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porkchopespresso

My wife just went back to finish her bachelor’s at the university she was attending when I met her. 20+ years later she finished out and is planning to completer her masters next. Her dad changed careers at 45 and went back to school for a new degree and went on to have a very successful career in that field. There’s absolutely no reason to not go to school at any age if you want to and can manage it. It’s obviously more difficult later with a life and family and other bills to pay- those are prohibitive. Age in and of itself means nothing, you just have less of the other shit when you’re younger.


Siya78

Good to hear about your Dad, gives me optimism. I’m worried about that transition. I’m 46 going for my my masters


chickenfightyourmom

I'm 50, and I'm finishing my masters in December. You're never too old to learn new things!


theswordpolisher

I’m the same age as you and currently doing a masters. Best thing I ever did. Was a bit anxious beforehand but honestly it’s been great. Teaching staff love you because you bring real world experience and the younger students are very accepting.


porkchopespresso

If we didn’t have significant changes to our lives when my wife was in school she’d probably have at least a masters if not a phd at this point. She’s never lost sight of it and now she’s back at it. I’m really just so proud of her, even I can’t relate to that dream. She’s a great example to the kids.


Automatic-Term-3997

I finally finished my BS a couple years ago. Just celebrated my 57th birthday. The only one stopping you is you.


Ihaveaboot

I also went and got a graduate certificate (15 credits) a few years ago. It was $1,000/credit 😶


RabbitsAteMySnowpeas

I have a PHD in BS 🤔


apikoros18

49 years old here. 25 years in the corporate world. Said f-it, starting a program for my teaching certification in the fall. Got accepted yesterday. Do it. I was miserable in my job for years. But, as TS Elliot said, "In short, I was afraid." After a lay-off, I just turned my back on it and jumped into the new. Still afraid but I did it.


Nakatomiplaza27

45 and thinking of doing this same thing. Just waiting for the layoff. I've seen more layoffs than I would like over the last 20 years; I'm amazed I'm still where I am.


apikoros18

My specific niche (DEIB Technical Recruiter) was decimated. It will never come back. Add ageism on top... something had to give


HealthyTemporary9924

This is awesome! Good for you! So what program are you starting? Where? My next step is to figure out the where!


apikoros18

CALState Teach. 100% online, 3 semesters, and very reasonable price wise


Vegetable-Lasagna-0

Congratulations! I went into teaching late, in my early 30’s, and I absolutely love the career. It has its trying moments, but is also very rewarding.


apikoros18

I didn't know if I'd like it, so I subbed for half a year. Thought I'd teach high school--- fell in love with elementary school, especially TK-3rd grade


Eredhel

I started my bachelor at 46, graduated at 50. I should finish my masters next summer at 52. The time's gonna pass whether you do it or not, so might as well do it.


sweetbacon

> The time's gonna pass whether you do it or not   Well that's the best fucking mic drop sentence I've read this week, thanks. 


Eredhel

You bet. I stole it, so feel free to continue the theft! It was actually what someone said to me when I was debating going to college in my mid 40s.


sweetbacon

Ha, even better. Consider it stolen and shared forward in the future. 


Prestigious-Packrat

If I were independently wealthy, I'd live out the rest of my days as a perennial student, just seeing how many degrees I could earn before my memory or health (or both) stopped me. It would be learning for learning's sake though, and not career-related.  


FertilityHollis

I worked for a guy at one point who grew up mega-wealthy and had just finished his 4th advanced degree. He had an amazing ability to hold a conversation on nearly any topic with anyone, on their level, and leave them feeling seen and heard. I don't think I've ever been more jealous of anyone else's life.


kmahj

Me tooooo


Prestigious-Packrat

Which subject would you tackle first?


kmahj

Art history! In fact, I’ve taken some classes…. But I’d love to get an actual degree and sit in a real classroom.


LeoMarius

I love art history, and toyed with majoring in it in college, but got a history degree instead. I visit art museums in every city I go to.


kmahj

Me too! I also love history but I majored in English literature. ❤️


HealthyTemporary9924

How has that English literature degree served you? That is a subject I could see myself majoring in. Practical application?


LeoMarius

I live next to our state university. They offer free auditing courses for retirees over 60. I'm looking forward to taking a couple of classes per semester to pursue interests that I've long nursed.


BloomiePsst

I'm 57 and I'm three years into a data science degree. It's a hoot. I don't know if I'll break even on the finances. I don't know if I'll ever use it. But I'm enjoying it. That's what life is about, to me.


HealthyTemporary9924

Yay! Love this!


millersixteenth

Reimbursement? Go for it.


Astralglamour

Seriously. It’s not easy for most to handle the financial burden.


millersixteenth

There is no way I could justify repaying a student loan with 15 or 16 years left to work. A couple thou for a cert, sure. A degree? Hell no.


msmika

The colleges I looked at all had special financial aid for "nontraditional" students, and being over 40 was included in that category. There are also scholarships out there for older students! I went to a community college for my associates degree and paid zero. I didn't do the transfer to 4 year for non-financial reasons, but it's totally doable.


