Normalizing to stop commenting on queer women having a relationship with other women just because "walang manliligaw na opposite sex" kaya babae na rin ang jowa
Normalize not having a religion. Let people believe what they want. Religious people do not mean that they're on the good end of the stick and vice versa.
Treat people who have disabilities with respect no matter kung visible or hindi ang disability, mahirap n ang buhay ng isang taong may disability, habang buhay na naming titiisin ang disability wag nyu nang gatungan pa.
SEX EDUCATION. PUTANGINA!
Sorry, expression lang. Kung members dito ng r/safesexph you'll be surprised gano kababa sex ed dito.
I'm no expert and I don't know that much pero seriously, read the sub and you will be surprised.
1. Stop stressing abt other people's lives 😆 WAG KASI KAYO MANGEALAM KUNG DI KAYO CONCERNED OR MAGBIBIGAY NG USEFUL INPUT hahaha
2. freedom to choose to not have children
3. separation/divorce
4. same sex co-habitation
5. freedom to choose religion (sabi exercised naman daw kaso hindi kaya)
6. Sex education
1. Bawal magkalat ng kahit anong basura
2. Segregate your waste
3. Clean as you go.
4. Always come on any appointment on time or a few minutes before the start of a scheduled activity.
5. DISMISS, then incarcerate all corrupt and rude government officials and employees at first offense with prima facie evidence.
6. All government offices MUST require an examination, & pass stated minimum, before next employment step. Which is an EAT interview to be decided by the audience. The higher the office, the higher the score & exam requirement.
Must also include a non family bsnes job experience. This includes elected offices.
7. Violators of all laws are required min. Penalties & community service, kahit ikaw pa meari ng INC.
Being mindful of others. Not the superficial but the real one where you try not to be of burden to other people or cause inconvenience to other people.
Paghuhubog sa mga bata ng makatarungang pamumuhay, pagkalinga sa kapwa at kapaligiran, paninindigan para sa tama, respeto sa sarili at kapwa, mapanuring pag iisip.
Syempre premium dito ang good example ng mga adults. Hindi sila corrupt, hindi nangungunsente ng corruption o anumang pang-aabuso o pang-aapi, etc., marunong makinig sa katwiran ng mga bata. Ipinapakita ng govt na pinarurusahan ang mga masasama lalo na ang umaabusong nasa kapangyarihan etc.
Lahat may pagkakataong mabuhay nang sapat/ganap at may dangal. Hindi hinahayaang maging sobra sobra at umaapaw sa kasaganaan ang ilan habang hikahos ang nakararami.
Syempre maging normal na tayo ay maging responsable sa sarili at sa kapwa at bansa. Maging Abnormal ang walang pakialam at malasakit basta okay ang kapakanan nya. (Kasama na ang sexualidad)
Napaka woke mo pre. So dapat pala hintayin mag decide ang bata kung san nya gusto mag preschool kasi it's his own decision affecting his knowledge? May mga bagay na dapat parents ang mag decide. Isa dun ang tuli. Tradition sya, yes pero ang daming pros na binibigay ng tuli.
The child cant decide yet. They dont know what us better yet. And they can ve influenced by mere social media posts. Kaya dapat, ikaw na magulang na mas may alam ang magpa tuli
Can you say the same for cases like marriage? The child may like to be married.. As a parent, ok lang sayo kasi.. Yan ang uso? Normalized keme? Woke. Masyado
Queue culture... We're on the way there, but there's a long way to go.
The entitled "me first" mentality is so annoying and doesn't foster a sense of community.
Yo no shit Sherlock. I have a friend ns kung ma late ay almost 4hrs Hahaha. Kaya kapag may kitaan 3hrs ang advance na sinasabi namin sa kaniya e Hahahs
Normalize respectful non-misogynistic millennial dads. Andami ko namemeet between 35-40 na ang misogynistic pero may mga anak na babae. Feeling nila funny parin yung sexist jokes ng mga tatay nila.
morena/moreno skin!!! lagi akong nabubully dahil sa morena skin ko. One time sinabihan pa ako na bakit daw ako kulay tae. Grabe baba ng confidence ko non.
Hyper pigmentation, lalo na sa mga morena/moreno, kesyo ang itim ng ganto itim ng ganyan, malamang ganon kase hindi lang naman iisa ang shade natin sa skin not unless sobra sobra talaga. Nakakairita.
Wag mapanghusga yan lang sapat na.
The next time you see someone enjoying something. that isn't hurting anyone, that's not your cup of tea, instead of saying something negative, train yourself to. think to yourself "I'm glad they are happy," and carry on.
about circumcision:
\-I was scared that I had to go through it, and if 8 year old me were to make a decision, I would be an advocate of no circumcision.
But ... I can't deny it ... I reaped all the benefits of it when I became sexually active lol
So yeah, circumcise your boy, he will thank you for it in the future :)
Duh. Ofc you clean it. It's just more prone to cheese. This is a fact so do better. Circumcised won't get cheese bc dick is open and free; libag lang at most
Idk why giving parents a logic and and explanation triggered them, it only means na totoo Yun and they vent it out sa mga Bata not to ask questions to their actions or morals. I need to learn the hardest part now as an adult. You can only get "respect" if you have a jo, nagbigay Ng Pera or nagbigay Ng mga regalo b. Kaya maglabas Ka Ng "opinion" at sama Ng Loob "okay" lang. I also experience to express myself and reason out only to be slapped by my dad and called "bastos" and that changed my view to him as a parent. Yes, he's a dad but only a "provider" not capable of being a "support".
True, I had told my parents na hayaan ako magdecide. Which is because nagdedecide sila ipa adopt yung rescued kitten ko. Narescue ko siya at 2 months old and she's 7 months now. Yung love ko for her cannot be ''hayaan mo na pag naipamigay na'' thing. Although I have 5 of them, iba parin. I wanna keep her so I told them na ''Kaya humaba diskusyon kasi gusto niyo lagi for me magdecide e''. Mind you that I have my own house and I am just staying at theirs since magpapasko. nasabi ko tuloy na uuwi na lang ako para walang nangengelam sa desisyon ko para sa mga anak ko.
