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Yung manliligaw ko, ganito ginawa:
Qc kami nag wowork both. Nung first months nya sa work, nagkakakilanlan pa..
Him: saan ka nauwi mam?
Me: caloocan sir eh. Kaw ba?
Him: lapit lang, qc lang. Edi hirap ka mag commute nyan?
Me: hindi naman masyado...
Him: bakit? Sabagay may asawa na sumusundo naman sayo ano?
Me: ha? Mukha ba kong may asawa?! (Irita na akez)
Him: ay wala ba? 😂 Edi jowa?
Me: wala din ako nun. May kotse ako kaya d mahirap mag commute.
And the rest is history.
So sa ganyang way nya inalam 😂 pag binabacktrack namin talaga yung moment na yan, kabisado nya paano ko sya nasigawan sa part na inakala nyang may asawa na ako 😂😂😂 dun nya naisip e, na "ay pwede to... Di ako magiging kabit 😂"
Based on experience, wala ng paligoy ligoy diretsahang tanong agad, pero in a way na malumanay, marespetong tono at approach ng pag tatanong para naman hindi ma shokt si girl hahaha
You could ask something like, "Are you currently dating anyone?" or "Are you seeing anyone romantically?" It's important to be polite and respectful of their privacy.
Tamang chika about celebrity rs tapos tanong mo 'to AHAHAHAHA
"Speaking of which, have you ever dated someone before!"
Or
"Are you in casual ba or serious relationship right now?"
Yep, if they don’t wanna answer its their right pero pag may BF nga sila or GF …why dodge the question? Parang sus makes you think na maybe they are in an open relationship or maybe she doesn’t want people to pry into her life or most obvious is they are having flings behind their SO’s back of course less people that know the pess likely their cheating habit would spill. People who aren’t interested in Flings and is faithful/Loyal to their SO wouldn’t deny that they are in a relationship or avoid the question.
I'm a girl and I prefer being asked directly or straight to the point. Kasi if she's showing interest sayo or ine- entertain ka then probably wala siyang jowa.
Just ask. Di naman yan matter of world peace and security. Ewan ko sa iba, but mej nakakainis yung mga hirit na pahapyaw. Parang, are you done wasting my time bruh? 🤷🏻♀
Wow, you are so beautiful! Your husband/boyfriend is very lucky to have a such a beautiful woman in his life.
Girl: Thank you so much but I am single. (if she is single)
You wanting to know in a lowkey manner probably means na you want to continue talking to the person even if she’s taken. Pero really, just go for it! It’s gonna save you the mental and emotional stress of trying to piece things together. And if it doesn’t work out, just charge it to experience
u/No_Airport_4883 Give us a bit of a background. As in day 1 kakakilala niyo pa lang? Are there no common friends at all? Hindi pa friends sa soc media? Textmates? (shocks, napaghahalata ang age, haha). Nagkita na ba kayo?
If day 1 or 1st week pa lang yan and you find it uncomfortable to ask her directly(tulad ng sabi ng karamihan), edi just continue getting to know each other, typical family, school, work and friends kwentuhan. Lalabas at lalabas din yang topic na yan hehe.
Lowkey lowkey-- grow some balls to ask directly. "Single ka bhe?" Yung mga torpe, torpe lang sila kasi sa isip nila they are already doing the deed with the girl kahit makikipag-usap lang. Simple question lang yan.
"Do you like going out on weekends?" Then they'll answer who they go out with if they do. Mostly if they answer "by themselves" or "just stay home" they probs single haha
Are you available this coming sunday? I'd like to invite you to watch a movie in SM.
Hindi naman yan sasama kung meron syang bf eh. And its another way to know if she is interested in you.
Personally diko gusto yung "baka magalit bf mo" or similar route... Why? Pag sinabi kong wala akong bf inaassume na interesado ako. Kung interesado ako tapos sinabi kong wala, either natuturnoff ako kasi di pa diretsuhin or mabubuking ako (kadi nga assumed na gusto ko rin).
