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Dukh hota hai bhai 12th kee baad mummy papa ne pucha tha Kya karna hai Maine chutiyon ki tarah drop year ka bol diya 
abey achhe college ke liye hi jaana chahiye joh rarely jee aspirants ko lete hai (unless u have strong profile) i am in punjab aur yaha se ielts mei ghus deke log canada jaate hai fir vaha barber, taxi driver, dukandar ki naukari hi karte hai bc itne paise lagaao khet becho vaha pe driver banne ke liye hatttt 
Isliye toh Indians ko wo log stereotype kartey hai ki saare scammers hai jinhone cheating se ielts pass Kiya and wo sirf Uber taxi chalana jaantey hai.
Nah that scammer thing is from Delhi,banglore region where there are headquarters only for scamming people in foreign by saying we are from Microsoft etc.
Cet mei acche marks aane ke baad bole “humne dekhi teri mehnat..teen mahine mei jee ke kharab percentile se cet mei nearly 99…proud of you”
Itna sunn liya bhai din ban gya tha mera
"Agar tera nahin bhi hua to it's not the end of life. Tu zyada important hai hame. Log kya bolte hai usse koi farak nahi padta."
Legit cried hard on hearing this.
It's okay Beta... agli test me acche number laane ka try karna
paiso ki tension mat lo, go take exposure
stop worrying about money, it's my headache
beta bahut time se padh rahe ho, break lele
maine terese pucha paise kaha kharch kare? i trust you
I LOVE YOU
"sab bhul ja aur Goa mei aesh kar" after JEE advanced.
Yeah it was a bit boring sometimes they took me to churches and all instead of some party places but I still enjoyed a lot after these horrible 2 years
finally a good question , really appreciate you op , nahi to har jagah negativity.
They just said that nothing is more important than my life , no fucking marks , no fucking exam, nothing.
ab they did not use the word ' fucking ' but you get it 😂 .
but fir iske 1 ghante baad " padhle , kya hoga tera "
"Tu satisfied nhi teri expectations se meet nhi hua toh kya hua....hume toh acche lge aur hume pta hai tu krlegi"-jab 10th ka result aya
"Tu krlegi nhi hua toh mujhe btana chahe kuch bhi hoga hum karenge"
"Smajh nhi araha ? Toh kya hua ma hu na ma smjha ta hu fr bi na aye toh teacher se baat krte"
- jab mujhse maths ke question mhi ban rhe toh test me bhi gande number aa rhe the
"Tu apna full de......jo hum nhi kr paye jo humne sapne dekhe the usse jyada tujhe dilayenge"
"Hume marks se fark nhi padhta, teri mehnat dekhi hai humne shayad aaj nhi toh kal sahi"
"Roti kyu hai ?darna nhi hai smjhi agar kisan ka beta nikaal skta hai toh humari beti kyu nhi?"
"Jee me nhi hua toh kya hua? Hum Law kra lenge aakhir hume pta hai tu kissi na kissi ma kr hi legi"
*priceless moments-legit cried*
-🐥🐣🐾
Mai bachpan se bohot kamzor tha padhai mai 10th ke term 1 mai 60 % tha . jab jee mains mai 98 percentile aaye tab papa ne kaha tha mujhe "thankyou beta" meri izzat rakhli ( class ke topper jo 10th mai 98 laya tha ussey 60 percentile aayi aur unke pita ji mere papa ko har samay unke bete ka result bata ke sharminda karte the )
During the jee adv result day i didn't get a good rank and was pretty depressed and was considering myself a failure.
Mom- Tum koi failure nhi ho, kuch nhi agar adv mai achi rank nhi aayi toh, abhi bhi hamare pass kafi options hai, depressed mat raho aur galtiyo se sikho
Apart from this many more incidents too but i can't remember them exactly
"Tera jee nahi hua to kya hua . Mujhe bharosa hai tumpe ki tum acha karoge . Tumhe apne aap pe vishwas ho na ho , mujhe mere sanskaaro pe vishwas hai ki tum aage badhoge "
Words of my mom that never make me quit . Unka Dil already for diya hai but unka beleif nahi
"arre humlog ko result se farak nahi padta you tried"
"we trust you, jo socha hoga kiya hoga sahi hi kiya hoga"
"You have always made me proud"
"arre koi nahi marks ki chinta mat karo bas mehnat ki hai aur best de kar aao apna"
"mujhe to bohot acha lagta hai party karane me, always stay happy"
Man am I grateful.....truly blessed.
