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anywhereanyone

How early were these taken?


mlloser

5:30-6:30am


anywhereanyone

Your photographer lit them well.


Un111KnoWn

how much did you pay disney for the weeding?


ButtHoleNurse

OP says in another post it was a little over $55,000


ricker182

It's insane to me that people spend that much on a wedding.


ButtHoleNurse

Oh yea, I would never spend $55k on a wedding, but I was expecting it to be over $100k


ricker182

Yeah. I'd think Disney would be a little pricier. My constantly "broke" buddy spent around $30k on his wedding. Little did he know he could get married for around $100 at the courthouse.


Scotcash

My wife and I got married at an all-inclusive resort in Mexico on the beach. When everything was done we spent about $800 including the airfare.


marciprojects

My sister got married at the gazebo outside of the Disneyland Hotel and reception was at GCH. Back in 2008, it was $40k. If she wanted to shut down the park (during the week, in the evening) it was $100k minimum.


Benny23232

That’s not too terrible for a wedding really, on average weddings sit around 30-40,000 and that’s is the cheaper states. That’s probably a pretty decent wedding budget for California.


kcoy1723

It really depends on how many people you need to fit/how big of a room you need to rent. I’m guessing it was a small wedding.


Benny23232

Yeah I think it was a small wedding, my husband and I are in Texas and when we were looking at wedding planning and here where things tend to be a bit cheaper it was at minimum 30,000 for 50 people at a decent wedding place. We ended up doing a smaller thing with just our families due to the fact we wanted a more intimate thing than 50. But the cheapest around where we live was 30,000 so 50,000 really isn’t shocking


ricker182

It's still insane to me that people spend that much money for essentially one party. I'm not poor by any means, but there's no way I would've spent anywhere near that to get married.


rev_pickle_chips

I had a post covid wedding planned before covid. I paid $28,000 for 20 guests. It was in the 2 most coveted venues Disneyland hotel has. I had the crystal carriage and a castle shoot as well. I think it was well worth the money, it was the most magical experience for everybody involved.


cocainebane

Pretty affordable ngl


ButtHoleNurse

It's honestly not as much as I thought it would be. I bet getting married inside the park is outrageous tho


ObligationGlad

I looked at the budget on her other page and thought the same thing. Can’t have as many guest as a normal wedding of that cost but you also have one of a kind location.


whiteguyinCS

Only 20 guests though


Chase1477

That seems incredibly cheap.


lucidpopsicle

You can pay for just photos too, that's what I did


davharm

Environment, conditions and photography are all S tier. I don't wanna know the cost but these are insane and I'm jealous


mlloser

Thank you!


LeftofCenter25

The rain soaked pathways makes them even more spectacular looking :D


mlloser

Thank you!


cdowd9006

Althought it might be wet from the rain, depending on the day this was taken it could also be from third shift custodial. Disney has a whole crew of third shift workers whose sole job it is to power wash all the paths and walkways every night.


same_same_3121

Ha! I was going to say the same thing. I worked third shift custodial and this looks like it.


Space2345

How expensive was this


brainkandy87

I’m not even sure I make enough to look at the photos


agreeingstorm9

Did some back of envelope math on their budget and I do not make enough to even look at their budget. I only got halfway around the pie chart before I was priced out.


mlloser

If you go to my profile, I made a separate post about our budget!


luckyllama805

Honestly I was expecting it cost much more considering it’s a Disney wedding. Gorgeous wedding!


johyongil

Because she did her wedding in GCH rather than the park during open hours, it is much within the realm of attainable. I don’t know if it has changed but I remember that it used to be that if you wanted to get married in the park during open operating hours and have a semi private event (where they rope off) you have to cover their fee plus the average daily concessions revenue for that sector in the season on top of other things. It can get very expensive very quickly.


ObligationGlad

That still is a really good venue price at a nice hotel.


johyongil

Oh absolutely. I’d argue that GCH is better than a nice hotel.


ObligationGlad

Staying for the first time in May and looking forward to it.


johyongil

Going by yourself? With a SO? Kids?


ObligationGlad

Originally Mom and me trip with my daughter. Did one with my son at the same age. Through really bizarre circumstances, got gifted a VIP tour and so now my SO and son are flying up for a couple of days for the trip so they can participate. Was suppose to be run of the mill Disney vacation…. Now probably going to be a trip of a lifetime. Everyone is very excited!


johyongil

That is amazing! I hope you guys have a great trip and a lively time! We just completed our annual trip (2 kiddos) and stayed at the VDH. Haven’t stayed at GCH since pre 2010 so I’m quite jealous.


rextraverse

> park during open hours Probably a stupid question because this is America so if you have the money, anything is available but... they let you book in the park during operating hours for a wedding? Are we looking at 7 figures at that point?


johyongil

1000000% worth it. Love the photos and congrats to you both!


Turbulent_Break_2308

I appreciate all that you're sharing, but percentages doesn't really answer the question. Edit, I'm an absolute idiot. I didn't see the other slides.


