Depends on if you want to be a partner in a relationship or to be a wallet. No self respecting woman would accept gifts on a first date. That's just setting yourself up for being a cash cow.
"Back in the day" women weren't earning for obvious reasons. Now they are. Times have changed. Girls earn almost as much as men. The "guy must pay for dates" shit must die. Start treating women as equals in everything.
So paying for your date is now bending over to please someone
Welcome to reddit
What's more desperate? Being secure in your upbringing as a gentleman, or being cheap enough to make a woman pay for a date you invited her to?
>So paying for your date is now bending over to please someone
being cheap enough to make a woman pay for a date you invited her to
Buddy I am not paying for anyone except myself on dates. If I am out with a girl I except her to be capable of handling her finances and have the money to pay for her shit. If not I am not gonna date her. Why should I pay for someone who I barely know??
>gentleman
And simps like you are making it worse for the rest of us. Grow a pair Mr. Gentleman. This is 2024 ffs. Women also earn money.
Ohh no no you possibly canβt say that without even knowing me. Again another bullshit take after a bullshit take.
See PAL I doubt that after checking out your profile and your FACE.
How many more times can you be absurd in this comment section because obviously I wonβt send my picture in a comment section and your dm is closed. Plus I donβt even need to prove you anything anyways
the thing is you were also ready to send a smaller amount. Bro aise ladkia nahi milti, paise se to kabhi nahi. Jo pyaar krti hogi wo tujhe paise degi, legi nahi
Bro this was my first match here. I really thought she might be in need and I was considering all this then I realised she's not even verified then it came to my mind that it might be a scam. Then only I asked her to verify. And bhai pyar to 6 saal ke relationship me v nhi tha to who am I to search pyar on bumble/tinder.
I canβt send money to a girl Iβve met once and been on a date with, forget sending money to my bumble match who straight away sends me the payment qr after Hi
I am learning. Especially the money thing. Cuz alot of people (friends mostly) have taken money as a loan and they forgot to pay back. And the total sum amounts to around 55-60k.
Why were you even having conversation with her after she sent the scan code? Straight report and unmatch. You deserve someone who doesnβt need a piggy bank.
Why are you even entertaining her bullshit? It seems like she's in a position of power, like having an authority over you. Do-char gaali maro aur khisko waha se fullspeed. Why keep on texting her? Have some self respect my ninjas. You deserve better.
I would have stopped conversation right after she sent her qr right after calling her e bhikari. And to anyone giving 5k to random strangers is a big deal no matter how sound you are financially
It's stupid that she can just get away with that. It's also stupid with the things guys can get away too. But this one is the most blatant thing I have seen anyone getaway with.
why tf do yall even entertain such stupid fuckers.
throughout the chat i was praying i hope he didn't send anything, i hope there's a plot twist, i hope the scammer got scammed
sigh
Unreal how easily they ask for the money upfront. Perhaps it's working for them... Even if one in ten gets scammed, they still would call it a huge success
E-bheek
E-Bhikhari
Bhik-hoe
Paad nikal gayi aisa hasa
Bhai awaz idhar tak aayi(Hasi ki):(
Mujhe yha tk badbu aayi
Lol, these fuckers are everywhere. Definitely a Scammer.
Good riddance. I am a girl and I deleted the app within three days of installing it. Overwhelming af
Exactly. Installed it to get matched, go out but.....
Sneha is a very serious girl
poora naam Sneha Soni hai
Bank name you mean
Wohi na jiska phone no. Ke last ke 4 digits 5088 hai? π
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Shi kaha
I would've sent it if she had verified the account π
Pagal hai kya , bhay
I thought 'koi to majburi hogi'
bada bhola hai re tu. Dhyan rakhna apna.
bhola nahi kuch aur shabd ka prayog karunga to pela jaunga mai isiliye bolunga nahi lekin aplog samajh jao
Not the first time I heard this line ππ«
Bhai meri dono kidney failed h, plz ek kidney dede
Bhai duniya tujhe kaccha chaba ke kha jayegi.
Ha bhhay mairi bhi bahut majburi hai ...jabse paisa hua hu aajtak Europe trip nahi mara ( for 30 days).... sponser kar sake to boliyo
Bhai Majburi mein log policy bazar jate hai loan lene, Bumble pey nai aate bheek mangney.
Mujhe bhi majburi hai. 200 de de. Khana kha lunga
What no pussy does to a man
Lol, acha hua she was not verified
Bc because of you guys, they make s living
Alright OP I have a verified account, mujhe bhi bhej do paise π
Bhai choot nhi hai mere pass . Mei ek ladka hu , pr mujhe bhejdo 2k π₯²
Beggers everywhere
the style was unique tho
Agree we have so many beggars in social media
How to save 5k. A short story.
Sneha: Ek bhikhari ki katha
bhai... have some self respect. please. will help you in the long run.
