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It might be overwhelming at times but it is important to stay calm and composed at those times to tackle with the odds you are going through. Taking impulsive decision when you're at your lowest is definitely not a good idea.
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Bhai same base me dropper nahi hu aur last 7 days me maha revison series dekhunga jisne 1din me one shot of 12 th physics and dusra din one shot of 11 th physics and aise hi chalta jayega
Hey Dhristi ,It's great that you want to clear NEET and I respect the dedication, you've gone as far as taking a drop for it as well, as you mentioned your parents don't really care whether or not you clear NEET or not, for your worries about what people and relatives will say, they will always find something or the other to criticize you for, especially in India where all they do is be a 24x7 news channel concerned more about what's happening around them, if they worked as hard as you already have they'd not feel the need to bitch on how much of a "failure" you are (quoted to emphasize the irony). People and society will always say something or the other, whether you're a "failure" or a huge success, which brings me to the next thing, not everyone is best suited for a particular profession or field, and as unfortunate as it sounds, some people are not built for some professions, take the mediocre example of a fish trying to climb a tree, and I think you'd like to reconsider your reason for clearing NEET, and have a clear end goal, and make sure you're doing it for yourself, making huge life decisions for the sake of people almost always backfires, they say something and then the polar opposite, and the one stuck in a deadlock and the one who has to face the consequences will be you, make sure you're doing something because it has a purpose to you, and not just to live upto , or avoid criticism of others. It's sad but some aren't cut out for competitives, but I don't think there's a single being who's a waste, if everyone only cleared NEET then we'd be lacking a lot of other social requirements, also, don't be afraid to switch or think NEET is the finale, it's simply an entrance exam, and if you don't make it, even after 3 years of perseverance, then all it means is that you've worked hard for it, but that hard work can be used better in a different scenario/environment. There's no limit to new starts, you can begin preparing for whatever you're going to be great at even at ages of 20 or above, don't impose a mental boundary on yourself because of what others might think or say, they don't know what's going on inside and in India especially we all like criticizing others to boost our own ego, like yelling slurs at people over the TV while clearly we ourselves would never be even upto the task, you're doing a remarkable job so far, and I'm proud of you. What people say or think about you making a socially considered "bad" decision if you do decide to go for something other than NEET, is simply their view, and they do not have enough information to make any sensible comment, they never consider the impact of their words because it's not their life that gets influenced by their words, nobody who blames you or criticizes you is going to live your life and face the consequences of what they think you should have done. NEET isn't the finale Drishti, and if it so happens that you're suited for something else, it's time to switch tracks and switch environments, it's the end of a 3 year long struggle which unfortunate bore no fruit, it just means the effort has to be directed elsewhere, not that the effort is useless. You're precious and your perseverance is remarkable, if anything, it would be a complete waste if all of this didn't go where it was supposed to go, if it happens that that something isn't NEET, that's still progress towards what you ought to be, and I don't really know you but I think whatever you will be, you'll be a fucking great one. All the very best Dhristi, I hope you fulfil your desires and find happiness. Please take care and feel free to talk if you need to, it's very easy to get deluded into a bad self image by an environment where only 1 thing is correct and your personal traits are suited for other things. Also, when all is said and done, you're going to be the one working a job for almost half your day, nobody else is going to live that life instead of you, and you will not be happy with life if you don't enjoy or find meaning in what you do for a living, and no words from strangers will ever be able to change that, so make sure the words and thoughts that you worry about from strangers are worth worrying about at the very least. You're a remarkable person, make sure the bubble you've been confined in for the past 3 years doesn't make you blind to the fact that people are built different and can perform much better under different circumstances, which includes you. I'm proud of the progress you've made thus far and I believe you will make even more further along the road. Godspeed and Take care <3 all the very best to you for everything.(One more thing, before you decide on anything that's potentially life altering, please make sure you're not making an impulsive decision, and please consider the fact of what the world will lose in the worst case scenario, no human is a waste, and the people who say there are, are simply boosting their ego off of an unfortunate incident in someone else's life. You're precious, maybe in a different setting but precious nonetheless. Don't let your environment fool you into thinking you aren't. Making a harsh decision because of misjudgement would not only be extremely sad but a huge waste of what you could've given to this world.)(p.s. : my discord is kroww\_01 incase you need a ear or are feeling down :), this goes for everyone)
(p.s. 2: sorry for misspelling your name I edited it but sorry if there's any I missed)
oh not again the bs what will society say..... atleas if u wanna die have a better reason .. now its ur first drop make it count . i mean dying shouldnt even be an option man like come on there are enough souls waiting for their enlightenment wahan zyada competition hai . anyways there is a guy here and basically all this sub who believes in u so yeah fuck society ... talk to people here if u ever need.
i'm a dropper for jee , my parent's tell me not to take any pressure or whatsoever bullshit cause they can get me in private college . but a what cost , i don't want to spend their savings on my education , ik that they have expectation , thing is they don't show that .
the main reason for not wanting to spend their money is that it will give them the right to taunt me and dictate my life ( especially mom ) .
but my prep is going well , let's see
You're worrying too much. I know it might feel like a lot right now but things have a way of working out over time and you get more matured as well + You don't need to worry about society and stuff.. worrying about society hasn't helped anyone in the world ever!
Imagine 5 years from now, will you still think that your current problems are that worrisome? (You'll probably laugh about this in 5 years)
Bhai I know academic pressure kitna hard ho sakta apni mental health ke liye, but agar tune sirf uske liye kuch ulta sidha kar diya, to its not worth it life is too big for u too think like that in such a young age.
Stay strong......šŖ
I really suggest dont go for a medical in private college, even if you do a regular degree theres so much room for making a good career if you plan well with none of that medical stress. feel free to hit me up. i am willing to guide
Dhristi listen,
Is your life limited to this? Studying and giving NEET exam to get in a good college. Do you have friends? Do you have a family? Does your mom and dad love you? I am sure they doā¦ just imagine this, you get depressed and have this fear of failing. Lets consider worst case where you failed with bad score. And you get so fucked that you commit a suicide. What about your family? What about your mom and dad? Wont they get depressed? Yes they would cause they love you. You wanna die like this? Making your mom and dad cry for half of their remaining life? Just because you felt suicidal cause you failed a fucking ass exam? Are you serious? Are you so immature? Think practically dhristi, Youāre 17 yo and mature enough to deal with these shitty failures. Dont be so childish thinking āomg i failed the exam, i am gonna fail in life too, my life is ruined, its better if i die rn itselfā
And this what i have said is not just for a stupid exam, its for life in general. Grow up, open your eyes, see the world man. Be an adult. And ukw anyways you werenāt gonna die cause you would have realised all this with time before that could happen. Its called adulting. Welcome to the real world.
Peoples gonna ask you to get mental health help or therapy. I would suggest you to try me. And if i find your case severe i will suggest you to do whats needed. I can be a great therapist, cause i will be friendly and most importantly, FREE! (Everyone is welcomed)
Hi, as a former dropper for JEE, I know the pressure. There are other replies that focus on other areas but I want to tell you something from another perspective.
Yes, your parents do have EXPECTATIONS. They want to see you SUCCEED. They want to see you become A GREAT PERSON. But they also want to SEE YOU succeed. They also want to SEE YOU become a great person.
