Maybe they were waiting for their daughter to be a grown up. It could be anything. But malayalis should normalise divorce. There is nothing wrong in separating from your partner if you are no longer in love or are suffering abuse. We have had too many suicides , too many people suffering silently in abusive marriages , all because they think “what will people say”. Ultimately Society is a myran.
It's okay to go for divorce if you don't feel love or coz of compatibility issues. But it's hell for the children. My point is anyone who gets married should wait for atleast 3 years before having a baby. That time is more than enough to get a perspective about your partner and about your married life in general.if you feel you can't move forward go for the divorce. Don't bring children into the world and then divorce coz that's a terrible thing to do to your children.
Waiting three for a kid is fine - but the idea that if you have 3 good years at the start , then you are all set and safe in marital relationships is a bit of a naive approach.
People can fall out of love at any time, compatibility and other issues can come up anytime. Basically People grow and change. And hopefully both the partners are in sync but some times that’s not the case.
Also Marriage needs work - Constantly.
It’s not like a test period of 3 years after which it’s on AutoPilot !
That's the fault with this generation. They are always in doubt about everything. The problem with this kind of thought is that it ruins the other partner's life who wants to make things work. Like you said marriage is not a test at all and neither is the other partner a car to test drive.Such people who have doubt shouldn't marry for the sake of marrying or by being forced by parents or for the common Indian thought,"log kya sochenge"?. Or the funniest one," my friends are all marrying so i will also marry". It doesn't work that way. It's not like using a phone for a few years and when a new model comes out you fall out of love for the old one. Commitment is something this generation will never understand. It will be better for everyone if people in doubt don't marry at all.
It’s not a generational thing, in the past society bullied everyone into commitment, now that influence is just waning away.Stuff like commitment or character is highly individualistic, societal pressure just molds an average out, people aren’t that different through the generations, societal norms shape behaviours more than we think they do.
Sometimes children are better off with separated parents than ones who fight all the time or are distant from each other. It warps their reality on relationships.
Because people grow and change and evolve. A lot of things we loved and adored 5years ago is not what love anymore. I’ve grown out of certain friendships. I cringe thinking how enamored I was with some people. Same goes for marriage. Just because you took a decision 20 years ago doesn’t mean it is still the right decision.
Years back, i mean eons back, this dude messages me on facebook introducing himself as a cinematographer and letting me know that he won the kerala state film award. He shamelessly said ‘you can congratulate me’. I still remember. I was sooo young back then, barely 18. i went ‘fu*k this dude is famous, i should reply. And i did. He then went on and on about how i was good looking and that i should try in movies. Ended up blocking him. He is a creep!! Period!!
Do not know the reason for divorce but the dude aint no saint.. how he found me is beyond my comprehension!! I hav no connections in the industry..
Don't know if this is the only issue but Sujith didn't agree with Manju's friendship with Karthik Surya. (No, not in the way that you would think. It's just that Karthik is a womaniser and Sujith didn't want his family to be associated with any of the things that Karthik did with *other* women). I guess I have to repeat that Sujith did not doubt Manju-Karthik in any other way, just didn't trust her judgement in being near a ticking time bomb. More like how some celebrities avoided Dilieep during the initial phase of the case.
Incompatibility. Malayalis should stop sensationalising divorce.
Angane okke parannal ee sub pooti poville 🤣
Not incompatibility. Irreconcilable differences. In any case, Malayalis should stop sensationalising divorce. Move on guys.
Correct 💯
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They had this realisation after 2 decades ?
Maybe they were waiting for their daughter to be a grown up. It could be anything. But malayalis should normalise divorce. There is nothing wrong in separating from your partner if you are no longer in love or are suffering abuse. We have had too many suicides , too many people suffering silently in abusive marriages , all because they think “what will people say”. Ultimately Society is a myran.
It's okay to go for divorce if you don't feel love or coz of compatibility issues. But it's hell for the children. My point is anyone who gets married should wait for atleast 3 years before having a baby. That time is more than enough to get a perspective about your partner and about your married life in general.if you feel you can't move forward go for the divorce. Don't bring children into the world and then divorce coz that's a terrible thing to do to your children.
