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A friend (guy) told me na when a guy asks you out for dinner.. may gusto siya sayo. Maybe it differs with age? Ung nagsabi sakin nyan nasa early 30s eh.
Just ask. A lot of times guys (particularly the friendly type) do a lot of things na parang romantic because they are nice (and not because they see you that way).
Pag sinabi real intention.
Not through sms/chats but he will tell you personally.
You may not trust the words, pero makikita mo efforts niya. And, everyday he will tell you how much he loves you through his actions.
And, when he witnesses you in your worst, he will stay.
For me, it's better na makita ng lalake ang worst natin kasi dun natin makikita kung magtatagal ba siya.
If the men can't love us in our worst, then they don't deserve us in our best.
Until we tell you so.
Of course, the signs will always be the ones that make you assume.
Maraming na-fall sa akin. It was never my intention, but the actions were always somewhat misunderstood.
Never ever assume unless otherwise stated. To save you from heartache.
But does it count thoo? Kase I've read sumwhere din about d "provider type" guy, d type dat provides everything for d people he cares about d most, always askin bout your needs (most common being d financial need ) in my case he doesn't even ask 😶 he js makes d first move for everytime I have to pay for sumth. Does dat count as "ginagastusan?"
When you don’t have to ask this question to other people/internet because a guy will make it known to you if he likes you. :)
If torpe, he’ll show it to you by making extra effort.
The guy will express it both in action and words.
Kapag kinukulit ka sa chat, nag gu-good morning, praises/compliments you. May iba na hindi magaling sa small talk, tapos may iba na chine check muna kung type mo ba siya o hindi bago lumandi ng todo.
Then bukod sa action, either mag co-confess sila sayo, or if di nag co-confess, just ask them the question.
The right guy will just say yes. No other words.
Those who will answer no or kaya "yes, pero kasi..." are the ones na hindi mo dapat i-entertain na.
If he responds to your texts fast, he's attentive when you're telling him something, if he's awkward around you. Dami e HAHAHA obvious naman kami mag kagusto 💀
Go ask, "yes" is a YES and everything else is a NO! Kung di kaya sumagot ng 1 word(sige pagbigyan 1 sentence) then definitely it is a NO. Pag nagsimula sa kwento/pasakalye, take it as a NO also.
Pag kinonfirm nya na sayo na gusto ka nya. Pag madami mag chat. Pag madalas mag chat kahit good morning, how are you, kumain ka na ba, goodnight. Forgive them kung hindi sila conversationalist, meron talagang reserved at hindi magaling sa small talk, but watch their eyes light up pag nachambahan mo yung isang topic na gustong gusto nila, pag biglang tatahimik pag nag kwento ka tungkolsa ibang guy.
Actually I give up on this one na, like looking for signs or interpreting their actions 😂. I have guy friends and they are naturally good/gentleman with us their girl-friends, they seem flirty if other people see us interact pero di talaga 😂. And men/guys/boys will tell you if they like you talaga. Pero better ask nalang if ever, nakakapagod sige overthink 🤷🏻♀️
Same. Everytime na nahuhuli ko sarili ko na naghahanap ng "signs", alam kong sign na yun na nagiging delulu na naman ako hahaha. Kung hindi explicitly sinabi na gusto ka or hindi nag rereach out sayo, kahit ano pang gawin niyang "signs" walang ibig sabihin yun.
He texts you constantly. Curious on every detail about you. Remembers little things that you like/dislike. Likes making you laugh
Pero easiest way to know is to be direct and ask. I think most guys will give you a yes or no answer lalo na kung seryoso sila sayo
Nagpakita ako ng motive, pero walang verbal confirmation. Palagi ko kasama, kabiruan, kakopyahan kahit sa pag uwi txtmate kmi tas biglangx ndi na nag reply, ndi na namansin.
That's alright. I got a gf the following semester and it started an issue. Apparently she wanted me too but she was playing games I wasn't bothered to play
Iba iba man sila kung paano nila ieexpress kung gusto ka nila kaya naman parang awa don't assume nalang unless otherwise stated! 'Don tayo sa kayang mag step forward para magsabi sa atin at huwag tayo sa tamang paramdam lang without stating his true intentions. 🤠
The treatment is usually more sweet and considerate if ikaw na yung kaharap, he could be non chalant/ chill with friends but more active, happy, touchy with yoy
Kung gusto ka talaga niya, you don't even need to ask this question. Wag ka umasa sa signs, kasi baka maging assuming ka lang.
Basic lang ang mga lalaki. Kung gusto ka talaga niyan, aamin yan sayo directly, kung hindi, then you deserve someone better, yung kayang manindigan at umamin sayo.
