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Lent them 15k and didn't ask them to pay it back na lang? Haha idk
Pero kung genuine, would be actually staying and listening through someone's depression, until they were strong enough to get back up.
This was only a few weeks ago.
Ok, a short context, I am that kind of person na nilalapitan ng mga classmates ko para manghingi ng tulong. Di naman to yung mga nagpapagawa ng mga assignments, yung mga simple things like ano yung mga assignments, mga nanghihingi ng schedules, etc.
Pero there is this one person na naiiba sa kanilang lahat :/ context again, nung magsstart pa lang kami sa grade 10, yung section ko nung grade 9 di hiniwalay kasi yung branch ng school ko, dito nilagay lahat ng grade 10, while yung other branches ng school dinagdag samin pati hiniwalay, and itong tao na to, siya lang napunta samin from his section.
Mas naging mahirap rin makipag socialize para sa kaniya kasi lahat kami from Luzon, while siya lumipat lang dito from Visayas when we're still on grade 9.
Nilalapitan niya rin ako. Simple questions rin, not until a few weeks ago, nung paparating yung 4th quarterly exam namin. Hiningi niya kung ano pwede suotin sa exam namin, kasi Wednesday yon, which is yung time namin para mag PE so lumapit siya sakin to make sure kung pwede ba mag PE. Sabi ko bawal, kasi ayun yung rule sa school namin tuwing exam, and nagthanks siya kasi muntikan niya nakalimutan, and me naman sinabi ko na buti pinaalala ko then after that, nagthanks ulit siya tapos ano, matutulog na daw siya so nag goodluck ako before tapusin convo namin para sa exam namin bukas, and he said na first time niya na masabihan ng ganun.
Before he said that, puro tawa ako kasi rin sa circle gc ko nagkukulitan kami pero nung sinabi niya yun, parang bigla akong nalungkot, kasi I always noticed him too na sobrang tahimik. Yung interactions lang namin doon sa group namin na kagrupo ko siya, yung pag group kasi dun girls vs boys, and by surname, kaming dalawa is nasa last 2 rows ng mga boys given sa surnames namin.
After he said that parang nag iba pananaw ko lel, I became even more determined to help out others, and to be kind too, kasi even the simplest things can make a huge difference.
Gave 500 pesos to a stranger.
Nag withdraw ako noon sa ATM and may nagpatulong sakin na matanda, ibang card yung gamit niya so kada transaction is may fee. Local bank na hindi kilala yung gamit niya and sa BPI ATM siya nagwiwithdraw. Tinry nya daw nung una withdrawhin lahat ng laman nung atm. which is 3,500. sahod daw yun ng anak niya. pang gastos nila. kaso hindi niya ma withdraw kasi kulang na daw balance, I did a double check and less than 3,500 na nga lang yung balance kaya hindi na niya ma withdraw, I suggest na 3,000 na lang withdrawhin niya kasi may fee nga kada transaction. then nung nakuha na niya yung 3,000. nagpasalamat siya sakin and sabi niya sayang yung 500. baka mawala kasi daw kinukuha ng employer? dedma lang ako dun tapos umalis na ko, pero after ilang minuto binalikan ko yung matanda tapos inabutan ko ng 500. Sinabi ko sa kanya na. "Eto na lang po yung 500, baka magalit sa inyo yung anak nyo"
I paid for some stranger's coffee because I just feel like doing something good that morning. I was waiting for my order when some guy forgot his wallet sa car niya. Instead of him going back and holding the line for other customers, I just said na I'll pay for his coffee and it's fine. Something inside me just pushed to pay for his coffee, not just because he's going to hold the line for getting his wallet.
I let my ex bestfriend and her family stay sa bahay namin. Wala kasing nakatira sa house namin and I’m staying sa ancestral house with my other cousins.
Sadly, she silently cut me off while nakatira sila saamin na hindi ko alam why. Until umalis sila wala man lang thank you or any explanation. I sent her a long message saying na I’m not mad maybe we just grew apart and iba na gusto namin sa buhay.
Tbh, idk what i did talaga. Pag lumalabas kami sagot ko palagi lahat pati gas kasi i really like her company and i consider her my sister from another mother and my future MOH. Never naging sumbat or problem ang money.
Just recently found out na may lihim na inggit pala. Dahil lang sa isang lalaki.
Nag regret ba ako? No kasi what i did is genuine. I even hire her mom for our business pero recently din i need to let go of her kasi we’re not satisfied na sa work niya.
Anyway. Yun na siguro pinaka mabuting ginawa ko sa isang tao. Again i don’t regret anything. Nasasad parin ako kasi nasasayangan ako sa lahat. But life happens,maybe it was necessary for the both of us.
Stopped giving too much attention
I know parang reverse
Well na-appreciate naman siguro nya, strong independent woman naman sya and she values her own free time
I just interact when necessary now
The ~~nonchalant~~ always on standy 'friend'
Actually wala naman. But this happened pre-covid pa when I was a student.
It was a usual day sa grocery. Isa lang bibilhin ko but mahaba ang pila sa cashier lane, bale tatlo lang kasi cashier that time kaya mahaba pila. Sobrang busy that day to the point na halos nagrereklamo na mga customers sa unahan ko kasi ang bagal ng usad. After some time, it was my turn na Ms Cashier said "buti pa kayo mam di nagcocomplain, halos wala kasi kami pahinga dahil madaming naka-leave"
Since that day, I always choose to be nice kasi we don't know what people are going through.
Siguro to some walang kwenta to. Pero feeling ko I did something good kahit sa maliit na pamamaraan.😅
Ganito yung kwento. Grab Driver-operator ako gamit ko yung SUV namin. One time I was in Paranaque after ko mag drop off papunta na ako ng NAIA 1 and while waiting sa traffic lights sa harap ko may ebike at may pasaherong mag-ina (I assumed) tapos nagseselfie sila pero dahil mataas yung height ng SUV at maliwanag yung headlight parang nasisilaw sila then hinaharangan nila yung ilaw.
Napansin ko kaagad na nagseselfie sila I hurriedly switch off the headlight and nakapagselfie na sila.
Maliit na bagay pero i was genuinely happy.
I think, yung inako ko yung kasalanan na hindi naman talaga ako gumawa just to protect their images but at the end they confessed and said the truth. Sabay sorry sa akin tas nag-sorry din ako (nag-sorry?) yeah hirap maging people pleaser hakhakahak
this was wayback 2018, that was december 23, got my salary my bonus, my incentives and 13th month pay, it almost reached to 60k, i was a stay in employee in our company and living alone, mahilig ako mag LOL kaya pumunta akong comshop para maglaro, then walking to seven eleven, may nakasalubong akong mga bata nalilimos lima sila nun, nung hiningian nila ako, di ako nagbigay ng pera, instead pinasama ko sila seven eleven, sabi ko pili sila ng kung anong gusto nila, aside sa binili ko, binilhan ko rin sila ng mga gusto nila, though umabot ng 3k binayaran ko, natuwa ako kase nakatulong pa rin akong ibsan gutom nila.
I bought a tablet sa 1 redditor from Shopee. Kasagsagan ng covid19 and she is a psychology student that time.
I hope she’s doing well now. I deleted my previous reddit account so nalimutan ko na name nya
Pinautang ko dati yung officemate ko ng 20K para sa hospital bill niya, actually ako nag-offer. Binayaran niya ako ng installment pero hindi na niya nabayaran yung huling 7,500. Nung una nagalit ako siyempre kasi hindi na siya nagpaparamdam pero inisip ko baka mas kailangan niya, and baka wala na siyang makain if singilin ko pa. Nag-resign na kasi siya nun after the incident. Hinayaan at inintindi ko na lang.
I used to frequent /r/suicidewatch and talk to people. I got pretty good at convincing people to give life another chance. I lost people, but I still kept going. It was exhausting but also rewarding work. Some of the people I was able to keep going, they still message me from time to time, updating me about what they've been up to.
