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i can't feel any connection with the person im talking to if i can't see the expression of their face, their body language, and their overall feeling. for me ang chat kasi ay dapat sa pagset up ng gala/date in real life. then sa f2f na kayo mag usap at magkwentuhan. for me mas authentic kasi yun compared sa chat lang.
ayoko makipag chat. nag deactivate na nga ko ng fb matagal tagal na din.. sa messenger naman if important lang saka ako nagrereply. Yung mga madalas nag mmsg at hindi important nilalagay ko sa restricted o kaya pag gc is muted and off receipt kahit family pa
pati nga boss ko naka mute yung chat, walang pakundangan ba naman kahit hating gabi na o holiday nag hahanap ng output.
kaya naman ako nag tuturn off chat kasi masyado ng bombarded ng gc ung acc ko at inalis ng messenger yung restriction ng mga gc, nakakainis.
Para hindi makatanggap ng mga mensahe na hindi naman interesado. Nakakaistorbo kasi na habang naglalaro o nagsusurf ako sa smartphone ko biglang may tunog at pop-up na lumalabas galing sa Messenger.
I don't turn off chat, I put it on mute or turn off notifications hahahhaaha. Mas gusto ko lang na iopen ko siya kasi gusto ko not because may nag message
Para di nila malaman na online ako. Kasi may tendency na imbis na me time ko, parang obligado pa akong magreply. unless emergency talaga. May iba kasi na matutulog ka na nga lang sa gabi, may ipapagawa sa'yo. Walang respeto sa oras.
Madalas akong magbasa - either fanfictions or manga/manhwa. And yung appear appear kineme is nakak annoy talaga. Babad din ako sa games, so yung notif sa top bar nakaka disteact din. + Banas HAHAHA so ayun naka off.
And in the first place, bihirang-bihira may mag chat saken so yeah
Ayoko ng kausap at the moment, pero before nung college para di malaman na gumagamit ako ng phone during internship 😂, ngayong working puwede na since needed na sa work
Parang wala ako karapatan mag post ng travel or mga luho ko. Kasi sasabihin marami ako ang pera. Bigla na lang magchat kahit hindi kame close,mangungutang pala.
Tamad magreply at hindi nagpapautang(reason why I deactivated my fb year ago, every time na nagppost ako ng travel photos ko, May mangungutang sa’kin. Nakakairita hindi naman sila kasama sa budget ko. Ems
Ang nakakatuwa nito, yung mga nautang pa yung feeling entitled na kapag hindi mo pinahiram, ikaw pa yung masama ang ugali at madamot haha. Awit talaga.
>How do you turn off your read receipts?
Sa Privacy & Safety. Pero hindi mo rin makikita na na-view nila ang message mo.
>Sa turn off chat, off active status po ba meaning niyan?
Yes po.
Deniability.pag nag message sa yo d mo sinagot sabihin mo pag naglita kayo in person,dont used messenger anymore and isa pa,
only want to talk to people who matters to me.
Pag iba bored nakita ka online eh mangangamusta or something .
So people wouldn’t know that i am online. Pet peeve ko kasi ung mga bigla bigla na lng tatawag or mag vvcall sa msgr ng wala man lang abiso. Madalas mga kamag-anak mo gumagawa nyan.
Ayaw ko mag reply agad or at all sa messages, especially if nonsense ang sasabihin. I only really talk to select (few) friends and immediate family members.
Working in the academe as staff, NAKAKA DRAIN at madaming Group Chats i tell you.
Weekend na weekend ichachat ka eh. Ng students. Higher boss. Staff. Co workers.
So if off ang activity status you can by your day and reply when it's convenient na for you.
It's a notion na if off yung messenger mo or di ka online meaning di ka available. At you can reason out pa bakit. Kesa tatanungin ka na "online ka naman bakit di ka nag rereply or nag seen ng msgs."
Too tired for that shit.