Mummy bohot bolti hain yaar itta zyada ki yaad nhi aara.
chalo recent wala yaad hai, ghar pe flowers aaye the and ek silk. Mummy bolti inko bacha ke rakho apni girlfriend ko dedena(with the cutest smile ever) Aur meri gf ko lgta tha meri maa chidti hai usse
Not my parents but my grandpa,this one time I had a very severe breakdown in front of him during the preparation phase(I used to daily sit with him for half an hour)that I started crying and he said to me,"We never wanted you to be an IITian,What we always wanted you was to be happy".
PS:I did get a 15XX rank in advanced so I'm probably an IITian now,happy?idk about that.
morning of my neet paper: beta don’t worry, agar nahi crack hua toh hum hai na tum paise ki tension mat lo just exam phod ke aao
(this was after calling me a lazy lump everyday for a year)
desi parents are built different!
Mera papa ne ek din kaha tha ki beta mehnat Krna hai toh kro lekin kbhi aise depressed hokr glt kdm Mt uthana unhone kaha ki "padhai life ke liye hai" life padhai ke liye nhi hai" ek chij nhi hui toh kuch or krlenge Esme konsi bdi batt btw battein toh bohot or....
Beta tujhe Jo krna h tu woh kr bs khush rh
Agr tujhe dhoop me sabazi bechne me khushi h toh woh kr ya jhadu lgane me khushi milti h toh woh kr. Ham to 10 saal me chle jaenge rhna tujhe h bs khush rh (and I still chose jee)
"I love you beta" - usually my mother
Or
the time when my father was so proud and happy when I got state rank 1 in my cat in NTSE. "Shabash beta, proud of you".
Or
My mother regularly tells me how much my father loves me and always encourages me to study properly to make him proud and happy. Both of my parents always say "we don't need anything from you , just get settled for urself beta" melts my heart 💗
Def core memories haha
(dont hate me for this)
once i was stressed abt my marks in aakash minors tests and had tears in my eyes i called my mum in my room just to rant and didn't expect my father would come along after 5 mins when i already was full of tears and he just told me tension kyu karta hai, enjoy karke padh na interest leke padh, nhi hua toh 1 saal drop le lenge aur acchi (kota,indore) jagah se aur fir bhi nhi hua toh mai hu na pvt karwa denge ya donation padhai pe itna kya rona sab kar lega tu
still remember that day and that scene in my head is stuck
(isse pressure bhi 100x ho gya ki bc maa baap ke pressure ka rr bhi nhi kar paunga ab toh)
Uhm.....Started jee preparation in 11th and thought would atleast get a decent college. But had cannon moment and fucked throughout the high-school. Scored 69.8% in boards and well in jee, jan 74.xxx and April 82.xxxx. Got depressed and my family told me to pursue whatever I want so english that is. Got into it while reading wns.
Mehnat to tune kre hai hm tere stah hai jo krna hai karr
They always support me in every situation weather it is wrong or right
Me sach me bht pyar karta in log se successfull hoke kuch karna hai dono ke leye!!!! 🧡🛐🤌
Whatever happens….even if the world stands against you… WE WILL SHIELD YOU. Choose your happiness… we will be there with you always, through thick and thin.
I cannot say how lucky I am to have my parents… who support me in every decision of mine…..
Haramkhor toh main hun jisne zid se medical li.
Same OP same. Kabhi koi compliment,koi appreciation mila he ni. Ab chahiye bhi ni. Ab Jo karna h apne liye karna h. So that I can stand up for myself in future.
Dad: "ek aur saal Lena hai toh lele, agle saal ye nahi bolunga ki "paapa ne bola tha". But ye yaad rakhna ki haarne mein aur haar maan ne mein farak hai."
