly as a sleepy dad, just getting a day off from childcare to relax is always top of mind.
Other things that come to mind would be some leather good (e.g. briefcase, backpack, folio, wallet).
Really nice slippers, high-end underwear, artisan beard wax/oil, high quality beard trimmer, top shelf liquor, scotch smoker, fancy coffee maker like a japanese sphion, or if your guy is open minded a spa day, professional massage, or even a manipedi. Most men don't get much physical contact outside of thier significant others so while it might raise his eyebrow, he may find he really enjoys being pampered.
You can get funky with the different smokes and strengths. Maybe you do some pork tenderloin with your scotch and give a little cherry or Applewood a go. It's not better or worse, just different, plus it feels fancy af.
Depends on how much you want to spend, and also what his interests are.
I have spent a few grand on audio gear that hooks up to my computer. And the reason I did _that_ was because I wanted to experience luxury headphones. I love music and wanted to spend my time listening via the best thing I could afford. The pair I ended up with cost > $2000.
So I found the headphones I wanted, then worked backwards from there to get gear that would drive them properly. I spent months figuring it all out.
I will note that my wife has an incredibly difficult time picking out gifts for me, because I never want simple things and the stuff I want is often quite expensive.
This stuff was way out of her price range. In this case I saved my money for _months_ in order to be able to buy it all.
For what it’s worth, listing to music on those things is an experience, and one I get to enjoy every day. Push your guy to think big, and hopefully you can work together to find something amazing for him.
The original Meze Empyreans.
They’ve been replaced by ones that are, apparently, even better.
[Empyrean 2 @ MezeAudio](https://mezeaudio.com/products/empyrean2)
Edit: [here](https://www.schiit.com/products/jotunheim-1) is the headphone amp I used with it. You can bundle the digital->audio converter in with it, or buy another device separately.
WOW. I have been in the audio world for a little bit now and I know there are expensive things, but that's unreal. 8-110k frequency response though, silver plated circuitry in the cable. sex 🥵
You literally can't hear most of that frequency response range. Typical humans hear 20-20,000 Hz. Either they're selling snake oil or a product you can only use about 1/5th of. You're wasting your money.
Ah yes. Ignoring facts to reinforce your FEELing that just because it’s ludicrously expense it means that it’s higher quality and that you’re not actually just being ripped off.
Typical audiophile. Y’all are insufferable.
The fact you are so invested in this, to me, is funny. It's like you're taking an anti-audiophile stance. As if, my opinion on quality is less important than your opinion.
So really, how am I any more insufferable than you? Who is the snob here?
So pointing out that the data says "audiophile" equipment is snake oil makes me "so invested?" Oookay. Is it an "anti-audiphile" stance? Yeah, maybe. I'm not sure why you care though.
Spend your cash how you want, dude, but you're not hearing anything I'm not.
Have a great day!
My original comment, says, they are "unreal" expensive. Nobody is arguing that they aren't ridiculous. But you seem to be passionate about how other people spend their money.
I don't own those headphones and I guarantee you I am hearing things you don't.
Starting out lovely 🥰 you as well.
In general I’d say it’s pretty satisfying when items are substantial, durable, required some level of craftsmanship to create, and have a function.
r/buyitforlife and r/bifl are probably good places to check.
My wife got me a nice leather bag that made me feel incredibly grown up and put together (but I don’t commute anymore, so I haven’t used it in years).
She also said “you never buy anything for yourself” and convinced me to drop more than the Blue Book value of my car at the time on a watch (not saying much as it was a 20 year old Civic, but still 😅).
Nice binoculars were a great gift when we were about to a take a vacation out in nature. If I had more open sky I’d probably ask for a telescope.
Cameras, bikes, high end knives, cookware, or glassware, coffee/espresso… I think folks get into those for similar reasons, but that all depends on his taste.
As far as experiences: she got me a weekend blacksmithing class ~10 years ago and I still think “yeah, I could do that” whenever we walk by the blacksmith at the Renn Fest.
Nice watch (see r/watches for suggestions)
$1500 set of golf clubs + $500 worth of lessons
Audiophile setup
$2k worth of gym equipment
Good chance at least one of those he’s thought about pursuing but didn’t because of the associated cost behind it
If he has other hobbies you can look into ways of upgrading his current gear
When I got engaged, my wife bought me a hand-carved meerschaum pipe, some pipe tools, fancy tobacco, and a monogrammed case to carry them in.
That kit plus a nice drink makes any evening thoughtful, warmly pleasant, and indulgent. And I get tons of compliments every time I take my pipe and kit to the cigar bar/cigar night with the boys.
Nice trick…wife…
Does he play golf? A golf club fitting combined with lessons would be awesome. Or a round at a fancy course
A nice outfit / clothes. Think Peter Millar, Vuori, etc
Luxury jeans, Paige or I just leaned about the Japanese selvage jeans culture
Nice blazer.
