All of my kids work or have worked in restaurants. The first thing we talk about is the drug culture and not taking pills or anything else from anyone. Im sure it’s not too late to talk to your son, he’s so young most people wouldn’t dream of offering him anything. Just bring up this response and ask if he has an opinion on the drug situation at his job then go from there.
Haha the one time I worked in a restaurant, it was with a girlfriend. But even though my girlfriend worked there as well and everyone knew we were together, a bartender approached me randomly one day and asked if I wanted to have sex with her in the employee bathroom. I just looked at her and said “Uh you know my girlfriend is right over there right?”
Of course she played it off by saying she was “joking”, but if I were single I would have definitely taken that opportunity 😂
First restaurant I worked at, we got a new GM and she asked me what the staff is like and I said something along the lines of “Typical I suppose.” She said “So everyone’s fucking each other and getting high on break?” I said “Getting high probably but not really sleeping with each other.” She just sorta chuckled to herself. Turns out I was wrong. No one was sleeping with me.
Depends on the kind of restaurants. Higher level restaurants (especially those in nice hotels) tend to be more professional and have more real workplace rules and also tend to hire more professional employees as opposed to like a neighborhood / mom and pop restaurant which can really be the Wild Wild West.
In my time I worked in places where we’re drunk before service is over / people are fucking in the bathrooms, places where we all go to the same bar after and shenanigans ensue there, and places where I never see coworkers outside of our very professional shifts. All depends on the kind of kitchen.
I work at a pretty high tier restaurant. I fucked/still am fucking my general manager 😅 most people finish up and you "stay back to finish some admin" then I'll have her on the prep bench, over the step ladder in the dry store, throw a towel over the camera in the bar and fuck her on the bar it's great 😅😅
This is very accurate. Those work After-parties or Drinks lead to someone hooking up, fights, or hearing what co-workers really think about certain people.
My son-in-law was a manager at a Braums, for several years. He told me just about every HS and college girl there made themselves available. Lots of the mothers of the kids who worked there also were avalable.
I manage restaurants now, so I avoid any kind of personal relationships with my staff. Man when I was a server/cook/bartender I'd end up sleeping with a decent amount of coworkers. Always a good time!
Worked in them off and on over the years. In my 20s in the late 1990s, I worked at one where everyone hung out after shift. Most partied hard, went to clubs, did E, drank after work, fucked, had house parties. I hosted some bangers. Then I did white collar stuff. Back to fine dining restaurant and it's still a lot of the same. Only they drink baller wines, do coke and dabs, but still have house parties, go to clubs, hang out and fuck. Nothing changes.
I know one of the female Bartenders hooked up with one of the Cooks, one of the male Bartenders, and she wanted to get with one of the Servers but he rejected her because he had a girlfriend.
I was approached by a Cook, she was really pretty and fun but I didn't want to be her Rebound Hook-up after breaking up with her boyfriend who was touring with his Rock Band.
Never slept with, but have engaged with politicians in a sexual way who would openly brag about much younger co-workers. It was always a wink and a nod, so never knew if it was true- but wouldn't shock me.
Oh yeah. I've heard stories of much younger staffers sleeping with much older politicians. I know someone who used to sleep around with a politician when she was in her 20's and the politician had kids not that much younger than her. And it was a bit of an open secret too because she bragged about it to her friends.
The behind the scenes of what goes on in politics (campaigns and what not) is super shady. I know several people who ran for office and I have heard stories about how bad things can get, especially during campaigns.
Also high stress environment, people working together with late nights, lots of travelling together. Lots of people end up hooking up together.
i wonder if that's nurses being regular horny human beings, or if it's a reaction to seeing ill people who are "kept" from enjoying some of the more basic human pleasures? kind of a "i'm around sick people all day, i'd like to do something that makes me feel alive".
answers that are also acceptable in my mind: none of the above, *OR*, each person is unique and it is impossible to make blanket statements about an entire group of people based on their occupation.
I see people say this all the time and I just don’t get it. Maybe it’s because I work in a trauma unit at a level 1 trauma center, so ultra high stress, but absolutely no one is fucking each other here. And I’ve never heard of any other units where this happens regularly. We’re all just overwhelmingly tired.
Depends on the culture at that hospital or in a specific department. Worked at one ER where everyone is banging and then moved to a different ER and they weren’t having any of that.