Mom: "im with you"
One thing they both told me is
"Your success or failure doesn't meddle with our ego/respect. No one will taunt you, no one will force you. No one will push you, no one will motivate you. Jo bhi hai tera hi hai, you'll have to fight your own battles. Remember, there's no 2nd place in war"
* "tere marks aye na aye tuje clg mile ya na mile but i know ki tu life me kuch bada karega, ham dono ko esi gut feeling aur vishwaas hai"
\-"tu bas padhta reh aur baki sab hanuman ji par chhod de, wo hamesha bhala karenge"
\-"tuje best resources dena hamara duty hai, ham koi upkaar nai kar rahe hai. tere education ke liye aur personal growth ke liye use kia gaya 1-1 rupee worthit hai"(context i was paranoid cuz i shifted from Akash to fiitjee after 1 month of 11th and had to pay 4.5 lakh instead of 2 now)
MAN I LOVE THEM
Tumhe jo krna hain kro, hum pressure nhi krenge and tumhare decision ki respect karenge. And ye sarcasm ya bs kehne ke liye nhi bola, they were damn serious about it.
I was crying when i got around 22k rank in jee adv and i said them I’ve wasted their money… but my parents said we are proud of you out of 15 lakh kids you’re in top 22k. I really felt blessed.
Papa said,
"meri beti se ho jayega, kaise nai hoga
Kuch nai hai beta...HUM HAI NA!!!"
(they came out as literally being THE BESTT parents,
I failed being the best parents' apt child)
P.S 3rd drop lungi iss baar 😩
"BTech ke liye kisi bhi college chale jaao, koi farak nhi padta, bas masters ke liye acchi jagah jaana. Isliye tension mat lo aur yaad rakhna ki ham sab tumare saath hai"
I was crying in 8th std when my class teacher criticized Me for not being active in online class ,but i had gave my best during ptm. Mummy ne bola ye to kuchh bhi nahi hai abhi to bohot bada pahaad chadhna hai...and I felt that.
https://preview.redd.it/rs2h52ci4g8d1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=43e141bb27d5bfacbaf4391689a26b59a5d34174
Beta itne mei mai aur soumen (uncle) jod ke nahi laate the, aaj dekho farak padh raha hai kisiko?
https://preview.redd.it/fwudplk25g8d1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=268a86a2903bf3798933bb4a18f963c109f99799
Beta itna mai aur soumen (uncle) jod ke nahi laate the, aaj dekho farak padh rha hai kisiko?
In 12th grade I got 80%, my parents were so proud I got a cake and gifts and dinner at my favourite place… my mom was literally in tears that I passed all my exams without compartment.
FYI- I have been that 96+% wali bachi my whole life but few years ago things got really bad and it took a toll on me and my studies as well. Since that time I’m scoring around 80% only. I thought I was a failure for not scoring well but my parents always stood by me, never ever made me feel like I’m not doing enough
They always say all we need is 50% in board and 33% in tests so you paas and those extra marks are yours because you want them not because we do…
Damm it I loves them!
meri toh galti nikal deti hai mummy har cheez main. mere stepdad hai kafi appreciative.
neet qualify karne par new iPhone laakar diya. maine bola koi purana bhi chal jata merko naye ki zarurat nahi thi, he said "itna toh tu deserve karti hai"
my real mum never said that to me.
she sees my dad in me but that's just genetics lol not something i worked for so not really something to be proud of still it's the best thing she ever said
no offence but muje ye compliment ni lgta. ladka kuch bura kre toh ldkio jaese kaam kyu krta hai aur ldkia thodi responsible bn jaye toh beta bn jati hai. i can be responsible while being a daughter. but im sure your father meant it positively and appreciate hi krna chahte honge toh unk sense mein it's a compliment. W father.
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"Tu itna bhi gadha nahi jitna hum sochte the"
Greatest praise we have ever heard from parents
Insulted and praised at the same time
You won in life
AIR 1 aane pe bhi nahi bolenge
Beta agar Tera jee nahi hua tension mat Lena ham kaneda bhej denge 
r/kothibanglacheck
fellow punjabi lmao.
Bhai canada chala ja wha ki institutes ki ranking far better h aai aai tea se
Dukh hota hai bhai 12th kee baad mummy papa ne pucha tha Kya karna hai Maine chutiyon ki tarah drop year ka bol diya 
abey achhe college ke liye hi jaana chahiye joh rarely jee aspirants ko lete hai (unless u have strong profile) i am in punjab aur yaha se ielts mei ghus deke log canada jaate hai fir vaha barber, taxi driver, dukandar ki naukari hi karte hai bc itne paise lagaao khet becho vaha pe driver banne ke liye hatttt 
Isliye toh Indians ko wo log stereotype kartey hai ki saare scammers hai jinhone cheating se ielts pass Kiya and wo sirf Uber taxi chalana jaantey hai.