A membership to a boat club if that’s available to you. You don’t have to own the boat but can rent all the time and go out with buddies, friends, or just you two
I haven't seen this mentioned here. This gift will seem off, he might give you the side eye and think you are weird. A Japanese style bidet (one that has a wash and dry, with hot water) for the bathroom he uses. If he has his own bathroom, all the better. My sister got one of these things and when I first saw it I thought it was the dumbest thing ever, and that I would never want to use such a thing, the first time I tried it was weird, but after about 4-5 times, using toilet paper feels like living in the stone age.
This is both practical and luxury. But look for the good ones, they can be a few hundred bucks.
> What do men find to be "luxury" products
Watches, sports cars, (some, mostly italian) motorcycles, (bespoke) shoes/clothes/luggage, furniture, houses, yachts. In some sense also luxury food, drinks and travel.
Dunno if electronics or phones are ever regarded as luxury. I guess some people feel that way, but those are never really marketed as such at least.
But honestly, I dunno if that many men are even interested in the luxury genre. Since you have to be really well heeled to exist in that space in any meaningful way. Like, it's not a single item but a lifestyle. So a (heavily successful) plumber joe might even be a bit offended about getting a rolex since he feels it doesn't represent him or his values. And he feels weird about wearing it. Like he's trying to pretend something he isn't. You know.
Not dissing tho, just some thoughts about the subject.
For luxury…
Ok, men don’t take care our our needs a lot of the time. Like I’ll go buy a friend or family a whole new wardrobe while I have holes in my shoes. Not knowing your hubby I’ll make a suggestion that all men would appreciate:
New, nice socks.
Cushy shoe inserts.
We’re either on our feet all day in boots or shoes, or we’re crammed into dress shoes. And our feets is sore!
But some nice new socks, with proper support, and no seams etc. are so fantastic. Couple that with some new Dr. Scholls… man, that’s a little luxury that will put the spring back in a man’s step.
Three in one: a rifle with which to hunt the most dangerous game... man
Bespoke tailoring?
A class where he learns to make furniture? (Luxury: he can make himself a throne)
A threesome, a forklift, an ermine mantle.
Hire a private chef to make his favourite food, or take him to a Michelin Star restaurant for a full tasting menu.
Spa membership.
Silk robe in which to reflect on the events of the day in his Sanctuary (he will need a Sanctuary for this)
Some of these are jokes or you can mix & match if the joke ones sound cool. It helps to narrow it down if you can mention what sorts of things he likes? There are usually luxe versions of pretty much anything.
Reflecting on this some more, perhaps the most luxurious gift is power. Does your husband wield much power? Could he wield more? Elections can be logistically tricky and orders of succession can take a lifetime, but extant rulers can be usurped by sinister means (treachery). If you don't want to get your hands dirty, convince him to overthrow a powerful person under cover of night. This has the added bonus of granting you unseen influence, becoming the power behind the power etc. Much to reflect on, there are of course risks involved and I can't see into the future any more than you can.
Buy your husband a Rolex if it is within budget.
Edit: check out the submariner date, the date just or the explorer.
Ads will be glad to procure you a piece to celebrate a special occasion with your husband so you may not worry about waitlists too much.
Edit2 based on the recent comments: I would recommend you go to a Rolex store that sells ONLY Rolex watches. Other stores that sell other jewelry will try to force you to buy other jewelry before they sell you in a Rolex.
I am a bit against this with Rolex currently playing a game of artificial scarcity. You have to pretty much beg an AD to even be considered for one and buy a bunch of jewelry just for the privilege to get one of their watches. Don't get me wrong I would love to buy a Rolex but not at the current super inflated market (e.g. a base Daytona is like $15k msrp if you can find one and rn they go for about $35k in the secondary market).
Plenty of other good luxury watches out there that cost less and sometimes perform better. OP look into Omega, Cartier, Zenith, etc.
I understand where you are coming from but it is based on your personal experience that you find it hard to get a Rolex. OP is not looking for a Daytona. Just a great gift. I think she will be fine if she goes to a Rolex store that sells only Rolex watches and is honest about her intentions.
Plus no matter what you put it, a Rolex is a Rolex. It has the brand and prestige.
That's been the experience for pretty much everyone myself included. Just check out forums and the /r/watches subreddit. I gave Daytona as an example because that's a popular model of theirs. Regular OPs and datejusts are $4-5k on top of msrp on secondary markets. I do agree it is a fantastic luxury watch and probably the most prestigious brand. Just giving my opinion so OP doesn't get scammed etc
For *luxury*, get him a watch.
If you don’t know where to start, ask for suggestions on r/watches. Give your target budget and describe your husband’s taste.
We need a budget for the luxury item. There’s many segments of luxury.
Here’s some examples of things I would like because I’m in need of a new bag and these are the ones I had my eyes on.
https://www.montblanc.com/en-us/briefcases_cod1647597305478641.html
https://www.ysl.com/en-us/briefcases/sac-de-jour-briefcase-in-grained-leather-656670DTI0Z1000.html
https://www.montblanc.com/en-us/briefcases_cod38063312418301626.html
Edit: another good briefcase on the lower end by coach
https://www.coach.com/products/metropolitan-slim-brief/55565.html
I love my sailcloth wallet and my Hoka recovery slips as house shoes.