True. Nakakainis kasi andun lahat ng signs. Sobrang bait sayo. Ung tingin din. In d the end kaya pala mabait sayo kasi ang type yung friend mo hahaha. Kaya you need to be open talaga. Saklap at umasa ka. 😅
Di ko tinatanong kung kumain na sya, palagi kong tanong kung ano ulam nya, Hahaha! Parang ang common na kasi yung question na "Kumain ka na?" and the like... Minsan para maiba naman, gusto ko tanungin iung tumae na ba sya 😂
If he actively tries to spend time with you despite his busy sched, always wanting to take you out on dates instead of just only wanting you to come over to his place. Also if he pays attention to the little things you say and trivial facts about you and remember them for later. These are usually good signs.
Men are pretty straightforward. It shouldn't take a full-blown investigation, you'll know right away. If you're looking too hard for clues, he's def not into you.
1. Touchy (comfy touch hindi yung manyak feels) 2. He will keep looking at you. (shyly or shamelessly) 3. He will do his best to make you laugh. 4. He will go above and beyond like ihahatid ka kahit may event sa bahay nila. Kumbaga, prio ka niya. 5. He will ask about your ideal type etc.
Kung gusto ka ng lalake mag sasabi yan (old school guys do) otherwise delusions mo lang na may gusto sa iyo si crush. Goodluck and may the force be with you.
Guys are pretty straightforward. Sinasabi nila yung kung anong meron talaga. So pag sinabi nya na gusto ka nya, gusto ka nya. Kung sinabi nya na, he likes you as a friend, as a friend talaga yon-wag magaassume.
Obvious sign syempre sasabihin nya na sayo, or ligawan ka na.
Not so obvious, he's invested sayo, wether it be consistent chat or calls, or he's almost everywhere around you, (Note: if hindi nkikipagusap pero lagi mo nkikita baka stalker yan ingat ka hahah)
Others, pag tinitukso kayo ng friends, especially friends nya din, naikwento ka na dun, parang wingman setup na ngyayari.
Be careful, ung ibang lalaki lakas maka best foot forward at lovebomb sa initial stage 🙂 Wag isusuko agad ang bataan at make sure kilala ng pamilya mo at kilala ka ng pamilya nya.. also friends
Mag eeffort yung lalaki para sayo. Gagawa sya ng paraan magkaroon lang sya ng time sayo kahit busy sched sya. Basically his ACTIONS will definitely tell you na gusto ka nya.
No. 1 for me is magkukusa sila. Laging mag-f-first move.
Sinabi na gusto ka n'ya pero di nag-f-first move? Di ka n'yan gusto enough para magkusa s'ya :)))
Never assume unless otherwise stated. Mahirap mag assume sa panahon ngayon. May mga lalaki na super nice lang din sa lahat. So para di ka umasa, hanggat di nila sinabi na gusto ka nila. Wag magpakadelulu.
I think, as a woman in her 30’s, the tell tale sign that the guy likes you is he will actually tell you. Ideally sana ganon. But based on experience, they will show extra effort, extra time, extra attention. If he likes you, he should be straightforward. Life is short for guessing games, or I am really this old.
i honestly think na madali basahin ang mga lalaki when it comes to feelings hahaha. i just think (or based din sa past observations ko) talagang halata sila, lalo na sa galawan at salita. they wear their heart on their sleeves, kaya nahahalata ko agad.
examples:
- kapag ang lalaki, madalas na hanapin ka, possible na agad na gusto ka niya.
- iba trato niya sayo (special treatment) kumpara sa trato niya sa ibang friends niya, even sa girl na friends.
- kapag attentive siya sayo, like nakikinig siya madalas sa mga sinasabi mo.
- if nagbibiro siya like finafake harot ka niya (he lowkey means everything na sinasabi niya pag pabiro siya nanghaharot lol)
there are a lot more, tbh.. pero if di pa rin sila umamin na gusto kayo despite having those signs.. baka paasa lang talaga yung guy, lol!
Yup! 🎯 Also, if I may add
- kapag tinitignan ka niya or nakatingin siya sayo sa tuwing nagsasalita ka or may kinekwento ka you can clearly see yung mga mata niya pumupungay. It's like he's staring at you with pure adoration. Sometimes may kasamang timan pa 'yun and you can see his eyes exploring every corners of your face.
- he speaks gently when it comes to you, into you. May lambing na hindi pilit.