Nah that scammer thing is from Delhi,banglore region where there are headquarters only for scamming people in foreign by saying we are from Microsoft etc.
Nah bruh ai ai tea\>>>>>>>>
Mujhe to bola gya tha agr neet nhi hua to ghr k kam sikha k shaadi karva denge lol
Mere sath kaneda chaloge  /s
paaji take me to mini punjab aswell mere sa na hoga🙏🙏🙏🙏
Aaa jao paaji waise bhi akela flight mai bore hunga apke sath thode gappe chappe mar lunga
Aur chutiyon ki tarah kaneda<
"Shabaash!" (Jab koi kaanch ka bartan tod du)
Irony^2
finally a relatable comment
"Tu jitna gadha dikhta hai shayad utna nahi hai. Acha kiya dhoodh ke change se paise liye, toffee nahi" 🤡🤡🤡🤡
lmaoo. you got street smarts man. be proud!
this is something i seriously lack
Cet mei acche marks aane ke baad bole “humne dekhi teri mehnat..teen mahine mei jee ke kharab percentile se cet mei nearly 99…proud of you” Itna sunn liya bhai din ban gya tha mera
happy for you man!
Thanks brdr
Congratulations bro
"I am proud of you , you are the first one in our extended family to give advanced"
Meanwhile meri extended family me to har kisi ne advanced diya hai except me💀
Ye le 10 rupai
jbse 10 rupees milne bnd hue tbse downfall ruk hi ni rha.
True bhai 
https://preview.redd.it/qybem3r51d8d1.jpeg?width=640&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=dcfa65563159f0ea9d94d89300d231ca85a0d685
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"Advance clear nahi hua, koi baat nahi ab joh college milega usme mehnat Krna" Thank u Mom&Dad♥️♥️
Bohot lucky hai bhai🌹
you're very lucky. make them proud!
Same 
Mere 10th ke abhi hall filhaal 92% marks aayen , mere parents ne bola "ye umeed nhi thi , tum padhte to aur accha kr skte the"
92 is very good dude. good job!
Meko 95% par bawal kar diya tha (*_*)
Mere 97.8 aae the parents ne bola ab jee ki prep start kardo (on the i told them my results like result batae hi) Khushi hui hi nahi bilkul bhi unhe
Same lol papa ne bola bakwaas mark hai yeh lol ( kuch zyada high kardi expectations 98.2 laake tenth mein)
Mein 87 pe disappointed tha aur unhone party organise Kari 💀 Kabhi kabhi lagta hai I've been very very ungrateful
mere 89 pe cake ladiya tha lol
'meri beti dil ki bohot achhi h, kaafi mature' 
mera bhi dil kaafi achha hai, got no heart dieases lol.
Science mt le , arts le , ias ips ki tyari kar agr desh badlana h to
Mujhe ye bumper offer Mila tha lekin pappa ne detail mein explain bhi kiya ki desh badlne ke liye IAS/IPS nahi banna hota hai
Lagta bhai ko "Desh" Hi badalna hai
Precisely
"Agar tera nahin bhi hua to it's not the end of life. Tu zyada important hai hame. Log kya bolte hai usse koi farak nahi padta." Legit cried hard on hearing this.
it's enough to make a grown man cry. make your parents proud man!
I will, for sure.
Lmao mera bilkul ulta h
It's okay Beta... agli test me acche number laane ka try karna paiso ki tension mat lo, go take exposure stop worrying about money, it's my headache beta bahut time se padh rahe ho, break lele maine terese pucha paise kaha kharch kare? i trust you I LOVE YOU
Blessed, lucky guy
parents ily bhi bolte hai? tu indian hi haina?
>beta bahut time se padh rahe ho, break lele Ha aur ye kon bolta hai, me to jaise hi kamre se bahar nikaltu hu vaise hi taane padte hai!
"sab bhul ja aur Goa mei aesh kar" after JEE advanced. Yeah it was a bit boring sometimes they took me to churches and all instead of some party places but I still enjoyed a lot after these horrible 2 years
i thought bits gaya bro
shyd n bola gya Kuch accha
r/foundHaldii
Beta tu itna marks laya Hamara hi bacha hai na😂😂
reading all these replies, i'm so happy for yall! T-T
finally a good question , really appreciate you op , nahi to har jagah negativity. They just said that nothing is more important than my life , no fucking marks , no fucking exam, nothing. ab they did not use the word ' fucking ' but you get it 😂 . but fir iske 1 ghante baad " padhle , kya hoga tera "
thanks man. they do it bc bche sir pr na chd jaye lol.