Foreign-Match6401

And state schools are pretty cheap these days for in-state tuition.


HealthyTemporary9924

Wow. Good to know. Reimbursement is only $1000, and I’m going to be putting two kids through college. I’m gonna need all the help I can get.


603Einahpets916

I know tons of people our age who've gone back and gotten degrees. Do it!


GenXer1977

I actually just signed up at age 46. My work also covers my tuition, so it seemed like something I couldn't possibly pass up. I'll get my BA and graduate with no student loan debt? Hell yes!


LittleMoonBoot

Scratch that itch, you only live once. I took a risk and went to grad school overseas. It was worth it. It’s never too late to go to school.


Apprehensive-Log8333

Go for it! Your professors will be delighted to have a student who can read and write above a 3rd grade level


Agreeable-Damage9119

I loved most of my older students. They were there for the right reasons, were engaged with the class, put the effort in, and definitely performed better at just about everything than those fresh out of high school.


RedditSkippy

For reals. I went back to school in 2022, and I was shocked at the writing skills of my classmates. I mean, these were graduate students with whom I had to discuss subject-verb agreement.


Apprehensive-Donkey7

There’s no fucking rules do what you want


AshDenver

I graduated high school in 1988 and didn’t complete my bachelors until Dec 2011. So yeah, I was mid-30s to 40 for that fun. It was so easy to get A’s because: * I read the syllabus, * scoured the grading rubrics, * met the deadlines, * knew how to write a paper and use credible sources * and posted (online courses through a brick and mortar university for the win) in complete sentences * with punctuation. You’ve got this!


alexdelicious

You're not going to be younger tomorrow. If you want to do it, you owe it to yourself to do it. If you want excuses to not do it, don't do it.


ghostofstankenstien

Just do it. Make an investment in yourself. Practical and tactical can be two different things. Have an adventure


viewering

no, there was an 80 year old on my course.


Ihaveaboot

My dad went back and got an MBA after he retired in his late 60s. He got a standing ovation at his graduation.


Butitsadryheat2

This made me tear up. 🩵 Congrats to your dad!


chickenfightyourmom

I graduated a student last year who was 84. She wanted to finally check it off her bucket list.


AproposOfDiddly

My husband (55) just enrolled for the second summer semester to finish the last 60 hours for his Bachelor’s at Southern New Hampshire University. It has fully remote degrees, and it’s a school that a lot of his co-workers have attended to finish their undergraduate degrees or obtain a Master’s degree. He works for a large school district in the area. They are relatively affordable and have a quick-track schedule geared towards working professionals.


DrMnhttn

The best time to plant a tree is 20 years ago. The second best is today. Go for it! I enjoyed my experience at Western Governor's University. It's competency based rather than time based, so you can work as fast as you want. If you can ace the final on the first day, you're welcome to do so. Professional experience and certifications can count towards class credits too. And it's all you can eat. You pay a flat rate per semester for as many courses as you can fit into your schedule.


HealthyTemporary9924

Sounds appealing. Thanks for tip. I am thinking a non conventional approach might be best and I love that professional experience can count.


AgHammer

Do it as an investment in your personal growth and it will always be worthwhile. You already have a job, so there's no need to start all over again. You are worth it and no education is ever wasted.


s1l1c0n3

I hope not. I'm considering going back to school for electronics (because I wanna repair CRT TVs, Synthesizers, and old arcade games)


nidena

Do it! Especially with the reimbursement. You'll be 50 no matter what you do, so may as well tackle something that will eliminate potential future regret.


emmsmum

If you can do it, do it! I wish I could go back and get a different degree but I can’t afford it. If you have the means and the time I highly suggest it. I love my college years and not for the reasons one would think, I was a commuter and had no school friends. I simply loved what I was studying and I felt like I was where I belonged.


88damage

You're older and wiser with many life experiences. You know what truly matters. You've thought about this, you formulate a plan. Follow your heart.


SmokeyWC

Not at all. I started at 51, I'm 54 now and still going.


climatelurker

People are always going to tell you "go for it", but in my opinion you should only fork over that kind of cash if you have a clear plan for how it's going to improve your life. And be aware of what the limitations are in the career you choose. Unless you have cash laying around and it's just for your own personal enrichment. In that case, definitely go for it.


RedditSkippy

OP has tuition reimbursement.


velvet42

I remember when I went to school in the late 90s there was a woman in my department who was in her mid-50s and looking to change careers. She was a grandmother! She did well, from what I can remember, and I know she graduated. Damned if she couldn't party with the best of 'em, too, lol


Beautiful_Rhubarb

When I was going for my bachelors there was this 70 year old woman in our classes. Wish I could say she partied like the rest of us but she had a habit of slapping people in the face when she disagreed with them.