I was once like this to a girl, totoo yan. Minsan di mo mahahalata na mesmerized ka na sa kanya and sign na rin pala yun as a guy na nafall ka. She ended up breaking my heart.
i'll only believe he's serious when he'll tell me his intentions & i can see it through actions para iwas delulu.
actions only = he is playing. words only = he is playing pa rin
I'm a guy but let me give you a hints if a guy likes you. This is based on my experience. Panay tingin nang tingin, nagme message siya sobrang sweet, binibigyan ka ng pagkain or minsan lilibre ka. He would offer you na ihatid ka sa bahay o sa kanto ninyo bago pa man siya umalis ni lumakad titignan ka muna niya kasi nag aalala siya sa'yo.
Nakikinig ng Ben-Ben e.g. araw-araw, paninindigan kita, Kathang isip, and dear. Or any opm like sino, isip, basta music na relate na relate sa kaniya. Gumagawa ng love letters pero hindi kayang ibigay dahil manhid at mahiyain.
"Gusto" means a lot of things. Don't get confused. He can be all sweet and show lots of effort. Pwedeng gusto ka niya pang kantot lang, asawa/girlfriend, friend, colleague, or he's just like that. Take it from a guy's perspective. Mostly kaming guys madami kaming gustong kantutin. Apologies for being too straightforward, real talk lang
How do you even tell that a boy is acting "cute"? Does sending a woman a simple message like "hi, how are you?" or "how you're doing?" count as "acting cute"?
Boys will play games but men will definitely man up. State your motives, prove that you're man enough para panindigan yung kagustuhan mo. Or, you know, play stupid games you win stupid prizes
By those stupid games, I hope you mean those jejemon kids sending lewd messages. Because otherwise, if you're referring to my examples, then sending messages online is a big no-no today.
Kapag nirereciprocate nya yung energy na binibigay mo. Yung energy na hindi pangtropa lang. If a guy is not into you, mahahalata mo agad yun sa actions niya sayo.
I think yung guy genuine na may gusto sayo, if mag-insist siya na magpakilala sa magulang ni girl at sasabihin sa parents yung intention. Old school but feeling ko heto gauge for me
If he wants to be alone with you. A simple invite to have food together will be a start. Invite him. Doesnt make you less a woman.
If he wants you, HE WILL TELL. Kahit gaano ka mahiyain yan, Dapat ma figure out nya na you already went out of your wayto be alone with him. If he coulndt figure that out, Expect na di rin nya ma identify mga unstated needs mo once maging kayo through signs/hints.
Kung touchy, no. just no. probbaly just trying to get in your skirts.
hello. sorry to interrupt but how would you know in the first place if touchy or that’s just his love language na ‘physical touch’? I’m confused lang din about this
mararamdaman mo yun, mga pa simpleng sundot sa bewang, saglet na akbay, hawak sa likod, not trying to be a creep pero ganto ako sa GF ko nung niligawan ko pa sya, hindi naman sya natanggi o nalayo, so ayun, hahah, yun yung love language ko tlga eh.
as for touchy na masydo, eto ung mga may pagsubo pang nlalaman, o pilit hahawakan kamay mo ng wala sa "moment" lol.
Not sure, I remembered admitting my feelings to this guy during college and super tahimik yata nya yung tropa pa nya naglalakad samin, like "gusto din daw ako ni ***" but he never really made a move.
So I guess, if the guy is vocal and will really approach me saying na he has feelings and such (for me lang 'to ah) haha.
Di ako nag aassume para di masheket. Bahala sya dian, walang gagalaw ng baso kasi di ako mag coconfess haha.
Pero real talk. If a man can't declare his intentions to you, puro pabebe walang label, hanap ka ng iba.
Action without words are confusing. Words without action as well is meaningless. If both contradict each other, then you don’t deserve someone who would not willing to take a risk for you
Agree dito OP. May friend ako who unintentionally breaks girls' hearts. Pano ang ganda kasi ng upbringing super bait and gentleman, gwapo pa. Ayun dami napaasa, naaawa ako kasi in the end siya pa masama🤣
Kaya no to assumera talaga bahala nang manhid!
Men are straightforward. Hindi kami mahilig sa mga hints, patama, parinig, or what not. It goes the other way rin pag yung may girl may gusto sa guy. Hindi kami nadadaan sa any form of subtleties or hints kasi hindi talaga namin magegets yun.
Take note na magkaiba yung gusto ka kasi attracted sya sayo vs gusto kang ipursue.
>Kapag sinabi niya sayo
There's a chance that he'll just tell you na gusto ka if may idea sya na gusto mo siya, may leverage na sya eh, so he'll take advantage of it. You'll never know the truth about his intentions sa una, kailangan mo talaga sya kilalanin
Wala, wag na tayo mag assume,.we should always look for clarity sa intentions ng taong gustong maging part ng buhay naten 🤷♀️
Consider anything he does as nothing until he states his intentions
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A friend (guy) told me na when a guy asks you out for dinner.. may gusto siya sayo. Maybe it differs with age? Ung nagsabi sakin nyan nasa early 30s eh.
