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Ay nako, I have one…and tumatak talaga sya sakin, it was my fault naman so dasurv 😂😂..I was trying to get back with him after provoking him na magbreak na kami ..then he told me “I can’t bring myself to be with you again” he’s 2 years older than me and then after saying that he then told me “matuto kang makinig sa advices ng mga nakakatanda sayo, kasi in the real world, walang lugar ang arrogance” ayon tumatak yon saken
"Mas mahal ko sya." Tas sasabihin "Pero mahalaga ka sa akin." HAHAHA! Simula noon, ayaw ko na na sinasabihan ako na mahalaga ako sa kanila kasi para sa akin pag mahalaga ka na lang you're just a friend na lang. Ayaw nilang masaktan ka pero masakit kaya talaga masabihan ng ganon HAHA.
"Its not you, its me"
Kahit naging cliche at comedic na 'tong line na 'to, masakit pa din for me. Kahit sabihin nyang sya yung problema, paparusahan at qquestionin ko pa din sarili ko kung anong mali sakin. Mas madali pang tanggapin for me yung direct nyang sasabihin na "Bored na ako" or "May gusto na akong iba" or ano.
“Ayoko na, tama na. kailangan ko syang makita.”
~ We broke up nung namatay dad nya, nakipaghiwalay sya dahil may iba na, wala kaming oras pagusapan lahat as they’re all grieving. I had to set aside my feelings kasi kailangan nya ng karamay eh, nagantay ako na mabigyan ng maayos na paliwanag. Nung nalibing na dad nya sabe ko magusap kami. Pero imbis na kausapin nya ko. Nagmamadali syang umalis. And that was the last word I heard from him.
"It's not me, it's you. Di mo alam pano mag mahal"
Bruhh 😭😂
I mean, I was always a little too emotionally distant even before the relationship. The biggest reason I was in the relationship is because I wanted to fix that flaw. Akala ko being with her would slowly change me, but I guess relationships only work if you both work.
We are no longer friends (she has left my circle of influence ever since), and to this day, I still have a hard time making moves on other ladies kasi I keep thinking back on what she said and what it meant.
"Thank you for everything! How I wish I could love you forever. If only our paths were aligned, perhaps you would love me forever too."
*For context, She's fulfilling her life long dream to go abroad and I don't have the capability to follow her.
“Hindi na kita mahal. Pero wala akong iba” Only to find out na naging sila na nung katrabaho niyang binubully niya pag kaming dalawa ang naguusap, the day after niya makipagbreak. 🤡
Hindi siya pang breakup actually kasi hindi naman naging kami. But one thing na pinakamasakit na narinig o nabasa ko mula sa taong akala ko magiging secured na yung heart ko is hindi na daw niya ako pwedeng kausapin kahit kelan. Yung okay naman kayo then all of the sudden sasabihin niya na hindi na daw kayo pwede mag usap. 😢😢😢 For my totga I just wanna say thank you because even for a short time you made me feel how I should be treated.❤️ sana makahanap ako ng katulad mo one day. ❤️
4 years kami ng ex ko. Walang closure/break-up na nangyari, di na kami okay nun lately, then naging super rude nalang siya saakin one day. Found out nag-sisinungaling na sa mababaw na bagay. Like nasaan siya, etc.
With how he speaks to me that day.. Alam kong ayawan na, I know my worth and I won’t settle for the bare minimum.
Kaya it’s a goodbye for me na.
After a few months, I met my now-husband, and we married after being together for 9 years. Our relationship was 180 degrees different from what I had before him.
1. "You're heavy"
2. You are too much
3. You are not the same person anymore (after 4 years na di nagkita because of covid)
4. I have a wife
At madami pang sinabi nung huli namin kita. Trauma kung trauma talaga. Lol
I only had 4 relationships so far
1. “Magiging tayo ulit, pag kaya na natin” - had new gf in less than a year
2. no message - ghosted
3. “Mahal ko kayo pareho!” - may gf n pla while we were together pa..
4. no message - not really a breakup , just died from cancer
the fourth one ang pinka masakit, kasi never ever n babalik.