Kakakuha ko lang ng allowance ko noon, rode the tricycle home. Pagkasakay ko pa lang nakita ko mata ng driver na naka mask, nakakunot 'yung noo n'ya tapos parang stressed s'ya na worried. Basta he had a worried face and to my surprise hindi pa puno 'yung trike umandar na s'ya. Nakiusap s'ya habang biyahe na kung pwede daw ba tumigil sandali sa simbahan. Sabi ko sige lang. Kaso pagdating namin sa simbahan sarado na 'yung simbahan so doon lang s'ya sa gate kumapit, nagsign-of-the cross tapos nagdasal s'yang taimtim for about two minutes, he's across the street so 'di ko alam sinasabi n'ya. Bumalik s'ya sa trike without saying a word tapos nagdrive na ulit. Pagbayad ko binigyan ko s'ya 1k. Umiyak s'ya pero sabi ko aalis na ako. I never knew kung anong problema ni kuya pero if he's checking if God is real, siguro akong agnostic ang pinadala ni Lord hahaha
Weakness ko mka kita ng matatanda sa simbahan. One time, I lit a candle and then after that, I bumped into an old woman who looked problematic and tired. She approached me first, and asked me if I have coins that she can use as she was very hungry. She looked decent and she was not a beggar. I also asked where she came from and said she live nearby pero she needed money para may pambili sya ng gamot. Sabi niya may anak naman daw siya kaso na scam daw and because of that, hindi na sya na papadalhan.
She looked genuine to be honest, makikita mo sa aura. So since wala ako cash sa wallet, I told her to come with me sa sasakyan kasi may 1k ako dun. I gave it to her reminding her to eat anything she likes and bilhin niya meds nya. I looked at her reseta and 12 pesos-20 pesos lang naman yung amount ng mga gamot niya. She looked like she won 1M 😊
I thank God that time because he used me as an instrument to help someone. I left the church feeling very light😊
Noong may volcano eruption bago mag pandemic I tried asking my classmates for a donation every day para mapadala namin sa mga natamaan.
For just two weeks nakapag padala kami kilos of foods and damit na di na namin ginagamit.
Ganun din ginawa namin noong bumagyo naman ng sobra. That time ata alalang alala ko pa maraming videos kumakalat nasa yero na sila ng bahay nila sa sobrang taas ng baha tas may live wire na naputol ang malala pa dun gabi na non at walang ilaw so zero visibility tas yung videos karamihan mid way cut off na.
So may community na gumawa ng spreadsheet to determine their contacts and location and nakipag cooperate kami sa government, ofc anonymous yun share share lang ng link nung spreadsheet to edit. Hanggang mag umaga hanap kami ng hanap ng infos that could help them locate and rescue mga na trap.
Tapos nun kinareer na namin yung pag papakain sa mga bata at matatanda every pasko or new year.
Noong covid vaccination days ung LGU namin namimigay ng bigas at assorted canned goods. Nakita ko ung mag asawang matanda sa gilid nagpapahinga dahil sa vaccine, binigay ko sa kanila ung share ko at 200 pang pedicab.
Naalala ko kasi yung lolo't lola ko nong nabubuhay pa sila.
Company give bonuses depends on skill level.
I got the highest skill level in the organization.
I gave out the answer key to my workmates.
Everybody wins.
Giving blood to people I don’t know, just because there was an urgent plea in the office bulletin board. Haven’t given blood in around eight years though.
2nd yr HS ako nito. Nagkaroon ng usapan yung class na bawal mug, alarm clock, & picture frame sa exchange gifts sa xmas party. Kaso yung nakabunot sakin nakabili na pala mama nya ng picture frame bago pa magkaroon ng usapan about sa mga bawal iregalo. Niregalo pa rin nya yung nabiling picture frame ng mama nya.
Nung bukasan na ng gifts, parang mas disappointed pa mga kaklase ko kesa sakin dahil sa natanggap kong picture frame. Cute yung picture frame. Nagustuhan ko. Sinabi ko na lang sa mga kaklase ko na alam ko kung sino nakabunot sakin tapos sinabihan ko sya na yun yung bilhin nya sakin kasi cute.
Nung end na ng school year, binigyan ako ng letter ng kaklase kong yun tapos nagthank you sya sakin. Inoobserve nya pala ko nun kung ano magiging reaction ko sa gift nya nung xmas party. Kinakabahan daw sya kasi baka magalit daw ako sa natanggap ko. Na-appreciate nya daw na pinagtanggol ko sya sa iba naming kaklase at sinabi kong yun talaga yung pinabili kong gift sa kanya.
I think this one. Nng kakababa ko lng nun sa PUV, may nakita akong matandang ale natutulog lng sa ilalim ng footbridge sa tabi ng school namin. naawa talaga ako kase bakit dun sya natutulog wala ba syang anak? nakita ko may mga biscuit sa tabi nya kaya naisipan kong bilhan narin sya ng apat na ube pandesal na may halagang P 60.
I'm kind of a simp and one time nag scroll ako sa tiktok then I saw this cute girl na may "condition" na humihingi ng tulong because she can't afford some of her meds. She's very pretty and I think she's a model kaso it was during the pandemic kaya na halt ata lahat ng sources of income niya. Tapos dagdag mo pa na single mom siya...
So pinag-isipan kong mabuti na bilhin na lang yung kulang niya na meds kaso I'm not well off myself, sadyang may extra money lang talaga ako that time and pinag-iisipan ko kung ano bang mapapala ko sa gagawin ko.
Pero nanaiig pa rin yung "good conscience" and kahit alam ko namang wala akong mahihita eh I just proceeded to buy her meds. Tapos bumyahe pa ako ng malayo just to give it to her. Mas matagal pa nga byinahe ko kaysa sa interaction namin.
Pero slightly napawi naman nung makita ko siya in-person dahil ang ganda nya naman talaga. I handed her the meds, she smiled and thank me and we both go our ways.
Tinatanong ko na lang sa sarili bakit ko ba ginagawa yung mga ganitong bagay... Iniisip ko na lang na, para kahit papaano may mga tao pa rin na maiisip na may mga tao pa rin talaga sa mundo na kahit hindi mo kilala eh willing pa rin tumulong ng walang kapalit kahit istranghero or mapapadaan lang sila saglit sa buhay mo...
Pero don't get me wrong. Di ako mabait. Dahil before ko ibigay sa kanya yung mga meds, kung ano anong scenario ang nagpeplay sa utak ko hahahaha Sadyang gusto ko lang maging desenteng tao and add to the fact na pangit pa ako kaya alam kong wala rin naman talaga mangyayari hahahaha
May buntis akong nakasabay sa Bgc bus tapos pag tap ng beep card nya insufficient balance. Aalis na yung bus tapos parang aawayin nya pa sina Kuya driver kasi papaintay sya so ako na lang nag-tap para sa kanya. Ayoko kasing awayin nya sina Kuya driver.
Was a class rep in college who really wants to see all of us na makaakyat sa stage on our graduation. We were in our 3rd year and we have this demonstration that we have to do bago ka makapag-proceed sa 4th year and do your OJT. I had this classmate (we're not close since online class lang kami non so we have no time to socialize and di ko pa talaga sya nagiging classmate before). Mahahalata mo naman when a person is in need talaga but there came a time na nagsabi na talaga sya na he can't do the demo due to financial reasons and may emergency pa sa fam nya so mag d-drop nalang sya. I really talked to him and told him na sayang naman kasi syempre 1 year nalang—sobrang lapit na, ngayon pa ba sya bibitaw. Ang daming bayarin kasi talaga nung time din na yon, meron pang mga books. So what I did is sinabi ko sa kanya na ako na bahala sa books nya. I get to have mine free since that's one of my privileges as a class rep so I paid for his book instead. I also lent him some money (he will pay it back raw,ayaw nyang bigay lang) for some more expenses sa school . But before anything else, just a disclaimer haha hindi ako mapera—all of those ay galing sa ipon ko since I know na magastos talaga during 3rd and 4th year so may ipon na ko 1st year palang. Anyway, here comes the day of our demo—he did not come. I contacted him, even my classmates tried calling his number pero di sya sumagot. I thought something happened to him but kinabukasan he messaged me and sinabi nyang di nya raw talaga kaya. He apologised as well. I do understand and I did not insist narin since that's his decision na. Still, it feels nice parin na kahit papano you did something to help someone kahit na you did not get the outcome that you really want. I see him on his socials. Hindi narin sya talaga nagtuloy but he have a job now :>
When I was a manager sa isang Supermarket may isang applicant as Merchandiser, napansin ko sa resumé niya na after graduating in college wala siya naging work, and inamin niya sakin na galing siya sa rehab because of drugs and nakulong din siya. Nung nakalabas na siya nang rehab, nahirapan siya makahanap nang work. Dahil walang gustong tanggapin siya.
