I know where you’re coming from but trust me, stalking the socials is only going to hurt yourself. You aren’t going to like what you see and you’ll only get more questions than answers. I couldn’t block my ex and found myself searching her name to see what she was posting. It hurt what I saw. I couldn’t trust myself to have the self control so I deleted the apps off my phone until I got better. I still want to look at her pages but I was able to delete the pictures, my posts, and her number. You truly just need to work on yourself. There is plenty of opportunities out there and you won’t see them if you stay in this loop
I know this , i truly do , i always seem to relapse on Monday xD
i am slowly starting to work on myself , im hanging out more with my friends , i lost a few pounds and im focusing more on my studies / work.
That’s great. I know how hard it is. Monday and Tuesday are my weekend and I find it hardest on those days. All my friends are working and I don’t have much to do so it’s easy to relapse. I still have my troubles but I’m focusing hard at work and trying to rebuild the friendships she made me give up. It’s a slow process that I don’t even have figured out. One thing I can say is that having someone to talk to that you trust is very helpful
I totally understand. Wishing you luck like crazy. I have many posts about my relationship so you could just look at my profile. I’m open to talking about it to so if you have a specific question you can pm me
Look at how many of us are going thru the same thing I feel like I'm reading about me and how I feel. All that means is that this is normal there is nothing wrong with you. You are going through pain and greif it will pass but you do need to know it will take time and you will have to take actions first to detach as much as you can. The absolute worst thing you can do is keep up with what, where, or who your ex is doing. There is 0 good that can come out of that it is the first battle you will have to fight. Also watch this video I have a feeling it will help you:
https://youtu.be/Oik4IsgQ4uk
I delete IG twice already lol. Understand your pain - I am still not ready to delete our pictures.
I don't think I will ever block her. But I took it as a baby step to stop checking her stories.
I had to block him. I couldn’t handle the pain. Most of my friends chat in Instagram DMs so its not like i can delete it.
Maybe i will unblock/add him Again when im truly better
I know where you’re coming from but trust me, stalking the socials is only going to hurt yourself. You aren’t going to like what you see and you’ll only get more questions than answers. I couldn’t block my ex and found myself searching her name to see what she was posting. It hurt what I saw. I couldn’t trust myself to have the self control so I deleted the apps off my phone until I got better. I still want to look at her pages but I was able to delete the pictures, my posts, and her number. You truly just need to work on yourself. There is plenty of opportunities out there and you won’t see them if you stay in this loop
I know this , i truly do , i always seem to relapse on Monday xD i am slowly starting to work on myself , im hanging out more with my friends , i lost a few pounds and im focusing more on my studies / work.
That’s great. I know how hard it is. Monday and Tuesday are my weekend and I find it hardest on those days. All my friends are working and I don’t have much to do so it’s easy to relapse. I still have my troubles but I’m focusing hard at work and trying to rebuild the friendships she made me give up. It’s a slow process that I don’t even have figured out. One thing I can say is that having someone to talk to that you trust is very helpful
Thank you for your reply , I'm curious about your situation tbh , i wanna hear everybody's stories and experiences. Best of luck to us <3
I totally understand. Wishing you luck like crazy. I have many posts about my relationship so you could just look at my profile. I’m open to talking about it to so if you have a specific question you can pm me
Look at how many of us are going thru the same thing I feel like I'm reading about me and how I feel. All that means is that this is normal there is nothing wrong with you. You are going through pain and greif it will pass but you do need to know it will take time and you will have to take actions first to detach as much as you can. The absolute worst thing you can do is keep up with what, where, or who your ex is doing. There is 0 good that can come out of that it is the first battle you will have to fight. Also watch this video I have a feeling it will help you: https://youtu.be/Oik4IsgQ4uk
Breathe and let it go.
I delete IG twice already lol. Understand your pain - I am still not ready to delete our pictures. I don't think I will ever block her. But I took it as a baby step to stop checking her stories.
I had to block him. I couldn’t handle the pain. Most of my friends chat in Instagram DMs so its not like i can delete it. Maybe i will unblock/add him Again when im truly better