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Yall are cappin bruh. Looks doesnt matter? Really?ย
Money doesnt matter pag babae, basta cute tiklop agad kahit sino. Pero pag long term usapan at seseryosohin - cute at loyal common denominator dyan. Wala naman magtitiis if di attracted, and lalo wala magtitiis na guy if nagccheat ang babae. Straight facts
Actually attracted ako sa mga ibat ibang combination ng trait sa nga babae, and dipende na lang din sa persinality ng babae ang intesity ng attraction ko. sa pangloob at panglabas, ibat ibang klase ng babae ang nagustuhan ko dati.
pero meron ako na certain things na gusto sana sa mapapangasawa ko. Isa na dun yung gusto makipag wrestling sakin competitively lol
no specific, ibat ibang babae kasi has their own unique personality and appearance, ako lalaki ako, na attract na ako sa pango na singkit, meron din nagka crush ako sa medyo chubby sya na maliit, dati ayoko ng maliit talaga na babae yung parang bata, pero yung ex ko yung height nya parang 4'11 lang ata, depende na lang talaga sa attraction eh, kasi kahit magandang maganda ka pa, kung di naman ako/kame ma attract eh.. yun lang
Emotional Understanding. Men have a lot of emotion and had a hard time sorting it out which is resulting to some dead air or anger for few.
but just wanna state na ang mga lalaki ay tao lang, had a lot of emotion especially those whoโs a breadwinner or grew far from home and we arent raised to handle such thing or how to deal with all these emotions
Hello, OP.
Naka depende Po sa individual sa knyang personal preferences and values.
Pero Yung mga common Po is.
Companionship
Communication
Emotional Support
Physical affection
Respect
Trust
LOYALTY
Every tao Po is unique and may have different wants and needs in a relationship.
Communication and understanding are key to building a successful and fulfilling relationship. Rooting for u!
Malakas loob, independent, can fend for themselves, marunong sa kotse ๐ marunong house repair or at least hindi takot sa house repair or humawak ng martilyo is enough. Hindi yun "gawain lalake"agad ang dahilan.
Hindi yosi Vape. Street smart or sadyang matalino sa gawa. Marunong magalit pero kaya mag move on almost immediately.
Magalit man sa kapwa babae kaya mag move on agad and ignore emotions.
Walang silent treatment as means of punishment.
Sorry. Not asking for perfect ideal partner. Just a list.
the power to amplify. Kapag nakakuha ka ng maayos na babae, maamplify lahat ng dreams and hustle mo, aayos buhay mo lalo. kung makakuha ka ng wack girl, asahan mo amplified din lahat ng negative things sa buhay at mababaliw ka lang.
Wise and comedic. The "hindi overly maarte" woman na tila spoiled at hindi nakaranas ng hardships sa buhay kung tumrato ng kapwa.
Perfect if a woman of Godโnothing beats this.
Loyalty, lambing kahit tapos na ovulation period, affirmation, reassurance, honesty but in a gracious way, non-weaponization of sex, ka-fire team sa CoD, or ka-party sa Monster Hunter.
Gusto ng tao sumama doon sa masarap kasama. Ganoon naman tayo sa kahit sinong tao, mapa kaibigan, kapamilya, etc. mas pipiliin mong mag spend ng time don sa masarap kasama kasi napapagaan loob mo or at least safe ka pg kasama mo sila
Di ako agree don sa nagsabing gusto ng mga lalaki sa tahimik at di chismosang babae. Sobrang generalized nya. In reality, nasa preference ng tao kung trip nila
ng makwento o tahimik ang babae.
Sa physical, unang una talaga mukha and then boobs, sunod pwet. Tapos mala coke na katawan, minsan ok din ang chubby voluptuous kumbaga. Ayan nasagot ko ba ang tanong mo? ๐
-loyalty
-maturity
-willingness to learn
-cooperation
-fucking loyalty
-"i understand we're going thru something, and it's difficult for me, too. But I want to go thru this with you, no one else."
-"hey, i think i may be going thru something. Please bear with me."
-" hey, are you going thru something? Come here, let me hold you"
-pukinanginang loyalty
-"hey, this isn't working out anymore. We've been thru this over and over, and I can't keep this up. I want to break this off before seeing other people."
This goes both ways, btw.
Edit: sorry sa format. Mobile. Parang feelings nya sayo bla bla bla.
- Loyal and trustworthy
- Not jealous and insecure
- Supportive
- Not OA
- Not a nagger
- Not a gossiper
- Not a hypocrite
- Genuinely sweet and caring
- Not hypergamous
Physical appearance doesnโt matter that much, itโs just a bonus to the traits Iโve previously mentioned.
Sa tanong mong yan. Unconditional yan. Bakit? Ang babae paiba iba ng ugali or sabihin natin mood swings. Kapag mahal mo isang babae wala ka ng hahanapin dapat sakanya. Ikaw dapat bubuo sakanya.
Emotionally mature, someone who doesn't take advantage of the "lady" privilege only when it suits them and not taking advantage of the fact that "may regla" to justify their unjust and unrespectful behaviour.
True. Kapag meron ako, naglalash out ako pero di ko sinasadya.. then I would say sorry. Kapag wapa naman akong regla di ako basta basta naglalash out. May iba na ginagamit talaga ang regla para makapag taray.
Correct, tao lang naman tayo sometimes we make mistakes and let our emotions gets the best of us, we may say or do harsh things because of it (emotions) however whats most important is recognizing your fault, admit it, ask for forgiveness and do better. A lot of people forgets the 4th one.
