A little over 4500 years. Not even death is the limit.

Looking forward to our first date where you finally give me the sweet release of death

That would probably be the end of the limit for them, but not you, huh?

Ghost sex.

Is that on CBS?

Are you the one who put madness into the minds of men?

38. I had sex on the first date. Anal on the second.

Sounds like fun dates

It was. We dated for 4 months. I experienced a lot of firsts with him.

One women wanted to have anal on the first date. I was surprised how easy mine could go in. It definitely wasn't her fist time doing anal😂

Mine has been loose since I tore to my anus giving birth to my daughter.

Mine is loose too since I've also taken it often with all sorts of things haha

What happened on the third?

More anal.

Good girl!

Don't call me good girl.

I'm sorry... Bad girl!

Anything girl.

Sorry, beautiful lady!

Lol, better. 😉

double anal?

That's my one rule, too! No anal on the first date. Otherwise, no holds barred, lol.

anal on the first date, ftw!!!

I’m GenX, meaning time is getting short and I am perfectly happy to go to the ends of the sexual universe on the first date if we truly click.

Elder millennial, and same. I'm still a hopeless-ish romantic, but as I've gotten older I've started to feel more and more like sex is just sex. If there's attraction, I don't get syphilitic serial killer vibes, and they can manage not to say or do anything to annoy me for like 15 consecutive minutes, that'll do on my end. That said it's all a bit academic at this point in my life, I'm ride or die with my partner, and she's a little more *discriminating* when it comes to potential thirds..

I'll go first: kissing only. I'm 45, F.

How do you cut it off?! As an adult it’s so hard to control over indulgence. (For me)

that's a good policy

I'm 29 and always let them know that I'm one to have sex on the first date. If they say that they don't want it I'm completely fine with that

I'm over 40. I'm married now but when I was dating, I would do anything but sex on the first date. after a couple one night stands, I decided no more sex on the first date.

I'm 31 and I'll do pretty much anything

41. I’d probably fuck on the first date if the person and I were really digging each other

Really? 41 and this much horny … I like it

I didn’t get to have much of a wild era due to severe depression so it’s time to have fun and start dating again lol

Every age is wild era if you want to ….try orgies ? Do you think it can be a thing for you ?

I really only want to date and my goal ultimately is a committed relationship so although something like that sounds hot it’s probably not my thing 😂

37 and as much as the other person is willing to do. I need to know that their energy matches mine as to not end up in a stale or sexless relationship

35 and as long as we’re clicking I’ll go all the way

41 depends on how thirsty she is. Then I might get her a drink

38. When I was dating, I would kiss or maybe make out on the first date. That’s it.

Gender?

I’m a woman

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Gender?

Had ex on the first date too?

27 and I wouldn’t do more than a kiss on the first date, personally

I’m 19 F, and I’m open to kissing and maybe further if they play their cards right

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I’m 47M and have been married for almost 29 years. No more first dates for this guy.

Same age and married almost 20 years. No dates here 😂😂

Sorry, meant 20….not 29. Damn fingers!

I got what you meant 🤗🤗

20, usually only suck on the first date

What percentage of your first dates would you say end that way?

Currently, at 50, I'm not dating, but in my dating years, I had sex on a first date, even losing my virginity at 21 on a first date.

Look at you. Taking you only live once seriously 😂.

There are stories.

Love some good stories

32. I’m good with wtv as long as vibes are right and there’s no pressure

I’m 41F. If I had to ever go on another one, probably all the way if it went well.

Depends on the date I suppose. Usually it was just hugs and stuff for me back when I was in the dating game. I'm 34 M

30 I’m open but probably not sex but I’m down for most other things

Mid 30’s man here and all the way for the right person but that would be rare I think.

40’s. Anything up to but not including anal play 

30M, realistically a hug at most if it’s a first date.

59m and willing to do wherever she wants me to do it wants to do with me

41, probably just oral and intercourse if I ever do go on a first date again.

29, pretty much anything that doesn’t require planning or prep, like anal.