Should you care what others think? I'm not saying if you should or not. We prioritise everything. Going shopping, we prioritise what we want to buy first. Eating, we prioritise. Studying, we prioritise topics. Similarly, what people think should also have a priority list. Your parents should be higher in priority than anyone else. Parents know studying is stressful and students have taken their life over it. Sure, they want to see you achieve your dreams. But they never want to see you dead and that is their top most priority.
Your parents didn't pressurise you to study. Your parents might feel responsible if you end yourself. They might feel it's somehow their mistake and they let their daughter fall into that trap. Don't think what others might say if you fail/go to a private college. Think what your parents might think and do if you take extreme steps.
I too have felt the pressure and dealt with the same thoughts. Now that I have endured it and am in college (didn't crack any IIT/NIT), I understand that life is more than studies, it's more than an exam, it's more than money. It's the food your mother makes for you when you go home after a long semester. It's the long distance your father drives to pick you up. It's the time they take out of their busy schedules to talk to you. It's the laughs you share with them. It's the happiness you see on their faces when they see you after months. It's the Prince/princess treatment you receive when you reach home and are about to leave for college again. The small moments is what makes life meaningful. Tomorrow early morning, I leave home for college for 4 months. I will have a few hours with them before I say final goodbyes. They'll wake up at 4 and prepare. Then wake me up at 5 to leave. Those OTHERS won't do all these things for you. Decide for yourself what's more valuable, the smiles of your loved ones, or the comments of OTHERS who don't mean anything to you. Their comments are like social media comments. Nobody remembers what videos they see and what they comment after a few months. Anyways, I'll go sleep or I'll get scolded again tomorrow š
Hello, I am a first year MBBS student in a fairly good GMC( their is a famous neet youtuber in our senior batches). I scored 642( Haan pataa hai kam hai,par mehnat bhi kam hi kithi). Don't mind my English, I am from Hindi medium background. don't get disappointed in yourself,neet is in maybe in may 1st week or so. You can still get fairly good GMC if you try hard.
1) Try to cover Biology from yakeen ncert series on YouTube. First watch lectures then solve questions and at last read NCERT. You will be able to understand Theory better because your minor doubts would have been solved because of question practice.
2) you can do physical chemistry from sudhanshu sir( my preference). You are free to choose what you want. Inorganic an organic from ummeed series. Solve questions that's it nothing more. It would take about 22- 25 days( if you are serious)
3) lastly for physics, if you have any PW subscription of batches I would recommend you to buy KHAZANA. Or you can do from npany other teacher you like. It will take you about 40- 45 days. So in conclusion if you become serious about yourself and work hard, you still have chance and yeah mock test in last ten days is okay, you can give about 10-15( I have around 3).one of my study friend started his syllabus in last 70 days and still scored 687 or something around that and is in AIIMS Bhubaneswar ( I know life is unfairš,some are born different). But cheer up! Positivity and hard work is you key to success now.
And lastly about friends and relatives:-"NOBODY IS NOBODY'S FRIEND, NOBODY IS NOBODY'S WELLWISHER, PERSONS BECOME FRIENDS OR ENEMIES ONLY FROM MOTIVES OF INTEREST."
-BHISMA
See if you will care what people say and relatives will taunt I'm sorry to but kuch bhi nahi hoga and your conditions will just be worsening more, so come out of that loop first and then try to focus you'll surely make it.
Why would you disclose your name dristi? Anyways, feeling of regret primarily comes from realization that you are wasting your potential. I have been there while preparing for medical entrance. I would suggest you to start studying and then you'll forget everything. You have time now. For the latter part ,I am too going to pay for medicine but I feel it's okay that our parents have enough to get us to study. I have seen people wasting 4/5 years preparing, atleast we don't have to do that. For now study dristi study. you'll make it. Good luck...
I get what you are going through... I started my JEE prep in lockdown... There was a point around November when I was really burnt out... I had no one to talk to... No friends... No family who can understand what I was going through... But JEE or NEET is not the end of the line... You still have so much, your parents, your family... They are always there for you...
Sorry to hear that it doesn't matter what the society says anyway it's about your happiness, also just wanted to say it bluntly i don't mean to discourage you but if you really wanna get into medical field it's going to be way tugher than NEET, i would suggest you a creer change or something but thats for you to decide
Bro just calm down and take a chill pill. You will find out soon enough that no matter what happens with your NEET result you yourself would stop caring about what others think. It's just a natural stage of life that has happened with everybody and you are not alone, many many and I mean actually loads of students take admission in private colleges and for engineering the students who don't go to IITs , NIT's etc the number is even higher so there is no need for you to be embarassed with it. When you (because I know you will) become a successful Doctor no one would care from where you did your degree. They will treat you with equal respect as any other doctor (and especially the relatives lemme tell you that xD) so just calm down. Life never ain't gonna get easier it's just you are gonna get tougher and this is a part of it too which will pass before you even know it. For now stop worrying and just do your best for the exam and then even after the exam even if the result ain't good don't worry everything will be alright and no need to be tensed about what others think (valid for basically every situation in life I think)
It's okay bro...ur parents r supportive so why to care about society and relatives....even agar tum kisi govt clg mai admission bhi lelogi tb bhi kuch log aake kahege ki thoda aur padhke aims mai admission lena tha and even agar aims mai bhi admission milgya to kuch kahege ki engineering krlena chahiye thi so it's okay logo ka kaam h bolna then why do u care so much about them ...just scroll around this sub u may find hundreds of posts regarding their parents don't support them but u got supportive parents and even if they don't express they love u so plz don't pressurise urself much !!
Honestly in times like these, sometimes families may not be helpful (as you've shown), instead you'll should try to spend time with your friends as much as possible. Friends are always the best cure. Hopefully youll have some decent friends.
All the best OP and I hope you get through this.
Bro rn I'm at a metro station and I am trying my best not to let my intrusive thoughts win. Everyone is going through the same. Chill.! It ain't even a week in 2024, long way to go!
(Maths will be the reason of my death someday. Not suicidal but often wonder)
No commerce subject is harder than PCMB. Commerce and Humanities students who debate about it are just being immature.
However, commerce subjects are not that easy either as PCMB students believe. Relatively easy but not to the point where you don't value any subject.
It's nonsense to compare two completely different branches of education that have next to nothing in common.
I said this on the basis of 11th-12th grade syllabus.
Higher education might present different perspectives.
First of all. You can't compare subjects. It's about what you are more easy to do with. For me the computer is easy asf. But there are people who struggle with it.
And this goes for all subjects.
I talked about maths cuz people in commerce as much I know find accounts very difficult. That's why I asked.
Now if you compare a neuroscientist hella no commerce branch can compete with it. That's how hard it is.
Moreover commerce is more towards economic development whereas science is towards technology and knowledge development. Humanities depends but it also comes towards economic development and understanding / for countries and state and whatso.
Now pure science can outlet all of them when you talk what's harder but that's just something I hope you understand.. Importance wise everything is important for Stablizing the world. Harder depend on person tho.
Now take psychology some times things in psychology can be very very hard which can literally cause brain damage which is also In science. If you an astronaut. U don't know what effect that emptiness of space can leave on you..
This is just a wide topic that there should be no debate on anything like which is harder or what so. Cuz it doesn't matter anyways.. And most of the science student don't even study science ignore them they take science cuz they think they have better options in future.
