I’m so so sorry. Can’t imagine the pain. My boy is 8 yo soon and it scares me that there’s less time left that we’ve had together already.
I’m sure it’s the right decision, but the hardest one. I’m sure your baby lived the best life with you.
To you, he was a major part of your world. To him, you ARE his world. Find peace in the fact that he never has to figure out how to navigate life without his person, and all of his days were spent next to his best friend. Dogs don’t live as long as humans because they’re naturally selfless and loyal, they don’t have to encounter the same trials and tests humans do before they get to level up. I’m sorry for your loss, I know how devastating this is.
Thank you 🥹 Yes, it’s like all the love and positive emotions you’ve got from having a dog are in direct ratio to the pain after the loss.
What’s your baby’s name? I’ll think of you and him on Monday 😢
I'm so so sorry. We had to make that decision when our girl was only 3 years and 3 months. It sucks, it sucks so bad. Be kind to yourself and allow yourself space and time to grieve. Our pack is thinking about you both
Thanks for the kind words...I'm sorry for your loss it's always to soon. I thought I'd have at least a couple more years but he is tired and the spark is gone from his eyes. My mind knows it's the right choice but my hart is broken
We lost our 5 yr old German shepherd a week ago and we’ve been super crushed we didn’t expect it. The first few days are really rough did a lot of crying and wishing it was just a nightmare and hoping we’d wake up. We had to just try and get through one day and then another and realize even though I’d give anything to have him back it’s not going to happen and life won’t ever be the same without him. Each day gets a little easier because you don’t expect to see him in the house or wherever you normally interact with him. Things will get better but they won’t ever be the same. My heart goes out to you my friend.
I'm so sorry for your loss, thank you for the kind words, GSD's are such majestic creatures. I'm thankful that I got a friend with a GSD that loves me to death that I can cuddle when the pain get's to much (dog tax included.)
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Thank you and your welcome. They sure are amazing we still have one a girl. That boy next to you reminds me of him. He had longer hair and a big blocky head like that sweet boy.
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Azor will forever be a part of you. Just know he loves you as much as you love him. And that love will help you get through this difficult step. Sending you lots of positive energy for strength and healing.
Thanks he is and always be stunning, I tried to give him all. I'm glad for all the hearts and the sweet boy he such a social dog my nephew absolutely adores him.
Im so sorry, for us is never easy, we miss them so much, we are never prepared to say goodbye, but it's just a moment in countless others that they were there, and like the good teachers they are, don't live that moment forever, because you need to go on and tell the stories when you meet again
I’m sorry OP. I’ve been there and I know it is heartbreaking. We will be thinking of you guys and hope you get to enjoy your last days together as bittersweet as that is. ❤️💔
Please, please know that you are giving him the kindest, most selfless gift. I know it’s impossibly painful, and there aren’t really words that’ll make it better. You’ll be on my mind, I’m so sorry. Sending you so much love.
My heart is with you. Lots of strength for you for the upcoming weeks. I said the hardest goodbye almost a year ago and it still chokes me up some days or straight up makes me cry.
The hardest part for me was the first few days and then a few weeks. You’ll need to honor the grieving process and set a new routine.
It’ll be quiet, empty, gut wrenching, sad, devastating, sweet, and then some.
Make sure to have support and don’t get stuck in the dark part of it.
It will get better. Slowly, but it will be bearable again.
The reason why it’ll hurt so much is because the ride was amazing. Try to cling to that approach when the emotions hit you. That it was once in a lifetime deal.
Some people process better if they take time off, to me distraction was everything at the beginning.
I could not stand the quiet.
Take good care of yourself.
im so sorry for your loss, thank your the kind message. I will cherish the memories. I will take your words of advice to heart. I sure was one hell of a ride.
Hey considering the circumstances, I'm doing okay got lots op puppers visiting me al week. And good talks. I was a little scared that my depression would kick into full swing but so far so good. Stil have to get used to things but that was to be expected. Thanks for checking in !