NutellaPC

The body of OP’s budget post also states it was roughly 56k after everything. Stunning wedding, OP, I imagine you made some absolutely magical memories ❤️ What a dream!


whimsicalsilly

That’s actually not bad!! Beautiful pictures too. I would’ve expected to be more, but $56k for a wedding seems pretty reasonable to me.


cilantro_so_good

Right? I was expecting something absurd. I've been married for more than 20 years, and I don't remember exactly how much the event cost, but it was 5 figures at least and we purposefully did a super intimate thing at home. My brother did the full catholic thing with country club reception and all that jazz in the 90s and that was just about as much as this in old-timey dollars


agreeingstorm9

I am absurdly jealous of not only how beautiful these pics are but how rich they are to be able to afford it.


NutellaPC

Some people are also blessed with generous and successful parents or other relatives, that usually helps. And if one or both of them made good career/personal choices, even more. Hopefully OP appreciates what an amazing experience this is, they sound like a genuine person so I imagine they do! But Absurdly Jealous is definitely an accurate reflection of my feelings about it too 🤣


mlloser

Thank you for the kind words! My now-husband and I both have full time jobs and are DINKs (just dog children). This is the largest “purchase” we have made besides buying our house!


NutellaPC

You seem like a really kind and genuine person, so I was getting my back up at people getting mad about the price 🤣🤣 Your money, your choices, and it sounds like you and Hubs are on the right path! And tbh 50k isn’t what it used to be (😩😬) so I’m with other commenters that it’s not really as much as I would’ve expected! And I almost mentioned the likelihood that you are DINKs, we have several sets of friends in the same position and I often live vicariously through their dependent-free adventures; they’re leaving for a con tomorrow, in fact, and just got back from another trip a few weeks ago. So many adventures! So enjoy it, lady, your wedding was gorgeous and I wish you many beautiful years with your new husband! 🫶🏼


mlloser

Lol thank you so much!! ❤️


agreeingstorm9

Honestly, the true wealth here is that they can drop $55k, pay cash for it and it doesn't worry them. I feel like most people who get married are DINKS but don't have this kind of money. It's a blessing to be able to just write a check and go on with your life. A lot of people can't do that for even $1,000.


Turbulent_Break_2308

You know, $55k isn't what it used to be, and I've seen a lot less wedding for a lot more money. To OP, these are beautiful memories.


agreeingstorm9

In my part of the US, $55k is a downpayment on a house. At the very least, it is a very, very nice luxury car. That's a ton of money for one weekend. The pics are gorgeous but to be able to go home and not worry about the cost - that's the true wealth right there.


athennna

We spent about that on our wedding, so I was initially really impressed by how affordable all of that looked in OP’s photos, but then I saw that it was only 20 guests! We had 175 😫. Her photos are stunning though, what great looking wedding.


mlloser

There’s a slide with the price of each category


UrbanStix

Wow actually surprised at prices I expected WAY higher.


Vicious-the-Syd

Yeah, honestly, it wasn’t as much as I remember it being. I thought I remember thinking it was about $80k minimum just to be at Disney (not mentioning clothes/etc)


asssbowl

The next slide has numbers.


Fenrirsulfur

I just added the numbers off of her budget chart and it came out to $51,602. The Disney stuff themselves make up a little over half the total amount, so like $25k+.


UrbanStix

What time did you have the wedding at? I’ve seen some crazy early ones


mlloser

Our wedding was actually at 5pm! The in park pictures started at 5:30am 😅


Ok_Iseeyou

So did you go to bed and then get all ready again for the photos ?


mlloser

Yes, went to bed around 11:30 and woke up at 1:45! I definitely think we could’ve just stayed up all night and not had to do hair and makeup again


BigFatBlackCat

Did you party all night and then redo your hair and make up for the pics?


hawkrover

$55k...Jesus Christ


Duosion

It’s less than I expected. Guest count only 20, so on the pricier side, but I’m not shocked at how much weddings cost. My sister’s was 40k overseas for 100 guests in a cheaper country where it would’ve been 120k in the states.


agreeingstorm9

$55k for only 20 guests is absurdly expensive. Most weddings in that price range have a whole lot more guests than that. Most people who pare their invite list down to only 20 people do so in order to save money. Paying $120k for 100 guests in the US is not a typical situation at all.


UrbanStix

For a wedding in Southern California? Have you seen the cost of anything here? That’s average


dootdootpoom

Third photo is lovely. Congratulations.


mlloser

Thank you!


seaofwonder

Holy shit. That third photo is PERFECT. The framing. The flowers. The lighting. The grizzly peaking out (but otherwise you could be anywhere else). And of course you two! It's so good.


mlloser

Thank you so much!!


helloasianglow

It's a bear 😉 but I agree with your sentiments 100%-- beautiful photos of a lovely couple!


