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Camrons_Mink

Imagine getting your masters and then going to a prom


meatballcake87

Dude I just finished my 3rd year of undergrad and I could never imagine going to a high school dance. It takes a weird kind of person to still want to go to one of those that far removed from high school


QuarterNote44

I graduated with my master's last year. (Granted, I took a few years off to work) I walked around campus feeling like I still fit in and then it hit me one day: "I have a wife, kids, and a mortgage. The freshmen here see me as ancient. The seniors probably do too. I'm living in a different world than 80% of the campus. I'm officially old."


theVelvetLie

I was nearly 30 when I went back to school. I had a house and commuted, so I didn't really feel that awkward. At 32, though, I was living in a dorm room with a student under 21 during a summer internship while I owned a house 300 miles away. Talk about weird as fuck.


badger0511

I work at MSU and had a punch in the gut "I'm old as fuck" when I saw the 9/11 remembrance message on [the Rock](https://virtualtour.msu.edu/tour/campus-highlights-tour/the-rock/) last fall and I realized none of the traditional aged undergrads and masters students *actually* remember 9/11... because they either were in diapers or not even born yet. I was a freshman in high school.


undecided_mask

Have you considered $$$? NBA is very lucrative.


d7h7n

Someone who wants a millionaire manchild.


wahoowalex

Millionaire Manchild is a solid band name


bourbonstew

Takes a gold digger (cousin) who saw his ranking and future success as a golden ticket


juslookingforastream

Imagine if the genders were flipped and this was somebody like Angel Reese or CC being estranged from their family by a man who was 24 going to senior prom and preying on a child.


Brsijraz

i mean it’d be bad too but it’s not like anyone thinks this isn’t weird. regardless of genders this is insanely bizarre


kahani-

The Utah Jazz subreddit is more upset at his family for bringing this up and at the Mormon slander than the rest of the situation lol


Jenaxu

Our fanbase is never beating the allegations, it's so rough lmaooo


4fingertakedown

Mormons are so fucking weird.


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MaizeAndBruin

Wait till r/MMA tells you all about Pat Berry and Rose Namajunas.


Known-Seaweed8812

Or aspen ladd…or the shevchenkos….mma is rife with coach grooming.


Robbylution

Jerry Seinfeld went to his girlfriend’s prom… when he was 40.


fancycheesus

I missed that episode


Prinzlerr

"What's the deal with a corsage?"  *cue bass lick*


King_Kung

More people should know this fact about him and treat him accordingly.


DollarThrill

I knew about the age gap, but he actually went to her prom?


noposters

No


TrustInRoy

Imagine expecting to get laid on prom night, only for your middle aged girlfriend to say "sorry we can only Soak."


Senor_Couchnap

Just because you started losing your hair at 26 doesn't mean 26 is middle age


LeakingPontiff

My girlfriend knows this girl from high school and LAST SEASON was telling me "yea this girl I know dates one of the Duke players" imagine my shock when she said it was Filipowski. Then I thought "hold on we're like 26-27" and she was like "yep it's very weird". Crazy that it's coming out now


BillHigh422

And you never thought to share that information with us?! /s


DrSleepyTime15

Ban him!


ShillinTheVillain

String him up by his toenails and flog him with pool noodles!


WakingEchoes

Make him watch NC State v Va Tech on repeat!


zippy_the_cat

I think even this Supreme Court would unanimously agree that’s cruel and unusual.


MidwestDrummer

Jokes on you, he's a closet Wisconsin fan!


cha-cha_dancer

It’s Alabama, the only weird part is they weren’t related


JoeTillersMustache

Well . . .


FlamingSnowman3

About that.


DoctorGoFuckYourself

Wait are they??


FlamingSnowman3

Apparently there’s an old Instagram post that’s gone around (as in, from when Kyle was like eleven) with her in it that suggests that they’re cousins. Couldn’t find it on short notice, but I’ll see if I can dig it up. Don’t know if I actually believe that bit without more evidence, but it is apparently somehow mixed up with the rest of it.


vikr4msri

From my knowledge (friends with people close to Duke basketball: friends, managers etc. but not gonna go more in depth cuz I ain’t revealing them), they aren’t biologically related but their aunt and uncle are married. That’s why she babysat him at a young age. She sounds like an awful person and completely took advantage of a young man.


onemanlan

Get your girlfriend in this thread right now! We need answers


PageSide84

I, too choose this guy's girlfriend.


kosmonautinVT

For answers, to be clear, absolutely nothing beyond answers


ScrofessorLongHair

Well almost. It's nothing beyond an...


