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czechtheboxes

**NEW UPDATES** Found a new update that doesn't yet qualify to be posted to BoRU? Found an update that you don't want to make a post for yourself? Link it here! Once it qualifies, feel free to submit as its own post. Edit: is your flair suddenly different or gone? [See here](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/LsCTvcDyss)


erica1064

Man's fiance is sleeping with his brother, gets pregnant, all the parents are happy about this. OP goes to live with his sister who is NC w/family because she came out. Sad ending.


FitSprinkles6307

The post of the dad left his wife of I think 25-30 years and I think 5 kids for his business partner. He married her and had a baby with her. The first wife died and he wanted to visit her grave and the kids wanted absolutely nothing to do with him. He even showed up at the hospital when she was dying and the kids wouldn’t allow him to see her. This was the very first story I read on Reddit. I always wondered how it ended.


Terrgon

Anyone know when the March 2024 edition is going to be posted?


Elegant_Bluebird1283

Give it a day, Leap Day William hasn't made it back to the Marianas Trench yet


lonelyJ28

I’m looking for an older one, can’t recall if it was a revenge or entitled people ones. Basically OPs grandparents had a farm with a summer camp type deal, and were giving use to local church but turns out they were charging people and pocketing the money. It ends up with them flooding out the fields when they knew they would be there I think


Nimelennar

[Farm Folk vs City Crew](https://www.reddit.com/r/ProRevenge/comments/jqk663/farm_folk_vs_city_crew/?rdt=64499)


tankieattacks

Seriously, dig into their other posts - fucking GOLD! but I'm very sad they stopped posting 3 years ago


Elegant_Bluebird1283

This has been bugging me for like three years but what "city crew" because there's no way that town is bigger than my zip code


lonelyJ28

That’s it! Thanks so much


constellationgame

[Farm Folk vs. City Crew](https://www.reddit.com/r/ProRevenge/comments/jqk663/farm_folk_vs_city_crew/)


lulllabyyy

Does anyone have the original post to this [link](https://toofab.com/2024/02/28/parentified-boy-plans-escape-family-11-kids-mom-dad-furious/?adid=social-tmzlikeshop-ig)?


Minute_Point_949

I read that on AITA a couple of days ago. I think the account was suspended.


whiskitgood

I only remember from the comments the parents being called dumbasses.


snowlock27

I've tried searching for some of the quotes from that article and all I ever get are links to that same article. There was one quote that linked back to the aita sub, but not the post itself, just the sub.


mandemango

Anyone has a link to [the original post?](https://vt.tiktok.com/ZSFSCDqM8/)


Minute_Point_949

[I think my ”husband’s” mistress thinks he is richer than he actually is. My best friend thinks I am a douche because I am keeping silent](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/1auve96/i_think_my_husbands_mistress_thinks_he_is_richer/) [Update](https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/1axjdjd/i_hade_a_showdown_with_my_former_best_friend/)


LadyNorbert

Oh, that's a great update! That OP just removed an awful lot of deadweight from her life and she's going to breathe so much easier.


mandemango

Thank you so much!


krakatoa619

Story about a wife false pregnancy delusion from the husband POV. I forget where i read this.


Aprich99

https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/r2thlm/ops_wife_is_convinced_shes_pregnant_but_all_tests/


Elegant_Bluebird1283

not the point but man that guy was quick to call all the *other* women with the same condition "fucking crazy"


Other_Temperature_73

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1b34y90/update_my_26f_best_friend_23f_might_be_in_love/?share_id=sUfN6P3XYAwwfIoCwNGBP&utm_content=1&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_source=share&utm_term=1 someone post this please! unfortunate,  and possibly more updates to come :/


Material-Paint6281

Comment this link in the pinned comment made by Czech.


WiseBat

What vile people those two are. I’m glad they’re together because now it means they’re saving other innocent people like OP from their bullshit. I hope a raccoon dies in their walls and they can’t find it. Edit: Not that I want animal to die but animal poop doesn’t stick around quite like decomp.


[deleted]

There was a story here recently where OP was friends with her male roommate's girlfriend (they would hang out even without the guy, get coffee together, and watch movies), but after the roommate and his GF broke up, OP realized that the friendship was only circumstantial.