Nakakalungkot na tinuraan kaming maging magalang sa mga matatanda/nakakatanda pero di binibigyan ng pagkakataong mapakinggan kung mangangatwiran. Ang labas kapag gustong sumagot ng bata "bastos at walang galang" pero hindi naman lahat ng mga matatanda ay may galang sa mga bata.
I’ll take this chance as a new mom na baguhin ito.
Dati yung mga parents allowed sila na ilabas lahat ng sama ng loob nila kapag may nagawa mga anak nila na mali pero bakit di pwedeng ganoon din sa mga anak nila. Nung bata ako I felt like ang unfair naman sa mga anak yung ganoong systema. Nagsabi ka lang naman ng thoughts mo yet for them nambabastos ka na.
Kaya yung anak ko hinahayaan ko iexplain side nya. Binibigyan ko sya ng chance mangatwiran para alam kung bat nagawa nya yung isang bagay.
NORMALIZE APPLE PAY!!!!!!
Na compare ko lang sya dito sa UK ultimo vendor sa street may apple pay 😭 it’s so convenient you don’t have to bring your wallet kapag aalis haha
Totoo. Just use your phone haha. Ang hinihiling ko nalang ay mag accept nadin ng apple pay sa simbahan pag nag ask na sila ng donations hahaha. (Dun lang kami napapa withdraw )
This is only discussed during College.
Sana man lang kahit gawing mandatory sa curricula Ng JHS to SHS ito. Because most of the time those where the age nacurious Ang mga kabataan. I only got the proper sex Ed during my college days and under sexual health, gender and reproduction. Sobrang Ganda Ng discussion because from contraceptives, consent and the STIs even the Dos and Dont's are discussed. Pero syempre, conservative Tayo mga Pinoy eh sooooooo....The only thing I (we) can do is to spread awareness and have an open discussion especially sa mga taong nahihiya iopen up Ang mga sexual experiences or even the question of sex itself
I believe Meron yata banned sexologist na pilipino Rin and diniscuss nya Ang topic Ng sex sa Catholic school 😂. I am not surprised if nabanned sya but come on! You hired this person para magturo about sa reproduction.
Normalize sa workplace na cinacall out mga bastos na jokes especially rape jokes. Normalize na magreport whenever we feel harassed babae man o lalaki o lgbtq+
Honestly these jokes wouldn't matter if they don't include other people in their jokes. Like if you wanna make jokes that are bastos then do it in your own circle where noone will get offended
Depende sa HR niyo yan kung ano mas itotolerate nila. Pero kung yung mga oldies na yan eh mataas na position, medyo mahihirapan hr na alisin kung may magreport man sakanila.
Normalize na hindi sambahin mga puting AFAM. Na remember ko nabasa somewhere online galing sa isang puti na "I know they're dying to be with me because I'm white" sabi nya tungkol sa mga pinay.
This. We shouldn’t blindly follow the west’s virtues and their people. I get it kahit me as a man i find white women very attractive but that doesn’t mean i will just worship and simp for them.
Have some respect for yourselves. Ang mga puti ay tao hindi mga diyos kaya wag naman natin tignan sila ng sobrang taas na tao. Sa katotohanan nga yung bansa nila medyo bumabagsak na.
This should be a thing with a LOOOOOOOOT of caveat. Pero SSM could solve a lot of social issues ng pinas like abortions, suicide or depression epidemic amongst the LGB community. So we should really start to explore it now cautiously.
What caveats could there be? If two consenting adults want to build a life together why not let them join their finances and give them the legal rights straight couples have?
Where does this right begin and end? What are their responsibilities? What are the consequences of passing this law in shaping the future of the PH society? Will our unique culture and history stay intact? Or will we just be another dumpster fire waiting to happen? In case of marriage will we have assigned gender roles or we abolish it all together? Will this also apply to our current law, thus abolishing gender roles altogether? So will we also abolish or tweak the current rights against children and women laws, and remove women there? There's a lot more.
There are a lot of adult considerations when passing this law. The reasoning of two consenting adults does not justify passing the law. We have proof of that with straight couples marriage. This should not be passed based on feelings only or musings of impressionable teens.
34(or 35) out of 193 is not "almost all".
https://www.pewresearch.org/religion/fact-sheet/gay-marriage-around-the-world/
And most of them, except maybe give or take 3 countries are in the so called West. Or do you consider non-western countries uncivilized?
Maybe you think that we can just carbon copy their laws then apply it to PH without considerations of culture and norms.
> Where does this right begin and end?
How about afford them the same rights as straight couples? It’s really not that hard. Same beginning and ending as straight couples hard stop.
> will our unique history and culture stay intact
Why won’t it be? Marriage equality doesn’t prevent people from practicing their own cultural norms.
> will we be another dumpster fire waiting to happen
How would passing same sex marriage lead to a dumpster fire exactly? Lots of developed nations have same sex marriage and they have better standards of living. And why blame same sex marriage instead of looking for the root causes of these problems?
> Will this abolish gender roles altogether
How will lgbt couples having the ability to get married abolish gender roles in straight marriages? If you want to follow traditional gender roles do it, having marriage equality doesn’t prevent that.
> should we tweak/abolish laws to remove women there
How is this even a question of course not! Again, providing someone equal rights doesn’t take away from someone else’s. In the first place, allowing for marriage equality and women’s rights are two different things, and therefore two different legislative goals.
Your last sentence is really condescending and preachy tbh, I don’t even want to get into that.
I don’t wanna assume too much but you seem to be strawmanning marriage equality for whatever problems you can think of as opposed to thinking about their root causes. You also seem to think that giving minorities rights takes away from the majority. It does not. Civil rights isn’t a zero sum game, it’s multiplicative. If you’re so fragile that having same sex couples be married is a threat to your worldview, maybe you should revisit your worldview.