Tbh I was hesitant that time kung tatanggapin ko ba siya, pero sumugal ako,binigyan ko siya nang chance and pinag-laban ko siya sa HR na bigyan nang chance kahit 3 months. Sa loob nang 3 months na yun minomonitor ko talaga ang performance niya lalo na ang attendance. Wala siyang lates and masipag never din ako nagka-problema sa kaniya.
Hanggang sa naregular na siya sa company at umabot nang 3 years, to cut the story short bago ako nag-resign inayos ko ang papel niya para ma-promote siya as Selling Supervisor and naipasa naman niya.
Sobrang thankful siya sakin nung last day ko na sa trabaho nag-inom kami nung nalasing siya iyak nang iyak kasi nung time daw na walang nagtitiwala sa kaniya dahil sa pagkakamali niya, sumugal daw ako sa kaniya kahit alam niya na wala siyang chance na matanggap. Sobrang thankful daw sakin ang parents niya dahil nabigyan ko daw siya nang second chance para mag-bago. Ngayon assitant store manager na siya and very proud ako.
Di ko alam kung nicest but, everytime na ppull out ako sa nicu nag pprepare ako ng mozart playlist for my patients and the entire shift pinapatugtog ko.
Madalas gumagawa ako and mga workmates ko ng paraan makahanap ng gamot sa mga patients namin na nahihirapan na bumili ng mga kelangang gamot nila during hospitalizations.
Pinamimigay ko yung yung blood donation card ko sa mga patients na hirap makahanap ng dugo or walang donor card.
Yung mga out patient na magpapa inject ng IM meds or SubQ meds supposedly mag ccharge kami ng injection fee, pero minsan di na kami nagpapapabayad kasi wala namang supplies ng hospital na nagagamit.
Di ko alam kung nicest to or default na kasi nurse namana ako hahaa
Naalala ko tuloy nung ma opera ako. Yung nurse and yung isang doctor, tinanong ako ano daw gusto ko muna na music papatugtog. Nararamdaman ata nila nun na kinakabahan ako. Tapos ang nice pa nila, kasi naiiyak talaga ako nung itinurok yung ganot, tapos yung isang nurse dinidistract talaga ako.
I donated Php 100 each to:
A kid who's around 4-7 yrs. old who is currently battling CKD.
A baby (months old) who is battling liver cancer.
A girl who's now around 14 yrs. old, also CKD who is currently undergoing dialysis.
A guy (binata na) who has a lymphoma if I am not mistaken.
A baby who had a sepsis (yes he/she turned yellowish) but now he/she is okay.
Meron pang iba. Can't remember them all. Yung iba napanood ko sa KMJS.
That's the only amount I can give to each though I still know it's quite low. I'm thinking about kung magbibigay ako ng mas malaking halaga pero di naman bukal sa loob ko, that would be useless. Yung ibang tulong ko hindi na pera. I help some people with their assignments, etc.
I can tell all of these because we're all anonymous here.
Maybe genes. Di ko din alam eh. I also pray for them. Yes it's sad na may ganon palang nangyayari.
I am unemployed so yun lang talaga yung amount na kaya ko. By the way, lahat sila halos sa FB ko lang nakita. Minsan nadadaanan ko lang sa newsfeed ko pag nag-sscroll ako.
Yung iba di ko sure kung meron pa ko natulungan. Basta yang mga sinabi ko yung naaalala ko lang. May mga nababasa din ako sa Bible kasi during free time mga about sa pagtulong. So ayun.
Binigyan ko ng Timezone card yung mga batang namamalimos.
Naglalaro kasi ako sa Timezone noon tapos may apat na mga bata na nag-iipon ng mga naiwan na tickets, dahil wala silang card binigay nila sa akin yung naipon nilang tix. Siyempre tinanggap ko na kasi hindi sila pinapansin ng ibang tao sa paligid dahil nga unkempt sila. Halos 300 tix rin yung naibigay nila sa akin and I feel kinda guilty na kunin lang yun kaya tinanong ko sila kung ano gusto nilang prize yung i-redeem ko para sana sa kanila kaso wag na lang raw.
Ginawa ko bumili na lang ako ng card para makalaro rin sila and at the same time ilipat ko sana sa card nila yung tickets na binigay nila sa akin kaso hindi raw yun pwede sabi ng crew. Kaya dinagdagan ko na lang ng load yung card nila para makapaglaro rin sila. Talagang nagtatatalon sila sa tuwa kasi raw finally makakapaglaro na rin sila, hindi yung makikinood at makikikuha na lang raw sila ng iniwan na tickets ng mga naglalaro.
Ni-remind ko na lang sila na wag silang mag-aaway away kasi sa kanilang apat yung card na yun at sana wag rin sila puro laro lang, mag-aaral pa rin sila dapat nang mabuti. 😊
Pinautang ko yung friend ko na hindi nya alam na galing sakin yung money, alam ko kasi nahihiya na sya magsabi sakin dahil palagi na lang ako ang takbuhan nya, until now hindi nya alam na ako yung nagprovide ng pera, nabayaran naman nya after 1 year.
Surprised a friend by a home visit, cooked a meal kasi namiss daw nya luto ko.
Nung time na nagdodorm pa ko, it was late at night, mga almost 11 pm na yata and my friend called to ask me na bilhan siya ng medicines kasi it was urgent. I didn't think twice and binilihan ko siya agad sa pharmacy na malayo-layo pa sa dorm ko. I didn't even bother to prioritize my safety as a babae knowing na dayo lang ako sa lugar. I just realized na grabe pala talaga pagka-selfless ko pag kaibigan nag-request. Yet, pag ako need ng help sobrang nahihiya pa ko mag-ask.
I just looked them up and aligned nga sa experiences ko mga info na nabasa ko. Now, nagkaroon na ng clarity mga bagay na di ko magets about myself. Thanks for this!
My classmate from elementary before ininvite halos lahat kami sa classroom. Sya yung classmate na parating na bubully before dahil d masyado nakakalakad. Umuulan ending tatlo lang kami yung nandun and andaming pagkain. Kita ko yung effort ng Mama nya sa pagluto ng ganun kadaming pagkain and kaya d sya nakabenta din sa labas ng bananacue kasi birthday ng anak niya. Kaya kahit nasusuka na ko sa kabusog dinamihan ko padin ang pagkain. 🤣 Hahaha! Hi Jero if andito ka! 😂
Nangyari to sa baong friend ko, kung 18th birthday niya. Ang sad lang kasi ganon pa rin, andami niya iniinvite pero dalawa lang kami ng isa pa naming friend yung pumupunta. And, totoo hahahaha ayaw namin masayanh wffort nila sa pagluluto, kaya kahit busog na kain pa rin. Sayang kasi :(( tapos ayon may pa take out kami lagi galing sa kanila.
Ako nagpaplan and nagpeprepare tuwing birthday nila. Sadly, I have not experienced that from them yet but it's fine since ako naman willing mag asikaso pag birthday nila and they never asked me to do it for them naman.
Instead of lending them money. I gave them side hustles to earn and trained them as well during my free time. Started from the bottom now they're a little bit on top of the bottom. Until now nakakareceive pa din ng mga random thank yous from them. Maka flatter 🥹
Ps. I'm a Virtual Assistant po.
During pandemic, nanghingi ng tulong ung best classmate ko dahil mapapalayas na sila sa nirerentahan nilang bahay and kakatanggap lang nya as crew nun sa fastfood kaya wala pang budget kasi di pa sya sumasahod. Since sa buong batch namin, ako lang ang call center agent na maayos ang sahod kahit papaano, I paid his 1 month overdue rent and nag advance din ng ako ng 2 months rent para makaimbak sya.
