For a while just after highschool I seemed to date netball players. Not sure how that happened. Then in my 20s it seemed every other date I went on was with a nurse. Probably something subconscious there.
As I've gotten older it's definitely assertiveness and independence. They don't *need* me but they want to and choose to be with me.
Oh no I mean I played Rugby League. I wasn't very good but I was 120kg and most of it up top so they let me pretend I was. It's played in Australia and they play it in England but it's not all that popular there. I don't think really anywhere else.
I had to actually really think about it too. Attraction can come in different packages but there’s always something that makes us interested in the first place
Fuuuck that’s too much self reflection for a Sunday morning.
I guess they were ambitious but kind and gentle. Strong but not insecure bossy tantrums strong. Clever girl strength.
Oddly enough they became a therapist or social worker... 3 girlfriends, 1 boyfriend. Didn't work out with any of them and they eventually went to or already were in college to become a therapist in one way or another. And no it wasn't intentional.
I have exclusively dated/had sex with gamers.
Bonus points if they get a bit awkward/flustered when I obviously flirt with them. Chivalry and submissiveness also seem to be quite common in the guys I'm attracted to.
They all are in creative fields. Some were musicians, some did poetry, one was a cartoonist that drew comics. Looks wise they varied but when I really think on it, they all were some type of artist.
Only thing in common is they were men.
I've only "chosen" one of my dozens of sexual partners. The rest were clients while I was prostituting. So I guess the most common trait is handing me cash before we fuck.
This one is odd. I have had a lot of girlfriends on the schizo spectrum. In fact when I told my ex(and now best friend) with schizo-affective disorder about my new girlfriend her exact words were "how do you seem to land all the schizo bitches?"
95% of them have been women of color. mainly indian
and latina. i definitively prefer women with darker features but i do find all races attractive no matter what.
A mental illness that only a small fraction of the population is said to have. Multiple ppl with DID, two partners who experienced hallucinations and delusions, BPD. I’m not seeking these folks out or anything, and they’ve all been healthy partners. (Except for one guy, but his developing psychosis had nothing to do w our relationship being kinda toxic.) Just a random coincidence I guess? Also, multiple blonde trans women have been interested in me? Like, initiated things w me? I love trans women, and I’m attracted to all hair colors, but idk just a weird coincidence. From all over the US too.
I seldom ever make the first move, and I mainly only let bisexual cis men and any cute trans person who has the confidence to approach me hit. My partners political opinions are important too. Oh, also, a lot of my partners who thought they were cis men when we were together ended up being nonbinary.
Also being taller than me, but I’m literally 5’1 so. I’d gladly sleep w anyone shorter than me though :3 what a lovely change of pace that would be.
Many ethnicities and backgrounds and histories, typically queer and has a mental disorder that isn’t widely known about. Oh, also! Autism! Many of my exes have been autistic too.
(I’ve been diagnosed with ADHD, depression and anxiety if anyone is curious. PTSD was a heavy suggestion but we decided to revisit it later n treat me for ADHD first).
I'm a 32 year old dude who just entered his first relationship a couple months ago. All of the women I've hooked up with were either unable to get pregnant, had an IUD or were very vigilant about their birth control, or they were very clear about the prospect of getting an abortion if they were pregnant. I've always been like 95% sure I don't want kids so the fact that I have this track record without intending to is, by itself, impressive. My girlfriend also has an IUD but wants kids some day. I like to think that maybe she'll end my streak and we'll be together for the long haul.
I like bigger girls, so there's that for physical. For non-physical.. well I don't wanna judge intelligence, but most of them had a lower education than me. I'm often contemplating if it is a subconscious preference of mine or just random.
They're all people I would be friends with even if we weren't lovers.
It's been 25 years or so, and my first and I were texting each other dumb videos yesterday.
Dark curly hair, bigger breasts, and larger hips, never knew I had a “type” until my now wife started commenting on how most of my ex’s (as well as her) looked similar!!
I guess the common denominator isn’t physical- but circumstantial- the party lifestyle (alcohol). I’ve only really been with people I’ve met while drinking and being my crazy fun self.