"Di ko mabili gusto ko"
"Narealize ko hindi ko pala kaya ng kargo sa buhay"
Boyfriend of 11years, engaged for 3years, ikakasal sana dec last yr. But he decided to break-up with me. Nakaset na ang date ng kasal, nakapagdown na sa mga suppliers, nagsend na ng mga save the dates and naabisuhan na mga ninong at ninang. Pero iba talaga magbiro tadhana, nakipagbreak pa sya sa mismong birthday ko.
Ateeeee ang sakiiiiit, keep holding on!!! It was a bullet dodged, even if it's painful right now, it will make sense soon huhu. Tyaga lang hanggang makarating sa "soon"
Thank youuuu. Okay nako ngayon. Feeling ko while nasa relationship kami unti unti ko ng nararamdaman yung coldness nya, pinupush back ko lang yung thought kasi mahal ko eh. Pero I can say na okay nako and I wish nothing but the best for him. Naimessage ko pa sya na pinapatawad ko sya sa lahat ng pain na dinulot nya sakin kahit di nya hinihingi. Kasi gusto ko na makamove on.
“Sige hiwalay na tayo. Tama ka sa mga sinasabi mo. It’s not you, it’s me. Ayoko madamay ka sa mga problema ko” as per my ex-bf when I tried to help him out what’s been bothering him. He got a midlife crisis at that time sa career and financial.
"let's break up for now, we'll never know we just need to have space but let's keep our communication open"
I tried di mag commu pero nagalit sya... so I was left hanging ginawa ba naman akong reserba😂 #neveragain
Yung wala hahaha ni-ha ni-ho wala. Basta ka lang iniwan. Di pa uso ghosting term noon, pero legit masakit yan kasi wala kang idea kung may babalik pa ba o wala, idk if this counts but yun for me.
most dramatic:
me: from now on, everything will go your way. I will give you whatever you want.
her: I want my freedom
eee! mmk lines.
actually pinaka masakit:
"You'll find someone else cling to"
I despaired for a long time that I would never be able to truly love someone and would always have this clingy desperate "love" but fast forward years and now I can. so yeah that's good.
"Mas responsable s'ya". Tangina lang parang hindi sa'kin pinagawa yung activities nya at nang hingi sa'kin ng financial support during her college days. Edi sya na. Tapos ngayon todo stalk at react sa socials ko kahit 'di na kami friend lols.
We’re just good at manning up but deep inside were dead af
It’s okay one day it will end.but I still silently beleive it will be us in the end if not ewan it has to be
I feel you, bro
Sa akin, malabo na magkabalikan. Asked for closure sana, na makausap ko siya ng masinsinan, never happened, so the pain just kept getting deeper and festered.
But so long as she's happy and safe, goods naman sa akin
Man your strong and single be hopeful dmi k chance sa iba :) use it as catalyst minsan closure won’t solve ur woes it’s best to move forward however im married with her and has kids also became disabled so I’m on my end game
I know naman. Taking it day by day. There are good days like today when thinking about her didn't hurt as much, but when I'm idle and vulnerable, she invades my thoughts and I'm back to square 1, trying to rebuild the pieces of my heart that she broke
"Mahal na mahal kita at ayokong nasasaktan ka. Pero sinaktan pa rin kita."
I cried that night and he promised na babalikan niya ako. It's been seven years and he never came back. Took me four years to heal but I've never loved the same way.
Why do they always do this!!! was told the same line, not verbatim tho. Along with the lines of:
"Iyak ka nalang nang iyak dahil sa'kin, gusto ko masaya ka lang."
I'm trying really hard to be a better person now but admittedly, I was an extremely immature boyfriend before. Back in August 2021, my girlfriend broke up with me cleanly: *we just didn't work out*. Props to her, she kept saying good things about me to other people. She just said that we weren't a good match in other important ways.
But I was really hurt. On February 2022, she started developing a relationship with someone. Out of my jealousy, I posted cryptic remarks on Facebook about how "her heart always belonged to him even when we were together", alleging that my ex-girlfriend was not loyal.
People gossip, so the posts reached her. She defended her new boyfriend (as she should!) and told me, in essence, "Please stop posting things like that. You and I both know I was loyal. We didn't need a third party for us not to work."