Dapat babae since birth hehez ๐๐ equal ang tingin sayo willing to open and listen sa isa't isa para walang nanghuhula and some traits na i won't describe but it's necessary and probably differs from other guys perspectives but it plays somewhere in basically ugali and mannerisms etc. Sempre facial features kahit di ka man kagandahan kumbaga basta mukang inaalagaan mo sarili mo i can't describe it but you'll know what I mean.
Lmao i aint doing the same gender as me im straight and no its not transphobia like im literally straight id want to know if what i would touch is the real deal it defeats the purpose of being straight if i were to have ang intercourse with a used to be a man
Not in proper order:
1. Marunong magluto
2. Mabait
3. Matalino
4. Sense of humor
5. May takot sa Diyos
6. Di toyoin
7. Madali pakisamahan or i-please
8. Sasamahan ka sa hnangang sa hirap at uncertainty.
nung nakita ko lahat yan sa isang babae, pinakasalan ko na. Have 2 kids and now living in the usa. Kaya boys, piliin ninyo maigi asawa ninyo. It could make or break your life
Your one sided expectations of what love is, and what you thought that person is going to be the downfall of your relationship, nobody is perfect. life especially your partner is not going to be the same as the Kdrama you seem to enjoy so much. You can't fit your partner into this pedestal and knit pick the traits they have that you don't like and replace them with the ones you see on romance media. You can't get mad saying that I don't know what you like, if you won't tell me, love is about understanding each other, that's why they call It growth. Damn nagrant na ako hahaha
Me personally is femininity. I have a girlfriend rn and she is most definitely not feminine. Palagi niya kinokontra mga desisyon ko sa kahit anong bagay, simple lang na bagay makkipag debate pa, nag bburp ng malakas sa public at marami pang mga masculine traits ng babae. Nakakaini. Gusto ko personallt ng feminine na babae, kahit hindi kagandahan basta bbigyan ako ng peace of mind. The world rn is already chaotic. Di ko na kailangan ng dadagdag pa ng sakit ng ulo
katahimikan. karamihan ng kilala kong babae, akala yata ay nasa tv series sila puro kadramahan. like sobrang legit na maliit na bagay nagagawa pa nilang pahabain yung usapan nila, dagdag pa yung mga assumptions nila na paniwalang paniwala sila na ganun talaga ang nangyayari sa buhay ng taong ginawan nila ng assumptions.
napapawow na lang talaga ako at nakakagawa sila ng mga ganong kwento at nag-aagree pa sila. wow na wow talaga...
btw, im a guy in an office na puro babae ang kasamahan edad 30-40's. mapapawow ka na lang rin talaga..
tapos madalas din nila ako tinatanong kung bakit raw ang tahimik ko, sagot ko lang "wala lang" sabay small laugh ng "hehe"
mas marami pa yung naikwento nila kesa sa trinabaho nila.. tapos nakakasawa pa yung mga nangyayari sa kanila sa pang araw araw na kinukwento pa nila hanggang sa office. kaliit na bagay lang, kinuwento pa.
hal. "alam niyo ba yung sa tricycle kanina.. blah blah blah"
tapos kaliit lang na bagay talaga, tapos magtatawanan na sila nun, sa isip ko, "may nakakatawa ba dun sa kinuwento niya?"
bat kaya ganun sila no? nakakarindi
may pagkakataon pa na hihingin nila opinyon ko sa mga pinaguusapan nilang "puro assumptions" nila. sumasagot lang ako ng "di ko po alam, hehe"
isa pa recently, yung tungkol kay alden at kath daw.. na feeling nung isa kong kasamahan ay publicity stunt lang daw yung mga nasa social media tapos di raw siya naniniwalang straight si alden. kasi wala pa raw girlfriend ever.. according sa kanya...
sa loob loob ko talaga gusto ko nang sagutin eh pero quiet na lang ako tas tinanong pa ako kung agree raw ba akong "di straight" alden.
"di ko po alam mam, di po kasi ako nag-aassume ng gender orientation ng iba" sabay tawa ulit ng "hehe"
ayun natahimik siya. gusto pa akong idamay sa kwentuhan nilang puro ganon.
Omg ang daming ganito sa office. Kaya nag last na ako ng 8 years sa company namin, wala padin akong ka close talaga. Puro โfriendsโ dahil sila kasama ko. Kahit babae ako, babaw na babaw ako sa mga maritess-an ng mga babae, girl talk at celebrity chika na gustong gusto ng mga female colleagues ko. Minsan mas madali pa ako nag kakaibigan na lalaki sa office kasi mas may sense pa topic nila pag naguusap.
Hahaha madami talagang ganyan sa edad na yan, parang nastuck na ata sa teenager ang kanilang utak, may katrabaho din ako 40s na jusq lahat nalang, di lang naisama kasi tanders na, nagagalit at nagtatampo agad
Hahahah. I give him peace naman kahit hindi nya hinihiling. Minsan kasi nararamdaman ko nalang yun na gusto nyang mapag isa. Medyo drama ako pero I'm learning how to control it kasi totoo talaga na hindi gusto marinig ng mga lalaki yung kadramahan ng babae. Gusto nila masayang usapan lang and of course peace.
-Yung di attention seeker tamang pacute lang kung gusto ng atensyon di yung namimilit.