I've recently added a hot air balloon ride to my bucket list of things I want to do.
I'm a watch and liquor guy. I have an extensive collection of whiskey, brandy, and rum, and I'm expanding my knowledge of Cognac and champagne/cava right now. I also collect mechanical watches. Let me know if you have any questions in either of those subjects.
Also, my wife got me an Ooni Karu 16 recently, and I'm really enjoying making my own pizzas
Luxury on a budget - find it at Costco!
A fancy meal can be had for $50 - $100. I'd do a three course - appetizers, dinner with wine, dessert + dessert cocktail. If you're looking for a "manly" recipe: https://www.epicurious.com/recipes/food/views/asian-style-flank-steak-236563. It's GOOD!
You could also try to find a comedy show + night stay at a hotel.
For early risers, schedule an in-home massage + followed by full english breakfast.
\*Nice\* shaving soap and a shaving brush. Really good coffee. A bottle of scotch. An expensive top shelf (ie specialty butcher) piece of steak to grill. ie get something he normally likes and uses, but get the special version.
Depends what he’s into. If he’s into pc gaming something like a wireless mouse with charging mousepad like the g903 is awesome. A gmmk mechanical keyboard would be luxurious as well.
If not that then is he into hunting? Comics? Anime? Get him a cool utility knife or bladed weapon from his favorite show.
I think you should get him a luxurious top of the line item that fits into his hobbies or interests. For example if he’s artsy get him the best most expensive medium to use or if he’s into music high end speaker or headphones. I know for many parents we buy the best items that fit in our budget, not necessarily the tip of the line items.
Figure out things he enjoys that are expensive and he wouldn’t buy himself. Fancy chocolates and candies or snacks are great but I always complain about the cost. I love getting them as gifts. Not many guys get flowers so it’s a bit of a luxury. Whether he likes them or not the gesture is unique and huge. I like expensive healthcare and skin products too because I don’t know what to get and would complain if I knew how much they cost but they are really nice when you have access to them. Definitely a nice handmade bar of men’s soap. Those are a big difference and nice luxury. For something more expensive, a bidet was the best luxury upgrade I’ve experienced.
For an experience, try a straight razor shave at a nice barber. It’s an experience that a lot of men today have never had, but leaves you feeling completely fresh and pampered, in a manly way.
Wet shave at a barber. It's basically the men's version of a spy treatment. I would wager a trip to an exotic destination would be good too. Id you guys can manage to go away for a week or two to a country you've never been.
If you want something special that will last, I would say a really nice watch.
If you want something that won't last, I know a lot of guys love a good bottle of whiskey.
[A pair of RM Williams boots in Chestnut](https://www.rmwilliams.com/uk/comfort-craftsman-boot-chestnut-kangaroo-leather.html?lang=en_GB). Supremely comfortable and a buy it for life item.
Depends upon budget.
Nice wristwatch is always welcome, and covers all three categories. Expect to spend some money, though.
Piece of art would be a good alternative.
Great desk lamp.
Rare book.
Luxury or vintage stereo equipment. Record player, new vinyl, pimp 2-channel tube stereo amplifier, vintage speakers.
Most of these you can find in good used condition at reasonable prices on eBa* or boutique websites.
Good hunting!
My parents gave me a €2k budget to buy art when I turned 40.
I bought a fantastic painting from a local artist that’s been on my wall ever since and a source of joy.
A nice bottle of cologne (baccarat rogue 540) or samples of nice colognes to see what he likes from twisted lily. Once I tried it I didn’t want to go back to pleb perfumes.
That SO depends on what he’s into. To me a “high end” good would be a pair of Air Jordan 1 Chicagos, or the signed Brandon Tanev helmet I’ve had my eyes on for 6 months, to him it may be a high end watch, a handmade wallet or something similar in that vein. That said if there ISNT a particular hobby or interest he has then I would definitely say leveling up something he already has and USES, ie: don’t get him a fancy pen if a pen is just a simple tool for him. An upgrade in his wallet, a nice pair of shoes he’s interested in. Also ask yourself, is there something in particular you KNOW he likes but would never spend the money on himself? If there is then go that route if you know specifically what it is, if there is but you ARENT sure of the exact model, design etc… then a gift card so he can spoil himself!
Honestly a YSL, Prada or Louis Vuitton wallet is both within budget and luxury. I had my Louis Vuitton wallet for 4 years and it literally looks the exact same as the time I got it. It has my initials in it and I love it.
I paid 400 for it 4 years ago, it's still around the same price.
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To me a luxury item would be something I want, but I'm too cheap to buy for myself. Something tailored to my interests - For me it would be a high quality tool, or something for my Jeep.
If my wife planned a trip, something with my interests in mind, handled all the details, and just said - "On X date we are going to such and such and doing this and that." I'd consider that a huge luxury.