Btw I'm pcm student
Hella I suck sometimes contracting myself. All I meant to say is people I know find accounts harder than maths. So I asked you that. And idk where tf pcmb come from lol
Behen sun it's alright dekh jb parents kuch ni bolte hai infact tere saath hai toh does it really matter k koi aur kya sochta hai think about that bhaii. No one gives a fvk bout what ur doin until or unless ur doin better than them. Relatives ka kya hai ek br aakr aag lga kr chale jayengey but agar tere parents hai tere saath toh kya frk padta hai yrr. Dekh Bhai parents na duniya se lad jayegnegy agr kuch bhi hua toh, teko thodi si vi problem Hui kahi future me toh
Dont be so tough on yourself dude. Let it flow, afterall its the first time living life for you and other people around you. Nobody knows the correct way man so dont worry about what people might think or say. Just believe that whatever happens would happen for your own good. And if you need anyone to talk to then iām pretty sure there are quite alot of people here who would be willing to listen to you.
Hi OP!
I was in a similar situation last year post NEET and can sort of understand (everyone has different circumstances) how awful and lonely it feels to not be understood or not to have control in your life
Hard times will eventually pass away, right now just focus on clearing your NEET and beating the expectations of your parents, yes it'll be tough and you'll feel like not giving your best or even not doing anything but if you're able to pass these hard times, next five-ish years would be relatively smooth-sailing (I won't sugarcoat MBBS is tough af, but being in a good college with a good friend circle does help)
Don't cry, stay strong we all are here to help man
As for academics, you can still make a comeback - focus on biology - just learn ncert baki fuck that, you'd need good bio scores to get a good rank
kuch bhi bother kar rha hai, you want to rant, academics, bla, bla my DMs are open, feel free to drop by
Stay strong
Here is my take ...get offensive towards the oppty that is being presented to you. Give ur best shot and play on the strategy to best use ur parents money.
Becoming a doctor is not the permanent goal ..goal is to become a person who earns a lot and earns a lot of respect ...target for new stream in USA or UK biotechnology or genome engineering or things related to science but not actually doctor are the new age line of learnings. Go to USA many colleges u will get into with IELTS score and ur 12th marks. Spend ur mom dad money wisely rather than doing a mbbs from private college.
MBBS is not the only opportunity that is available to you ...think outside of mbbs ..doing from private college means 2-3 crore and in same money u can get a better degree and better prospects from USA. Look at other options ...
Dude ...tore din mei jee h , boards h Laura kuch nhi padha meine ...bc anime dekh rhi hu ..and why do I get so connected to characters and the damn details ...abhi mere dimag mei din rat baas gojo ,geto ,nanami, toji, haibara chalta h ..why gege why??? Itne minute minute details Jo mujhe anime ke pta h unte agar jee ke liye padh liya hota toh bc jindagi hi kuch aur hoti ..man i just can't handle the pressure, merese ab real life ji nhi jati h tbh ..I mean yeh anime ka addiction kaam tha kya jo mahwa >!(jinx)!< ke bare me bta Diya mereko š...>!why can't I marry a tall ,handsome , mafia !< Fuck my life , well >!gojo can!
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>!Kuch to log kahenge logo ka kaam hai kehna!<
Focus on yourself instead of your relatives etc. Seek help if necessary. Sending you hugs 
Bro don't think about society ya log kya sochenge if u have the funds for private DO IT no one's gonna ask in the long run mbbs private se kra ya government
Life bhot bdi h yaar, 17 ki h abhi koi nhi bure time aate h. But bure time aate hi isliye h taki vo hme mentally strong bnaye. Koi nhi abhi bhot option h Sirf Neet hi me duniya nhi h. Thoda explore krogi life ko to aur raste dikhaye denge. Koi baat nhi sb theek hoga
if u want to die means u dont give a fuck about anyone, u dont love anyone , u dont fear anyone what they say . but u actually do love , fear and care about all this, its called escapism.
i want u to take up smth u truly want to do cuz even if u do clear neet in this situation then u wont be able to cope up with mbbs
Firstly cam yourself and now will you please listen to me. See giving up on your life is not an option ok .if they don't treat you well(friends and teachers)then show them who give the f**k about them(same as relative)they just talk about one or two days and then forget. As per you saying that you are not getting good marks then remember 'NEET' is not the only thing to do,there are a lot more things to do. don't forget that you don't get an extra life ok.
Feel free to talk to me ok
Donāt worry, know that you have your backup so you donāt need to consider this a ādo or dieā situation.
Itās already your drop, so things are relatively easier for you, and itās still January, things are well under control.
Just do your own best, no matter how good/bad it is. And I know for a fact that itāll be great.
Practical advice that Iād also like to add is that if you can afford private, aim for KMC Manipal. That would be putting your money to adequate use; nor is the cutoff un-achievable.
Parents razi hai na? Bas utna kafi hai. Relatives ya society jo bhi bole usei kan mat laga. Heck agar bio based college logi toh, ashei log tumhei dropper hi milenge. Nobody cares, once you are in you choice of course.
But continue prepping for NEET of that is what YOU want from the core of your soul.
Chill kar Bhai tereko Kam se kam private college to mil jayega me to second year dropper hun test me marks ghanta kuch na a rhe aur is saal neet na hua to vohi kisi chomu se course me Jana padega so chill maar aur dusro ki mat soch bhaad me jane de
'Society' doesn't give a fuck. Everyone just wants to mind their own business. The only people who actually care about shit like marks are those 2-3 aunties which are ur mom's school friends and your grandma. The other people who bother you about it are jobless and have nothing better to do. I won't lie to u and say that no one cares. 5 people will care at best who don't matter to you. No one gives a fuck.
the society and your relatives haven't had you in their womb for 9 months, they haven't paid for your education. hence, you shouldn't give a flying fuck about their judgement.
Drishti is a nice name, won't look nice on a funeral board. Keep working on yourself Drishti, you'll manage to do something in life, at the end when you're 90 and on your deathbed, all this won't matter. Enjoy your life now, kal ho na ho.
Problem lies within you OP, why do you care enough about society and relatives that they dictate how you should live your life? Why do you care? Happines of yours and those around you are the only things that matter. Bindaas do what you want.
Dude, the only thing I'm gonna say is that you're putting too much pressure on yourself. If you'll do anything like that, you're being selfish because your parents will be the one to suffer. You're thinking you'll be free but in actual reality you won't. See what the world has to offer apart from NEET because this life is full of opportunities. You definitely don't want to miss it. Think of this as God's will, that God wouldn't want ill for you. Even though things aren't going your way, it's a way of God testing you. So be strong and see this as an opportunity to study harder. Don't give up too easily. I would suggest that you try to be more religious and talk to God, share your feelings and pray. When you have a connection with God, everything that you do will be for God so you'll put in your best whenever doing any task. If you feel that you've done your best and still didn't get your desired results then maybe try what your parents are suggesting. Relax. Don't stress out, it'll take a while but you'll eventually understand.
I will suggest you to reevaluate your purpose in life. Doesn't need to be a particular job, it can be anything. Mine is to experience the most. I am trying to experience everything i can, even setbacks, failures, loss. It is due to this that, i don't worry about others, since i have only one life to live.
Ofcourse, i wasnt blessed with this knowledge. Spent months in depression and suicide ideation... couldn't do anything much. But i have decided my fate in life, that, may others do what they want, its their life, and its fine..i have my own life to live, my own curiousity to fulfill.
Op donāt worry about this itās just a chapter in your life not the whole book and why you bother a lot about what society and relatives say in the end itās only your life and live on day at a time progress slowlyā¦itās normal you just give your 100% results are not in our hands. Donāt overthinkā¦and itās not that everytime you will succeed.
its okay man, society and relatives would say bad things regardless of what, i have friends who dropped out of IIT Kharagpur because he didnt have interest in the subjects, dont give up on life, change paths
The way I got out of this kind of shit is through thinking "If I'm going against all these societal norms and beliefs, I'm definitely doing the right thing. All these mfs are so dumb."