-Marunong rumespeto sa time ng lalaki kapag busy
- Di paladesisyon kung anung path ang gusto tahakin kasi kung kaw din pala masusunod sana di ka nagtyaga sa lalaki na alam mo nung una kayong magkakilala yun na yung trabaho nya.
-Marunong sa gawain bahay.
-Willing na ibigay ang nararapat at kapag nag-away wag ipanumbat yung ginawa mong maluwag sa puso mo.
-marunong magtipid at umintindi sa panahon ng kagipitan.
-Marunong din mag-isip ng paraan pano makakatulong sa pag asenso nyong dalawa. alisin yung mindset na si lalaki dapat ang nagtatrabaho.
- wag na wag makikinig sa ibang taong galit sa partner mo. Paniwalaan mo yung tinitibok ng puso at isip mo.
To each is their own eh. Pero if ako personally whenever na nanligaw ako sa babae talagang sa mukha lang ako nagbebase. Yung talaga alam ko sa sarili ko na yung mukha nung babaeng yun ang gusto ko lagi makita. and weird pero nararanasan ko yung out of nowhere makikita ko face ng crush ko sa imagination ko para akong naka drugs hahaha wala den ako paki kung malaki ba boobs or pwet niya basta gusto ko siya. Naranasan ko drn yung Love at first sight parang yung crush ko nung college 5 years ata bago ko siya makalimutan. Nawala lang nung nalaman ko nabuntis na siya. Bano kase ako dumiskarte noon although cute naman ako at may mga babae na nagtatapat saken na gusto nila ako pero pag di ko kase gusto nagpapakatotoo ako I say no.
Someone that has a sense of humor, who 'gets' the jokes that you make.
Also someone who accepts you for who you are. But take note that this does not mean you don't fix behavioral issues that needs fixing.
yung hindi hayok na hayok maging sjw yung tipong marunong maging open sa lahat ng bagay at marunong magisip para sa sarili niya sa mga kontrobersyal na bagay hindi yung sunod ng sunod lang dahil sinabi eto ng favorite "influencer" niya
Depende eh. Some guys like women na upfront kung gusto ka nya kasi they reason that they don't like playing mindgames. Yung iba naman gusto sila ang manunuyo. Yung iba gusto na medyo mysterious yung babae and hindi agad-agad nag-o-open up, yung iba gusto na nagkukuwento and shows some human vulnerability yung babae. MInsan pa nga, yung akala nila alam nila na type, nagkakaroon ng exception kung feel nila na vibes nila yung babae and bet talaga nila.
Well yeah lets be real here, we all want what we wanted in the end here. Pero since parang genuine naman aside dun tanong ni OP, I'll answer too.
So far:
- Pag interested din siya sa mga interest mo rin. If I can try to put some interest into your likings, why not reciprocrate that as well? That's what settles to a long conversation. Eh kung dry naman kausap, effort seems wasted.
- We're adults na so we have time for ourselves and to our potential partners. So, please do understand na may oras sa pansarili, at sa partner mo. Having an alone time is also a necessity sakin, but yeah I do understand having physical touch as a language. Definitely can communicate and update when it comes to needing personal time.
- Kung may braces at ang cute ng tawa or smile niya. Dun palang sold na.
- Di pinapahaba yung away, communication is key, and kaya ko naman yun suyuan kagad.
- Kinda sucks if di open minded kausap, there will be no discussion on what you stand. We have different views pero we can create something in between, if we discuss openly.
- Well ofc, boses. The rest are typical na, which includes the NSFW but you get the gist.
I used to say basta maliit lang sakin na walang preference masyado like height or etc kasi palagi ako narereject ng mga babae na may height standards. Then nakilala ko tong gf ko na 5โ10 (5โ3 5โ4 lang ako btw), na sya pag nagyaya sakin lumabas and umamin type nya daw ako kasi nagtugma interest namin.
And until now mapansin ko man ma-spotlight kami sa public dahil sobrang ganda nya, pero dun ko narealize na may mga babae talaga tumitingin sa kung pinakaano ka hindi lang sa panlabas na anyo. Siguro if ever man babalik ako sa panahon may hanap hanap ako ayun ang sasabihin ko, and thankful ako dahil sya nagturo sakin
1. Understanding of my inexperiences. Willing to walk with me through those inexperiences.
2. Hardy/Resilient (NO IM NOT ROMANTICIZING RESILIENCEY GO FUCK YOURSELF), while we're working towards the life we dream of.
3. May productive/creative hobbies/interest. (Netflix/Kdrama/showbiz are none of the above)
4. Enjoys/Finds love in the simple things, while we hustle for our luxuries.
5. Di nagko-compare, di nakatingin sa buhay ng iba.
6. Loves and willing to learn.
Di ko na nilagay honest, faithful, etc. given na dapat yun.
I speak for most decent men when I say
1. Be our biggest supporter of our career
2. Respect our hobbies. Game, sports, music, etc..
3. Just be our peace of mind. If Iโm stressed from work, we just want to come home and maybe sit in peace with you (my woman).
4. Faithful to me and respectful to all.
This is subjective to men in general but for me.
1. Idc what you wear and if u post bikini pics online. Getting to know each other stage will determine if I can trust you with how you handle yourself on and off.
