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catboogers

Hedonism II resort in Jamaica, or other adults only beaches might be a good idea....


ShibariTurtleDuck

Would love to go to Hedonism one day but for now we're wanting to stay local.


middle-agedyeller

First and foremost, some matters of safety — I would recommend against playing *in* the water directly if she is going to experience any restriction of mobility. If you’re planning on a bathing suit/nude tie, bring something to warm up after or during. As far as not getting in trouble goes, FL (both Florida and FetLife) might be your best bet for finding someone with either private or restricted beach access. You have the right mindset in highlighting risk first! There’s a beach shibari event that was specifically focused on photography in Florida that was active last year — I’ll look for the name.


ShibariTurtleDuck

oh ya no, water exposure would be limited to tidal pools if that because drowning is a risk. Bathing suit is the plan but if it's a nude beach then that isn't off the table. I also have the plan to have multiple people there that are certified in water safety/diving. I do believe in PRICK and have multiple plans for safety. (I didn't think to list those but some people are stupid. I get it.) I did cross post this in a few places to have the best chance at finding answers. Fetlife and Florida boards being on that list. I know others have found places to do shoots I just have no idea where. Oh a beach shibari event? Ok that gives a direction. I somehow missed that. ::runs to the search bar to try to find it.::


middle-agedyeller

Phew! Sorry if you already knew that but I like to err on the most basic information just in case someone didn’t know. I’m glad you’re well-versed with PRICK and other risk techniques; apologies for assuming otherwise. It might have been through SILK/SSF — I’m going to keep looking!