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Halos araw araw naiiyak sa dami ng problema sa bahay #adulting. Parent ko kasi may bukol nangangamba kaming cancer. Ilang trabaho na yung ginagawa ko just to meet ends, pero kulang pa rin. Nagising na lang ako isang araw ako na lahat dapat sumalo ng responsibilidad kahit deep inside babygurl lang talaga ako hahaha. Oversleeping and trying na bumangon para gawin ang tasks kada araw.
Honestly, no. I feel numb. Recently, I feel like the world hates me or more like I hate myself. I'm constantly failing and being reminded that I can't fail because of pressure and because I don't have the luxury to, as we're not rich.
No. I am so mad at myself for constantly committing the stupidest mistakes. Trivial they may seem but I would always have a hard time recovering from its consequences. I simply cannot go on like this.
I think I'm doing fine naman.
I have a job and maganda naman salary.
I have a complete family.
We have a house to sleep.
We can eat in restaurants.
I have friends.
I think I already have everything that I prayed for except that I've been single since birth Hahahaah.
Hindi naman sa atat pero kasi minsan naiisip ko pano kaya pagnagka jowa na ko? Is Kaya ko ba maging good partner? Hahaahha!
There was a guy in 2020 naumamin sakin and for me okay naman sya kaso nga lang pandemic.
Kakaresign ko lang sa first job ko and then ang hirap naman ata makipagrelasyon ng wala pang nararating since I'm also a breadwinner so yun ngayon napapakanta na lang ako neto...
He was sunshine, I was midnight rain
He wanted it comfortable
I wanted that pain
He wanted a bride
I was making my own name
Chasing that fae stayed the same
Hurting. I blocked him today and will no longer think of him. It hasn't been a week since we broke up, but he's already on a date. Sucks. But I'm going to be fine soon. I promise myself that I am worthy.
No, because fuck IT. I didn't even want it in the first place. I chose to do it instead because I was undecided with what I wanted in the first place. Failed some majors and got left behind for a year. Passed the failed majors the year after out of fucking luck. I got my bachelors degree. Got a job in IT and quit after 2 years because I can no longer keep doing this complicated shit. I kept going with the "fake it till you make it" attitude and took a masters degree in IT just so I can work abroad, it was the only thing offered related to my experience and degree. Got my masters. Got offered a job in IT and am currently toughing it out till my visa restriction is lifted (I have to work in the place where I got my visa for a couple of years) and hopefully start getting into agriculture, particularly animal husbandry because it seems interesting.
Im not fine yung ex live in partner ko kakahiwalay lang namin pero ayun naghahanap na ng kalandian online haha dating apps may dalwa kaming anak and then sinaktan nya ko malala physically parang ako pa yung may mali hays,
I hate to admit na baka pamapalipas oras lang ako or something. Why cant i be more than that? I want someone to talk to sana, a big sister advice sana huhu. I just want to vent all my frustrations sa lyff hayy
No, i am not okay right now. I came from a very turbulent situation, and I dont want to drown from it. Gusto ko na makausap kaso, I dont know if makikita nya yun. I have needs in a relationship - in a something. Pero wala eh. I thought this ka-talking stage would help me
No, not at all. Been dealing with lots of problems, idagdag mo pa ‘tong mental health ko na mahina. But i feel like i have no right to feel this sort of way because others suffer more than i do. And if i were to put myself in their shoes, baka by then, marealize ko how lucky still i am. This has always been my coping mechanism, am i the only one? 😕😕
No. Nasa hospital mom ko and her health is not in a good state. Wala na akong hihilingin pa kundi ang kagalingan ni mama. Kahit di na magkajowa, kahit di na makaahon sa hirap. Buhay lang ni mama sapat na sa akin.
Yes. I’m grateful for my life. I am privileged and very lucky. I have a good, loyal, loving, hardworking husband and 2 young children I spend time with everyday. I make 40k a month, 20k from rental and 20k from a part time job. My husband gives me 140k allowance monthly. I don’t know what I have done to deserve this good life. I try to help others when I can, give back when I can. I am doing my best to raise kind and grateful children and hopefully someday they find a way to change other’s lives for the better. Sometimes I still don’t understand why life is unfair for others and my heart breaks for the less fortunate. Whoever is reading this I hope my luck is shared with you. There is a lot to go around.
No. Ang daming gastusin ngayon sa bahay. I'm still a college student so hindi ako makatulong sa parents ko. I feel like a burden and I badly want to help them. If you can recommend me a work, that will really help. I'm really tired of feeling out of control of my life.
IDK. Sometimes in a positive mood na akala mo parang feel na magiging super productive ka and magiging better ka than some people. Madalas negative ang mood, kinocompare mo sarili mo sa iba at tinatanong sa sarili Kung bkit naging ganito buhay mo. And minsan blank state of mind.