2. I like my woman who can cook good food.
3. Letโs chase after our career and agree that weโre doing this to benefit us financially in the future.
4. I like to know my woman has a history of taking care of kids (being an aunt or elder child.)
5. At least have a hobby as well. I donโt want you to be with me all the time. I want to practice times of solitude.
Rant lang on #1 based on experience. When I was younger, I would do it, yung magpakablind cheerleader. When I spent years with someone na walang plans so di ko masupport in anything, nagrereject ng promotions because ayaw ng extra work, narealize ko na ang hirap pala and support is not unconditional. May mark of genuine effort, progress pala dapat para mapalabas yung biggest supporter in a woman. Kailangan rin tulungan kahit sinong babae in your lives to trust in you, kasi dun sila di mahihirapan na maging biggest supporter nyo. Show competence and hardwork and in seasons for her to be patient, donโt take communication for granted.
Andaming standards sa mga lalaki pero kapag nabuntis na yung babae, iba na treatment. Hindi ko nilalahat pero mostly talaga, mag-iiba yung treatment. ๐
Hindi mo naman talaga malalaman if maling tao or tamang tao kana until buntis na ang babae. May lalaki na good partner but not a good father. Meron naman as a bad partner but a good father. Observation ko from my parents to my friends, ๐
Nope, daming lalaki goods sa una and then mag-iiba ugali pagbuntis na ang babae. Daming lalaki goods when it comes to dating then mag-iiba na kapag kasal na. Babae kaba? Parang di mo gets, Hahaha ๐
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Wow ang aayos ng mga sagot ng guys? Single ba kayo?
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Yall are cappin bruh. Looks doesnt matter? Really?ย Money doesnt matter pag babae, basta cute tiklop agad kahit sino. Pero pag long term usapan at seseryosohin - cute at loyal common denominator dyan. Wala naman magtitiis if di attracted, and lalo wala magtitiis na guy if nagccheat ang babae. Straight facts
Actually attracted ako sa mga ibat ibang combination ng trait sa nga babae, and dipende na lang din sa persinality ng babae ang intesity ng attraction ko. sa pangloob at panglabas, ibat ibang klase ng babae ang nagustuhan ko dati. pero meron ako na certain things na gusto sana sa mapapangasawa ko. Isa na dun yung gusto makipag wrestling sakin competitively lol
Intellectual and emotional intelligence.
Ayaw nyo ba sa matangkad? Hahaha
Gusto.
no specific, ibat ibang babae kasi has their own unique personality and appearance, ako lalaki ako, na attract na ako sa pango na singkit, meron din nagka crush ako sa medyo chubby sya na maliit, dati ayoko ng maliit talaga na babae yung parang bata, pero yung ex ko yung height nya parang 4'11 lang ata, depende na lang talaga sa attraction eh, kasi kahit magandang maganda ka pa, kung di naman ako/kame ma attract eh.. yun lang
Dependable. Trust-worthy. Fidelity. โ๏ธ
Emotional Understanding. Men have a lot of emotion and had a hard time sorting it out which is resulting to some dead air or anger for few. but just wanna state na ang mga lalaki ay tao lang, had a lot of emotion especially those whoโs a breadwinner or grew far from home and we arent raised to handle such thing or how to deal with all these emotions
yung may tite
ANGHEL SA LUPA, DEMONYO SA KAMA ๐๐
strong personality. some guys like girls who are fiesty, masarap asarin, or ung mayroong matured pero goofy side.
No specific. Basta kapag mahal, mahal despite of the character. Meron kasi yung type nga yung babae, dream girl, lolokohin padin naman.
Sabi ng fiance ko, yung mga babaeng may goal sa buhay, nagsisikap di puro arte at gastos sa buhay. Established na babae.
Hello, OP. Naka depende Po sa individual sa knyang personal preferences and values. Pero Yung mga common Po is. Companionship Communication Emotional Support Physical affection Respect Trust LOYALTY Every tao Po is unique and may have different wants and needs in a relationship. Communication and understanding are key to building a successful and fulfilling relationship. Rooting for u!
Depende kung Ano ang kailangan o hinahanap niya sa babae...
To each his own. There is no right or correct answer.
Wala akong maisip bukod sa dapat maganda at sexy ๐ญ siguro ung malakas ang loob tsaka di sumusuko?
Malakas loob, independent, can fend for themselves, marunong sa kotse ๐ marunong house repair or at least hindi takot sa house repair or humawak ng martilyo is enough. Hindi yun "gawain lalake"agad ang dahilan. Hindi yosi Vape. Street smart or sadyang matalino sa gawa. Marunong magalit pero kaya mag move on almost immediately. Magalit man sa kapwa babae kaya mag move on agad and ignore emotions. Walang silent treatment as means of punishment. Sorry. Not asking for perfect ideal partner. Just a list.
Gusto ko yung mag stay lang sakin. Nakakapagod maging good guy kasi lagi nalang ako yung binibitawan or iniiwan despite the efforts ๐
Yung handa akong ikiss para sa ikabubuti ng taguig city
the power to amplify. Kapag nakakuha ka ng maayos na babae, maamplify lahat ng dreams and hustle mo, aayos buhay mo lalo. kung makakuha ka ng wack girl, asahan mo amplified din lahat ng negative things sa buhay at mababaliw ka lang.
Smart, can laugh at herself, has a sense of humor, is intelligent, and is confident. Bonus na lang siguro ang charisma at katawan (or a pretty face)
Kayang mag front flip ng 5 times, At samahan muna ng kickflip
they want smart women na may sense kausap and deep thinker! hehe
Yung ginagawa kaming little spoon ๐๐๐ฅบ
facts broooo
Honesty, more than loyalty Respect, more than love
Magaling mag blow job
Pano iblowjob ang babae.