SHM ki tarah hai .but tumhara flair itna bhi sach nahi bolna tha 
Beta agar tera IIT hogya to Gwalior ki unit tere naam krdunga.
tu karshil, im with you
Naaki ek divas karshil Mitra
Tu bas neet quality kar seat tera baap leke dega… Literally getting a private seat this year.
r/kothibanglacheck
Padhai nai ki to shaadi karwa denge.😊
Recently heard it , humare bete ne ghar par Beth kr online se padh kr , Bina koi faltu kharcha kia ik acha college secure krlia hai
ahh the happiness when your parents flex you. happy for you bro!
beta chinta na kr aaram se jee de bhut options hai sirf IIT hi sb kuch nahi hai😂 Irony : ab acha nhi hua itna to house arrest kr rkha hai
"Tu satisfied nhi teri expectations se meet nhi hua toh kya hua....hume toh acche lge aur hume pta hai tu krlegi"-jab 10th ka result aya "Tu krlegi nhi hua toh mujhe btana chahe kuch bhi hoga hum karenge" "Smajh nhi araha ? Toh kya hua ma hu na ma smjha ta hu fr bi na aye toh teacher se baat krte" - jab mujhse maths ke question mhi ban rhe toh test me bhi gande number aa rhe the "Tu apna full de......jo hum nhi kr paye jo humne sapne dekhe the usse jyada tujhe dilayenge" "Hume marks se fark nhi padhta, teri mehnat dekhi hai humne shayad aaj nhi toh kal sahi" "Roti kyu hai ?darna nhi hai smjhi agar kisan ka beta nikaal skta hai toh humari beti kyu nhi?" "Jee me nhi hua toh kya hua? Hum Law kra lenge aakhir hume pta hai tu kissi na kissi ma kr hi legi" *priceless moments-legit cried* -🐥🐣🐾
I cried too reading this
Mai bachpan se bohot kamzor tha padhai mai 10th ke term 1 mai 60 % tha . jab jee mains mai 98 percentile aaye tab papa ne kaha tha mujhe "thankyou beta" meri izzat rakhli ( class ke topper jo 10th mai 98 laya tha ussey 60 percentile aayi aur unke pita ji mere papa ko har samay unke bete ka result bata ke sharminda karte the )
bhai comeback ho toh aesa. happy for you!
During the jee adv result day i didn't get a good rank and was pretty depressed and was considering myself a failure. Mom- Tum koi failure nhi ho, kuch nhi agar adv mai achi rank nhi aayi toh, abhi bhi hamare pass kafi options hai, depressed mat raho aur galtiyo se sikho Apart from this many more incidents too but i can't remember them exactly
Ummm, lemme think...Nah nothing.
Kuch nahi bole bhai aj tak 😔
Agar IIT nahi hoa vo badi baat nahi h Mehnati and responsible bn gya ho vo badi baat h
W parents.
Tere liye itne pese rakh ke jayenge bhookha nahi marega Somehow that gave me confidence boost I was way over my head in depression
Mujhe kabhi appreciate hi nhi kiya 90 banne pr bhi bola ki topper to 90+ lata hai not 90
same lol, got 90 dad said "kam nahi hai thode" lmao. understandably so, pehle itne kam aaye hi ni. but koi ni bhai, 90 is a good score. good job!
"Tera jee nahi hua to kya hua . Mujhe bharosa hai tumpe ki tum acha karoge . Tumhe apne aap pe vishwas ho na ho , mujhe mere sanskaaro pe vishwas hai ki tum aage badhoge " Words of my mom that never make me quit . Unka Dil already for diya hai but unka beleif nahi
Kuch ni bola aj tak
Pahala jua shikla bad ma drink kar na by my bap
kaash tu paida hi nahi hota
"arre humlog ko result se farak nahi padta you tried" "we trust you, jo socha hoga kiya hoga sahi hi kiya hoga" "You have always made me proud" "arre koi nahi marks ki chinta mat karo bas mehnat ki hai aur best de kar aao apna" "mujhe to bohot acha lagta hai party karane me, always stay happy" Man am I grateful.....truly blessed.
 jab 12th mai 95.4% mila
aisa hota ha?