User-1967

You are never too late to learn. Go for it


vagal69

Never! My mom went back for a nursing degree at 50. There were even older women in her class.


Displaced_in_Space

I recently replied to another thread about my journey. It overlaps with you a lot. https://www.reddit.com/r/findapath/s/kECKebxMZC


liko

I recently turned 50 and will be getting my masters at the end of this summer. It’s never too late.


najing_ftw

Got my bachelor’s in my 40s, and my masters in my 50s. Strongly recommend! It was great for my mental and emotional health.


HealthyTemporary9924

Both of which, after a divorce I could use.


1hero_no_cape

My youngest will be graduating with his B.S. in May if 2025. I should be graduating with my B.S. in August of 2025. I won't quite be 50, but I can touch by the time I get there. It's never too late as long as there is breath in your body and desire in your heart. Make it happen.


Evaderofdoom

Go for it, I'm 47 and going back. I really like the flexibility of doing it online. WGU is good for that, but you have to be self-motivated to get through it.


Turbulent_Tale6497

My wife finished her degree over COVID at 52. Super proud of her. You should totally do it


HomieBSkillet

If you are a true GenX’er, you already know the answer. Move into your kids dorm room, date a professor, pay people to do your schoolwork, then prove to the Dean that you can pass! Rodney would be proud.


sugarfu

In my family my grandparents and both my parents got their degrees in their 40s. I am starting college for a BA at 49. If you want to do it, do it. especially if your job offers tuition reimbursement. As for where -- depends on what you plan to study, but there are a number of excellent online programs and you can always transfer to in-person later when all the basic academics are out of the way. Several of the SUNY programs also offer prior learning assessments where you may be able to get credit based on your life and work experience. Getting your degree later in life is more common than people think, we should talk about it more probably so everyone is less self conscious about it. School at eighteen isn't an option for everyone.


HealthyTemporary9924

I’ve never heard of SUNY, thanks for the info. I’m 49 too, woo-hoo yay for us. Thanks for the vote of confidence


sugarfu

SUNY stands for State University of NY, and SUNY Empire is their oldest and most expansive online program. It's affordable for out of state, and if you are in state it might be free. My closest state university cost about 4K more a year and wasn't online and didn't have as well rated a program. I may transfer, I may save my money for a MA (they don't offer my major as a masters), but I'm really happy to have found a program for now when just starting college seems intimidating. I hope you look into school seriously and that you feel empowered to go forward with your education if you find a place that fits.


HealthyTemporary9924

I definitely am. This post was a real boost for me. It took the intimidation edge off!


DreVahn

Bachelors in Electrical Engineering at 50, Masters in Robotics at 54. Two years until I retire from gov IT and then start my new adventure. Honestly, your situation sounds exactly like mine except I started at about 44. I recommend community in person (if you can) for the first two years, grab anything you can transfer. The smaller class size will be a major benefit (so is the cost) with one on one with your instructors. If you're lucky, you can also become part of a study group that you can "ride" with until graduation at the university level like I did. Mine had some older gents like myself (one was an ex-marine on GI Bill), but also some VERY mature kids in their 20's. ​ Just be ready for EXTREME time management and quite a bit of sacrifice.


nygrl811

Do it! Never too late!


Siya78

I’m 46 going for my Masters. TBH it’s so much better as a middle aged adult than at 18. Your corporate experience will help you as you have the skills needed to be a good student- like time management, organisation, dedication. Saying this from my own experience but being a parent is also an asset. You can do entirely online nowadays, hybrid. In person too of course. Fortunately community college is really affordable so you won’t have any financial burdens. A lot of transfers over to a university should you advance your studies. My classmates are all Gen Z it’s funny thinking majority were born when I was in college. They use a laptop to take notes, use words like “clutch, betty” I keep telling myself age is just a number. You got this!


Xistential0ne

I’m an over educated Xr myself. Luckily I practice in the field I have my terminal degree in. GO TO SCHOOL. knowledge and learning are never wasted. Broaden your mind. For me I could do online class sessions with my fellow students and prof. Personally I would get little value logging in and watching a class on demand. I do much better when I have cohorts with me as I’m learning. Plus most of my knowledge came from questions my classmates asked, not the lectures or labs. March forth old fellow and seek the knowledge you quest.


OryxTempel

I finished university at 48 and am a year out from finishing law school at 53. Go for it!!


HealthyTemporary9924

Amazing! Bravo! Damn I love to hear all these stories!


OryxTempel

You’ve got this, friend. Do what gives you joy.


RickRI401

Never stop learning. Go to school, study. At 44, I stated trading cybersecutity classes. 48 I changed careers, after being at the same place for 16 years. Never stop learning.