Just ask/ask her out.
"pwede bang manligaw?" YAN. I LIKE THAT QUESTION. auto turn off ako sa tanong na "baka magalit bf mo" or similar ones. ewan ko anong meron sa tanong na yan pero sobra akong nababadtrip makarinig nyan, kaya ang ending e i just keep him as a friend
Ligaw agad? Hindi ba pwdeng alamin mo mona kung single yung tao o hindi.
By the way yung tanung na "baka magalit bf mo" is one way to know if the person is single or not.
Tapus yung post ni OP is paano ka magtatanong in a low key way para malaman na single yung tao. Comprehension please.
Alam agad may hidden agenda pag sinabing "baka magalit bf mo" like bakit may ginagawa ba kayo masama? Maigi pa diretsahin mo na lang tanungin kung single ba kesa itanong yan.
oo ligaw agad. so i can immediately accept or reject it. asking me that question is, for me, a strong mark of masculinity and i really find it hot for a guy. it means gusto nya talaga ako and is willing to pursue me, no paligoy question shit like "baka magalit bf mo." well, it's just me, this is how i comprehend the offensive question and i hope no one here insist otherwise
i see. this makes sense. it's offending, kasi lalo i am a very polite and nice in person tas bigla akong tatanungin nyan, parang theyre implying im flirting with them kasi im being so nice?? when basic naman dapat talagang maging nice?? i realize this now. thank u sa answer mo!!
Grabe teh ang swerte siguro ng jowa mo.
If I say that, most of the time sasagutin ako nang either affirmative or 'baka may jowa'
HHAHAHA
People will always correct you.
To be honest OP, there is no lowkey way to ask. Most women are perceptive and you insinuating the existence of a supposed bf in hopes that she will debunk you, is already rasing signals in her head of your interest. Isa pa, there's a very high chance na she's heard these lines before and you just made an impression na you're not different from the rest. It's best to be upfront; women are attracted to guys who know what they want and are direct with it. Plus, dagdag points ang confidence. The response is the same anyway— may bf sya and wala. It's not desperate if you've known her for a sufficient amount of time already.
ask straight. mas may galang ang dating sa amin if you are able to communicate your intentions directly
yung mga banat na "baka may magalit" "hindi ba magagalit bf mo" is icky for me and I don't like getting played just to get an answer out of me.
>yung mga banat na "baka may magalit" "hindi ba magagalit bf mo"
I hate yung "baka magalit BF mo" as if may mas pake sila sa feeling ng another guy than my own feelings
saka pag ganito yung mga tanungan nakaka-turn off. pakiramdam ko sinasayang oras ko and insulting slight because I don't like going around matters na madali naman itanong. hindi naman life or death situation yung magtanong ng "are you seeing somebody?" nang direkta e bakit kelangan pa ng palabok
Years ago, tinanong ko direkta. "Do you have special someone?"
Hnd sinasagot. Iniiba usapan. Nag-assume tuloy ako na wala talaga. Tuluyan nahulog loob ko. Tapos after ilang araw, Bigla nagtapat. Meron pala.
Tangama.
Kahit kasi sinasabi ko nun, baka may magalit ah? Parang wala lang sakanya gusto lang talaga ng atensyon at ung pakiramdam siguro ng pinu-pursue. Kasi once na sinabi nyang meron didistansya talaga ko.
Dapat kasi sinasabi na lang agad ung totoo. Hindi ung maghuhulaan pa.
Lesbian po. Tinuloy ko po. Pinuntahan ko sakanila. Then Na-lockdown dun, hindi ako nakauwi ng 1yr.. kaya Ako pinili.
Nahiya na kasi? Lagi ako pinapatago sa cr kapag nag-VVC ung bf. Nung itanong ng bf nya noon, ano dahilan bakit ayaw na? Sagot nya lang hnd na masaya. Then naging masaya kami nung magkasama kami.