Last year, he paid his loan off kahit hindi ako naniningil :) His mom also thanked me for helping them noong zero sila :) We both graduated college last yearrrr and mas maganda na yung work nya nowww.
Ako yung taong mahirap utangan. Dala na rin ng mga not so pleasant encounters sa mga di marunong magbayad at nagalit pa nung singilan na. But one thing i can assure you, when it comes to food? no questions asked. i have an officemate na may apat na anak, notorious din na palautang. came to a point na di na sya kumakain. so ako, dahil alam ko naman sitwasyon nya, kahit 20 pesos lang na pansit yan sa carenderia malapit sa office, bibilhan ko sya. Di ko man sya matulungan financially, atleast alam ko na may laman tiyan nya so she can function accordingly ☺️
PS. Di nya alam sino naglalagay ng pansit sa desk nya kasi i made sure walang nakaka kita 😁 but i think alam nya na kasi lagi sya nagti-thank you and smiles at me pagnagkaksalubong kami ☺️
A friend of mine asked for a specific coffee (yung freshly harvested pa ang granules), and it took months before I finally gave it to him.
Ako mismo yung nag reach-out sa kanya to tell him it's ready and sabi niya sa akin mismo siya ang nakalimot and he appreciated the part na ako mismo yung nagremind kahit kanya galing ang request. I then booked a grab and went to their house and sabi niya sa akin sobrang honored daw niya sa dami ng effort ko just to give him what he asked me. I even offered to let him vent his problems to me. He thanked me overall and as a friend, it's rather an adventurous thing on my part.
This was about 6 years ago. A neighbor who I was chummy with was leaving for the US and I gave her 1 ream of Marlboro Lights (her cig brand of choice at napakamahal sa US) and like 5 packs ata ng ChocNut on her last night dito sa Pinas. She then told me: "Uy (my name) huwag kang ganyan di kita masyadong love!" 😂
Anyone who doesn't know her will probably be offended but ganun sya talaga. She's a straight-shooter with no fucks given and I have a wicked/morbid sense of humor kaya we got along pretty well. And totoo naman, we're chummy in the neighborly/small town kind of way pero di masyadong close. It's just that we grew up in the same neighborhood and yung mga ninuno namin magkakaibigan.
I prayed for them, for their healing, instead of arguing, even though I know I am right, even though they didn't pay me right for two months' worth of salary, even though I had to let go of being with my son for the meantime.
Hmm yung time na naulan nun tapos naghihintay kami para makatawid sa kabilang kalsada. Nakita ko na walang payong yung stranger na nasa tabi ko so pasimple ko na nilapit yung payong ko sa kanya para mapayungan siya hehe.
Financial support to my cousin na may sakit sa kidney & when need nila ng mas malaking pera since di naman ako sobrang yaman, I initiated to ask my cousins na maghelp kaming lahat para sa pinsan namin & even ask my closest friends if they can donate, any amount will do naman or kahit wala, I just tried. Luckily, I am surrounded with good people. Grabe ang pasasalamat ng Tita ko & pinsan ko, but I am most grateful sa mga taong nag extend ng help without any hesitation.
Hired them and got a handful of them started on their VA journey. All of them moved on. May isa mas malaki na sweldo kaysa sa'kin. I'm proud of them. Super proud of what they've achieved!
A job was offered to me kasi yung manager dun kilala ako and she really wanted me to be a part of her team pero tinanggihan ko ang referred my friend na sabi ko kahit junior to masipag to at fast learner. I vouched for my friend’s character, enticing yung job offer kasi mas mataas sa current salary ko pero slight lang ang agwat, pero mas need ng kaibigan ko yun kasi ang dami niya gastusin at may pag aaralin na kapatid. She was hired and doing good now. Thankful naman siya sa akin. Hehehe.
It's not something I did but a stranger did to me.
As someone who lives in metro manila sanay na ko sa punuan at tayuan sa bus and I don't expect na any random guy would give up their seat for me and that's okay,lahat tayo pagod. One time, pauwi ako galing trabaho as usual tayuan, nung huminto yung bus kasi nagbaba ng pasahero, yung guy na nasa likod ko kinalabit ako pinapa-upo ako sa upuan kasi bumaba na yung nakaupo don, so umupo ako. Sobrang grateful ko that time kasi pagod talaga ako. Tinawag nya pa yung isang girl para umupo rin since dalawahan yun. So umandar, na yung bus. Nung bumaba na yung guy na yun, tumatawid na sya kasabay nung ibang taong bumaba rin sa bus(mostly women), so akala ko dun ang way nya yun pala itinawid nya lang yung mga babae kasi bumalik sya kung saan sya binaba nung bus at dumiretso ng lakad. And I think that's the kindest thing I've witnessed and it's from a guy who looks like a thug.
Totoo, hindi rin ako makapaniwala na may ganun pa palang klase ng tao ngayon. I'm always hoping to see him once again to thank him for a memory I could never forget.
You're so kind. 🥹
Naalala ko tuloy yung classmate ko nung college. Sa museum kasi yung first class namin nun anlayo, tapos ang hirap maglakad ng naka heels, ansakit sa paa. Minsan kasi kulang-kulang yung mga arm chair, kaya kapag nahuli ka, wala ka na uupuan. Tapos may isa akong classmate, ang ginawa niya, bumili siya ng bagong arm chair tapos pinalagyan niya ng name ko. 😭
Yeees. Kaya ako naman nag dadala ako ng breakfast para sa kanya nun, minsan hindi na ata siya nakakain kasi sa sobramg dami ng ginagawa and ang aga pa niya.
I'm always protective sa mga kaibigan ko. For me, eto na talaga ang pinaka-nice hahahha hindi ko masasabing i'm always here for them, pero kapag alam kong urgent at umiiyak sila, pinupuntahan ko na. Kapag naiinitan sila, ako humaharang sa init para hindi sila matapatan. And iba pang mga bagay na na-iimagine mo sa love language na "acts of service" (. ❛ ᴗ ❛.)
Don't know if nicest thing nato pero but recently a cousin want to have a small birthday party he shared na never pa siya nagka birthday party or even a gift from someone. Nagpadala ako small amount as a gift since every year naman ako nagagawa ko gusto kong celebration pag birthday ko. Gusto ko din ma experience niya yun kahit paano.
I remember buying my ex a pair of branded shoes and elite socks in highschool na kinuha ko sa allowance ko from my father. Kasi he badly wanted to play noon sa intrams namin but wala atang budget ang parents niya pangbili. So ayun, I made him really happy and I supported him during the game.
Then on his birthday, nagregalo ako ng authentic ball (yung pang basketball) that I bought from Toby's haha. Idk why sobrang generous ko sa ganun kahit na alam kong ako naman ang mauubusan financially. All out talaga ako sa relationship.
Kahit na its an abusive and toxic relationship, I really gave my all to that guy.
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Love him unconditionally
Helping them with acads probs
Lent them 15k and didn't ask them to pay it back na lang? Haha idk Pero kung genuine, would be actually staying and listening through someone's depression, until they were strong enough to get back up.
yung mag drive ng mga 200km para makita lang HAAHAAH hay
This was only a few weeks ago. Ok, a short context, I am that kind of person na nilalapitan ng mga classmates ko para manghingi ng tulong. Di naman to yung mga nagpapagawa ng mga assignments, yung mga simple things like ano yung mga assignments, mga nanghihingi ng schedules, etc. Pero there is this one person na naiiba sa kanilang lahat :/ context again, nung magsstart pa lang kami sa grade 10, yung section ko nung grade 9 di hiniwalay kasi yung branch ng school ko, dito nilagay lahat ng grade 10, while yung other branches ng school dinagdag samin pati hiniwalay, and itong tao na to, siya lang napunta samin from his section. Mas naging mahirap rin makipag socialize para sa kaniya kasi lahat kami from Luzon, while siya lumipat lang dito from Visayas when we're still on grade 9. Nilalapitan niya rin ako. Simple questions rin, not until a few weeks ago, nung paparating yung 4th quarterly exam namin. Hiningi niya kung ano pwede suotin sa exam namin, kasi Wednesday yon, which is yung time namin para mag PE so lumapit siya sakin to make sure kung pwede ba mag PE. Sabi ko bawal, kasi ayun yung rule sa school namin tuwing exam, and nagthanks siya kasi muntikan niya nakalimutan, and me naman sinabi ko na buti pinaalala ko then after that, nagthanks ulit siya tapos ano, matutulog na daw siya so nag goodluck ako before tapusin convo namin para sa exam namin bukas, and he said na first time niya na masabihan ng ganun. Before he said that, puro tawa ako kasi rin sa circle gc ko nagkukulitan kami pero nung sinabi niya yun, parang bigla akong nalungkot, kasi I always noticed him too na sobrang tahimik. Yung interactions lang namin doon sa group namin na kagrupo ko siya, yung pag group kasi dun girls vs boys, and by surname, kaming dalawa is nasa last 2 rows ng mga boys given sa surnames namin. After he said that parang nag iba pananaw ko lel, I became even more determined to help out others, and to be kind too, kasi even the simplest things can make a huge difference.