BlytheBlues

The one where the gf accused her of crossing her boundaries by refusing to leave for a weekend when OP needed to sleep at the apartment on Sunday?


[deleted]

That was it. Thanks! https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/1aq2ke1/aita_for_ruining_my_flatmates_anniversary_weekend/


ChulainnRS

So I swear it was posted on this sub, but I can't find it. There was a post at some point of a story where the OOP was chilling in his apartment watching TV, and saw a kid watching from outside his window. Iirc, OOP was chill about it, but the kid's mom made a big fuss about the kid being grounded from TV. If anyone can help me find this, i's be very grateful


AloeVera_Tan

i think it is this post? [https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/v1o80b/entitled\_mom\_asks\_oop\_to\_turn\_off\_their\_tv\_when/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/v1o80b/entitled_mom_asks_oop_to_turn_off_their_tv_when/)


ChulainnRS

This is it! How tf did you even find it that fast? Thanks a lot


AloeVera_Tan

i was just a frequent visitor to the mentioned sub in the post and no problem


liefieblue

I am looking for the post - by the mother in law - where she stalked her son's family until they had to move, and was even looking for an investigator to track them down when she noticed their house was empty. She also wanted grandparents rights. Thank you!


AloeVera_Tan

could it be this post? [https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/13wsuoi/shes\_back\_my\_f50\_daughter\_in\_law\_24f\_gave\_birth/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/13wsuoi/shes_back_my_f50_daughter_in_law_24f_gave_birth/)


Elegant_Bluebird1283

Damn, we need to get her in contact with [this guy](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/zqhk2c/neglectful_moron_alienates_his_daughter_by_trying/) edit Man, I forgot how *drenched* the first post is in "my son is a helpless stupid idiot who doesn't understand anything and is always wrong and confused"


liefieblue

That was a great read - thank you! Amazing how clueless people can be to their own behaviour, isn't it?


Elegant_Bluebird1283

Some part of me does feel sorry for them, in that same way I feel sorry for a dog at the vet... "Aw, you're angry and scared and confused and nothing anyone can do or say will ever make you understand why"


liefieblue

That's it! Thank you so so much!


AloeVera_Tan

no problem


PRINCESSFANCYFARTS

I’m looking for any posts about the healthy kid that was abandoned/neglected for the sick kid and years later the parents try to act like nothing happened


SparkAxolotl

[https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/ry6gym/aita\_for\_telling\_my\_parents\_they\_only\_have\_one/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/ry6gym/aita_for_telling_my_parents_they_only_have_one/)


PRINCESSFANCYFARTS

Thanks!


ihtsp

There was another case where the OP was sent to live with his aunt/uncle and when his uncle died in an accident, his mom and sister insisted that they needed him more. And there is yet another where OP was sent away then he acted as though he didn't recognize his parents when they approached him at a funeral


TeslasMonster

Dang I want to read that second one if anyone remembers the post itself


virtualchameleon23

Is it the "are you my dad's brother?" post? https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/s/ZwHzTxATs6


TeslasMonster

Perfect. Thank you!


AloeVera_Tan

[https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/11w2ol3/new\_update\_ops\_father\_wants\_to\_have\_a/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/11w2ol3/new_update_ops_father_wants_to_have_a/)


Elegant_Bluebird1283

God, even when he's trying to reconnect the ONLY thing he says about her is that she was "a difficult teenager"


PRINCESSFANCYFARTS

Thank you!


AloeVera_Tan

no problem


Sufficient_Bag_4551

Are there any updates on the woman who stole her partner called Chase. She tried to bribe her way into one of the kids affection with Lego but the eldest daughter who caught them cheating hated her. The ex wife was on the scene and the OP always described her as BM. The OP changed her username and the second one had Pam in it somewhere (there was an update where they all went to visit his family in the US and they made it clear they preferred the ex)


AloeVera_Tan

someone also asked for the post that you wanted back in January [https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/18w5vhx/comment/kh5ntsl/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web2x&context=3](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/18w5vhx/comment/kh5ntsl/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3)


Sufficient_Bag_4551

Thank you


AloeVera_Tan

no problem


ResidingAt42

Looking for a post that I think(?) was a BORU. OOP is a woman who has a younger sister who intentionally baby-talks or something like that. I remember specifically the younger sister said the word "jumper" as "lumper" or "y-umper"? Their mother encourages it and allows it, but OOP is frustrated because she knows it will harm her sister as she becomes an adult. I think there was resolution, but I'm not sure.