JediSmaug

They turned out great. Congratulations


mlloser

Thank you!


mrsotter26

Love these all. The White Rabbit team is the best! 🥹


Magicandbrooms

Hello from a 🐇 🚝. What a magical day ✨✨✨


MemeMePhotoshop

That's pretty awesome! Congratulations


nsfwtttt

May be the best wedding photos I’ve ever seen :-) 2nd one has UP vibes :-)


GomeyBlueRock

I expected it to be much more than $55k. Great photos


Available_Culture954

W had ours there w main steet phots for 30k 🥰❤️ The whole wedding…… last year ….. ❤️


BruisedSkidd

It’s been a long, hard day and the second picture made me genuinely tear up. 😭 That is so romantic and sweet.


athennna

Do you bring your own photographer or does Disney provide one? These are incredible


HinagyBunny

These are beautiful!!!


sparkalicious37

Absolutely stunning! Congrats!


pizzapat650

2nd photo is my favorite. Looks great!


panicbiscuits

Omg gorgeous!! I know where we're going to renew vows now!! 😍 Thanks so much for sharing


RabbitFootLuck

Wow, these are beautiful. Congrats OP


SealedRoute

Amazing, thank you for sharing!


jackrelax

I hate you both I'm so jealous! Positively GREEN! (Looks STUNNING!)


jrod_jpg

Stunning pics. Congrats🫶🏻


luckyllama805

Amazing photos! Love the reflections off the wet ground. Congrats!


ActInternational7316

Just beautiful


cranberrydudz

These are very well done. Outstanding and congratulations


panda-rampage

Congrats OP on your wedding!


Sappsy

Wow gorgeous! Did you get to choose the locations you wanted to take your photos in?


mlloser

Yes, we chose Pixar Pier! Couples are provided a list of locations to choose from (the castle being the most expensive)!


JoBrosHoes93

Congratulations 🎉


Disastr0phy

Congratulations to the both of you. The photos look beautiful. Hope I can do something like this some day.


ocean_129

Congratulations! Beautiful photos. Wishing you guys a wonderful life together!


catdog_2014

Amazing wow


stellalunawitchbaby

These are lovely! Congratulations.


Dont_Eat_The_Homies

Gorgeous! Congratulations! Held our wedding reception at The Grand Californian 18 years ago, food catered by Napa Rose - it was truly magical and guests had a blast. Can't go wrong with a Disney wedding ❤️


JoePetroni

Well Congrats! And beautiful pictures!


Grumpsterloks

Beautiful ❤️


flannel_towel

These are wonderful!!! Congratulations


Old_Feature5428

Was your wedding reception in a garden type of area outside? I think we saw you there! We saw someone having a reception there on Friday anyway. Congratulations! Gorgeous pictures!


lomiller1790

UM these are incredible


churropopcorn

Lovely photos! Did Genie+ come with the package?


sweatermaster

Wow these are fantastic. What great memories for you guys. Congratulations.


Available_Culture954

We had a wedding a the grand wedding garden last year and did Main Street photos w white rabbit …. The best experience ever!!! Congratulations! Beautiful photos and looks like a lovely time!!! ❤️


yoimlilo

Oh, we get it, you riiiiiich riiiiiiich. Congratulations! The photos are beautiful!


Chrushev

According to google it starts at $15k, that’s a bargain for a wedding in California. You did good if you spent under $30k for a wedding in So Cal.


calimind

Looks great!


JazzyButternuts

Amazing pics!


JimmyOrland0

I'm crying at my desk at work to these.


sillysteen

Beautiful! I love Grizzly Peak photobombing you—super cute!


Benny23232

Gorgeous!


lc41086

Congratulations. Who did you use for these and how would I go about doing something like this ?


Holiday-Strategy-643

🎊 congratulations! ❤️ 😍 💖 🏰 


Tomnambulist

Congratulations! I hope you both enjoy your happily ever after


karibear76

These are gorgeous!


snugglebuggleboo

Your dress is magical and I love everything about these! Congrats on your marriage!


RonnieBobs

Stunning!! Congrats 🥰


TooBears1996

They are beautiful 😍


toosauccyy

Congrats! Where was the 3rd photo taken at?


MiniMuff2000

Is it part of the wedding package to get access to the park like that? That’s amazing


Catfan7421

Congratulations!!! Very beautiful pictures 🤩


dizneyfreak7896

Omg I was at GCH on Friday and saw your wedding setup!! Congrats!


[deleted]

You got money money


[deleted]

OMG OP how beautiful!!!!


No_Trifle_6239

I was at the park that night, saw your reception setup while walking through the Grand Californian. It looked great, congratulations.


Single-Hot-Women

The third one is pretty I just love those’


Human_Disco_Ball

Yikes


North-Ad-4222

wow!! they let u in the park alone to take these??


frozenelsa12

Congrats


HappyJoyusFree

Awwww... so enchanting ..Beautiful


Infamous_Afternoon93

really surprised they allowed it, looks great, congrats


RSammons73

Omg LOVE ❤️


RSammons73

Love your flowers, love your dress, love your hair!!! You were a beautiful bride! Congratulations!!


Tmag28

Eww


Kevin69138

I bet you're not really Disney fans. Name 3 songs


mlloser

Got us there!


JustLo619

Great pics, but the last one is crooked lol


LookAtTheFlowers

Nice, but 1 and 4 are crooked


[deleted]

Lmfao a true soyboy 😂