Papansin
pag hina-heart nya stories mo HAHAHA char
Just ask. A lot of times guys (particularly the friendly type) do a lot of things na parang romantic because they are nice (and not because they see you that way).
Magtanong ka nalang for peace of mind.
Hirap din kasi ngayon maniwala. Kahit ang dami ng signs. Minsan ineechos ka lang pala haha char!
Pag ikaw favorite niya sa lima
Pag sinabi real intention. Not through sms/chats but he will tell you personally. You may not trust the words, pero makikita mo efforts niya. And, everyday he will tell you how much he loves you through his actions. And, when he witnesses you in your worst, he will stay. For me, it's better na makita ng lalake ang worst natin kasi dun natin makikita kung magtatagal ba siya. If the men can't love us in our worst, then they don't deserve us in our best.
Maramimg gusto yan hindi lang ikaw
Until we tell you so. Of course, the signs will always be the ones that make you assume. Maraming na-fall sa akin. It was never my intention, but the actions were always somewhat misunderstood. Never ever assume unless otherwise stated. To save you from heartache.
They will let you know.
Iba yung approach niya sayo towards other girls!!
They will tell you directly. Wala ng paligoy ligoy pa.
Pag ginagastusan ka 😅😂😂
May I ask how? *Does "libre anything when we're together" count?
Nililibre ka? Sana ell? 🤣 just kidding
But does it count thoo? Kase I've read sumwhere din about d "provider type" guy, d type dat provides everything for d people he cares about d most, always askin bout your needs (most common being d financial need ) in my case he doesn't even ask 😶 he js makes d first move for everytime I have to pay for sumth. Does dat count as "ginagastusan?"
When you don’t have to ask this question to other people/internet because a guy will make it known to you if he likes you. :) If torpe, he’ll show it to you by making extra effort.
This, i don't know 🥲 never pang may lalaki na nagkagusto sakin hahaha
text pa rin nang text kahit hindi ka naman nagre-reply.
Modern signs: reply ng reply sa story mo kahit di ka din nagrerespond. Hahahaha
Pag lagi ka inaasar kahit weird na 🤣
Men in PH (most if them) are very upfront when they like a girl. Like bakod kung bakod. They will message you relentlessly!
The guy will express it both in action and words. Kapag kinukulit ka sa chat, nag gu-good morning, praises/compliments you. May iba na hindi magaling sa small talk, tapos may iba na chine check muna kung type mo ba siya o hindi bago lumandi ng todo. Then bukod sa action, either mag co-confess sila sayo, or if di nag co-confess, just ask them the question. The right guy will just say yes. No other words. Those who will answer no or kaya "yes, pero kasi..." are the ones na hindi mo dapat i-entertain na.
We will tell you straight and court you if we are really into you. If you’re thinking whether a guy likes you, probably not.
If he responds to your texts fast, he's attentive when you're telling him something, if he's awkward around you. Dami e HAHAHA obvious naman kami mag kagusto 💀
Makulit sila
Go ask, "yes" is a YES and everything else is a NO! Kung di kaya sumagot ng 1 word(sige pagbigyan 1 sentence) then definitely it is a NO. Pag nagsimula sa kwento/pasakalye, take it as a NO also.
Wala. Kahit anong actions nya, di mo pa rin masusure na gusto ka nya unless sabihin nya
Hiya sya makipag usap sayo at awkward. mataas percentage na gusto ka nya kung ganun sya sayo.
Pag kinonfirm nya na sayo na gusto ka nya. Pag madami mag chat. Pag madalas mag chat kahit good morning, how are you, kumain ka na ba, goodnight. Forgive them kung hindi sila conversationalist, meron talagang reserved at hindi magaling sa small talk, but watch their eyes light up pag nachambahan mo yung isang topic na gustong gusto nila, pag biglang tatahimik pag nag kwento ka tungkolsa ibang guy.
maghuhubad sa harap mo
kelangan ko pa bang gawin to para makaramdam sya
Hi. Don’t interpret his actions, mas maganda yung sasabihan ka na gusto ka nya. Ang hirap mag-assume tapos ang ending friendly lang pala talaga sya 😒😔
Communication is king 👑
true
Verbally, don’t interpret everything masasaktan ka lang kapg nag assume ka OP.
