Just make sure your remote job allows for international travel - most traditional (i.e. non-contractor) jobs don't and those that do may have restrictions on which countries are/are not ok. Your corporate IT will see the international movement and will likely block you.
That said, it depends what sorts of things you like and what price range you're in. If you're from New York and like Theater, the London theater scene is absolutely amazing.
Since there is a caution already mentioned here hence also suggesting that make sure your it person enables you to login from the intended country to work from there as the systems are locked to prevent any unauthorised access.
One of the least threatening, most amazing, places I ever visited was Samoa ... I link this to your comment because I used Air New Zealand to fly London - La (3 nights) Samoa (10 nights) - new Zealand (2 nights)- LA (change only)- London
As I booked this early it was the same price for a dog legged flight as a return from London to New Zealand.
The only problem I had was, because I flew "backwards" around the world I only ended up with 2 days in new Zealand Instead of the 3 I expected due to crossing the international date line. This was the early days of the internet and the tickets didn't make this clear.
I've gone rock climbing in Australia and New Zealand when our kids were young. Our NZ guide claims there's nothing poisonous in NZ, unlike Australia. This was in reply to all questions about what we should be looking out for and telling our kids what to avoid.
I know that some countries are renowned for their hospitality and welcoming atmosphere include. The first country that crossed my mind is New Zealand. The locals, known as Kiwis, are famously friendly and welcoming to visitors. Another safe country could be Ireland. It offers solo travelers a warm and inviting atmosphere not to mention that the Irish are known for their hospitality, lively pub culture, and willingness to strike up a conversation with strangers.
Or perhaps you can also try Canada. Just think about it! Canadians are known for their politeness, friendliness, and multiculturalism. Another destination might be Japan, which is a surprisingly welcoming place for solo travelers. The Japanese are known for their hospitality, respect for visitors, and helpfulness towards foreigners navigating their way through the country.
Another country could be Portugal too because the Portuguese are known for their warmth, friendliness, and genuine interest in visitors.
And finally, as a Hungarian, I must say that Hungary can also be a fantastic destination for solo travelers, especially those interested in history, culture, and vibrant city life. Budapest, the capital city, is known for its stunning architecture, thermal baths, and lively nightlife scene. But what is more important from your perspective is the fact that Hungarians are generally friendly and welcoming to visitors, and English is widely spoken, especially in tourist areas.
I would say that Hungary presents a mixed picture for gay visitors, with a blend of welcoming aspects and challenges. Basically, homosexuality has been legal in Hungary since 1961. Anti-discrimination laws exist in employment, and same-sex couples can enter into registered partnerships, though these partnerships do not provide the same rights as marriage.
Same-sex marriage is not recognized in Hungary. Adoption by same-sex couples is also not permitted. Here is the thing... Hungary has a conservative society, and public attitudes towards LGBTQ+ individuals can be less accepting compared to many Western European countries. This conservatism is reflected in both public opinion and political rhetoric. The Hungarian government has taken steps that many view as hostile towards LGBTQ+ rights. For example, in 2021, a law was passed that bans the dissemination of content deemed to promote homosexuality or gender change to minors. The capital city, Budapest, is the hub for LGBTQ+ life in Hungary. It hosts a variety of gay-friendly bars, clubs, and events. The Budapest Pride, held annually, is a significant event for the community.
Outside Budapest, the LGBTQ+ scene is much smaller and less visible. Smaller towns and rural areas are more conservative and less open to LGBTQ+ lifestyles.
While holding hands or other displays of affection might be fine in Budapest, it's advisable to be more discreet in other parts of the country. But what I can say is that Hungary is generally a safe country, but LGBTQ+ individuals might face verbal harassment or discrimination, especially in more conservative areas.
So if you want to come here, iit's useful to research LGBTQ+ friendly venues and events. Many international hotel chains and some local accommodations in Budapest are welcoming to LGBTQ+ visitors. There are also local LGBTQ+ organizations that can provide information and support to visitors.
I agree on Japan for safety! Now to meet people, you can book tours and activities. Tried that last winter and found some great people to hang out the rest of my holidays
Japan changed in the last years and while people still are friendly on the outside, many aren't too keen on tourists. Shop owners refuse to serve tourists and (I think it was) Kyoto banned tourists at a certain area.
Qq I'm in a remote position too. But my employer will put me on a "suspension without pay" if I'm outside United States for more than 20 business days. So check with your employer first what is the meaning of "remote" before you take the step of travelling the world
I’m in The Netherlands right now, solo traveled here for 14 days and am heading home to the US tomorrow. I agree that the Dutch are super friendly and direct, makes it very easy to strike up a conversation! Everyone also speaks English here and the public transportation system is amazing, makes it very easy to navigate around.