Mai bakiyo ki tarah sugar talks nhi karta ... 4 mahine bache hai bas apna 100% dena Fully commit and exert maximum effort baki Jo hoga dekha jayega and you have plan b too like private clg .. yeah ATB š
Wait drishti, take a deep breath.
Now don't do anything rash like this. You have a whole life ahead of you and it will be wonderful. It doesn't matter what your relatives think. What matters is your happiness. I know it's like a little Satsang but it's true , you haven't even started your life yet. Don't lose hope and try your best, if you fail , it's ok you can try again and do something else you are better at.
Take a break, enjoy and tackle your fears then.
You can do it
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Please start to not give a fuck about what relatives say, you can't move forward in life if you care about what they say, at any stage of life if you care about how others judge u , your insecurities are gonna pile up like that
stay safe.
Chill.
Log kya sochenge ye bhi hm sochege toh log kya sochenge, this quote changed my life , this life is only worthwhile if you live consciously and do whatever you think is good for you not because what others will think , people will always have something to say irrespective of what you do or don't, take control of your situation before the situation takes control of you.
I think you should have a chat with counselors from vandrewala foundation if you are feeling something off with your mental state. I was having suicidal thoughts too but the good mam on the other side helped me sail through them safely.
I thought of the same many times. I live in the US, and this SAT and English is killing me. I get good marks in math but not in English. They are guilt trippin me everyday. They curse at me, scold me, beat me for no reason.
Now, I want to improve in English and just throw the marks on their face.
Use the energy to make something better instead of wasting on killing yourself
Whenever i get suicidal thoughts, I think that only cowards want to escape problems by d\*ing and i am not a coward.
1) MAKE TRUSTWORTHY FRIENDS
2)BECOME CLOSE WITH TEACHERS
You need to have someone in your life whom you should be able to trust
Don't worry u still have 4 to 5months study pls study u will regret if u r wasting time
U can still get into the race
If there. A burnout take a day rest for dopamine detox pls rest and come back to study
Study will only help u
Hey dhristi, I'm a first time neet dropper too
Idk the future seems uncertain and marks in the mock test are not great either. The pressure and feeling of what will happen overwhelms but i hope you make it thru and succeed
Labour not unwillingly, nor without regard to the common interest, nor without due consideration, nor with distraction; nor let studied ornament set off thy thoughts, and be not either a man of many words, or busy about too many things. And further, let the deity which is in thee be the guardian of a living being, manly and of ripe age, and engaged in matter political, and a Roman, and a ruler, who has taken his post like a man waiting for the signal which summons him from life, and ready to go, having need neither of oath nor of any man's testimony. Be cheerful also, and seek not external help nor the tranquility which others give. A man then must stand erect, not be kept erect by others.
Dekho ji, NEET do, jitna mehnatt karr sakte ho aap woh karo. Don't think of ending life usme, agar abhi nahi toh college mai karo, tension naa lo, just give your best, kabhi kabhi accha cheezo mai mann lagg jayega, kabhi utna accha nahi karr paate hai log,
try to analyse your strategy if possible ki kaise prep karr rahe ho aap. Ab aapko bhi pata hai ki aisa nahi hai ki bohtttt accha govt. college nahi milaa toh it is not the end aapke jeevan ke liye.
Matt socho, itna stress leke aur padhai mai aapko tension hogi. And I get ki frustration toh aayega he naa, woh hotaa hai... stay strong and aap figure out kuch na kuch toh karr loge.
bhai mai bhi first year neet dropper hu same situation m mai hu parents hv enough money ki pvt s hojayega but every reltv and every acquaintance of mine is like drop leke kyu jana pvt and ki pvt jana tha pehle attempt k baad chale jata etc etc, pehle i also used to think kya bolenge kya hoga but imma be honest kisiko fark ni pdta wht u do except ur parents like if u go to a pvt clg and banoge toh doctor hi and then them reltv will be like ye medicine batado ye hgya wo hgya,
so just chill and try ur best and then if u still feel medicine is not for u, opt for any other profession?
and ima be honest mera bhi friend grp boht chhota hgya h after uk my 12th jab sab clg gyr and im alone but still like 2 3 toh hote hai and like if u ever feel to vent or rant u can on reddit
And chemistry toh hai hi bekar usko chhodo
I pass or not, cause they have enough savings to get me a private college. But I can't imagine about what society and relatives will say if I donāt.
kuch nhi hota reccesion h +medical mai itni seat nhi h ki sab govt se kare isse badhiya, acche dost banaoyo aur college mai guss ke number lao
Dear op , Life has its ups and down. Sometimes it makes us happy while at other times , it disappoints us. But nothing of those is permanent. It might be overwhelming at times but it is important to stay calm and composed at those times to tackle with the odds you are going through. Taking impulsive decision when you're at your lowest is definitely not a good idea. The difficulties you're facing now is to make you stronger; they are not the roadblocks. Let them not define you. If you ever feel like you need someone to share your problems with or just simply vent it out , shoot us a DM or just modmail us- we're all ears. Meanwhile you can also seek help from online counsellors who will be more than happy to help you out. Here are some resources you can use \[National Phone Help Lines\]([http://suicideprevention.wikia.com/wiki/National\_Help\_Lines\](http://suicideprevention.wikia.com/wiki/National\_Help\_Lines)](http://suicideprevention.wikia.com/wiki/National_Help_Lines](http://suicideprevention.wikia.com/wiki/National_Help_Lines)) Helpline Numbers: Sneha Foundation: +91-44-24640050 (24 hours) [https://snehaindia.org/new/index.php/other-helplines/](https://snehaindia.org/new/index.php/other-helplines/) AASRA: +91-22-27546669 (24 hours) Vandrevala Foundation for Mental Health: 1860-2662-345 and 1800-2333-330 (24 hours) iCall: 9152987821 (Available from Monday to Saturday: 8:00am to 10:00pm) Connecting NGO: 18002094353 (Available from 12 pm - 8 pm) Online Chat Help Lines (International) and their associated text/call numbers: [http://suicideprevention.wikia.com/wiki/Online](http://suicideprevention.wikia.com/wiki/Online)
bhai 15 din mei mera jee hai , dropper hu , lauda kuch nahi padha , abhi bhi bakchodi pelra
sach bataun toh 15 din pehle padhne ka bhi koi fayda naiš¤£š¤£
Hai bhai , mene yt waale bhaiya ka 10 day strategy dekh liya hai , ab toh iitb pakka š
unironically, matlab hai. Pls padhle bhau mere.