No. Hindi ako masaya sa napasukan kong manuf. company. First job ko e kaya pinatos ko na kahit minimum ang sahod. Gusto ko na agad umalis ayoko na ituloy pero di ko alam kung paano kase ieendorse na ako sa IT dept sa monday and mag start na 😩
No, I’m not. ‘Yung taong pinangakuan ako ng complete family with our baby daughter, andun na ngayon sa mga dating apps, entertaining young girls on Tiktok, FB, at sa lahat ng social media inaaya niya mag coffee date at kantutan after. I have so much in my plate right now. I do everything; hands on mom, work, expenses, everything ako. Tas ‘yung tatay? Andun, proud calling himself a single fucking dad putangina niya mamatay na siya please.
I feel you haha yung tatay din ng anak ko kakahiwalay lang namin dahil papanakit physically ayun kinabukasan nasa dating apps at kung sino sino na chinachat naghahanap ng comfort ang sad boy haha. Ako pa sinabihan na sinagad ko daw sya.
From Bicol and now nasa Metro Manila na due to work. Ngayon masaya ako na may trabaho ako pero parang may pangangamba kase yung dream job ko palabo ng palabo. Pero ang maganda naman sa dream job ko is basta updated ka sa mga skills eh may chance ka. Ngayon after ng 8-5 job ko, upskill paguwi. Kahit 2hrs, then nakakapag video games pa.
I feel both numb and sensitive to even the softest blows of wind. Sometimes I feel like deep inside my empathy is broken, and while I show up for people, be a good friend, and vocalize my support for good causes like the ceasefire, everything has become so overwhelming in life lately that for some reason my body and mind stopped feeling things deeply. And it makes me incredibly sad because this is not who I am or who I used to be. All I’ve been feeling is my own sadness, but I have no access to professional help.
I want to be okay. I try to be okay. There are times na ang saya saya ko talaga pero after awhile, whatever I'm feeling just comes back, and it's slowly deteriorating me.
In terms of everything in my life, all is not okay, but I know that it will be soon enough. Huge thanks to counselling. Kadalasan in denial pa ako na I have a problem until something happens that served as my wake up call. Muntik na kaming maging broken home because of my undoing. Thank God He guided me. I believe that in order to grow, you have to be planted, and boy was I buried and planted. Hoping for new sprouts to grow soon. 🙂
I'm not okay and I don't think if magiging okay pa ako. Sobrang lugmok, lungkot, at nakakapanghina. I can't even reach out to my friends because they're also busy kasi graduating kami. I want to cry on someone's shoulders really bad.
A lil bit jittery. Finals na naman and bumabalik yung anxiety ko, feels like I have to do shit tons of stuff pero magrereview lang naman ako 🥲
I hate overthinking.
no. The thought of the future scares me right now that I am an adult and the certainty of getting a life is definitely difficult. Starting this adult phase is hard especially when you're not financially literate, emotionally stable, and you feel ordinary. It's hard not getting picked for job applications, paying rent with just enough money, and having to get by but barely.
I just hope things would get better sometime soon because things are heavier than usual.
We're all generally fucked and in misery. I swear if they conduct a poll on who's happy and depressed, the majority would be in the sad category.
What a cruel world.
idk how to describe this tiredness??? im feeling. im tired of bearing my self-imposed pressure. as the eldest child of our family, i feel like it’s my responsibility to carry my parents’ problem as well mostly financial. but i just graduated and abt to take the board exam. i feel like im being behind my peers and im not doing enough to support my family although im alr working and my parents have always said i dont need to give to the household. still, i do. and i feel like it’s not enough. my other siblings couldn’t go to college bc my parents can’t afford the program they want as i was also still in uni and i feel like now it’s my responsibility to send them to college or atleast contribute. but at this point, im stuck with reviewing for boards and my minimum wage. i overthink this a lot. me not being enough. scared of the future. i know im still at my 20s and new to this adulting. i should live at the moment blah blah. but as someone who came from a middle class family, an eldest child, i just couldn’t live at the moment and enjoy without thinking for my siblings.
ako lang ba?
Honestly, so empty. I have everything I have been praying for 5 years ago pero I realized na external things would never make you happy. You become happy when you work on deciding to be happy. Slowly getting there!
How about you OP?
Yep. Doing good. Seeing this new doomer generation upsets me… like if I rolled over and gave up like they do, I’d have never met my wife, had a child on the way, or be planning my first house and remodeling.
I’ve been homeless, disabled, alone for almost all my life. If I had been part of this doomer generation I probably would have given up and bitched and moaned on Reddit till I ended it all.
no lmao i want to disappear, no talents, no skills, hirap kumuha ng trabaho kahit may degree and license, di alam kung san pede mag apply, hirap mag commute sa pinas, ang inet, inuubo, malalang saket na sana ito mamatay na lang kaya ako,
Frustrated ako KC Wala ako pera. Pota gsto ko gumawa Ng subdivision na pet friendly na all cars will be left on the parking lot TAs lahat Ng pet pwede gumala sa labas Ng Bahay as long as d cla mag away. Kukuha ako Ng mga pet trainers to roam the streets to control and help pets and owners to teach their pets. TAs kukuha dn ako Ng mga street cleaners na mag lilinis Ng poops nila at keep the streets tidy that also refills public pet food stations for strays TAs ung mga trainers pede dn mag practice Ng training methods nila sa mga strays na maliligaw sa area at pag na train na open for adoption Sila. I want a faqing community that has a faqing hearth kht mababa pa upa ko gsto ko lng Ng thmik na Lugar at walang nanakit Ng mga haup pota.
