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worklifebalads

Take my upvote and give to your dad.


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avoccadough

Tawang tawa talaga ako rito 😭 Pati yung *Unsa finding nimo* hahaha huhu sori po


Annepreferko04

HSHAHAHHAA TAENA NAPATAWA DIN AKO DITO


jay678jay

You're lucky he isn't the super protective type of dad. I guess if you want to you can talk some of it rin with him without spilling all the beans para di siya mabigla. It's better na he knows what you're doing or how active you are than nothing at all diba, if that's what you want of course.


rushbloom

I had a similar experience a few months ago. The following day nagchat sa akin ang parents ko to make sure na okay lang ako. Gusto nilang ma-meet ung guy na kasama ko, worried lang sila kasi di nila kilala pero generally, may tiwala sila sa akin at okay lang naman daw. Happy naman daw sila na may partner naman daw pala ako. 😅 They also told me na huwag akong mag-alala kasi hindi nila sasabihin kahit sa mga kapatid ko. I appreciate my parents dito pero awkward lang pa rin para sa akin. Ayoko na lang kako na pag-usapan pa. Hindi na rin nila inusisa.


JamFcvkedLife

Nice naman Dad mo. Yung ibang parents kasi minamarites pa.


EnvironmentalNote600

Thank him. Say "cool ka dad and open minded. Rest assured kung magkaka apo ka it's out of love and planned."


PIRIPINS

they haven't xD nung grade 6 ako nahuli akong may 5sos smut sa wattpad library, naiyak yung nanay ko habang pinapagalitan ako 😭 so yeah i won't ever let them find out at baka mapatalsik pa ko sa bahay BAHAHAHAHSHS


yoitsgracie

BWAHAHHAHAHAHAHA aga aga naexpose sa ganyan kasalanan ng mga fandom sa x


Different_News_3832

HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAH OMG I REMEMBER THOSE FANFICS NG 5SOS AND 1D WATTPAD DAYS 😭😭 THOSE WERE WILD


prettymuchmyaltego

lemme guess that you’re a luke fan too? lol. also obsessed with him in his lip ring era


PIRIPINS

i was a michael girl actually HAHAHAHA kaya nga gusto ko rin magpakulay ng buhok non xD xD


LilacVioletLavender

My mom was a nurse, was raised in a conservative Catholic family. I think she lowkey knows. They lowkey knew when I spent one long holdiay weekend with the ex-bf, i am on my late 20s. They always emphasize naman ang magtapos muna bago mag boyfriend and I did what I am told. i graduated, earned my license and have a stable job now. When I went back home after four days with the ex bf, kasi we traveled together she teasingly asked “Hala, natulog kayo sa issang kama noh?” I just shrugged at sinabi kong “Ma separate beds naman po.” Ng nakasingi rin. Always been vocal talaga ako about sex topics and I always emphasize na it is better to be smart and careful than sorry. I think she lowkey knew what happened lol. But wouldn’t directly ask me. She just reminds na dapat wag magpabuntis if di pa kasal. Lol. As if kaya kong magpabuntis, I am loving my single life now. Basta always be careful and look after yourself. Take those tests and contraceptives but make sure to get yourself checked sa OB mo.


moelleux_zone

IMO, there is a bit of wisdom with the statement wag magpabuntis ng di pa kasal. simply because illegitimate ang status ng child. learning it over the years mej hassle ang travel since iba last name ng child with mom - okay lang siya if kayong 3 laging magkasama. we had to bring birth cert just in case. with baptism you have to provide pa a promissory note. if eventually kasal din ang ending, I’ve read na may [separate process](https://filipiknow.net/how-to-legitimize-an-illegitimate-child-in-the-philippines/) pa to legitimize the child. getting insurance is another thing. may mga extra step lang naman, pero doable naman.


LilacVioletLavender

Not mag pabuntis pag di pa kasal for me means I will not allow myself to be a mum na may anak born out of wedlock kasi mas uunahin ko self ko ngayon chosss. At di ako tangs na magpapabuntis talaga. There are BCPs available duhh. I always remind myself what my prof in Human Behavioral Organization said before na if magpapabuntis ka all decision will be subjected to the betterment of the child. Besides im in my Fun 20s. Living life and appreciating my journey while building my career Mas masarap magpabuntis if financially stable na and both paarties are ready in all aspects, emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and ofc financially. Wink wink. 😉


Responsible_Case4383

how much pacheck sa OB?