So fragile? This is what i get for expecting intelligent discussion here in reddit. You clearly haven't had adult conversations with differing beliefs, if you think my enlisted questions are an attack, by the way you answer it. and you clearly are inconsiderate of other people's rights because of your own victim mentality. Fine, go live in your bubble.
Apologies for the implication but no, I’m not attacking you. My overarching point is, based on your questions I believe you have misguided assumptions that increasing civil liberties takes away from others, which it does not. I’m also criticising the tone, not you as a person so please don’t take it personally. Perhaps my tone was a bit combative as well but that wasn’t the intent.
You’re entitled to your beliefs of course but let me reiterate again, I’m not attacking you as a person, I’m attacking the underlying assumptions and logic in the reasoning presented.
I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. But to give an example of civil liberties taking away from others is punishing a community based on religious belief or beliefs in general, a sample is the anti -lgbt law of some african countries. On the other side, the pronouns law passed by canada penalizing other people for an arbitrary personal belief.
Those are the things we want to avoid, walking in that fine line where we respect both sides without encroaching their, or if there's any, an acceptable compromise. So we cannot just pass the law for simple sentiments and personal decisions, as we for sure will have a lot of lapses that will have lasting impact against the future generations. We want to give them a law that may not deter discrimination all together, cause that's impossible, but at least give them relief that they are properly guided on their rights and responsibilities. Cause if this law succeeds and has a positive impact in our society, baka pwede na mag-ampon as a couple, thus solving a lot of ancillary social issues. Ensuring positive effects on the lgbt community by providing them a chance to have their own family.
Indulge me please: how exactly would the ability of same sex couples oppress straight couples? There’s no limit to marriage licenses issued, churches won’t be forced to bless marriages they don’t recognise, and all this will provide is the legal instruments for same sex couples to build their lives together. Like you said, it can even contribute to adoption rates and acceptance. You gave the example of Canada’s pronoun laws but that’s not really relevant here.
It’s also disingenuous to say it’s being passed for “sentimental” reasons when there are real problems same sex couples face without legal recognition like visitation rights, property rights, inheritance rights, adoption rights, and more. You’ve said it twice now and it comes across as condescending to phrase it as such when there are real problems real people are facing. Again, to clarify before you get offended, I’m not criticising you the person but the wording and its implications.
Edit: no response, no logic, no concrete examples except a straw man example from Canada. Turns out you’re just a sensitive bigoted snowflake after all.
1. Baptism, kawawa bata palang Wala nang choice.
2. Force marriage, kasi nabuntis, katangahan.
3. Magkaanak, Hindi life insurance Yung mga anak, may sariling buhay din sila paglaki.
4. Sex education, bat kunte or Wala talaga sa pinas?
5. Traditional, this generation needs some decency.
I don’t really see an issue in baptism. And if you have an issue with baptism. What about sa pagtutuli. No choice rin at wala kang choice in some scenarios.
I was baptised as a baby but that never dictated my religion. Its just a bath if you choose to see it that way.
The type of Liberalism you speak of will not be beneficial for our country. Parang awa lang ang rami nang problema sa pinas dagdagin mo pa ng culture war please naman hindi mayaman ang pinas.
Mad cringe. The funniest thing is that they can "change" pronouns anytime daw depende sa feelings nila. How very fluid lmao. You can't require strangers to do what you want when it's annoying to them.
They'll keep downvoting but they can't present a structured argument. Feelings lang talaga basehan nila.
Does that give you to objectify free pass us? We don't look at men na parang mauubusan kami. Now I get it why hindi ka nagkaka gf. You feel entitled that Women can objectify themselves while you can't even get a girlfriend in real life so you are validating your opinion by what? You don't even deserve a girlfriend
Tama. Di ko muna pinabutasan tenga ng anak ko kasi etong butas ng tenga ko ngayon, ang panget ng placement (bara bara siguro gumawa lol) at lumaki na 🥹 I want her to make the decision for herself.
KOREK!! I was just thinking about this yesterday after my routine HIV testing. Minsan kasi may stigma na porke nagpapatest eh sexually active kaagad or what.
Sex education yes
Conversion NO!!!
No child should be allowed to do that until they're an adult
You cannot legally smoke or drink until a certain age
People always say their minds aren't fully developed
But why is any kind of surgery allowed
It's insane
Here in DK pinapakita sa knila how to use condom. Doesnt mean na tinuturo sa knila gagawin na nila. Kaya nagiging mga tanga tayo sa sex sa pinas kase imbis na iopen sa atin itinatago Kaya yan anakan kahit mga teenager.
I remember that neneng on news that was ipregnated by her older couzin. She was told na laro laro lang daw ang sex kaya ginawa nila yun willingly. 12 years old lang siya and a few years older si boy. Tignan niyo, they are so misguided by the parents including lack of sex education
Lack of parenting. I honestly would not trust my kid to anyone kahit kamaganak ko pa. Sex ed is one thing pero parents not doing parenting at pinapaubaya yung pag aalaga sa Yaya or kamaganak their child is more likely to be sexually Abused.
I attend a conference on sexual abuse and we discussed Statistics of sexual abuses cases like rapes and molestation the perpetrators is usually a close family member or a very close friend!
Totoo I have a 10 year old daughter, umuwi sya from school sabi nya skin alam nya na raw pano ginagawa ang baby pinaliwanag daw sa school. Medyo nagworry ako yes, but the fact that I dont need to explain it to her awkwardly medyo nakahinga ako ng maluwag. Hahhahha
You can’t stop them from doing it. Kaya nga meron mga teenage pregnancies kase they just do it without the proper knowledge. Kung alam nila yung safe sex Edi sana alam nila na they need to use condom or pills para Hindi mabuntis and to acquire any possible infection/disease
True. Dito sa Aus, grade 5 palang sila May Talk na and regarding safe sex. Yun naman kase talaga purpose nun eh. You do it but safe dapat. They’ll give them banana and condom sila maglalagay dun sa banana
Ang hassle kasi 30 na ko and when I try na bumukod they are guilting me na bumalik sa puder nila now naman na I want to pursue law they are stopping me from doing so… nalulungkot na ko
Indeed! Kaya yung ibang tao nape-pressure sa buhay dahil sa mga societal constructed norms e na dapat by the age of ganto dapat may anak ka na, may pamilya ka na.