What does he eat or drink? There's some pretty higher end, rarer bourbons, scotch and even beers out there if that's his style. Does he grill? Steaks delivered is nice
Ask him. It doesn't have to be a total surprise. He can point you in the right direction and then you take it the rest of the way. Maybe he likes watches. Or pens. Or briefcases. Or expensive perfume (this is one where you would be a better judge because you're the one who has to smell it). Or maybe he thinks luxury is a complete waste of money and wouldn't enjoy it.
And if you want to hit all three, it won't be cheap but a car would do it. The right car is an experience in itself, one that gives you a great feeling the first time you drive it (at least for the first two years or so). It's a basic utility tool because it lets you transport people and materials from point to point. And it's potentially a luxury good if you get a nice one (which contributes to the "experience" bit). Especially with modern EVs, you can get a car that's crazy fast/sporty AND still practical enough to be the daily driver and buy groceries with. With conventional fuel cars, a fast sporty car wouldn't be so practical as a daily driver for a variety of reasons (high fuel consumption, lack of interior space from the large engine, expensive servicing, lower reliability from more stressed/complex components etc).
I describe "luxury" as something I want but can't justify the price to myself. I'd think about something related to his hobbies and interests or maybe a regular use item that he grumbles about not being up to task or good enough quality.
If he cooks maybe a really nice chefs knife and steel
Is he a movie/streaming guy? Maybe he's been after a big 4k OLED
He sporty? Some trick footwear and kit
He a handyman? A bunch of new power tools
Hope that helps get the ball rolling
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Thisiswhyimbroke.com might be good for brainstorming. fountain pen can a nice desk ornament, and it’s fun to scribble with it when your stuck on something. nice pair of leather shoes/boots, possible handmade by an artisan. I’m fascinated with this myself. Fancy Italian espresso machine/milk foamer thing. Starting some kind of collection can be fun, every year you can him a vintage stamp lol. Sounds kinda weird but a memory can be associated with each one and it’s might be cool after a while. Always some excitement for the novelty of a new one. Maybe marvels also. Recliner chair / gaming chair Heated/ cooled / weighted blanket. Fossil or cultural artifact in a nice case/frame. Adjustable weight dumbbells Old time-y fixed blade razor / safety razor (maybe not the best idea if young kids have access to your bathroom) Mechanical keyboard Heated mug Reading pillow Massage gun / percussion thingy Leather gloves Duck tape Chlorine Bone saw Vat of acid Fake passport 1,000,000 in unmarked bills Fake glasses with attached nose
🤣 I used to work as an install haz mat specialist and let's just say I know how to get those chemicals in large quantities so I first read that like "weird, but okay and doable?"
Duck tape from actual ducks tho. Not the cheap goose copies.
Make sure to get some with extra quack, too.
This…this was good
Hmm let’s see he has a 29 year old wife that makes time for him 5-7 days a week and wants to buy a 3 fold Father’s Day gift. I’d say he has enough haha!
Thoughtful of you! Its a bit hard to think of a pure luxury thats not an experience or practically useful. Maybe something like an assortment of fancy chocolate. Honestly as a sleepy dad, just getting a day off from childcare to relax is always top of mind. Other things that come to mind would be some leather good (e.g. briefcase, backpack, folio, wallet).
Maybe a really nice pocketknife?
Chris Reeve is a great, heirloom quality pocket knife
Not really something that can be obtained on a timeline, but [Grimsmo knives](https://grimsmoknives.com/en-ca) are worth every penny.
Really nice slippers, high-end underwear, artisan beard wax/oil, high quality beard trimmer, top shelf liquor, scotch smoker, fancy coffee maker like a japanese sphion, or if your guy is open minded a spa day, professional massage, or even a manipedi. Most men don't get much physical contact outside of thier significant others so while it might raise his eyebrow, he may find he really enjoys being pampered.
Tell me more about why you love your scotch smoker. Why not just buy an Islay?
You can get funky with the different smokes and strengths. Maybe you do some pork tenderloin with your scotch and give a little cherry or Applewood a go. It's not better or worse, just different, plus it feels fancy af.
I was given 8 weeks of 1-on-1 strength coaching, something I never would have signed up for myself. It changed my life.
Depends on how much you want to spend, and also what his interests are. I have spent a few grand on audio gear that hooks up to my computer. And the reason I did _that_ was because I wanted to experience luxury headphones. I love music and wanted to spend my time listening via the best thing I could afford. The pair I ended up with cost > $2000. So I found the headphones I wanted, then worked backwards from there to get gear that would drive them properly. I spent months figuring it all out. I will note that my wife has an incredibly difficult time picking out gifts for me, because I never want simple things and the stuff I want is often quite expensive. This stuff was way out of her price range. In this case I saved my money for _months_ in order to be able to buy it all. For what it’s worth, listing to music on those things is an experience, and one I get to enjoy every day. Push your guy to think big, and hopefully you can work together to find something amazing for him.