I’d recommend the r/solotravel subreddit for more specific advice and itinerary planning!
Depends on what culture you’re interested in experiencing! Japan and Korea are both very clean/safe. But if you dont like Japanese or Korean food, it might not enjoyable for you.
Come to Canada for sure :) and we have everything, rockies, beaches, snow, Toronto for a big town feel.... Lots of beautiful places we even have a Fjord!
Ontario and East, Alberta and west.
Saskatchewan and Manitoba are great places, with fantastic Canadians, but not much to hold a tourist's attention.
If you end on the East Coast, the tides at Hopewell Rocks and resultant flower pot rock Islands are worth a visit at low tide. The tide there is over 50 feet.
The Rockies between Alberta and BC, are majestic, and has Lake Louise which is an aqua blue beauty.
I would say Canada or England. Vancouver is a beautiful city and easy to navigate. London has so many cool places to visit. There are plenty of other countries, but in these two counties you won't have a language hurdle. There are many day trips outside of London too.
Kenya is fascinating but not even remotely chill IMO. Can’t walk anywhere after dark, have to be on high alert of being robbed, dangerous driving, corrupt immigration and police, tropical weather but locals dress extremely conservatively. If OP is a woman, an even harder no
Thailand/SE Asia. If you stay at hostels there a ton of other solo travelers that you’ll meet. It’s also very safe, even if you’re female (only place I’d be truly comfortable for my sister to travel by herself. More so than Europe.)
I went to Bali a year ago and I've never felt safer anywhere else. I rented a bungalow (big bedroom and bathroom) for 6 weeks and I couldn't believe how cheap it was, same for food. I really loved it. There are so many working online and living there, single mothers, young women, and you won't get harassed.
My first big solo trip was to Reykjevik Iceland. It is VERY tourist friendly, safe, and has great public transportation. Definitely an easy level trip.
On my initial scan of this I read it as a "first time time traveller" and thought you'd quit your job to attempt travelling back in time and you were asking for advice like that was a regular thing people do.
Time for me to stop browsing reddit and go to bed I think.
Changing your last name is an old habit that’s played out, there is no real reason for you to do it.. it’s also a PITA to change it back if you get divorced, ask him to take your name instead….
Iceland. Beautiful scenery and people. Walk on a glacier, stand in between tectonic plates, climb a recently formed lava flow, go whale watching, and last but not least, visit the spot they filmed that Eurovision song Volcano Man.
On the boring side, make sure that the employers are actually able to employ you if you live in a different country or even a different state. Employing someone who lives under a different tax and employment law system is seriously complicated for an employer and if they are not already set up for it they may not be prepared to go to the trouble and expense for you.
Does your job allow that? My remote job does not allow international locations and domestic locations remote work cannot exceed 2 months without approval.
If all the above is cleared, most countries are friendly. Its more about what you want to do and are comfortable with. If you dont speak the language, id prob avoid it as a first go as international travel is stressful enough and not being able to read a sign could be that more difficult.
What do you even want? Food, beaches, mountains? There are a billion factors. People are nice everywhere, so how are we supposed to suggest something not knowing a single one of your interests, preferences, or dislikes?
I don’t mean this in a snarky way, but I think you can easily figure out if a country is fairly safe or not lol.
Somalia vs New Zealand.
Burma/Myanmar vs Denmark.
Syria vs Japan lol.
Start with stuff that definitely isnt questionable and decide if you want to start to make things a bit more interesting.
I spent a year across the Horn of Africa. It can totally be safe…and it can totally not be lol
Just make sure your remote job allows for international travel - most traditional (i.e. non-contractor) jobs don't and those that do may have restrictions on which countries are/are not ok. Your corporate IT will see the international movement and will likely block you. That said, it depends what sorts of things you like and what price range you're in. If you're from New York and like Theater, the London theater scene is absolutely amazing.
Since there is a caution already mentioned here hence also suggesting that make sure your it person enables you to login from the intended country to work from there as the systems are locked to prevent any unauthorised access.
New Zealand. I hitch hiked the south Island. Everyone was so friendly
One of the least threatening, most amazing, places I ever visited was Samoa ... I link this to your comment because I used Air New Zealand to fly London - La (3 nights) Samoa (10 nights) - new Zealand (2 nights)- LA (change only)- London As I booked this early it was the same price for a dog legged flight as a return from London to New Zealand. The only problem I had was, because I flew "backwards" around the world I only ended up with 2 days in new Zealand Instead of the 3 I expected due to crossing the international date line. This was the early days of the internet and the tickets didn't make this clear.
Did you see huge spiders?