Simple lang naman. Tapat at mapagmahal/maalaga. May sariling pera, malaki kumita, stable sa buhay. Baliw na baliw kung umibig. Ganun lanh naman.
Enthusiastic and passionate. Nothing is more attractive than an enthusiastic person
Wise and comedic. The "hindi overly maarte" woman na tila spoiled at hindi nakaranas ng hardships sa buhay kung tumrato ng kapwa. Perfect if a woman of Godโnothing beats this.
there will never be a definitive answer to this. it is subjective.
๐ฏ
Matured pero feminine. Street and book smart. Ass over titties.
yung matured plus matalino ( di yung talinong 10/10 lagi sa quiz, more like an intelligent one) wala lang nakaka attract plus points talaga
Loyalty, lambing kahit tapos na ovulation period, affirmation, reassurance, honesty but in a gracious way, non-weaponization of sex, ka-fire team sa CoD, or ka-party sa Monster Hunter.
Gusto ng tao sumama doon sa masarap kasama. Ganoon naman tayo sa kahit sinong tao, mapa kaibigan, kapamilya, etc. mas pipiliin mong mag spend ng time don sa masarap kasama kasi napapagaan loob mo or at least safe ka pg kasama mo sila Di ako agree don sa nagsabing gusto ng mga lalaki sa tahimik at di chismosang babae. Sobrang generalized nya. In reality, nasa preference ng tao kung trip nila ng makwento o tahimik ang babae.
Companionship
Sa physical, unang una talaga mukha and then boobs, sunod pwet. Tapos mala coke na katawan, minsan ok din ang chubby voluptuous kumbaga. Ayan nasagot ko ba ang tanong mo? ๐
Ung wag naman lage ang katamadan
-loyalty -maturity -willingness to learn -cooperation -fucking loyalty -"i understand we're going thru something, and it's difficult for me, too. But I want to go thru this with you, no one else." -"hey, i think i may be going thru something. Please bear with me." -" hey, are you going thru something? Come here, let me hold you" -pukinanginang loyalty -"hey, this isn't working out anymore. We've been thru this over and over, and I can't keep this up. I want to break this off before seeing other people." This goes both ways, btw. Edit: sorry sa format. Mobile. Parang feelings nya sayo bla bla bla.
The one that say yes... :(
You can't always say yes.
Say yes.. saan?
Riding in tandem daw
- Loyal and trustworthy - Not jealous and insecure - Supportive - Not OA - Not a nagger - Not a gossiper - Not a hypocrite - Genuinely sweet and caring - Not hypergamous Physical appearance doesnโt matter that much, itโs just a bonus to the traits Iโve previously mentioned.
May respeto sa partner nya.
Sa tanong mong yan. Unconditional yan. Bakit? Ang babae paiba iba ng ugali or sabihin natin mood swings. Kapag mahal mo isang babae wala ka ng hahanapin dapat sakanya. Ikaw dapat bubuo sakanya.
Dapat buo ka muna bago ka makipag relasyon. Pet peeve for me yung niroromanticize ang โtoyoโ kasi babae
Emotionally mature, someone who doesn't take advantage of the "lady" privilege only when it suits them and not taking advantage of the fact that "may regla" to justify their unjust and unrespectful behaviour.
True. Kapag meron ako, naglalash out ako pero di ko sinasadya.. then I would say sorry. Kapag wapa naman akong regla di ako basta basta naglalash out. May iba na ginagamit talaga ang regla para makapag taray.
Correct, tao lang naman tayo sometimes we make mistakes and let our emotions gets the best of us, we may say or do harsh things because of it (emotions) however whats most important is recognizing your fault, admit it, ask for forgiveness and do better. A lot of people forgets the 4th one.
A guy would settle to a girl na kaya mag bigay sa kanya ng peace of mind no matter whats the appearance
Yung magaan kasama.
Peace of mind in what aspect?
As in understanding ang babae because if you understand your partner then love respect and honesty will follow
Yung maganda, mabait, wala toyo at most important sasabihin kung ano ang gusto straight to the point. Di po kami manghuhula ๐โ๏ธ
It starts with looks, aligns with personality, and lasts with kindness.
yung supportive mala Angela ba pumatong hahahah
Dapat babae since birth hehez ๐๐ equal ang tingin sayo willing to open and listen sa isa't isa para walang nanghuhula and some traits na i won't describe but it's necessary and probably differs from other guys perspectives but it plays somewhere in basically ugali and mannerisms etc. Sempre facial features kahit di ka man kagandahan kumbaga basta mukang inaalagaan mo sarili mo i can't describe it but you'll know what I mean.
Not the subtle transphobia ๐
Lmao i aint doing the same gender as me im straight and no its not transphobia like im literally straight id want to know if what i would touch is the real deal it defeats the purpose of being straight if i were to have ang intercourse with a used to be a man
It's not "used to be a man" It's still a man. Pinutulan lang ng ๐ tapos nagbihis babae.