Ang sakit. Hanggang ngayon ini-inda ko yung kaparusahan ng pagpapadala ko sa galit at lungkot. Isipin mo yung point ng sinabi niya: "Tangina mo. Kahit wala akong kabit, ayaw ko sayo."
Dasurb mo yan kuya. Same kayo ng ex ko. Pinagseselosan lahat ultimong friend ko na bakla. Kahit sa mga orgs ko sa univ namin gusto akong pag quit-in kasi ayaw niyang may nakaka interact ako na iba. Even nung kami pa, pagnakakainom nag lalash out and would accuse me of cheating kahit kanino.
Ayon brineakan ko. Di ko kaya yung katoxican na ganyan tas nalaman ko pinagkakalat na cheater ako. Wag niya lang hintayin na ako ang magsalita kasi maiintindihan niya bakit hindi tears of joy yung luha ng mama niya.
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Tama na.
Ay nako, I have one…and tumatak talaga sya sakin, it was my fault naman so dasurv 😂😂..I was trying to get back with him after provoking him na magbreak na kami ..then he told me “I can’t bring myself to be with you again” he’s 2 years older than me and then after saying that he then told me “matuto kang makinig sa advices ng mga nakakatanda sayo, kasi in the real world, walang lugar ang arrogance” ayon tumatak yon saken
“Hindi na kita mahal. Anong pang hindi mo naiintindihan?”
"Itigil na natin 'to. Ako na nahihirapan para sayo." Gave her everything. Umalis na lang ako kasi awa na lang nafefeel niya.
"Mas mahal ko sya." Tas sasabihin "Pero mahalaga ka sa akin." HAHAHA! Simula noon, ayaw ko na na sinasabihan ako na mahalaga ako sa kanila kasi para sa akin pag mahalaga ka na lang you're just a friend na lang. Ayaw nilang masaktan ka pero masakit kaya talaga masabihan ng ganon HAHA.
"I don't love you anymore." Tangina ang sakit nun.
“Ikamamatay ko kapag nawala ka saken”. Ayon humihinga pa ang gago. HAHAHAH char
“I will always love you… even if it wasn’t enough to save what we had.”
"Its not you, its me" Kahit naging cliche at comedic na 'tong line na 'to, masakit pa din for me. Kahit sabihin nyang sya yung problema, paparusahan at qquestionin ko pa din sarili ko kung anong mali sakin. Mas madali pang tanggapin for me yung direct nyang sasabihin na "Bored na ako" or "May gusto na akong iba" or ano.
"🐶" Literal lang na yan ang reply niya sa akin kada ichachat ko siya at nagmamakaawang wag niya akong iwan dati
"I fell inlove with someone*
Wala. Pinaka masakit yung we just slowly drifted away na bigla nalang nawala. Bigla nalang di nag usap.
“Ayoko na, tama na. kailangan ko syang makita.” ~ We broke up nung namatay dad nya, nakipaghiwalay sya dahil may iba na, wala kaming oras pagusapan lahat as they’re all grieving. I had to set aside my feelings kasi kailangan nya ng karamay eh, nagantay ako na mabigyan ng maayos na paliwanag. Nung nalibing na dad nya sabe ko magusap kami. Pero imbis na kausapin nya ko. Nagmamadali syang umalis. And that was the last word I heard from him.
Maraming lalaki sa mundo! Kaya kitang palitan!
"It's not me, it's you. Di mo alam pano mag mahal" Bruhh 😭😂 I mean, I was always a little too emotionally distant even before the relationship. The biggest reason I was in the relationship is because I wanted to fix that flaw. Akala ko being with her would slowly change me, but I guess relationships only work if you both work. We are no longer friends (she has left my circle of influence ever since), and to this day, I still have a hard time making moves on other ladies kasi I keep thinking back on what she said and what it meant.
Ghost
lol There's nothing more hurtful than disappearing without proper explanation.
Hindi ko sinasadya pero buntis na sya 🙃🙃🙃
"Im truly grateful for you letting me go"
"Wala ka nang maririnig sakin" Ayon blinock ko , gg siya
Your on you’re own daw. Inaccaa
"Thank you for everything! How I wish I could love you forever. If only our paths were aligned, perhaps you would love me forever too." *For context, She's fulfilling her life long dream to go abroad and I don't have the capability to follow her.