I've gone rock climbing in Australia and New Zealand when our kids were young. Our NZ guide claims there's nothing poisonous in NZ, unlike Australia. This was in reply to all questions about what we should be looking out for and telling our kids what to avoid.
I think you should leave time travel to the experts…
I'd tell you a joke about time travelling, but you didn't find it funny.
I know that some countries are renowned for their hospitality and welcoming atmosphere include. The first country that crossed my mind is New Zealand. The locals, known as Kiwis, are famously friendly and welcoming to visitors. Another safe country could be Ireland. It offers solo travelers a warm and inviting atmosphere not to mention that the Irish are known for their hospitality, lively pub culture, and willingness to strike up a conversation with strangers. Or perhaps you can also try Canada. Just think about it! Canadians are known for their politeness, friendliness, and multiculturalism. Another destination might be Japan, which is a surprisingly welcoming place for solo travelers. The Japanese are known for their hospitality, respect for visitors, and helpfulness towards foreigners navigating their way through the country. Another country could be Portugal too because the Portuguese are known for their warmth, friendliness, and genuine interest in visitors. And finally, as a Hungarian, I must say that Hungary can also be a fantastic destination for solo travelers, especially those interested in history, culture, and vibrant city life. Budapest, the capital city, is known for its stunning architecture, thermal baths, and lively nightlife scene. But what is more important from your perspective is the fact that Hungarians are generally friendly and welcoming to visitors, and English is widely spoken, especially in tourist areas.
How is Hungary for gay visitors?
I would say that Hungary presents a mixed picture for gay visitors, with a blend of welcoming aspects and challenges. Basically, homosexuality has been legal in Hungary since 1961. Anti-discrimination laws exist in employment, and same-sex couples can enter into registered partnerships, though these partnerships do not provide the same rights as marriage. Same-sex marriage is not recognized in Hungary. Adoption by same-sex couples is also not permitted. Here is the thing... Hungary has a conservative society, and public attitudes towards LGBTQ+ individuals can be less accepting compared to many Western European countries. This conservatism is reflected in both public opinion and political rhetoric. The Hungarian government has taken steps that many view as hostile towards LGBTQ+ rights. For example, in 2021, a law was passed that bans the dissemination of content deemed to promote homosexuality or gender change to minors. The capital city, Budapest, is the hub for LGBTQ+ life in Hungary. It hosts a variety of gay-friendly bars, clubs, and events. The Budapest Pride, held annually, is a significant event for the community. Outside Budapest, the LGBTQ+ scene is much smaller and less visible. Smaller towns and rural areas are more conservative and less open to LGBTQ+ lifestyles. While holding hands or other displays of affection might be fine in Budapest, it's advisable to be more discreet in other parts of the country. But what I can say is that Hungary is generally a safe country, but LGBTQ+ individuals might face verbal harassment or discrimination, especially in more conservative areas. So if you want to come here, iit's useful to research LGBTQ+ friendly venues and events. Many international hotel chains and some local accommodations in Budapest are welcoming to LGBTQ+ visitors. There are also local LGBTQ+ organizations that can provide information and support to visitors.
Thank you very much for your thoughtful reply.
Japan is a good call. Singapore, too. Italy perhaps?
I agree on Japan for safety! Now to meet people, you can book tours and activities. Tried that last winter and found some great people to hang out the rest of my holidays
I wouldn't say Japan is necessarily friendly. Japan for sure is safe but friendly?
I was there (2 families travelling together so a group of 11) for 3 weeks. Many were very friendly and helpful.
Japan changed in the last years and while people still are friendly on the outside, many aren't too keen on tourists. Shop owners refuse to serve tourists and (I think it was) Kyoto banned tourists at a certain area.
Buncha bad tourists and asshole streamers ruining things for the respectful visitors.
Qq I'm in a remote position too. But my employer will put me on a "suspension without pay" if I'm outside United States for more than 20 business days. So check with your employer first what is the meaning of "remote" before you take the step of travelling the world
I genuinely thought you meant "first time traveler."
Portugal
Switzerland
The Netherlands. The Dutch are so nice.
I’m in The Netherlands right now, solo traveled here for 14 days and am heading home to the US tomorrow. I agree that the Dutch are super friendly and direct, makes it very easy to strike up a conversation! Everyone also speaks English here and the public transportation system is amazing, makes it very easy to navigate around. I’d recommend the r/solotravel subreddit for more specific advice and itinerary planning!
The Dutch are also pretty direct, like a lot of NYers. It works!
Depends on what you like but Europe should be a safe bet for a first trip.
Denmark
I think it is county with hot climate, like Italian or state Florida in USA
If you're thinking of time travelling I think I'd watch some Doctor Who first hehe
Check with your company first and make sure they won't geoblock your equipment for being outside of the USA.