Then LDR ulit, lumabo.. on-off, inabot 3yrs
Sa huli, mukang ganun din ginawa sakin. Haha karma.
Wala pang 3days may pamalit agad. So meaning, nagkakausap pa kami, may bago na talagang kausap.
KARMA at its best. Haha kung hindi ko na lang sana tinuloy un.
Kaso landi is life. Ayun. Hapdi sa huli. Hahaha
Kinaganda eh. Eh gumanda nga lang nung ako kasama.
Kung hnd pa ko papasok sa buhay nya hindi pa mag aayos ng lifestyle.
Or siguro un ung role namin sa buhay ng isat-isa?
Ang matutunan lahat ng bagay na dati'y palagi lang tinatakbuhan?
Nung natapos role namin sa buhay ng isat-isa.
Kusa nang bumitaw. Need upgrade na ulit. Gumanda na buhay sa ibang bansa eh. Napagiwanan ako..
Taga hatid lang siguro ako sa next chapter ng buhay nya.
All goods. I deserve better too..
You don't. The most savvy and subtle way to ask is to just maintain the conversation and talk about random things, wherein eventually you'll get the impression she's single—and available.
Hindi naman pagiging desperate yun. Mas clear nga ang intention kung directly itatanong and sa manner ng pagtatanong. Dami ko na natanong na ganyan hehe dami yes may bf na ayun move forward na lang hehe
Di naman. For me direct confession = less confusion
Kapag may crush ako, I make sure na magresearch muna about him if he’s single or in a relationship. If walang bakas, dinidiretso ko na lang sabihin na crush ko siya and asking if he’s single.
Isa ako sa nagcomment na to ask her directly kasi as a girl, rinding rindi ako pag nagpapasimple yung guy na “oh baka magalit yung bf mo ha” nacricringe ako sa ganon at napapaisip ako “hindi ba to marunong magcommunicate nang maayos?” hahaha
It's not desperate if you approach it in a respectable way. As a girl, I always appreciate straightforward questions cause it shows sincerity and that you ain't there for games. Maybe approach it like "Hey, I'm really starting to like you but before I move forward with this, may I ask if you're currently in a relationship?" Or something similar.
They are capping. Actually this method could somehow works if you want to play it safe. Some girls tend to be liars when it comes to giving such advice, what they say doesn't always align with their action. Imagine if a guy came up to her and ask her if she's single, you'll be labelled as creep because she see you as ugly 😂
Pag di mo type yung guy, cringe talaga siya.
Ganito na lang. Isipin mo pag nag "Hi" yung crush mo sa'yo kikiligin ka dba? What more kaya na nag-show ng interest sa'yo by asking if you have a bf?
Kung cringe sa'yo, I have no say on that tho.
Based on my experience, palagi may pa-insert na tanong sa akin na may "yung bf mo". Example, "bakit hindi ka pinagda-drive ng bf mo?". Or, "madalas ba kayo nung bf mo magpunta dun?".
Kapag ganun na ang flow ng questions ni guy, alam na. Syempre, depende sa sagot kung gaano ko ka-type si guy. 🤣
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Just ask them straight
Yung manliligaw ko, ganito ginawa: Qc kami nag wowork both. Nung first months nya sa work, nagkakakilanlan pa.. Him: saan ka nauwi mam? Me: caloocan sir eh. Kaw ba? Him: lapit lang, qc lang. Edi hirap ka mag commute nyan? Me: hindi naman masyado... Him: bakit? Sabagay may asawa na sumusundo naman sayo ano? Me: ha? Mukha ba kong may asawa?! (Irita na akez) Him: ay wala ba? 😂 Edi jowa? Me: wala din ako nun. May kotse ako kaya d mahirap mag commute. And the rest is history. So sa ganyang way nya inalam 😂 pag binabacktrack namin talaga yung moment na yan, kabisado nya paano ko sya nasigawan sa part na inakala nyang may asawa na ako 😂😂😂 dun nya naisip e, na "ay pwede to... Di ako magiging kabit 😂"
i ask straight up.