Truu
Not in proper order: 1. Marunong magluto 2. Mabait 3. Matalino 4. Sense of humor 5. May takot sa Diyos 6. Di toyoin 7. Madali pakisamahan or i-please 8. Sasamahan ka sa hnangang sa hirap at uncertainty. nung nakita ko lahat yan sa isang babae, pinakasalan ko na. Have 2 kids and now living in the usa. Kaya boys, piliin ninyo maigi asawa ninyo. It could make or break your life
matalino, marunong magluto, loyal, kasing-galing ko sa bed
Walang toyo, kayang igalang ang personal space at alone time ng isang lalaki, hindi maluho
What if maluho pero galing naman sa pinag hirapan ni girl at di naman humihingi?
Your one sided expectations of what love is, and what you thought that person is going to be the downfall of your relationship, nobody is perfect. life especially your partner is not going to be the same as the Kdrama you seem to enjoy so much. You can't fit your partner into this pedestal and knit pick the traits they have that you don't like and replace them with the ones you see on romance media. You can't get mad saying that I don't know what you like, if you won't tell me, love is about understanding each other, that's why they call It growth. Damn nagrant na ako hahaha
Always naman ako understanding.
Sorry this isn't about you, it's a rant about my ex. But what I really want sa babae is mahilig sa books
Ok lang. Mahilig ako sa books before pero habang palagpas na ko sa kalendaryo natatamad nakong magbasa.
Hahaha same. Ngayon lang Naman ako nagpick up Ng book "Even ducks get liver cancer", my suggestions ka Ng book, hanap ako Ng books by friday
The bee sting by Paul Murray
I look into it. Thank you
No problem. Enjoy. Thank you din.
Kalmado
Pag mamahal ๐ซถ
Me personally is femininity. I have a girlfriend rn and she is most definitely not feminine. Palagi niya kinokontra mga desisyon ko sa kahit anong bagay, simple lang na bagay makkipag debate pa, nag bburp ng malakas sa public at marami pang mga masculine traits ng babae. Nakakaini. Gusto ko personallt ng feminine na babae, kahit hindi kagandahan basta bbigyan ako ng peace of mind. The world rn is already chaotic. Di ko na kailangan ng dadagdag pa ng sakit ng ulo
If nakakainis siya, bakit hindi mo iwan?
True. Kami naman we never fight. I always give him peace of mind. Binibigyan ko rin sya ng time and space to spend sometime alone.
Masarap kausap, hindi nauubusan ng kwento, matalino, marunong sa gawaing bahay (wag puro ganda lang, hehe) And may respeto sa iba.
Loyalty
Tapos lolokohin lang din ๐ซฃ
Niloko ba kita
๐คฃ
katahimikan. karamihan ng kilala kong babae, akala yata ay nasa tv series sila puro kadramahan. like sobrang legit na maliit na bagay nagagawa pa nilang pahabain yung usapan nila, dagdag pa yung mga assumptions nila na paniwalang paniwala sila na ganun talaga ang nangyayari sa buhay ng taong ginawan nila ng assumptions. napapawow na lang talaga ako at nakakagawa sila ng mga ganong kwento at nag-aagree pa sila. wow na wow talaga... btw, im a guy in an office na puro babae ang kasamahan edad 30-40's. mapapawow ka na lang rin talaga.. tapos madalas din nila ako tinatanong kung bakit raw ang tahimik ko, sagot ko lang "wala lang" sabay small laugh ng "hehe" mas marami pa yung naikwento nila kesa sa trinabaho nila.. tapos nakakasawa pa yung mga nangyayari sa kanila sa pang araw araw na kinukwento pa nila hanggang sa office. kaliit na bagay lang, kinuwento pa. hal. "alam niyo ba yung sa tricycle kanina.. blah blah blah" tapos kaliit lang na bagay talaga, tapos magtatawanan na sila nun, sa isip ko, "may nakakatawa ba dun sa kinuwento niya?" bat kaya ganun sila no? nakakarindi may pagkakataon pa na hihingin nila opinyon ko sa mga pinaguusapan nilang "puro assumptions" nila. sumasagot lang ako ng "di ko po alam, hehe" isa pa recently, yung tungkol kay alden at kath daw.. na feeling nung isa kong kasamahan ay publicity stunt lang daw yung mga nasa social media tapos di raw siya naniniwalang straight si alden. kasi wala pa raw girlfriend ever.. according sa kanya... sa loob loob ko talaga gusto ko nang sagutin eh pero quiet na lang ako tas tinanong pa ako kung agree raw ba akong "di straight" alden. "di ko po alam mam, di po kasi ako nag-aassume ng gender orientation ng iba" sabay tawa ulit ng "hehe" ayun natahimik siya. gusto pa akong idamay sa kwentuhan nilang puro ganon.
Omg ang daming ganito sa office. Kaya nag last na ako ng 8 years sa company namin, wala padin akong ka close talaga. Puro โfriendsโ dahil sila kasama ko. Kahit babae ako, babaw na babaw ako sa mga maritess-an ng mga babae, girl talk at celebrity chika na gustong gusto ng mga female colleagues ko. Minsan mas madali pa ako nag kakaibigan na lalaki sa office kasi mas may sense pa topic nila pag naguusap.
Hahaha madami talagang ganyan sa edad na yan, parang nastuck na ata sa teenager ang kanilang utak, may katrabaho din ako 40s na jusq lahat nalang, di lang naisama kasi tanders na, nagagalit at nagtatampo agad
Hahahah. I give him peace naman kahit hindi nya hinihiling. Minsan kasi nararamdaman ko nalang yun na gusto nyang mapag isa. Medyo drama ako pero I'm learning how to control it kasi totoo talaga na hindi gusto marinig ng mga lalaki yung kadramahan ng babae. Gusto nila masayang usapan lang and of course peace.
peace of mind and support
Clingy
Good girl with the right amount of dirty
Someone who got your back, from scratch to having an empire.
mahinhin na mala gangster yung asta, ahahaha
Dati looks. Ngayon good ass at magka vibes lang, wala nako mahihiling pa.