Nagpapasa Palang Ng Bill but for sure these fricking closed minded politician Ang kalaban Ng mga Ngo and other senators na support sa ganitong Law. Divorce is a must diro sa pilipinas Lalo na for those people (kahir babae or Lalake) experience abuse and violence.
I think big factor din na malakas influence nang catholic church and/or other religions sa politics. Kaya ang hirap mag pass nang mga bills na "against" sa belief nang churches.
Papaano daw Ang mga "Bata" di raw lalaki na may "buo" Ang Pamilya. Or kaya the "sacred of marriage" this is usually the playing cards na binabato Ng mga tao when it comes to the discussion of divorce. Sa abuse and other factors (by means of cheating or why not) Wala namang pakealam yang "sacredness of marriage" or Yung kapakanan Ng Bata. Mas dapat bigyan nilang pansin Yung magiging domino effects of "tolerating the marriage"
Totoo. Ang daming struggling marriages ng kakilala ko after about 5-10 years na nagsasama kasi prior, puro patwitums lang ang relasyon. Ayaw sa live in kasi against ng religion. Ayan, faced with serious life struggles, halos mabuwag na relasyon pero in the name of religion, titiisin ang abuse in the relationship. 🥴
Normalizing to stop commenting on queer women having a relationship with other women just because "walang manliligaw na opposite sex" kaya babae na rin ang jowa
Stop HIV stigma especially the stereotypical thoughts that HIVs are only acquired from gays. Some people still aren’t fully educated about it.
Sana manormalize na yung hindi pag bbra!!!!
Letting their kids choose the course they will take on college.
Yung pag may birthday ka obligado ka magpainom at magpakain kahit ayaw mo hahahahaha bakit ganon????
Braless anywhere
3.virginity
Get rid of utang na loob culture when it comes to parenting
Hindi pagpapabinyag ng anak habang baby. I want them to choose their religion (or lack of) on their own
Normalize democracy/freedom to choose and respect it, in whatever aspects.
Normalize not having a religion. Let people believe what they want. Religious people do not mean that they're on the good end of the stick and vice versa.
normalize atheism
As an atheist, I agree!!
Treat people who have disabilities with respect no matter kung visible or hindi ang disability, mahirap n ang buhay ng isang taong may disability, habang buhay na naming titiisin ang disability wag nyu nang gatungan pa.
Teach the right words for sex ed at wag gawing taboo ito.
Keeping your maiden name after getting married. Di ko sure kung sa mga nakakasalamuha ko lang pero di sila open sa ganyan haha
Normal at maganda ang Kayumanggi na kulay. Hindi po negro / nognog / marumi, etc.
Hindi obligadong imbitahan ang buong angkan sa kasal. Wag iboto ang mga politikong kurap.
honest question OP, isnt circumcision beneficial on male? hindi ba much hygienic ito?
Considering PH's culture and traditions for progress and not just pushing progress for the sake of it.
SEX EDUCATION. PUTANGINA! Sorry, expression lang. Kung members dito ng r/safesexph you'll be surprised gano kababa sex ed dito. I'm no expert and I don't know that much pero seriously, read the sub and you will be surprised.
1. Stop stressing abt other people's lives 😆 WAG KASI KAYO MANGEALAM KUNG DI KAYO CONCERNED OR MAGBIBIGAY NG USEFUL INPUT hahaha 2. freedom to choose to not have children 3. separation/divorce 4. same sex co-habitation 5. freedom to choose religion (sabi exercised naman daw kaso hindi kaya) 6. Sex education
Parents should stop baptizing their infants. Let them choose their own religious beliefs when the time comes.
Dagdagan ang sauce ng spaghetti sa handa😛
Filipinas are so strict on circumcision literally only had it done bc my Filipina stepmom was so mad about it
1. Bawal magkalat ng kahit anong basura 2. Segregate your waste 3. Clean as you go. 4. Always come on any appointment on time or a few minutes before the start of a scheduled activity. 5. DISMISS, then incarcerate all corrupt and rude government officials and employees at first offense with prima facie evidence. 6. All government offices MUST require an examination, & pass stated minimum, before next employment step. Which is an EAT interview to be decided by the audience. The higher the office, the higher the score & exam requirement. Must also include a non family bsnes job experience. This includes elected offices. 7. Violators of all laws are required min. Penalties & community service, kahit ikaw pa meari ng INC.
Being mindful of others. Not the superficial but the real one where you try not to be of burden to other people or cause inconvenience to other people.
Normalize ang vasectomy. Yung hindi lahat babae ang only option to not have a child - hindi pills, hindi IUD, hindi ligation. pwede din ang vasectomy.
Paghuhubog sa mga bata ng makatarungang pamumuhay, pagkalinga sa kapwa at kapaligiran, paninindigan para sa tama, respeto sa sarili at kapwa, mapanuring pag iisip. Syempre premium dito ang good example ng mga adults. Hindi sila corrupt, hindi nangungunsente ng corruption o anumang pang-aabuso o pang-aapi, etc., marunong makinig sa katwiran ng mga bata. Ipinapakita ng govt na pinarurusahan ang mga masasama lalo na ang umaabusong nasa kapangyarihan etc. Lahat may pagkakataong mabuhay nang sapat/ganap at may dangal. Hindi hinahayaang maging sobra sobra at umaapaw sa kasaganaan ang ilan habang hikahos ang nakararami. Syempre maging normal na tayo ay maging responsable sa sarili at sa kapwa at bansa. Maging Abnormal ang walang pakialam at malasakit basta okay ang kapakanan nya. (Kasama na ang sexualidad)
Wag magpatuli? Yuck. As a parent, dapat gabayan mo anak mo. Kung ganyang logic pala, might as well forget na parent ka.
