It wasn't me but a friend from work. She actually dumped a guy she really liked because during sex, he grabbed her ankles and started smelling and kissing her feet. She was telling another friend and myself about it and I have to be honest, I was actually getting hard when she was telling the story! She didn't go into graphic depths but said something along the lines as, "when we were in bed, he suddenly grabbed me by my ankles! I was wondering what he was doing, then he started smelling and kissing my feet"! She was talking about how gross and disturbing it was. What was hot is she actually said how she'd been in heels all day and she knows her feet smelled really bad. She dumped him! Two days earlier she actually talked about how great he was.
You're right. I've had 3 girls that were no goes, for the most part, when it came to foot fun but they never broke up with me. She is a kind of a snotty girl to begin with, so her reaction didn't surprise me.
I wanted to tell my best friend about my FF. but before I even started she was like
āBut you are not one lf those gross FF people right?ā and kept going to tell how gross it was that one of her ex partners had oneā¦ so I changed that topic and said something else š„²
Just being called creepy and weird. Is what it is.
I think most people are insecure so they donāt know how to handle people who are comfortable accepting
themselves and being open about what we like.
Being outed & kink shamed by my wife of all people (ended up separated a few months later) in front of her immed and extended family at a weekend get together.
I had cases where I beat people clearly in online arguments. So because they were so mad that they were beaten they went āAt least I donāt have a foot fetishā lmao
Kink shaming online mostly. I always told my friends. In high school during my junior year I hung out with a group of girls during courtyard all year (like 5) girls.. for some reason... random. But I never cared. They all knew I had a FF.
One of them always teased me about it in a playful way. Went over to her house one day to play video games with that particular girl, and I remember her putting her feet in my face wanting me to smell them.
Turns out she teased me bc she was intrigued by it. After that for the rest of the school year she'd let me massage and smell them whenever I wanted. Till she got a bf.. hell even then sometimes. Never wanted to date back then.
Nobody in real life I ever told cared all that much. A few would go "ew really" but after the initial shock didn't care. Maybe I was lucky but most girls I told about it that I hung out with regularly at some point would either ask for rubs randomly or playfully put them in my face.
I'll be honest. I think most girls are curious about it if they like you. Or at least try to take advantage of free foot massages. Imo.
Back when i was in school word got around i had a foot fetish (a former friend at the time went snooping through my computer that had foot pics on there, which i guess is my fault but it's still my business) anyways he told a few people and a few people started to shame me for it and asking me all sorts of questions. It was a terrible time.
Iāve been called every name in the book, including queer-ass freak. Not to mention, someone threatened to leak messages between her and I if I didnāt stop telling people about my fetish.
Odd question. Don't see any reason why people would go out of their way to send a personal death threat for having any kind of a fetish. Sure, you might find people thinking it's weird and openly commenting about how weird a foot fetish is, but no hate.
Response to my fetishes has always been positive, if not confused.
Tons of negative comments online about being weird or gross but it is what it is
Being called gross or a prev. I'm not in my 20s anymore Im aware I'm a piece of shit you gotta come harder than that. š¤£
It wasn't me but a friend from work. She actually dumped a guy she really liked because during sex, he grabbed her ankles and started smelling and kissing her feet. She was telling another friend and myself about it and I have to be honest, I was actually getting hard when she was telling the story! She didn't go into graphic depths but said something along the lines as, "when we were in bed, he suddenly grabbed me by my ankles! I was wondering what he was doing, then he started smelling and kissing my feet"! She was talking about how gross and disturbing it was. What was hot is she actually said how she'd been in heels all day and she knows her feet smelled really bad. She dumped him! Two days earlier she actually talked about how great he was.
Dude dodged a bullet then honestly if she was able to flip on him that fast.
You're right. I've had 3 girls that were no goes, for the most part, when it came to foot fun but they never broke up with me. She is a kind of a snotty girl to begin with, so her reaction didn't surprise me.
I've been kinkshamed. My ex who took my virginity told me she hated that I liked feet after we broke up and indulged only because I like it.
Been there exactly.
I wanted to tell my best friend about my FF. but before I even started she was like āBut you are not one lf those gross FF people right?ā and kept going to tell how gross it was that one of her ex partners had oneā¦ so I changed that topic and said something else š„²
This.
Just being called creepy and weird. Is what it is. I think most people are insecure so they donāt know how to handle people who are comfortable accepting themselves and being open about what we like.
Being outed & kink shamed by my wife of all people (ended up separated a few months later) in front of her immed and extended family at a weekend get together.
šŖ could have kink shamed her back š
I actually got some back up from her cousin. He just strolled up and casually blurts out, "I love feet, they're sexy as hell". He then calls out to his fiancƩ and starts saying how he sucks her toes and massages her feet all the time. I was surprised at how he didn't give 2 fks what anyone thought. Mad respect to him.
I had cases where I beat people clearly in online arguments. So because they were so mad that they were beaten they went āAt least I donāt have a foot fetishā lmao
Why would random people online know you had a ff? Checking your post history or what? Weird argument though š
Yeah checking my reddit history
Kink shaming online mostly. I always told my friends. In high school during my junior year I hung out with a group of girls during courtyard all year (like 5) girls.. for some reason... random. But I never cared. They all knew I had a FF. One of them always teased me about it in a playful way. Went over to her house one day to play video games with that particular girl, and I remember her putting her feet in my face wanting me to smell them. Turns out she teased me bc she was intrigued by it. After that for the rest of the school year she'd let me massage and smell them whenever I wanted. Till she got a bf.. hell even then sometimes. Never wanted to date back then. Nobody in real life I ever told cared all that much. A few would go "ew really" but after the initial shock didn't care. Maybe I was lucky but most girls I told about it that I hung out with regularly at some point would either ask for rubs randomly or playfully put them in my face. I'll be honest. I think most girls are curious about it if they like you. Or at least try to take advantage of free foot massages. Imo.
Back when i was in school word got around i had a foot fetish (a former friend at the time went snooping through my computer that had foot pics on there, which i guess is my fault but it's still my business) anyways he told a few people and a few people started to shame me for it and asking me all sorts of questions. It was a terrible time.
Told a close friend thinking I could trust her, she outed me to the friend group I was in, and now they all make fun of me for it
Iāve been called every name in the book, including queer-ass freak. Not to mention, someone threatened to leak messages between her and I if I didnāt stop telling people about my fetish.
Odd question. Don't see any reason why people would go out of their way to send a personal death threat for having any kind of a fetish. Sure, you might find people thinking it's weird and openly commenting about how weird a foot fetish is, but no hate. Response to my fetishes has always been positive, if not confused.