May they run free and have so many balls that they can't chose which one to fetch first. I think there will be one though for a special occasion, the time you two meet again.
I'll try, that is my dearest memory of him at my lowest of lows putting my head down om the table and all of a sudden his nose on my face saying it was gonna be okay.
That’s really even harder to deal with then.
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Smile. My guy said you have to
I’m so so sorry 😔 We take on their pain to spare them having to endure it. That grief, unfortunately, is the price we pay for love. You are doing the right thing though - you can’t let him suffer. Sending strength to you, OP. Just know that he will live on in you for as long as you draw breath.
I'm so sorry. We had to make this decision with our Malinois last year. It's so hard; they're very special dogs. Your boy is obviously very loved and has lived a blessed life with you. <3
Im so sorry for your loss, it's never easy to pick the right time. It's completely understandable to want to have them around as long as possible. I'm sure he is waiting across the rainbow bridge and probably will have a ball with your name on it.
I hope so 😭
we had a good year longer than we should have. We had good times. During covid, I got stuck in another state for 4 months. My boy (Moe) was taken care of by a colleague who said he saved their life. They were considering suicide and taking care of Moe was what they needed.
So even if I only had him for 3 years, he lived a very consequential life. I hope he'll be there waiting for me on the other side.
This is exactly wat happend to me, considering a permanent answer for a temporary problem. This beautiful animal kept all my demons at bay by himself...
What an amazing breed, I’ve had one since 4wks since the mother refused to feed him anymore, and he has the most insane work ethic and focus of any dog I’ve ever owned.
Sorry OP. Azor is an incredibly handsome boy and I trust has had an amazing life. Letting go is so, so difficult. When you finally pick up the pieces of your broken heart, Azor will have taken one with him, but that’s okay. I’ve been through this before too, and time may dry the tears, but the pain is there, but so are the memories, and that’s what keeps me going. One time our late boy got into our bagels we just bought. Hadn’t put them away yet even, and he ate 11 bagels, left me one, one bagel! We laugh about that memory.
I’m sure you and Azor have many great memories that will never leave. Much love to you, and Azor 💜. It’ll be okay.
When the time is right, to consider another dog, and you’ve picked up the pieces of your heart, remember good boys like Azor want that for you. [A Dog’s Will & Testament](https://www.myfurryvalentine.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/LoveILeftBehind.png)
We really invest our heart and soul into these beautiful, happy, loving animals. I still can't even think about my one little guy ---- and he's been gone over three years.
The time we have with them goes so quickly. OP: I hope you have at least one human to support you during this awful awful ordeal.
In case you ever want to "talk" with those who know exactly what you're going through --- access the forum/chat on [https://www.rainbowsbridge.com](https://www.rainbowsbridge.com) It helped me, a bit, to share the anguish.
Hope you won't forget to look after yourself. Exercise and drinking plenty of water is a must. Good luck to you.
There are no words but thank you for taking the time out of your day to reply kind stranger, it touches my heart that so many took the time to write something
My boy just turned 16, he's stumbling a bit when he walks, sleeps most of the day...and is having accidents in the house a bit now....I have a vet appointment Monday to make sure he's ok and not in any pain I'm terrified what they might find. He still comes by, puts his head on my lap and looks at me like hows' it going dad?
this is the worst, your furry baby loved you unconditionally no matter what. It freaking sucks, don't let anyone tell you how long you need to take, it's your time to recollect all the wonderful memories you created together, and process and grieve. I am truly sorry for your loss. Azor will alway be with you. Cry scream wtfc it hurts...again my deepest condolences.
Thank you for your kind words, that's one thing about Azor and me we really didn't give a lot about what people thought. First time dog owner and mal at that. The odds were stacked against us but boy did we make it work. 80% his part of course but, I am happy I was along for the ride.
If I Should Grow Frail
(AKA "The Last Battle")
If it should be that I grow frail and weak
And pain should keep me from my sleep,
Then will you do what must be done,
For this -- the last battle -- can't be won.