Be present, masaya man sila o malungkot. Basta alam nilang kasangga nila ako.
Gave 500 pesos to a stranger. Nag withdraw ako noon sa ATM and may nagpatulong sakin na matanda, ibang card yung gamit niya so kada transaction is may fee. Local bank na hindi kilala yung gamit niya and sa BPI ATM siya nagwiwithdraw. Tinry nya daw nung una withdrawhin lahat ng laman nung atm. which is 3,500. sahod daw yun ng anak niya. pang gastos nila. kaso hindi niya ma withdraw kasi kulang na daw balance, I did a double check and less than 3,500 na nga lang yung balance kaya hindi na niya ma withdraw, I suggest na 3,000 na lang withdrawhin niya kasi may fee nga kada transaction. then nung nakuha na niya yung 3,000. nagpasalamat siya sakin and sabi niya sayang yung 500. baka mawala kasi daw kinukuha ng employer? dedma lang ako dun tapos umalis na ko, pero after ilang minuto binalikan ko yung matanda tapos inabutan ko ng 500. Sinabi ko sa kanya na. "Eto na lang po yung 500, baka magalit sa inyo yung anak nyo"
Not to say anything when im pissed off to someone. Holding my mouth when im mad.
I paid for some stranger's coffee because I just feel like doing something good that morning. I was waiting for my order when some guy forgot his wallet sa car niya. Instead of him going back and holding the line for other customers, I just said na I'll pay for his coffee and it's fine. Something inside me just pushed to pay for his coffee, not just because he's going to hold the line for getting his wallet.
I treated them (10 ppl) free food during my birthday, regularization, and last day.
I let my ex bestfriend and her family stay sa bahay namin. Wala kasing nakatira sa house namin and I’m staying sa ancestral house with my other cousins. Sadly, she silently cut me off while nakatira sila saamin na hindi ko alam why. Until umalis sila wala man lang thank you or any explanation. I sent her a long message saying na I’m not mad maybe we just grew apart and iba na gusto namin sa buhay. Tbh, idk what i did talaga. Pag lumalabas kami sagot ko palagi lahat pati gas kasi i really like her company and i consider her my sister from another mother and my future MOH. Never naging sumbat or problem ang money. Just recently found out na may lihim na inggit pala. Dahil lang sa isang lalaki. Nag regret ba ako? No kasi what i did is genuine. I even hire her mom for our business pero recently din i need to let go of her kasi we’re not satisfied na sa work niya. Anyway. Yun na siguro pinaka mabuting ginawa ko sa isang tao. Again i don’t regret anything. Nasasad parin ako kasi nasasayangan ako sa lahat. But life happens,maybe it was necessary for the both of us.
Stopped giving too much attention I know parang reverse Well na-appreciate naman siguro nya, strong independent woman naman sya and she values her own free time I just interact when necessary now The ~~nonchalant~~ always on standy 'friend'
Actually wala naman. But this happened pre-covid pa when I was a student. It was a usual day sa grocery. Isa lang bibilhin ko but mahaba ang pila sa cashier lane, bale tatlo lang kasi cashier that time kaya mahaba pila. Sobrang busy that day to the point na halos nagrereklamo na mga customers sa unahan ko kasi ang bagal ng usad. After some time, it was my turn na Ms Cashier said "buti pa kayo mam di nagcocomplain, halos wala kasi kami pahinga dahil madaming naka-leave" Since that day, I always choose to be nice kasi we don't know what people are going through.
Showing up to someone who needed help despite hurting you a lot. Did only once.
Siguro to some walang kwenta to. Pero feeling ko I did something good kahit sa maliit na pamamaraan.😅 Ganito yung kwento. Grab Driver-operator ako gamit ko yung SUV namin. One time I was in Paranaque after ko mag drop off papunta na ako ng NAIA 1 and while waiting sa traffic lights sa harap ko may ebike at may pasaherong mag-ina (I assumed) tapos nagseselfie sila pero dahil mataas yung height ng SUV at maliwanag yung headlight parang nasisilaw sila then hinaharangan nila yung ilaw. Napansin ko kaagad na nagseselfie sila I hurriedly switch off the headlight and nakapagselfie na sila. Maliit na bagay pero i was genuinely happy.
I think, yung inako ko yung kasalanan na hindi naman talaga ako gumawa just to protect their images but at the end they confessed and said the truth. Sabay sorry sa akin tas nag-sorry din ako (nag-sorry?) yeah hirap maging people pleaser hakhakahak
UNDERSTAND
this was wayback 2018, that was december 23, got my salary my bonus, my incentives and 13th month pay, it almost reached to 60k, i was a stay in employee in our company and living alone, mahilig ako mag LOL kaya pumunta akong comshop para maglaro, then walking to seven eleven, may nakasalubong akong mga bata nalilimos lima sila nun, nung hiningian nila ako, di ako nagbigay ng pera, instead pinasama ko sila seven eleven, sabi ko pili sila ng kung anong gusto nila, aside sa binili ko, binilhan ko rin sila ng mga gusto nila, though umabot ng 3k binayaran ko, natuwa ako kase nakatulong pa rin akong ibsan gutom nila.
I bought a tablet sa 1 redditor from Shopee. Kasagsagan ng covid19 and she is a psychology student that time. I hope she’s doing well now. I deleted my previous reddit account so nalimutan ko na name nya
Pinautang ko dati yung officemate ko ng 20K para sa hospital bill niya, actually ako nag-offer. Binayaran niya ako ng installment pero hindi na niya nabayaran yung huling 7,500. Nung una nagalit ako siyempre kasi hindi na siya nagpaparamdam pero inisip ko baka mas kailangan niya, and baka wala na siyang makain if singilin ko pa. Nag-resign na kasi siya nun after the incident. Hinayaan at inintindi ko na lang.
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Hmm offering help about anything -- kahit malditang witch ako i still have a soft heaart naman haha
I used to frequent /r/suicidewatch and talk to people. I got pretty good at convincing people to give life another chance. I lost people, but I still kept going. It was exhausting but also rewarding work. Some of the people I was able to keep going, they still message me from time to time, updating me about what they've been up to.