Based on experience, wala ng paligoy ligoy diretsahang tanong agad, pero in a way na malumanay, marespetong tono at approach ng pag tatanong para naman hindi ma shokt si girl hahaha
Too late na, magaling din gumawa Ng LIES. Buti nlng di kami nag katuluyan. Sakit sa ulo.
Hindi mo naman ako rereplayan kung wala kang BF diba?
Balita ko may boyfriend kn daw a ? Sa true ba ?
"Baka magalit boyfriend mo" 🤢🥺
Usually, pang-pkboi na tanungan 😆
Most used haha.
kailan ka last nag travel? san kayo nagpunta? followed by “ah kasama mo family or jowa?” hahahaha
Ayan yung mga type ng questions na feeling ko na-checkmate ako. Mahirap dodge.
actually sa maraming paraan ko ginagamit yang tanong na ‘yan to get to know someone hahaha
gumawa ka convo na pwede maisingit yung "imposibling walang boyfriend yan" 😅
Kumusta love life? HAHAHAHA
You could ask something like, "Are you currently dating anyone?" or "Are you seeing anyone romantically?" It's important to be polite and respectful of their privacy.
Tamang chika about celebrity rs tapos tanong mo 'to AHAHAHAHA "Speaking of which, have you ever dated someone before!" Or "Are you in casual ba or serious relationship right now?"
If she’s giving you choosing signals then show some confidence and ask her in person.
I don't do lowkey. I ask her straight up. Some girls don't like it. But this shows the girl you are straight up. This also shows you are confident.
Yep, if they don’t wanna answer its their right pero pag may BF nga sila or GF …why dodge the question? Parang sus makes you think na maybe they are in an open relationship or maybe she doesn’t want people to pry into her life or most obvious is they are having flings behind their SO’s back of course less people that know the pess likely their cheating habit would spill. People who aren’t interested in Flings and is faithful/Loyal to their SO wouldn’t deny that they are in a relationship or avoid the question.
I'm a girl and I prefer being asked directly or straight to the point. Kasi if she's showing interest sayo or ine- entertain ka then probably wala siyang jowa.
Open up a topic about dating or relationships then you can infer from what she's sharing 😊
May nagpapasikip na ba sa puso mo? Este *nagpapatibok
cholesterol bigla ang sinagot hahaha
"Wala ka namang jowa no?"
"Uy baka may jowa ka ah"
“Baka magalit boyfriend mo ha?” “Uyy baka may magalit?”
Assume mo single siya then tanungin mo so bakit ka single?
May jowa ka na?
Just go straight to the point. Questions like are you dating someone? Are you single? These questions don't do harm.
Just ask. Di naman yan matter of world peace and security. Ewan ko sa iba, but mej nakakainis yung mga hirit na pahapyaw. Parang, are you done wasting my time bruh? 🤷🏻♀
Are you entertaining or seeing anyone lately?
"Baka magalit jowa mo nagta-talk tayo"
Same din kayo nature of work ng jowa mo?
Hinaan mo yung boses mo kapag tinanong mo. Para lowkey.
Akala ko drop the bass.
Yayain mo lunch out , tapos hirit ka na baka mag selos bf mo?
bro, this isnt it hahaha
Just straight to the point. Is it rude to ask her?
I hope you’re single.
Why lowkey ask? Curious kasi I've always been straight to the point para hindi sayang oras
May magagalit ba kung tatawagin kitang “mine” 😂 cringe pero nag-wowork talaga pre HAHAHAH
Diretso mo na lang tanungin mas maganda. Or tanungin mo yung mga barkada niya.