I work in a hospital and when we were talking about Grey's Anatomy at lunch and how so many characters are involved with each other, an older nurse contributed: "When they took smoking breaks away from us, we turned to sex." And she was 100% serious too.
Mostly, no. I know from experience being a nurse. However, some units are more prone to doing it. Like anesthesia and OR. Probably because they spend so much time together.
I don't fully agree with that, although a 5/10 pizza can taste great just like average sex can feel great.
Maybe I'm overthinking it but "worst sex" would be gross or painful or lacking consent or someone can't get it up.
Kinda makes sense, mostly young adults in late teens to early to mid twenties all gathered for probably the biggest event of their lives, high on adrenaline.
You mean putting hundreds of the most physically peak human beings on earth who are all in their sexual prime and mostly single due to training schedules in one place would lead to a lot of sex!?
PAH! as if. /s
Bars near hospitals right around second shift change. Not only are all the nurses meeting up, but the restaurant population is also usually closing up and hitting the night hard.
2nd shift fucking sucks, it's got leftover discharges and new admissions, a ton of bullshit management leaves for you, all the snacks are gone, and then night shift shows up late and you just want to get out to the bars
All of that is bad if you are a nurse, all of that is great if you are a guy who likes the way scrubs frame the dumpy on a tired nurse just popping into the bar for some disaronno and dick. I've been out the game for a minute, but I feel like that is a strat that will always be effective.
I fucking wish.
I'm deployed right now and NOBODY will fuck me. I'm trying. I'm doing all the social things..I'm making friends with everyone.
But I give off such "Dad" vibes that no one finds sexy. I'm just seen as, like, safe and trustworthy. Which is nice, but I'd also like to be seen as attractive.
Yeah I'm trying. It's hard to find them tho lol
In all seriousness I have gotten ONE and she was absolutely the finest girl I've ever been with. 100% smoke shows could've picked any dude in the unit and for some reason she went with me, for one night. Fucking awesome night for me LOL
I dodged a major bullet at my first duty station. A girl who was friends with my buddies girlfriend wanted to hook up with me after a party we all went to. I got too drunk and passed the fuck out. About a month later, my buddy was like...Hey, do you remember that girl from the med group who wanted to hook up with you? Well..... I guess she told his girlfriend that she has HPV. I felt bad for her, but I was extremely happy that I couldn't hold my Jameson that particular night.
I feel like my banker fucks a lot of his customers, including myself.
_"Ohhhhhh you need a loan for a new HVAC? I see you have 750+ credit but ohhhh interest rates are sooooo hiiiiigh right now...."_
lol. Naw. Not in the 20 years I worked in TV. I only knew of a handful of times people were screwing and most of those were with the same people. I’m not saying it didn’t come up (I had a 17 year old ask me out once - nooope) but it wasn’t like some orgy. You had a ton of work to do and rarely even saw people off set. Maybe it was different at the Weinstein level but not on low budget TV.
I worked as a bouncer at a club that catered to primarily the college crowd, usually more than 1000 ppl on a typical thur, fri, sat night. If I wasn't getting it from one of the girls working there after work it was because I had one of the girls that came there to party lines up.
I used to be a waiter/server and I can confirm, everybody does everybody else. Nowa days, I work in a healthcare/hospital setting, I work with nurses & Dr's, and everybody is still doing everybody else. That's how my mom and dad met, nurse and maintenance guy. That's where 90% of my hookups have materialized.
From experience, any inpatient/residential healthcare facility floor job in which people don't have a graduate-level position (i.e., can't be a therapist, nurse, doctor, etc.). High stress + spending day in and day out with usually long shifts with the same people + not a whole lot of professional conduct standards outside of work + lots of substance use outside of work/parties = lots of sex.
After seeing the amount of attractive employees that got fired for fraternizing while I was in rehab, I can confirm this.
It was kind of poetic that some people were there getting treatment for sex addiction.
I think too that mental healthcare is really draining, so for a lot of people it was easy to get into flings/one night stands etc. because people wanted some sort of validation. No one said that of course but it was pretty easy to put 2 and 2 together.