Yeah correct and that doesn't mean become a shellfish or rude. Be kind, smart and aware individual not a fool.
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I swear I wouldn't have texted a single word after seeing that QR code.
Never send money to a woman, spend it on her when you are together, or buy her gifts.
Noted π«‘
Absolutely not, always split the bill. You shower her with gifts later when she is your wife/girlfriend. Take better decisions, gentlemen
nah man, always split. even if you can pay for both of you. only splurge on 3rd-4th date and all.
Fuck no broπ If you cannot afford to pay for your date then you need to stop dating and start hustling
Depends on if you want to be a partner in a relationship or to be a wallet. No self respecting woman would accept gifts on a first date. That's just setting yourself up for being a cash cow.
Gentleman rule 101 Always pay for the lady, if she's using you as a cash cow then that's on her. Damn it's like men now have forgotten how to be men
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"Back in the day" women weren't earning for obvious reasons. Now they are. Times have changed. Girls earn almost as much as men. The "guy must pay for dates" shit must die. Start treating women as equals in everything.
Tell me you're a weak man without telling me you're a weak man
Ahh yes the guy who's treating women equally is weak and the chimp who's willing to bend over to please someone is. Mate you reek of desperation.
So paying for your date is now bending over to please someone Welcome to reddit What's more desperate? Being secure in your upbringing as a gentleman, or being cheap enough to make a woman pay for a date you invited her to?
>So paying for your date is now bending over to please someone being cheap enough to make a woman pay for a date you invited her to Buddy I am not paying for anyone except myself on dates. If I am out with a girl I except her to be capable of handling her finances and have the money to pay for her shit. If not I am not gonna date her. Why should I pay for someone who I barely know?? >gentleman And simps like you are making it worse for the rest of us. Grow a pair Mr. Gentleman. This is 2024 ffs. Women also earn money.
Youβre just down bad
I get more pussy than you could ever get pal.
Ohh no no you possibly canβt say that without even knowing me. Again another bullshit take after a bullshit take. See PAL I doubt that after checking out your profile and your FACE.
500 bucks says right now I'm way better looking than you
Show me your face, I'll wait. (You won't)
How many more times can you be absurd in this comment section because obviously I wonβt send my picture in a comment section and your dm is closed. Plus I donβt even need to prove you anything anyways
I'll open my dm, c'mon baby show me your faceπ You're the first person to call me ugly in my entire life, clearly you're salty as fuck
Omg youβre creeping me out stop saying βbabyβ Sent btw
Pretty sure she's not a woman
Never send money to a woman or spend it on her even when youβre together or buy them gifts. UNLESS youβve been going out for months now
the thing is you were also ready to send a smaller amount. Bro aise ladkia nahi milti, paise se to kabhi nahi. Jo pyaar krti hogi wo tujhe paise degi, legi nahi
Bro this was my first match here. I really thought she might be in need and I was considering all this then I realised she's not even verified then it came to my mind that it might be a scam. Then only I asked her to verify. And bhai pyar to 6 saal ke relationship me v nhi tha to who am I to search pyar on bumble/tinder.
I canβt send money to a girl Iβve met once and been on a date with, forget sending money to my bumble match who straight away sends me the payment qr after Hi
I am learning. Especially the money thing. Cuz alot of people (friends mostly) have taken money as a loan and they forgot to pay back. And the total sum amounts to around 55-60k.
youβre lucky thatβs only 60k for you, for me itβs like 15L+
Bhai career counselling krde
gareeb bachho ke liye fund raise kar rahi hogi, isiliye aapse jitna banta utna mang rahi
More like "gand me dum hai to bhej kr dikha" just to be benefitted by our male egos
Agree
Should've sent her 2 rs and said isse katora kharid k signal pe khade ho jao
Bhai kitna desparate hai? Agar verify kardeti tho dedeta?
Arey desperate nahi. This was my first match and thoda male ego kick in kr gya tha.
Isme male ego ko kya kick padd gayi batana zara?
Kisiko paise mat dedena aise hi, koi genuine match tumse paise nhi legi it's mostly scammers pretending to be females.
tera baap yahan chhod ke gaya tha ke teri maa
Bheekh mangne ka tarika thoda casual h
1 rupiya bejh dena tha jab wo borha tha ki jo marzi wo bejho
It's not her fault!! /s "Gareebi kya kya karvati hai logo se :( "
you should have said 150 rupiya dega
and should've sent 1 rupiya, just to see the reaction..
Why were you even entertaining. The first thing she is talking about is money. Run!
bheekh mangne ka tareeka thoda kezual hai
Seems I've to ask this again...does her name starts with "s" and ends with "a"?
QR code dekhiye you'll get to know how serious she is :)
Yup
Delhi se hai?
Bhai sidha bol bhikhmanga/mangi and scram.