Bhai ab to padhke bhi kuch nhi hone wala hai
bhai experience se bata raha hoon. abhi ek aur attempt bhi toh bacha hai. abhi nahi padhoge toh exam ke baad sochoge "kaash padh liya hota"
Mai neet wala hu bhai
tab bhi. padhle bhai
Tier 69 m jyga tb ankhe khulenge
Bhai same base me dropper nahi hu aur last 7 days me maha revison series dekhunga jisne 1din me one shot of 12 th physics and dusra din one shot of 11 th physics and aise hi chalta jayega
IIT BOMBAY mein milte h sidha ab 
Bhai maine to engineer hi chod di ab bba karunga
Value nhi h uski
Bro 10 saal baad 5jan ko yahi pe milenge phir dekhta ki kon kaha pe hai uss samay tum roo ge aur me hansunga
Hasne keliye 10 saal chiye š
Same bhai š«š«
Bro gave attitude adjustment to JEE
Us hai bhai kya kare ye bata ab lekin
Bakchodi
Same here duhš got my JEE in few days but dunno what's gonna happen, just the pressure of society kills me
https://youtu.be/4fktqmWFRgE?si=A-YZx0P01VeXh21u
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not OP, but this helped. Thank you 
Hey Dhristi ,It's great that you want to clear NEET and I respect the dedication, you've gone as far as taking a drop for it as well, as you mentioned your parents don't really care whether or not you clear NEET or not, for your worries about what people and relatives will say, they will always find something or the other to criticize you for, especially in India where all they do is be a 24x7 news channel concerned more about what's happening around them, if they worked as hard as you already have they'd not feel the need to bitch on how much of a "failure" you are (quoted to emphasize the irony). People and society will always say something or the other, whether you're a "failure" or a huge success, which brings me to the next thing, not everyone is best suited for a particular profession or field, and as unfortunate as it sounds, some people are not built for some professions, take the mediocre example of a fish trying to climb a tree, and I think you'd like to reconsider your reason for clearing NEET, and have a clear end goal, and make sure you're doing it for yourself, making huge life decisions for the sake of people almost always backfires, they say something and then the polar opposite, and the one stuck in a deadlock and the one who has to face the consequences will be you, make sure you're doing something because it has a purpose to you, and not just to live upto , or avoid criticism of others. It's sad but some aren't cut out for competitives, but I don't think there's a single being who's a waste, if everyone only cleared NEET then we'd be lacking a lot of other social requirements, also, don't be afraid to switch or think NEET is the finale, it's simply an entrance exam, and if you don't make it, even after 3 years of perseverance, then all it means is that you've worked hard for it, but that hard work can be used better in a different scenario/environment. There's no limit to new starts, you can begin preparing for whatever you're going to be great at even at ages of 20 or above, don't impose a mental boundary on yourself because of what others might think or say, they don't know what's going on inside and in India especially we all like criticizing others to boost our own ego, like yelling slurs at people over the TV while clearly we ourselves would never be even upto the task, you're doing a remarkable job so far, and I'm proud of you. What people say or think about you making a socially considered "bad" decision if you do decide to go for something other than NEET, is simply their view, and they do not have enough information to make any sensible comment, they never consider the impact of their words because it's not their life that gets influenced by their words, nobody who blames you or criticizes you is going to live your life and face the consequences of what they think you should have done. NEET isn't the finale Drishti, and if it so happens that you're suited for something else, it's time to switch tracks and switch environments, it's the end of a 3 year long struggle which unfortunate bore no fruit, it just means the effort has to be directed elsewhere, not that the effort is useless. You're precious and your perseverance is remarkable, if anything, it would be a complete waste if all of this didn't go where it was supposed to go, if it happens that that something isn't NEET, that's still progress towards what you ought to be, and I don't really know you but I think whatever you will be, you'll be a fucking great one. All the very best Dhristi, I hope you fulfil your desires and find happiness. Please take care and feel free to talk if you need to, it's very easy to get deluded into a bad self image by an environment where only 1 thing is correct and your personal traits are suited for other things. Also, when all is said and done, you're going to be the one working a job for almost half your day, nobody else is going to live that life instead of you, and you will not be happy with life if you don't enjoy or find meaning in what you do for a living, and no words from strangers will ever be able to change that, so make sure the words and thoughts that you worry about from strangers are worth worrying about at the very least. You're a remarkable person, make sure the bubble you've been confined in for the past 3 years doesn't make you blind to the fact that people are built different and can perform much better under different circumstances, which includes you. I'm proud of the progress you've made thus far and I believe you will make even more further along the road. Godspeed and Take care <3 all the very best to you for everything.(One more thing, before you decide on anything that's potentially life altering, please make sure you're not making an impulsive decision, and please consider the fact of what the world will lose in the worst case scenario, no human is a waste, and the people who say there are, are simply boosting their ego off of an unfortunate incident in someone else's life. You're precious, maybe in a different setting but precious nonetheless. Don't let your environment fool you into thinking you aren't. Making a harsh decision because of misjudgement would not only be extremely sad but a huge waste of what you could've given to this world.)(p.s. : my discord is kroww\_01 incase you need a ear or are feeling down :), this goes for everyone) (p.s. 2: sorry for misspelling your name I edited it but sorry if there's any I missed)
oh not again the bs what will society say..... atleas if u wanna die have a better reason .. now its ur first drop make it count . i mean dying shouldnt even be an option man like come on there are enough souls waiting for their enlightenment wahan zyada competition hai . anyways there is a guy here and basically all this sub who believes in u so yeah fuck society ... talk to people here if u ever need.
i'm a dropper for jee , my parent's tell me not to take any pressure or whatsoever bullshit cause they can get me in private college . but a what cost , i don't want to spend their savings on my education , ik that they have expectation , thing is they don't show that . the main reason for not wanting to spend their money is that it will give them the right to taunt me and dictate my life ( especially mom ) . but my prep is going well , let's see
Bhai pdh jitna pdh skti hai , parents ke paas paisa hai use it , society ki maki chut. Parents ko jab problem nhi hai to society ka ku sochna.
You're worrying too much. I know it might feel like a lot right now but things have a way of working out over time and you get more matured as well + You don't need to worry about society and stuff.. worrying about society hasn't helped anyone in the world ever! Imagine 5 years from now, will you still think that your current problems are that worrisome? (You'll probably laugh about this in 5 years)
Bhai I know academic pressure kitna hard ho sakta apni mental health ke liye, but agar tune sirf uske liye kuch ulta sidha kar diya, to its not worth it life is too big for u too think like that in such a young age. Stay strong......šŖ
https://youtu.be/hyg7lcU4g8E?si=BtfaAdMzSNrnzWRf and this video explains why you are not doing well in bio and chem
Yoo listen. I failed my ca exam. But Iām not gonna end my life for that. Exams will come and go. But we only live once
I really suggest dont go for a medical in private college, even if you do a regular degree theres so much room for making a good career if you plan well with none of that medical stress. feel free to hit me up. i am willing to guide
Private medical colleges arent good ?
