lmfao OP was saying he unsubbed from r/femboys because he wanted to see feminine men and not trans women.
God forbid you say anything on Reddit that indicates you don’t have a preference for trans people.
I remember telling a mod awhile ago why trap wasn't a slur with sources and his response was "Doesn't matter, it's still a slur and against the rules" and locked the post.
I genuinely hate most Reddit mods.
Here's a big post that was about it where on one of the biggest trans subreddits, they called it out as a slur and had the word banned.
https://www.reddit.com/r/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns/comments/i5hxpn/animemes\_and\_traa\_an\_explainer/
OP talked about how most of the people on femboys are trans women but he called the transwomen traps. Trap is seen as a slur by most of the trans community, as trap implies that they trap someone into sexual situations by pretending to be something.
Fr. There’s a thousand subs that cater to traps, and honestly a large sphere of people who support them. Femboys are far more underrepresented IMO. The amount of cope is palpable.
and they're stupid and wrong.
it's a term used by people who identify as men but prefer to dress in a feminine manner.
tbh if you think femboy is referring to trans women you probably think Elden Ring is dark Souls 4
(general "you" not specifically the person I'm replying to)
There's also a ton of people saying women (trans and cis) can be a femboy because it's an aesthetic.
Which...no, the whole point of it is about gender expression. Why are people so adamant about changing the definition.
Exactly. I’ll respect their identity as a woman but 9 times out of 10, I’m not attracted. There is this trans gal from my high school who’s very cute, but sadly she stayed and I went to New York for college. Absolute 10 though.
Oh that. Basically OP complained the femboy sub was being overrun by trans folks which defeats the whole point of femboy. Im sure theres an reddit archive somewhere
I’m gonna be honest here chief. I don’t like Femboys, I don’t see the appeal. But I can understand where you’re coming from.
I remember a post from a good while back about Lesbian subs being overran with Trans people, and I can only assume this is that sort of situation.
Pretty much. Femboys are generally just really effeminate looking men. Longish hair, maybe a little facial hair on the chin, generally slim and cute whereas trans people can be friggen anybody. Like, if I go to r/femboys I want femboys. If I go to r/tgirls or r/traps or one of the thousand other communities that cater t trans women, im tryna see some chicks with dicks.
Lesbian subs are also suffering from that sadly. Including dating sites and stuff.
Cant they get their own subreddit?
There's also this terrible thing going on where they pressure femboys into going the trans route. Like why can't men just dress up feminime and stay men? Awful.
It's not based it's fucking depressing.
Men are no longer allowed to be feminim
Women are no longer allowed to be manly
And all these places get invaded and turned around to suit their own views and the people whomst these safespaces were made for get driven away.
Point it out? You get called slurs and worse and treated like a criminal.
It's a worse diversion than any hardcore alt-right winger would imagine in his wettest dreams, holy shit.
HAH 😭 trust me bro I got roped in by the femboy memes maybe a year ago. If you’re a little attracted to em now, odds are you’ll be in the same boat as me in a year lmao
Less of that and more of easy money. Literally every top account has an Onlyfans or some subscription porn service. A lot of people who sub to those don’t actually check the sub and just see hot person and upvote, not caring about the subs nature.
Aka less attention more greed.
Same.
Im gay. I like boys. I like boys who wear skirts. But those skirt wearing boys, are still boys. I like the BOY, not the skirt.
I dont want to see boobies, I dont want to see vag, I dont want to see fake dick, I want to see boys in skirts.
Thank goodness there is (for now) at least some subs that are trying to gatekeep that aspect of it...until reddit shuts then down for "transphobia" smfh
Why the fuck are you everywhere I go, I’ve seen you like 5 times before in other subreddits like you’re fucking waiting for me I’ve been trying to ignore it but jesus christ you are EVERYWHERE. It’s obviously coincidental but it still freaks me out.
fr I can't believe I scrolled this far looking for someone explaining the difference between a trans woman and a femboy but everyone's acting like it's common knowledge
yeah that wouldn't surprise me, i got banned from another subreddit like that (not that one exactly) because of me debating weather or not they should be on that subreddit (they shouldn't) and even people like that identifying as a "femboy" and then being trans is in and of it self very very stupid
OP expressed anger that trans women are the ones who mainly post on r/Femboys which is honestly true and I did agree with him.
Though he used a word that is seen by many trans individuals as a slur so I think that's why Reddit removed it.
Exactly. It’s largely just OF creators posting on there. I’m fine with fembois doing it. I’m not fine with trans women invading the space. You have subs. Stick to them.
