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Because you only get 🦆 ING one so treat her well before it's to 🦆 ING late


First_Shop4530

because she's the one who gave me birth, taught me, and showed me what love was?


BingoBangoCo

because its mom


Puzzleheaded-Gas9918

she's always there for me thru ups and downs


hyrulian_princess

She isn’t


Unusual-Thing-7149

Sorry to hear that. Your mother should be the person who will always love you and be there for you no matter what. Sadly some of us only have ourselves and rely on the comfort of friends and strangers if we are lucky


hyrulian_princess

Yeah she’s never done that, she’s not the loving caring type, thankfully I have a best friend who gives me everything I need


Unusual-Thing-7149

While it can really hurt it can make you a better parent later on if you are able to have, or want, children. My father was a terrible father and I was apprehensive about children as a result as I wondered if I would be the same for many years. After adopting our daughter I realized that sometimes a bad example can actually be good as I have not repeated the errors of my father I'm glad for you having such a friend fellow Redditor!


hyrulian_princess

I knew that I never wanted kids since I was 5, 19 years later I’m even more certain I never want kids, my shitty parents aren’t even a factor in that decision And thank you! He’s an absolute ray of sunshine and I never thought I’d find a best friend on this hellhole of a website but weirder things have happened! He makes life liveable after my parents have done everything they can to make me not want to


Unusual-Thing-7149

I'm glad for you. However if you asked me about kids at your age I'd have said the same. Fast forward a couple or more decades and everything changed lol


TheMysteriousFlufKat

Because she's the only parent that lived to see me turn 5 lmao


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She went to hell and back to make sure my siblings and I were fed. We have always been extremely poor, like, almost a week without food poor. No matter how much she had to give, she did it. There were no jobs where we were living and my dad made 200 Dollars a week. He never cared what happened to us, but she did. She went hungry so we could be fed. We don't always get along. We fight a lot actually, but no matter what, she will always be there for me. Sometimes I wish I was never born, but she's happy I was. I don't know what I'll do when she's gone.