Waiting three for a kid is fine - but the idea that if you have 3 good years at the start , then you are all set and safe in marital relationships is a bit of a naive approach. People can fall out of love at any time, compatibility and other issues can come up anytime. Basically People grow and change. And hopefully both the partners are in sync but some times that’s not the case. Also Marriage needs work - Constantly. It’s not like a test period of 3 years after which it’s on AutoPilot !
That's the fault with this generation. They are always in doubt about everything. The problem with this kind of thought is that it ruins the other partner's life who wants to make things work. Like you said marriage is not a test at all and neither is the other partner a car to test drive.Such people who have doubt shouldn't marry for the sake of marrying or by being forced by parents or for the common Indian thought,"log kya sochenge"?. Or the funniest one," my friends are all marrying so i will also marry". It doesn't work that way. It's not like using a phone for a few years and when a new model comes out you fall out of love for the old one. Commitment is something this generation will never understand. It will be better for everyone if people in doubt don't marry at all.
It’s not a generational thing, in the past society bullied everyone into commitment, now that influence is just waning away.Stuff like commitment or character is highly individualistic, societal pressure just molds an average out, people aren’t that different through the generations, societal norms shape behaviours more than we think they do.
Sometimes children are better off with separated parents than ones who fight all the time or are distant from each other. It warps their reality on relationships.
Agreed 👍 sensible!
Because people grow and change and evolve. A lot of things we loved and adored 5years ago is not what love anymore. I’ve grown out of certain friendships. I cringe thinking how enamored I was with some people. Same goes for marriage. Just because you took a decision 20 years ago doesn’t mean it is still the right decision.
it can even be when they are 90+ what is ur logic here?
What if they did? What's your problem with it?
Heard they fought over the TV remote
Avarod direct chodikkanam
😬😹
പഞ്ചസാര കുറഞ്ഞ് പോയെന്നോ മറ്റോ ആണ്
Years back, i mean eons back, this dude messages me on facebook introducing himself as a cinematographer and letting me know that he won the kerala state film award. He shamelessly said ‘you can congratulate me’. I still remember. I was sooo young back then, barely 18. i went ‘fu*k this dude is famous, i should reply. And i did. He then went on and on about how i was good looking and that i should try in movies. Ended up blocking him. He is a creep!! Period!! Do not know the reason for divorce but the dude aint no saint.. how he found me is beyond my comprehension!! I hav no connections in the industry..
Don't know if this is the only issue but Sujith didn't agree with Manju's friendship with Karthik Surya. (No, not in the way that you would think. It's just that Karthik is a womaniser and Sujith didn't want his family to be associated with any of the things that Karthik did with *other* women). I guess I have to repeat that Sujith did not doubt Manju-Karthik in any other way, just didn't trust her judgement in being near a ticking time bomb. More like how some celebrities avoided Dilieep during the initial phase of the case.
Youtuber karthik surya?
Youtuber kartik surya?
Why would she keep tabs with a womaniser tho
Oh my god, didn't knew they seperated. She first married actor mukundan ryt?
Ivide tea chodichu varunnavare nirasharakkunna marupadi aanallo muzhuvanum. Sub poottikkalle please..
Bharthav ethu sthalthil nin aanu?
No tea but manju pillai has undergone a proper transformation dear lord 🥵🥵
I though they divorced years ago😂
Paradushana ammayi spotted
Their daughter is so hot ! And bold. Hope she has inherited her mom's genes in terms of acting ability.
hot aanu...bold aanu eee dialouge njaaan evideyo?!!! haaa kittti Welcome to Reddit 6aatt annaa!
Dude what are you drinking, her daughter is like 1 out of 10 she is not hot at all...and her mom doesn't have any speakable acting prowess
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. I find her to be really attractive. And lol at Manju Pilla being an avg actor. She's not utilized well.
Ur taste is yuck
I said nothing about my taste
Is it our concern? avar istamullath pole jeevikate
Manju Pillayodu direct chodichoode ithokkeee..
Chayaku kaduppom koranjupoyathond aan ennan kettath ✌️
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Why are you here then? 🤣
Pinne Gossip sub il njngal aanavakkaraaar ine patti charcha cheyyano?!
I think you entered the wrong sub
Extrovert - Introvert
Manju- He is better DOP than husband.