I'm not saying na wag magpatuli, I'm saying let the child decide for his own body...after giving a proper guidance.
Napaka woke mo pre. So dapat pala hintayin mag decide ang bata kung san nya gusto mag preschool kasi it's his own decision affecting his knowledge? May mga bagay na dapat parents ang mag decide. Isa dun ang tuli. Tradition sya, yes pero ang daming pros na binibigay ng tuli.
The child cant decide yet. They dont know what us better yet. And they can ve influenced by mere social media posts. Kaya dapat, ikaw na magulang na mas may alam ang magpa tuli Can you say the same for cases like marriage? The child may like to be married.. As a parent, ok lang sayo kasi.. Yan ang uso? Normalized keme? Woke. Masyado
Queue culture... We're on the way there, but there's a long way to go. The entitled "me first" mentality is so annoying and doesn't foster a sense of community.
Discipline
Being on time esp pag may galaan. Punyeta minsan umaabot ng 2 hours bago makumpleto lahat. Minsan feeling mo nananadya nalang ang mga puta.
sobrang nakakabastos. tapos yung iba ginagawa pang personality yung pagiging late lagi.
Yo no shit Sherlock. I have a friend ns kung ma late ay almost 4hrs Hahaha. Kaya kapag may kitaan 3hrs ang advance na sinasabi namin sa kaniya e Hahahs
House husband and working moms.
"De-normalize" gluta drips.
Normalize respectful non-misogynistic millennial dads. Andami ko namemeet between 35-40 na ang misogynistic pero may mga anak na babae. Feeling nila funny parin yung sexist jokes ng mga tatay nila.
1. CLAYGO
Not wearing bras! Free the boobies, sobrang uncomfy talaga. How I wish.
No forced indoctrination.
Boundaries
Hard no for number 1. Ambaho nyan pag tumanda. Maawa ka na susubo ng tit* ng anak mo
Kala nila masarap maglinis ng etits na di sanay na nakadisplay. Sakit kaya nung mapasukan ng sabon dati.
shet lakas ng tawa ko dito... isang upvote sayo hahahahaha
Tattoos. Kundi kriminal, rekta kalye impyerno naman 🥹🥲
Going braless 😩
Infantilisation of teens, how are they gonna grow up if you keep treating them like they’re the same as a 5 year old?
Normalize free wifi everywhere
Not wearing under garments. Bra man yan o panty or both.
Sex education , with emphasis on sterilization procedures.
Not forcing the kid to undergo circumcision?????? WTF It's a hygiene thing. Softie generation tlga shuta
Parents not forcing their kids to go to church, sex conversations
pagbibigay advice ng mga walang anak sa mga taong may anak pagbibigay ng advice ng mga hindi kasal sa taong kasal 🙊
morena/moreno skin!!! lagi akong nabubully dahil sa morena skin ko. One time sinabihan pa ako na bakit daw ako kulay tae. Grabe baba ng confidence ko non.
Regular exercise.
This is #1 tbh, daming obese na pinoy these days.
Sex education, please lang.
Hyper pigmentation, lalo na sa mga morena/moreno, kesyo ang itim ng ganto itim ng ganyan, malamang ganon kase hindi lang naman iisa ang shade natin sa skin not unless sobra sobra talaga. Nakakairita.
I was called maitim Kasi from the dad to the oldest (sibling) is fair skinned.
Pagbubukod.
Wag mapanghusga yan lang sapat na. The next time you see someone enjoying something. that isn't hurting anyone, that's not your cup of tea, instead of saying something negative, train yourself to. think to yourself "I'm glad they are happy," and carry on.
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Up on this list.
Employment para sa mga seniors
Huwag maging dugyot. Simpleng pagtapon lang ng basura or pagkeep ng kalat hanggang may makitang basurahan hindi magawa ng iba
Bless the child with Supot lifestyle yes
Filipino time that is on time all the time.
Kids should not be a retirement fund of their parents
In that case dapat lahat ng adults may guaranteed na social and retirement funds.
Ginawang investment yung anak :((
about circumcision: \-I was scared that I had to go through it, and if 8 year old me were to make a decision, I would be an advocate of no circumcision. But ... I can't deny it ... I reaped all the benefits of it when I became sexually active lol So yeah, circumcise your boy, he will thank you for it in the future :)
Mas maraming cons ang circumcision specially when you read studies from first world countries.
Dinadown vote ka sa mga takot sa tuli.
Di pa kasi sila naka try ng uncut hahaha. Mas bawas and dull yung sensation ng mga circumcised compared sa uncut.
not with the women i slept with! :D
Also, the difference between tuli here and in the West is that they tuli their son's during infancy while tuli here is done during pre-adolescence
I agree. AFAIK, puro benefits lang naman makukuha sa pagpapatuli, bakit gagawan pa din ng issue? Lol. Pilit na pilit pagiging woke ng ibang tao.
OP unaware of smelly dick cheese, but most likely knows kups
You seem unaware of soap, water and bathing
Duh. Ofc you clean it. It's just more prone to cheese. This is a fact so do better. Circumcised won't get cheese bc dick is open and free; libag lang at most
Pag separate ng mga anak pag 18 na. No more family drama and gamitan issue.
Bigyan ng chance mangatwiran ang anak. Never invalidate their right na ilabas yung gusto nilang sabihin kapag may argument.
Idk why giving parents a logic and and explanation triggered them, it only means na totoo Yun and they vent it out sa mga Bata not to ask questions to their actions or morals. I need to learn the hardest part now as an adult. You can only get "respect" if you have a jo, nagbigay Ng Pera or nagbigay Ng mga regalo b. Kaya maglabas Ka Ng "opinion" at sama Ng Loob "okay" lang. I also experience to express myself and reason out only to be slapped by my dad and called "bastos" and that changed my view to him as a parent. Yes, he's a dad but only a "provider" not capable of being a "support".