LilacVioletLavender

It varies po from one OBGYN to another. Mas better go sa hospital and ask.


dontrescueme

E mas maaga nga silang nag-asawa at anak sa 'tin eh. Lol.


yssnelf_plant

Tbf, restricted sila ng beliefs na marriage before sex sooo 🤷🏽‍♀️ isama mo pa yung societal pressures na dapat 20s pa lang nagpapamilya na 😂


omurioritoriomi

Sa true. Nanay ko nga 17 years old nung nagpabuntis sa tatay ko eh (ako ung pinagbubuntis) tapos gusto by 30s na ako magkaanak. Sana Ma okay ka lang, di ba?


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Protective parents ko, nung nalaman ng father ko sabi niya wala na daw lalaking magkakagusto sakin kung maghiwalay kami kasi di na daw ako "birhen", yan pa ung term. Mother ko naman nagtatanong lang bakit ko daw hinahayaan magtabi kami matulog e di pa daw kami kasal.


5samalexis1

old school or protective lang of you?


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Ako na nag adjust for you.


perriii_fairyyy

teenager palang ako suspected na ng mommy ko non na sexually active ako since may long term bf ako before. (she even saw a hickey on me lol sabi ko rashes) then inamin ko sakanya nung 21 ako na since 15 yrs old active nako. she wasn’t mad, natawa pa kasi she recalled all the palusot that i made back then hahahaha. plus, shes happy na im protected and doing it responsibly.


CHlCHAY

My dad dgaf about my virginity basta ba hindi ako mabuntis habang nag-aaral pa. My mom often jokes about me possibly coming home pregnant one of these days kasi may boyfriend nga ako. Kapag irreg ako, sasabihin niya “baka buntis ka na?” So I think they know I’m sexually active at yung paalala nila ay dinadaan sa biro para hindi masyadong awkward.


ResolverOshawott

I think the constant "buntis ka na ba?" Would drive me insane.


fordachika08

This happened two years ago and nasa mnl ako naka stay non kasi doon pa ko nag-aaral dati. Pauwi na dapat kami ng boyfriend ko non na ex bf ko na ngayon sa cavite tapos nagulat ako pag gising ko may message si mama sakin telling me na ano raw kabulastugan yung ginagawa ko and bat may condom ako sa bag ko LOL so syempre sabi ko binigay lang yon ng gay friend ko which is totoo naman pero di ko inadmit na sexually active ako but I think alam na rin ng mama ko yon kaya lagi niya ko pinag sasabihan na ingatan ko sarili ko


ArriettyWasHere

I'm in my early 20s, and they still think I haven't done it. They still use code words or whisper if they're talking about anything related to sex when I'm around. I've always been the innocent looking studious, academically-driven, and mahinhin girly, so I think they just assumed na I haven't done it before. (lol kung alam lang nila 💀)


tacit_oblivion22

My mom found out when I mentioned my cycle's a mess because of the BC I was taking. She didn't get angry because I had sex, she got angry because I was taking BC. She's concerned that I won't be able to conceive because BCPs are bad. When I asked why she didn't react to me having sex, she answered, "Magkasama kayo ng 2 linggo sa isang bahay na kayo lang impossibleng walang mangyari" then she laughed out loud parang pinaparamdam nyang "hello ano tingin mo sakin tanga?" so yeah she was pretty chill about it.


Pbskddls

Medyo nakakatuwa to hahaha she was really chill


daceeam

my mom just said na we should always have safe sex and even gave me a box of condoms hahaha my dad knows din for sure but stays quiet lang


SexyMink199x

They told me to use protection and not get preggo if If am not financially, mentally, and emotionally ready.


Pbskddls

Sana lahat ng parents ganto.


PiccoloMiserable6998

Sa exp ko naman, nung nalaman sinigawan ako ng nanay ko sabi paano raw pag nabuntis ako, sinisira ko raw buhay ko hahahhaa (kahit na I’m in my 20’s tapos working)


w4ferc4t

Nakatira ka pa sa kanila nun?


PiccoloMiserable6998

yes


w4ferc4t

Kaya pala napasigaw. Akala ata di mo pa kaya magbayad ng renta.


PiccoloMiserable6998

Ako lang nagbabayad ng bills and groceries namin since ako lang may work non


Pbskddls

Ayun lang, ikaw pa pala may ambag tas sisigawan ka pa. Lol


Tight_Possession69

Idk if this will count but they didnt know until I told them I got pregnant. They thought it was my first but I’ve been active since college lol. Told them last Dec but also lost my baby this January PS. This is a throwaway account


Pbskddls

Holy shit, that sucks.. I'm so sorry..