You will be sad I understand,
But don't let grief then stay your hand,
For on this day, more than the rest,
Your love and friendship must stand the test.
We have had so many happy years,
You wouldn't want me to suffer so.
When the time comes, please, let me go.
Take me to where to my needs they'll tend,
Only, stay with me till the end
And hold me firm and speak to me
Until my eyes no longer see.
I know in time you will agree
It is a kindness you do to me.
Although my tail its last has waved,
From pain and suffering I have been saved.
Don't grieve that it must be you
Who has to decide this thing to do;
We've been so close -- we two -- these years,
Don't let your heart hold any tears.
-- Julia Napier
Remember the amazing adventures you had and the quiet moments only you and he understood. Listen when the wind blows, he won’t let you get lost. Your heart is breaking right now, but it will mend. He will never be replaced, but another can take their place by your side and together you’ll write a new chapter, with more incredible adventures and quiet moments. He will guide another to your side when he knows your heart is ready. Listen to the wind, he won’t let falter or get lost.
Better a day early than a day late. I’m sorry for your loss. Walk fearlessly into the house of mourning, for Grief is only Love who has come up against its oldest challenge.
I had to make a very tough decision almost two years ago as well. My first and only dog to date. I had him since he was a puppy. I haven’t cried so much in a long time and since then either. I talk about him weekly , I miss him too much but he is in a better place NOW. I enhanced my life in many ways but isn’t suffering anymore. I never understood why dogs have such a short lifespan. It’s not fair. But there must be a reason.
Be thankful for the amazing time you’ve had together, you will see him in the future again. Until then, he won’t want you to be sad because he’s up there missing you while running after balls. Sending you a hug from the distance
Such a handsome boy! I’m so sorry for your loss. Our pups are a small part of our lives (time wise), but we’re their entire world. I’m sure you treat him amazingly, so just know that he lived a happy happy life and that you consistently made another being feel loved for their whole time on this earth.
My heart breaks for you. I just went through something similar with my twelve year old German Shepherd. No matter how many pets we have, it never gets easier losing them. Take solace from the fact that you have given him a wonderful life. Hugs from Colorado.
Thank you for kind message, I luckily have a friend I can go to anytime that has a gsd that love me to death.
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I'm sorry for your loss, I have a feeling that things won't be okay for a long time however I will pull through. He showed me strength beyond measure and I have a feeling his memories wil give me just the little push I need.
It’s so hard. I was never a big crier, but Bauer earned my tears over the 12 years we spent together. Honor your friend, take the time you need and do what you have to do to cope. Nothing anyone does or says will make this better.
I'm the same, never a big crier which of course doesn't mean you don't feel the pain but boy I didn't know I could cry so much. Thank you for taking the time out of your day to message a stranger.
Why though?
My dogs berserk setting might be putting him on the table. Is that this?
My dog won't accept others around us he goes wild. It's horrible and it's happened since age 9wks old and only got worse with people and dogs. Especially people with dogs.
Leash barrier fustration is what I've wread about which sounds like it. It's all my fault though I don't have a social life then suddenly I do.
Not to mention my children I fought 3yrs to find again I now have and anytime now my 3 children will be over and I just don't see a world where my kids visit irregular and dog learns to be cool.
He doesn't know what to do with people in the home. So he sheperd them pressed on their legs growling. Barking if they move suddenly but they are feeling adrenaline 3000.
But he's never been dangerous YET. I fear If it happens once then it's his go to state though. It's never happened and I've done my absolute best to keep it that way. Inc other dogs charging him off leash. Usually rabbit sized dogs too which just annoys me. Now I'm wrestling him into sit whilst he throw full fury fit jumping up me growling whining trying to get the muzzle off. Thrashing like a shark 🦈.
But once he's got it out the way once he's much better the 2nd time that day. Better after that. Even ignored people but new day is a new day. Irregular guests isn't going to cut it.