SparkAxolotl

Not even remotely the one you asked for, but the "baby talk" reminded me of this other one [https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/nltrhf/husband\_talks\_like\_a\_baby\_for\_a\_year\_killing\_his/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/nltrhf/husband_talks_like_a_baby_for_a_year_killing_his/)


AloeVera_Tan

would it be this post? [https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/s6wicv/aita\_for\_telling\_my\_sister\_to\_stop\_using\_nonsense](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/s6wicv/aita_for_telling_my_sister_to_stop_using_nonsense)


ResidingAt42

Yes! That was it! Thank you. I thought the younger was 17 not 27 though. Also, she used "jump" instead of "jumper." What a weird story. Again, thank you for finding it!


AloeVera_Tan

no problem


tslgirl

Hi! I’m looking for the post where a couple had done very well financially and were helping pay for schooling, etc for some family members. Her sister-in-law started hinting about them paying for a luxury holiday, and when they refused she told the whole family that the couple had money and it all escalates from there.


AloeVera_Tan

i think these are the posts you are looking for [https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/zmzs61/the\_story\_of\_oops\_very\_entitled\_inlaws\_part\_1/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/zmzs61/the_story_of_oops_very_entitled_inlaws_part_1/) [https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/zmztmz/the\_story\_of\_oops\_very\_entitled\_inlaws\_part\_2/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/zmztmz/the_story_of_oops_very_entitled_inlaws_part_2/) [https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/zmzvwr/the\_story\_of\_oops\_very\_entitled\_inlaws\_part\_3/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/zmzvwr/the_story_of_oops_very_entitled_inlaws_part_3/) [https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/zmzxd6/the\_story\_of\_oops\_very\_entitled\_inlaws\_part\_4/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/zmzxd6/the_story_of_oops_very_entitled_inlaws_part_4/) [https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/zmzyx3/the\_story\_of\_oops\_very\_entitled\_inlaws\_part\_5/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/zmzyx3/the_story_of_oops_very_entitled_inlaws_part_5/) [https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/178y7a2/the\_story\_of\_oops\_very\_entitled\_inlaws\_part\_6/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/178y7a2/the_story_of_oops_very_entitled_inlaws_part_6/)


tslgirl

Thank you!


AloeVera_Tan

no problem


Nimelennar

And a couple of newer updates on the profile.


snowlock27

I think I know which one you're referring to. I can't help but think there's dozens of updates to that one. I just can't think of what keywords to search for.


AloeVera_Tan

i remember the keyword being LTU, or "LoveTap Uncle" gonna link the posts real quick


snowlock27

That's it. User is Burneraccount-909876


IrishGingerSpices

Looking for a post Woman ask is she was she the a hole for starting her wedding without her father because he decide to help a neighbour with his car turned up late and was sulking the rest of the day


Direct-Caterpillar77

https://www.rareddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/y1yuns/aita_for_not_waiting_for_my_dad_to_walk_me_down/


-my-cabbages

Anyway someone could paste the post in the comments?


biez

> I love my dad and he loves me. He has this weird need to be useful. > He has missed countless events that mattered to me because he was doing someone a favor. > I told him that if he was late for my wedding I would not wait. > I guess he forgot because someone from his church needed some help with their car on Saturday. > I did not hesitate. I had my uncle ready to go. My uncle has always been there when my dad lets me down. > My dad showed up twenty minutes into the ceremony. I guess he thought I would wait. > At the reception he was crying because I am his only daughter. I took away his only chance to do this. I am just sick of being an afterthought. > My mom says I hurt him. I just think he has hurt me by not putting me first ever.