Papansin, laking hinahawi buhok pag nag eye to eye kayo, inaasar ka, lagi mong kasabay, nililibre ka food, lagi kang chinachat at nililigawan ka
Actually I give up on this one na, like looking for signs or interpreting their actions 😂. I have guy friends and they are naturally good/gentleman with us their girl-friends, they seem flirty if other people see us interact pero di talaga 😂. And men/guys/boys will tell you if they like you talaga. Pero better ask nalang if ever, nakakapagod sige overthink 🤷🏻♀️
Same. Everytime na nahuhuli ko sarili ko na naghahanap ng "signs", alam kong sign na yun na nagiging delulu na naman ako hahaha. Kung hindi explicitly sinabi na gusto ka or hindi nag rereach out sayo, kahit ano pang gawin niyang "signs" walang ibig sabihin yun.
They put effort into small things. Mahuhuli niyo lang kami na may gusto sainyo pero di kami aamin😂
Dude, this is getting old. Baka warning signs meron 😂. Just wait for their actual confirmation that they actually like you. Don't make things up.
They make an effort to please and know you more.
Ina-aswang ka ng guy,
He texts you constantly. Curious on every detail about you. Remembers little things that you like/dislike. Likes making you laugh Pero easiest way to know is to be direct and ask. I think most guys will give you a yes or no answer lalo na kung seryoso sila sayo
Ginagawa ko to dati. Tapos ghinost ako. Haha
You mean nagpakita ka ng motive or question sa intention?
Nagpakita ako ng motive, pero walang verbal confirmation. Palagi ko kasama, kabiruan, kakopyahan kahit sa pag uwi txtmate kmi tas biglangx ndi na nag reply, ndi na namansin.
Damn sorry, my guy. It's alright. May mga babaeng di kayang diretsong i-reject ka eh. Swallow our pride and carry on lang tayo pards
That's alright. I got a gf the following semester and it started an issue. Apparently she wanted me too but she was playing games I wasn't bothered to play
Pag talaga sinabi, tsaka lang ako maniniwala HAHAHAH
May nagkakagusto sa inyo? Huhuhuhu
okay di niya ako gusto 🤪
Iba iba man sila kung paano nila ieexpress kung gusto ka nila kaya naman parang awa don't assume nalang unless otherwise stated! 'Don tayo sa kayang mag step forward para magsabi sa atin at huwag tayo sa tamang paramdam lang without stating his true intentions. 🤠
Tama! Pero kahit walang kasiguraduhan I low-key like him. He is not required to reciprocate my feelings tho
The treatment is usually more sweet and considerate if ikaw na yung kaharap, he could be non chalant/ chill with friends but more active, happy, touchy with yoy
When ko kaya mapifeel yung mga nasa comments section hahahaha
kapag sinabi niya sayo yun lang yun op hahaha
Watch ‘He’s just not into you’ Simple lang mga lalaki. If they like you, you would know. If you are confused, they probably aren’t
I'm confused, i therefore conclude that he's not into me 💯 shocks. Oks lang
Kung gusto ka talaga niya, you don't even need to ask this question. Wag ka umasa sa signs, kasi baka maging assuming ka lang. Basic lang ang mga lalaki. Kung gusto ka talaga niyan, aamin yan sayo directly, kung hindi, then you deserve someone better, yung kayang manindigan at umamin sayo.
True. Nakakainis kasi andun lahat ng signs. Sobrang bait sayo. Ung tingin din. In d the end kaya pala mabait sayo kasi ang type yung friend mo hahaha. Kaya you need to be open talaga. Saklap at umasa ka. 😅
Kapag gusto amuyin kilikili mo
Ahahahaha bwiset
If may bulge sa pants nya when you're with him
What if fit lang talaga pants and shorts nya hahaha
Kapag sinabi niya and requests if you can stop seeing other people.
madali lang sa guys. pag interesado sayo makulit yan kahit mahiyain. magbubuhat lage yan ng convo.
pano pag nagbubuhat ng convo palagi pero never naman umamin kaya di mo alam if ano ba talaga?
He always check you if you are “ok” “comfortable” “you eat?.”
Di ko tinatanong kung kumain na sya, palagi kong tanong kung ano ulam nya, Hahaha! Parang ang common na kasi yung question na "Kumain ka na?" and the like... Minsan para maiba naman, gusto ko tanungin iung tumae na ba sya 😂
Magawa nga den… salamats
😂
If he actively tries to spend time with you despite his busy sched, always wanting to take you out on dates instead of just only wanting you to come over to his place. Also if he pays attention to the little things you say and trivial facts about you and remember them for later. These are usually good signs. Men are pretty straightforward. It shouldn't take a full-blown investigation, you'll know right away. If you're looking too hard for clues, he's def not into you.