StringFartet

I went back, it's different, tests, students, homework all of it. Also harder to learn at an older age, some things are so well known already and the other stuff it's not like when you were a kid. I've got time and the first classes were easy but it's fucking different.


mcluhan007

I went to college with a guy who started his degree at age 65. He ended up graduating with honors. He told me that this was something he had always wanted to do, and he finally had the opportunity.


EyeSpEye21

When I was at university I had a 90 year old in my class. Never too old.


TheQuadBlazer

My mom went back for her masters in her 50s. Late 50s even.


bucketofmonkeys

Go for it. I’d take online classes unless you live close to a campus. I’m 52 and starting my second master’s degree in the fall. It won’t really help my career at this stage, but I enjoy structured learning. You’re never too old to learn things.


Buckowski66

Dude, Im 58 starting grad school next week to be a therapist, just try and stop me! I'm very pumped and excited about it .!!! Look, you are going to be 50 with or without college, so why not go for it? Its your turn now!!!


schmearcampain

Thornton Mellon did it, so can you!!


Cryptosmasher86

It’s not too late for education It maybe too late for certain careers Ageism is real in tech for example and certainly for first responder jobs and nursing


allKindsOfDevStuff

Do you have a realistic plan for what you want to do -away from a desk - that will pay you what you’re making now? No one seems to be asking you that, they’re just giving the usual “it’s never too late” platitudes.


[deleted]

DO IT You will get 100x out of it than the young ones will. And you will feel like a bad ass when you get done. (I finished at 39 and want to go back)


Available-Lion-1534

Go! Getting my Ph.D at 53. You’re going to get older with a degree or not, if it’s a regret fix it. Goals are a good thing no matter what your age.


spurious_effect

I do research in cognitive aging and dementia in late adulthood. One serious benefit to pursuing a degree in later middle age is that it’s exercise for the mind and brain. As a country, we really need to start finding meaningful ways to employ older adults that don’t just default to ‘Walmart greeter’ (not that there’s anything wrong with that!). Populations are aging and working until later ages all around the globe.


FabHckyBbe

My favorite aunt got her AA at 65 and threw an awesome graduation party that I flew 3000 miles to attend to celebrate her achievement with a hundred or more friends and family members. It was so much fun. It’s never too late to back go school for any reason and the people who love you will be so proud of you.


OzzieSlim

This. And nothing more or less!


Foreign-Match6401

I went back to school at 42. Became a doctor at 53. Do it. 💙


HealthyTemporary9924

CONGRATS!!!


symewinston

Not too old at all, wrap that shit up! 😃


Aggravating-Tea9592

I finished college and had an advanced degree by 26. I wasn't one who knew what I wanted so school just happened. Everyone in my program was older than me. I could feel the weight of their decision to come back to school - they had thought long and hard about it. Since I had only known what it was to be a student, I felt inferior because I wasn't sure if I even wanted to be there. All these committed adults changed their lifestyles to be there and \*wanted\* to be there. If I could do it over again I would tell my younger self to wait and figure things out. Sometimes I wonder if I'd be doing something I loved instead of doing what I was supposed to do. It's not that I'm unhappy (what's the point?), but I think about it. Anyhow, 55 will come whether you go back to school or not. Do you want to be 55 with a college degree or 55 without one? I've always had a lot of admiration for people who go back after having a family and/or a career. That's huge!!! I'm all for you going for it!


Distinct_Plankton_82

If you want to do it for personal fulfillment then go for it. I’m skeptical that it will open more doors for you. For most people in most industries by the time you get to 50, it’s about your experience not your education. Unless you’ve got a specific reason to think a lack of a degree is holding you back, I’d be wary of assuming it will open doors.


RedditSkippy

I was passed over for a promotion three years ago, in part, because my lack of a graduate degree didn't help. I went and got the degree last year, and was just awarded with a promotion. I think if it comes down between two equally qualified people, and one person had this credential and the other does not, then they're going to go with the person who has this credential.


smalltowngirlisgreen

If you can afford it, do it. It's a fun experience, and you learn stuff. Wish I could go back


KnowOneHere

I say do it for an education instead of career goal necessarily.  It will be pleasurable. I went back for fun, my work paid for it. I went to a state school with night classes with mostly other real adults.  I recommend that.  Ignore me if it is a goal to complete only. I really enjoyed the process and had the luxury to pursue . And age does not matter.


MCKelly13

Never too late. I finally finished my BA at 50.


SilentAllTheseYears8

It’s never too late!!! GO FOR IT 💪💪


Kissit777

I don’t think you’re ever to old to have a new dream. Get to it.


GSDavisArt

I'm 51 and am in College. I'm going for my PhD. I know I'm not going to have a lot of time to use it, but I feel like I'm finally doing what I was supposed to do. It's never too late. :)


HealthyTemporary9924

👏👏👏


MrMackSir

It is not to late to go to college. It might be too late to expect it to make financial sense aka "pay off."


therinwhitten

Never too late to learn something new. Period. I plan on learning new hobbies at 80.