Thicc (Yung hindi obese)
dika bibigyan ng sakit sa ulo. Pero mas gusto ko lambing.
Attention
Taking notes hahaha
Personality.
Yung di ka bibigyan ng sakit ng ulo.
Walang kinikilingan
Walang pinoprotektahan
Walang kasinungalingan
Serbisyong totoo lamang
SAKSI!
Excuse me po!
-Yung di attention seeker tamang pacute lang kung gusto ng atensyon di yung namimilit. -Marunong rumespeto sa time ng lalaki kapag busy - Di paladesisyon kung anung path ang gusto tahakin kasi kung kaw din pala masusunod sana di ka nagtyaga sa lalaki na alam mo nung una kayong magkakilala yun na yung trabaho nya. -Marunong sa gawain bahay. -Willing na ibigay ang nararapat at kapag nag-away wag ipanumbat yung ginawa mong maluwag sa puso mo. -marunong magtipid at umintindi sa panahon ng kagipitan. -Marunong din mag-isip ng paraan pano makakatulong sa pag asenso nyong dalawa. alisin yung mindset na si lalaki dapat ang nagtatrabaho. - wag na wag makikinig sa ibang taong galit sa partner mo. Paniwalaan mo yung tinitibok ng puso at isip mo.
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To each is their own eh. Pero if ako personally whenever na nanligaw ako sa babae talagang sa mukha lang ako nagbebase. Yung talaga alam ko sa sarili ko na yung mukha nung babaeng yun ang gusto ko lagi makita. and weird pero nararanasan ko yung out of nowhere makikita ko face ng crush ko sa imagination ko para akong naka drugs hahaha wala den ako paki kung malaki ba boobs or pwet niya basta gusto ko siya. Naranasan ko drn yung Love at first sight parang yung crush ko nung college 5 years ata bago ko siya makalimutan. Nawala lang nung nalaman ko nabuntis na siya. Bano kase ako dumiskarte noon although cute naman ako at may mga babae na nagtatapat saken na gusto nila ako pero pag di ko kase gusto nagpapakatotoo ako I say no.
Mabait/humourous
ka vibe, same ng intelligence, at may class hehe
Companionship
yung masarap kausap, magkentuhan mula umaga hanggang gabi, masaya kasama, at yung feeling na wala ka nang paki sa paligid basta kasama mo siya.
Yung hindi kyaw kyaw nang kyaw kyaw
Someone that has a sense of humor, who 'gets' the jokes that you make. Also someone who accepts you for who you are. But take note that this does not mean you don't fix behavioral issues that needs fixing.
yung hindi hayok na hayok maging sjw yung tipong marunong maging open sa lahat ng bagay at marunong magisip para sa sarili niya sa mga kontrobersyal na bagay hindi yung sunod ng sunod lang dahil sinabi eto ng favorite "influencer" niya
Ano po sjw?
a God fearing woman
Tits
Puki at kapayapaan
puke
Yung di ako huhusgahan because sheโs my safest place
Depende eh. Some guys like women na upfront kung gusto ka nya kasi they reason that they don't like playing mindgames. Yung iba naman gusto sila ang manunuyo. Yung iba gusto na medyo mysterious yung babae and hindi agad-agad nag-o-open up, yung iba gusto na nagkukuwento and shows some human vulnerability yung babae. MInsan pa nga, yung akala nila alam nila na type, nagkakaroon ng exception kung feel nila na vibes nila yung babae and bet talaga nila.
Yung may alagang dragon at mahilig kumain ng damo tuwing 4:17 ng madaling araw.
Straight to the point, walang plastekan! Malaki Dede
Number 1 yung sweet and caring.
Meron din fake na sweet and caring personality kapag more than 1 sexual partners nya ka love team nya ๐ side ๐ฃ
Malalaman mo naman when someone is not being authentic.
95% of main stream Filipinos don't possess this life surviving talent
Ano yung signs na someone is NOT being real with you?
If their words and actions don't add up. Di mo agad malalaman yan. It requires multiple interactions to know if someone is faking things.
Well yeah lets be real here, we all want what we wanted in the end here. Pero since parang genuine naman aside dun tanong ni OP, I'll answer too. So far: - Pag interested din siya sa mga interest mo rin. If I can try to put some interest into your likings, why not reciprocrate that as well? That's what settles to a long conversation. Eh kung dry naman kausap, effort seems wasted. - We're adults na so we have time for ourselves and to our potential partners. So, please do understand na may oras sa pansarili, at sa partner mo. Having an alone time is also a necessity sakin, but yeah I do understand having physical touch as a language. Definitely can communicate and update when it comes to needing personal time. - Kung may braces at ang cute ng tawa or smile niya. Dun palang sold na. - Di pinapahaba yung away, communication is key, and kaya ko naman yun suyuan kagad. - Kinda sucks if di open minded kausap, there will be no discussion on what you stand. We have different views pero we can create something in between, if we discuss openly. - Well ofc, boses. The rest are typical na, which includes the NSFW but you get the gist.