I think you can have a really good career without going to medical itself, you will o ly see money after 35,
Dhristi listen, Is your life limited to this? Studying and giving NEET exam to get in a good college. Do you have friends? Do you have a family? Does your mom and dad love you? I am sure they doā¦ just imagine this, you get depressed and have this fear of failing. Lets consider worst case where you failed with bad score. And you get so fucked that you commit a suicide. What about your family? What about your mom and dad? Wont they get depressed? Yes they would cause they love you. You wanna die like this? Making your mom and dad cry for half of their remaining life? Just because you felt suicidal cause you failed a fucking ass exam? Are you serious? Are you so immature? Think practically dhristi, Youāre 17 yo and mature enough to deal with these shitty failures. Dont be so childish thinking āomg i failed the exam, i am gonna fail in life too, my life is ruined, its better if i die rn itselfā And this what i have said is not just for a stupid exam, its for life in general. Grow up, open your eyes, see the world man. Be an adult. And ukw anyways you werenāt gonna die cause you would have realised all this with time before that could happen. Its called adulting. Welcome to the real world. Peoples gonna ask you to get mental health help or therapy. I would suggest you to try me. And if i find your case severe i will suggest you to do whats needed. I can be a great therapist, cause i will be friendly and most importantly, FREE! (Everyone is welcomed)
Hi, as a former dropper for JEE, I know the pressure. There are other replies that focus on other areas but I want to tell you something from another perspective. Yes, your parents do have EXPECTATIONS. They want to see you SUCCEED. They want to see you become A GREAT PERSON. But they also want to SEE YOU succeed. They also want to SEE YOU become a great person. Should you care what others think? I'm not saying if you should or not. We prioritise everything. Going shopping, we prioritise what we want to buy first. Eating, we prioritise. Studying, we prioritise topics. Similarly, what people think should also have a priority list. Your parents should be higher in priority than anyone else. Parents know studying is stressful and students have taken their life over it. Sure, they want to see you achieve your dreams. But they never want to see you dead and that is their top most priority. Your parents didn't pressurise you to study. Your parents might feel responsible if you end yourself. They might feel it's somehow their mistake and they let their daughter fall into that trap. Don't think what others might say if you fail/go to a private college. Think what your parents might think and do if you take extreme steps. I too have felt the pressure and dealt with the same thoughts. Now that I have endured it and am in college (didn't crack any IIT/NIT), I understand that life is more than studies, it's more than an exam, it's more than money. It's the food your mother makes for you when you go home after a long semester. It's the long distance your father drives to pick you up. It's the time they take out of their busy schedules to talk to you. It's the laughs you share with them. It's the happiness you see on their faces when they see you after months. It's the Prince/princess treatment you receive when you reach home and are about to leave for college again. The small moments is what makes life meaningful. Tomorrow early morning, I leave home for college for 4 months. I will have a few hours with them before I say final goodbyes. They'll wake up at 4 and prepare. Then wake me up at 5 to leave. Those OTHERS won't do all these things for you. Decide for yourself what's more valuable, the smiles of your loved ones, or the comments of OTHERS who don't mean anything to you. Their comments are like social media comments. Nobody remembers what videos they see and what they comment after a few months. Anyways, I'll go sleep or I'll get scolded again tomorrow š
Hello, I am a first year MBBS student in a fairly good GMC( their is a famous neet youtuber in our senior batches). I scored 642( Haan pataa hai kam hai,par mehnat bhi kam hi kithi). Don't mind my English, I am from Hindi medium background. don't get disappointed in yourself,neet is in maybe in may 1st week or so. You can still get fairly good GMC if you try hard. 1) Try to cover Biology from yakeen ncert series on YouTube. First watch lectures then solve questions and at last read NCERT. You will be able to understand Theory better because your minor doubts would have been solved because of question practice. 2) you can do physical chemistry from sudhanshu sir( my preference). You are free to choose what you want. Inorganic an organic from ummeed series. Solve questions that's it nothing more. It would take about 22- 25 days( if you are serious) 3) lastly for physics, if you have any PW subscription of batches I would recommend you to buy KHAZANA. Or you can do from npany other teacher you like. It will take you about 40- 45 days. So in conclusion if you become serious about yourself and work hard, you still have chance and yeah mock test in last ten days is okay, you can give about 10-15( I have around 3).one of my study friend started his syllabus in last 70 days and still scored 687 or something around that and is in AIIMS Bhubaneswar ( I know life is unfairš,some are born different). But cheer up! Positivity and hard work is you key to success now. And lastly about friends and relatives:-"NOBODY IS NOBODY'S FRIEND, NOBODY IS NOBODY'S WELLWISHER, PERSONS BECOME FRIENDS OR ENEMIES ONLY FROM MOTIVES OF INTEREST." -BHISMA
GRMC se ho kya?
maa chudaye society and relatives if your parents are supportive you do not need to worry abt anything give your best dude
>maa chudaye society and relatives Sab log ek jaise nhi hai society me, sabki maa kyu ch\*\* rahe ho
See if you will care what people say and relatives will taunt I'm sorry to but kuch bhi nahi hoga and your conditions will just be worsening more, so come out of that loop first and then try to focus you'll surely make it.
visit a psychiatrist
Why would you disclose your name dristi? Anyways, feeling of regret primarily comes from realization that you are wasting your potential. I have been there while preparing for medical entrance. I would suggest you to start studying and then you'll forget everything. You have time now. For the latter part ,I am too going to pay for medicine but I feel it's okay that our parents have enough to get us to study. I have seen people wasting 4/5 years preparing, atleast we don't have to do that. For now study dristi study. you'll make it. Good luck...
If you're having suicidal thoughts even after having so much supportive parents, YOU'RE SUCH AN " L"
vent this out to someone that care for you
STOP THINKING START DOING guys ignore her she is attention seeking WH*RE
Get yourself fixed
Tu khud ko pehle fix karva le sale RAND KE BACCHE sale madarchod kahi ke behen ke lode behenchod 10 baap ki aulad
Lil bro is frustrated
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I get what you are going through... I started my JEE prep in lockdown... There was a point around November when I was really burnt out... I had no one to talk to... No friends... No family who can understand what I was going through... But JEE or NEET is not the end of the line... You still have so much, your parents, your family... They are always there for you...
https://youtu.be/5nm7WwS80Xs?si=ISFu_9iI6ai4FZ8j
If nobody cares, then start living for yourself and the little things you love š»The Good food, Art, Music, Nature and your hobbies š
NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS DONT END YOUR LIFE BECAUSE OF THIS, life is much bigger than some exam
Sorry to hear that it doesn't matter what the society says anyway it's about your happiness, also just wanted to say it bluntly i don't mean to discourage you but if you really wanna get into medical field it's going to be way tugher than NEET, i would suggest you a creer change or something but thats for you to decide
Bro just calm down and take a chill pill. You will find out soon enough that no matter what happens with your NEET result you yourself would stop caring about what others think. It's just a natural stage of life that has happened with everybody and you are not alone, many many and I mean actually loads of students take admission in private colleges and for engineering the students who don't go to IITs , NIT's etc the number is even higher so there is no need for you to be embarassed with it. When you (because I know you will) become a successful Doctor no one would care from where you did your degree. They will treat you with equal respect as any other doctor (and especially the relatives lemme tell you that xD) so just calm down. Life never ain't gonna get easier it's just you are gonna get tougher and this is a part of it too which will pass before you even know it. For now stop worrying and just do your best for the exam and then even after the exam even if the result ain't good don't worry everything will be alright and no need to be tensed about what others think (valid for basically every situation in life I think)
It's okay bro...ur parents r supportive so why to care about society and relatives....even agar tum kisi govt clg mai admission bhi lelogi tb bhi kuch log aake kahege ki thoda aur padhke aims mai admission lena tha and even agar aims mai bhi admission milgya to kuch kahege ki engineering krlena chahiye thi so it's okay logo ka kaam h bolna then why do u care so much about them ...just scroll around this sub u may find hundreds of posts regarding their parents don't support them but u got supportive parents and even if they don't express they love u so plz don't pressurise urself much !!
Honestly in times like these, sometimes families may not be helpful (as you've shown), instead you'll should try to spend time with your friends as much as possible. Friends are always the best cure. Hopefully youll have some decent friends. All the best OP and I hope you get through this.
Bro rn I'm at a metro station and I am trying my best not to let my intrusive thoughts win. Everyone is going through the same. Chill.! It ain't even a week in 2024, long way to go! (Maths will be the reason of my death someday. Not suicidal but often wonder)
maths student? Pcm?