Kakakuha ko lang ng allowance ko noon, rode the tricycle home. Pagkasakay ko pa lang nakita ko mata ng driver na naka mask, nakakunot 'yung noo n'ya tapos parang stressed s'ya na worried. Basta he had a worried face and to my surprise hindi pa puno 'yung trike umandar na s'ya. Nakiusap s'ya habang biyahe na kung pwede daw ba tumigil sandali sa simbahan. Sabi ko sige lang. Kaso pagdating namin sa simbahan sarado na 'yung simbahan so doon lang s'ya sa gate kumapit, nagsign-of-the cross tapos nagdasal s'yang taimtim for about two minutes, he's across the street so 'di ko alam sinasabi n'ya. Bumalik s'ya sa trike without saying a word tapos nagdrive na ulit. Pagbayad ko binigyan ko s'ya 1k. Umiyak s'ya pero sabi ko aalis na ako. I never knew kung anong problema ni kuya pero if he's checking if God is real, siguro akong agnostic ang pinadala ni Lord hahaha
Forgive them
siguro maging gentleman in general
nagpamigay kami ng basic goods nung pandemic 35th birthday ng friend ko pinadalhan ko siya ng flowers tuwang tuwa siya hehe
Weakness ko mka kita ng matatanda sa simbahan. One time, I lit a candle and then after that, I bumped into an old woman who looked problematic and tired. She approached me first, and asked me if I have coins that she can use as she was very hungry. She looked decent and she was not a beggar. I also asked where she came from and said she live nearby pero she needed money para may pambili sya ng gamot. Sabi niya may anak naman daw siya kaso na scam daw and because of that, hindi na sya na papadalhan. She looked genuine to be honest, makikita mo sa aura. So since wala ako cash sa wallet, I told her to come with me sa sasakyan kasi may 1k ako dun. I gave it to her reminding her to eat anything she likes and bilhin niya meds nya. I looked at her reseta and 12 pesos-20 pesos lang naman yung amount ng mga gamot niya. She looked like she won 1M 😊 I thank God that time because he used me as an instrument to help someone. I left the church feeling very light😊
Listening
Noong may volcano eruption bago mag pandemic I tried asking my classmates for a donation every day para mapadala namin sa mga natamaan. For just two weeks nakapag padala kami kilos of foods and damit na di na namin ginagamit. Ganun din ginawa namin noong bumagyo naman ng sobra. That time ata alalang alala ko pa maraming videos kumakalat nasa yero na sila ng bahay nila sa sobrang taas ng baha tas may live wire na naputol ang malala pa dun gabi na non at walang ilaw so zero visibility tas yung videos karamihan mid way cut off na. So may community na gumawa ng spreadsheet to determine their contacts and location and nakipag cooperate kami sa government, ofc anonymous yun share share lang ng link nung spreadsheet to edit. Hanggang mag umaga hanap kami ng hanap ng infos that could help them locate and rescue mga na trap. Tapos nun kinareer na namin yung pag papakain sa mga bata at matatanda every pasko or new year.
Forgiving my parents, and just trying to be a little more patient with people around me.
Noong covid vaccination days ung LGU namin namimigay ng bigas at assorted canned goods. Nakita ko ung mag asawang matanda sa gilid nagpapahinga dahil sa vaccine, binigay ko sa kanila ung share ko at 200 pang pedicab. Naalala ko kasi yung lolo't lola ko nong nabubuhay pa sila.
Company give bonuses depends on skill level. I got the highest skill level in the organization. I gave out the answer key to my workmates. Everybody wins.
Giving blood to people I don’t know, just because there was an urgent plea in the office bulletin board. Haven’t given blood in around eight years though.
2nd yr HS ako nito. Nagkaroon ng usapan yung class na bawal mug, alarm clock, & picture frame sa exchange gifts sa xmas party. Kaso yung nakabunot sakin nakabili na pala mama nya ng picture frame bago pa magkaroon ng usapan about sa mga bawal iregalo. Niregalo pa rin nya yung nabiling picture frame ng mama nya. Nung bukasan na ng gifts, parang mas disappointed pa mga kaklase ko kesa sakin dahil sa natanggap kong picture frame. Cute yung picture frame. Nagustuhan ko. Sinabi ko na lang sa mga kaklase ko na alam ko kung sino nakabunot sakin tapos sinabihan ko sya na yun yung bilhin nya sakin kasi cute. Nung end na ng school year, binigyan ako ng letter ng kaklase kong yun tapos nagthank you sya sakin. Inoobserve nya pala ko nun kung ano magiging reaction ko sa gift nya nung xmas party. Kinakabahan daw sya kasi baka magalit daw ako sa natanggap ko. Na-appreciate nya daw na pinagtanggol ko sya sa iba naming kaklase at sinabi kong yun talaga yung pinabili kong gift sa kanya.
I think this one. Nng kakababa ko lng nun sa PUV, may nakita akong matandang ale natutulog lng sa ilalim ng footbridge sa tabi ng school namin. naawa talaga ako kase bakit dun sya natutulog wala ba syang anak? nakita ko may mga biscuit sa tabi nya kaya naisipan kong bilhan narin sya ng apat na ube pandesal na may halagang P 60.
I'm kind of a simp and one time nag scroll ako sa tiktok then I saw this cute girl na may "condition" na humihingi ng tulong because she can't afford some of her meds. She's very pretty and I think she's a model kaso it was during the pandemic kaya na halt ata lahat ng sources of income niya. Tapos dagdag mo pa na single mom siya... So pinag-isipan kong mabuti na bilhin na lang yung kulang niya na meds kaso I'm not well off myself, sadyang may extra money lang talaga ako that time and pinag-iisipan ko kung ano bang mapapala ko sa gagawin ko. Pero nanaiig pa rin yung "good conscience" and kahit alam ko namang wala akong mahihita eh I just proceeded to buy her meds. Tapos bumyahe pa ako ng malayo just to give it to her. Mas matagal pa nga byinahe ko kaysa sa interaction namin. Pero slightly napawi naman nung makita ko siya in-person dahil ang ganda nya naman talaga. I handed her the meds, she smiled and thank me and we both go our ways. Tinatanong ko na lang sa sarili bakit ko ba ginagawa yung mga ganitong bagay... Iniisip ko na lang na, para kahit papaano may mga tao pa rin na maiisip na may mga tao pa rin talaga sa mundo na kahit hindi mo kilala eh willing pa rin tumulong ng walang kapalit kahit istranghero or mapapadaan lang sila saglit sa buhay mo... Pero don't get me wrong. Di ako mabait. Dahil before ko ibigay sa kanya yung mga meds, kung ano anong scenario ang nagpeplay sa utak ko hahahaha Sadyang gusto ko lang maging desenteng tao and add to the fact na pangit pa ako kaya alam kong wala rin naman talaga mangyayari hahahaha
May buntis akong nakasabay sa Bgc bus tapos pag tap ng beep card nya insufficient balance. Aalis na yung bus tapos parang aawayin nya pa sina Kuya driver kasi papaintay sya so ako na lang nag-tap para sa kanya. Ayoko kasing awayin nya sina Kuya driver.
Was a class rep in college who really wants to see all of us na makaakyat sa stage on our graduation. We were in our 3rd year and we have this demonstration that we have to do bago ka makapag-proceed sa 4th year and do your OJT. I had this classmate (we're not close since online class lang kami non so we have no time to socialize and di ko pa talaga sya nagiging classmate before). Mahahalata mo naman when a person is in need talaga but there came a time na nagsabi na talaga sya na he can't do the demo due to financial reasons and may emergency pa sa fam nya so mag d-drop nalang sya. I really talked to him and told him na sayang naman kasi syempre 1 year nalang—sobrang lapit na, ngayon pa ba sya bibitaw. Ang daming bayarin kasi talaga nung time din na yon, meron pang mga books. So what I did is sinabi ko sa kanya na ako na bahala sa books nya. I get to have mine free since that's one of my privileges as a class rep so I paid for his book instead. I also lent him some money (he will pay it back raw,ayaw nyang bigay lang) for some more expenses sa school . But before anything else, just a disclaimer haha hindi ako mapera—all of those ay galing sa ipon ko since I know na magastos talaga during 3rd and 4th year so may ipon na ko 1st year palang. Anyway, here comes the day of our demo—he did not come. I contacted him, even my classmates tried calling his number pero di sya sumagot. I thought something happened to him but kinabukasan he messaged me and sinabi nyang di nya raw talaga kaya. He apologised as well. I do understand and I did not insist narin since that's his decision na. Still, it feels nice parin na kahit papano you did something to help someone kahit na you did not get the outcome that you really want. I see him on his socials. Hindi narin sya talaga nagtuloy but he have a job now :>
Gave a 500 peso tip dun sa gasoline man na naglinis ng windshield. Halos maiyak iyak sya nag thathank you. It was around 7am in the morning
When I was a manager sa isang Supermarket may isang applicant as Merchandiser, napansin ko sa resumé niya na after graduating in college wala siya naging work, and inamin niya sakin na galing siya sa rehab because of drugs and nakulong din siya. Nung nakalabas na siya nang rehab, nahirapan siya makahanap nang work. Dahil walang gustong tanggapin siya. Tbh I was hesitant that time kung tatanggapin ko ba siya, pero sumugal ako,binigyan ko siya nang chance and pinag-laban ko siya sa HR na bigyan nang chance kahit 3 months. Sa loob nang 3 months na yun minomonitor ko talaga ang performance niya lalo na ang attendance. Wala siyang lates and masipag never din ako nagka-problema sa kaniya. Hanggang sa naregular na siya sa company at umabot nang 3 years, to cut the story short bago ako nag-resign inayos ko ang papel niya para ma-promote siya as Selling Supervisor and naipasa naman niya. Sobrang thankful siya sakin nung last day ko na sa trabaho nag-inom kami nung nalasing siya iyak nang iyak kasi nung time daw na walang nagtitiwala sa kaniya dahil sa pagkakamali niya, sumugal daw ako sa kaniya kahit alam niya na wala siyang chance na matanggap. Sobrang thankful daw sakin ang parents niya dahil nabigyan ko daw siya nang second chance para mag-bago. Ngayon assitant store manager na siya and very proud ako.