39. Man. Whatever shes up for.

30's, and anything where my safety isn't compromised as I don't trust them to tie me up yet.

25, open to anything if we click

31 m, sex is on the table.

I don't wanna date, just wanna be alone

26, open for anything on the first date if it goes well

Are you also open to ending his entire potential on getting a family if it doesn't go well?

I mean why not if you’re having fun and click. Might as well enjoy your life & be open to all the experiences.

Exactly!

Plus if it’s good you can keep on going back!

36, no limits.

47 and kiss.

I'm 22. Sex is definitely an option on a first date if the vibe is right

35, kissing for sure. def have gone all the way but normally that ends it as far as hopes for a relationship.

47 M and if we hit it off I’ll go as far as she consents me too

36m and I think it depends on the chemistry of messages leading up to and throughout the date. If things are very good why put a limit?

Im 22 but I already have my first date

55 and I put out on the first date

Depends on the vibe of the date, but I'm old enough that anything is possible and on the table. Something simple as an innocent first date to really getting to know one another.

43 Group sex

18F, a hug if I really like them

I love this answer

Missed this question (while at work today), but glad to see a few more reserved responses here. 64 (M) and married 32 years. Haven’t had a first date in 35 years.

19M about the same

52m...when I did go on a date,it ended with a kiss or making out. Sex was either the 2nd or 3rd...

45m at this point in my life I'd like to experience as much as I can. Whatever is on the table. If their down I'm down.

Im 23 but making out is the most unless I’ve known them for some time or connect really well

50M, I am not single but I am afraid that I will be soon, so I have given this a little thought. Kissing would be fine, but I have no intention to be the slut that I was in my younger days.

i'm kind of a man slut so if there is a good vibe and things are flowing well then i'm willing to do everything on the first date. only if she's sober. i may be a man slut but i also have a consent fetish.

18 m, it truly depends on how the person is feeling and what the vibe of the date is. honestly would do lots for a first date, if granted things went successful, we're having a blast.being goofs, not giving a damn what people think, then I suppose we doing everything with some exceptions to that. if I feel that we aren't vibing for wtv reason, I'd gladly offer a hug, cuddles, or anything not sexual as a gesture of our time together and appreciation 🫶🏽 either way it goes...I'm going to make the best out of it and enjoy one another's company along with finding that flow.

60m and while I haven't been on a first date in a long time I would go all the way 

27F, a firm handshake, maybe a hug if we get on really well. I don’t like physical contact with people I don’t know well.

I am 47 and female and have not been on a date in a long while. It would depend on whether my date is was a woman or a man. I wouldn't do public humiliation with a man on a first date, but I would do most other things if we clicked right. With women, I have trouble saying no to anything anymore.

From the time I was about 13, on every first date up until now, my main goal has just been to get to know someone on a relationship basis. Even if it's a date with a long time friend, how would it look in a relationship. I try to stay away from even kissing and such because to me, that feels like a relationship, when in reality, I'd like to see my options before I choose someone to find a deep connection with. It is something I had trouble with in the beginning and it led to a lot of bad relationships but I'm getting better at it.

30. I'll have sex on the first date fine. Even going down would be great for me. But I dont expect the best sex ever on that first meeting.

M47. I'll go all the way on the first date if the chemistry is there. But I also meet with women for the express purpose of having sex, so if I was on a more traditional date, I'd be comfortable with getting to third base in part because of that.

20, usually only suck on the first date

67 M. I will go as far as she wishes (assuming she's sober - I had to fight off a drunk woman in college, which is why I mention it).

38 and for the right person I'd do whatever feels right.

29M, and if the date is going well and she and I are into it, I'm fine having sex from top to bottom.

29M, I suppose I would be open to sex on the first date, but I've never wanted it so far. Usually just a hug is fine. I guess technically when I met up with my previous girlfriend for the first time we had sex within a few hours of meeting but also we had been long distance for some months prior so not sure if that counts.

I'm 30 and I've only kissed after a first date. I've had one-night stands, but I wasn't in love or crushing on the other person. If I do have a crush on someone, I don't think I want to have sex on the first date... Is that weird?