So, which headphones brother. Don’t leave us hanging!
[https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/61GbYZNkk4L.jpg](https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/61GbYZNkk4L.jpg)
OMG! How. Did. You. Know?!
The original Meze Empyreans. They’ve been replaced by ones that are, apparently, even better. [Empyrean 2 @ MezeAudio](https://mezeaudio.com/products/empyrean2) Edit: [here](https://www.schiit.com/products/jotunheim-1) is the headphone amp I used with it. You can bundle the digital->audio converter in with it, or buy another device separately.
WOW. I have been in the audio world for a little bit now and I know there are expensive things, but that's unreal. 8-110k frequency response though, silver plated circuitry in the cable. sex 🥵
You literally can't hear most of that frequency response range. Typical humans hear 20-20,000 Hz. Either they're selling snake oil or a product you can only use about 1/5th of. You're wasting your money.
No but you can FEEL .5hz-100khz. The spec simply shows the range of the drivers capability. Nice job with the facts though.
Ah yes. Ignoring facts to reinforce your FEELing that just because it’s ludicrously expense it means that it’s higher quality and that you’re not actually just being ripped off. Typical audiophile. Y’all are insufferable.
The fact you are so invested in this, to me, is funny. It's like you're taking an anti-audiophile stance. As if, my opinion on quality is less important than your opinion. So really, how am I any more insufferable than you? Who is the snob here?
So pointing out that the data says "audiophile" equipment is snake oil makes me "so invested?" Oookay. Is it an "anti-audiphile" stance? Yeah, maybe. I'm not sure why you care though. Spend your cash how you want, dude, but you're not hearing anything I'm not. Have a great day!
My original comment, says, they are "unreal" expensive. Nobody is arguing that they aren't ridiculous. But you seem to be passionate about how other people spend their money. I don't own those headphones and I guarantee you I am hearing things you don't. Starting out lovely 🥰 you as well.
I’m glad you can appreciate their awesomeness! 🎧 I’m never going back to single pole / unbalanced cables!
In general I’d say it’s pretty satisfying when items are substantial, durable, required some level of craftsmanship to create, and have a function. r/buyitforlife and r/bifl are probably good places to check. My wife got me a nice leather bag that made me feel incredibly grown up and put together (but I don’t commute anymore, so I haven’t used it in years). She also said “you never buy anything for yourself” and convinced me to drop more than the Blue Book value of my car at the time on a watch (not saying much as it was a 20 year old Civic, but still 😅). Nice binoculars were a great gift when we were about to a take a vacation out in nature. If I had more open sky I’d probably ask for a telescope. Cameras, bikes, high end knives, cookware, or glassware, coffee/espresso… I think folks get into those for similar reasons, but that all depends on his taste. As far as experiences: she got me a weekend blacksmithing class ~10 years ago and I still think “yeah, I could do that” whenever we walk by the blacksmith at the Renn Fest.
Business- or first-class tickets somewhere.
This is waste brah
Business class Houston to Tokyo was totally worth it. Slept like a baby and saved 2 days of jet lag.
Full spec Turkish barber visit.
Gonna be double tough to answer without a budget....
Let's say 2k or less. I really haven't done much $$ wise the last few years
Nice watch (see r/watches for suggestions) $1500 set of golf clubs + $500 worth of lessons Audiophile setup $2k worth of gym equipment Good chance at least one of those he’s thought about pursuing but didn’t because of the associated cost behind it If he has other hobbies you can look into ways of upgrading his current gear
A massage
What do you get the man who has everything already… I don’t have a real answer, sorry. Something nice for a hobby?
The thing none of us have. Time.
When I got engaged, my wife bought me a hand-carved meerschaum pipe, some pipe tools, fancy tobacco, and a monogrammed case to carry them in. That kit plus a nice drink makes any evening thoughtful, warmly pleasant, and indulgent. And I get tons of compliments every time I take my pipe and kit to the cigar bar/cigar night with the boys.
A proper coffee machine, duh!
+1. Nice machine and fresh beans!
Nice trick…wife… Does he play golf? A golf club fitting combined with lessons would be awesome. Or a round at a fancy course A nice outfit / clothes. Think Peter Millar, Vuori, etc Luxury jeans, Paige or I just leaned about the Japanese selvage jeans culture Nice blazer. A membership to a boat club if that’s available to you. You don’t have to own the boat but can rent all the time and go out with buddies, friends, or just you two
I haven't seen this mentioned here. This gift will seem off, he might give you the side eye and think you are weird. A Japanese style bidet (one that has a wash and dry, with hot water) for the bathroom he uses. If he has his own bathroom, all the better. My sister got one of these things and when I first saw it I thought it was the dumbest thing ever, and that I would never want to use such a thing, the first time I tried it was weird, but after about 4-5 times, using toilet paper feels like living in the stone age. This is both practical and luxury. But look for the good ones, they can be a few hundred bucks.