Same OP ganyan din ako sa dad ko kaya lumaki akong malayo loob ko sa kanya and never syang naayos 😔
True, I had told my parents na hayaan ako magdecide. Which is because nagdedecide sila ipa adopt yung rescued kitten ko. Narescue ko siya at 2 months old and she's 7 months now. Yung love ko for her cannot be ''hayaan mo na pag naipamigay na'' thing. Although I have 5 of them, iba parin. I wanna keep her so I told them na ''Kaya humaba diskusyon kasi gusto niyo lagi for me magdecide e''. Mind you that I have my own house and I am just staying at theirs since magpapasko. nasabi ko tuloy na uuwi na lang ako para walang nangengelam sa desisyon ko para sa mga anak ko.
Nakakalungkot na tinuraan kaming maging magalang sa mga matatanda/nakakatanda pero di binibigyan ng pagkakataong mapakinggan kung mangangatwiran. Ang labas kapag gustong sumagot ng bata "bastos at walang galang" pero hindi naman lahat ng mga matatanda ay may galang sa mga bata. I’ll take this chance as a new mom na baguhin ito.
Dati yung mga parents allowed sila na ilabas lahat ng sama ng loob nila kapag may nagawa mga anak nila na mali pero bakit di pwedeng ganoon din sa mga anak nila. Nung bata ako I felt like ang unfair naman sa mga anak yung ganoong systema. Nagsabi ka lang naman ng thoughts mo yet for them nambabastos ka na. Kaya yung anak ko hinahayaan ko iexplain side nya. Binibigyan ko sya ng chance mangatwiran para alam kung bat nagawa nya yung isang bagay.
NORMALIZE APPLE PAY!!!!!! Na compare ko lang sya dito sa UK ultimo vendor sa street may apple pay 😭 it’s so convenient you don’t have to bring your wallet kapag aalis haha
Google pay at samsung pay 😭😭 convenient sana kasi no need na magbitbit ng cash or cards.
Totoo. Just use your phone haha. Ang hinihiling ko nalang ay mag accept nadin ng apple pay sa simbahan pag nag ask na sila ng donations hahaha. (Dun lang kami napapa withdraw )
Tbh sex ed☹️
This is only discussed during College. Sana man lang kahit gawing mandatory sa curricula Ng JHS to SHS ito. Because most of the time those where the age nacurious Ang mga kabataan. I only got the proper sex Ed during my college days and under sexual health, gender and reproduction. Sobrang Ganda Ng discussion because from contraceptives, consent and the STIs even the Dos and Dont's are discussed. Pero syempre, conservative Tayo mga Pinoy eh sooooooo....The only thing I (we) can do is to spread awareness and have an open discussion especially sa mga taong nahihiya iopen up Ang mga sexual experiences or even the question of sex itself
Buti pa kayo!! Sa amin di na discuss ever😭 (sa tingin ko malaking part don na Catholic school kami)
I believe Meron yata banned sexologist na pilipino Rin and diniscuss nya Ang topic Ng sex sa Catholic school 😂. I am not surprised if nabanned sya but come on! You hired this person para magturo about sa reproduction.
Normalize sa workplace na cinacall out mga bastos na jokes especially rape jokes. Normalize na magreport whenever we feel harassed babae man o lalaki o lgbtq+
Honestly these jokes wouldn't matter if they don't include other people in their jokes. Like if you wanna make jokes that are bastos then do it in your own circle where noone will get offended
Na raise to sa work namin tapos sabi ng mga oldies "wag nga kayo gumaya masyado sa westerners lahat nalang ginagawang issue" hinayupak.
Depende sa HR niyo yan kung ano mas itotolerate nila. Pero kung yung mga oldies na yan eh mataas na position, medyo mahihirapan hr na alisin kung may magreport man sakanila.
Normalize na hindi sambahin mga puting AFAM. Na remember ko nabasa somewhere online galing sa isang puti na "I know they're dying to be with me because I'm white" sabi nya tungkol sa mga pinay.
This. We shouldn’t blindly follow the west’s virtues and their people. I get it kahit me as a man i find white women very attractive but that doesn’t mean i will just worship and simp for them. Have some respect for yourselves. Ang mga puti ay tao hindi mga diyos kaya wag naman natin tignan sila ng sobrang taas na tao. Sa katotohanan nga yung bansa nila medyo bumabagsak na.
Hindi yan manonorm kung desperadang purita ka
Paanong di sasambahin? sila daw kasi yung mag aangat sa laylayan ng kahirapan, mindset ng mga nasa poorest state/city dito sa Pinas
Same sex marriage
This should be a thing with a LOOOOOOOOT of caveat. Pero SSM could solve a lot of social issues ng pinas like abortions, suicide or depression epidemic amongst the LGB community. So we should really start to explore it now cautiously.
What caveats could there be? If two consenting adults want to build a life together why not let them join their finances and give them the legal rights straight couples have?
Where does this right begin and end? What are their responsibilities? What are the consequences of passing this law in shaping the future of the PH society? Will our unique culture and history stay intact? Or will we just be another dumpster fire waiting to happen? In case of marriage will we have assigned gender roles or we abolish it all together? Will this also apply to our current law, thus abolishing gender roles altogether? So will we also abolish or tweak the current rights against children and women laws, and remove women there? There's a lot more. There are a lot of adult considerations when passing this law. The reasoning of two consenting adults does not justify passing the law. We have proof of that with straight couples marriage. This should not be passed based on feelings only or musings of impressionable teens.
Almost all of the civilized world has same sex marriage, all these stuff you are saying is no impediment
34(or 35) out of 193 is not "almost all". https://www.pewresearch.org/religion/fact-sheet/gay-marriage-around-the-world/ And most of them, except maybe give or take 3 countries are in the so called West. Or do you consider non-western countries uncivilized? Maybe you think that we can just carbon copy their laws then apply it to PH without considerations of culture and norms.