29M I’m super unlikely to have sex right away or try to escalate physically. I want to know her a bit first.

61M. Used to go all the way at the drop of a hint. College was one long fuck-fest. Was in the "lifestyle" for a while. When I turned 50, something changed. I still love sex, but would rather keep it simple with my wife. All those relationships and trying to keep everyone happy was too much work. Really enjoying my one partner now. Still have fantasies and we'd consider something more, but it would take the right people in the right place at the right time.

I gave up.dating.

34 and happy to fuck on the first date if the connection and attraction is there!

I've been married a long while, but I think I'd still only go as far as a low intensity kiss. I've had girls ask if I was up for more (blowjob, sex, even making out etc) and I'd usually say something along the lines of "ooooo my desire to do that is very very much there... let's build it some more. It'll be even better." That often went well. In fact... my wife and I kissed very sweetly on our first date and she asked if I wanted to "come up for a bit" and I said something along those lines. To this day, she said by the time we had sex she was "desperate for" me "to fuck" her. I made her cum 4 times that fateful night hahaha. First with my mouth, to be clear.

38 and there is no limit if there is a a connection

I’m in my 40s & haven’t had a first date in a quarter of a century… but if the chemistry was there my date wanted sex, I’d certainly not turn her down

44 M, I would definitely… but I would never expect it. I suppose I’m 2 for my last three first dates.

40, we can do everything but hold hands.

Over 40 and it depends

Depends of what?

What man is it 🤣😂

Lol if it’s your dream man, he can expect the full treatment 😂

Dream man don’t exist 🤣😂

You’ll never know till you find him or maybe a dream woman 😅

I’m too old to believe that

F over 40 it I am

And how far you go?

Where?

Sorry mean how much are you willing to do?

Why would you like to know it?

That was the question 😂

lol this is a shitshow. almost nobody is fully answering the question op asked. i’m super curious about genders here, but most people are forgetting to include it!

51, all the way

43(m), I'd let her peg me on the first date...so yeah.

Early 40s and the limit doesn’t exist

53F, depending on the person and the vibe, I'd have sex on a first date.

I’m in my 30s, and still regularly fuck on the first date 😘

37. Happy to do whatever on the first date if that's where things end up, though I'm never pushy about anything so in practice that doesn't often happen and I'm fine with that.

Mid time late 20s. I won't spend more than 30 bucks total, including gas. It's a first date, it's casual. Cup of coffee and a walk in the park.

Im 23 and I'll probably be on my 1st date in August❤️❤️. Very excited to spend some time with my crush🥰🥰🥰

F/23 depends on what we’re getting to know each other for. If there’s a real vibe for something serious I wouldn’t go any further than a kiss but if we just want something short-term(or long-term fun) he could start fucking me as soon as he wants😌

35. If I want to fuck on the 1st date I do

39F. Probably not anal but everything else likely on the table. One coffee first date ended up with public sex at a sex cinema. 🥰🥵

40m And that teally depends on who and situation, but given the right circumstances: the only thing I'm not willing or wanting is anal. (Does not even have to be a date tbh, the "right person" with the "right energy" could knock on my door, as long as I'm not asleep)

49F, everything if I like him. Life's too short.

Im 29, and ill go all the way on the first date, fetishes and all

35, and all the way

39F, pretty much since i had sex the first time, i've been willing to have sex on the first date. doesn't mean i always (or even often) do, but i don't necessarily carve out a time period or rules for what i'll do/not do on the first date.

50ish. I’ve taken girls to swingers clubs on the first date.

42, male, and I'd go as far on the first as I would on the twentieth. But happy to take it slow, too.

54 and yes I’d have sex on the first date.

30s. Don’t like to do anything on a first date. If it’s a date, then I’m looking for romantic partnership and I’ve come to learn men put you in one of two categories. So have to be patient or else you’ll be in the “slut” category and never move from there. That’s been my experience at least.

57 today actually. Been married for 35 years; I am male. I would do anything on a first date, just please show me some attention.