Ball hair trimmer with Ivy handle
Sounds itchy
That’s why you trim instead of shave your balls
You sure you didn't mean ivory? Idk what an Ivy handle is.
Oh shit man, ivory
So you're saying those red bumps weren't from razor burn?
Wet shaving set, razor blades soap etc. It can be 100-150 bucks but it is luxury
Get him flowers - he probably has never received those before. Get him a spa day, mani- pedi. Then you give him a nuru massage when he gets home.
> What do men find to be "luxury" products Watches, sports cars, (some, mostly italian) motorcycles, (bespoke) shoes/clothes/luggage, furniture, houses, yachts. In some sense also luxury food, drinks and travel. Dunno if electronics or phones are ever regarded as luxury. I guess some people feel that way, but those are never really marketed as such at least. But honestly, I dunno if that many men are even interested in the luxury genre. Since you have to be really well heeled to exist in that space in any meaningful way. Like, it's not a single item but a lifestyle. So a (heavily successful) plumber joe might even be a bit offended about getting a rolex since he feels it doesn't represent him or his values. And he feels weird about wearing it. Like he's trying to pretend something he isn't. You know. Not dissing tho, just some thoughts about the subject.
For luxury… Ok, men don’t take care our our needs a lot of the time. Like I’ll go buy a friend or family a whole new wardrobe while I have holes in my shoes. Not knowing your hubby I’ll make a suggestion that all men would appreciate: New, nice socks. Cushy shoe inserts. We’re either on our feet all day in boots or shoes, or we’re crammed into dress shoes. And our feets is sore! But some nice new socks, with proper support, and no seams etc. are so fantastic. Couple that with some new Dr. Scholls… man, that’s a little luxury that will put the spring back in a man’s step.
Three in one: a rifle with which to hunt the most dangerous game... man Bespoke tailoring? A class where he learns to make furniture? (Luxury: he can make himself a throne) A threesome, a forklift, an ermine mantle. Hire a private chef to make his favourite food, or take him to a Michelin Star restaurant for a full tasting menu. Spa membership. Silk robe in which to reflect on the events of the day in his Sanctuary (he will need a Sanctuary for this) Some of these are jokes or you can mix & match if the joke ones sound cool. It helps to narrow it down if you can mention what sorts of things he likes? There are usually luxe versions of pretty much anything.
Reflecting on this some more, perhaps the most luxurious gift is power. Does your husband wield much power? Could he wield more? Elections can be logistically tricky and orders of succession can take a lifetime, but extant rulers can be usurped by sinister means (treachery). If you don't want to get your hands dirty, convince him to overthrow a powerful person under cover of night. This has the added bonus of granting you unseen influence, becoming the power behind the power etc. Much to reflect on, there are of course risks involved and I can't see into the future any more than you can.
The risk of getting bespoke tailoring is that he’ll never want to buy off the rack after.
Buy your husband a Rolex if it is within budget. Edit: check out the submariner date, the date just or the explorer. Ads will be glad to procure you a piece to celebrate a special occasion with your husband so you may not worry about waitlists too much. Edit2 based on the recent comments: I would recommend you go to a Rolex store that sells ONLY Rolex watches. Other stores that sell other jewelry will try to force you to buy other jewelry before they sell you in a Rolex.
I am a bit against this with Rolex currently playing a game of artificial scarcity. You have to pretty much beg an AD to even be considered for one and buy a bunch of jewelry just for the privilege to get one of their watches. Don't get me wrong I would love to buy a Rolex but not at the current super inflated market (e.g. a base Daytona is like $15k msrp if you can find one and rn they go for about $35k in the secondary market). Plenty of other good luxury watches out there that cost less and sometimes perform better. OP look into Omega, Cartier, Zenith, etc.
I understand where you are coming from but it is based on your personal experience that you find it hard to get a Rolex. OP is not looking for a Daytona. Just a great gift. I think she will be fine if she goes to a Rolex store that sells only Rolex watches and is honest about her intentions. Plus no matter what you put it, a Rolex is a Rolex. It has the brand and prestige.
That's been the experience for pretty much everyone myself included. Just check out forums and the /r/watches subreddit. I gave Daytona as an example because that's a popular model of theirs. Regular OPs and datejusts are $4-5k on top of msrp on secondary markets. I do agree it is a fantastic luxury watch and probably the most prestigious brand. Just giving my opinion so OP doesn't get scammed etc
For *luxury*, get him a watch. If you don’t know where to start, ask for suggestions on r/watches. Give your target budget and describe your husband’s taste.
BJ/sex
OP says they’re having the beejs/sex 5-7 times a week. OP’s husband is probably sore.
Yeah i saw that. But when a Redditor says “don’t say (this)” i always say it in the comments.
OP knows it’s still a valid answer.