There's many docile gsd bsd dogs I know only one freind also male has one like mine. He wants to be alpha dog.
30min after arriving a freind came up. 6wk old puppy was fine watching him. Then a gust of wind blew through spammed the back door and 6wk 4day old puppy spun charging Barking straight at the noise. Then come to slow stop puzzled there's nothing there. So trotted bsck over to us.
He just looked at me eye brows up he's active.
I never would have chosen the dominant big male from any litter. Nor ever think to take a young dog like that either.
It's illegal I stupidly didn't count the dates because its law and because his ears were both fully erect and he was big I thought atlesst 8wks. Until a comment after delivery. That didn't help me at all and really annoyed me.
I was so focused on getting a puppy from family home with children there lots of facetimes. Family dog got pregnant. The breeder wasn't intrested in money either.
He charged just £500 for the pup including first vets, vax and Micro chip included in that 500.
I thought ide found the best person for my dream pup. Bsd/gsd mix.
Then the breeder requested my puppy to stud aged 12mnths and I refused. But decided they probably used a young GSD male to breed last time too. Since the GSD looked smaller than the mother ever so slightly.
I hope a kennels would take him in and it force him to accept lots of people and dogs around. But they all said no thanks reactive sheperds aren't rehomed.
So I'm at a loss now just taking each day but feeling like trapped living with a tiger. Who hates the world just as much as I did when I lost everything restarted after a year got puppy and it was bliss till age 9wks then he barked at everything. Now he does try to stiffle barks seeing people pass by. But when on lead he's a prowling wild cat ready any moment. Ultra twitchy.
I’m so so sorry. Can’t imagine the pain. My boy is 8 yo soon and it scares me that there’s less time left that we’ve had together already. I’m sure it’s the right decision, but the hardest one. I’m sure your baby lived the best life with you.
This is the worst part of having a dog. But he is so loved by many. He made my life so much better. I pray your boy may live a long and healthy live.
To you, he was a major part of your world. To him, you ARE his world. Find peace in the fact that he never has to figure out how to navigate life without his person, and all of his days were spent next to his best friend. Dogs don’t live as long as humans because they’re naturally selfless and loyal, they don’t have to encounter the same trials and tests humans do before they get to level up. I’m sorry for your loss, I know how devastating this is.
Thank you 🥹 Yes, it’s like all the love and positive emotions you’ve got from having a dog are in direct ratio to the pain after the loss. What’s your baby’s name? I’ll think of you and him on Monday 😢
His name is Azor :-) thanks for your kind message
Please give Azor an extra hug from me and my mal 🥹
I will definitely do that!
I'm so so sorry. We had to make that decision when our girl was only 3 years and 3 months. It sucks, it sucks so bad. Be kind to yourself and allow yourself space and time to grieve. Our pack is thinking about you both
Thanks for the kind words...I'm sorry for your loss it's always to soon. I thought I'd have at least a couple more years but he is tired and the spark is gone from his eyes. My mind knows it's the right choice but my hart is broken
He's a beautiful boy and clearly so loved <3
We lost our 5 yr old German shepherd a week ago and we’ve been super crushed we didn’t expect it. The first few days are really rough did a lot of crying and wishing it was just a nightmare and hoping we’d wake up. We had to just try and get through one day and then another and realize even though I’d give anything to have him back it’s not going to happen and life won’t ever be the same without him. Each day gets a little easier because you don’t expect to see him in the house or wherever you normally interact with him. Things will get better but they won’t ever be the same. My heart goes out to you my friend.
I'm so sorry for your loss, thank you for the kind words, GSD's are such majestic creatures. I'm thankful that I got a friend with a GSD that loves me to death that I can cuddle when the pain get's to much (dog tax included.) https://preview.redd.it/xd7jo7qelkyc1.jpeg?width=3000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=21f7a417bc6b4cdbdbd465ed3c4e8c7ec5633a44
Thank you and your welcome. They sure are amazing we still have one a girl. That boy next to you reminds me of him. He had longer hair and a big blocky head like that sweet boy. https://preview.redd.it/vi973vlm6lyc1.jpeg?width=3024&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=acd3c2696266d12755ac8c3c98e92200aee3af5c
What a majestic creature, he must have brought so much joy!