Hindi na kita nakikitang kasama sa future ko.
hindi pa daw siya ready for a relationship. i knew the “sayo” was silent because i saw he got back with his ex 😂
Friendship breakup. Mahiwagang silent treatment 😂😂.
yung ‘panong di mo kaya? Eh di naman tayo umabot ng taon’ parang wtf ano yung pinagsamahan natin laro laro lang sayo yon? HAHAHAHAAHHAAHA sakit
Pagod na ako. Hindi na kita nakikita sa future ko.
"You're too late"
"Hindi ka kasi nagbribrief" :(
“yung utang mo bayaran mo na…”
“Hindi na kita mahal. Pero wala akong iba” Only to find out na naging sila na nung katrabaho niyang binubully niya pag kaming dalawa ang naguusap, the day after niya makipagbreak. 🤡
Mas masakit sakin yung pinipilit mo hingan ng explanation pero wala mabigay.
Hindi siya pang breakup actually kasi hindi naman naging kami. But one thing na pinakamasakit na narinig o nabasa ko mula sa taong akala ko magiging secured na yung heart ko is hindi na daw niya ako pwedeng kausapin kahit kelan. Yung okay naman kayo then all of the sudden sasabihin niya na hindi na daw kayo pwede mag usap. 😢😢😢 For my totga I just wanna say thank you because even for a short time you made me feel how I should be treated.❤️ sana makahanap ako ng katulad mo one day. ❤️
Yung maingay na “ghosting”z
“I’m sorry for being your first heartbreak.”
Linya ng ex-fiancee ko bago ako iwan: Please pray for me, I am not sure about us anymore. Then left the abroad after 2-3 days.
4 years kami ng ex ko. Walang closure/break-up na nangyari, di na kami okay nun lately, then naging super rude nalang siya saakin one day. Found out nag-sisinungaling na sa mababaw na bagay. Like nasaan siya, etc. With how he speaks to me that day.. Alam kong ayawan na, I know my worth and I won’t settle for the bare minimum. Kaya it’s a goodbye for me na. After a few months, I met my now-husband, and we married after being together for 9 years. Our relationship was 180 degrees different from what I had before him.
Wala nang spark. A week after breaking up, sila na ng common acquaintance.
same thing happened to me 😭
"Our compatibility is messed by time"
“Ginamit lang kita para mapalapit ako sa best friend mo.” ☠️🔫
Sakit
That was almost 3 years ago, pero grabe pa rin yung trauma na dala nito. My best friend is was always a girls girl. We cut him off after.
Hindi na talaga pwedeng maging tayo! After 4 months na meet ko yung husband ko.
“One day I woke up and I’m not in love with you anymore”
1. "You're heavy" 2. You are too much 3. You are not the same person anymore (after 4 years na di nagkita because of covid) 4. I have a wife At madami pang sinabi nung huli namin kita. Trauma kung trauma talaga. Lol
I only had 4 relationships so far 1. “Magiging tayo ulit, pag kaya na natin” - had new gf in less than a year 2. no message - ghosted 3. “Mahal ko kayo pareho!” - may gf n pla while we were together pa.. 4. no message - not really a breakup , just died from cancer the fourth one ang pinka masakit, kasi never ever n babalik.
K. Nung nagsasabi ako ng nararamdaman ko towards our relationship. Dami ko explain. Tapos K lang sagot niya. After nun break na kami 😅
Bakit hindi ka nalang kumuha ng lubid at magpakamatay.
“I was never in love with you”
Ayoko na masaktan pa kita. That was 16 years ago. I met my future husband after him.
"Nakakapressure ka"
"i love you pero narealize ko mas gusto ko pala ng tite."
sorry pero natawa ako
ahhahahuhu
“I’ll wait for you in God’s perfect timing” lol, sila na ng ex-fling nya ngayon.