Emotional_Estimate25

I'm 58 and will retire in 2 years after 30 years teaching. I'm thinking of going into getting my LVN/LPN certification and working part time while collecting my pension. Do it! GenX 50 is like SilentGen 30.


grabmaneandgo

Do it and enjoy it! I just enrolled in a masters program… I’m 55.


HealthyTemporary9924

👏👏👏


Quix66

Nope! I went to grad school then and plan to go more work this fall at 58. I know someone who went to college for the first time in her mid-50s. Lots of schools even have support for what they call non-traditional students. You learned skills to help you succeed along the way.


BigMoFuggah

Maybe it's too late to go to college for a career change, but just going to college for knowledge is perfectly fine


FancyEnd7728

I teach at a community college and let me tell you that you are one of my favorite types of students. We are so happy to work with you and help with your goals!


Hastler1024

I just completed my BS, this past May. I am 51, there is no wrong time to learn something new. As to how to go about classes, that is up to your own work/life schedule. I went in person classes full time, until my mother got sick then half time. Doesn't make a difference how long or how you do it just go for it! When I received my diploma in the mail the other day I just stared at it for a while not even believing it is real. The feeling of earning that piece of paper at this age ranks up close to the birth of my kids. Good luck to all that return to school to study for any degree, or certificate.


CogitoErgoScum

My dad finished his masters around 55 y/o while training to participate in triathlons. He became an Ironman at 61.


Round-Place548

Never too late. I’m contemplating my masters at 53 because I regret never getting it right after I got my bachelors. I would say online at a community college and then decide if you want to do in person or continue online.


Creepy-Tangerine-293

12 credits is nothing! You're almost there! Dooooo itttttt!! Look for fun options at your community college like Field Studies classes and it won't feel like so much work. GL!!   My dad finished a masters degree he never did finish after he retired!! He was 67 and consults now as an independent contractor. I'm in an ADN nursing program now and hoping to be done before I'm 50! It's never too late! 


fake-august

I went back to finish when I was 44. Finish this shit!


RadioactiveFartCloud

I'm 48, have one associate's and one bachelor's that I've never had use for, and I will be registering for classes Monday. I need to work because, hell, I'll be working until I die (at work) because everything is too expensive. My wife makes good money, and I've had a lot of physical injuries as a result of my previous career, so we've decided I should focus on getting something else going before I a) go insane from sitting around the house and taking care of her dad who lives with us and 2) \*see above for financial information. It's never too late. I've done online classes (my 2 year finish up for my bachelor's was all online) and had tons of in-person classes as well. It really depends on you and what you prefer. If you hate zoom meetings or any of that stuff, online may not be the best. I didn't like online for one main reason: it might take too long to get an answer for an assignment that is due; I was in that spot a few times and it gave me a lot of anxiety. All of my upcoming classes for the second bachelor's will be seated/in-person. Luckily I live within an eighth of a mile of the campus and building I'll be in, so that helps as well.


Status-Effort-9380

A few years ago I earned my Masters. At the time, I was married to my emotionally abusive ex. As is typical with abusers, any moment that wasn’t about him he couldn’t comprehend. He was a complete ass to me the whole time. He even told me he had no idea what he was at my graduation with me. Of course to my mom and stepdad he pretended to be supportive of me. So that was what was going on the day before and day of my graduation. But when I received my diploma, I knew that no one could ever take my education from me. I am so proud of my achievement and it changed me and gave me so much confidence to complete my degree. I 1000% support you to get your degree whether or not it has a financial impact on you’d life for good or bad.


HealthyTemporary9924

Thank you for this and BRAVO! I am sorry you had to go through that. I am divorced from my abusive husband. I WOULD love this because on so many levels it would be bring me personal pride and joy.


AlmiranteCrujido

tl;dr: do it as far as you can with reimbursement or without taking loans/burning down savings. If the main motivation is economic, it's probably a bad payoff to put a lot of your own money in. But if your employer reimburses, or even if they didn't if it's a not-so-expensive state school, why not? It will likely open career doors even if the time to pay yourself back is a lot shorter - the payoff on your time and effort is likely worth it. Also, for some government jobs, you'd get a raise just for having the degree - IDK if that applies to yours. Add in the intangibles of accomplishment and the other benefits education of education for its own sake - just keeping our minds active can be good as we get on in years. Also likely gives you something to bond with the kids over as they go through it. As for where/what, that's so variable depending on where you live. Just make sure the place is accredited and if private, it should not be for-profit. For profit colleges are super, super likely to be scams. If you're in California, going through the community colleges as much as you can is great - they are a crazy-big bargain, and there is a paved path to transferring credit to the CSU or UC system. The ones near me have a lot of online and evening classes; I don't know if the CSU system does to convert your AA/AS into a bachelor's afterwards.


