Definitely. I’m a great believer in everything happens for a reason, people come into our lives to teach us something, to make us grow. If it’s meant to be, it’s meant to be.
I used to think that way before I met my ex, and then she changed that perception a little into the opposite (blindsided me with a long term/lifetime rs).
But after the breakup, that s the only thought that did make sense to me and helped me to accept the reality as it is and to let go and just made me believe more than any other time that "in life, people do come and go for a reason/purpose".
That’s bullshit to be honest.
If they left, they can leave again. Plain and simple.
The grass is greener where you water it to be honest.
Relationships nowadays involve unlimited options. Rather than communicating it out, having patience and faith; people will just leave to the next option because it’s deemed “easier.” Also with the implementation of social media into the dating scene… it just made it a living nightmare for most individuals.
Hypergamy at its finest.
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Until she came back 6+ times and I realized it was a waste of time. If its over, accept it and move on. Its never the same after the first break up and extremely unlikely to work out.
Yeah. It took my ex 6 months to come back. While for some of my friends it never happened. There's always a grain of truth in such phrases, but its definitely not a rule.
No, I left the country after we BU, so she would need to relocate to be with me. Low chance for this to happen, although she promised to try in the near future. Under normal circumstances, probably I would say yes. I can tell that we grew emotionally over these 6 months and I don't hold any resentments, so I would try again.
Anyway, at this point I'm happy with my life with or without her. Soon, I'm going to start dating again, and accept whatever life will offer me🙂
I wish you this same!
No. I believe that true love will stick with you. There is no right person wrong time. If they cared they wouldn’t have let you spiral in the first place
Would you look at that, all of the words in your comment are in alphabetical order.
I have checked 771,099,703 comments, and only 154,327 of them were in alphabetical order.
Yes and no.. but I'm biased and come from a background where you always fought for what you wanted and held on to it...
Even if it was like squeezing a struggling cat too hard 😮💨
Definitely. I’m a great believer in everything happens for a reason, people come into our lives to teach us something, to make us grow. If it’s meant to be, it’s meant to be.
This is what I believe as well
I used to think that way before I met my ex, and then she changed that perception a little into the opposite (blindsided me with a long term/lifetime rs). But after the breakup, that s the only thought that did make sense to me and helped me to accept the reality as it is and to let go and just made me believe more than any other time that "in life, people do come and go for a reason/purpose".
It's not really worked out for me when they come back
That’s bullshit to be honest. If they left, they can leave again. Plain and simple. The grass is greener where you water it to be honest. Relationships nowadays involve unlimited options. Rather than communicating it out, having patience and faith; people will just leave to the next option because it’s deemed “easier.” Also with the implementation of social media into the dating scene… it just made it a living nightmare for most individuals. Hypergamy at its finest. 🤷♂️
Yes.
I'm not too sure on this one, I definitely believe that what's meant for me won't pass me by.
Until she came back 6+ times and I realized it was a waste of time. If its over, accept it and move on. Its never the same after the first break up and extremely unlikely to work out.
A ex only comes back when they got more bullets to shoot you with. In other words if they come back it’s because they want to hurt you more.
Yeah. It took my ex 6 months to come back. While for some of my friends it never happened. There's always a grain of truth in such phrases, but its definitely not a rule.
Are you guys still together?
No, I left the country after we BU, so she would need to relocate to be with me. Low chance for this to happen, although she promised to try in the near future. Under normal circumstances, probably I would say yes. I can tell that we grew emotionally over these 6 months and I don't hold any resentments, so I would try again. Anyway, at this point I'm happy with my life with or without her. Soon, I'm going to start dating again, and accept whatever life will offer me🙂 I wish you this same!
I’m so happy for you to have reached this state of being content no matter what happens! I hope to get to that point as well. I wish you the best
No. I believe that true love will stick with you. There is no right person wrong time. If they cared they wouldn’t have let you spiral in the first place
100%
Most of the time yes
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Yes
Until it happend to me, i wont trust it.
Happened to me but never lasted so no... I used to though
Ex came back, I went back, but we came back to abuse, gaslighting, drug addiction. Nothing really there anymore
People change. I believe it. But you have one chance only
Yes and no.. but I'm biased and come from a background where you always fought for what you wanted and held on to it... Even if it was like squeezing a struggling cat too hard 😮💨