"Di ko mabili gusto ko" "Narealize ko hindi ko pala kaya ng kargo sa buhay" Boyfriend of 11years, engaged for 3years, ikakasal sana dec last yr. But he decided to break-up with me. Nakaset na ang date ng kasal, nakapagdown na sa mga suppliers, nagsend na ng mga save the dates and naabisuhan na mga ninong at ninang. Pero iba talaga magbiro tadhana, nakipagbreak pa sya sa mismong birthday ko.
Ateeeee ang sakiiiiit, keep holding on!!! It was a bullet dodged, even if it's painful right now, it will make sense soon huhu. Tyaga lang hanggang makarating sa "soon"
Thank youuuu. Okay nako ngayon. Feeling ko while nasa relationship kami unti unti ko ng nararamdaman yung coldness nya, pinupush back ko lang yung thought kasi mahal ko eh. Pero I can say na okay nako and I wish nothing but the best for him. Naimessage ko pa sya na pinapatawad ko sya sa lahat ng pain na dinulot nya sakin kahit di nya hinihingi. Kasi gusto ko na makamove on.
Aaaaa good for you and I hope you keep your peace 🫶🏽
Thank youuuuu 🫶🫶
Thank you mga Mima! Okay na ko ngayon, buti nalang hehe
Aw, yakap with consent 😢
😭😭😭😭💔
sent her a song. "Closing Time -Semisonic" explained to her what the song means. its the end for us but a new beginning for me. xd
“Sige hiwalay na tayo. Tama ka sa mga sinasabi mo. It’s not you, it’s me. Ayoko madamay ka sa mga problema ko” as per my ex-bf when I tried to help him out what’s been bothering him. He got a midlife crisis at that time sa career and financial.
**no message** ***Namatay sa cancer***
“I could’ve given you the best life.”
"I fell out of love" tas nalaman ko sa common friend namin yung real reason na "ayaw sakaniya ni Mama" 🤨
Wala ba syang balls ipaglaban ka? Mahal ka nya pero not enough para ipaglaban ka or baka di ka nya talaga mahal at all
literal na wala, our entire relationship was rough because of his immaturity and he's a Mama's boy din
nag beg ako tapos sinabihan lang ako na "please keep your pride in check" kaya ayun HAHAHAHA
feeling ko sa 6 years na relationship namin, yan yung first time na nag please siya lol
Eto recently lang: “I still love you, but i don’t think continuing this relationship is the right choice anymore. I hope you understand”
"Your time is up." Di ako aware na may time limit pala ako. 😅 Nagpapaexam pala si koya. 😢
hueYyyYy HAHA PASS YOUR PAPERS FORWARD
Extend gosurf50
Sobra serious ng mga comments tapos makikita ko ito. Jirap magpigil tawa hahaha
"let's break up for now, we'll never know we just need to have space but let's keep our communication open" I tried di mag commu pero nagalit sya... so I was left hanging ginawa ba naman akong reserba😂 #neveragain
“I don’t see a future with you anymore.”
“I need to heal. Get back to God, be healthy.” daw. Ayon, bumalik sa ex hehe
Si God ex niya? Charot
HAHAHAHAHA feeling ko!!!
Periodt!
special friend lang talaga tingin nya sakin ( ano ko siopao? )
Hindi halo-halo ka 😂
there was never an us...
“I do care, but it’s unfair. I’m holding on to the idea that I can still find her in you.”
Once lang may nakipagbreak sakin lahat na ako nakipagbreak. Di ko na maalala since 2nd bf ko yun noong bata pa ako. 🤣
“Hindi ka na kasama sa mga plano ko.”
HOY SIS 😭 mahigpit na yakap with consent.
“Hindi na ako masaya”. Litanya ng mga cheater. Maraming beses na hindi rin naman ako masaya pero hindi ko sya sinisi.
"Hayaan mo naman akong maging masaya..." _ BFs later and this line just made it into my core memory 🥲
Yung p-t-ng i—ng magsabi na na fall out love na daw siya kahit na binigay mo lahat.
Not just during breakup but to hear from someone yung love na "Wala na akong pakielam sa iyo!" Breaks my heart. every. single. time.
"Magiging okay lang ako kapag naghiwalay na tayo."