Angry and voilent....i need to make better choices.
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They seemed nice first....
Tall. I'm 5'6 and all my past girlfriends have been taller, usually over 6ft. Current gf is 6'5
I'm 6'1 and a lot of my girlfriends were under 5'5. My current is 5' and my most recent ex is 4'11
Some kind of body modification, either tattoos or piercings.
I like those too, most of my partners had beautiful tattoos
Same for my partners but sadly I'm not very attracted to tattoos or any body mods. It just so happens the women I hit it off had them.
For me tattoos can either be extremely attractive or extremely unattractive. I personally really like when women wear tattops and do so myself
Sweetness. My type are sweet wonderful ladies with a hidden naughty side🤷♂️
They turned out to be carbon copies of my toxic mom's personality.
Big boobs
Same
Simple, but a trend lol
They’re foreign and have a different native language than mine / the country we live in.
Nice legs
Beer belly’s without being drinkers lol
Dang too bad I like beer
I call mine a whiskey belly
For a while just after highschool I seemed to date netball players. Not sure how that happened. Then in my 20s it seemed every other date I went on was with a nurse. Probably something subconscious there. As I've gotten older it's definitely assertiveness and independence. They don't *need* me but they want to and choose to be with me.
Loool my uni days were rugby players (I’m a netball player). Must be a sports thing.
🙋 Rugby League hahaha
I dunno it was uni rugby!
Oh no I mean I played Rugby League. I wasn't very good but I was 120kg and most of it up top so they let me pretend I was. It's played in Australia and they play it in England but it's not all that popular there. I don't think really anywhere else.
Ohhhh I see. Well hi!
I'm British and I used to play
Dominant, confident woman
All but one , nice tits
Booty
They had penises
Good shoulders 🤔🤔
Dark hair/eyes
Had a really wide variety, especially if we are including blowjobs. But on some level, I am attracted to their personality
glasses, muscles and tattoos
Piercing tattoos daddy issues and most of the time a questionable past lol
Aside from painfully low standards in men? The vast majority have had really nice hips/asses.
Tattoos or piercings :)
They all had facial hair. I am attracted to bearded men.
Now that I think about it, they've all had dark hair
I had to actually really think about it too. Attraction can come in different packages but there’s always something that makes us interested in the first place
Yeah I don't go looking for dark haired guys, guess it's just a natural attraction. They've all had very different styles and personalities though.
Gamers 🫠 I like gaming too but I also like when someone spends time with me…
Been mostly a mixed bag but would have to say brunette.
Fuuuck that’s too much self reflection for a Sunday morning. I guess they were ambitious but kind and gentle. Strong but not insecure bossy tantrums strong. Clever girl strength.
Vibes
Oddly enough they became a therapist or social worker... 3 girlfriends, 1 boyfriend. Didn't work out with any of them and they eventually went to or already were in college to become a therapist in one way or another. And no it wasn't intentional.
None of them would prioritise me
Pretty boys 😚
Short, Redheads
All my 3 girlfriends were swimmers at a competitive level. Which is weirs because I hate swimming 😂
Blonde
They're all nerdy in a way?
I have exclusively dated/had sex with gamers. Bonus points if they get a bit awkward/flustered when I obviously flirt with them. Chivalry and submissiveness also seem to be quite common in the guys I'm attracted to.
They all had viganas.
They all are in creative fields. Some were musicians, some did poetry, one was a cartoonist that drew comics. Looks wise they varied but when I really think on it, they all were some type of artist.
All were virgin
My condolences
I needed this
Only thing in common is they were men. I've only "chosen" one of my dozens of sexual partners. The rest were clients while I was prostituting. So I guess the most common trait is handing me cash before we fuck.
majority of the boys have short blonde hair and no tattoos
Most of them were 6feet tall
Almost all had some form of physical disability - common life experiences, y'know lol
They were in their 20s
Vagina Also, slightly chubby at a minimum Not my preferred shape, but I'm not the type to place that much importance on looks
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lol rip your DMs if penis is the only pre req
They all had a dick
None
They were (at minimum) pretty good cooks, had a pet at some point in their life if not currently and were taller than me
Most have been tall with tattoos
This one is odd. I have had a lot of girlfriends on the schizo spectrum. In fact when I told my ex(and now best friend) with schizo-affective disorder about my new girlfriend her exact words were "how do you seem to land all the schizo bitches?"