Tight_Possession69

I know it’s a lot to take in and I’m in a spiral rn but thanks I guess


Pbskddls

Get better at your own pace, mate. All my best to you


Tight_Possession69

Thank you so so much!!!


Pbskddls

And you deserve a drink! 😁🍻


Tight_Possession69

Wahahahaha cheers! 🍻


Pbskddls

Cheers! 🍻


CorrectCut7356

My parents...mostly my dad lowkey knows. He's in health care and is in charge sa OPD dept ng public/provincial hospital dito. He knows what's up with the cases mg HIV-AIDs dito so he just reminds us kids, we're 2 siblings, to be careful as sexually active adults. I'm back to being inactive rn so yep...still being careful tho.


urthiccbabygirl69

Actually wala, nakikita nga nila dildo ko minsan pakalat kalat sa room ko 🤧


Pbskddls

🤣🤣🤣


Mocat_mhie

Pinabasa sa akin yung mha bible verses about fornication and sex before marriage with emphasis of existence of hell. Alwasy reminding me to go to Church. Sorry not sorry. I am agnostic na.


troubled_lecheflan

My Hero Academia bible verse???


ic378_

HAHAHAHAHA E01 of S07 this weekkkk


Pbskddls

The traditional parents. Talk about umay.. sorry, not sorry.


ish4r

She didn’t react when she found an unused pregnancy test kit back when I was still in college 💀😂 I figured she found it without telling me because she used my bag at the time and I forgot to get the PT 💀 I also got pregnant but got an abortion. She was there when I was going through *it*, and cried when it was confirmed that I had a “miscarriage.” She said she was ready to be a grandmother and take care of the child. Anyway, so yeah, my mother knew all this time that I was sexually active and she didn’t really mind. I suppose she trusts me that I’ll be careful (even though at some point I wasn’t). Both of my parents probably knew it since everytime my ex boyfriends stayed the night in our home, we sleep together in my room 🥴


backburnergang

One night, my dad asked me kung saan ako pupunta on my own. I told him I’ll get myself tested since I became sexually active ever since my ex bf cheated on me. Hindi siya nagalit, pero cinomfort niya ako and assured me it’s okay and he understands but asked me to divert my loneliness. Nag offer pa to send money so I could watch a movie on my own. I could not ask for more. 🥹 pero if I told my mom, she would fREAK HAHA


dojabianca

I was a minor back then. Binugbog ako ng buong family tapos pinagkalat sa lahat umabot hanggang province namin. They slutshamed me to the core lol. Wala akong kakampi kung hindi sarili ko. Until this day, I don't know if I could consider what they did as an abuse or if whether I was in the wrong.


Beneficial_Ad4993

im sorry u had to go through all that. i hope ure doing better now op !


paintmyheartred_

I was in a middle of a pregnancy scare. It was too much to handle na and I decided to tell her. Ayun, nasurprise ng konti but more on I was having unprotected sex with someone I wasn’t in a relationship with.


JollyC3WithYumburger

My mom called me a lot of names pokpok, pakawala, pakantot, madumi ganon. Pero ngayon kinukulit nya na ako magkaroon ng baby at nagagalit pag sinasabi ko na ayoko magka-anak.


ewan_kosayo

Sa mga maaga maging sexual active, pls turuan nyo bf nyo controllin sarili nila so they should use condom. Mahirap ung babae ang nagti take ng gamit since teens. Friends ko until now di makabuo ngayong may family na. Sa kaka pills, nalalaglag din pag may nabubuo. Life experience ito ha, hindi medical opinion or advice.


Pbskddls

Male here, and boy does this topic trigger my Christian parents. They knew I was apparently active when me and my partner suffered a miscarriage. We told them and the went on about rejoicing (just coz it was Holy Week at the time) because okay kame, di daw kame pinabayaan ng nasa taas and all. I get it. Fine. Thank God, right? But hello, a sould just died and you want us to fucking "rejoice"? Bullshit. Now they say they're really not into me and my partner living together since that happened coz pano daw kung maging intimate kame and shit. Kung alam lang nila... HAHAHAHAHA but I could care less. They even visited us after my partner got discharged, lakompake nung nakalatat lang sa hapag yung kaha ng sigarilyo tsaka ashtray eh. Sometimes these traditions ain't so practical na talaga. That's why I've been inactive and stopped attending services narin. Nakakaumay kaya yung mga banat na "gAwAiN bA nG kRiStYaNo yAn?".