I have to stop coding and cradle through questions like this because I am kind of annoyed by a dude rn who tries too hard to become superior. Earlier while coding I randomly checked my messenger to see if my mom messaged me then a strange guy messaged asking who I was I said I didn't know him either and quickly said bye to continue coding but then he lowkey insisted on talking so I stayed for 5 minutes talking to him. The conversation was like a sea wave, the mood constantly changed. I felt different two emotions while talking to him -> Happy and annoyed. It goes on and off. After talking to that "I don't even know dude" I have to stop coding and entertain myself for a little because I couldn't focus. That little conversation we had had a huge temporary impact on me. after 30 minutes I went back from coding for 2 hours. After 2 hours I took a break and went to messenger he messaged me again. "Who the fuck are you?" "What do you want?" I was like huh? what's wrong with this dude? Why is he making me feel that I am a fool of myself? I did nothing wrong; it was just a coincidence that I added him. Hindi ko nga maalala na I added him eh. I know this shit is nothing I should be bothered by, but I felt so manipulated. Who are you to trick my feelings? He's older than me but he's talking like the majority of my age those "wanna be cool/superior" disrespectful kids. I responded to his kid's behavior message saying that I don't know him either. I told him that in the first place, I didn't want to be involved in that stupid conversation but now he's making me feel that I am the one who wanted to have that conversation with him, and he thought he was special.
I had to let this out so I could finish my coding lessons peacefully.
Lesson learned: Don't visit any non-related coding apps and websites while coding. Don't let someone ruin my mood ng matagal just write it down then it's gone.
Ang hirap ng buhay. Akala ko noon, kapag nagkaroon na ako ng trabaho, giginhawa na ang buhay ko. Pero bakit hanggang ngayon, pakiramdam ko hirap na hirap pa rin ako.
Honestly, mayroon pa bang ok kapag nagsimula na ang college?
College is where you first get a taste of hell that is the adult world but after graduating, matitikman mo na rin ang impyerno araw2.
Ang pangarap ko na lang ngayon ay euthanasia.
No. Kasi parang ang hirap mabuhay. Bawat galaw mo kailangan ng pera. Parang nabubuhay ka na lang para magtrabaho. Kasi pag di ka nagtrabaho hindi ka mabubuhay. Ironic noh.
No ☹️ I got married 3 months ago to my baby daddy (baby is 6 months old), we were in a relationship for 5 years pero parang nagsisisi ako. Palagi kaming nag-aaway and it stresses me out.
No, maybe in between, I'm almost 23 now, and I just failed one of my tests that I know I confidently done well. Life sucks, but I keep trying. I just don't want to lose faith in me.
Not being okay is regular to me pero ngayon lalo na kasi ang init!!! Hirap magwork pag mainit and di ako nagaaircon kasi mahirap ang buhay and electric bills won't pay themselves 😭
No. I know what I wanna do and what I should do but I dunno how to start it. Like a driver, I know where to go and I know I should drive but I don't even know how to start the car. It's so annoying and frustrating. Sometimes I just wanna go *poof* like a bubble
No, I'm drowning, but I can't reach out for help cause I will only drag those who try to save me down with me. :( I feel like I am only getting deeper and deeper down and what's scary is a part of me wants this.
Matagal ko ng gustong mag resign sa company.. everyday ko na sya naiisip.. everyday na ko umiiyak.. natatakot mareject.. natatakot majudge..
naging comfort zone ko na ung company ko.. 10yrs na din..
Isang factor pa e, gusto ko na ng malaking sahod 😢
Sana magkalakas na ko ng loob ngaun.. naudlot ng dahil sa pandemic.. Wish me luck.
This 2021 to 2023 i have a toxic habit i always skip school, i lay in bed all day and stay up all night watching anime. M@turbating 2 times a day, this year i drop out in school i alway have suicidal thoughts i tried hanging myself with a rope i lose consciousness for about 3 second, my feet and the ground is close to each other so i use my toes to stand up loosened the rope Its been 8th month since then. This December i tried working out.
This new year my aunt who lives in the province
Ask me if i want to go to the province with them i say if my parents are allowed I go with them. Now i regret not going to school but my mental health is better now i didn't even think to suicide im now 15 and going to be 8th grade next school year. I'm learning how to code the full stack developer on my phone,
I'm saving money to buy a laptop to code i save about 2000Php. It's not much i probably save up enough money to buy laptop in two years.
i quit medschool, not because i was struggling academically (i was indeed thriving) but because the environment wasn’t nurturing me anymore. i didn’t see light at the end of the tunnel because everyone kept trying to block that shine. and honestly? i’ve never felt this at peace before. i never knew i was holding my breath until i decided to leave.
