Here's the truth. They always reach out. Maybe 5-30 years down the road, and just to get some ego back after someone else destroyed theirs (like they did ours), but yes, they do. I have not had 1 man I have talked to previously not contact me. My very first crush was when I was 11, I'm 31 now and that mfer just reached out 2 weeks ago.
Here's the thing: does it matter? Do you really want that relationship back? The insecurity, the lies, the pain etc. When you KNOW you deserve better?
This. All mine came back at some point. Some out of curiosity. Some that wanted to play hide the zucchini. Some that wanted friendship. Some that wanted to reconcile.
It can be months to years later though.
Unfollow because you want to. It won’t do anything for or against “your chances” because honestly, if your emotional attraction was high enough to your ex, they would’ve messaged you already.
When it is, they will.
Only a few months 😆 definitely not long enough for him to miss me or want me back. I have known him/had feelings for him for 2+ years. I just feel like he didn't give us a fair shot.
I understand why people say to do it (to remove temptation) but I know I would look at his profile whether I unfollowed him or not. I'm still undecided so we will see what I do.
Here's the truth. They always reach out. Maybe 5-30 years down the road, and just to get some ego back after someone else destroyed theirs (like they did ours), but yes, they do. I have not had 1 man I have talked to previously not contact me. My very first crush was when I was 11, I'm 31 now and that mfer just reached out 2 weeks ago. Here's the thing: does it matter? Do you really want that relationship back? The insecurity, the lies, the pain etc. When you KNOW you deserve better?
This. All mine came back at some point. Some out of curiosity. Some that wanted to play hide the zucchini. Some that wanted friendship. Some that wanted to reconcile. It can be months to years later though. Unfollow because you want to. It won’t do anything for or against “your chances” because honestly, if your emotional attraction was high enough to your ex, they would’ve messaged you already. When it is, they will.
You're right. I don't think we dated long enough for him to care enough to want me back so I will just have to move on.
How long were you together?
Only a few months 😆 definitely not long enough for him to miss me or want me back. I have known him/had feelings for him for 2+ years. I just feel like he didn't give us a fair shot.
I don't think I deserve better than him. He's very out of my league. But I appreciate you saying this.
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I understand why people say to do it (to remove temptation) but I know I would look at his profile whether I unfollowed him or not. I'm still undecided so we will see what I do.