5k bhi kharab rank nhi hai, koi baat nhi
Mummy bohot bolti hain yaar itta zyada ki yaad nhi aara. chalo recent wala yaad hai, ghar pe flowers aaye the and ek silk. Mummy bolti inko bacha ke rakho apni girlfriend ko dedena(with the cutest smile ever) Aur meri gf ko lgta tha meri maa chidti hai usse
Not my parents but my grandpa,this one time I had a very severe breakdown in front of him during the preparation phase(I used to daily sit with him for half an hour)that I started crying and he said to me,"We never wanted you to be an IITian,What we always wanted you was to be happy". PS:I did get a 15XX rank in advanced so I'm probably an IITian now,happy?idk about that.
Mere 10th mai 97% aai thi and mummy ne mujhse kaha ki tere itne aaenge yeh umeed nhi thi
morning of my neet paper: beta don’t worry, agar nahi crack hua toh hum hai na tum paise ki tension mat lo just exam phod ke aao (this was after calling me a lazy lump everyday for a year) desi parents are built different!
Jo man krta vo lele chahe old iits mile fir bhi mans hag diya 
Tujhe jo karna hai vo kar haam na rokenge
kya hu rkha hai padhai mei tereko drop karna hai studies to krle
agar accha govt college nahi mil rha to private dekhlo wo dila de rhe
" Jee nahi hua koi baat nhi, Jo Galti ki taiyaari mein unse seekho aur college me mehnat krna " ❤❤
"ye sab toh hote rehta hai, kuch bhi nhi hai, jindagi me toh isse bara bara tension bhi ayega abhi" papa after me getting 72 percent in boards
Mera papa ne ek din kaha tha ki beta mehnat Krna hai toh kro lekin kbhi aise depressed hokr glt kdm Mt uthana unhone kaha ki "padhai life ke liye hai" life padhai ke liye nhi hai" ek chij nhi hui toh kuch or krlenge Esme konsi bdi batt btw battein toh bohot or....
>"padhai life ke liye hai" life padhai ke liye nhi hai" your father's very wise. if only you had inherited that wisdom /s
tu bss mehnat pe dhyan dena hai....efforts pe djyan de...jo hona hoga vo ho joyega
Agar bolenge kabhi to bata dunga
"hum tumpe pressure nahi dalenge, iit nhi hua toh koi baat nahi"😎 how lucky am i?
Dad: "God bless u, beta"
Tere baski kuch nahi hai
sb kuch hai bhai tere bas ki, you can do anything and everything 🫂
"Stress leke mat padh" "Tu paise ki tension mat le jahan acha exposure mile wahan admission le aur jo mann kare woh kar"
Beta tujhe Jo krna h tu woh kr bs khush rh Agr tujhe dhoop me sabazi bechne me khushi h toh woh kr ya jhadu lgane me khushi milti h toh woh kr. Ham to 10 saal me chle jaenge rhna tujhe h bs khush rh (and I still chose jee)
"I love you beta" - usually my mother Or the time when my father was so proud and happy when I got state rank 1 in my cat in NTSE. "Shabash beta, proud of you". Or My mother regularly tells me how much my father loves me and always encourages me to study properly to make him proud and happy. Both of my parents always say "we don't need anything from you , just get settled for urself beta" melts my heart 💗 Def core memories haha
aw, happy for you man!
Tumlog ko palne se accha kutta gaai ko palna hota
(dont hate me for this) once i was stressed abt my marks in aakash minors tests and had tears in my eyes i called my mum in my room just to rant and didn't expect my father would come along after 5 mins when i already was full of tears and he just told me tension kyu karta hai, enjoy karke padh na interest leke padh, nhi hua toh 1 saal drop le lenge aur acchi (kota,indore) jagah se aur fir bhi nhi hua toh mai hu na pvt karwa denge ya donation padhai pe itna kya rona sab kar lega tu still remember that day and that scene in my head is stuck (isse pressure bhi 100x ho gya ki bc maa baap ke pressure ka rr bhi nhi kar paunga ab toh)
we are proud of you (last year when my jee percentile was 61 still they said this and that’s the one moment i’ll remember always)
Uhm.....Started jee preparation in 11th and thought would atleast get a decent college. But had cannon moment and fucked throughout the high-school. Scored 69.8% in boards and well in jee, jan 74.xxx and April 82.xxxx. Got depressed and my family told me to pursue whatever I want so english that is. Got into it while reading wns.
iit ka sapna mat dekhna pura hoga nhi fir roo gai
sapno k peeche roye ni toh life kaesi.