I commented this elsewhere, but 6 years working on a cruise ship, its very true!! Passengers would never cruise again if they knew what was happening in crew area while people were playing bingo upstairs lol
Safeway swing shift was where my wife had her first 2 affairs. No one is around to hear your conversations and when the person in charge is her, the dudes prey away.
Yes but it's so dangerous! Everyone talks. I worked in three different call centers, never did sales always customer care. Anyways, those people have lose jaws and love to talk.
restaurants
Can confirm this , worked at a restaurant
Same
Now I am interested in working in one.
It's a good place to get laid. And drugs
I didn’t see much sex at the restaurants I was at, I musta missed out, but I saw a shit ton of drugs for sure!
Now I’m worried cause my 16 year old works in one.
All of my kids work or have worked in restaurants. The first thing we talk about is the drug culture and not taking pills or anything else from anyone. Im sure it’s not too late to talk to your son, he’s so young most people wouldn’t dream of offering him anything. Just bring up this response and ask if he has an opinion on the drug situation at his job then go from there.
How's your alcohol tolerance?
WHERE
Haha the one time I worked in a restaurant, it was with a girlfriend. But even though my girlfriend worked there as well and everyone knew we were together, a bartender approached me randomly one day and asked if I wanted to have sex with her in the employee bathroom. I just looked at her and said “Uh you know my girlfriend is right over there right?” Of course she played it off by saying she was “joking”, but if I were single I would have definitely taken that opportunity 😂
You wouldn’t have gotten that opportunity if you were single, I’d bet.
A real catch-22
It's a trap!
That wasn’t a “no”
First restaurant I worked at, we got a new GM and she asked me what the staff is like and I said something along the lines of “Typical I suppose.” She said “So everyone’s fucking each other and getting high on break?” I said “Getting high probably but not really sleeping with each other.” She just sorta chuckled to herself. Turns out I was wrong. No one was sleeping with me.
oof 😭
I've never even worked at a restaurant and can confirm this
I haven’t either, I just know many who have 🤣
Lmao! That was my thought too
Done a lot of restauranting in my 40 years on this spinning rock...Restaurants is probably the family feud #1 answer.
Depends on the kind of restaurants. Higher level restaurants (especially those in nice hotels) tend to be more professional and have more real workplace rules and also tend to hire more professional employees as opposed to like a neighborhood / mom and pop restaurant which can really be the Wild Wild West. In my time I worked in places where we’re drunk before service is over / people are fucking in the bathrooms, places where we all go to the same bar after and shenanigans ensue there, and places where I never see coworkers outside of our very professional shifts. All depends on the kind of kitchen.
I work at a pretty high tier restaurant. I fucked/still am fucking my general manager 😅 most people finish up and you "stay back to finish some admin" then I'll have her on the prep bench, over the step ladder in the dry store, throw a towel over the camera in the bar and fuck her on the bar it's great 😅😅
This is very accurate. Those work After-parties or Drinks lead to someone hooking up, fights, or hearing what co-workers really think about certain people.
Applebee's - Welcome to Chlamydia!
As a bartender turned porn performer I can verify this checks out
Can confirm. I don’t remember how many coworkers I fucked.
seems to be the overall consensus lol
YES
As a line cook, I agree.
line cook here staff parties are like vegas we dont talk about it
My son-in-law was a manager at a Braums, for several years. He told me just about every HS and college girl there made themselves available. Lots of the mothers of the kids who worked there also were avalable.
I manage restaurants now, so I avoid any kind of personal relationships with my staff. Man when I was a server/cook/bartender I'd end up sleeping with a decent amount of coworkers. Always a good time!
Damn, really? Some of my friends work in that industry but haven't experienced anything. Maybe it depends on the country?
Lol I clicked on the post thinking “if food service isn’t #1 then something’s wrong”
Chef here, can confirm. Nurses, you wild as hell too.
Worked in them off and on over the years. In my 20s in the late 1990s, I worked at one where everyone hung out after shift. Most partied hard, went to clubs, did E, drank after work, fucked, had house parties. I hosted some bangers. Then I did white collar stuff. Back to fine dining restaurant and it's still a lot of the same. Only they drink baller wines, do coke and dabs, but still have house parties, go to clubs, hang out and fuck. Nothing changes.
I came here to post this.
There it is. Especially if there's a bar attached
100%. Best time of my life.
Came here to say this
I manage a restaurant and can confirm that this belongs as the top comment.