PabloTroutSanchez

It’s not really the same thing and tangentially related at best, but I had a similar situation through a friend of a friend with the whole Zach Wilson/MILF ordeal. Watching the news play out in real time was interesting…


kjpatto23

Yea so her Instagram is floating Twitter and out of curiosity I checked it out and it’s true. She graduated from bama in 2018 and has prom pics with Kyle up from 2022


JaalandBetter

Her eyes give me the creeps. Guilty. https://preview.redd.it/l231dt0w479d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=3d9665c5cd45a90a632b8b77cce0bae6d77bdbc4


JollyRancher29

She got Krystal Koons eyes


TJsPJs

As a nova native this resonates with me HARD


nattechterp

Was not expecting to see this reference today


ShammgodandManatMU

And from a Oklahoma/Purdue flair, no less.


ooboh

Wouldn’t have expected this reference at all.


noodeloodel

I understand this on such a level omg.


Quople

that hits too close to home


MtFuzzmore

I get this reference!


zschneido

Wtfffff this is so weird


kjpatto23

Gets worse https://preview.redd.it/qsxklxr1779d1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ebaaf08d48645af6efa69274942b157e01408a8d


Cyniclone

It’s like someone installed her eyes upside down


commie_heathen

Fucked up the CSS


AJB46

Vietnam flashbacks (to last week)


thewkndsport

Omg 😂😂😂😂😂


Username_redact

Crosseyed & Painless


AJB46

What in the fuck is going on with them


jakoboi_

she look like this https://i.imgur.com/C9WVXWE.jpeg


daswassup13

The caption oh my god?


undecided_mask

This can’t possibly get any worse can it?


ctbro025

Oh, I bet it can. Especially if Flip's (estranged) family starts speaking out more.


Optimal-Kitchen6308

apparently she babysitted him and theres pictures together of them when he was like 12 so...could be much worse


kjpatto23

Allegedly she’s also his cousin so it can and did


MisterGoog

Her eyes terrify me here


Salty-Employee

She definitely has crazy eyes. If he’s smart he’ll get a prenup


RyVsWorld

She probably prepared for that back in his high school days


mellolizard

They are screaming trad wife influencer


deevotionpotion

Bet she wasn’t smiling that big when he missed the 1st Round money for her.


Leilaniluv20

Liked by Andre Kirilenko lmao


biggsteve81

What high school allows people over the age of 20 to attend their prom?


M00SE_

I'm assuming it was a private high school. Rich people.


hooskies

Twitter saying she was his childhood babysitter…


King_Kung

His mom and brother's tweets have been eye opening.


yungirving99

Screenshot them


King_Kung

https://x.com/rotosurgeon/status/1806424983918477606?s=46&t=d_ws7dGcvAGeDfWDHndG1g


TemporalVagrant

What in the fuck


chameleon2021

If true it’s absolutely fucking crazy that he got drafted to the Jazz of all teams


newme02

damnn. messed up. unironically wonder if someone on the Jazz can help him out. needs some guidance, especially if he’s lost contact with his family


jellatubbies

You think the team in Utah is gonna do absolutely anything about a crazy Mormon grooming debacle? If anything it factors in to why they like him lol


goodkid_sAAdcity

Ron Swanson/Tammy One situation


tsgram

!!!


248Spacebucks

She was there the day he was born and she intends to be there the day he dies.


TangerineChicken

Holy shit, seriously? This is insane if it’s all true


gunnutzz467

She’s put in the work Time to cash out


UpbeatVeterinarian18

Jesus christ


King_Kung

No, it's more so Joseph Smith


Goldfish_Pizza

Dum dum dum dum dum


ssp25

But only I can see the stones... Plus I forgot where I buried them. Dum dum dum


College_Prestige

Guess who drafted him


Worldly_Worldliness5

Hey now


Look_at_the_Kid

Digging for gold in more ways than one


Commentswhenpooping

That second round money


Asleep-Geologist-612

Just full-on grooming if that’s the case. She should be in jail if that’s real.


mehnimalism

She’s Mormon so tough to pin on her without sex.


MisterGoog

I don’t think theres anything actual criminal to this


LurkerKing13

Not only was he in HS after she had a graduate degree, allegedly she was his babysitter when he was younger 💀


undecided_mask

This man is an actual victim.