Thank you! He sure did. He was always happy.
Azor will forever be a part of you. Just know he loves you as much as you love him. And that love will help you get through this difficult step. Sending you lots of positive energy for strength and healing.
Thank you for the kind words, he has a very special place in my heart till my dying breath
Beautiful dog! I am sure you gave him the opportunity to life life to its best!
Thanks he is and always be stunning, I tried to give him all. I'm glad for all the hearts and the sweet boy he such a social dog my nephew absolutely adores him.
How old is he and what's his name?
He is nearly 8, and his name is Azor :-)
That's way too young I am sorry! But sounds like it where 8 great years. Just be thankful you could provide him a loving home
Im so sorry, for us is never easy, we miss them so much, we are never prepared to say goodbye, but it's just a moment in countless others that they were there, and like the good teachers they are, don't live that moment forever, because you need to go on and tell the stories when you meet again
thank you for you beautiful words!
I’m sorry OP. I’ve been there and I know it is heartbreaking. We will be thinking of you guys and hope you get to enjoy your last days together as bittersweet as that is. ❤️💔
Thank you for message, well be having some long cuddles and walks !
Please, please know that you are giving him the kindest, most selfless gift. I know it’s impossibly painful, and there aren’t really words that’ll make it better. You’ll be on my mind, I’m so sorry. Sending you so much love.
Yeah I know in my mind that's the best for him...but my heart is in pieces thanks for your kind words
in my 50s and regret to say I have dealt with this many times over the years. the only solace I have is finding a new best friend hugs and much love
Thank you for your message, once this sadness passes I wil definitely, get another friend in the hope that fills the void a little bit.
Sending love and hugs from my Piper and our family 💔💔 Hope your Azor gets to meet my Garth on the other side, they'll be great friends
I hope they can chase all the things when they meet, thank you for your kind words.
So sorry OP, hang in there!
Thanks for your message
crying my eyes out for you and your best friend. sending love and I'll say a prayer for you both.
I could use a couple of prayers thanks I'm feeling lost...
My heart is with you. Lots of strength for you for the upcoming weeks. I said the hardest goodbye almost a year ago and it still chokes me up some days or straight up makes me cry. The hardest part for me was the first few days and then a few weeks. You’ll need to honor the grieving process and set a new routine. It’ll be quiet, empty, gut wrenching, sad, devastating, sweet, and then some. Make sure to have support and don’t get stuck in the dark part of it. It will get better. Slowly, but it will be bearable again. The reason why it’ll hurt so much is because the ride was amazing. Try to cling to that approach when the emotions hit you. That it was once in a lifetime deal. Some people process better if they take time off, to me distraction was everything at the beginning. I could not stand the quiet. Take good care of yourself.
im so sorry for your loss, thank your the kind message. I will cherish the memories. I will take your words of advice to heart. I sure was one hell of a ride.
Thank you! Take good care of yourself!! ❤️
Hey man, how are you doing?
Hey considering the circumstances, I'm doing okay got lots op puppers visiting me al week. And good talks. I was a little scared that my depression would kick into full swing but so far so good. Stil have to get used to things but that was to be expected. Thanks for checking in !
Glad to hear! ❤️
I wish all animals were this loved💔
my heart just cried when I began to read this! I lost the love of my life on 12/16/2019.
May they run free and have so many balls that they can't chose which one to fetch first. I think there will be one though for a special occasion, the time you two meet again.
Man I’m really really REALLY sorry to read that. Try and hold your head up as he wouldn’t want you to be too sad
I'll try, that is my dearest memory of him at my lowest of lows putting my head down om the table and all of a sudden his nose on my face saying it was gonna be okay.