That's what I came to say.
Lol.. Why are you spewing facts
you mean people come all the time all over the vicinity where my food is made? eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwww
I'm the reason they made a no fraternisation rule at my old work place.
Worked in a local restaurant (not a chain), and never saw this... 😞
I know one of the female Bartenders hooked up with one of the Cooks, one of the male Bartenders, and she wanted to get with one of the Servers but he rejected her because he had a girlfriend. I was approached by a Cook, she was really pretty and fun but I didn't want to be her Rebound Hook-up after breaking up with her boyfriend who was touring with his Rock Band.
Porn star
The only true answer
Escort probably works as well
Most common service is oral tho so technically probably not
You're smarter than me.
You’re just as smart as me, but two hours quicker.
Politics. Wait by "fuck" do you mean literally or figuratively? *Thinks about it* yeah my answer won't change either way.
Niceee 😎
For real though, in politics, there is a surprising amount of affairs that go on. Politicians and staffers, staffers and staffers, etc.
I can confirm this!
Slept with a politician or a staffer? Or both? At the same time? 😂
Never slept with, but have engaged with politicians in a sexual way who would openly brag about much younger co-workers. It was always a wink and a nod, so never knew if it was true- but wouldn't shock me.
Oh yeah. I've heard stories of much younger staffers sleeping with much older politicians. I know someone who used to sleep around with a politician when she was in her 20's and the politician had kids not that much younger than her. And it was a bit of an open secret too because she bragged about it to her friends.
I don’t think you can have ethics and be a politician so that makes total sense.
The behind the scenes of what goes on in politics (campaigns and what not) is super shady. I know several people who ran for office and I have heard stories about how bad things can get, especially during campaigns. Also high stress environment, people working together with late nights, lots of travelling together. Lots of people end up hooking up together.
Nursing (according to greys anatomy)
Nurses are the freakiest people I’ve ever met. They love to fuck.
TBF, most people love to fuck.
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Finding someone a) you'd fuck, b) that'd fuck you, c) likes to fuck as much as you do, d) is good at it. Those are the hard one.
i wonder if that's nurses being regular horny human beings, or if it's a reaction to seeing ill people who are "kept" from enjoying some of the more basic human pleasures? kind of a "i'm around sick people all day, i'd like to do something that makes me feel alive". answers that are also acceptable in my mind: none of the above, *OR*, each person is unique and it is impossible to make blanket statements about an entire group of people based on their occupation.
The ones I messed with said it’s a combination of having to compartmentalize so much from the job, high stress, wanting to unwind and long hours
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I love being that distraction
this is a great take on this -nursing student lol
Some profession are so serious that we forgot people working that job is still a normal human that can be extremely horny
I see people say this all the time and I just don’t get it. Maybe it’s because I work in a trauma unit at a level 1 trauma center, so ultra high stress, but absolutely no one is fucking each other here. And I’ve never heard of any other units where this happens regularly. We’re all just overwhelmingly tired.
I’ve found the more stressful the environment the freakier the nurse. The ICU nurses and ER nurses were the best.
Depends on the culture at that hospital or in a specific department. Worked at one ER where everyone is banging and then moved to a different ER and they weren’t having any of that.
Maybe they just didn't wanna include you in it
But I’m so sexy!?? 😭😭😭😭
Nurses and cops, nurses and firefighters, nurses and medics, nurses and nurses, nurses and doctors, nurses and....
Yup. I’ve worked in healthcare for 20+ years , RNs are wild.
I work in a hospital and when we were talking about Grey's Anatomy at lunch and how so many characters are involved with each other, an older nurse contributed: "When they took smoking breaks away from us, we turned to sex." And she was 100% serious too.
Mostly, no. I know from experience being a nurse. However, some units are more prone to doing it. Like anesthesia and OR. Probably because they spend so much time together.
Olympians, apparently
Wish they would televise the village dorms honestly
Hell, just make fucking an Olympic sport.
And add another way I can disappoint a whole crowd of people ? No thanks …
Oh c'mon...you're probably better than you think. Sex is like pizza: the worst piece I ever had was still wonderful.
I don't fully agree with that, although a 5/10 pizza can taste great just like average sex can feel great. Maybe I'm overthinking it but "worst sex" would be gross or painful or lacking consent or someone can't get it up.