LadyNorbert

I wish this one had an update. It's a perfect illustration of the trope "The Cobbler's Children Have No Shoes."


shyadventurer56

Hello! Looking for a post that I think of from time to time - it was OP who had a girlfriend who kept sending money to her sister for everything and he realised it all added up. Honestly, so much money 🙈 whenever I’m having bad day, I read it cause imagine someone giving away that much money!


raitosureya

[Money is just paper](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/ukETqLEbVq) Here you go


shyadventurer56

Thank you!! My goodness, I hope he is doing better but what a wild ride! 🤯


DatguyMalcolm

oh he should be fine His ex, tho? I bet she's not saying "money is just paper" anymore while being hounded by her faaaamily into getting a job to pay for their shit


shyadventurer56

Yeah defo! 😂 it’ll take her a long time to save up money and hopefully make her realise how much she gave away!


PracticalAd7593

Not the one you are looking for, but similar vibes: [https://www.reddit.com/r/Marriage/comments/14kbmqm/how\_can\_i\_get\_my\_husband\_to\_stop\_giving\_money\_to/](https://www.reddit.com/r/Marriage/comments/14kbmqm/how_can_i_get_my_husband_to_stop_giving_money_to/)


shyadventurer56

Thank you! Never seen this one but my god, hope he stops 😩 and paid back at least!


TheSilkyBat

Hi, I'm looking for a post where OP (who is male), was r\*\*\*d by a woman while he was drunk. I think she was jailed because she had recorded it and the police were able to get the video.


dontgetcutewithme

Did his wife leave him for "cheating" before the video was discovered? https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/itxur8/my_wife_thought_i_used_my_sexual_assault_as_an/


TheSilkyBat

That's the one! I can't remember if there was an update.


dontgetcutewithme

There is, but it's small. >Hey guys. I'm going to keep this brief. We just finished our first couples counseling session and it's only further solidified my intention to go through with divorce. >During the session, my wife admitted that if there wasn't substantial evidence, she'd probably continue believing that I was a liar and a cheater. It made me realize that she only felt guilty for how she made me feel after she was proven wrong. If it weren't for my incredible lawyer, she'd still think I was lying. >So, we're getting a divorce. My wife has agreed to keep it as clean as possible. We don't have any kids and we're renting a house together so it shouldn't be too messy. >I think I got the closure I wanted from couples counseling and I don't think we need a second session. Thank you Reddit for your kind words. >TLDR: We're done.


TheSilkyBat

Thank you for finding these for me.


AWildJaker

I'm just looking for posts with some major vindication feels, anyone have any good ones? I can pay in bad puns!


AloeVera_Tan

[https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/15w0wk1/girlfriend\_of\_five\_years\_is\_spending\_all\_her\_time/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/15w0wk1/girlfriend_of_five_years_is_spending_all_her_time/) [https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/wb7ahb/op\_finds\_out\_her\_so\_of\_3\_years\_is\_talking\_to/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/wb7ahb/op_finds_out_her_so_of_3_years_is_talking_to/) [https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/124gp6u/i\_finally\_told\_my\_sister\_no\_one\_gives\_a\_shit\_shes/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/124gp6u/i_finally_told_my_sister_no_one_gives_a_shit_shes/) [https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/17552hr/aita\_for\_telling\_a\_mom\_her\_kid\_isnt\_special/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/17552hr/aita_for_telling_a_mom_her_kid_isnt_special/) [https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/z2vnfy/im\_on\_my\_way\_to\_f\_my\_sisters\_one\_true\_love/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/z2vnfy/im_on_my_way_to_f_my_sisters_one_true_love/) [https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/wgwnu2/my\_wealthy\_dad\_died\_leaving\_everything\_to\_my/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/wgwnu2/my_wealthy_dad_died_leaving_everything_to_my/) [https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/165h1u2/ops\_coworkers\_keep\_trying\_to\_find\_out\_what\_their/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/165h1u2/ops_coworkers_keep_trying_to_find_out_what_their/) [https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/vzghkk/deadbeat\_dad\_complains\_on\_aita\_son\_discovers\_the/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/vzghkk/deadbeat_dad_complains_on_aita_son_discovers_the/)


DrOwldragon

Vin-di-cation!


anxious_dinosaurs

These were all FANTASTIC. Thank you so much for collating these


AWildJaker

Thank you!! Your pun: No matter how much you try to push the envelope, it'll always be stationery.


