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If you want to remain a virgin until marriage, there's absolutely nothing wrong with that, and anyone shaming you for doing so is an asshole.
If you choose to have premarital sex, there's absolutely nothing wrong with that either, and anyone shaming you for doing so is an asshole
This right here. There's nothing wrong with wanting to wait till marriage to have sex. But it doesn't make you better than people who do have sex before marriage. Both are okay.
Also, the asshole is the way to have sex and still be a virgin. It’s the “poophole loophole”. If you want to be a virgin ‘til marriage, this is the best way.
If that's what people want to do, I see no problem with it
But we all know that in evangelical circles, there is a lot of pressure, especially on girls, to keep their virginity. The message is constantly reinforced, with things like "purity balls". Those kids are not given the information they need to make a smart choice. They're being groomed and manipulated.
It’s cool to do what ever you prefer… but I’m pretty sure it’s never cool to put it on a bumper sticker. What more ignoble place could a virginity sticker be found?!
I hate that mentality - my family is in a crisis because my cousin got married but found out she had gotten raped. Now he wants a divorce because she doesn't "belong" to him. "Women with faith wouldn't get raped" so the non-religious family members are furious and the religious ones are standing with him.
Honestly, with someone like that as a husband, she'd likely be a lot happier off getting the divorce. He showed his hand saying he wanted her to 'belong' to him.
Totally agree - sad thing is she has emotional damage from being raped so this just adds to it. Unfortunately, 'belonging' to your man is something some conservative religious people reinforce still.
Also *massively* fuels kinks.
Victorian England, for example, was extremely uptight in regards to sex, but even a little bit of research will show that they were getting *very* freaky behind closed doors.
being a virgin is neither "cool" nor "sad". it simple just is. I still don't understand why people feel the need to talk about their private sex lives in public. 🤦
Then you can take your mentality and push it on to other generations by saying cool things like "if a girl has had more than one partner shes a whore!" And "marrying 14 year olds is tradition because of their purity" and other weird boomery right wings pedo things
Also, the people who say this kind of stuff typically seem to be a *heck* of a lot more forgiving of specifically men that are not virgins at the altar. Women having premarital sex? Slut-shamed. Men screwing all around town before marriage? Endless excuses like "They're just getting it out of their system."
Keeping your virginity until marriage is of neutral coolness, but the hypocrisy that so frequently accompanies that attitude is most certainly *not* cool.
It's definitely OK to be a virgin until marriage. "cool" might be a stretch. By the same token, not being a virgin at marriage wouldn't necessarily be "cool". In fact, I'm not sure how "cool" enters into it. I mean unless you specifically did or did not lose your virginity in a particularly cool way?
I'm getting to into the weeds on this.
Yeah its cool until that blond haired blue eyed virgin turns out to be the congregations mattress with a pelvic bottom the size of ... the size of ... the size of ... of ... offf.
Or traps them in it. Here’s the full view of the truck.
https://preview.redd.it/jzty85bcd7wc1.jpeg?width=2193&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7b3a1cf94ad9bec81d2134818db5b97c08ff37a0
Why is it that people who spent their whole youth sleeping around, snorting coke left and right end up becoming the biggest religious, moral crackpots? They didn’t wait so why should I? Btw this mentality isn’t exclusive to boomers.
I'm gonna be 100%... Be single in your 20's. Experience all of your fantasies if possible. Then when you get married you'll never even think about cheating. You already got it all out of your system. Just my 2 cents.
(edit: I've been married for over 10 years)
If you want to, great. But the problem is people are trying to force other people to do that. I like to say, your religious rights end where my personal rights begin
It's not cool or uncool. It's just a personal choice some folks make. It's not something to be shamed over. But it's not something to be praised over either.
Who the fuck are you to say we shouldn't praise people either way? Holy shit this is a boomer-tier comment section no joke. "Virginity is bad because i said so!!!!"
You obviously take issue with the idea of virginity being pure or honorable. Just say it lmao. It doesn't change the fact there are men who covet a virgin wife and dont give a shit about nonvirgin women.
Yes I don't find anything particularly pure or honorable about not having sex. I thought that was pretty clear from my comments. Covet whomever you want however. Just try not to go all incel when they don't covet you back.
Having a penis in your vagina or vice versa doesn't magically change who you are. While we're at it, let's stop pretending like a hymen is a freshness seal. It's only job is to help keep feces out of an infant's vagina until she's potty trained.
Have you never heard of condoms? Testing? Hand stuff? Toys? So many ways to have safe sex.