Commerce with maths (core).
I thought account was more difficult than maths lol
No commerce subject is harder than PCMB. Commerce and Humanities students who debate about it are just being immature. However, commerce subjects are not that easy either as PCMB students believe. Relatively easy but not to the point where you don't value any subject. It's nonsense to compare two completely different branches of education that have next to nothing in common. I said this on the basis of 11th-12th grade syllabus. Higher education might present different perspectives.
First of all. You can't compare subjects. It's about what you are more easy to do with. For me the computer is easy asf. But there are people who struggle with it. And this goes for all subjects. I talked about maths cuz people in commerce as much I know find accounts very difficult. That's why I asked. Now if you compare a neuroscientist hella no commerce branch can compete with it. That's how hard it is. Moreover commerce is more towards economic development whereas science is towards technology and knowledge development. Humanities depends but it also comes towards economic development and understanding / for countries and state and whatso. Now pure science can outlet all of them when you talk what's harder but that's just something I hope you understand.. Importance wise everything is important for Stablizing the world. Harder depend on person tho. Now take psychology some times things in psychology can be very very hard which can literally cause brain damage which is also In science. If you an astronaut. U don't know what effect that emptiness of space can leave on you.. This is just a wide topic that there should be no debate on anything like which is harder or what so. Cuz it doesn't matter anyways.. And most of the science student don't even study science ignore them they take science cuz they think they have better options in future. Btw I'm pcm student
When u stretch those 2 lines for that 5 marks question.
Hella I suck sometimes contracting myself. All I meant to say is people I know find accounts harder than maths. So I asked you that. And idk where tf pcmb come from lol
Behen sun it's alright dekh jb parents kuch ni bolte hai infact tere saath hai toh does it really matter k koi aur kya sochta hai think about that bhaii. No one gives a fvk bout what ur doin until or unless ur doin better than them. Relatives ka kya hai ek br aakr aag lga kr chale jayengey but agar tere parents hai tere saath toh kya frk padta hai yrr. Dekh Bhai parents na duniya se lad jayegnegy agr kuch bhi hua toh, teko thodi si vi problem Hui kahi future me toh
Dont be so tough on yourself dude. Let it flow, afterall its the first time living life for you and other people around you. Nobody knows the correct way man so dont worry about what people might think or say. Just believe that whatever happens would happen for your own good. And if you need anyone to talk to then iām pretty sure there are quite alot of people here who would be willing to listen to you.
See if your parents are ready to send you to private colleges then why worry about the society. They aren't the ones raising you. F THIER OPINIONS
Yaar neet hi toh hai abhi toh time bhi hai tension mat le continue kar le.koi problem ho toh dm kar diyo.I am sure tu is baar Mera junior banega
Hi OP! I was in a similar situation last year post NEET and can sort of understand (everyone has different circumstances) how awful and lonely it feels to not be understood or not to have control in your life Hard times will eventually pass away, right now just focus on clearing your NEET and beating the expectations of your parents, yes it'll be tough and you'll feel like not giving your best or even not doing anything but if you're able to pass these hard times, next five-ish years would be relatively smooth-sailing (I won't sugarcoat MBBS is tough af, but being in a good college with a good friend circle does help) Don't cry, stay strong we all are here to help man As for academics, you can still make a comeback - focus on biology - just learn ncert baki fuck that, you'd need good bio scores to get a good rank kuch bhi bother kar rha hai, you want to rant, academics, bla, bla my DMs are open, feel free to drop by Stay strong
Here is my take ...get offensive towards the oppty that is being presented to you. Give ur best shot and play on the strategy to best use ur parents money. Becoming a doctor is not the permanent goal ..goal is to become a person who earns a lot and earns a lot of respect ...target for new stream in USA or UK biotechnology or genome engineering or things related to science but not actually doctor are the new age line of learnings. Go to USA many colleges u will get into with IELTS score and ur 12th marks. Spend ur mom dad money wisely rather than doing a mbbs from private college. MBBS is not the only opportunity that is available to you ...think outside of mbbs ..doing from private college means 2-3 crore and in same money u can get a better degree and better prospects from USA. Look at other options ...
kuch to log kahenge, logo ka kaam hay kehna. fuck their opinions.
Dude ...tore din mei jee h , boards h Laura kuch nhi padha meine ...bc anime dekh rhi hu ..and why do I get so connected to characters and the damn details ...abhi mere dimag mei din rat baas gojo ,geto ,nanami, toji, haibara chalta h ..why gege why??? Itne minute minute details Jo mujhe anime ke pta h unte agar jee ke liye padh liya hota toh bc jindagi hi kuch aur hoti ..man i just can't handle the pressure, merese ab real life ji nhi jati h tbh ..I mean yeh anime ka addiction kaam tha kya jo mahwa >!(jinx)!< ke bare me bta Diya mereko š...>!why can't I marry a tall ,handsome , mafia !< Fuck my life , well >!gojo can!
 btw fav anime
Aot  ..urs
Monster šš
Ohh ..dekha h
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>!Kuch to log kahenge logo ka kaam hai kehna!< Focus on yourself instead of your relatives etc. Seek help if necessary. Sending you hugs 
Bruh go to private then why putting yourself through this intense cycle
Bro don't think about society ya log kya sochenge if u have the funds for private DO IT no one's gonna ask in the long run mbbs private se kra ya government
Life bhot bdi h yaar, 17 ki h abhi koi nhi bure time aate h. But bure time aate hi isliye h taki vo hme mentally strong bnaye. Koi nhi abhi bhot option h Sirf Neet hi me duniya nhi h. Thoda explore krogi life ko to aur raste dikhaye denge. Koi baat nhi sb theek hoga
Ladka hota to Muthhi marke sojane bolta, Ab Ladki ho to kya hi bole...
if u want to die means u dont give a fuck about anyone, u dont love anyone , u dont fear anyone what they say . but u actually do love , fear and care about all this, its called escapism. i want u to take up smth u truly want to do cuz even if u do clear neet in this situation then u wont be able to cope up with mbbs
Firstly cam yourself and now will you please listen to me. See giving up on your life is not an option ok .if they don't treat you well(friends and teachers)then show them who give the f**k about them(same as relative)they just talk about one or two days and then forget. As per you saying that you are not getting good marks then remember 'NEET' is not the only thing to do,there are a lot more things to do. don't forget that you don't get an extra life ok. Feel free to talk to me ok
Donāt worry, know that you have your backup so you donāt need to consider this a ādo or dieā situation. Itās already your drop, so things are relatively easier for you, and itās still January, things are well under control. Just do your own best, no matter how good/bad it is. And I know for a fact that itāll be great. Practical advice that Iād also like to add is that if you can afford private, aim for KMC Manipal. That would be putting your money to adequate use; nor is the cutoff un-achievable.
Parents razi hai na? Bas utna kafi hai. Relatives ya society jo bhi bole usei kan mat laga. Heck agar bio based college logi toh, ashei log tumhei dropper hi milenge. Nobody cares, once you are in you choice of course. But continue prepping for NEET of that is what YOU want from the core of your soul.
Chill kar Bhai tereko Kam se kam private college to mil jayega me to second year dropper hun test me marks ghanta kuch na a rhe aur is saal neet na hua to vohi kisi chomu se course me Jana padega so chill maar aur dusro ki mat soch bhaad me jane de
'Society' doesn't give a fuck. Everyone just wants to mind their own business. The only people who actually care about shit like marks are those 2-3 aunties which are ur mom's school friends and your grandma. The other people who bother you about it are jobless and have nothing better to do. I won't lie to u and say that no one cares. 5 people will care at best who don't matter to you. No one gives a fuck.