LurkerKing13

Yeah if this isn’t grooming I’m not sure what is


MikeyTbT123

This is fucked and sad. I’m sure parts of our fan base are gonna run wild though


Sydney__Fife

Your fan base is slacking for not finding out sooner. So many missed opportunities the last 2 years


EyePlay

Nah, it's been known for at least a year. All of what's out there including the babysitter stuff. That's when I found out (from a UNC message board). Apparently it's been talked about on the duke boards for a little longer. It's just so weird, thankfully, we didn't weaponize it. Honestly feel sorry for the kid.


QuarterNote44

Yeah, victim-blaming is gross. There's probably no helping him now, though. Either he dumps her or he doesn't. He's a man now and can make his own decisions.


bahpo8308

2 years ago at the duke game I remember people were shouting at flip “where’s your babysitter”


PabloTroutSanchez

Ah, fuck that. I went to the last one w K and was a part of the DUI chanting contingent. I think we should weaponize actual poor decisions the guys make after they’re out of HS. Flip’s situation, on the other hand, shouldn’t be.


BraveChipmunk3005

Yea. As much as I think he’s insufferable, I’m glad this is only coming out after he’s gone so some in our camp didn’t weaponize it


MisterGoog

Feels like maybe publicizing it would get the situation dissolved


Icangetloudtoo_

I don’t think Kyle is gonna listen to UNC fans trying to embarrass him during a game for dating advice.


EyePlay

From my understanding (could be wrong) is that his teammates and coaching staff knew about it. If anything they should have done something. And clearly his family knew. Evidentally from some duke fans on here their campus knew too.


wallawalla_wallaby

I mean, in all seriousness, what should they have done? It’s not like any of them could force a breakup or do anything other than check in with him and make sure he knows he has a support system.


EyePlay

You're right. Couldn't do anything. It was more of a reply to an opposing fan base should have brought it up more publicly when clearly it wasn't that private of a secret to begin with.


ConsciousKiwi9

We knew a long time ago. It has been on IC for a while and rumors of the issues she caused in the program.


bkn6136

It was on IC last year. I honestly think most people just didn't want to dig too far into it because it's pretty gross.


FrostedWikiLeaks

P.R. at big school's are serious business. This was light work for them. Flip didn't commit the crime so it's easier to hide and deflect attention away.


mptickets

We should have realized something was up by the lack of camera shots of his mom at games.


Feeling-Response-972

![gif](giphy|1msK2c1s3lfyomkRmL) HUH?!?


RoyBatty1984

Damn, this is just straight up terrible. Grooming is reprehensible, I really feel for the guy. Hope his family can get him back into a sense of normalcy.


lostkoalas

Apparently he doesn’t speak with his family much anymore because of her. It’s sad, I really feel for him. Classic toxic significant other situation. ETA: apparently it’s not even that he “doesn’t speak with his family much anymore” but he fully cut them off because of her, with a long goodbye letter and everything, according to one of his brothers. AND a friend of the brother said he cut off all his high school friends and coaches. No longer hangs with his college teammates either. Just fully cut off from everyone except her and her family. Fucking tragic.


hymen_destroyer

Am I reading into this right? His draft stock *fell* because he was groomed as a minor? Why he should suffer *any* negative consequences for this is beyond me


uconnball17

Right?? Shows he’s coachable /s obviously in case it’s needed


chicago_bunny

I’m going to hell for laughing so hard at this.


toomuchdiponurchip

Same 😂😂😂


thebrickcloud

So glad I scrolled this entire thread to get to this comment.


imadreamgirl

hooooly shit lmao


SpaceSheperd

Supposedly he didn't handle it well when teams asked about it and that affected his interviews


Then_Landscape_3970

It sounds like he also did very poorly in interviews & workouts, I think it was more of a red flag that his judgement was so poor. 100% he is the victim in all this, but if you’re an NBA GM, it’s probably easier to pick a similar-quality prospect who WASN’T groomed and DOES have a relationship with his family than the alternative (which sucks to say, but is true)


Im_Daydrunk

It's probably just a thing you know is gonna become a bigger story with a bigger spotlight and if you're struggling with it in draft interviews it's probably gonna affect your ability to be your best self when you're actually in the league + getting way more attention I'd feel really bad for him as an executive but also extremely concerned about how it's gonna impact the team to bring that situation into the locker room since based on everything I've seen it's pretty clearly a fucked up situation that will be blasted constantly in the media


meatballcake87

His interviews weren’t good and he seemed super nervous according to sources


proelitedota

The more likely reason he fell is because he was the only player in the draft to have a wingspan shorter than his height. 


luvdadrafts

They’re not dropping him **because** he was groomed, but because he’s in a toxic situation. Not “screw this guy for being a victim” and more “maybe let’s not invest in and attach ourselves to a toxic environment where a player is being actively manipulated”


QTsexkitten

Why would an NBA GM draft him higher because he's a grooming victim? Why would an NBA team invite that kind of potential pr and locker room disaster into their org? You serious? It's unfortunate and he's a victim, but I could name 20 reasons why an NBA GM would start to consider passing on him. Especially first round.