HealthyTemporary9924

Yup I’m in Cali, so cal to be exact. This is more for personal reasons and to open the door to another career.


Ill_Dig_9759

At 55 when you're done, you've got a good 10 working years left and are trying to break into a new career? Nope. I wouldn't. Sounds like a huge pain in the ass for very little gain to me. If you want to get away from the desk, you don't need college to do that.


porkchopespresso

This is a practical answer, and sound enough advice. If the best time to have made this decision was 10 years ago, isn’t the next best time right now? I mean, if you want a change bad enough. 10 years may not be a lot of years in terms of breaking in a new career but it is a lot of years to be continuing to do something you don’t like. I don’t think yours is the wrong answer but there’s still merit in going for it, imo.


elizajaneredux

It’s definitely not too late. Having said that, if you’re making a good living already, maybe there are other/cheaper ways to enhance your satisfaction with your life? There aren’t many bachelors degrees that will add significantly to an existing 100k salary.


Little_Blue_Fly

Let's just say $100/yr. is better than what I make with nearly 30 years' experience and a 4-year degree. If what you're interested in gets you a better salary and also uses your current skill set, then go for it. Remember starting salaries aren't always so great, and you'll be in competition with all the young new grads in a new field. You mentioned your son going off to college. Are you afraid that your son will do better than you? Or now you'll have more free time that you want to make better use of? Where is this desire coming from and what do you hope to accomplish?


SpecialistTutor7008

Do it. It is never too late. When I was in undergrad I remember people in their 50s and older in classes they were super cool and had lots to share. Just don’t isolate yourself and be open to the experience.


Karen125

I did a cost analysis and for me at 55 it didn't pan out, even with tuition reimbursement. If I was 35 or 45 I'd do it. But also I love my job and wouldn't want to leave it. I make the same money as coworkers who have a BS. I don't want to pay student loans.


bophed

It is never too late.


Useful-Badger-4062

DO IT! It’s not too late. It’s only too late if you’re dead. My husband is 55 and just finished his AA. He’s aiming for his bachelor’s next.


insane_social_worker

Nope! I went back and finished my bachelor's at 47. I'm 52 now. One of the best things I've done for myself!! Do it


Odafishinsea

Also 50, though I went back to school at 36, it was one of my favorite adult chapters in life, and I quintupled my income (carpenter to refinery operator), and I now have a secure retirement and a vacation home. I went to a local tech school, so I only took out about $16k in debt over 2 years, but I also had to overcome being a high school dropout, which was a mental hurdle between me and school. I was easily the oldest guy in the GED testing area, but once it came to classes, there were several 50-something’s who were retraining to a new field. Lots of us blue collar types laid off in the Great Recession, and I met people from all walks and ages. I highly recommend tech school, and while my program worked out, I would go with Instrumentation and Electrical for a course. Someone has to run the wires and fix the physical bugs in all the tech that exists and the massive amount that’s coming. The school I went to also had transfer degrees, so you could start at a 2 year AA course in say mechanical engineering, and then transfer to a 4-year college if you wanted your BS.


zerooze

I'd look at your career goals and determine if getting a degree is necessary for you to reach them. I went back part-time in my 40s, hoping it would help me get a different position with my current employer. When they hired for that department, most of the employees didn't have degrees, so I didn't bother. I ended up getting it a few years later. I'm glad I didn't continue, and a little annoyed that I wasted the money on the classes I did take.


StingingNarwhal

My brother went back to school in his late 40s. He got an associate degree in nursing and is an RN. Now he is 55 and makes like $120K working in hospice. It's not for everyone, of course, but it's pretty amazing that with just a few years of experience he's doing so well. He's been a nurse for like 6 years or so now.


HealthyTemporary9924

I’ve actually thought about nursing


Sitcom_kid

You're not dead yet. I graduated after 50 and so did Justine Bateman, same year as me.


HealthyTemporary9924

👏👏👏


AtlJayhawk

It's never too late. I just became a junior at 44. I've had Vietnam veterans in my classes going to college for the first time. The genz kids have been super cool to us older folks.


LeoMarius

Absolutely, go for it! I quit my job and went back to grad school in my 30s. It was well worth it.


Corkscrewwillow

My Dad was 55 when he finished his master's. I was 45 when I finished my BSN, 41 when I got my ASN.  It's doable. 


Sitting_pipe

Never too late, it's your only life, do whatever the hell you want with it.