AloeVera_Tan

thanks Cyno


Helpful_Librarian_87

Uuuggggghhhhhhh, Daaaaadddddddd - that was **so**…. (said while smiling)


lolfuckno

There was this one from a while ago I've been struggling to find where OP is 7 or 8 months pregnant and doing her residency with exams around the corner and her police officer husband was getting mad at her for not having dinner hot, ready, and on the table for him when he got home from work. He was not understanding of her need to study or willing to reciprocate in dinners. Any help finding it would be appreciated.


sailor_farts

Looking for any where op tells someone that another person is bad news and they don't believe it, then come crawling back and crying when it becomes true. Or vice versa where a friend or comments tell op that stranger is danger and they don't listen then come crawling back crying lol. Just good ole drama


Akira_Reviews

Ooooh. You should read that one, where OP discloses a friend's affair, and another friend supports the friend having an affair. Then later on down the road, that cheating friend ends up having an affair, with the husband of their friend who supported her. 


sailor_farts

Omg you got a link?


Akira_Reviews

https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/18fmt08/aitah_for_telling_my_friend_she_should_have_seen/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button


sailor_farts

This was awesome to read


eddkov

I'm looking for a post where OP found out that his entire family had helped his cousin/brother run off with his gf right before he was going to propose and that they had a family in Canada. I believe his mother was dying or something and it slipped out.


Mr_OA077

I remembered I asked for that too after watching a YouTube video about it.


ConfusionDry778

Looking for a post about a lady who rented a house and put up a raised bed garden and otherwise made the garden very personalized, and then her landlord gave her a notice to move, and so she packed up everything to move and the landlord was pissed because he advertised the house with the garden amenities


sammifr00t

Thank you for asking for this. I was actually trying to find it a few days ago for myself lol.


ConfusionDry778

Lol, for some reason I have been thinking about this post for the past week and couldnt find it, hence my comment. Im surprised it's a 3 year old post!


Direct-Caterpillar77

[AITA for bringing my garden with me when I moved?](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/hbdi4l/aita_for_bringing_my_garden_with_me_when_i_moved/)


Elegant_Bluebird1283

> Some of my coworkers suggested that IATA because the house valuation certainly has fallen dramatically LOL, christ, I guess it's not a union shop


Ill-Cardiologist-585

looking for the post where someone's parents were being fed anti lgbt stuff by the youtube algorithm so they went on their accoutn and watched pro lgbt stuff to try and change it but then aita said that was bad so they stopped, i think it was a bad ending but i cant remember fully


Direct-Caterpillar77

[AITA for curating my mothers youtube reels BoRU](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/UsSBvLR9FV)


acespiritualist

I checked the original post and I thought there would be tons of comments piling on OOP and that's why they confessed to their mom but it was just one guy! Whose comment ended up getting removed anyway. Such a frustrating post


StylishMrTrix

There is always someone who is on the opposite side to OP when they are not the A in the story


Similar-Shame7517

Right? Congrats to that guy and OOP, they made the world a worse place.


Ill-Cardiologist-585

thanks


CertainDepth4438

Woman has postpartum depression after giving birth, can’t form a bond or take care of her baby properly. Soon gives up the baby to her sister to look after, but she eventually gets better and gets her baby back. Sister is wary about OP having the baby again, and sues for custody(?). Happy ending I think.


[deleted]

There was an OP whose partner never let her decorate their house, and she suspected that he was cheating. Shortly after breaking up, she found pictures of him and another woman in the house, along with furniture that she didn't recognize, and it reinforced the idea that he had been cheating, which was why OP couldn't do any decorating (so that the other woman wouldn't know).


Direct-Caterpillar77

[My BF of 16 years won't commit to me, even in small ways BoRU](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/0btcoWsF4b)


[deleted]

Thank you.


Ramoth129

Someone mentioned on a recent wedding thread that there was a story "a few weeks ago" about a bridesmaid who couldn't figure out what shade her dress needed to be because nobody would tell her. They were actively trying to exclude her from the wedding. I've scrolled back pretty far, but I can't find it. Does anyone know which one this was?