thank you Op!
Thank you for giving him a chance. Sana i bless ni Lord ang buhay mo lalo.
Grabe. Bihira na lang yung ganyan. Yung iba natatakot and inaayawan talaga nila. Kaya, thank you. 🤍
Di ko alam kung nicest but, everytime na ppull out ako sa nicu nag pprepare ako ng mozart playlist for my patients and the entire shift pinapatugtog ko. Madalas gumagawa ako and mga workmates ko ng paraan makahanap ng gamot sa mga patients namin na nahihirapan na bumili ng mga kelangang gamot nila during hospitalizations. Pinamimigay ko yung yung blood donation card ko sa mga patients na hirap makahanap ng dugo or walang donor card. Yung mga out patient na magpapa inject ng IM meds or SubQ meds supposedly mag ccharge kami ng injection fee, pero minsan di na kami nagpapapabayad kasi wala namang supplies ng hospital na nagagamit. Di ko alam kung nicest to or default na kasi nurse namana ako hahaa
Naalala ko tuloy nung ma opera ako. Yung nurse and yung isang doctor, tinanong ako ano daw gusto ko muna na music papatugtog. Nararamdaman ata nila nun na kinakabahan ako. Tapos ang nice pa nila, kasi naiiyak talaga ako nung itinurok yung ganot, tapos yung isang nurse dinidistract talaga ako.
I donated Php 100 each to: A kid who's around 4-7 yrs. old who is currently battling CKD. A baby (months old) who is battling liver cancer. A girl who's now around 14 yrs. old, also CKD who is currently undergoing dialysis. A guy (binata na) who has a lymphoma if I am not mistaken. A baby who had a sepsis (yes he/she turned yellowish) but now he/she is okay. Meron pang iba. Can't remember them all. Yung iba napanood ko sa KMJS. That's the only amount I can give to each though I still know it's quite low. I'm thinking about kung magbibigay ako ng mas malaking halaga pero di naman bukal sa loob ko, that would be useless. Yung ibang tulong ko hindi na pera. I help some people with their assignments, etc. I can tell all of these because we're all anonymous here.
You're such a kind soul. Nakakabahala na ang bata pa nila para magkaroon ng ganoong sakit. :(
Maybe genes. Di ko din alam eh. I also pray for them. Yes it's sad na may ganon palang nangyayari. I am unemployed so yun lang talaga yung amount na kaya ko. By the way, lahat sila halos sa FB ko lang nakita. Minsan nadadaanan ko lang sa newsfeed ko pag nag-sscroll ako. Yung iba di ko sure kung meron pa ko natulungan. Basta yang mga sinabi ko yung naaalala ko lang. May mga nababasa din ako sa Bible kasi during free time mga about sa pagtulong. So ayun.
Binigyan ko ng Timezone card yung mga batang namamalimos. Naglalaro kasi ako sa Timezone noon tapos may apat na mga bata na nag-iipon ng mga naiwan na tickets, dahil wala silang card binigay nila sa akin yung naipon nilang tix. Siyempre tinanggap ko na kasi hindi sila pinapansin ng ibang tao sa paligid dahil nga unkempt sila. Halos 300 tix rin yung naibigay nila sa akin and I feel kinda guilty na kunin lang yun kaya tinanong ko sila kung ano gusto nilang prize yung i-redeem ko para sana sa kanila kaso wag na lang raw. Ginawa ko bumili na lang ako ng card para makalaro rin sila and at the same time ilipat ko sana sa card nila yung tickets na binigay nila sa akin kaso hindi raw yun pwede sabi ng crew. Kaya dinagdagan ko na lang ng load yung card nila para makapaglaro rin sila. Talagang nagtatatalon sila sa tuwa kasi raw finally makakapaglaro na rin sila, hindi yung makikinood at makikikuha na lang raw sila ng iniwan na tickets ng mga naglalaro. Ni-remind ko na lang sila na wag silang mag-aaway away kasi sa kanilang apat yung card na yun at sana wag rin sila puro laro lang, mag-aaral pa rin sila dapat nang mabuti. 😊
Pinautang ko yung friend ko na hindi nya alam na galing sakin yung money, alam ko kasi nahihiya na sya magsabi sakin dahil palagi na lang ako ang takbuhan nya, until now hindi nya alam na ako yung nagprovide ng pera, nabayaran naman nya after 1 year. Surprised a friend by a home visit, cooked a meal kasi namiss daw nya luto ko.
Nung time na nagdodorm pa ko, it was late at night, mga almost 11 pm na yata and my friend called to ask me na bilhan siya ng medicines kasi it was urgent. I didn't think twice and binilihan ko siya agad sa pharmacy na malayo-layo pa sa dorm ko. I didn't even bother to prioritize my safety as a babae knowing na dayo lang ako sa lugar. I just realized na grabe pala talaga pagka-selfless ko pag kaibigan nag-request. Yet, pag ako need ng help sobrang nahihiya pa ko mag-ask.
Being selfless is nice but always in moderation. Prioritize your safety first if you want to keep helping.
maybe i'm always giving too much nga, hirap kasi mag-decline huhu
Look into people-pleasing personality and codependency, youll understand yourself and save yourself from future troubles
I just looked them up and aligned nga sa experiences ko mga info na nabasa ko. Now, nagkaroon na ng clarity mga bagay na di ko magets about myself. Thanks for this!
My classmate from elementary before ininvite halos lahat kami sa classroom. Sya yung classmate na parating na bubully before dahil d masyado nakakalakad. Umuulan ending tatlo lang kami yung nandun and andaming pagkain. Kita ko yung effort ng Mama nya sa pagluto ng ganun kadaming pagkain and kaya d sya nakabenta din sa labas ng bananacue kasi birthday ng anak niya. Kaya kahit nasusuka na ko sa kabusog dinamihan ko padin ang pagkain. 🤣 Hahaha! Hi Jero if andito ka! 😂
Nangyari to sa baong friend ko, kung 18th birthday niya. Ang sad lang kasi ganon pa rin, andami niya iniinvite pero dalawa lang kami ng isa pa naming friend yung pumupunta. And, totoo hahahaha ayaw namin masayanh wffort nila sa pagluluto, kaya kahit busog na kain pa rin. Sayang kasi :(( tapos ayon may pa take out kami lagi galing sa kanila.
Ako nagpaplan and nagpeprepare tuwing birthday nila. Sadly, I have not experienced that from them yet but it's fine since ako naman willing mag asikaso pag birthday nila and they never asked me to do it for them naman.
Same, gusto ko rin sana ma experience yung ganon. Minsan kasi nakakalimutan pa nila na birthday ko.
Instead of lending them money. I gave them side hustles to earn and trained them as well during my free time. Started from the bottom now they're a little bit on top of the bottom. Until now nakakareceive pa din ng mga random thank yous from them. Maka flatter 🥹 Ps. I'm a Virtual Assistant po.