Johoski

The beautiful thing about university is that it's only too late if you think it's too late. If you think there's something to gain, whether professional or personal, then you're likely to gain at least as much as you expect but probably much more. I'm 54, have two mostly useless degrees (English and poetry), but have found steady employment in office administration. I have recently started a new role at a university with a fantastic tuition benefit for staff, and now I'm considering a third degree — something to fill my time in retirement, like psychology. 😁


[deleted]

I had a very similar situation to you, but in my 40s. I just wanted to get my degree for the sake of doing it, not go into debt, and possibly get me a promotion. I went back to CC to get my associates and then went to WGU online to get my bachelors. It would have been quite a bit faster to just roll my credits into WGU's program to be honest, so you should look into it.


HealthyTemporary9924

I will, thank you!


FabulousChicken1992

Chile please I am 52 and I am currently getting my degree. Do what ever your heart desires. Go for it !!!


Puzzled-Atmosphere-1

Absolutely not! I wish I had more of the drive I used to, because I would love to finish my degree. But I applaud you for taking the plunge like so many people over fifty, as we are.


Patient_Doctor4480

My aunt began college at 47 so she could teach music to high school students. She graduated at 51 and taught for 10 years. I'd say go for it!


Electrical_Beyond998

My father in law got his masters in something (he’s told me a few times but I don’t remember) when he was 61. Went to University of Maryland locally and traveled to Santa Monica one weekend a month for some sort of class with a top dude in his field. Anyway. Not too late.


snipe4fun

Do it! I turned 50 last fall and graduated with my BA in December. Admittedly it was a bit weird being same age or older than the parents of my peers and all of my professors. Granted, I did do some college back in my 20s-30s but I was impetuous, let’s say, and never found my way. But ‘18-‘20 I finished my second associates degree to learn a trade (Construction Technology/Carpentry/woodworking), and that success (presidents honor roll) motivated me to pursue finishing my bachelors (though not how I initially envisioned, but still now I have a BA and can look towards grad school for what I now know as my chosen career field). This has been an extremely rewarding process and at no point did my age ever become a factor (other than trying to date classmates).


PurfuitOfHappineff

Absolutely it’s doable and definitely not too late! Check out Harvard Extension School. It’s one of the biggest and oldest schools at Harvard University and grants you access to thousands of classes across dozens of subjects, with everything from micro certificates to bachelors degrees to masters degrees. Many classes are offered online, in the evenings, and even asynchronous so time zone isn’t an issue. It’s great being able to do it from home instead of driving to a campus, and you definitely can interact with professors and students as much as you like. The teachers are a mix of Harvard faculty and equally qualified peers. Tuition is surprisingly low (around $2,100 per course) and aid is available. And yes, it is “real” Harvard, just not the same school as the College, Law School, etc. Your diploma is from Harvard University and you are an official alum of the University. Admissions is straightforward — earn your way in by taking and passing three classes (for as little as $1,000 each). And they accept transfer credits. Details are at https://extension.harvard.edu/academics/programs/bachelor-of-liberal-arts-degree-program/


I-have-extra-organs

It's never too late. I am a little bit older and at OSU. It can be challenging, but anything is possible and when you succeed, in anything, an A on a midterm, an A in a course, surviving a group project with 19 year Olds. Just proves what a badass you are and fires you up for what's next. Go for it. I am 100% in your corner.


Conscious-Big707

Think about it in this way. In 5 years time if you don't go back to school you'll say to yourself I should have started 5 years ago. It's never too late to go back


HealthyTemporary9924

Exactly!


ailish

I'm about to turn 45 and I'm starting an MBA on 7/1.


HealthyTemporary9924

👏👏👏


slade797

I just finished up a masters degrees two years ago, at age 54.


HealthyTemporary9924

Bravo!


Technical_Ad_4894

It’ll be too late when you’re dead. Also the time is still going to pass whether you go to school or not so you can be 53 with a degree or 53 without one. You still gon be 53.


becktacular_b

As my mom always said, you’re going to be 55 anyway. Don’t live with regrets!


freddiewhoa

I’m 51. Three years ago I moved 1600 miles away from where I lived my whole life. Left a 30 year career… ten more years until pension/retirement. Started a completely different business(automotive). Is it hard and stomach turning at times? Yeah like every day. Am I killing it? No not yet… getting there. But I’m having the time of my life and look back less and less. Hell .. we’re all playing the back nine anyway… go for it. And don’t forget… you’re a Gen X’er, we’re built different. Good luck!!


Cullywillow

I worked in higher ed. I had students in their 60’s, 70’s and even a guy in his 80’s. Honestly the combination of maturity and discipline makes them such good students.


luckykricket

I'm 45 started my associates degree a year ago. I'll graduate at 46. I've never gone to college before. It was now or never. It is for all of us really.


Digggittty

Yes.