Hilda_p13

[this one?](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/3XoF6CeQd4)


Ramoth129

I think that's the one!! Thank you and u/wormhole222 both so much for providing context and finding it!


wormhole222

Here sadly is the final final update which is kinda inconclusive and sad, but I like to pretend OOPs brother eventually saw through this crap https://www.reddit.com/u/Educational-Leg1046/s/WrQ0MQVucw


eazypeazy-101

Hopefully OP's little brother has also escaped. It sounds like OP's mother was borderline narcissist.


Ramoth129

Thank you so much!! Hoping the brother woke up. T\_T


esr95tkd

Apparently he did, but was babytrapped And he didn't want bio kids as a cancer survivor. That wast a good update AT ALL


wormhole222

I think this is the one where the bridesmaid is the sister of the groom, and the bride is trying to make the bridesmaid mess up. Bridesmaid does a genius job making bride look awful but groom doesn’t have the willpower to truly go far enough. I don’t have it atm but wanted to provide context to anyone who does.


Tale_of_Kenji

I am trying to remember an update about a young woman who, when talking to her mom about funny things from her childhood or decades ago, admitted to her mom about doing SOMETHING and OP thought mom would find it funny as just some weird/bad thing kids do but the mother got VERY upset and maybe slapped her? I think there was a chance that what OP did related to lying about some form of abuse or about a theft/disappearance of an object?


Nimelennar

[ AITA for telling my mother a lie my twin and I told as kids? It ruined our relationships.. ](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/1amfxh5/aita_for_telling_my_mother_a_lie_my_twin_and_i/?rdt=36369)


Tale_of_Kenji

Thanks, mate!


Nimelennar

You're welcome!


gretta_smith93

Can someone link the post where the guy “pranked” OP by faking unaliving himself?


Nimelennar

Probably this one: [ I'm leaving my boyfriend over a prank. ](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/116pif0/im_leaving_my_boyfriend_over_a_prank/)


MalBishop

I'm looking for a post where the man is essentially in a one-sided open marriage because his wife is poly, but she doesn't want him to see other women. He posts because he's uncomfortable with the things she does with her other partners that she doesn't do with him (the example he gives is making out & touching her partner in front of friends).


Nimelennar

[My monogamous relationship with my poly fiancé has broken down](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/11f4rx6/my_monogamous_relationship_with_my_poly_fianc%C3%A9/?rdt=37835)


MalBishop

Thank you!


Nimelennar

You're welcome!


oshitsuperciberg

Has anyone done the posts by the husband seeking to have his wife's wedding ring repaired after it was cut off her in an emergency, only to find that the ring shop that made it is closed, but he secretly gets the ring shop owner's children to repair the ring and gives it as a surprise?


AloeVera_Tan

would it be this post you are looking for? [https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/fo9509/my48m\_wife44f\_is\_going\_to\_be\_shocked/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/fo9509/my48m_wife44f_is_going_to_be_shocked/)


AloeVera_Tan

woops, i grabbed the older post here's a more recent one with some bit more details in the edit [https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/rcerxh/cant\_wait\_until\_thursdaymy48m\_wife44f\_is\_going\_to/](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/rcerxh/cant_wait_until_thursdaymy48m_wife44f_is_going_to/)


oshitsuperciberg

Thank you!


Odd-Satisfaction6243

OP has a older sister who is the golden child. I don't remember what the post was about but a good portion of it was OP ranting how her parents always favoured her sister. OP was born on Christmas day/ Eve when her sister was 2 and she was left to her aunt when they had to go to the hospital. The sister always talks about this and the parents favour her. They have never celebrated OPs birthday because her sister rants how she can't handle 2 events at once. Also they haven't celebrated her achievements and milestones because sister would always get \*sick\* or some other reason on that specific day.


Ytaken

Could it be [this one](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/Njl8ublWp2)?


Odd-Satisfaction6243

Unfortunately, this isn't the one I am looking for. Thanks for your valuable time.