"Promises are meant to be broken" I fulfilled my promises and how can she say that 🫡🤷♂️
Yung wala ka nang narinig
Di ko kayang pantayan efforts mo
“baka kapag pinagpatuloy pa, ako naman ang mawala.”
ohhhh
"...stop that lunacy. I have no feelings for you. Not even an inch!"
Hindi daw nya tanggap yung mental health disorder ko. 😶
mas lalo ka naman no
"Ikakasal na ako sa iba." 🥹
I was never really into you, I just wanted the presence of someone being with me as my companion.
Nothing. Just pure Silence. Then left.
"Nagkamali ako"... Everything went downhill from there.
“I love you, Dex, so much. I just don't like you anymore. I'm sorry.” -Emma, One Day.
~no message~
no response is still a response.
Sadtruth
"You were always my greatest joy yet also my greatest pain"......what I said to her after nya ako ghinost at naka hanap na ng iba
same.
“i do love you, but i can’t provide the life na nakasanayan mo” 🙃
I wish we can turn back time 10 years ago, I love you but I'm already engaged
"ang hirap mong mahalin" sabi nang ccheat HAHAHAHA
Mahal kita di lang 100%.
Naattract Ako sa iba
Yung wala hahaha ni-ha ni-ho wala. Basta ka lang iniwan. Di pa uso ghosting term noon, pero legit masakit yan kasi wala kang idea kung may babalik pa ba o wala, idk if this counts but yun for me.
“Hindi na tayo compatible. Huwag na natin ipilit. It’s best for us na itigil na ito”
most dramatic: me: from now on, everything will go your way. I will give you whatever you want. her: I want my freedom eee! mmk lines. actually pinaka masakit: "You'll find someone else cling to" I despaired for a long time that I would never be able to truly love someone and would always have this clingy desperate "love" but fast forward years and now I can. so yeah that's good.
“Awa na lang nararamdaman ko sa’yo.”
“Meron na kong mga plano na hindi ka na kasama” parang kahapon lang kahit 10 years ago na 😂
Nambabae ako. Hindi ka naman nagkulang, naghangad lang ako ng sobra.
"I can't be with you because I know I'm going to cheat on you, and I don't want to hurt you."
Hindi naman talaga kita mahal, FUBU lang tayo db?
Wala na kong ka amor amor sayo pakawalan mo n ko
"Mahal ko kayong 2" 🥲 Ako na lang ang umalis at nagparaya
"Mas responsable s'ya". Tangina lang parang hindi sa'kin pinagawa yung activities nya at nang hingi sa'kin ng financial support during her college days. Edi sya na. Tapos ngayon todo stalk at react sa socials ko kahit 'di na kami friend lols.
"gusto ko muna mapag-isa" tapos malalaman ko nagcheck-in sila ng crush nya
Lets be honest in order for a relationship to work, it takes two people. And I can’t give you that. I don’t want to be responsible for your feelings.
There was never an us Dineny na minahal niya ako. And I loved her truly, yun ang masakit
Saklap sorry
Probably didn't mean as much to her as it did to me. Tanga ko kasi, thought she really loved me. Up until she left
I feel u evertrhing reminds me of her tas 1 week nnmng sabog
Akala ng karamihan, us guys don't feel anything. Truth is, we get hurt more often and more deeply. Sorry bro
We’re just good at manning up but deep inside were dead af It’s okay one day it will end.but I still silently beleive it will be us in the end if not ewan it has to be
I feel you, bro Sa akin, malabo na magkabalikan. Asked for closure sana, na makausap ko siya ng masinsinan, never happened, so the pain just kept getting deeper and festered. But so long as she's happy and safe, goods naman sa akin
Man your strong and single be hopeful dmi k chance sa iba :) use it as catalyst minsan closure won’t solve ur woes it’s best to move forward however im married with her and has kids also became disabled so I’m on my end game
That’s love you jump without thinking :) hope ok k na
Still broken, but healing naman, slowly and may mga relapses sometimes, but today was a good day and hoping tomorrow will be too. Thanks for asking :)
Hang in there will be over soon for us one day
I know naman. Taking it day by day. There are good days like today when thinking about her didn't hurt as much, but when I'm idle and vulnerable, she invades my thoughts and I'm back to square 1, trying to rebuild the pieces of my heart that she broke
Good riddance daw
Nung High School the Cliche study muna
"hindi na 'ko masaya." gawin ba naman akong clown.