Araw araw akong umiiyak for 2 weeks na and kagabi yung pinaka malalang iyak ko. Magang maga yung mata ko at ang sakit ng ulo ko pero ok lang naman siguro ako 👍
plastic as shit. Pati sa /adultingph. Dami ganyan. How are today? Are you okay?
Some are genuine. But repeatedly? I doubt it. Just like the normal Fil trait. Jumping on the bandwagon. May nagsimula kaya ayun ng gayahan na 🙄
Oo tska yung everyday mo ng nakikita. Ano ba yan mga wannabe therapist? Mas maigi manahimik na lang kung di naman genuine yung pagtatanong ng ‘are you okayyyy?’
Tapos ni isa sa ngrespond wala naman nireplyan si OP. E bat pa siya ngtanong kung wala din naman engagement
Cool ka din dyan haha. Well konti lang tayo may insightful thoughts 😉
At dahil dyan downvote ko ung Poster nito. Wala engagement eh so hinde genuine for me :)
Idk. Felt stagnant for several months now. It felt like im in a lake where there were no waves or ripples, its empty just me and the water. Not drowning just sitting on the bedrock. So, yeah i dont know.
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No. Tired.
Halos araw araw naiiyak sa dami ng problema sa bahay #adulting. Parent ko kasi may bukol nangangamba kaming cancer. Ilang trabaho na yung ginagawa ko just to meet ends, pero kulang pa rin. Nagising na lang ako isang araw ako na lahat dapat sumalo ng responsibilidad kahit deep inside babygurl lang talaga ako hahaha. Oversleeping and trying na bumangon para gawin ang tasks kada araw.
Honestly, no. I feel numb. Recently, I feel like the world hates me or more like I hate myself. I'm constantly failing and being reminded that I can't fail because of pressure and because I don't have the luxury to, as we're not rich.
I'm good. If I drop dead anytime soon, I wouldn't have any regrets.
No. I am so mad at myself for constantly committing the stupidest mistakes. Trivial they may seem but I would always have a hard time recovering from its consequences. I simply cannot go on like this.
No haha. Barely keeping myself alive, buti nalang may Kpop kundi matagal nako deds 🤣
feeling empty gagahahahwhahwh
escaped reality for a bit and now im facing reality and yeah, shits are getting real
no, i'm not, but i'am trying to be okay.
Nope. Thanks for asking though
Hindi ako ok pero kinakaya naman. Iniisip ko na lang mas maraming tao ang mas malala ang pinagdadaanan sa akin eh.
I think I'm doing fine naman. I have a job and maganda naman salary. I have a complete family. We have a house to sleep. We can eat in restaurants. I have friends. I think I already have everything that I prayed for except that I've been single since birth Hahahaah. Hindi naman sa atat pero kasi minsan naiisip ko pano kaya pagnagka jowa na ko? Is Kaya ko ba maging good partner? Hahaahha! There was a guy in 2020 naumamin sakin and for me okay naman sya kaso nga lang pandemic. Kakaresign ko lang sa first job ko and then ang hirap naman ata makipagrelasyon ng wala pang nararating since I'm also a breadwinner so yun ngayon napapakanta na lang ako neto... He was sunshine, I was midnight rain He wanted it comfortable I wanted that pain He wanted a bride I was making my own name Chasing that fae stayed the same
Hurting. I blocked him today and will no longer think of him. It hasn't been a week since we broke up, but he's already on a date. Sucks. But I'm going to be fine soon. I promise myself that I am worthy.
No, because fuck IT. I didn't even want it in the first place. I chose to do it instead because I was undecided with what I wanted in the first place. Failed some majors and got left behind for a year. Passed the failed majors the year after out of fucking luck. I got my bachelors degree. Got a job in IT and quit after 2 years because I can no longer keep doing this complicated shit. I kept going with the "fake it till you make it" attitude and took a masters degree in IT just so I can work abroad, it was the only thing offered related to my experience and degree. Got my masters. Got offered a job in IT and am currently toughing it out till my visa restriction is lifted (I have to work in the place where I got my visa for a couple of years) and hopefully start getting into agriculture, particularly animal husbandry because it seems interesting.
Im not fine yung ex live in partner ko kakahiwalay lang namin pero ayun naghahanap na ng kalandian online haha dating apps may dalwa kaming anak and then sinaktan nya ko malala physically parang ako pa yung may mali hays,
totally fucked up
No clue honestly. I'm at peace but I feel extremely lost at the same time.
Same. To the point na don't know what to feel or what I'm feeling right now. Parang I just exist and that's it.
yeah. still trying to figure out why things are the way they are right now lol. everything is just so confusing. we got this :) rooting for u.