•there are people who would message me just stating my name then wala nang kasunod, made me anxious all the time
•chinachat for nonsense things, i find it draining since my time is alloted for my priorities beforehand
•ayoko lang kumausap ng tao
Para hindi ako mapilitan magreply sa mga taong ayaw kong replayan hahahahahaha nakakadrain ng energy den kasi kapag ang daming nagchachat sayo tapos naka on ung messenger mo parang nakakaguilty na hindi magreply.
never ko inoon. ayoko lang makita ng mga tao na buhay pa ako para pag nadeads ako, smooth transition nalang para sa kanila. CHZ. im a chronic ghost. kung di important yung message, i oftentimes forget to reply. that said, inaavoid ko na icontact ako ng mga tao by showing that im unavailable to chat, para di ko sila maghost accidentally.
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hate being available to everyone all the time
para di obligated magreply
Para hindi nila makitang online ako.
i can't feel any connection with the person im talking to if i can't see the expression of their face, their body language, and their overall feeling. for me ang chat kasi ay dapat sa pagset up ng gala/date in real life. then sa f2f na kayo mag usap at magkwentuhan. for me mas authentic kasi yun compared sa chat lang.
I don’t like na nakabroadcast sa Facebook/Messenger friends na online ako.
para malaman/maobserve ko kung sino ung mga taong ichachat ako or kukumustahin kahit na naka-offline ako and wala sa online chat list nila mwheh
para pwede di magmadali magreply
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ayoko makipag chat. nag deactivate na nga ko ng fb matagal tagal na din.. sa messenger naman if important lang saka ako nagrereply. Yung mga madalas nag mmsg at hindi important nilalagay ko sa restricted o kaya pag gc is muted and off receipt kahit family pa
Yung tulog na tulog pa diwa mo di pa nga tumitilaok ang manok tapos magsesend lang naman ng reels ampota. Napaka makabuluhan ha.
i just turn off read receipts/seen.
pati nga boss ko naka mute yung chat, walang pakundangan ba naman kahit hating gabi na o holiday nag hahanap ng output. kaya naman ako nag tuturn off chat kasi masyado ng bombarded ng gc ung acc ko at inalis ng messenger yung restriction ng mga gc, nakakainis.
I treat is as regular messaging platform like sms. I don't see it as a platform for socializing.
para may rason na hindi agad makapag reply. kasi as an introvert, mag iisip pa ako ng irereply ih. hahaha
Badtrip ka chat hahahaha
Ayokong may kachat kahit pamilya ko pa😅
>Ano mga reasons kung bakit kayo nagtuturn off chat sa messenger? Dahil ayoko may magchat?
mga nangungutang na kamag anak na di nagbabayad
andami chat notifs lalo na sa pag active group chat
Nakaka-distract. Imbis na mag-aral ako, nauubos oras ko sa kakareply. Maingay din
After ng airplane mode, sobrang dami ng notif
I get pressured to reply kapag may nakikita akong message notification. Madalas pa naman wala ako sa mood makipag usap.
Hate ko notifications. I usually check naman talaga lagi. So okay na imute na lang lahat pati GC 😂 kung pwede lang irestrict GC eh 😂
apparently pwede magrestrict ng GC, kala ko di rin pwede to lol
Howww hahahaha
parang irereport mo yung group chat, tapos may option kung gusto mo i-restrict ganon
Nagchachat yung mga ayoko magchat. Hahaha lalo na if John Michael. 🥲
di kasi ako nagrereply unless importante or close family/friends. pati mga gc, naka-mute lmao nagrereply lang ako pag may special mention 😂
Para hindi makatanggap ng mga mensahe na hindi naman interesado. Nakakaistorbo kasi na habang naglalaro o nagsusurf ako sa smartphone ko biglang may tunog at pop-up na lumalabas galing sa Messenger.
I don't turn off chat, I put it on mute or turn off notifications hahahhaaha. Mas gusto ko lang na iopen ko siya kasi gusto ko not because may nag message
Para di nila malaman na online ako. Kasi may tendency na imbis na me time ko, parang obligado pa akong magreply. unless emergency talaga. May iba kasi na matutulog ka na nga lang sa gabi, may ipapagawa sa'yo. Walang respeto sa oras.
Madalas akong magbasa - either fanfictions or manga/manhwa. And yung appear appear kineme is nakak annoy talaga. Babad din ako sa games, so yung notif sa top bar nakaka disteact din. + Banas HAHAHA so ayun naka off. And in the first place, bihirang-bihira may mag chat saken so yeah
Maingay.