"Just pretend that I didn't exist"
“Mahal ko pa si *ex’s name*, pero mahal din kita pero hindi ko na kaya ilaban ito.” edi magsama kayo🥴
"Tama na, ayoko na. Hindi ko na kaya. Tapusin na natin to."
Oof! We have the same ex.
‘Hindi na ako tinitigasan sayo’ - my ex Feb 2022 🤣
Baka siya yung may problema 🥹
“Nanliliit nako pag naiisip kita.”
“Okay lang ba, friends with benefits nalang tayo?”
"birthday gift mo sakin hiwalayan moko "
"Mahal na mahal kita at ayokong nasasaktan ka. Pero sinaktan pa rin kita." I cried that night and he promised na babalikan niya ako. It's been seven years and he never came back. Took me four years to heal but I've never loved the same way.
Why do they always do this!!! was told the same line, not verbatim tho. Along with the lines of: "Iyak ka nalang nang iyak dahil sa'kin, gusto ko masaya ka lang."
Mag-uusap nalang tayo about sa bata.
After 12 years of relationship. "Wala na, hindi na kita mahal. Bato na. " "Di na ako babalik." "Mas ramdam ko yung love ng isa kesa sayo."
I'm trying really hard to be a better person now but admittedly, I was an extremely immature boyfriend before. Back in August 2021, my girlfriend broke up with me cleanly: *we just didn't work out*. Props to her, she kept saying good things about me to other people. She just said that we weren't a good match in other important ways. But I was really hurt. On February 2022, she started developing a relationship with someone. Out of my jealousy, I posted cryptic remarks on Facebook about how "her heart always belonged to him even when we were together", alleging that my ex-girlfriend was not loyal. People gossip, so the posts reached her. She defended her new boyfriend (as she should!) and told me, in essence, "Please stop posting things like that. You and I both know I was loyal. We didn't need a third party for us not to work." Ang sakit. Hanggang ngayon ini-inda ko yung kaparusahan ng pagpapadala ko sa galit at lungkot. Isipin mo yung point ng sinabi niya: "Tangina mo. Kahit wala akong kabit, ayaw ko sayo."
Dasurb mo yan kuya. Same kayo ng ex ko. Pinagseselosan lahat ultimong friend ko na bakla. Kahit sa mga orgs ko sa univ namin gusto akong pag quit-in kasi ayaw niyang may nakaka interact ako na iba. Even nung kami pa, pagnakakainom nag lalash out and would accuse me of cheating kahit kanino. Ayon brineakan ko. Di ko kaya yung katoxican na ganyan tas nalaman ko pinagkakalat na cheater ako. Wag niya lang hintayin na ako ang magsalita kasi maiintindihan niya bakit hindi tears of joy yung luha ng mama niya.
Him : Hindi na ako masaya sayo. Me : *nagmakaawa wag iwan 🤡
“I want to end this”
"straight talaga ako, e"
After 6 years sa relationship + may bago agad (opposite gender) after break up.
"magpapahinga muna ako pero wag mo na ako hintayin" hehe a month after, may hinard launch na si acla
"Boring ka. Walang substance ang relationship natin" That day, my heart shattered into pieces
Actually, no lines at all. I was left hanging. The next time I knew, they were already in a relationship. 😭
"sana di ako makahanap ng katulad mong toxic"
Hindi ko na kaya
same :(( sakit
Kaya nga. Buti ginalingan ko tas kaya pa pala nya. Married na kami now 29F 😊 nadala lang ata ng sitwasyon that time
"Why do you have to be my cousin?"
Wag mo kong ikulong
"'wag ka na mamilit, pls lang" hahahaha edi 'wag
Tigilan mo na lang ako. Hindi kita kailangan
Wag ka munang sumabay, pwede? Makipagbreak ka kung gusto mo.
walang sinabi, walang rason at lalong walang paalam 😶
Di ka pang Mrs.
“Ayaw ko na gets mo?”
"ang alat ng adobo mo!"
don't remember exactly but along the lines of "I don't want to waste my time/energy"