Fucke up na sleeping sched kaya fucked up na lahatt
Good. Heto nakahilata
What's the least painful way to die?
Yesn't
no
so lahat tayo hindi okay huh / good hindi ako alone
I hate to admit na baka pamapalipas oras lang ako or something. Why cant i be more than that? I want someone to talk to sana, a big sister advice sana huhu. I just want to vent all my frustrations sa lyff hayy
No, i am not okay right now. I came from a very turbulent situation, and I dont want to drown from it. Gusto ko na makausap kaso, I dont know if makikita nya yun. I have needs in a relationship - in a something. Pero wala eh. I thought this ka-talking stage would help me
No. Feeling so lost in life.
Honestly, not😭😭😭
Mentally and emotionally not ok
No
No, I am very exhausted.
No, not at all. Been dealing with lots of problems, idagdag mo pa ‘tong mental health ko na mahina. But i feel like i have no right to feel this sort of way because others suffer more than i do. And if i were to put myself in their shoes, baka by then, marealize ko how lucky still i am. This has always been my coping mechanism, am i the only one? 😕😕
Nope, lately nagiging toxic na ako sa relationship namin. I have no one to talk to, I feel like I'm lost and alone.
No. Just waiting till i turn 35. Sweet release.
Nope as I am often languishing.
nope
No. Nasa hospital mom ko and her health is not in a good state. Wala na akong hihilingin pa kundi ang kagalingan ni mama. Kahit di na magkajowa, kahit di na makaahon sa hirap. Buhay lang ni mama sapat na sa akin.
Cue in Barely Breathing by Duncan Sheik
Not really. Stress kakahanap ulit ng work😕
Nope
Yes. I’m grateful for my life. I am privileged and very lucky. I have a good, loyal, loving, hardworking husband and 2 young children I spend time with everyday. I make 40k a month, 20k from rental and 20k from a part time job. My husband gives me 140k allowance monthly. I don’t know what I have done to deserve this good life. I try to help others when I can, give back when I can. I am doing my best to raise kind and grateful children and hopefully someday they find a way to change other’s lives for the better. Sometimes I still don’t understand why life is unfair for others and my heart breaks for the less fortunate. Whoever is reading this I hope my luck is shared with you. There is a lot to go around.
Yes.. life is good 😀
I'm tired... but it's okay!
no I’m not but I can’t complain, I need some alone time for myself
hindi ako okay. malapit na ako makipag hiwalay sa asawa ko dahil sa kapikunan sa ugali niya at sa pagiging disrespectful niya sakin 😡
No. Ang daming gastusin ngayon sa bahay. I'm still a college student so hindi ako makatulong sa parents ko. I feel like a burden and I badly want to help them. If you can recommend me a work, that will really help. I'm really tired of feeling out of control of my life.
I am not okay. I am mad, sad, and I feel like I’ve wasted many years of my life.
story time?
Im not but I have to keep moving
IDK. Sometimes in a positive mood na akala mo parang feel na magiging super productive ka and magiging better ka than some people. Madalas negative ang mood, kinocompare mo sarili mo sa iba at tinatanong sa sarili Kung bkit naging ganito buhay mo. And minsan blank state of mind.
No. Pagod na ko. Sobra.
No, Pa graduate na pero pasabay na din sa pagsuko sa buhay ahhhhhh.
No. Thanks sa pagtanong, nakaiyak maging mahirap.
Okay but thinking about a lot of things lately..
No. Hindi ako masaya sa napasukan kong manuf. company. First job ko e kaya pinatos ko na kahit minimum ang sahod. Gusto ko na agad umalis ayoko na ituloy pero di ko alam kung paano kase ieendorse na ako sa IT dept sa monday and mag start na 😩
Minsan okay, madalas hindi. Di ako nagffunction maayos talaga
Honestly? I'm struggling to survive everyday. I'm so exhausted and my coping mechanisms are not really effective.
No.
No. Struggling to motivate myself to move. I have a gym session soon but I don't have the energy to go and everything feels so heavy.
No.
No. I broke down before gym
Barely ok. When I listened to Encanto playlist tas All Of You yung sinangalang, sobrang iyak ko. Ang bigat na eh.
eto barely surviving:))
No, I’m not. ‘Yung taong pinangakuan ako ng complete family with our baby daughter, andun na ngayon sa mga dating apps, entertaining young girls on Tiktok, FB, at sa lahat ng social media inaaya niya mag coffee date at kantutan after. I have so much in my plate right now. I do everything; hands on mom, work, expenses, everything ako. Tas ‘yung tatay? Andun, proud calling himself a single fucking dad putangina niya mamatay na siya please.
I feel you haha yung tatay din ng anak ko kakahiwalay lang namin dahil papanakit physically ayun kinabukasan nasa dating apps at kung sino sino na chinachat naghahanap ng comfort ang sad boy haha. Ako pa sinabihan na sinagad ko daw sya.