Purple_Gurple15

I hope this isn't too much information, but my mom didn't actually find out; she just assumed I'd been doing it since high school. I lost my virginity to an ex-boyfriend when I was 19, and he also claims I was his first. I hate the negativity surrounding it. My mom always says my dad, her husband, is her first and last, and no one else should be involved. She thinks I was whoring myself around so no one would take me seriously or marry me in the future. Truthfully, I buy underwear on sale from La Senza with my modest allowance because they're nicer than what she gets me from Avon, and she equates that with being promiscuous. Seriously?🥴 As for my dad, he thinks it's karma for being sexually active since high school and having multiple girlfriends before he patiently courted my mom. He only "scored" after marrying her. I promise I'll bring this up in therapy, though I don't know if I can say all this without crying.


missalaskayoung

Nalaman nya lang 23 na ako kasi nahospital ako tapos tinanong ako ng doctor kung sexually active ba ako sa harap nya like?????? Well ang ginawa ng nanay ko ay sinabi sa kapatid ko and then after nun inaasar na nila ako lol nagsesex daw pala kami. Hello 6 years na kame ng bf ko at that time, siguro dati may hints na tas naconfirm nya lang.


doraalaskadora

My mum caught us having sex in her lounge when she walked passed and heard us moaning she just said okay and then headed back to bed.


Consistent_Two_247

how much does prep usually cost? and how do you take it? thanks in advance.


-__Eclipse__-

How did your parents…. Reacted.


Chocolateormango

Magaling akong magtago haha and for some reason, may tiwala sila sa akin so never din nila nabrought up🤷🏻‍♀️ Mga kapatid ko lang yung napagsasabihan about ganyang bagay.


luna242629

Kwento ng brother ko na he told my super religious mom about me being active before I got married, nr naman daw kasi wala na rin siyang magagawa.


itsmadre

wala, parang natatawa kasi bakit daw may alam na ako sa mga ganong bagay AHAHAHA! 'wag ko lang daw ikalat sa social media and 'wag ipaalam sa kanila kung makikipag s*x ba ako or kung nakipag s*x ba that day HAHAHA! saka use protection daw.


Fair_Independence33

D naman nila alam. May pkiramdam akong alm na ni Mama pero thats it. Quiet lang.


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Green-Green-Garden

Sana nagpa coach ka sa nanay mo..


donkeykongking_

Im 26 and they still don't know 😂


CountOlaf13

need ba ng consultation and reseta bago makabili ng prep?


lov3srecklessly

my mom cried (lol), I think my dad still is oblivious about it (o kaya ayaw lang niya harapin ang katotohanan)


ImmediateAgency7977

happy to read the comments as an anxious girly here


noobwatch_andy

Not a girl but FIL kept asking us for a kid while my wife and I were still dating.


enchanteBelle

I was at med school nun. My dad was pretty chill about it and sinabi lang “You’re in medical school, i don’t have to explain na diba?” My mom confronted me naman because meron initials sa collar yung shirt na naiwan ng date ko. 🤣


Hungry_Razzmatazz514

mid30s here. Go daw. pabuntis na daw 🤣


Gravedoll01

I'm a dude so it wasn't really an issue except for the few times they busted my door open and saw me slapping the bird. Those were the worst dinners.


redferrari811

My mama found out after an accident. I had to get an xray. When the nurse asked some routine questions related to precautions before isalang ako sa xray machine she asked me if i am pregnant, hindi kaagad ako nakasagot ng hinde. I was not sure kase. So nurse asked me if ok lang mag preg test muna ako before mag xray. Katabe ko si mama. Nagalet siya sa nurse baket daw ako ipag preg test eh dalaga pa anak nya. The horror on her face nung nag register at napagtanto nya na oh em geee! Shes done it! 😵 Napagalitan ako.


No_Obligation_1613

omg im still in the process of making her warm up to it pero she once saw my stash of lube sa room ko. she was livid at the time. and in a separate incident, nakita nya stock ko ng contraceptives (pills) and HIV tests. wala naman na sya sinabi 🥹


Tinkywinky0904

My mom found out about my irregular cycle eventually i consulted my OB (my TITA), asked me spot on kung virgin paba ako kasi if oo, transrectal ultrasound, if hindi na, transvaginal. Take note: tabe pa mismo ng mom ko. "I just said hindi na po" dahil sa takot ko nalang mapasukan ng camera sa pwit ko. Ayun Its funny na na shookt lang siya. 🥹


Temporary-Wear-1892

yung mama ko at daddy ko nung nalaman nila hindi na ko virgin mga masasakit na salita sinabe nila sa akin pokpok walang respeto sa sarili😔


Current-Royal-9020

HAAHAHAA TANGINA PINALAYAS AKO, ngayon kay lola at lolo na ako nakatira 😃