That’s really even harder to deal with then. https://preview.redd.it/mbpyqhm02dyc1.png?width=750&format=png&auto=webp&s=bb30d49a949e4342c850e2289243f8db572bac1f Smile. My guy said you have to
Omg this so typical mal behaviour, definitely puts a smile on my face
I was thinking it might 😄
Definitely the worst part about a dog being your best friend. I’m dreading the day. Deepest sympathy
Thank you for your message, hope you have to wait a long time for the day.
I’m so so sorry 😔 We take on their pain to spare them having to endure it. That grief, unfortunately, is the price we pay for love. You are doing the right thing though - you can’t let him suffer. Sending strength to you, OP. Just know that he will live on in you for as long as you draw breath.
Truer words have never been spoking I'd pay that price everyday thank you for taking the time out of your day to write this lovely message
I feel your pain, I hope you're happy memories can help assuage your grief
Thank you for your message!
You are welcome. We lost our lab just before COVID struck so I understand how you are feeling.
The worst time ever to lose a dog, im so sorry for your loss
I'm so sorry. We had to make this decision with our Malinois last year. It's so hard; they're very special dogs. Your boy is obviously very loved and has lived a blessed life with you. <3
They are so insane, so smart so loving.
I'm so sorry. I lost my boy 2 years ago. It was so hard and I regret waiting as long as I did because he suffered 🥺
Im so sorry for your loss, it's never easy to pick the right time. It's completely understandable to want to have them around as long as possible. I'm sure he is waiting across the rainbow bridge and probably will have a ball with your name on it.
I hope so 😭 we had a good year longer than we should have. We had good times. During covid, I got stuck in another state for 4 months. My boy (Moe) was taken care of by a colleague who said he saved their life. They were considering suicide and taking care of Moe was what they needed. So even if I only had him for 3 years, he lived a very consequential life. I hope he'll be there waiting for me on the other side.
This is exactly wat happend to me, considering a permanent answer for a temporary problem. This beautiful animal kept all my demons at bay by himself...
What an amazing breed, I’ve had one since 4wks since the mother refused to feed him anymore, and he has the most insane work ethic and focus of any dog I’ve ever owned.
If you can turn that prey drive in to focus it's insane what you can accomplish once that clicked every thing fell together
Sorry OP. Azor is an incredibly handsome boy and I trust has had an amazing life. Letting go is so, so difficult. When you finally pick up the pieces of your broken heart, Azor will have taken one with him, but that’s okay. I’ve been through this before too, and time may dry the tears, but the pain is there, but so are the memories, and that’s what keeps me going. One time our late boy got into our bagels we just bought. Hadn’t put them away yet even, and he ate 11 bagels, left me one, one bagel! We laugh about that memory. I’m sure you and Azor have many great memories that will never leave. Much love to you, and Azor 💜. It’ll be okay. When the time is right, to consider another dog, and you’ve picked up the pieces of your heart, remember good boys like Azor want that for you. [A Dog’s Will & Testament](https://www.myfurryvalentine.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/02/LoveILeftBehind.png)
Thank you for your kind words. it's amazing he left one for you what a great memory to have !
We really invest our heart and soul into these beautiful, happy, loving animals. I still can't even think about my one little guy ---- and he's been gone over three years. The time we have with them goes so quickly. OP: I hope you have at least one human to support you during this awful awful ordeal. In case you ever want to "talk" with those who know exactly what you're going through --- access the forum/chat on [https://www.rainbowsbridge.com](https://www.rainbowsbridge.com) It helped me, a bit, to share the anguish. Hope you won't forget to look after yourself. Exercise and drinking plenty of water is a must. Good luck to you.
Thank you for your kind message, I luckily have very caring friends and family also with some fur friends.
Take care.
Many prayers
Just recently lost my pup and it was rough but it does get better.
I'm sorry for your loss, I'm sure he was loved dearly
Did that in November, 18 years together, heart breaking
I'm sorry for your loss but what a long beautiful live he must have had.