Napapa titig sayo
Legit ba to hahahaha
Oo nmn visual kse kaming mga lalaki Pwede ding d nagppahalata pride din or nahihiya hehe
sinusundan nyo din ba ng tingen? Hahahahaaha
Haha how young are you?
1. Touchy (comfy touch hindi yung manyak feels) 2. He will keep looking at you. (shyly or shamelessly) 3. He will do his best to make you laugh. 4. He will go above and beyond like ihahatid ka kahit may event sa bahay nila. Kumbaga, prio ka niya. 5. He will ask about your ideal type etc.
Shameless 🤚🤚🤚
They give you a hint first then sa kanila na mismo manggagalinh.
Kung gusto ka ng lalake mag sasabi yan (old school guys do) otherwise delusions mo lang na may gusto sa iyo si crush. Goodluck and may the force be with you.
Guys are pretty straightforward. Sinasabi nila yung kung anong meron talaga. So pag sinabi nya na gusto ka nya, gusto ka nya. Kung sinabi nya na, he likes you as a friend, as a friend talaga yon-wag magaassume.
Don’t mind me, I’m just *taking notes*.
don’t assume, unless stated.
Bukod sa sasabihin sa iyo. Babakuran ka. Nakabook na agad ang next date ninyo habang nagdedate kayo.
Obvious sign syempre sasabihin nya na sayo, or ligawan ka na. Not so obvious, he's invested sayo, wether it be consistent chat or calls, or he's almost everywhere around you, (Note: if hindi nkikipagusap pero lagi mo nkikita baka stalker yan ingat ka hahah) Others, pag tinitukso kayo ng friends, especially friends nya din, naikwento ka na dun, parang wingman setup na ngyayari.
Be careful, ung ibang lalaki lakas maka best foot forward at lovebomb sa initial stage 🙂 Wag isusuko agad ang bataan at make sure kilala ng pamilya mo at kilala ka ng pamilya nya.. also friends
Kinakausap ka niya haha
When its clear to you that he likes you and youre not asking people about the signs.
Yoww, chill 😆
It is what the guys do that defines their intentions. So kung mabulaklak siya magsalita pero di niya ginagawa? move on
Mag eeffort yung lalaki para sayo. Gagawa sya ng paraan magkaroon lang sya ng time sayo kahit busy sched sya. Basically his ACTIONS will definitely tell you na gusto ka nya.
they will tell it
No. 1 for me is magkukusa sila. Laging mag-f-first move. Sinabi na gusto ka n'ya pero di nag-f-first move? Di ka n'yan gusto enough para magkusa s'ya :)))
Never assume. Let him say it.
kahit na wala kang gawin sya gagawa ng paraan para mageffort ng todo sayo
for me kapag he's very attentive to you.
Never assume unless otherwise stated. Mahirap mag assume sa panahon ngayon. May mga lalaki na super nice lang din sa lahat. So para di ka umasa, hanggat di nila sinabi na gusto ka nila. Wag magpakadelulu.
Korique
Di ko alam yung feeling eh HAHAHAHAHA
Pag looking forward ka kasama.
Pinupursue ka.
I think, as a woman in her 30’s, the tell tale sign that the guy likes you is he will actually tell you. Ideally sana ganon. But based on experience, they will show extra effort, extra time, extra attention. If he likes you, he should be straightforward. Life is short for guessing games, or I am really this old.
Very true!
i honestly think na madali basahin ang mga lalaki when it comes to feelings hahaha. i just think (or based din sa past observations ko) talagang halata sila, lalo na sa galawan at salita. they wear their heart on their sleeves, kaya nahahalata ko agad. examples: - kapag ang lalaki, madalas na hanapin ka, possible na agad na gusto ka niya. - iba trato niya sayo (special treatment) kumpara sa trato niya sa ibang friends niya, even sa girl na friends. - kapag attentive siya sayo, like nakikinig siya madalas sa mga sinasabi mo. - if nagbibiro siya like finafake harot ka niya (he lowkey means everything na sinasabi niya pag pabiro siya nanghaharot lol) there are a lot more, tbh.. pero if di pa rin sila umamin na gusto kayo despite having those signs.. baka paasa lang talaga yung guy, lol!
Yup! 🎯 Also, if I may add - kapag tinitignan ka niya or nakatingin siya sayo sa tuwing nagsasalita ka or may kinekwento ka you can clearly see yung mga mata niya pumupungay. It's like he's staring at you with pure adoration. Sometimes may kasamang timan pa 'yun and you can see his eyes exploring every corners of your face. - he speaks gently when it comes to you, into you. May lambing na hindi pilit.