69millionyeartrip

The trauma from this can't be good for his mental state it's not his fault but these teams have a business to run and if this affects his game it's a problem for the team.


gogglesup859

Coach K's on a vacation far away Come over and talk it over So many things that I wanna say You know I like my girls a little bit older I just wanna get drafted toniiiight


tarspaceheels

For those who haven’t seen: https://www.reddit.com/r/nba/comments/1dq0d4f/givony_on_kyle_filipowski_nba_teams_are_talking/


undecided_mask

I really want to know how this didn’t get out earlier. I feel like this would have been a perfect basketball cheer for opposing fans to heckle, much less an actual grooming situation!


scarletnaught

Mormon Mafia about to come for you.


k_dubious

It's easy to get away from them, you just run inside a Starbucks.


balboabud

Nah, we're on the same page here


NotStanley4330

Yeah this is gross.


target_rats_

How didn't this end up on one of those student section ~~harassment~~ cheer sheets?


ltn748

As a Duke student, we all had heard this. There were even rumors that she used to babysit him. We all think it’s gross as hell


future_CTO

Whoever edited Wikipedia, they are absolutely brutal. https://preview.redd.it/qmtxdrdjd89d1.jpeg?width=1792&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=d6557426ca9b14939535c422d66991f11cd56874


JonCoqtosten

The President of France is unimpressed.


poundcake_bakes

Duke fans were not aware of this. As someone who just graduated from Duke, we always knew it was a weird situation with his girlfriend but that was the extent. This is news to us


TrustInRoy

I've seen some of the cheer sheets you guys print out before games.  I don't know how you're able to find out a NC State bench player cheated on his 8th grade Spanish test, but not find out Flip was dating his own babysitter.


gapmoeisjustice

I mean oddly enough we’re usually more interested in finding new ways to heckle opposing players than finding dirt on our own guys.


TornWonder

Makes sense. This is really an indictment on all of the opposition fans for not finding this out.


poundcake_bakes

Oh we knew she was his babysitter. "Weird Situation". Didn't know any of the family issues


undecided_mask

How did this not get out with the babysitter stuff beforehand? This is insane.


TheGamingGuy2

Everyone knew there was some odd shit going on. I remember saying to friends “oh he’s definitely getting groomed” but like half meaning it as a joke.


undecided_mask

Fair enough. This whole situation is poorly timed. I’m just upset his family wasn’t talking about it earlier when people still had a chance to get him out of that cult. Poor guy.


Puzzleheaded_Pound31

This is crazy to me. Star player and this never came up once? What a time to be


plyness115

I think it’s weird how students end up hearing much more than the general population. I’ve definitely heard more about select purdue players than would ever be in the news.


ItssethL22

How is it weird that people that directly see and interact with these athletes everyday know more then the general population


plyness115

Sorry. Let me be more clear. I think it’s weird that this stuff doesn’t make its way out. Not that it’s weird we hear stuff.


TheAnalyticalThinker

Ditto. Granted, I graduated in 2023. This is news to me.


Ozone416

Not sure what you’re talking about? Duke C/O 2024 and we all knew about this — a lot of students were making jokes (albeit outside of Cameron) and thought how *weird* it was. It was all over Duke YikYak/Sidechat too which spread out to other Duke meme social media accounts lol


Hokie_Jayhawk

Damn I'm old. YikYak and Sidechat sound made up to me.


WilliamMButtlicker

Yikyak was a thing when I was in college back in like 2012. I’m just surprised to hear it’s still around


poundcake_bakes

Oh ya yik tak and side chat were popping off. Of course we knew how absolutely weird it was. What i meant was that we didnt know about the family cutting off all communications


Ozone416

Oh yeah that information just came out, but tbf when we would watch the games in Cameron this past two years my friends and I observed that his family was always sitting away from his girlfriend in the audience. we reached a conclusion that they probably didn’t like her but not by THIS much


poundcake_bakes

Ah good observation, I never noticed that. To be honest I was always piss drunk with ski goggles on focusing on yelling


lostkoalas

I never thought I’d hear something that would make me feel for Filipowski, but man……….I do not love this for him.


coleslonomatopoeia

You can bet the Jazz were salivating


SayNoToHypocrisy

Hey, at least she’s real.


thebrickcloud

Manti Teo's girlfriend joke was not on my NBA Draft bingo card.


mellolizard

At first i was disappointed our fans didn't pick up on this. But then again this is creepy as fuck and that kid needs help


WorkingForGolfMoney

Probably didn’t even get to hit it yet either lol


Seanizonfire

Bro this is whole situation is reading like some insane UNC fan’s shitpost lmao


VERYberry-44

1. Crazy Duke kept this under wraps 2. C’mon UNC how the fuck did you not figure this out and attack it. That’s your job.