No.
No
No
From Bicol and now nasa Metro Manila na due to work. Ngayon masaya ako na may trabaho ako pero parang may pangangamba kase yung dream job ko palabo ng palabo. Pero ang maganda naman sa dream job ko is basta updated ka sa mga skills eh may chance ka. Ngayon after ng 8-5 job ko, upskill paguwi. Kahit 2hrs, then nakakapag video games pa.
I feel both numb and sensitive to even the softest blows of wind. Sometimes I feel like deep inside my empathy is broken, and while I show up for people, be a good friend, and vocalize my support for good causes like the ceasefire, everything has become so overwhelming in life lately that for some reason my body and mind stopped feeling things deeply. And it makes me incredibly sad because this is not who I am or who I used to be. All I’ve been feeling is my own sadness, but I have no access to professional help.
Im okay im healing
I want to be okay. I try to be okay. There are times na ang saya saya ko talaga pero after awhile, whatever I'm feeling just comes back, and it's slowly deteriorating me.
In terms of everything in my life, all is not okay, but I know that it will be soon enough. Huge thanks to counselling. Kadalasan in denial pa ako na I have a problem until something happens that served as my wake up call. Muntik na kaming maging broken home because of my undoing. Thank God He guided me. I believe that in order to grow, you have to be planted, and boy was I buried and planted. Hoping for new sprouts to grow soon. 🙂
hello san po kayo nag pa counseling? and ano po klase? for couple po ba?
Our church has counsellors to help and guide our members, you just had to schedule and it is for free! 🙂
Definitely not, but trying to be okay
nope
Honestly i I tell you, is there a benefit? Or are you just piling up karma points?
No, but I'm getting by. Thanks for asking that.
No.
Trying to hang in there! Been applying to so many job openings pero no luck yet. I believe tho! 🥹
I'm not okay and I don't think if magiging okay pa ako. Sobrang lugmok, lungkot, at nakakapanghina. I can't even reach out to my friends because they're also busy kasi graduating kami. I want to cry on someone's shoulders really bad.
No
A lil bit jittery. Finals na naman and bumabalik yung anxiety ko, feels like I have to do shit tons of stuff pero magrereview lang naman ako 🥲 I hate overthinking.
No.I am just so broken right now but teying to be fine
no. The thought of the future scares me right now that I am an adult and the certainty of getting a life is definitely difficult. Starting this adult phase is hard especially when you're not financially literate, emotionally stable, and you feel ordinary. It's hard not getting picked for job applications, paying rent with just enough money, and having to get by but barely. I just hope things would get better sometime soon because things are heavier than usual.
We're all generally fucked and in misery. I swear if they conduct a poll on who's happy and depressed, the majority would be in the sad category. What a cruel world.
She called me kuya
idk how to describe this tiredness??? im feeling. im tired of bearing my self-imposed pressure. as the eldest child of our family, i feel like it’s my responsibility to carry my parents’ problem as well mostly financial. but i just graduated and abt to take the board exam. i feel like im being behind my peers and im not doing enough to support my family although im alr working and my parents have always said i dont need to give to the household. still, i do. and i feel like it’s not enough. my other siblings couldn’t go to college bc my parents can’t afford the program they want as i was also still in uni and i feel like now it’s my responsibility to send them to college or atleast contribute. but at this point, im stuck with reviewing for boards and my minimum wage. i overthink this a lot. me not being enough. scared of the future. i know im still at my 20s and new to this adulting. i should live at the moment blah blah. but as someone who came from a middle class family, an eldest child, i just couldn’t live at the moment and enjoy without thinking for my siblings. ako lang ba?
Honestly, so empty. I have everything I have been praying for 5 years ago pero I realized na external things would never make you happy. You become happy when you work on deciding to be happy. Slowly getting there! How about you OP?
Fuck no
Yep. Doing good. Seeing this new doomer generation upsets me… like if I rolled over and gave up like they do, I’d have never met my wife, had a child on the way, or be planning my first house and remodeling. I’ve been homeless, disabled, alone for almost all my life. If I had been part of this doomer generation I probably would have given up and bitched and moaned on Reddit till I ended it all.
no lmao i want to disappear, no talents, no skills, hirap kumuha ng trabaho kahit may degree and license, di alam kung san pede mag apply, hirap mag commute sa pinas, ang inet, inuubo, malalang saket na sana ito mamatay na lang kaya ako,
Tired. Just tired.
Frustrated ako KC Wala ako pera. Pota gsto ko gumawa Ng subdivision na pet friendly na all cars will be left on the parking lot TAs lahat Ng pet pwede gumala sa labas Ng Bahay as long as d cla mag away. Kukuha ako Ng mga pet trainers to roam the streets to control and help pets and owners to teach their pets. TAs kukuha dn ako Ng mga street cleaners na mag lilinis Ng poops nila at keep the streets tidy that also refills public pet food stations for strays TAs ung mga trainers pede dn mag practice Ng training methods nila sa mga strays na maliligaw sa area at pag na train na open for adoption Sila. I want a faqing community that has a faqing hearth kht mababa pa upa ko gsto ko lng Ng thmik na Lugar at walang nanakit Ng mga haup pota.