Material-Paint6281

Hi. There was a post made by a brother who was in a kinda abusive home (verbal I think), and was wondering if he should leave. Then he decided to live with his sister, and while there he saw his sister cleaning up one of the messes created by his nibling along with the nibling, and thought "wow, my parents would have lost their shit at me for that" or something along the line. Also, the brother and sister were texting eachother from the same house telling each other that they're the best sibling. It was cute


Vlinderstruik

[there is this one](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/xydjagIujG) and [this one](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/Uhl5U3jxzs)


Material-Paint6281

yessss. thanks so much.


HazyLazySummer

I adore you! Zocht me zot.


Poor_eyes

Oh my god, I didn’t realize those two posts were connected! That sister is a rockstar


HazyLazySummer

It was 2 brothers that moved in with their sister, one was studying to be a chef. And I remember it clearly but can’t find it.


lexkixass

Could I get *walk the walk you wanking tit-baboons* as a flair? From [this post](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/t459g811ss)


Icy_Tip405

How very Jesus of you, I’m using that one.


lexkixass

? Sorry, I don't understand what you mean


BergenHoney

Read the linked post


lexkixass

\*facepalms\* Apologies, I read your comment too fast


Enabran_Taint

I love that OOP, there like 5 amazing flairs there. He sure knows how to turn a phrase!


Mammoth_Might8171

“Mother from the pits of Satan’s rectum” 😂


freerangelibrarian

"I fail to see what my hobbies have to do with this issue."


bungojot

"I warn you, I've killed a baby before."


StovardBule

"To the people who PM'd me telling me I'm a monstrous baby killer - I fail to see what my hobbies have to do with this issue."


iiguans

Looking for a post where the sister drugged the OP at a club where she made it seems that the OP was cheating on her fiancee, by taking pics. Last update I read, was that the OP father met up with her.


GoalMedical

Here's [the BORU. ](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/5a4R7APC2N)No updates since it was posted, though.


iiguans

Thanks.


GoalMedical

You're welcome.


Elmonatorrrre

1. ⁠OP’s fiancé’s best friend is a woman who has been trying to upstage her the entire relationship. When the fiancé asks the friend to be a grooms woman, she texts OP to basically “stay in her lane” and that the best friend is still more important in the fiancé’s eyes. 2. ⁠When OP was little, his dad found out that HIS dad/brother/friend (can’t remember which) did something to OP or one of his other children. His dad says goodbye to his family and then goes away for a very long time. It turns out that that person was molesting OP/his siblings, his dad ended up murdering his dad/brother/friend, and the very long time that he was away was his prison sentence.


Nimelennar

First one: [ AITA for telling my fiancé I won't proceed with our wedding if he insists on inviting his female friend? ](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/ulq3t2/aita_for_telling_my_fianc%C3%A9_i_wont_proceed_with/?rdt=35832)


SparkAxolotl

Gosh darn it to heck, now I want to know what happened after that! Like, there's no way someone like Rachel would just let go of his back up guy! Did Rachel showed up at the wedding and the fiance said the wrong name?


AloeVera_Tan

i think i got the second one could it be this post? \[heavily nsfw\] [https://www.reddit.com/r/NuclearRevenge/comments/xzjiue/why\_we\_dont\_see\_uncle\_mark\_anymore/](https://www.reddit.com/r/NuclearRevenge/comments/xzjiue/why_we_dont_see_uncle_mark_anymore/)


Elmonatorrrre

Yes, thank you!


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CattleprodTF

Twins both need a kidney, and OOP wants to donate to the one they like more while the rest of the family wants the golden child to get it. https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/comments/sl5hh9/aita_for_saving_one_sisters_life_and_not_the_other/


SparkAxolotl

[I didn't give my twin brother my kidney because he had an affair with my girlfriend and then outed me as bisexual](https://www.reddit.com/r/NuclearRevenge/comments/ggb1w1/i_didnt_give_my_twin_brother_my_kidney_because_he/)


RarBlack

It’s the same post [https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/rdtelr/aita_for_telling_my_son_its_his_fault_no_one_in/](https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/rdtelr/aita_for_telling_my_son_its_his_fault_no_one_in/)


9shadowcat9

Wow that op was horrible. I feel so bad for her son. D:


PhotoKada

I always have a visceral reaction whenever I give this post another read. Fucking narcissists man.