“ang blooming mo, mahal na mahal ka siguro ng bf mo”
pano if wla syang bf 😭, how would you save your convo? haha
mag ask ka ng something related to her haha
Just say in a quiet voice- are you single?😁
1 out of 100 lang naman ang aamin na may ka RS sila. the rest magpapakilalang single kahit hindi
🧢🧢🧢
San mo nakuha tong stat na to? Hehe Nag ask po kayo 100 na babae?
"Baka magalit jowa mo ah?" Gasgas na linya na 'to HAHAHAHAHAHA
Hahaha nakakairita mga ganito sa chat
HAAHAHHAHA ito agad nasa isip ko pero highkey na 'to
Wow, you are so beautiful! Your husband/boyfriend is very lucky to have a such a beautiful woman in his life. Girl: Thank you so much but I am single. (if she is single)
wow complete dialogue ha hahaha
baka magalit bf mo huh
Her answer in Tagalog: Your fart, that pick up line has been sold.
You wanting to know in a lowkey manner probably means na you want to continue talking to the person even if she’s taken. Pero really, just go for it! It’s gonna save you the mental and emotional stress of trying to piece things together. And if it doesn’t work out, just charge it to experience
u/No_Airport_4883 Give us a bit of a background. As in day 1 kakakilala niyo pa lang? Are there no common friends at all? Hindi pa friends sa soc media? Textmates? (shocks, napaghahalata ang age, haha). Nagkita na ba kayo? If day 1 or 1st week pa lang yan and you find it uncomfortable to ask her directly(tulad ng sabi ng karamihan), edi just continue getting to know each other, typical family, school, work and friends kwentuhan. Lalabas at lalabas din yang topic na yan hehe.
*are you lowkey single?*
this is the way
The truth
Off mo capslock
"d ba magagalit bf mo??" if she says "yes" but she has none you in the zone bro
Ask her and don't beat around the bush or ask her in a indirect way. I'd go with the former
Lowkey lowkey-- grow some balls to ask directly. "Single ka bhe?" Yung mga torpe, torpe lang sila kasi sa isip nila they are already doing the deed with the girl kahit makikipag-usap lang. Simple question lang yan.
"Huwag baka magalit, bf/asawa or gf/asawa mo."
Cringe
"Do you like going out on weekends?" Then they'll answer who they go out with if they do. Mostly if they answer "by themselves" or "just stay home" they probs single haha
Are you available this coming sunday? I'd like to invite you to watch a movie in SM. Hindi naman yan sasama kung meron syang bf eh. And its another way to know if she is interested in you.
Pag sumagot ng NO, malamang nababaduyan sa SM at mas like nya Ayala Malls.
pwde din pero if NO man yung sagot nya kasi ayaw nya sa SM. Sure ako meron kasamang explanation yung NO nya.
Di na uso ang lowkey. Ask her directly!
May cenomar ka? Charot hahahahhaa
Nabiktima Ako Neto, Sabi nya Single sya. Yun pala pagkita ko sa PSA. MARRIED. 😅
Halaaaa! Omg buti nakita mo!
HHAHAHAHA para sigurado na
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA this made my night
Unsay Cenomar?
Cenomar lang talaga no sa panahon ngauon
Personally diko gusto yung "baka magalit bf mo" or similar route... Why? Pag sinabi kong wala akong bf inaassume na interesado ako. Kung interesado ako tapos sinabi kong wala, either natuturnoff ako kasi di pa diretsuhin or mabubuking ako (kadi nga assumed na gusto ko rin). Just ask/ask her out.
"pwede bang manligaw?" YAN. I LIKE THAT QUESTION. auto turn off ako sa tanong na "baka magalit bf mo" or similar ones. ewan ko anong meron sa tanong na yan pero sobra akong nababadtrip makarinig nyan, kaya ang ending e i just keep him as a friend
Lakas makajeje ung “baka magalit ung bf mo” .. karamihan sa narinig ko na nagtanong ng ganito sakin mga kupal or sad bois
Ligaw agad? Hindi ba pwdeng alamin mo mona kung single yung tao o hindi. By the way yung tanung na "baka magalit bf mo" is one way to know if the person is single or not. Tapus yung post ni OP is paano ka magtatanong in a low key way para malaman na single yung tao. Comprehension please.