We need a budget for the luxury item. There’s many segments of luxury. Here’s some examples of things I would like because I’m in need of a new bag and these are the ones I had my eyes on. https://www.montblanc.com/en-us/briefcases_cod1647597305478641.html https://www.ysl.com/en-us/briefcases/sac-de-jour-briefcase-in-grained-leather-656670DTI0Z1000.html https://www.montblanc.com/en-us/briefcases_cod38063312418301626.html Edit: another good briefcase on the lower end by coach https://www.coach.com/products/metropolitan-slim-brief/55565.html
I love my sailcloth wallet and my Hoka recovery slips as house shoes. I've recently added a hot air balloon ride to my bucket list of things I want to do.
Flowfold?
Yep! I'm on my third one
I'm a watch and liquor guy. I have an extensive collection of whiskey, brandy, and rum, and I'm expanding my knowledge of Cognac and champagne/cava right now. I also collect mechanical watches. Let me know if you have any questions in either of those subjects. Also, my wife got me an Ooni Karu 16 recently, and I'm really enjoying making my own pizzas
A watch
Wood planer and jointer. S4Sing your own wood boards in minutes is a luxury.
Spa day. There are men’s places if he would prefer.
Luxury on a budget - find it at Costco! A fancy meal can be had for $50 - $100. I'd do a three course - appetizers, dinner with wine, dessert + dessert cocktail. If you're looking for a "manly" recipe: https://www.epicurious.com/recipes/food/views/asian-style-flank-steak-236563. It's GOOD! You could also try to find a comedy show + night stay at a hotel. For early risers, schedule an in-home massage + followed by full english breakfast.
\*Nice\* shaving soap and a shaving brush. Really good coffee. A bottle of scotch. An expensive top shelf (ie specialty butcher) piece of steak to grill. ie get something he normally likes and uses, but get the special version.
Scotch
Depends what he’s into. If he’s into pc gaming something like a wireless mouse with charging mousepad like the g903 is awesome. A gmmk mechanical keyboard would be luxurious as well. If not that then is he into hunting? Comics? Anime? Get him a cool utility knife or bladed weapon from his favorite show.
I got into watches 2 years ago. As well as made to order clothing. There is nothing like a suit that is made to fit only you.
I think you should get him a luxurious top of the line item that fits into his hobbies or interests. For example if he’s artsy get him the best most expensive medium to use or if he’s into music high end speaker or headphones. I know for many parents we buy the best items that fit in our budget, not necessarily the tip of the line items.
Figure out things he enjoys that are expensive and he wouldn’t buy himself. Fancy chocolates and candies or snacks are great but I always complain about the cost. I love getting them as gifts. Not many guys get flowers so it’s a bit of a luxury. Whether he likes them or not the gesture is unique and huge. I like expensive healthcare and skin products too because I don’t know what to get and would complain if I knew how much they cost but they are really nice when you have access to them. Definitely a nice handmade bar of men’s soap. Those are a big difference and nice luxury. For something more expensive, a bidet was the best luxury upgrade I’ve experienced.
Watch
For an experience, try a straight razor shave at a nice barber. It’s an experience that a lot of men today have never had, but leaves you feeling completely fresh and pampered, in a manly way.
If he drinks, try a bottle of their favorite liquor but a really fancy brand
Luxury? Headphones! Watch Ring Bracelet
My wife got me a golden ratchet. I absolutely love it
Wet shave at a barber. It's basically the men's version of a spy treatment. I would wager a trip to an exotic destination would be good too. Id you guys can manage to go away for a week or two to a country you've never been. If you want something special that will last, I would say a really nice watch. If you want something that won't last, I know a lot of guys love a good bottle of whiskey.
[A pair of RM Williams boots in Chestnut](https://www.rmwilliams.com/uk/comfort-craftsman-boot-chestnut-kangaroo-leather.html?lang=en_GB). Supremely comfortable and a buy it for life item.
Depends upon budget. Nice wristwatch is always welcome, and covers all three categories. Expect to spend some money, though. Piece of art would be a good alternative. Great desk lamp. Rare book. Luxury or vintage stereo equipment. Record player, new vinyl, pimp 2-channel tube stereo amplifier, vintage speakers. Most of these you can find in good used condition at reasonable prices on eBa* or boutique websites. Good hunting!
TOOLS! Buy him a tool he wouldn't buy for himself that will make what he does easier in his projects or day to day life!
Badger hair shaving brush. (I think this is frivolous).
My parents gave me a €2k budget to buy art when I turned 40. I bought a fantastic painting from a local artist that’s been on my wall ever since and a source of joy.
One that I always appreciate is a high end steak dinner.
A nice bottle of cologne (baccarat rogue 540) or samples of nice colognes to see what he likes from twisted lily. Once I tried it I didn’t want to go back to pleb perfumes.
That SO depends on what he’s into. To me a “high end” good would be a pair of Air Jordan 1 Chicagos, or the signed Brandon Tanev helmet I’ve had my eyes on for 6 months, to him it may be a high end watch, a handmade wallet or something similar in that vein. That said if there ISNT a particular hobby or interest he has then I would definitely say leveling up something he already has and USES, ie: don’t get him a fancy pen if a pen is just a simple tool for him. An upgrade in his wallet, a nice pair of shoes he’s interested in. Also ask yourself, is there something in particular you KNOW he likes but would never spend the money on himself? If there is then go that route if you know specifically what it is, if there is but you ARENT sure of the exact model, design etc… then a gift card so he can spoil himself!