OP! pa train nga din lol
PPS. Hindi po ako HR 🤣
During pandemic, nanghingi ng tulong ung best classmate ko dahil mapapalayas na sila sa nirerentahan nilang bahay and kakatanggap lang nya as crew nun sa fastfood kaya wala pang budget kasi di pa sya sumasahod. Since sa buong batch namin, ako lang ang call center agent na maayos ang sahod kahit papaano, I paid his 1 month overdue rent and nag advance din ng ako ng 2 months rent para makaimbak sya. Last year, he paid his loan off kahit hindi ako naniningil :) His mom also thanked me for helping them noong zero sila :) We both graduated college last yearrrr and mas maganda na yung work nya nowww.
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Ako yung taong mahirap utangan. Dala na rin ng mga not so pleasant encounters sa mga di marunong magbayad at nagalit pa nung singilan na. But one thing i can assure you, when it comes to food? no questions asked. i have an officemate na may apat na anak, notorious din na palautang. came to a point na di na sya kumakain. so ako, dahil alam ko naman sitwasyon nya, kahit 20 pesos lang na pansit yan sa carenderia malapit sa office, bibilhan ko sya. Di ko man sya matulungan financially, atleast alam ko na may laman tiyan nya so she can function accordingly ☺️ PS. Di nya alam sino naglalagay ng pansit sa desk nya kasi i made sure walang nakaka kita 😁 but i think alam nya na kasi lagi sya nagti-thank you and smiles at me pagnagkaksalubong kami ☺️
Helped their financial needs but they betrayed me in the end.
A friend of mine asked for a specific coffee (yung freshly harvested pa ang granules), and it took months before I finally gave it to him. Ako mismo yung nag reach-out sa kanya to tell him it's ready and sabi niya sa akin mismo siya ang nakalimot and he appreciated the part na ako mismo yung nagremind kahit kanya galing ang request. I then booked a grab and went to their house and sabi niya sa akin sobrang honored daw niya sa dami ng effort ko just to give him what he asked me. I even offered to let him vent his problems to me. He thanked me overall and as a friend, it's rather an adventurous thing on my part.
This was about 6 years ago. A neighbor who I was chummy with was leaving for the US and I gave her 1 ream of Marlboro Lights (her cig brand of choice at napakamahal sa US) and like 5 packs ata ng ChocNut on her last night dito sa Pinas. She then told me: "Uy (my name) huwag kang ganyan di kita masyadong love!" 😂 Anyone who doesn't know her will probably be offended but ganun sya talaga. She's a straight-shooter with no fucks given and I have a wicked/morbid sense of humor kaya we got along pretty well. And totoo naman, we're chummy in the neighborly/small town kind of way pero di masyadong close. It's just that we grew up in the same neighborhood and yung mga ninuno namin magkakaibigan.
Forgive, even if they didn’t ask for it and deserve it. Basta cut off na sila sa life ko HAHAHHAA.
Virtual hugs.
Thank you, OP! 🤍
I prayed for them, for their healing, instead of arguing, even though I know I am right, even though they didn't pay me right for two months' worth of salary, even though I had to let go of being with my son for the meantime.
Hmm yung time na naulan nun tapos naghihintay kami para makatawid sa kabilang kalsada. Nakita ko na walang payong yung stranger na nasa tabi ko so pasimple ko na nilapit yung payong ko sa kanya para mapayungan siya hehe.
Financial support to my cousin na may sakit sa kidney & when need nila ng mas malaking pera since di naman ako sobrang yaman, I initiated to ask my cousins na maghelp kaming lahat para sa pinsan namin & even ask my closest friends if they can donate, any amount will do naman or kahit wala, I just tried. Luckily, I am surrounded with good people. Grabe ang pasasalamat ng Tita ko & pinsan ko, but I am most grateful sa mga taong nag extend ng help without any hesitation.
Hired them and got a handful of them started on their VA journey. All of them moved on. May isa mas malaki na sweldo kaysa sa'kin. I'm proud of them. Super proud of what they've achieved!
Gave them a career
Nagdonate ng dugo sa tito nya. Twice within a month
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A job was offered to me kasi yung manager dun kilala ako and she really wanted me to be a part of her team pero tinanggihan ko ang referred my friend na sabi ko kahit junior to masipag to at fast learner. I vouched for my friend’s character, enticing yung job offer kasi mas mataas sa current salary ko pero slight lang ang agwat, pero mas need ng kaibigan ko yun kasi ang dami niya gastusin at may pag aaralin na kapatid. She was hired and doing good now. Thankful naman siya sa akin. Hehehe.
Giving her something to eat! \*smirk\*
It's not something I did but a stranger did to me. As someone who lives in metro manila sanay na ko sa punuan at tayuan sa bus and I don't expect na any random guy would give up their seat for me and that's okay,lahat tayo pagod. One time, pauwi ako galing trabaho as usual tayuan, nung huminto yung bus kasi nagbaba ng pasahero, yung guy na nasa likod ko kinalabit ako pinapa-upo ako sa upuan kasi bumaba na yung nakaupo don, so umupo ako. Sobrang grateful ko that time kasi pagod talaga ako. Tinawag nya pa yung isang girl para umupo rin since dalawahan yun. So umandar, na yung bus. Nung bumaba na yung guy na yun, tumatawid na sya kasabay nung ibang taong bumaba rin sa bus(mostly women), so akala ko dun ang way nya yun pala itinawid nya lang yung mga babae kasi bumalik sya kung saan sya binaba nung bus at dumiretso ng lakad. And I think that's the kindest thing I've witnessed and it's from a guy who looks like a thug.
Ang gaan sa feeling na maka witness ka ng ganito. Yung feeling na para kang nabubuhayan ganon.
Totoo, hindi rin ako makapaniwala na may ganun pa palang klase ng tao ngayon. I'm always hoping to see him once again to thank him for a memory I could never forget.
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Hi! You’re so kind huhu! I want to be your friend, can I message you? 🥹
You're so kind. 🥹 Naalala ko tuloy yung classmate ko nung college. Sa museum kasi yung first class namin nun anlayo, tapos ang hirap maglakad ng naka heels, ansakit sa paa. Minsan kasi kulang-kulang yung mga arm chair, kaya kapag nahuli ka, wala ka na uupuan. Tapos may isa akong classmate, ang ginawa niya, bumili siya ng bagong arm chair tapos pinalagyan niya ng name ko. 😭
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Yeees. Kaya ako naman nag dadala ako ng breakfast para sa kanya nun, minsan hindi na ata siya nakakain kasi sa sobramg dami ng ginagawa and ang aga pa niya.
I'm always protective sa mga kaibigan ko. For me, eto na talaga ang pinaka-nice hahahha hindi ko masasabing i'm always here for them, pero kapag alam kong urgent at umiiyak sila, pinupuntahan ko na. Kapag naiinitan sila, ako humaharang sa init para hindi sila matapatan. And iba pang mga bagay na na-iimagine mo sa love language na "acts of service" (. ❛ ᴗ ❛.)
Omg sameeee hahahaha.
Don't know if nicest thing nato pero but recently a cousin want to have a small birthday party he shared na never pa siya nagka birthday party or even a gift from someone. Nagpadala ako small amount as a gift since every year naman ako nagagawa ko gusto kong celebration pag birthday ko. Gusto ko din ma experience niya yun kahit paano.
Thank you for doing this. 🤍
I remember buying my ex a pair of branded shoes and elite socks in highschool na kinuha ko sa allowance ko from my father. Kasi he badly wanted to play noon sa intrams namin but wala atang budget ang parents niya pangbili. So ayun, I made him really happy and I supported him during the game. Then on his birthday, nagregalo ako ng authentic ball (yung pang basketball) that I bought from Toby's haha. Idk why sobrang generous ko sa ganun kahit na alam kong ako naman ang mauubusan financially. All out talaga ako sa relationship. Kahit na its an abusive and toxic relationship, I really gave my all to that guy.
Iba talaga nagagawa ng pagmamahal. I hope you're healing/healed already. Sana dumating din yung tao na magpaparamdam sayo ng pagmamahal na deserve mo.