Mehnat to tune kre hai hm tere stah hai jo krna hai karr They always support me in every situation weather it is wrong or right Me sach me bht pyar karta in log se successfull hoke kuch karna hai dono ke leye!!!! 🧡🛐🤌
Hum jante hai tu isse better kar sakta tha par koi nai agge jake college mai tune regret nahi rehna chahiye ki tumne enough nahi kiya
Daro Mat agar agle saal bhi nhi hua toh humlog hai na 🥹🥹
Sarra din khelke bhi 12th ke boards mein 91 kaise le aaya🫂🫂..sabash
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Whatever happens….even if the world stands against you… WE WILL SHIELD YOU. Choose your happiness… we will be there with you always, through thick and thin. I cannot say how lucky I am to have my parents… who support me in every decision of mine….. Haramkhor toh main hun jisne zid se medical li.
mai jab ek chote se gaon se bina kisi paise ke aaj yaha tak aagya hu toh mere bache toh mujhse bohot acha karenge merko bharosa hai.
"well done beta" in typical dad tone with a slightly proud smile
"hame pata hai ki tu bewakoof nahi hai bas padhta nahi, isliye jee nahi hua, koi baat nahi har koi thode hi clear kar pata h"
"jee is not end of life , go to whichever decent college you get " bohot supportive hai , aur mai chutiya hu 
Dad - ‘ Having a daughter like u is a blessing ‘
hame koi ladka nahi tha taki use zameen de sake hamare Marne ke baad isliye tujhe paida kar diya me enlighten hogaya ye sunne ke baad
bro's purpose in life is to get zameen from parents lol. happy for you man!
Paisa ka chinta karna mera headache hai... Tu bas padhai pe dhyan de.. Din ban gya tha💖
Same OP same. Kabhi koi compliment,koi appreciation mila he ni. Ab chahiye bhi ni. Ab Jo karna h apne liye karna h. So that I can stand up for myself in future.
Jee nhi hua to koi nahi hum business kradenge bus zyada tension Mt lena⚡
mere saath opposite ho gya. business mein interest tha jee krva dia lmaoo.
Dad: "ek aur saal Lena hai toh lele, agle saal ye nahi bolunga ki "paapa ne bola tha". But ye yaad rakhna ki haarne mein aur haar maan ne mein farak hai." Mom: "im with you" One thing they both told me is "Your success or failure doesn't meddle with our ego/respect. No one will taunt you, no one will force you. No one will push you, no one will motivate you. Jo bhi hai tera hi hai, you'll have to fight your own battles. Remember, there's no 2nd place in war"
Pta nahi
Potential toh AIR 1 ka hai lekin mehnat nhin krta, agar ab shuru krle toh 500 rank toh aa hi jayegi
* "tere marks aye na aye tuje clg mile ya na mile but i know ki tu life me kuch bada karega, ham dono ko esi gut feeling aur vishwaas hai" \-"tu bas padhta reh aur baki sab hanuman ji par chhod de, wo hamesha bhala karenge" \-"tuje best resources dena hamara duty hai, ham koi upkaar nai kar rahe hai. tere education ke liye aur personal growth ke liye use kia gaya 1-1 rupee worthit hai"(context i was paranoid cuz i shifted from Akash to fiitjee after 1 month of 11th and had to pay 4.5 lakh instead of 2 now) MAN I LOVE THEM
Congratulations beta iitb mil gaya🥂🥳
Tumhe jo krna hain kro, hum pressure nhi krenge and tumhare decision ki respect karenge. And ye sarcasm ya bs kehne ke liye nhi bola, they were damn serious about it.
"Humare liye tumhare jee ka result tumse zyada matter nhi karta...you are more precious to us than anything" :)
I was crying when i got around 22k rank in jee adv and i said them I’ve wasted their money… but my parents said we are proud of you out of 15 lakh kids you’re in top 22k. I really felt blessed.