I was once like this to a girl, totoo yan. Minsan di mo mahahalata na mesmerized ka na sa kanya and sign na rin pala yun as a guy na nafall ka. She ended up breaking my heart.
i'll only believe he's serious when he'll tell me his intentions & i can see it through actions para iwas delulu. actions only = he is playing. words only = he is playing pa rin
I'm a guy but let me give you a hints if a guy likes you. This is based on my experience. Panay tingin nang tingin, nagme message siya sobrang sweet, binibigyan ka ng pagkain or minsan lilibre ka. He would offer you na ihatid ka sa bahay o sa kanto ninyo bago pa man siya umalis ni lumakad titignan ka muna niya kasi nag aalala siya sa'yo. Nakikinig ng Ben-Ben e.g. araw-araw, paninindigan kita, Kathang isip, and dear. Or any opm like sino, isip, basta music na relate na relate sa kaniya. Gumagawa ng love letters pero hindi kayang ibigay dahil manhid at mahiyain.
omg, what if ganyan sya sa iba pero may jowa siya?
I don't know. Since never pa ako nagkaroon ng gf since birth, I think he's a womanizer or maybe you had a misunderstanding?
If may nakakatawa na kwento, titingin sya una sayo to see if tumatawa ka. Hehehe
luh. oo nga noh. didn't realize this until now. haha
Ime, if he call and text you all the time.
Palaging naka tingin sayo and that person is stuttering when talking to you.
If interested siya sayo like madaldal lang sayo, hindi dry kausap esp sa chats.
Ma effort sayo tas sweet
Marami tanga at mahiyain samin, try mo tanungin ng pabiro haha
siguro ganito yung kakilala ko :/ haha
"Gusto" means a lot of things. Don't get confused. He can be all sweet and show lots of effort. Pwedeng gusto ka niya pang kantot lang, asawa/girlfriend, friend, colleague, or he's just like that. Take it from a guy's perspective. Mostly kaming guys madami kaming gustong kantutin. Apologies for being too straightforward, real talk lang
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If they make time for you 🥹
After giving them a hint, you will know if they like you. Guys like getting hints. Ayaw na rin namin ng mga d namin alam kung gusto ba kami or hindi
You wouldn’t have to look for signs if he’s really into you.
If he likes you and wants to pursue you, you won’t have to ask questions like this.
Very trueee!!
true lol
You can see and feel it in his actions.
when you didnt have to ask, guys are hunters by instinct. We're not entertaining pabebe boys this 2024 bec goddamn it life is already hard as it is
How do you even tell that a boy is acting "cute"? Does sending a woman a simple message like "hi, how are you?" or "how you're doing?" count as "acting cute"?
Boys will play games but men will definitely man up. State your motives, prove that you're man enough para panindigan yung kagustuhan mo. Or, you know, play stupid games you win stupid prizes
By those stupid games, I hope you mean those jejemon kids sending lewd messages. Because otherwise, if you're referring to my examples, then sending messages online is a big no-no today.
kapag sinabi niya sayo, op. mahirap mag-assume baka umasa ka lang xD
this HAHA
He will tell you, and you won't have to be confused about his feelings.
Kapag nirereciprocate nya yung energy na binibigay mo. Yung energy na hindi pangtropa lang. If a guy is not into you, mahahalata mo agad yun sa actions niya sayo.
Liligawan ka
Took time to get to know you better and be with you.
Nagbibigay ng time!! 💯
Agreed. Unlike girls that give guys some leeway, us guys cannot waste our time and resources on girls we dont like
kapag nakikipagtitigan din siya sayo HAHAHAH charot delulu lang talaga ako 😩🥲
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This is 💯 true. 8 years na kami ngayon haha
Legit to. Kasi naexperience ko din.
Ang hirap naman kailangan pa ng scenario na ganito chos hahahaha
Ang sakit naman
pag tumatambling sa harap mo
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Grabe naman yan HAHAHAHAHAHA
kapag consistent sya sa pangungumusta kahit gaano pa ka busy ang araw nya.
kapag karma farming si OP
Kapag tinitignan ka niya ng matagal at ng di mo alam, when he's guiding you or extra thoughful sayo, and kapag shy siya when he's around you.
How to differentiate if gusto lang nya makascore sa genuine na may gusto sayo?
I think yung guy genuine na may gusto sayo, if mag-insist siya na magpakilala sa magulang ni girl at sasabihin sa parents yung intention. Old school but feeling ko heto gauge for me
Before ganyan siya pero ngayon hindi naman na 🫠
Baka naman iniignore mo at kala niya di mo siya gusto. Ireciprocate mo yung landi hahaha
I did, nireciprocate ko naman. Pumayag pa nga ko magpakilala sa parents niya
Better sign siguro if siya ang magpakilala sa parents mo. If dating sweet at ngayon hindi na, move on kana sis.