Alam agad may hidden agenda pag sinabing "baka magalit bf mo" like bakit may ginagawa ba kayo masama? Maigi pa diretsahin mo na lang tanungin kung single ba kesa itanong yan.
oo ligaw agad. so i can immediately accept or reject it. asking me that question is, for me, a strong mark of masculinity and i really find it hot for a guy. it means gusto nya talaga ako and is willing to pursue me, no paligoy question shit like "baka magalit bf mo." well, it's just me, this is how i comprehend the offensive question and i hope no one here insist otherwise
Interesting... Sa experience ko, when you say the word "ligaw" ... super serious daw agad and nakakailang.
That's taking things way too fast lol. Masculinity isn't all about ligawan
thats why i mentioned "FOR ME." what masculinity means to me does not have to apply to u or to anyone else
The question suggests that you might be capable of cheating to some extent. This is why you have this feeling or na bbadtrip ka, if that makes sense.
i see. this makes sense. it's offending, kasi lalo i am a very polite and nice in person tas bigla akong tatanungin nyan, parang theyre implying im flirting with them kasi im being so nice?? when basic naman dapat talagang maging nice?? i realize this now. thank u sa answer mo!!
"lowkey r u single?"
HAHAHAHAHAH I LOVE THIS
A decent woman would find a way to bring it up to let you know.
# How do you lowkey ask someone if she’s single?
NOOO 😭😭😭
"Ay baka magalit boyfrjend mo" HAHAHAHAHA GASGAS NA PERO MAHAHALATA NA RIN JAN NA BET MO SIYA
That trick doesn't work anymore. It's obvious
Ay lowkey pala gusto ni OP
Grabe teh ang swerte siguro ng jowa mo. If I say that, most of the time sasagutin ako nang either affirmative or 'baka may jowa' HHAHAHA People will always correct you.
May I see your panties??
just ask her what’s her Husband’s name
Ask directly , naiinis ako sa linyang "baka magalit bf mo"
"Paki-fill in po yung marital status sa form."
cute!
I usually just say "Are you in a relationship right now?"
To be honest OP, there is no lowkey way to ask. Most women are perceptive and you insinuating the existence of a supposed bf in hopes that she will debunk you, is already rasing signals in her head of your interest. Isa pa, there's a very high chance na she's heard these lines before and you just made an impression na you're not different from the rest. It's best to be upfront; women are attracted to guys who know what they want and are direct with it. Plus, dagdag points ang confidence. The response is the same anyway— may bf sya and wala. It's not desperate if you've known her for a sufficient amount of time already.
Tinatanong ko direcho kung may bf na ba. Wala nang intro intro hehe
Agree dito OP hahaha nothing wrong with asking her directly
Ask her directly, OP! :DD
sargohin mo agad
The classic “baka magalit boyfriend mo” hahaha jk
mas turn on yung assertive :)
YES. Ung assertive na may respeto ha? 🤭
“meron o wala kang boypren 😡”
Assertive, but not THAT kind of assertive 😩😩😩
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Thank you. Will it be weird if I ask it physically and not thru text?
Lowkey? Go straight to the point na, lets not waste each others time na para maka move on na sa next lols
Swerte naman ng bf mo.
bkt lowkey pa? diretsuhin mo hahahahha
I don't lowkey ask someone. I ask them directly. Gusto ko kasi malaman agad yung sagot para alam ko ano next step ko haha
ask straight. mas may galang ang dating sa amin if you are able to communicate your intentions directly yung mga banat na "baka may magalit" "hindi ba magagalit bf mo" is icky for me and I don't like getting played just to get an answer out of me.