Experiment>>>> bheek
Digital bhikhari
Venture financing
101 mai baat pakki karo
Come on shame them, unblur the pic
Scam karne ka tarika thora cazzzual hai
Log online bheek maang rahe hai. Aur mujhe ek bandi nehi milti
I thought beggars can only be found on the streets but..
serioussnehasing@okaxis
Why were you even having conversation with her after she sent the scan code? Straight report and unmatch. You deserve someone who doesnβt need a piggy bank.
Bhai ye log roz naye tareeke leke aate hai scam karne keπ
Ese ladkiyo ke liye ek boht specific word hota hai wese π£οΈ
Specific R... word on my keyboard...
Pkka kishi chutiye ne dediye honge
I've said it before and I'm saying it again: if you guys have money to spare, feed cats and donate towards their vaccine/neutering.
Why are you even entertaining her bullshit? It seems like she's in a position of power, like having an authority over you. Do-char gaali maro aur khisko waha se fullspeed. Why keep on texting her? Have some self respect my ninjas. You deserve better.
Seriously βSerious Sneha Singh @ ok axisβ.
Lol. Online dating mostly sucks :(
I would have stopped conversation right after she sent her qr right after calling her e bhikari. And to anyone giving 5k to random strangers is a big deal no matter how sound you are financially
Bheek mangne ka tareeka thoda kezual hai
why you talking so softly man it's annoying , could have said "Hatt bhikhari kahi ki "
It's stupid that she can just get away with that. It's also stupid with the things guys can get away too. But this one is the most blatant thing I have seen anyone getaway with.
Bhikh mangne ka tarika thoda kesuaaal heπ€
Itna entertain krdiya tune toh use .ππ
Kya chutiyapa hai Salute to her audacity
Report spam move on thata the only experiment or send 1rs then spam request money
Bhikari aaizavadi
www
serioussnehasingh
Bheek magne ka tareeka thoda casual lagta hai π€π»
SeriousSnehaSingh π
Beg-in-slay π§
Itna directly toh papa ne bhi mere ko engineering karne nahi bola π
Lol
BC dating app ko apni Ammi ka kotha smjh liya he kya ab logo ne
1 rupay bhej dete
If even her account would have verified still i would not send a single penny..
She told any amount. You should have sent 1 rupees.
why tf do yall even entertain such stupid fuckers. throughout the chat i was praying i hope he didn't send anything, i hope there's a plot twist, i hope the scammer got scammed sigh
Ye bkl konsa chanda mang rahi hai??
Send her ..|..
Lmao why are u even talking to her once she sent the upi code ?π
Scam 2024
Would've unmatched the moment she sent me the QR code
Likhna tha, tum bhikhari hoe!
Laval sabke niklenge Par niklenge uske jo end tak khada rahega forever me
Why are you even talking to her dude? The moment she sent the qr just end the chat
But 6000 me toh!!!
Bhen ki lodi Gaandwi π
Hahahaha same happened to me also https://www.reddit.com/r/Ni_Bondha/s/oCBOwk6I2r
Mental peace maang rahi hogi.
Why the fuck you even entertain them and that too THIS MUCH?
Sir aap sneha ji ko bolo ki ase naa mange bumble pe
Ye koi tareeka hai bheek mangne ka?
Which city was this?
She was having fun, didnβt mean it maybe. You shouldβve asked for nudes maybe ππ
Matlab verified hoti toh tu kar deta?
Bheek mangne ka tareeka thora kezual hai
Scam karne ka tareek thoda rude bhi haiππ
Bheek maangne ka tareeka thoda casual hai
π€£π€£π€£π€£
Maine bhi iske wala experiment kiya iske saath. Abhi google pay pr 5k rupay request kre hai isse maine.
Bhai kya bakchodi karra hai usse seedhe bol bhal bkl ek rupa nhi dunga
Women never wanted feminism in the first place. They just wanted to be socially virtuous regardless of their action
Opportunity ruined to reply with this classic meme: "Ye koi tareeka hai bheekk mangneka"
Respond : 6 hazar bolti to sochta.
Chips maang rahi he vo
QR code dekhte hi EXIT kardeta main toh.
She: Send me 5k He: Why? She: Omg sexist, rapist, misogynist
Unreal how easily they ask for the money upfront. Perhaps it's working for them... Even if one in ten gets scammed, they still would call it a huge success
Bhikaariyon ki koi kami nahi he iss zamaane me
I hope people like this get scammed. π€£
Report them over and over
Bhai me hota toh kehta pehli fursat me nikal
Iski ma ki chut
I would've said "Ja na behen ki l**i" and moved on
Beekh mangne ka tariqa thoda kezual hai.
E-begging ka tareeka kaafi kezual hai
You do know what 'people who demand money for companionship' are called
The W word?
Bhaiya mera bhi recharge kardo jio. Parso pack khatam hone vala h. Bs 5k ka hi recharge krdo
5k ke liye aap jio ki ownership maang rhi ho kya /s
Paise maangne ka tareeka thoda casual hai