I used to say basta maliit lang sakin na walang preference masyado like height or etc kasi palagi ako narereject ng mga babae na may height standards. Then nakilala ko tong gf ko na 5โ10 (5โ3 5โ4 lang ako btw), na sya pag nagyaya sakin lumabas and umamin type nya daw ako kasi nagtugma interest namin. And until now mapansin ko man ma-spotlight kami sa public dahil sobrang ganda nya, pero dun ko narealize na may mga babae talaga tumitingin sa kung pinakaano ka hindi lang sa panlabas na anyo. Siguro if ever man babalik ako sa panahon may hanap hanap ako ayun ang sasabihin ko, and thankful ako dahil sya nagturo sakin
Yung Hindi BUNGANGERA
Girl who accepts your flaws, faithful and will love you unconditionally
Femininity
1. Understanding of my inexperiences. Willing to walk with me through those inexperiences. 2. Hardy/Resilient (NO IM NOT ROMANTICIZING RESILIENCEY GO FUCK YOURSELF), while we're working towards the life we dream of. 3. May productive/creative hobbies/interest. (Netflix/Kdrama/showbiz are none of the above) 4. Enjoys/Finds love in the simple things, while we hustle for our luxuries. 5. Di nagko-compare, di nakatingin sa buhay ng iba. 6. Loves and willing to learn. Di ko na nilagay honest, faithful, etc. given na dapat yun.
Pag mahal mo mahal period...kahit yan pa Yung kabaligtaran Ng dream girl mo
I speak for most decent men when I say 1. Be our biggest supporter of our career 2. Respect our hobbies. Game, sports, music, etc.. 3. Just be our peace of mind. If Iโm stressed from work, we just want to come home and maybe sit in peace with you (my woman). 4. Faithful to me and respectful to all. This is subjective to men in general but for me. 1. Idc what you wear and if u post bikini pics online. Getting to know each other stage will determine if I can trust you with how you handle yourself on and off. 2. I like my woman who can cook good food. 3. Letโs chase after our career and agree that weโre doing this to benefit us financially in the future. 4. I like to know my woman has a history of taking care of kids (being an aunt or elder child.) 5. At least have a hobby as well. I donโt want you to be with me all the time. I want to practice times of solitude.
Rant lang on #1 based on experience. When I was younger, I would do it, yung magpakablind cheerleader. When I spent years with someone na walang plans so di ko masupport in anything, nagrereject ng promotions because ayaw ng extra work, narealize ko na ang hirap pala and support is not unconditional. May mark of genuine effort, progress pala dapat para mapalabas yung biggest supporter in a woman. Kailangan rin tulungan kahit sinong babae in your lives to trust in you, kasi dun sila di mahihirapan na maging biggest supporter nyo. Show competence and hardwork and in seasons for her to be patient, donโt take communication for granted.
Is this me? pero most guys are intimidated ๐คฃ
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Target lock ๐. Kidding aside, good for you, keep it up ๐๐ผ
matured
Yung bibigyan kami ng [Azur Lane figures](https://twitter.com/nana_illust/status/1771123661124354084).
Wala ka pambili?
It's a joke.
someone na puts words into actions. saka yung full support sayo
Girl that has good feminine energy. Not too much, sakto lang.
Thoughful and maalaga. It goes both ways naman. Kaya sabayan hilig mo, cute kaya pag parehas kami mahilig mag laro ng online games
yung nakakapag dala ng peace of mind. kung toxic pabebe lang, kahit maganda wag nalang.
Andaming standards sa mga lalaki pero kapag nabuntis na yung babae, iba na treatment. Hindi ko nilalahat pero mostly talaga, mag-iiba yung treatment. ๐
Yes. Same experience.
Malamang sa maling tao ka nag pa kantot
Hindi mo naman talaga malalaman if maling tao or tamang tao kana until buntis na ang babae. May lalaki na good partner but not a good father. Meron naman as a bad partner but a good father. Observation ko from my parents to my friends, ๐
Malalaman mo yan sa una palang.
Nope, daming lalaki goods sa una and then mag-iiba ugali pagbuntis na ang babae. Daming lalaki goods when it comes to dating then mag-iiba na kapag kasal na. Babae kaba? Parang di mo gets, Hahaha ๐
Yung mas malake yung tite. Haha
gage bading yun
Kung sino lang magmamahal sakin kung sino ako at mamahalin ko rin siya ng parehas.
" I love you equally or I love you more"
" I love you equally or I love you more"
fun goals, fun food, fun sex, fun company, fun life filled with gratitude, communication, spirituality, and fulfillment.
tapos kung gusto mo tahimik na buhay, magjowa ka ng mime
magjowa ka ng payaso
swerte ko nga sa kanya, galing niya magmagic
Whyd u get downvoted for this haha
because people only hear what they want to hear.
malaking dede
Yan ang gusto ko. Straight to the point hahahahaha
babae ako pero pare-pareho lang naman yang mga lalaki ng hilig. basta malaki suso okay na
it depends naman sa preference ng tao, mas naattract kasi ako sa petite na babae kesa sa mga may malalaking bubs hehe
Suso or pwet. Which is very true naman.
Yung merong Blue Eyes White Dragon na limited edition
true
1. Someone who reciprocates my love, energy, etc. 2. Honest 3. Someone who knows what she wants (dream) and/or is currently pursuing it
Support. As in yung safe place/person to confide with. No judgement. Nobody wants to go home to a judging partner.
can this be your friend? Bcs I am srsly thinking how can I get out of friend zone