That would be a wonderful place to live at.
Im okay, i found job internship, for 3 months, so i hope i can find real job after this program.
Goodluck! Keep learning OP and wag mawalan ng pag-asa.
Thanks, hirap talaga humanap ng work, so pinatos na lang internship program but i guess it can help to get work exp.
I have to stop coding and cradle through questions like this because I am kind of annoyed by a dude rn who tries too hard to become superior. Earlier while coding I randomly checked my messenger to see if my mom messaged me then a strange guy messaged asking who I was I said I didn't know him either and quickly said bye to continue coding but then he lowkey insisted on talking so I stayed for 5 minutes talking to him. The conversation was like a sea wave, the mood constantly changed. I felt different two emotions while talking to him -> Happy and annoyed. It goes on and off. After talking to that "I don't even know dude" I have to stop coding and entertain myself for a little because I couldn't focus. That little conversation we had had a huge temporary impact on me. after 30 minutes I went back from coding for 2 hours. After 2 hours I took a break and went to messenger he messaged me again. "Who the fuck are you?" "What do you want?" I was like huh? what's wrong with this dude? Why is he making me feel that I am a fool of myself? I did nothing wrong; it was just a coincidence that I added him. Hindi ko nga maalala na I added him eh. I know this shit is nothing I should be bothered by, but I felt so manipulated. Who are you to trick my feelings? He's older than me but he's talking like the majority of my age those "wanna be cool/superior" disrespectful kids. I responded to his kid's behavior message saying that I don't know him either. I told him that in the first place, I didn't want to be involved in that stupid conversation but now he's making me feel that I am the one who wanted to have that conversation with him, and he thought he was special. I had to let this out so I could finish my coding lessons peacefully. Lesson learned: Don't visit any non-related coding apps and websites while coding. Don't let someone ruin my mood ng matagal just write it down then it's gone.
What made you to ask this question? Are you ok, OP?
not really
No... Nakakailang job interv na ako pero ghosted or di nagrerespond sa emails. I fear na baka bumalik na naman ako sa pag spiral down
No, kase ginawa kaming retirement investment 😒
No, ang hirap maging mahirap
I want to die.
I don’t know what to say to you. Life is hard but please, find a reason to live.
Ang hirap ng buhay. Akala ko noon, kapag nagkaroon na ako ng trabaho, giginhawa na ang buhay ko. Pero bakit hanggang ngayon, pakiramdam ko hirap na hirap pa rin ako.
No. :(
Why would I be okay? Do I deserve to be okay?
Honestly, mayroon pa bang ok kapag nagsimula na ang college? College is where you first get a taste of hell that is the adult world but after graduating, matitikman mo na rin ang impyerno araw2. Ang pangarap ko na lang ngayon ay euthanasia.
No. Kasi parang ang hirap mabuhay. Bawat galaw mo kailangan ng pera. Parang nabubuhay ka na lang para magtrabaho. Kasi pag di ka nagtrabaho hindi ka mabubuhay. Ironic noh.
No ☹️ I got married 3 months ago to my baby daddy (baby is 6 months old), we were in a relationship for 5 years pero parang nagsisisi ako. Palagi kaming nag-aaway and it stresses me out.
No, maybe in between, I'm almost 23 now, and I just failed one of my tests that I know I confidently done well. Life sucks, but I keep trying. I just don't want to lose faith in me.
No, I'm okay, I'm fine. Gwenchana 🥲
Not being okay is regular to me pero ngayon lalo na kasi ang init!!! Hirap magwork pag mainit and di ako nagaaircon kasi mahirap ang buhay and electric bills won't pay themselves 😭
no.
Homesick af
No. I know what I wanna do and what I should do but I dunno how to start it. Like a driver, I know where to go and I know I should drive but I don't even know how to start the car. It's so annoying and frustrating. Sometimes I just wanna go *poof* like a bubble
No
Hell nah.
No
I feel like she doesn't love me anymore
No. But of course kakayanin :)
No. Because I wanna unalive myself rn.
I am not feeling ok, im being ghosted rn
feeling so nervous abt an upcoming certification exam for IEs 🥹
Still waiting for her to come back. So i am not okay for now
Feeling ko maling degprog pinili ko haha
Happy, scared, confused, excited, a little depressed. All mushed up in one.
I feel like i can grasp the idea of being a kid again. I miss the attention, care, and love i received back then. Now.. idk
Confused 👁️👄👁️
No. But that's life's mystery: to move forward and let things be.
no, i am always gaslighting myself that everything is okay. Just to get things done.
honestly, no. but i still try to. it's just that... i never learned my lesson.
not really. i keep on pushing people away because of my anxiety. di naman ako ganto last year. i was the life of the party.
no i'm not, i just feel so overwhelmed by my environment and a scar JUST Awouldn't heal
No, I'm drowning, but I can't reach out for help cause I will only drag those who try to save me down with me. :( I feel like I am only getting deeper and deeper down and what's scary is a part of me wants this.