Parang he's not interested to meet my family 🫠 pag inoopen ko siya biglang nawawala siya
he ain’t into you, sis. most probably infatuated lang ‘yan sa’yo kaya ayaw mag-dive into a deeper level of connection with you
Do the No Contact, OP. 1 month lang. Kapag humabol yan, gusto ka nyan. Pero kapag hindi, move on na talaga.
He's not that into you sis, if gusto ka nyan clear dapat ang intentions. Save yourself, run.
thank youuuu!
If he wants to be alone with you. A simple invite to have food together will be a start. Invite him. Doesnt make you less a woman. If he wants you, HE WILL TELL. Kahit gaano ka mahiyain yan, Dapat ma figure out nya na you already went out of your wayto be alone with him. If he coulndt figure that out, Expect na di rin nya ma identify mga unstated needs mo once maging kayo through signs/hints. Kung touchy, no. just no. probbaly just trying to get in your skirts.
hello. sorry to interrupt but how would you know in the first place if touchy or that’s just his love language na ‘physical touch’? I’m confused lang din about this
mararamdaman mo yun, mga pa simpleng sundot sa bewang, saglet na akbay, hawak sa likod, not trying to be a creep pero ganto ako sa GF ko nung niligawan ko pa sya, hindi naman sya natanggi o nalayo, so ayun, hahah, yun yung love language ko tlga eh. as for touchy na masydo, eto ung mga may pagsubo pang nlalaman, o pilit hahawakan kamay mo ng wala sa "moment" lol.
kapag caring tapos feel mong binabantayan ka. and for no reason dededmahin ka or galit . hahahhaa. inlove sayo yan
Pag sinabi niya mismo sayo. Oo baka type ka but does not mean may intention siyang gawin kang jowa. Kaya iwas delulu 2024 🤟🏻
Kahit ba masyado na siyang touchy? 😭
Based from experience sizt, iwas na tayo umasa sa mga touchy! Testing the waters lang mga yan. Hintayin na umamin na lang at maging straightforward.
Pag touchy medyo red flaggg sissst. Tinitimpla cgru nya kung kakagat ka. Better ask him if gusto ka nya at san papunta ano man meron kayo ngayon.
Doesn't mean na gusto kang gawing jowa
prolonged eye contact, unintentional encounter..
true ba??
oo, may study poyan…
Not sure, I remembered admitting my feelings to this guy during college and super tahimik yata nya yung tropa pa nya naglalakad samin, like "gusto din daw ako ni ***" but he never really made a move. So I guess, if the guy is vocal and will really approach me saying na he has feelings and such (for me lang 'to ah) haha.
Di ako nag aassume para di masheket. Bahala sya dian, walang gagalaw ng baso kasi di ako mag coconfess haha. Pero real talk. If a man can't declare his intentions to you, puro pabebe walang label, hanap ka ng iba.
Duly noted.
If it’s not a clear yes, then it’s a clear no. I’ve learned it the hard way. Never assume unless stated.
Sometimes even stated could be a white lie, so maybe consider actions as well.
Action without words are confusing. Words without action as well is meaningless. If both contradict each other, then you don’t deserve someone who would not willing to take a risk for you
Seconded
Indeed
Kapag sinabi niya sayo
Wala na ba talagang iba maliban don 🥲
Agree dito OP. May friend ako who unintentionally breaks girls' hearts. Pano ang ganda kasi ng upbringing super bait and gentleman, gwapo pa. Ayun dami napaasa, naaawa ako kasi in the end siya pa masama🤣 Kaya no to assumera talaga bahala nang manhid!
Men are straightforward. Hindi kami mahilig sa mga hints, patama, parinig, or what not. It goes the other way rin pag yung may girl may gusto sa guy. Hindi kami nadadaan sa any form of subtleties or hints kasi hindi talaga namin magegets yun. Take note na magkaiba yung gusto ka kasi attracted sya sayo vs gusto kang ipursue.
>Kapag sinabi niya sayo There's a chance that he'll just tell you na gusto ka if may idea sya na gusto mo siya, may leverage na sya eh, so he'll take advantage of it. You'll never know the truth about his intentions sa una, kailangan mo talaga sya kilalanin
Wala, wag na tayo mag assume,.we should always look for clarity sa intentions ng taong gustong maging part ng buhay naten 🤷♀️ Consider anything he does as nothing until he states his intentions