Got 60% in my 12th boards, aur papa ne bola 'koi baat nahi, neet ki tayyari karo ab man lagakar, logo ki maa ki chut, jo bolna hai bolne do unhe '
You are my son
Kabliyat hai pr tu krta nhi hai. Idk
username checksout.
Talked to me politely about anything at times 👍🏼
Iska technical mind hai
"Tu job kyu karega kisi ke age nokar nhi lagna"
"aaj khane mai daal baati bani hai"
"As long as you try your best, that's all that matters" And then when you realise you didn't give your best, shit hurts.
Papa - 'tere jaisa beta mujhe har janam me mile'.
"mai khud diploma tak padha hu, to mai tuje kya hi bol sakta hu to degree kar raha hai" -dad He never scold me regarding academics.
Shabash beta! I am proud of you. bhagwan ne sabse acche beta beti diye h mujhe
Papa said, "meri beti se ho jayega, kaise nai hoga Kuch nai hai beta...HUM HAI NA!!!" (they came out as literally being THE BESTT parents, I failed being the best parents' apt child) P.S 3rd drop lungi iss baar 😩
koi ni behen, i hope you crack it this time. goodluck!
"BTech ke liye kisi bhi college chale jaao, koi farak nhi padta, bas masters ke liye acchi jagah jaana. Isliye tension mat lo aur yaad rakhna ki ham sab tumare saath hai"
Accha to bhut kha hai,lekin current situation chudi padi h, academic comeback marna h bc
"You can achieve anything you desire if you leave your makarri " 🥲
Manifesting the comment.
I was crying in 8th std when my class teacher criticized Me for not being active in online class ,but i had gave my best during ptm. Mummy ne bola ye to kuchh bhi nahi hai abhi to bohot bada pahaad chadhna hai...and I felt that.
https://preview.redd.it/rs2h52ci4g8d1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=43e141bb27d5bfacbaf4391689a26b59a5d34174 Beta itne mei mai aur soumen (uncle) jod ke nahi laate the, aaj dekho farak padh raha hai kisiko?
https://preview.redd.it/fwudplk25g8d1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=268a86a2903bf3798933bb4a18f963c109f99799 Beta itna mai aur soumen (uncle) jod ke nahi laate the, aaj dekho farak padh rha hai kisiko?
"Koi baat nhi zindagi yahi nhi khatam hojati"
In 12th grade I got 80%, my parents were so proud I got a cake and gifts and dinner at my favourite place… my mom was literally in tears that I passed all my exams without compartment. FYI- I have been that 96+% wali bachi my whole life but few years ago things got really bad and it took a toll on me and my studies as well. Since that time I’m scoring around 80% only. I thought I was a failure for not scoring well but my parents always stood by me, never ever made me feel like I’m not doing enough They always say all we need is 50% in board and 33% in tests so you paas and those extra marks are yours because you want them not because we do… Damm it I loves them!
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so sorry you had to go through it. you're very strong. hope you're doing okay now.
meri toh galti nikal deti hai mummy har cheez main. mere stepdad hai kafi appreciative. neet qualify karne par new iPhone laakar diya. maine bola koi purana bhi chal jata merko naye ki zarurat nahi thi, he said "itna toh tu deserve karti hai" my real mum never said that to me.
"It's not like u can't do it, it's just that u don't try hard enough"
she sees my dad in me but that's just genetics lol not something i worked for so not really something to be proud of still it's the best thing she ever said
mere 12th me 91 aye.. jab parents ko bataya toh puche "tumhare cousin ke kitne aye?" (uske 92 aye 🥲)
Beta itna mat padha kar apna dhyan rakha kar koi bhi exam tere se bhadkar nahi hai! I am very grateful to have Parents like them, they are the best!!!
Tujhe Jo karna hai kar. Tere papa tere sath khade hai. Hamesha.
"Beti nhi beta hai mera ye" Now idk how to feel about this one
no offence but muje ye compliment ni lgta. ladka kuch bura kre toh ldkio jaese kaam kyu krta hai aur ldkia thodi responsible bn jaye toh beta bn jati hai. i can be responsible while being a daughter. but im sure your father meant it positively and appreciate hi krna chahte honge toh unk sense mein it's a compliment. W father.
zara sochne do
"Jo bhi bana hai chup-chap khale warna bhuke marja"