No. My partner cheated on me.
No. Recent happenings made me adopt the "it is what it is" way of thinking.
Matagal ko ng gustong mag resign sa company.. everyday ko na sya naiisip.. everyday na ko umiiyak.. natatakot mareject.. natatakot majudge.. naging comfort zone ko na ung company ko.. 10yrs na din.. Isang factor pa e, gusto ko na ng malaking sahod 😢 Sana magkalakas na ko ng loob ngaun.. naudlot ng dahil sa pandemic.. Wish me luck.
im afraid to go home cuz i’m butchering everything my parents worked hard for
No i'm not
This 2021 to 2023 i have a toxic habit i always skip school, i lay in bed all day and stay up all night watching anime. M@turbating 2 times a day, this year i drop out in school i alway have suicidal thoughts i tried hanging myself with a rope i lose consciousness for about 3 second, my feet and the ground is close to each other so i use my toes to stand up loosened the rope Its been 8th month since then. This December i tried working out. This new year my aunt who lives in the province Ask me if i want to go to the province with them i say if my parents are allowed I go with them. Now i regret not going to school but my mental health is better now i didn't even think to suicide im now 15 and going to be 8th grade next school year. I'm learning how to code the full stack developer on my phone, I'm saving money to buy a laptop to code i save about 2000Php. It's not much i probably save up enough money to buy laptop in two years.
no
No I’m not
No.
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i quit medschool, not because i was struggling academically (i was indeed thriving) but because the environment wasn’t nurturing me anymore. i didn’t see light at the end of the tunnel because everyone kept trying to block that shine. and honestly? i’ve never felt this at peace before. i never knew i was holding my breath until i decided to leave.
We are never ok, there always challenges and struggles. The question is, what are you gonna do about it?
Financially 😃 mentally need therapy and probably gonna take the best gift god gave me for the longest rest
siguro konti na lang makakamoveon na rin
No because of this goddamn thesis 🫠
Kaya mo yan. Ang tunay na laban ng buhay ay after uni / school. Goodluck! Gragraduate ka 🙂
Araw araw akong umiiyak for 2 weeks na and kagabi yung pinaka malalang iyak ko. Magang maga yung mata ko at ang sakit ng ulo ko pero ok lang naman siguro ako 👍
“So I've been doing a good job of makin' 'em think. I'm quite alright, better hope I don't blink.”
Bakit sobra dami ng ngtatanong ng ganito ngayon dito? Honestly do they even REALLY care when they ask?
Karma Farming
plastic as shit. Pati sa /adultingph. Dami ganyan. How are today? Are you okay? Some are genuine. But repeatedly? I doubt it. Just like the normal Fil trait. Jumping on the bandwagon. May nagsimula kaya ayun ng gayahan na 🙄
"Lagi mong tandaan maraming nagmamahal sayo." hahaha. medyo cringe na yung iba
Haha. Hayy hayaan na nga naten sila sa trip nila hehe
yaa pero minsan eyesore na hindi mo na maiwasan mag comment kapag cringe na sobra
Oo tska yung everyday mo ng nakikita. Ano ba yan mga wannabe therapist? Mas maigi manahimik na lang kung di naman genuine yung pagtatanong ng ‘are you okayyyy?’ Tapos ni isa sa ngrespond wala naman nireplyan si OP. E bat pa siya ngtanong kung wala din naman engagement
Cool ka napansin mo din yun. haha nag aask kung ayus lang sila tapos wala man lang miski isang respond si OP. 😅
Cool ka din dyan haha. Well konti lang tayo may insightful thoughts 😉 At dahil dyan downvote ko ung Poster nito. Wala engagement eh so hinde genuine for me :)
Genuine question How are you? Honestly, are you ok?
I'm literally crying rn. I'm lost.
No. Inang talaga ng mga chinese boss, mga deputa kayo sa mga worker nyo 🖕🏼
no 🙂
NO 😭 Grabe pressure ng adult life 💔
Not mentally okay but i have God with me♥️
I feel sooo tired--been juggling 2 fulltime jobs + training for my upcoming trail marathon but kinakaya (sa ngayon). Kailangang kayanin.
Not daijoubu..
Not daijoubu dayo
NO BUT STILL GRATEFUL
Not good. I want to remove this pain, it’s killing me. Help.
No :(( burn out sa work lately. Ayaw pa iapprove for promotion papers ko :((
Idk. Felt stagnant for several months now. It felt like im in a lake where there were no waves or ripples, its empty just me and the water. Not drowning just sitting on the bedrock. So, yeah i dont know.
Yesss! Could be better but still grateful and ok!