Ayoko ng kausap at the moment, pero before nung college para di malaman na gumagamit ako ng phone during internship 😂, ngayong working puwede na since needed na sa work
yung messenger ko is mostly for acads, which makes me anxious and drained
Parang wala ako karapatan mag post ng travel or mga luho ko. Kasi sasabihin marami ako ang pera. Bigla na lang magchat kahit hindi kame close,mangungutang pala.
Tamad magreply at hindi nagpapautang(reason why I deactivated my fb year ago, every time na nagppost ako ng travel photos ko, May mangungutang sa’kin. Nakakairita hindi naman sila kasama sa budget ko. Ems
Ang nakakatuwa nito, yung mga nautang pa yung feeling entitled na kapag hindi mo pinahiram, ikaw pa yung masama ang ugali at madamot haha. Awit talaga.
May messenger kayo hahahaha
may pinagtataguan
Aba dapat ako ang una ichat
Para may irarason ako kung sakaling magchat sila at tinatamad/ayaw mag-reply. Tapos naka-off din iyong read receipts.
Genuine question. How do you turn off your read receipts? Sa turn off chat, off active status po ba meaning niyan?
>How do you turn off your read receipts? Sa Privacy & Safety. Pero hindi mo rin makikita na na-view nila ang message mo. >Sa turn off chat, off active status po ba meaning niyan? Yes po.
Thank you so much for being helpful!
Deniability.pag nag message sa yo d mo sinagot sabihin mo pag naglita kayo in person,dont used messenger anymore and isa pa, only want to talk to people who matters to me. Pag iba bored nakita ka online eh mangangamusta or something .
Nagpaplano sila ng reunion e hahaha
Ayoko ng istorbo
Pa-mysterious lang.
Para di mapilitan mag respond kaagad
Para tahimik lng yung phone ko nakakabwisit kasi
Ayakong marami nagcha-chat sakin lol yung iba nangungumusta tapos mangungutang lang pala
Haha bat kaya ganyan ung culture ng mga pinoy, hilig mangutang nakaka turn off tuloy.
ayaw ko kasi yung feeling na obligado ako mag reply, right away.
Para sa peace of mind.
Ingay, e. I think it's been 7-8yrs since I've turned it off.
[удалено]
So people wouldn’t know that i am online. Pet peeve ko kasi ung mga bigla bigla na lng tatawag or mag vvcall sa msgr ng wala man lang abiso. Madalas mga kamag-anak mo gumagawa nyan.
Para anytime, pwede ko hindi agad basahin chat nila or ignore lanh. Lol
For peace
Ayaw ko mag reply agad or at all sa messages, especially if nonsense ang sasabihin. I only really talk to select (few) friends and immediate family members.
Working in the academe as staff, NAKAKA DRAIN at madaming Group Chats i tell you. Weekend na weekend ichachat ka eh. Ng students. Higher boss. Staff. Co workers. So if off ang activity status you can by your day and reply when it's convenient na for you. It's a notion na if off yung messenger mo or di ka online meaning di ka available. At you can reason out pa bakit. Kesa tatanungin ka na "online ka naman bakit di ka nag rereply or nag seen ng msgs." Too tired for that shit.
•there are people who would message me just stating my name then wala nang kasunod, made me anxious all the time •chinachat for nonsense things, i find it draining since my time is alloted for my priorities beforehand •ayoko lang kumausap ng tao
Dahil isa lang gusto kong kausapin.
Ayokong mapansin haha tsaka nakakadrain din (introvert things)
Tamad magreply. Pag nasa bahay ako ayoko talaga makabasa na related sa work kasi nakaka drain 😭
Para hindi ako mapilitan magreply sa mga taong ayaw kong replayan hahahahahaha nakakadrain ng energy den kasi kapag ang daming nagchachat sayo tapos naka on ung messenger mo parang nakakaguilty na hindi magreply.
Para di ako kukulitin mag-reply 😂
never ko inoon. ayoko lang makita ng mga tao na buhay pa ako para pag nadeads ako, smooth transition nalang para sa kanila. CHZ. im a chronic ghost. kung di important yung message, i oftentimes forget to reply. that said, inaavoid ko na icontact ako ng mga tao by showing that im unavailable to chat, para di ko sila maghost accidentally.
Para convenient sakin kung kelan ako ulit may energy at mood makipagusap.