Dangerous_Contact737

I went back at 39 and graduated at 42. What pushed me off the fence was my sister pointing out that I would turn 42 either way, and I could have a degree or not, my choice. I really enjoyed the experience , felt like I learned a lot and now I have the diploma, which certainly doesn’t hurt anything. The bachelor’s completion program I chose had in-person classes, but now their programs are mostly online. It’s a well-regarded school with a traditional campus elsewhere in the state, and nearly all my instructors were very good. (The one who sucked got fired, lol.)


jIdiosyncratic

I guess your best options would depend on what degree you would like to pursue. But if your company will pay I would grab the opportunity.


virtualadept

It is not too late. My freshman year of college (fall of '96), there was someone in some of my classes who'd just turned 60, and they were working on their BA. Go for it.


bizzylearning

I'd encourage you to GO FOR IT!! I pivoted a few years ago, going into tech. I went back for my Bachelors at 48, and just completed my Masters degree two months before my 51st birthday. I went to Western Governors University, and it was the best thing for me -- allowed me to apply what I've learned and taught myself over the years, work with my schedule (work, volunteering, etc.), and go at my own pace. BEST thing I've ever done for myself.


Irondaddy_29

Never too late


Teacher-Investor

My mom went to college at the same time I did. :-)


AdAcrobatic7236

I’ve taught in multiple universities across the globe and have had students from 17 to 70s. It’s absolutely never too late and you’ll never regret it. Good luck! 🍀


JellyStorm

Not exactly the same, but I'm making a career pivot and starting school in Sept. for a master's in a new field at 55. I believe we regret the things we desire but didn't go for.


Unndunn1

It’s never too late. You’ll probably learn a lot more and enjoy the learning a lot more than you would have years ago.


bunnybates

NEVER! I'm 47 and in college, I love it


BelatedGreeting

Go to a small liberal arts college. At your age and with your motivation, you will get a much better education there than if you go to a large university where you’ll just be a number in a lecture hall of 200 people.


Honeyeyz

I prefer online. I can work ahead and finish faster. I went with a university that gives life credits. I was able to max out my life credits!! Huge help with getting my degree faster.


90DayCray

I went back in my thirties, then later worked in that same program, helping other adults going back to school. We had a lady in her 80’s graduate! Many of the students were in their 30s, 40s, and 50s. There is no such thing as a traditional college student anymore. Lots of adults go back later for the first time or just to learn something new for a career change. Don’t be afraid to make the leap. You will love it and do well! I would suggest thinking about how you like to learn before choosing online vs. in-person. We are all different and there are so many options now. I did in-person for my bachelors and online for my masters. Just depends on your time needs, learning needs, and how you feel comfortable. Good Luck! I still work in higher ed and the adult students hold a special place in my heart. It’s never too late! ❤️


Street_Roof_7915

I am a professor and we have lots of students who are around your age. They tend to do very well. Go finish your degree!!


dukeofunk

No


Tabitheriel

Go for it! I am over 50 and just got a second degree. I'm considering a Master's. I suggest finishing your Associate's first. Online is only good if you are extremely self-disciplined.


NoeTellusom

You're going to be 55 in a few years whether you go to college or not, so you may as well do it!


PastAnt9494

I'm 59 and in college to finish the degree I started in 1984. It's much easier now with online classes. Get an accredited school like Thomas Edison State University. TBH the hardest part for me is that it's too easy and just takes a long time for each class to get done.


TurtleDive1234

NEVER too late! If you can afford it, do it. Just bear in mind that it will take time that, at your age, that time could be spent enjoying life.


viewering

maybe that is enjoyable


TurtleDive1234

Could be for sure. Depends on the individual.


Untermensch13

While the social aspects are great---and a sense of fulfillment from 'graduating' equally so---as far as actually learning stuff. you might be better off dusting off the ol Library Card and setting an hour aside each day to work on those texts. Save a few bucks as well


portraitofastar

Don’t waste your time or your money. I have two degrees. They were interesting. But mainly a gateway to a career. If you just want to learn there are much cheaper and easier ways these days. If you want the status and respect then sure, pay the money and pass the time.


PurpleDNAChick

Do it! Do it for you!


CertainFitness

I earned my last degree at 45, and I was a full-time student all 4 years. Lived right off campus and went to classes with all the "college aged" students and worked on campus.


Jodies-9-inch-leg

Get federal student loans. Max that shit out, then make minimum payments, when you die it will get forgiven.


TicketZestyclose732

I have three classes left to graduate with a BS in Business/Accounting. I am 50. I work full-time and was the primary caregiver for my partner who unfortunately passed last year. I also take care of my aging parent and my kiddo. I graduate December 2024. I have never been prouder of myself. This is the one thing that I have done for me. I started at community college and transferred to a State College. Not going to lie - sometimes it's super awkward being the oldest person in the classroom, but if you show up and do the work, eventually it doesn't matter how old you are. My daughter is a junior in college, it is fantastic that we can have conversations about College on a totally different level than if I'd graduated when I was "supposed" to. Online classes are efficient, but if you can swing it, in person classes are great for networking and it is my preferred learning mode.