All had hairy chests. And were taller than me (easy when you’re 5’2”)
They have all had vaginas.....so far.
Majority were petite…
Lower libido
Mostly guys, some girls
Perfect ass
Kind women in public, freaky behind closed doors !
Beautiful light colored eyes. Its the eyes, chico, its always the eyes...
Bubble or fat butt
They’re.. male?
All brunettes.
95% of them have been women of color. mainly indian and latina. i definitively prefer women with darker features but i do find all races attractive no matter what.
Being Asian.
Pretty much all of them were cheaters
A mental illness that only a small fraction of the population is said to have. Multiple ppl with DID, two partners who experienced hallucinations and delusions, BPD. I’m not seeking these folks out or anything, and they’ve all been healthy partners. (Except for one guy, but his developing psychosis had nothing to do w our relationship being kinda toxic.) Just a random coincidence I guess? Also, multiple blonde trans women have been interested in me? Like, initiated things w me? I love trans women, and I’m attracted to all hair colors, but idk just a weird coincidence. From all over the US too. I seldom ever make the first move, and I mainly only let bisexual cis men and any cute trans person who has the confidence to approach me hit. My partners political opinions are important too. Oh, also, a lot of my partners who thought they were cis men when we were together ended up being nonbinary. Also being taller than me, but I’m literally 5’1 so. I’d gladly sleep w anyone shorter than me though :3 what a lovely change of pace that would be. Many ethnicities and backgrounds and histories, typically queer and has a mental disorder that isn’t widely known about. Oh, also! Autism! Many of my exes have been autistic too. (I’ve been diagnosed with ADHD, depression and anxiety if anyone is curious. PTSD was a heavy suggestion but we decided to revisit it later n treat me for ADHD first).
Facial hair
All have been women.
Big tits
Their hair was shorter than shoulder length.
I'm a 32 year old dude who just entered his first relationship a couple months ago. All of the women I've hooked up with were either unable to get pregnant, had an IUD or were very vigilant about their birth control, or they were very clear about the prospect of getting an abortion if they were pregnant. I've always been like 95% sure I don't want kids so the fact that I have this track record without intending to is, by itself, impressive. My girlfriend also has an IUD but wants kids some day. I like to think that maybe she'll end my streak and we'll be together for the long haul.
I like bigger girls, so there's that for physical. For non-physical.. well I don't wanna judge intelligence, but most of them had a lower education than me. I'm often contemplating if it is a subconscious preference of mine or just random.
A lot of musicians.
Insecure and low sex drive.
Nerds 😅
Bisexuality. I'm not really sure why, but apparently I'm just a man that attracts bisexual women.
They're all people I would be friends with even if we weren't lovers. It's been 25 years or so, and my first and I were texting each other dumb videos yesterday.
Dark curly hair, bigger breasts, and larger hips, never knew I had a “type” until my now wife started commenting on how most of my ex’s (as well as her) looked similar!!
All were black or mixed race. Guess I have a type
Blue eyes, don’t know why though, I’m actually more attracted to brown eyes.
I guess the common denominator isn’t physical- but circumstantial- the party lifestyle (alcohol). I’ve only really been with people I’ve met while drinking and being my crazy fun self.
Volleyball/softball players lol
Big bellies and muscular arms for men, shorties with big tits for women
Have some melanin in their skin
Really nerdy and a bit 'chubby'. Damn I love that type of guy though ...
Most were in computer science or engineering
Bbw
Usually they will taller and more muscular than me.
Crazy I’ve been taller and more muscular than most the ppl around me
Being taller than me
Tall, funny, intelligent
6ft +
Tall, cocky, sarcastic, southern engineers. Both of them. Huh.