You can get crabs from a blanket too. Look it up.
Don’t learn sex stuff from your creepy religious leaders. Learn from online creeps.
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If you want to remain a virgin until marriage, there's absolutely nothing wrong with that, and anyone shaming you for doing so is an asshole. If you choose to have premarital sex, there's absolutely nothing wrong with that either, and anyone shaming you for doing so is an asshole
This is the way
This right here. There's nothing wrong with wanting to wait till marriage to have sex. But it doesn't make you better than people who do have sex before marriage. Both are okay.
Guilty. I’m a filthy asshole for finding this hilarious. 🍩
Also, the asshole is the way to have sex and still be a virgin. It’s the “poophole loophole”. If you want to be a virgin ‘til marriage, this is the best way.
It works for students at BYU, Liberty, and many other conservative Christian colleges and universities.
Ploophole?
No youre fine people here are just cry babies some times
What is a Virgin Till Marriage?
It's a freshly made register where can keep your marriages in
Nonono... you're thinking of a Virgin Marriage Till.
It’s when you till the field with virgins?
It's when you field virgins in a till.
It's not cool to have a bumper sticker about it tho
it's right on the edge of being so not cool that it's cool (the sticker). not quite there, though.
If that's what people want to do, I see no problem with it But we all know that in evangelical circles, there is a lot of pressure, especially on girls, to keep their virginity. The message is constantly reinforced, with things like "purity balls". Those kids are not given the information they need to make a smart choice. They're being groomed and manipulated.
I think you pointed out the problems with it.
It’s cool to do what ever you prefer… but I’m pretty sure it’s never cool to put it on a bumper sticker. What more ignoble place could a virginity sticker be found?!
These people are so weird. Do they spend their entire lives thinking about others' sex lives?
Yes. They really do.
I hate that mentality - my family is in a crisis because my cousin got married but found out she had gotten raped. Now he wants a divorce because she doesn't "belong" to him. "Women with faith wouldn't get raped" so the non-religious family members are furious and the religious ones are standing with him.
Honestly, with someone like that as a husband, she'd likely be a lot happier off getting the divorce. He showed his hand saying he wanted her to 'belong' to him.
Hard agree. Girl, run!
Totally agree - sad thing is she has emotional damage from being raped so this just adds to it. Unfortunately, 'belonging' to your man is something some conservative religious people reinforce still.
I would cut off any of the family who stands with him. That shit is awful.
“Women with faith wouldn’t get raped” Wow…that is a truly evil way to view the world. That part of your family is fucked
Jfc I hope she runs like hell
His mommy thinks it's cool
Peeing your pants is cool!
If it's cool, then call me Miles Davis
Miles Davis
To be fair you’re going for: “If peeing your pants were cool, CONSIDER me Miles Davis.” Quoted from someone who has seen that film over 200 times
Religious sexual suppression creates predators
Also *massively* fuels kinks. Victorian England, for example, was extremely uptight in regards to sex, but even a little bit of research will show that they were getting *very* freaky behind closed doors.
Not always in a good way either...
What? Kinks are bad?
That's a slippery slope for the religious.
And a potentially dry slope for some.
No. No it’s not cool.
being a virgin is neither "cool" nor "sad". it simple just is. I still don't understand why people feel the need to talk about their private sex lives in public. 🤦
A bumper sticker of it is sad. Can’t deny that.
Then you can take your mentality and push it on to other generations by saying cool things like "if a girl has had more than one partner shes a whore!" And "marrying 14 year olds is tradition because of their purity" and other weird boomery right wings pedo things
Also, the people who say this kind of stuff typically seem to be a *heck* of a lot more forgiving of specifically men that are not virgins at the altar. Women having premarital sex? Slut-shamed. Men screwing all around town before marriage? Endless excuses like "They're just getting it out of their system." Keeping your virginity until marriage is of neutral coolness, but the hypocrisy that so frequently accompanies that attitude is most certainly *not* cool.
It's definitely OK to be a virgin until marriage. "cool" might be a stretch. By the same token, not being a virgin at marriage wouldn't necessarily be "cool". In fact, I'm not sure how "cool" enters into it. I mean unless you specifically did or did not lose your virginity in a particularly cool way? I'm getting to into the weeds on this.
I’m smoking those weeds
Yeah its cool until that blond haired blue eyed virgin turns out to be the congregations mattress with a pelvic bottom the size of ... the size of ... the size of ... of ... offf.
Not if you're a dude, never if you're a dude.
Can you technically be a virgin if you had a vaginal birth as a guy? Asking for a friend.