I especially don't like when they end up having their tiddies, I saw a biological woman on there and like, pardner it matters literally nowhere but a place we're here to look at genitals in, why post
Can someone explain me what's the difference when it comes to well, you know...pornography?
Edit: I think I'm getting it, OP don't want post op trans women, right?
The difference is that trans women are women and femboys are men. Most people who go to a subreddit like that are into guys, not women (or people like me who like men more than women). It's like if a guy went to a subreddit focused on porn of women and posted nudes, sure some people might appreciate it but most would be mad because that's not why they're on the subreddit.
Also the trans women who post there are hyper-feminine due to HRT (something cis men usually don't do), and some even have boobs. So people who go there expecting cute boys are disappointed, also in my opinion it sets unrealistic beauty standards for femboys which can cause them to feel self-conscious.
He was upset that r/Femboys is mainly filled with trans women, which is understandable and a viewpoint I hold too, but he used a term that many see as a slur so I guess Reddit axed it.
What was the thing so bad it got removed by fucking reddit
lmfao OP was saying he unsubbed from r/femboys because he wanted to see feminine men and not trans women. God forbid you say anything on Reddit that indicates you don’t have a preference for trans people.
Lol how is that bad
He was calling trans women traps, a word that the community largely identifies as a slur.
That is very much very different from simply not having a preference for transgender people
O nah not this shit again
Trap is NOT and will NEVER be a slur for trans women.
I remember telling a mod awhile ago why trap wasn't a slur with sources and his response was "Doesn't matter, it's still a slur and against the rules" and locked the post. I genuinely hate most Reddit mods.
If only mods cared this much about women and the slurs used against them.
[ Removed by Reddit ]
They don't? Wasn't there a controversy about this a while back where they said it wasnt
Here's a big post that was about it where on one of the biggest trans subreddits, they called it out as a slur and had the word banned. https://www.reddit.com/r/traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns/comments/i5hxpn/animemes\_and\_traa\_an\_explainer/
Literally not even what it means though. People decided it was a slur when it wasn't.
I kinda agree, Trans women simply aren't femboys
Gender confusion
OP talked about how most of the people on femboys are trans women but he called the transwomen traps. Trap is seen as a slur by most of the trans community, as trap implies that they trap someone into sexual situations by pretending to be something.
OOOHHH yeh thats understandable ive been called a trap once for being a tomboy and tbf it makes one feel bad
"removed by reddit" classic
Lmfaooo
real "Girls give me headaches, boys give me head" vibes tbh
I admire your integrity
Bruhh, it's getting removed by reddit, can I get a link, please?
https://www.unddit.com/r/JustUnsubbed/comments/wxmg7l/removed_by_reddit/
Bruh...
idk what to think looking at this post
Ribs baked beans collard greens
wtf was this post, user deleted as well as post.
Nah reddit admins removed it
Somebody from the 1930s would not understand a single sentence of this post. I envy that person.
If we showed someone from the 1930s they would die on the spot.
Reddit removed it Literally 1984
What am I looking at Jesus
you're looking at a reddit post
Most sane redditor
how would this make them not sane?
Idk I just don’t think of your a femboy porn addict that every thing is ok in le head
Did you have a stroke?
Perhaps
who said he’s an addict?
Idk
average pyrocynical reddit user
Uhhhhhhh
it was all in le head
Hell yeah it’s all in le head brother
Jesus: 😲 Sort your life out, mate.
Some people get way too comfort on this sub fr
Fr. There’s a thousand subs that cater to traps, and honestly a large sphere of people who support them. Femboys are far more underrepresented IMO. The amount of cope is palpable.
Well, I’m not going to judge, everybody has their own thing
You’re right OP
unfortunately twitter has started this brigade against the term femboy and saying its a term only trans women can use or else youre a transphobe lol
Implying that twitter actually matters. Love bullying twitter users like that.
it seems like its rubbed off on this femboys subreddit tho lol
r/actuallyfembois Not rly active but at least it’s all feminine guys.
/r/NoTraps
I love you
Too wholesome
and they're stupid and wrong. it's a term used by people who identify as men but prefer to dress in a feminine manner. tbh if you think femboy is referring to trans women you probably think Elden Ring is dark Souls 4 (general "you" not specifically the person I'm replying to)
ofc. like, arent they actively misgendering themselves by using a term with the word "boy" in it?
They really have this habit of inserting themselves into spaces they don't belong.
Certified twitter moment
wtf why would a trans woman want to identify with a word that has the word "boy" in it like aren't they becoming girls
There's also a ton of people saying women (trans and cis) can be a femboy because it's an aesthetic. Which...no, the whole point of it is about gender expression. Why are people so adamant about changing the definition.