Thank you and I'm really sorry you have to say goodbye to your beautiful friend as he goes to his next journey.but what a gift it is,to be by his side
I don't know what to say......
There are no words but thank you for taking the time out of your day to reply kind stranger, it touches my heart that so many took the time to write something
My boy just turned 16, he's stumbling a bit when he walks, sleeps most of the day...and is having accidents in the house a bit now....I have a vet appointment Monday to make sure he's ok and not in any pain I'm terrified what they might find. He still comes by, puts his head on my lap and looks at me like hows' it going dad?
I pray that you may have another year it's always to soon. Hug the old man for me.
this is the worst, your furry baby loved you unconditionally no matter what. It freaking sucks, don't let anyone tell you how long you need to take, it's your time to recollect all the wonderful memories you created together, and process and grieve. I am truly sorry for your loss. Azor will alway be with you. Cry scream wtfc it hurts...again my deepest condolences.
Thank you for your kind words, that's one thing about Azor and me we really didn't give a lot about what people thought. First time dog owner and mal at that. The odds were stacked against us but boy did we make it work. 80% his part of course but, I am happy I was along for the ride.
Sorry friend. There are no words. He is a beautiful boy.
He is truly majestic and a such he will be remembered, thank you for your message.
If I Should Grow Frail (AKA "The Last Battle") If it should be that I grow frail and weak And pain should keep me from my sleep, Then will you do what must be done, For this -- the last battle -- can't be won. You will be sad I understand, But don't let grief then stay your hand, For on this day, more than the rest, Your love and friendship must stand the test. We have had so many happy years, You wouldn't want me to suffer so. When the time comes, please, let me go. Take me to where to my needs they'll tend, Only, stay with me till the end And hold me firm and speak to me Until my eyes no longer see. I know in time you will agree It is a kindness you do to me. Although my tail its last has waved, From pain and suffering I have been saved. Don't grieve that it must be you Who has to decide this thing to do; We've been so close -- we two -- these years, Don't let your heart hold any tears. -- Julia Napier Remember the amazing adventures you had and the quiet moments only you and he understood. Listen when the wind blows, he won’t let you get lost. Your heart is breaking right now, but it will mend. He will never be replaced, but another can take their place by your side and together you’ll write a new chapter, with more incredible adventures and quiet moments. He will guide another to your side when he knows your heart is ready. Listen to the wind, he won’t let falter or get lost.
Thank you for this beautiful poem, I will save this.
Better a day early than a day late. I’m sorry for your loss. Walk fearlessly into the house of mourning, for Grief is only Love who has come up against its oldest challenge.
Thank you for your kind words. I'm thankful that he is stil not really suffering and that I get the chance to say goodbye
I had to make a very tough decision almost two years ago as well. My first and only dog to date. I had him since he was a puppy. I haven’t cried so much in a long time and since then either. I talk about him weekly , I miss him too much but he is in a better place NOW. I enhanced my life in many ways but isn’t suffering anymore. I never understood why dogs have such a short lifespan. It’s not fair. But there must be a reason. Be thankful for the amazing time you’ve had together, you will see him in the future again. Until then, he won’t want you to be sad because he’s up there missing you while running after balls. Sending you a hug from the distance
This is also my first dog, he literally saved me.
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I’m so sorry 💔
Thank you for taking time out of your day to reply kind stranger. I never thought so many would reply, I guess my cry for help got answered.
Such a handsome boy! I’m so sorry for your loss. Our pups are a small part of our lives (time wise), but we’re their entire world. I’m sure you treat him amazingly, so just know that he lived a happy happy life and that you consistently made another being feel loved for their whole time on this earth.
Thank you for kind words, I did not always show it and maybe was to strict at times but boy is he loved
I’m sorry my dear friend. We can never be ready for our closest friends to leave us
That's the price to pay for unconditional love I guess, I'd pay it again in a heartbeat but boy is it though
I’m so very sorry for your loss!