Provided nothing in your 2nd paragraph presents itself, then your 1st paragraph is what I was aiming for.
You don’t want to set a world record for quickest completion? 😉
freestyle category
Let's take this further. What would be the competitive element? Who can last longer? Who can have the most orgasms?
Underutilized porn parody material
Kinda makes sense, mostly young adults in late teens to early to mid twenties all gathered for probably the biggest event of their lives, high on adrenaline.
With absolutely godlike bodies and a lot of stress from training so long. Then they win or lose and have lots of free time for the rest of the games.
You mean putting hundreds of the most physically peak human beings on earth who are all in their sexual prime and mostly single due to training schedules in one place would lead to a lot of sex!? PAH! as if. /s
Just curious OP - Are you making a career choice based on the answer(s) to this question?
Nah, just tryna figure out what office to hang around.
Bars near hospitals right around second shift change. Not only are all the nurses meeting up, but the restaurant population is also usually closing up and hitting the night hard.
2nd shift fucking sucks, it's got leftover discharges and new admissions, a ton of bullshit management leaves for you, all the snacks are gone, and then night shift shows up late and you just want to get out to the bars
All of that is bad if you are a nurse, all of that is great if you are a guy who likes the way scrubs frame the dumpy on a tired nurse just popping into the bar for some disaronno and dick. I've been out the game for a minute, but I feel like that is a strat that will always be effective.
Yea I know, just gave reason to why they were the way they were lol
I'll maybe consider a sideline?
Military
Can confirm.
I fucking wish. I'm deployed right now and NOBODY will fuck me. I'm trying. I'm doing all the social things..I'm making friends with everyone. But I give off such "Dad" vibes that no one finds sexy. I'm just seen as, like, safe and trustworthy. Which is nice, but I'd also like to be seen as attractive.
_I give off such “Dad” vibes_ I felt that bro, gotta find the ones with daddy issues that’ll help.
Yeah I'm trying. It's hard to find them tho lol In all seriousness I have gotten ONE and she was absolutely the finest girl I've ever been with. 100% smoke shows could've picked any dude in the unit and for some reason she went with me, for one night. Fucking awesome night for me LOL
I've read stories ☠️
Military is dangerous! Sooooooo many STDs passed around constantly!!
I dodged a major bullet at my first duty station. A girl who was friends with my buddies girlfriend wanted to hook up with me after a party we all went to. I got too drunk and passed the fuck out. About a month later, my buddy was like...Hey, do you remember that girl from the med group who wanted to hook up with you? Well..... I guess she told his girlfriend that she has HPV. I felt bad for her, but I was extremely happy that I couldn't hold my Jameson that particular night.
Everyone has hpv lol you probably have it unknowingly
True, but at least I don't have warts on my dick and balls lol
No comment, I invoke my 5th amendment rights
Yes definitely, I feel like military puts all other professions to shame.
IRS
Lmfao. This comment so Underrated.😂😂😂
Aviation: pilots & flight attendants.
Can confirm. The flight school I worked at was all privileged college age people. All they did was screw
I feel like I must enroll at this school.
Biggest fantasy is to bang a flight attendant 😍
Can confirm this.
Yeahhh can confirm
It’s has a term by the way. It’s called crew meal
Anything high stress.
i was seeing a bit of a trend here...
That really adds up, when people are used to a certain level of cortisol they will make risky choices to get it.
Nurses
Haha my exe was nurse… very slutty, up until the point she fucked a cop that she met at the gym we trained at.
Still slutty it seems
Nurses hold the #1 spot of occupations that cheat. ER nurses are the most likely. It’s typically with Policemen, Firemen, Emt’s, etc.
Dispatch. Basically any high stress job.
Second this. I worked w/ hundreds of nurses during COVID the stories they would tell me 🫣
My friend who works in a hospital always has stories of docs and nurses messing around. Seems to be less of a thing at clinics.
I feel like my banker fucks a lot of his customers, including myself. _"Ohhhhhh you need a loan for a new HVAC? I see you have 750+ credit but ohhhh interest rates are sooooo hiiiiigh right now...."_
Why am I picturing that Southpark episode with the cable guy rubbing his nipples.
Exactly how i was writing it.