They're also going aroundnsaying trap is a slur. Like uh no?
theyre also saying femboy is a slur which is a serious reach
Femboys look cute, Trans people try to look like women. If I'm on a Femboy sub I don't want to see women
Exactly. I’ll respect their identity as a woman but 9 times out of 10, I’m not attracted. There is this trans gal from my high school who’s very cute, but sadly she stayed and I went to New York for college. Absolute 10 though.
Imagine what she’d say about this post
I don’t know why OP’s getting hate, this is perfectly reasonable
god i love reddit
What happened l, why did it get renoved
Reddit being reddit
i see, do you know what might have been in the post before?
Oh that. Basically OP complained the femboy sub was being overrun by trans folks which defeats the whole point of femboy. Im sure theres an reddit archive somewhere
ah thanks
You are not alone in this, I unsubbed long ago because the “femboys” are just trans women
I’ve gotten a few subs from this comment section. r/actuallyfembois and r/NoTraps
I’m gonna be honest here chief. I don’t like Femboys, I don’t see the appeal. But I can understand where you’re coming from. I remember a post from a good while back about Lesbian subs being overran with Trans people, and I can only assume this is that sort of situation.
Pretty much. Femboys are generally just really effeminate looking men. Longish hair, maybe a little facial hair on the chin, generally slim and cute whereas trans people can be friggen anybody. Like, if I go to r/femboys I want femboys. If I go to r/tgirls or r/traps or one of the thousand other communities that cater t trans women, im tryna see some chicks with dicks.
Fellow femboy enjoyer 🫱🏿🫲🏼
I’m also a femboy
based femboy femboy enjoyer
🫱🏻🫲🏽
I just want cute submissive men but I get this
Lesbian subs are also suffering from that sadly. Including dating sites and stuff. Cant they get their own subreddit? There's also this terrible thing going on where they pressure femboys into going the trans route. Like why can't men just dress up feminime and stay men? Awful.
Based
It's not based it's fucking depressing. Men are no longer allowed to be feminim Women are no longer allowed to be manly And all these places get invaded and turned around to suit their own views and the people whomst these safespaces were made for get driven away. Point it out? You get called slurs and worse and treated like a criminal. It's a worse diversion than any hardcore alt-right winger would imagine in his wettest dreams, holy shit.
I mean you’re the based one
Yeah sorry I was super bored at work and just wanted to be a bit dramatic lol
Aiyyoooo. They look like scene girls and my dicks very confused
HAH 😭 trust me bro I got roped in by the femboy memes maybe a year ago. If you’re a little attracted to em now, odds are you’ll be in the same boat as me in a year lmao
Oh God. Maybe my horoscope was right.
Bro do what you’re comfortable with. If ya do want to explore though my profile has some… postings that may be of interest to you >:3 jkjkkkkk
I've seen too many femboys in the past year. My brain hurts from it all
It was the cat boys that did it for me
Femboy hooters was a Twitter thing I did not expect but here I am
Fucking around on sketchy chat websites will send you on some dark paths
Could you point me in the direction of one or five of these websites :3
Chatiw. It's a never ending adventure. A Lotta pedophiles tho.
That site is.. interesting. Hm.
same, after a year ive turned into a catboy myself
I’m bi. Just not rly into trans girls. I’d also be pissed if I saw a pair of titties on r/Boypussy (V NSFW). It’s not what the subreddit is for.
I mean, why would trans women want to be on a sub for males who dress feminine? Seems like they wouldn’t want to just look like transvestites but ok
Self hate
They see a space they aren't in and have to over run it until it's all theirs. Rinse and repeat
Less of that and more of easy money. Literally every top account has an Onlyfans or some subscription porn service. A lot of people who sub to those don’t actually check the sub and just see hot person and upvote, not caring about the subs nature. Aka less attention more greed.
To promote onlyfans and other homemade porn mostly
you’re a brave soldier
Same. Im gay. I like boys. I like boys who wear skirts. But those skirt wearing boys, are still boys. I like the BOY, not the skirt. I dont want to see boobies, I dont want to see vag, I dont want to see fake dick, I want to see boys in skirts. Thank goodness there is (for now) at least some subs that are trying to gatekeep that aspect of it...until reddit shuts then down for "transphobia" smfh
Holy fuck you’re not only based on PCM? You’re based on all of Reddit! King!
I am what I am... ...and that is someone who wants pretty boys to wear skirts when I destroy their bussy.