TrustInRoy

He still intentionally tripped Harrison Ingram


ssp25

Some people invest in Nvidia some in teenage boys


Johnny_Minoxidil

When these kids get drafted, all these hangers on come out of the woodwork. Can’t they just let him soak it in?


HandsomeJack19

She's 26. ;) Also, according to his estranged brother he's being "indoctrinated" into Mormon culture. And now the Jazz drafted him... ... ...


RamenNoodleSalad

He owes lemonade money to the wrong people and is now in too deep.


nick08surf

She is 28. Started dating him when she was 26


Broken_Sandwich

Holy shit this girl has been playing the long game


kdbvols

Biggest sports girlfriend story since Manti Teo. In both cases, brutal to hear about, especially for the guy in question. In both cases, probably a lot of jokes being made that don’t need to be made


anne_bo_loser

I’m a Duke student, and this has been common knowledge on campus for the past couple of years. Whenever he’s playing badly, people will joke about needing to get him out of his child marriage. Also, she was his babysitter and we’re unsure if they’re cousins or not. It’s heavily debated.


EccentricPayload

Hollup it sounds like he's legit a victim wtf. Seems like she knew he was an amazing prospect and just hitched a ride to $$$$. That's fuckin crazy and I feel bad for Kyle because I'm sure to him it seems normal. Absolutely was groomed.


5WinsIn5Days

Not a Dukie, but I’m guessing that he kept it on the down-low and it got awkward when he would not answer whether or not he had sex with her under the age of consent where he’s from. He’s a year older than most college students of his class (not necessarily college players), but if he was with her during his junior year, there might be statutory rape concerns. Also, because he has cut off his parents, who would have been able to sue the woman if said sex occurred when he was a minor, it probably raises some eyebrows about his trustworthiness over statements relating to whether he had the sex. Culture is important to teams, so having a player perceived as a soft flopper who might not be honest and theoretically could be asked to testify in a trial at any point until the statute of limitations expires would be detrimental. Also, they both could be convicted for statutory rape and he wouldn’t have his family to stand up for him. He must have been tall and skilled at the age he started seeing her and his parents probably (rightfully) believe she is a gold digger.


berniegoesboom

Unless I am missing something, why would there be reason for *him* to be convicted in this case?


AccomplishedRainbow1

You think he, a Mormon convert, and his Mormon girlfriend were having sex when he was in HS? I mean, maybe I guess.


WillDill94

Mormons have sex all the time lol. Definitely don’t look up soaking


trongzoon

![gif](giphy|lXu72d4iKwqek)


CrownTownLibrarian

You know, several times Kyle just looked miserable this season. Other Duke fans commented on this and I saw it as well. Puzzle pieces adding up


vikr4msri

She was also (supposedly) his baby sitter growing up and his aunt is married to her uncle. His family members are starting to talk about it online. Very weird situation and feel really bad for some of the parties involved. She sounds like a horrendous person.


The_Crown_And_Anchor

**She was his BABYSITTER** **She's literally been grooming him since he was 13**


DopeMarkPope

Imagine being a rockstar for two years at Duke while your almost 30 y.o. GF keeps you from going out with teammates or enjoying the rarity of that experience.


canadianbroncos

Now reverse the sexs and he's not drafted and calls for him to be in jail are raining from the sky lol


ArthurMoregainz

Well damn


trailerparknoize

Good thing about playing for Duke is you don’t have to play against the loser goons who do all that research into what an opposing players college GPA is.


GeorgeWBluth

This makes so much sense now. I've heard a lot of murmurs around the Duke program about cultural issues and ppl not gelling last couple years, and the fact the star wasn't allowed to attend team social events explains a lot...


North-Daikon-7417

https://preview.redd.it/7fnhwmu2nb9d1.jpeg?width=1179&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=2e82fb7aaf70e20cfedb9680099d4b93bb94248e