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Being ghosted afterwards. Personally when I occasionally have those experiences with someone I try to actually get to know them and show interest in their lives as a penpal. Like doing kinky stuff is nice and all but I prefer genuine respect/bonding, not like I wanna be their online boyfriend but it would be nice to make a new friend. But it makes me sad when afterwards it seems to be going well and they say āIāll text you tomorrow youāre a sweet guyā and I wake up to find they deleted their account. I donāt take it quite as personally anymore but it still hurts
That also irks me, I just donāt waste my time with that anymore. If your gonna reply with one word messages Iāll just politely wish you a good rest of your day and then buzz out of there
For anyone whoās done that and reading this, FUCK YOU! Youāre hurting people and itās not funny. If you blackmail people with nudes you deserve whatever messed up shit that happens to you
Especially when it goes from instant replies to longer and longer, and an hour+ in between replies. Or you're engaging well into the conversation and they're short worded responses.
Speaking for myself - itās not something I would ever show a friend or even talk about unless at a very high level with no details or descriptions. I canāt think of a time when a friend has shared anything like that with me either. So, anecdotally, it doesnāt seem to me that this is common.
Agreed, there are definitely times where I did over do it. (Because when I get really horny, I loose my mind) but then there are times, where they just start sucking not long after beginning. Idk why itās so hard to find a good sexting partner these days.
When youāre both having a great time, and the other person says something entirely random or out of place/off topic. It can really take me out of it. Especially if itās something that couldāve waited.
Like midway through sexting, the other person randomly interrupts it by saying something that couldāve waited.
āOMG MY CAT JUST PEED ON THE CARPET LOLā
Couple things. You put in a lot of effort and you don't get a lot back.
When it's over. I love sexting. And I think I'm pretty good at it. After it's over I always want more LOL
When the other person takes too long to respond. My ex used to do this a lot. We would send a few sexy messages back and forth and then she just wouldnt respond for a few hours. Then would finally reply with a sexy message and I would be like "I already came like two hours ago"
Not being the same level of horny. One person might just be getting into it and the other is like dying to cum already
Yea it really turns me off when someone is just way too extra and detailed like damn I didn't even reply yet
It's the person hitting me up constantly with that shit all the time like dude I'm with my family right now get your horny ass outta here
Agree! Constant
š so true!
When you are really good at it and the other person gets off and then ghosts you before you can.
This is the worst... why can't they start again and go for round 2 instead of ghosting
That is just bad etiquette. Downright rude. And yeah gals on voice will do that too.
Does that happen a lot to you?
Too many time. I don't like to brag though.
I am surprised but not really. I guess part of the fun is the exchange and interaction.
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Not being able to physically touch them. Long distance kind sucks
Triple checking that you sent it to the right person.
Typing with one hand
Speech to text. Problem solved
Being ghosted afterwards. Personally when I occasionally have those experiences with someone I try to actually get to know them and show interest in their lives as a penpal. Like doing kinky stuff is nice and all but I prefer genuine respect/bonding, not like I wanna be their online boyfriend but it would be nice to make a new friend. But it makes me sad when afterwards it seems to be going well and they say āIāll text you tomorrow youāre a sweet guyā and I wake up to find they deleted their account. I donāt take it quite as personally anymore but it still hurts
I would never even say āIāll text you tomorrowā if I wasnāt open to chatting more. Thatās just lame.
Thatās the nature of the internet thou. If anything it makes meeting the nice people that much more valuable
This
Agree! Respect is very important.
Not being as horny as they are or get interrupted while doing it.
Being the only one writing things. I hate people who just respond oh yeah oh yeah
That also irks me, I just donāt waste my time with that anymore. If your gonna reply with one word messages Iāll just politely wish you a good rest of your day and then buzz out of there
Once they cum they dont reply
Accidentally falling asleep
Accidentally sending it to the wrong person, potentially making yourself the target of blackmail, public humiliation, or possible criminal charges.
For anyone whoās done that and reading this, FUCK YOU! Youāre hurting people and itās not funny. If you blackmail people with nudes you deserve whatever messed up shit that happens to you
Agreed 1000% percent. Peeps who do that are gutter scum.
Oh yea that's fucked. Never know how old someone truly is on here either. It gives it am extremely risquƩ vibe
Sexting someone with no imagination.
That and they don't really engage into the fun. No give, all take.
It's almost always awkward getting started.
Is that why you need all the naughty ideas PMād to you?
The ghosting.
When they take forever to respond and it ruins the mood /:
Especially when it goes from instant replies to longer and longer, and an hour+ in between replies. Or you're engaging well into the conversation and they're short worded responses.
This
Initiating š
Post but clarity
the starting and stopping stroking it and then the āi came already :/ā text
Knowing that inevitably, they're going to show someone else
I think about that all the time. Like do ppl just do this to show their friends and laugh or be weird? Idk I get it tho
Speaking for myself - itās not something I would ever show a friend or even talk about unless at a very high level with no details or descriptions. I canāt think of a time when a friend has shared anything like that with me either. So, anecdotally, it doesnāt seem to me that this is common.
Not being able to actually do what you're saying you want to. I can't bend over and get railed.
When they ghost you
Getting about half way into it and the other just stops and doesnāt communicate so your just sitting there naked
Now you know you ain't have to get naked for that š¤£š¤£š¤£š¤£
Am if Iām a nudist
Oh well that's different lol
Waiting for the reply, itās like getting virtually blue-balled lmfao
When your not in the same wavelength or super slow responses.
Yea that makes you feel weird like damn did I over do it?
Agreed, there are definitely times where I did over do it. (Because when I get really horny, I loose my mind) but then there are times, where they just start sucking not long after beginning. Idk why itās so hard to find a good sexting partner these days.
Using only one hand
When youāre both having a great time, and the other person says something entirely random or out of place/off topic. It can really take me out of it. Especially if itās something that couldāve waited.
Elaborate please
Like midway through sexting, the other person randomly interrupts it by saying something that couldāve waited. āOMG MY CAT JUST PEED ON THE CARPET LOLā
ššš get yo dirty ass cat then yea they weren't even interested to begin with if they do that
When the other personās replies arent as much as you want. Or if they take forever to do so
1. You never know you are sexting a gay 2. They will ghost you anytime and you will be left high and dry
Wen woman doesnt take the time to build up like proper foreplay and enjoy it or wen they not on same level
Unless you are on voice, that was probably a dood.
What is voice?
Voice sexting. Actually talking to another human being while masturbating.
For me, usually, itās just finding someone into my same kinks! And then initiating that conversation ha ha
What are some of your kinks that never took off in conversation?
Trying to get them to cum at the same time as you!
You send something pushing the boundaries a little bit and they don't reply right away. Were they put off or just away from their phone?
Probably put off. I've been. It's like some folks don't get some ppl might not be into all that and you came in way too hot
Eh, at least half the time they message back 6-24 hours later excited by it.
Getting ghosted
Getting ignored
Falling asleep
Aw man it starts to get good and boom. Drooling on the couch wake up and forget all about it
Couple things. You put in a lot of effort and you don't get a lot back. When it's over. I love sexting. And I think I'm pretty good at it. After it's over I always want more LOL
When the other person takes too long to respond. My ex used to do this a lot. We would send a few sexy messages back and forth and then she just wouldnt respond for a few hours. Then would finally reply with a sexy message and I would be like "I already came like two hours ago"
Not being able to eat them out
Personally, when one side is doing all the work. Like, if you want to read some smut, thereās stuff in the net for that. I look for a back and forth
When they arenāt as interested into it as you. Hate sitting there waiting for a response. And half the time they just want you to send pictures.