Depends on what culture you’re interested in experiencing! Japan and Korea are both very clean/safe. But if you dont like Japanese or Korean food, it might not enjoyable for you.
Come to Canada for sure :) and we have everything, rockies, beaches, snow, Toronto for a big town feel.... Lots of beautiful places we even have a Fjord!
Ontario and East, Alberta and west. Saskatchewan and Manitoba are great places, with fantastic Canadians, but not much to hold a tourist's attention. If you end on the East Coast, the tides at Hopewell Rocks and resultant flower pot rock Islands are worth a visit at low tide. The tide there is over 50 feet. The Rockies between Alberta and BC, are majestic, and has Lake Louise which is an aqua blue beauty.
I read this as “first time traveler.” I had to reread it again.
Sri Lanka, Thailand, Laos, Vietnam
Second this. SE Asia 100%.
Italy
I would say Canada or England. Vancouver is a beautiful city and easy to navigate. London has so many cool places to visit. There are plenty of other countries, but in these two counties you won't have a language hurdle. There are many day trips outside of London too.
Kenya. Very chill country you’ll love it.The people are friendly too.
Kenya is fascinating but not even remotely chill IMO. Can’t walk anywhere after dark, have to be on high alert of being robbed, dangerous driving, corrupt immigration and police, tropical weather but locals dress extremely conservatively. If OP is a woman, an even harder no
The Lake District or the Derbyshire country side
Check out the subreddit Digital Nomad. You'll need to be thinking about visa and tax issues as well. Congrats on the new gig, and best of luck!
Thailand/SE Asia. If you stay at hostels there a ton of other solo travelers that you’ll meet. It’s also very safe, even if you’re female (only place I’d be truly comfortable for my sister to travel by herself. More so than Europe.)
I went to Bali a year ago and I've never felt safer anywhere else. I rented a bungalow (big bedroom and bathroom) for 6 weeks and I couldn't believe how cheap it was, same for food. I really loved it. There are so many working online and living there, single mothers, young women, and you won't get harassed.
My first big solo trip was to Reykjevik Iceland. It is VERY tourist friendly, safe, and has great public transportation. Definitely an easy level trip.
Iceland. Reykjavik has a great pub scene and the most interesting conversation to be had with the locals.
UAE or Oman
On my initial scan of this I read it as a "first time time traveller" and thought you'd quit your job to attempt travelling back in time and you were asking for advice like that was a regular thing people do. Time for me to stop browsing reddit and go to bed I think.
Changing your last name is an old habit that’s played out, there is no real reason for you to do it.. it’s also a PITA to change it back if you get divorced, ask him to take your name instead….
YOU'VE GOT A TIME MACHINE?!
No, I was the first time traveler.
Iceland. Beautiful scenery and people. Walk on a glacier, stand in between tectonic plates, climb a recently formed lava flow, go whale watching, and last but not least, visit the spot they filmed that Eurovision song Volcano Man.
Nepal is the one
On the boring side, make sure that the employers are actually able to employ you if you live in a different country or even a different state. Employing someone who lives under a different tax and employment law system is seriously complicated for an employer and if they are not already set up for it they may not be prepared to go to the trouble and expense for you.
Japan
Ireland, Germany, Netherlands, Austria, Luxembourg, Denmark
Ireland, Germany, Netherlands, Austria, Luxembourg, Denmark
Australia
Ireland was a great experience traveling alone
Does your job allow that? My remote job does not allow international locations and domestic locations remote work cannot exceed 2 months without approval. If all the above is cleared, most countries are friendly. Its more about what you want to do and are comfortable with. If you dont speak the language, id prob avoid it as a first go as international travel is stressful enough and not being able to read a sign could be that more difficult. What do you even want? Food, beaches, mountains? There are a billion factors. People are nice everywhere, so how are we supposed to suggest something not knowing a single one of your interests, preferences, or dislikes?
Indonesia, specifically, Bali
Probably the nicest, pro-social people alive. Almost to a fault.
Nicely put! And, word!
Portugal, Spain, and Italia
I'd suggest maybe just travelling around in your own country at first. A lot to see in the U.S.
I don’t mean this in a snarky way, but I think you can easily figure out if a country is fairly safe or not lol. Somalia vs New Zealand. Burma/Myanmar vs Denmark. Syria vs Japan lol. Start with stuff that definitely isnt questionable and decide if you want to start to make things a bit more interesting. I spent a year across the Horn of Africa. It can totally be safe…and it can totally not be lol
Ireland
I traveled to Russia alone. You’ll be fine. Go where you want.
Argentina is cheap and very friendly
UK
Iran, as long as you don't look America.