> Where does this right begin and end? How about afford them the same rights as straight couples? It’s really not that hard. Same beginning and ending as straight couples hard stop. > will our unique history and culture stay intact Why won’t it be? Marriage equality doesn’t prevent people from practicing their own cultural norms. > will we be another dumpster fire waiting to happen How would passing same sex marriage lead to a dumpster fire exactly? Lots of developed nations have same sex marriage and they have better standards of living. And why blame same sex marriage instead of looking for the root causes of these problems? > Will this abolish gender roles altogether How will lgbt couples having the ability to get married abolish gender roles in straight marriages? If you want to follow traditional gender roles do it, having marriage equality doesn’t prevent that. > should we tweak/abolish laws to remove women there How is this even a question of course not! Again, providing someone equal rights doesn’t take away from someone else’s. In the first place, allowing for marriage equality and women’s rights are two different things, and therefore two different legislative goals. Your last sentence is really condescending and preachy tbh, I don’t even want to get into that. I don’t wanna assume too much but you seem to be strawmanning marriage equality for whatever problems you can think of as opposed to thinking about their root causes. You also seem to think that giving minorities rights takes away from the majority. It does not. Civil rights isn’t a zero sum game, it’s multiplicative. If you’re so fragile that having same sex couples be married is a threat to your worldview, maybe you should revisit your worldview.
So fragile? This is what i get for expecting intelligent discussion here in reddit. You clearly haven't had adult conversations with differing beliefs, if you think my enlisted questions are an attack, by the way you answer it. and you clearly are inconsiderate of other people's rights because of your own victim mentality. Fine, go live in your bubble.
Apologies for the implication but no, I’m not attacking you. My overarching point is, based on your questions I believe you have misguided assumptions that increasing civil liberties takes away from others, which it does not. I’m also criticising the tone, not you as a person so please don’t take it personally. Perhaps my tone was a bit combative as well but that wasn’t the intent. You’re entitled to your beliefs of course but let me reiterate again, I’m not attacking you as a person, I’m attacking the underlying assumptions and logic in the reasoning presented.
I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. But to give an example of civil liberties taking away from others is punishing a community based on religious belief or beliefs in general, a sample is the anti -lgbt law of some african countries. On the other side, the pronouns law passed by canada penalizing other people for an arbitrary personal belief. Those are the things we want to avoid, walking in that fine line where we respect both sides without encroaching their, or if there's any, an acceptable compromise. So we cannot just pass the law for simple sentiments and personal decisions, as we for sure will have a lot of lapses that will have lasting impact against the future generations. We want to give them a law that may not deter discrimination all together, cause that's impossible, but at least give them relief that they are properly guided on their rights and responsibilities. Cause if this law succeeds and has a positive impact in our society, baka pwede na mag-ampon as a couple, thus solving a lot of ancillary social issues. Ensuring positive effects on the lgbt community by providing them a chance to have their own family.
God you’re dense
Indulge me please: how exactly would the ability of same sex couples oppress straight couples? There’s no limit to marriage licenses issued, churches won’t be forced to bless marriages they don’t recognise, and all this will provide is the legal instruments for same sex couples to build their lives together. Like you said, it can even contribute to adoption rates and acceptance. You gave the example of Canada’s pronoun laws but that’s not really relevant here. It’s also disingenuous to say it’s being passed for “sentimental” reasons when there are real problems same sex couples face without legal recognition like visitation rights, property rights, inheritance rights, adoption rights, and more. You’ve said it twice now and it comes across as condescending to phrase it as such when there are real problems real people are facing. Again, to clarify before you get offended, I’m not criticising you the person but the wording and its implications. Edit: no response, no logic, no concrete examples except a straw man example from Canada. Turns out you’re just a sensitive bigoted snowflake after all.
1. Baptism, kawawa bata palang Wala nang choice. 2. Force marriage, kasi nabuntis, katangahan. 3. Magkaanak, Hindi life insurance Yung mga anak, may sariling buhay din sila paglaki. 4. Sex education, bat kunte or Wala talaga sa pinas? 5. Traditional, this generation needs some decency.
I don’t really see an issue in baptism. And if you have an issue with baptism. What about sa pagtutuli. No choice rin at wala kang choice in some scenarios. I was baptised as a baby but that never dictated my religion. Its just a bath if you choose to see it that way.
No, What this generation needs is Liberalism like with the US, They are happy there because they accept the wokeness
Woke culture is garbage.
The type of Liberalism you speak of will not be beneficial for our country. Parang awa lang ang rami nang problema sa pinas dagdagin mo pa ng culture war please naman hindi mayaman ang pinas.
They are happy in the US is an overstatement. It is not black and white like being a liberal country or generation will equal to happiness.
Sounds like something a republican would say
kakampink ako sa last election. anong pinagsasabi mong republican, nasa pilipinas ako.
Gustu mo i normalize mga yan? Reading comprehension
Mag correct ng grammar na hindi minamasama...
Normalize not copying what westerners do
This.
true. lalo na yang mga non binary na yan nakaka rindi.. next gagayahin ng pinas is "what are your pronouns?" potanginaaa
Ginagaya na sa UST nga eh. Pukeng ina what are your pronouns my ass. Pronouns? Ano ba satingin mo? Seriously.
Mad cringe. The funniest thing is that they can "change" pronouns anytime daw depende sa feelings nila. How very fluid lmao. You can't require strangers to do what you want when it's annoying to them. They'll keep downvoting but they can't present a structured argument. Feelings lang talaga basehan nila.
Yeah, imagine adult ka na sobrang dami mong kakilala. Then you have to keep track of each of their pronouns for the sake of them not being offended?
Look at the bright side. More queers = less competition. Queer women are often nymphos and easy pussy for us.