>yung mga banat na "baka may magalit" "hindi ba magagalit bf mo" I hate yung "baka magalit BF mo" as if may mas pake sila sa feeling ng another guy than my own feelings
saka pag ganito yung mga tanungan nakaka-turn off. pakiramdam ko sinasayang oras ko and insulting slight because I don't like going around matters na madali naman itanong. hindi naman life or death situation yung magtanong ng "are you seeing somebody?" nang direkta e bakit kelangan pa ng palabok
up!!
"Baka magalit ang bf mo"
Sabihin mo, nakita yta kita nung isang araw sa (any place), kasama mo ung Bf mo... Then sasabihin nya na...
Years ago, tinanong ko direkta. "Do you have special someone?" Hnd sinasagot. Iniiba usapan. Nag-assume tuloy ako na wala talaga. Tuluyan nahulog loob ko. Tapos after ilang araw, Bigla nagtapat. Meron pala. Tangama. Kahit kasi sinasabi ko nun, baka may magalit ah? Parang wala lang sakanya gusto lang talaga ng atensyon at ung pakiramdam siguro ng pinu-pursue. Kasi once na sinabi nyang meron didistansya talaga ko. Dapat kasi sinasabi na lang agad ung totoo. Hindi ung maghuhulaan pa.
Babae ka po ba or lalaki? kaloka nman yan hahhaha testing the waters.. kung nagpakitang gilas ka daw, baka brineak ung current 🤣
Lesbian po. Tinuloy ko po. Pinuntahan ko sakanila. Then Na-lockdown dun, hindi ako nakauwi ng 1yr.. kaya Ako pinili. Nahiya na kasi? Lagi ako pinapatago sa cr kapag nag-VVC ung bf. Nung itanong ng bf nya noon, ano dahilan bakit ayaw na? Sagot nya lang hnd na masaya. Then naging masaya kami nung magkasama kami. Then LDR ulit, lumabo.. on-off, inabot 3yrs Sa huli, mukang ganun din ginawa sakin. Haha karma. Wala pang 3days may pamalit agad. So meaning, nagkakausap pa kami, may bago na talagang kausap. KARMA at its best. Haha kung hindi ko na lang sana tinuloy un. Kaso landi is life. Ayun. Hapdi sa huli. Hahaha
okay lang yan. hndi marunong makuntento yung ex mo.. karma na sa kanya yun. Hnding hindi sya magiging masaya sa life 😅
Ewan ko po.. gusto ko pa rin sumaya siya. Baka sakali this time makuntento na.
meaning kase nyan gusto nila pinaglaruan yung mga tao to inflate their ego
Kinaganda eh. Eh gumanda nga lang nung ako kasama. Kung hnd pa ko papasok sa buhay nya hindi pa mag aayos ng lifestyle. Or siguro un ung role namin sa buhay ng isat-isa? Ang matutunan lahat ng bagay na dati'y palagi lang tinatakbuhan? Nung natapos role namin sa buhay ng isat-isa. Kusa nang bumitaw. Need upgrade na ulit. Gumanda na buhay sa ibang bansa eh. Napagiwanan ako.. Taga hatid lang siguro ako sa next chapter ng buhay nya. All goods. I deserve better too..
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Nakokornihan talaga ko sa linyang yan, lakas maka 2012 vibe 😭
May bf ka po ba?
Ask her out on a date, her reaction would tell you all you need to know
Ring.
You don't. The most savvy and subtle way to ask is to just maintain the conversation and talk about random things, wherein eventually you'll get the impression she's single—and available.
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Yeah, no. People will usually eye-roll with this 'style' that's becoming way too common.