Honestly a YSL, Prada or Louis Vuitton wallet is both within budget and luxury. I had my Louis Vuitton wallet for 4 years and it literally looks the exact same as the time I got it. It has my initials in it and I love it. I paid 400 for it 4 years ago, it's still around the same price. [goyard, $700](https://www.googleadservices.com/pagead/aclk?sa=L&ai=DChcSEwj7seXkuZaGAxX2Qf8BHRk_Bm4YABBAGgJtZA&ae=2&gclid=Cj0KCQjwgJyyBhCGARIsAK8LVLMT6DQTiRsXTDe38pXD3T7l7Ajxh5Sh6tDVQiIMB-cHTmzW6NcCKvgaAoPBEALw_wcB&ohost=www.google.com&cid=CAESVeD2nvu1jR2Uqbm6_QO642Z7GzzWzxP1OTugzU3EyIsDlCr6kuBDywH0tO5Jrzq9e-CI5mv9MCHbXkrHTBsio9UfUEwdk0-E7F477Ftpbe4hz_LQsnU&sig=AOD64_22CeHPjfMVYpOloSb0b-pN4S3VbA&ctype=5&q=&ved=2ahUKEwi9ouDkuZaGAxVDjokEHT9uAicQwg8oAHoFCAQQnQE&adurl=) [prada, $759](https://www.googleadservices.com/pagead/aclk?sa=L&ai=DChcSEwj7seXkuZaGAxX2Qf8BHRk_Bm4YABATGgJtZA&gclid=Cj0KCQjwgJyyBhCGARIsAK8LVLM8JGn8oi2P9CktskJROZALXk7SCmxMzyw9QnFmu8mORsDy39AohfEaAlHKEALw_wcB&ohost=www.google.com&cid=CAESVeD2nvu1jR2Uqbm6_QO642Z7GzzWzxP1OTugzU3EyIsDlCr6kuBDywH0tO5Jrzq9e-CI5mv9MCHbXkrHTBsio9UfUEwdk0-E7F477Ftpbe4hz_LQsnU&sig=AOD64_3DeQNwtEmK35WjdZFRwBzZNbctcA&ctype=5&q=&ved=2ahUKEwi9ouDkuZaGAxVDjokEHT9uAicQwg8oAHoECAQQKQ&adurl=) [LV, $420](https://us.louisvuitton.com/eng-us/products/pocket-organizer-damier-graphite-006217/N63143?gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAADs-5BvUw2Zy08oOIQrCaWLm-pa59&gclid=Cj0KCQjwgJyyBhCGARIsAK8LVLPFOk3Xn1p6-qkl6ynepzwX43BUaOxUFxb7r3jjfSlilHkX2LG3j5kaAu10EALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds)
Something or several things from BespokePost
To me a luxury item would be something I want, but I'm too cheap to buy for myself. Something tailored to my interests - For me it would be a high quality tool, or something for my Jeep. If my wife planned a trip, something with my interests in mind, handled all the details, and just said - "On X date we are going to such and such and doing this and that." I'd consider that a huge luxury.
Time
So, a watch?
What does he eat or drink? There's some pretty higher end, rarer bourbons, scotch and even beers out there if that's his style. Does he grill? Steaks delivered is nice
Ask him. It doesn't have to be a total surprise. He can point you in the right direction and then you take it the rest of the way. Maybe he likes watches. Or pens. Or briefcases. Or expensive perfume (this is one where you would be a better judge because you're the one who has to smell it). Or maybe he thinks luxury is a complete waste of money and wouldn't enjoy it. And if you want to hit all three, it won't be cheap but a car would do it. The right car is an experience in itself, one that gives you a great feeling the first time you drive it (at least for the first two years or so). It's a basic utility tool because it lets you transport people and materials from point to point. And it's potentially a luxury good if you get a nice one (which contributes to the "experience" bit). Especially with modern EVs, you can get a car that's crazy fast/sporty AND still practical enough to be the daily driver and buy groceries with. With conventional fuel cars, a fast sporty car wouldn't be so practical as a daily driver for a variety of reasons (high fuel consumption, lack of interior space from the large engine, expensive servicing, lower reliability from more stressed/complex components etc).
Is he into any particular media? (Film/TV, music, etc.) Original art is exciting.
I describe "luxury" as something I want but can't justify the price to myself. I'd think about something related to his hobbies and interests or maybe a regular use item that he grumbles about not being up to task or good enough quality. If he cooks maybe a really nice chefs knife and steel Is he a movie/streaming guy? Maybe he's been after a big 4k OLED He sporty? Some trick footwear and kit He a handyman? A bunch of new power tools Hope that helps get the ball rolling
Book a golf trip for him with his buddies.