Nah bruh this is too far; objects na talaga tingin mo
Women objectify themselves more so than any other man
Does that give you to objectify free pass us? We don't look at men na parang mauubusan kami. Now I get it why hindi ka nagkaka gf. You feel entitled that Women can objectify themselves while you can't even get a girlfriend in real life so you are validating your opinion by what? You don't even deserve a girlfriend
Affection is essentially a basic human need so yes I'm entitled to a companion
My guy. You are not entitled to anything and especially love. You want others love you have to earn it
I'd run away from someone like you. You have an ugly ass mindset tf is wrong with you
I would feel bad for your bf if you do end up kissing my balls every day
I feel bad for myself talking to you HAHHAHAHAHA lol
A companion with your mindset like that? Hell nah
lol look at this incel
...unless it actually elevates one's existence.
Being hubadera nang hindi binabastos.
Ok lang naman yan basta wag lang magreklamo kung tinitignan.
💯💯💯 and not calling them nsmes such as malandj, pokpok, slut, and whore just because she’s a hubadera
Women can work, while men can be househusbands. Depende sa situation
Those are my parents. It's a good dynamic and a change.
Bro r u fr. Women can work in the Philippines and have been working in the Philippines. This isn’t an issue
I think the point is that husbands can be "housebands" as a norm.
This is actually more normal here in the Philippines than in other countries. I know lots of families where the moms are the breadwinners
That's crazy
Wag muna butasan ng tenga yung baby pa 🥲
Tama. Di ko muna pinabutasan tenga ng anak ko kasi etong butas ng tenga ko ngayon, ang panget ng placement (bara bara siguro gumawa lol) at lumaki na 🥹 I want her to make the decision for herself.
Funny lang kasi di pa ako binubutasan ng tenga.
Sex Education, Sex conversations Not to be a taboo
KOREK!! I was just thinking about this yesterday after my routine HIV testing. Minsan kasi may stigma na porke nagpapatest eh sexually active kaagad or what.
Sex education yes Conversion NO!!! No child should be allowed to do that until they're an adult You cannot legally smoke or drink until a certain age People always say their minds aren't fully developed But why is any kind of surgery allowed It's insane
Ma'am/sir, I get your point pero conversation po ang nakalagay sa comment not conversion. Usapan tungkol sa sex sinasabi ni comment
Conversation beh, not conversion
Here in DK pinapakita sa knila how to use condom. Doesnt mean na tinuturo sa knila gagawin na nila. Kaya nagiging mga tanga tayo sa sex sa pinas kase imbis na iopen sa atin itinatago Kaya yan anakan kahit mga teenager.
I remember that neneng on news that was ipregnated by her older couzin. She was told na laro laro lang daw ang sex kaya ginawa nila yun willingly. 12 years old lang siya and a few years older si boy. Tignan niyo, they are so misguided by the parents including lack of sex education
Lack of parenting. I honestly would not trust my kid to anyone kahit kamaganak ko pa. Sex ed is one thing pero parents not doing parenting at pinapaubaya yung pag aalaga sa Yaya or kamaganak their child is more likely to be sexually Abused. I attend a conference on sexual abuse and we discussed Statistics of sexual abuses cases like rapes and molestation the perpetrators is usually a close family member or a very close friend!
Totoo I have a 10 year old daughter, umuwi sya from school sabi nya skin alam nya na raw pano ginagawa ang baby pinaliwanag daw sa school. Medyo nagworry ako yes, but the fact that I dont need to explain it to her awkwardly medyo nakahinga ako ng maluwag. Hahhahha
You can’t stop them from doing it. Kaya nga meron mga teenage pregnancies kase they just do it without the proper knowledge. Kung alam nila yung safe sex Edi sana alam nila na they need to use condom or pills para Hindi mabuntis and to acquire any possible infection/disease
Yes I agree Teenagers prematurely making life changing decisions affect their whole life
Isa sa mga kailangan talga natin yan, Sex Ed.
True. Dito sa Aus, grade 5 palang sila May Talk na and regarding safe sex. Yun naman kase talaga purpose nun eh. You do it but safe dapat. They’ll give them banana and condom sila maglalagay dun sa banana
Itigil ang pangengealam at pagcocomment ng parents sa decision ng kids nila
Kung wala na sa puder ng parents ung anak, this is the right thing to do.
Ang hassle kasi 30 na ko and when I try na bumukod they are guilting me na bumalik sa puder nila now naman na I want to pursue law they are stopping me from doing so… nalulungkot na ko
That is quite extreme and dangerous though. I think engaging in logical reasoning and actually listening is better.
women going out not wearing a bra without being sexualized
Wag mangielam ng buhay ng iba.
No means no and a complete sentence itself.
Forcing two people that are not inlove to get married when someone gets pregnant 🤷♀️
That it's okay to not have a kid or family regardless of age.
Indeed! Kaya yung ibang tao nape-pressure sa buhay dahil sa mga societal constructed norms e na dapat by the age of ganto dapat may anak ka na, may pamilya ka na.
Live-in setup for couples Divorce
Nagpapasa Palang Ng Bill but for sure these fricking closed minded politician Ang kalaban Ng mga Ngo and other senators na support sa ganitong Law. Divorce is a must diro sa pilipinas Lalo na for those people (kahir babae or Lalake) experience abuse and violence.
I think big factor din na malakas influence nang catholic church and/or other religions sa politics. Kaya ang hirap mag pass nang mga bills na "against" sa belief nang churches.
Papaano daw Ang mga "Bata" di raw lalaki na may "buo" Ang Pamilya. Or kaya the "sacred of marriage" this is usually the playing cards na binabato Ng mga tao when it comes to the discussion of divorce. Sa abuse and other factors (by means of cheating or why not) Wala namang pakealam yang "sacredness of marriage" or Yung kapakanan Ng Bata. Mas dapat bigyan nilang pansin Yung magiging domino effects of "tolerating the marriage"
Totoo. Ang daming struggling marriages ng kakilala ko after about 5-10 years na nagsasama kasi prior, puro patwitums lang ang relasyon. Ayaw sa live in kasi against ng religion. Ayan, faced with serious life struggles, halos mabuwag na relasyon pero in the name of religion, titiisin ang abuse in the relationship. 🥴