Similar situation.
NEET is not life and Life is not NEET. There are other options and life is precious. You can move out of your place and start living some moments.
the society and your relatives haven't had you in their womb for 9 months, they haven't paid for your education. hence, you shouldn't give a flying fuck about their judgement. Drishti is a nice name, won't look nice on a funeral board. Keep working on yourself Drishti, you'll manage to do something in life, at the end when you're 90 and on your deathbed, all this won't matter. Enjoy your life now, kal ho na ho.
also, Drishti Ias
Problem lies within you OP, why do you care enough about society and relatives that they dictate how you should live your life? Why do you care? Happines of yours and those around you are the only things that matter. Bindaas do what you want.
Dude, the only thing I'm gonna say is that you're putting too much pressure on yourself. If you'll do anything like that, you're being selfish because your parents will be the one to suffer. You're thinking you'll be free but in actual reality you won't. See what the world has to offer apart from NEET because this life is full of opportunities. You definitely don't want to miss it. Think of this as God's will, that God wouldn't want ill for you. Even though things aren't going your way, it's a way of God testing you. So be strong and see this as an opportunity to study harder. Don't give up too easily. I would suggest that you try to be more religious and talk to God, share your feelings and pray. When you have a connection with God, everything that you do will be for God so you'll put in your best whenever doing any task. If you feel that you've done your best and still didn't get your desired results then maybe try what your parents are suggesting. Relax. Don't stress out, it'll take a while but you'll eventually understand.
I will suggest you to reevaluate your purpose in life. Doesn't need to be a particular job, it can be anything. Mine is to experience the most. I am trying to experience everything i can, even setbacks, failures, loss. It is due to this that, i don't worry about others, since i have only one life to live. Ofcourse, i wasnt blessed with this knowledge. Spent months in depression and suicide ideation... couldn't do anything much. But i have decided my fate in life, that, may others do what they want, its their life, and its fine..i have my own life to live, my own curiousity to fulfill.
Op donāt worry about this itās just a chapter in your life not the whole book and why you bother a lot about what society and relatives say in the end itās only your life and live on day at a time progress slowlyā¦itās normal you just give your 100% results are not in our hands. Donāt overthinkā¦and itās not that everytime you will succeed.
its okay man, society and relatives would say bad things regardless of what, i have friends who dropped out of IIT Kharagpur because he didnt have interest in the subjects, dont give up on life, change paths
Don't care about society n all, they don't really matter. Your parents are by your side so there is nothing to worry about.
Do something interesting in life
The way I got out of this kind of shit is through thinking "If I'm going against all these societal norms and beliefs, I'm definitely doing the right thing. All these mfs are so dumb."
Mai bakiyo ki tarah sugar talks nhi karta ... 4 mahine bache hai bas apna 100% dena Fully commit and exert maximum effort baki Jo hoga dekha jayega and you have plan b too like private clg .. yeah ATB š
Wait drishti, take a deep breath. Now don't do anything rash like this. You have a whole life ahead of you and it will be wonderful. It doesn't matter what your relatives think. What matters is your happiness. I know it's like a little Satsang but it's true , you haven't even started your life yet. Don't lose hope and try your best, if you fail , it's ok you can try again and do something else you are better at. Take a break, enjoy and tackle your fears then. You can do it š
Please start to not give a fuck about what relatives say, you can't move forward in life if you care about what they say, at any stage of life if you care about how others judge u , your insecurities are gonna pile up like that stay safe. Chill.
Log kya sochenge ye bhi hm sochege toh log kya sochenge, this quote changed my life , this life is only worthwhile if you live consciously and do whatever you think is good for you not because what others will think , people will always have something to say irrespective of what you do or don't, take control of your situation before the situation takes control of you.
>Log kya sochenge ye bhi hm sochege toh log kya sochenge 
I think you should have a chat with counselors from vandrewala foundation if you are feeling something off with your mental state. I was having suicidal thoughts too but the good mam on the other side helped me sail through them safely.
mocks mai score kya ha dropper here
I thought of the same many times. I live in the US, and this SAT and English is killing me. I get good marks in math but not in English. They are guilt trippin me everyday. They curse at me, scold me, beat me for no reason. Now, I want to improve in English and just throw the marks on their face. Use the energy to make something better instead of wasting on killing yourself Whenever i get suicidal thoughts, I think that only cowards want to escape problems by d\*ing and i am not a coward. 1) MAKE TRUSTWORTHY FRIENDS 2)BECOME CLOSE WITH TEACHERS You need to have someone in your life whom you should be able to trust
Don't worry u still have 4 to 5months study pls study u will regret if u r wasting time U can still get into the race If there. A burnout take a day rest for dopamine detox pls rest and come back to study Study will only help u
Hey dhristi, I'm a first time neet dropper too Idk the future seems uncertain and marks in the mock test are not great either. The pressure and feeling of what will happen overwhelms but i hope you make it thru and succeed
Labour not unwillingly, nor without regard to the common interest, nor without due consideration, nor with distraction; nor let studied ornament set off thy thoughts, and be not either a man of many words, or busy about too many things. And further, let the deity which is in thee be the guardian of a living being, manly and of ripe age, and engaged in matter political, and a Roman, and a ruler, who has taken his post like a man waiting for the signal which summons him from life, and ready to go, having need neither of oath nor of any man's testimony. Be cheerful also, and seek not external help nor the tranquility which others give. A man then must stand erect, not be kept erect by others.
Don't lose hope
Dekho ji, NEET do, jitna mehnatt karr sakte ho aap woh karo. Don't think of ending life usme, agar abhi nahi toh college mai karo, tension naa lo, just give your best, kabhi kabhi accha cheezo mai mann lagg jayega, kabhi utna accha nahi karr paate hai log, try to analyse your strategy if possible ki kaise prep karr rahe ho aap. Ab aapko bhi pata hai ki aisa nahi hai ki bohtttt accha govt. college nahi milaa toh it is not the end aapke jeevan ke liye. Matt socho, itna stress leke aur padhai mai aapko tension hogi. And I get ki frustration toh aayega he naa, woh hotaa hai... stay strong and aap figure out kuch na kuch toh karr loge.
bhai mai bhi first year neet dropper hu same situation m mai hu parents hv enough money ki pvt s hojayega but every reltv and every acquaintance of mine is like drop leke kyu jana pvt and ki pvt jana tha pehle attempt k baad chale jata etc etc, pehle i also used to think kya bolenge kya hoga but imma be honest kisiko fark ni pdta wht u do except ur parents like if u go to a pvt clg and banoge toh doctor hi and then them reltv will be like ye medicine batado ye hgya wo hgya, so just chill and try ur best and then if u still feel medicine is not for u, opt for any other profession? and ima be honest mera bhi friend grp boht chhota hgya h after uk my 12th jab sab clg gyr and im alone but still like 2 3 toh hote hai and like if u ever feel to vent or rant u can on reddit And chemistry toh hai hi bekar usko chhodo
I pass or not, cause they have enough savings to get me a private college. But I can't imagine about what society and relatives will say if I donāt. kuch nhi hota reccesion h +medical mai itni seat nhi h ki sab govt se kare isse badhiya, acche dost banaoyo aur college mai guss ke number lao
Now think about those who don't even have enough to fill the security deposit of these colleges let alone the fees