Haha. Kaya nga. Iassume na lang na taken para matanggal defense niya haha
Most comments are to ask her directly. Pero hindi ba parang ang desperate ng dating? I have been single for a while, so I appreciate the tips
Hindi naman pagiging desperate yun. Mas clear nga ang intention kung directly itatanong and sa manner ng pagtatanong. Dami ko na natanong na ganyan hehe dami yes may bf na ayun move forward na lang hehe
Di naman. For me direct confession = less confusion Kapag may crush ako, I make sure na magresearch muna about him if he’s single or in a relationship. If walang bakas, dinidiretso ko na lang sabihin na crush ko siya and asking if he’s single.
Isa ako sa nagcomment na to ask her directly kasi as a girl, rinding rindi ako pag nagpapasimple yung guy na “oh baka magalit yung bf mo ha” nacricringe ako sa ganon at napapaisip ako “hindi ba to marunong magcommunicate nang maayos?” hahaha
It's not desperate if you approach it in a respectable way. As a girl, I always appreciate straightforward questions cause it shows sincerity and that you ain't there for games. Maybe approach it like "Hey, I'm really starting to like you but before I move forward with this, may I ask if you're currently in a relationship?" Or something similar.
"Baka magalit bf mo ha?" always works. Dito mo din malalaman kung type ka ng girl. It's for us, girls, to know and you to find out 🙃😝
OP, this is the best way to come across as creepy to your prospect. Don't do this.
Bat ba galit na galit kayooooo 🥲😅
They are capping. Actually this method could somehow works if you want to play it safe. Some girls tend to be liars when it comes to giving such advice, what they say doesn't always align with their action. Imagine if a guy came up to her and ask her if she's single, you'll be labelled as creep because she see you as ugly 😂
NO don't try this!!! this is used by guys who have little to no emotional maturity and self pity ang armas pagmagbbreak kayo. such a red flag.
Pano ba kayo brineak ng mga ex niyo? 😭
dont try this op it's so cringe galawang manipulative fuck boy
Di niyo lang ata type yung guy na nagtanong sa inyo?
Huhu sounded cringey and creepy based from my experiences
Baka di mo type yung guy? Pag type mo kase lowkey lalandi ka rin pabalik
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Why you lying 😂
I'm not, I used to date chararat guy just bc he was really good at words and the audacity to cheat. Lol
I have no say on that. Choice mo naman yan. 🙃
"Baka magalit bf mo ha?" HAHAHAHAHAHHAHA
Diba cringe to? 😅
Pag di mo type yung guy, cringe talaga siya. Ganito na lang. Isipin mo pag nag "Hi" yung crush mo sa'yo kikiligin ka dba? What more kaya na nag-show ng interest sa'yo by asking if you have a bf? Kung cringe sa'yo, I have no say on that tho.
"ay hindi, may asawa nako" 🥲🥲🥲
Pag di ko type "Wala akong bf. Gf meron" HAHAHAHAHA
pwede din HAHAHAH
May makukulit kase na "Hihintayin kita". Hahahahah
Based on my experience, palagi may pa-insert na tanong sa akin na may "yung bf mo". Example, "bakit hindi ka pinagda-drive ng bf mo?". Or, "madalas ba kayo nung bf mo magpunta dun?". Kapag ganun na ang flow ng questions ni guy, alam na. Syempre, depende sa sagot kung gaano ko ka-type si guy. 🤣
Insert "baka magalit yung jowa mo ah" HAHAHAHAHA
Ito unang pumasok sa utak ko haha
"may nagpapangiti na ba sayo?" lol
"Oo, ikaw nung nag tanong ka." Ang smooth eh mapapangiti ka talaga
writing this down
and they lived happily ever after... hahaha
Yung ‘wala bang magagalit’ HAHAHAHAHHA
"kakahiya sa boyfriend mo..." always seems to work.
Haha thisssss 💯
Baka magalit asawa mo?
Huy haha
Ask her directly, wala na paliguy ligoy
Annong lowkey lowkey. Sayang yung time. Ask mo nang diretsahan