My heart breaks for you. I just went through something similar with my twelve year old German Shepherd. No matter how many pets we have, it never gets easier losing them. Take solace from the fact that you have given him a wonderful life. Hugs from Colorado.
Thank you for kind message, I luckily have a friend I can go to anytime that has a gsd that love me to death. https://preview.redd.it/y9msr5rnvcyc1.jpeg?width=3000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3471820c65bbf62728d79193e73755863b8e1405
I feel for you. It’s awful, isn’t it. What a beautiful dog. Peace be with you!
He has you to thank for giving him and amazing life. My heart is with you. ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for your kind message
Sending you hugs for your beautiful baby
I'm so so sorry. I still miss my boy every day. He's beautiful, you did a wonderful job for him. I hope you're doing okay
I'm sorry for your loss, I have a feeling that things won't be okay for a long time however I will pull through. He showed me strength beyond measure and I have a feeling his memories wil give me just the little push I need.
It’s so hard. I was never a big crier, but Bauer earned my tears over the 12 years we spent together. Honor your friend, take the time you need and do what you have to do to cope. Nothing anyone does or says will make this better.
I'm the same, never a big crier which of course doesn't mean you don't feel the pain but boy I didn't know I could cry so much. Thank you for taking the time out of your day to message a stranger.
Why though? My dogs berserk setting might be putting him on the table. Is that this? My dog won't accept others around us he goes wild. It's horrible and it's happened since age 9wks old and only got worse with people and dogs. Especially people with dogs. Leash barrier fustration is what I've wread about which sounds like it. It's all my fault though I don't have a social life then suddenly I do. Not to mention my children I fought 3yrs to find again I now have and anytime now my 3 children will be over and I just don't see a world where my kids visit irregular and dog learns to be cool. He doesn't know what to do with people in the home. So he sheperd them pressed on their legs growling. Barking if they move suddenly but they are feeling adrenaline 3000. But he's never been dangerous YET. I fear If it happens once then it's his go to state though. It's never happened and I've done my absolute best to keep it that way. Inc other dogs charging him off leash. Usually rabbit sized dogs too which just annoys me. Now I'm wrestling him into sit whilst he throw full fury fit jumping up me growling whining trying to get the muzzle off. Thrashing like a shark 🦈. But once he's got it out the way once he's much better the 2nd time that day. Better after that. Even ignored people but new day is a new day. Irregular guests isn't going to cut it. There's many docile gsd bsd dogs I know only one freind also male has one like mine. He wants to be alpha dog. 30min after arriving a freind came up. 6wk old puppy was fine watching him. Then a gust of wind blew through spammed the back door and 6wk 4day old puppy spun charging Barking straight at the noise. Then come to slow stop puzzled there's nothing there. So trotted bsck over to us. He just looked at me eye brows up he's active. I never would have chosen the dominant big male from any litter. Nor ever think to take a young dog like that either. It's illegal I stupidly didn't count the dates because its law and because his ears were both fully erect and he was big I thought atlesst 8wks. Until a comment after delivery. That didn't help me at all and really annoyed me. I was so focused on getting a puppy from family home with children there lots of facetimes. Family dog got pregnant. The breeder wasn't intrested in money either. He charged just £500 for the pup including first vets, vax and Micro chip included in that 500. I thought ide found the best person for my dream pup. Bsd/gsd mix. Then the breeder requested my puppy to stud aged 12mnths and I refused. But decided they probably used a young GSD male to breed last time too. Since the GSD looked smaller than the mother ever so slightly. I hope a kennels would take him in and it force him to accept lots of people and dogs around. But they all said no thanks reactive sheperds aren't rehomed. So I'm at a loss now just taking each day but feeling like trapped living with a tiger. Who hates the world just as much as I did when I lost everything restarted after a year got puppy and it was bliss till age 9wks then he barked at everything. Now he does try to stiffle barks seeing people pass by. But when on lead he's a prowling wild cat ready any moment. Ultra twitchy.
Could you please delete this ? I don't think it's supposed to be here?
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What the fuck is wrong with you?