Any job in the entertainment industry.
lol. Naw. Not in the 20 years I worked in TV. I only knew of a handful of times people were screwing and most of those were with the same people. I’m not saying it didn’t come up (I had a 17 year old ask me out once - nooope) but it wasn’t like some orgy. You had a ton of work to do and rarely even saw people off set. Maybe it was different at the Weinstein level but not on low budget TV.
Bartending 😋
I worked as a bouncer at a club that catered to primarily the college crowd, usually more than 1000 ppl on a typical thur, fri, sat night. If I wasn't getting it from one of the girls working there after work it was because I had one of the girls that came there to party lines up.
Government
My roomier had to do sugar baby stuff, and we got a government worker sugardaddy in my town. Because ofc
Hospitality
100% !! the stories from my buddy who’s anesthesiologist, tell me some crazy shit Edit… I’m a dyslexic fuck who can’t read obviously
Hospitality, not hospital. Lodging, hotels, etc. I’m sure hospitals have their fair share of it though.
I’m a dyslexic fuck, my bad.
No worries, don’t be hard on yourself. Just wanted to make sure you saw the difference.
Damn okay, thank god cause I ready to jump off a bridge haha
Fire departments / EMS
Yep everyone has slept with everyone it seems
This is definitely true!
I used to be a waiter/server and I can confirm, everybody does everybody else. Nowa days, I work in a healthcare/hospital setting, I work with nurses & Dr's, and everybody is still doing everybody else. That's how my mom and dad met, nurse and maintenance guy. That's where 90% of my hookups have materialized.
From experience, any inpatient/residential healthcare facility floor job in which people don't have a graduate-level position (i.e., can't be a therapist, nurse, doctor, etc.). High stress + spending day in and day out with usually long shifts with the same people + not a whole lot of professional conduct standards outside of work + lots of substance use outside of work/parties = lots of sex.
After seeing the amount of attractive employees that got fired for fraternizing while I was in rehab, I can confirm this. It was kind of poetic that some people were there getting treatment for sex addiction.
I think too that mental healthcare is really draining, so for a lot of people it was easy to get into flings/one night stands etc. because people wanted some sort of validation. No one said that of course but it was pretty easy to put 2 and 2 together.
High school teachers
... With other high school teachers, parents, staff hopefully
Even in middle school we knew which teachers were banging each other…
Any manufacturing job
I can't believe I had to scroll so far to see this.
I have worked in manufacturing all my life and that is one thing I have learned is everyone is fucking everyone. It's a wild realization
CrossFit gym coaches. I guess most gyms and person trainers.
Flight attendants. Mfers having orgies tg in the hotels.
Fuck I should've been a flight attendant
Pornstar is the obvious choice
Yacht workers (according to Below Deck)
I commented this elsewhere, but 6 years working on a cruise ship, its very true!! Passengers would never cruise again if they knew what was happening in crew area while people were playing bingo upstairs lol
I have worked for a long time on Cruise Ships and then Yachting. Cruise Ships win this one.
So true. Even in the laundry too!
Emergency room
Waiter
Law enforcement
Grocery stores and office jobs.
Safeway swing shift was where my wife had her first 2 affairs. No one is around to hear your conversations and when the person in charge is her, the dudes prey away.
One might say she put the “swing” in “swing shift”
I’ve heard that Amazon workers are notorious for sleeping around with coworkers, don’t know if it’s true though
Call centers
Yup, especially sales because everyone has good banter.
Yes but it's so dangerous! Everyone talks. I worked in three different call centers, never did sales always customer care. Anyways, those people have lose jaws and love to talk.
Can confirm this did call centers for a few years and everybody was fucking eachother.
Lawyers.
Retail, but is only anal and does not involve actual sex.
But anal is still sex though..
Not at retail, there is only pain and suffering
Exotic dancers for private parties they always want to stay longer than the agreed time
The two that came to mind were politics and porn
Politicians … they F us all one way or another 🤷🏻♀️🤣🫣
Car dealerships
Law enforcement
Front of house and back of house in a lot of restaurants lol
Politics, at least figuratively
Working at a bar/restaurant. Those were the days!
Home improvement stores
Corporate America.
IT, with all the travel you do.
Retail (how I met my bf)
Police
Dealerships. If your girl is a service advisor or in finance, or even a cashier she will eventually get ran through 😂