SparkAxolotl

I have always wondered if the "behavioral issues" was that Chris didn't worship his sister the same way the OOP did. At least his uncle got his back.


esr95tkd

I would love an update on this one. Because OP is clearly a monster that didn't get his son a gift 3 years in a row and only justified it with: he said he didn't want anything from me. Also no me tion on the father trying to even bond with the child. And no mention on how the family helped the kids cope with the elder brother's death Like wtf if I've ever seen a more disgusting OP


ihtsp

The father who played no role until telling his minor son that he couldn't live at home if he was going to talk to them that way really got me. His father couldn't be bothered to step up when his wife got deeper and deeper into emotional abuse then he tells him bye? It was really awful.


GrootSuitRiot

OP is the mother. The father is glossed over in this. Of course, it also happens to be a story of twins where one is literally Liz.


xanif

You don't get it. She can't treat her children equally or her family will gossip. Clearly a rock and a hard place. Tough call. /s if it's needed.


Pferdmagaepfel

I am looking for the post where OOP is pregnant and vomits a lot. Her husband moved his brother, SIL and their kids into the home and expects OOP to take care of them while they trash the house. In the end, both her mother and MIL come over and raise hell, SIL locks herself into a room and refuses to come out.  Any help is appreciated, even if it is some more keywords for Google!


Pferdmagaepfel

I found it over a link on a third party site! https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/11374y5/aita_for_calling_my_mom_when_my_husband_refused/


Hilda_p13

No more updates. :(


Pferdmagaepfel

Unfortunately :( but OP gave some info in the comments, for example her husband and BIL stepped up with cooking and repairs, the two moms are sewing baby clothes and the SIL is going bananas. Still wish we knew OP is still doing alright and her baby is ok too :/


No-Mastodon5138

I seriously needed the ending of that telenovela.  Did she get divorced?  Did the mothers poison thr sister in law?  I need to know!!!


Yitomaru

I'm trying to find the Old Boru Post where the OP gets harassed by the MIL in the earlier half of the saga her Son/OP's Husband was on OP's Side until sooner or later he somehow sides back to his Mom and keeps claiming that his two daughters aren't his Key Details I remember -OP was Assaulted while being Pregnant -Ex Husband Tried to Drunk Bootycall OP and Rant -OP now/already has a Son from her New Husband -Ex Husband was Delulu for saying he wants her back and they could even keep the boy too


Direct-Caterpillar77

[Woman assaulted, abandoned for having daughters BoRU ](https://www.reddit.com/r/BestofRedditorUpdates/s/Peql8wdSD0)


Nice_NeighborHahah

Thank you for the link! I was looking for this, omg this story


LaoShanLung

AITAH for telling my wife that the way she dressed for a girls night out played a role in why it went bad?


Nimelennar

[Original](https://www.rareddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1aqusc9/aitah_for_telling_my_wife_that_the_way_she/?rdt=47968) [Update](https://www.rareddit.com/r/AITAH/comments/1ar48xu/update_aitah_for_telling_my_wife_that_the_way_she/)


Friendlyfire2996

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LaoShanLung

Thank you a lot!


Nimelennar

You're welcome!


LadyNorbert

Hi, long time reader, first time requester. ;) Seriously, though, this just came up in my Facebook reels and I can't seem to find it, I'd like to know if there were ever any updates. An anonymous Reddit user asked if he was the AH for divorcing his wife over Taylor Swift. They had planned a celebration for their fifth wedding anniversary to renew their vows, but then she went and bought Taylor Swift tickets for the same day and refused to give them up, claiming it might be the only chance she ever had to see Taylor in concert. He told her that if she chose Taylor over him, he'd divorce her. The reel ended with him packing her things and throwing her out of the house and asking Reddit if he's the AH. Does this ring any bells for anyone?


Direct-Caterpillar77

I found about 6 posts so far concerning Taylor Swifts Eras tour destroying relationships EDIT: so far I found the MSN article https://www.msn.com/en-us/lifestyle/other/my-wife-chose-taylor-swift-over-me-so-i-chose-divorce/ar-AA1liuXN