Better than marrying a bucket!
You can just buy buckets at the hardware store. No need to enter into a life long contract with one.
No need to buy a bucket either to be fair, they maybe able to hold a lot more but these days don't last long!
I’ll take your word on that.
Whoever owns that truck is into child brides.
Or traps them in it. Here’s the full view of the truck. https://preview.redd.it/jzty85bcd7wc1.jpeg?width=2193&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=7b3a1cf94ad9bec81d2134818db5b97c08ff37a0
Do what you want. My personal philosophy: you wouldnt buy a car without test driving it, would you?
Naaah son Be gay, do crimes
Why is it that people who spent their whole youth sleeping around, snorting coke left and right end up becoming the biggest religious, moral crackpots? They didn’t wait so why should I? Btw this mentality isn’t exclusive to boomers.
Not limited to boomers, but they did perfect it.
Seems like this post brought out some incel anger.
Sounds boring.
Is boring the new interesting? No
I don’t judge but why would you want to be? The level of anxiety and depression people have over this is staggering.
It is a little insane over a bad idea.
I'm gonna be 100%... Be single in your 20's. Experience all of your fantasies if possible. Then when you get married you'll never even think about cheating. You already got it all out of your system. Just my 2 cents. (edit: I've been married for over 10 years)
Agree 100%. Or you’ll always wonder, “what if?”.
Exactly
If you want to, great. But the problem is people are trying to force other people to do that. I like to say, your religious rights end where my personal rights begin
Yea
Never sign before you drive!
I am, but I’m also not married
If you don't like sex yes
Is the till the virgin or the marriage? Or did they mean ‘til?
I think they meant they’re forever single.
I like to think that someone just runs around town sticking these on random cars
Bonus points of "cool" was replaced with "pretty nifty"
It's not cool or uncool. It's just a personal choice some folks make. It's not something to be shamed over. But it's not something to be praised over either.
Who the fuck are you to say we shouldn't praise people either way? Holy shit this is a boomer-tier comment section no joke. "Virginity is bad because i said so!!!!"
I'm some person voicing an opinion on Reddit like everyone else. Virginity isn't bad or good. It just is.
You obviously take issue with the idea of virginity being pure or honorable. Just say it lmao. It doesn't change the fact there are men who covet a virgin wife and dont give a shit about nonvirgin women.
Yes I don't find anything particularly pure or honorable about not having sex. I thought that was pretty clear from my comments. Covet whomever you want however. Just try not to go all incel when they don't covet you back.
Lol nice adhom. I state some guys value virginity, therefore I am an ugly sexless womanhater. Go back to the lemon party known as r/atheism.
Well with the absolute delightful personality you've demonstrated so far, I don't think you only hate women....if that helps.
Im awesome bro
It is, it's also cool to not be a virgin too
‘til: *Hold my beer.*
You needed an overused gif for that? Sad
You feel better by being a jerk for no good reason? Sad
It was a good reason. You’re pathetic. So is that shitty movie you robbed lines from. Learn to be original, not a cookie cutter personality.
Having a penis in your vagina or vice versa doesn't magically change who you are. While we're at it, let's stop pretending like a hymen is a freshness seal. It's only job is to help keep feces out of an infant's vagina until she's potty trained.
Yeah but not for you.
It’s cool to have sex when you’re comfortable!
I think it’s cool to make your own decisions about sex. ✊🏽
Inexperience is awesome! /s
Ive heard some funny stories of inexperienced people getting it on on their honeymoon and using cinnamon lube or something else.
Man, you can get stuff in parts of India that's made with the same stuff as lip plumper. If that was my first time I'd never have sex again.
If it's your honeymoon and you need lube, there is no marriage to save
I dont understand
Let's say you got married, yet you can't even get wet, which means you don't have an attraction to your partner.
Only if you choose to be
Think he bought that pick up without a test drive too?
Nailed it. Unlike him before he got married, if he got married.
It could be many things. It may even be a positive for some. But no, it’s definitely not fucking “cool” lol
No.
Very coolB
It kinda is, though. Who wants a potential STI gal?
Do you think all non virgins have STIs?
I said potential. All non virgins have a higher potential of having STIs, yes.
Practice makes perfect. I like someone who has practiced. 🍩🥕
Cool. Have fun with the STIs then.
Have you never heard of condoms? Testing? Hand stuff? Toys? So many ways to have safe sex. You can get crabs from a blanket too. Look it up. Don’t learn sex stuff from your creepy religious leaders. Learn from online creeps.