God I need a skirt. I’m rly only into other fem guys but I’d love to sub for a soft dom femboy
Now I get it. Thanks, fellow PCMer.
try r/actuallyfembois
“We can’t expect God to do all the work” -Joshua Graham, Fallout New Vegas: Honest Hearts (2011)
So basically, I should post ass pics.
Yeah
Im not into either, but i understand what you mean
what was this post before it got deleted?
Saying trans woman are femboys is transphobic though??? I don’t get this logic
I guess it’s some kind of humiliation kink where they like being called offensive things.
Yeah it's like that sub for Trans men who wanna get r*ped. Super strange stuff.
Expardon me?
⁉️
Why the fuck are you everywhere I go, I’ve seen you like 5 times before in other subreddits like you’re fucking waiting for me I’ve been trying to ignore it but jesus christ you are EVERYWHERE. It’s obviously coincidental but it still freaks me out.
How do you know it's not coincidental? 😳
I dont even know what trans people are offended by thanks to twitter
"No women in my femboy sub plz." *insert opening scene of 1984 here*
what have i just stumbled upon
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Yeah, if someone called me a femboy I'd be pissed. Not a boy!
I’m incredibly confused
fr I can't believe I scrolled this far looking for someone explaining the difference between a trans woman and a femboy but everyone's acting like it's common knowledge
they hated him because he spoke the truth
Absolutely unreal post I respect it though
I’m just here for the comments
Why did this post get removed
he said bad about trans people and reddit hates when you speak about them
It was more because he used a word that many trans people see as a slur
Reddit Moment
respect tbh
Omg thank you its about time someone said it
yeah that wouldn't surprise me, i got banned from another subreddit like that (not that one exactly) because of me debating weather or not they should be on that subreddit (they shouldn't) and even people like that identifying as a "femboy" and then being trans is in and of it self very very stupid
Time for the old "Sort by controversial"
Fr I like men not women
You dropped this 👑
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OP expressed anger that trans women are the ones who mainly post on r/Femboys which is honestly true and I did agree with him. Though he used a word that is seen by many trans individuals as a slur so I think that's why Reddit removed it.
I know right, I don’t go to a subreddit called “femboys” looking for women.
1984
I see your reasoning
I'm ashamed to admit about the Reddit rabbit hole I just went down.......
They deleted it💀💀💀💀
why did i click on the subreddit…
I did too its okay
I am still looking its okay.
UwU
no.
as a lover of femboys, i can agree with this
I find that bizarre cause wouldn't a trans people not want to be called femboys.
Yeah idk it's weird, I guess they're just doing it for marketing purposes lol
Exactly. It’s largely just OF creators posting on there. I’m fine with fembois doing it. I’m not fine with trans women invading the space. You have subs. Stick to them.
Reddit admins will jump to remove this but not lay a finger on all the pedophilia posts, users, and subreddits. Makes sense.
Yikes these comments are prolly gonna get nasty
I especially don't like when they end up having their tiddies, I saw a biological woman on there and like, pardner it matters literally nowhere but a place we're here to look at genitals in, why post
Bro just really dropped trap into the discussion..
LMAO Feminineboys is better for nonsexual purposes
I dont think he left because it was sexual
I saw the title I tried to upvote before i could even see the text I knew'd be great
💛
Same
I will personally never understand the appeal of loving femboys but hey, as long as no one gets hurt, you do you mate
Can someone explain me what's the difference when it comes to well, you know...pornography? Edit: I think I'm getting it, OP don't want post op trans women, right?
The difference is that trans women are women and femboys are men. Most people who go to a subreddit like that are into guys, not women (or people like me who like men more than women). It's like if a guy went to a subreddit focused on porn of women and posted nudes, sure some people might appreciate it but most would be mad because that's not why they're on the subreddit. Also the trans women who post there are hyper-feminine due to HRT (something cis men usually don't do), and some even have boobs. So people who go there expecting cute boys are disappointed, also in my opinion it sets unrealistic beauty standards for femboys which can cause them to feel self-conscious.
Thanks for your throrough explaination.
Fr I like feminine boys get women out of my face I wanna see guys with curves plz
Joining rn
What was the post
He was upset that r/Femboys is mainly filled with trans women, which is understandable and a viewpoint I hold too, but he used a term that many see as a slur so I guess Reddit axed it.
damn rip op
r/removedbyreddit
Must've had a good point
Am I missing something ? Why does this comment section have a problem with OP’s post ?
There is no future for humanity...
Amongus
lol
Yes I definitely agree, I'm not attracted to trans women and that sub seems to be the total opposite of what it is advertising. 🥴
Man I was with you until you said "trap"
I....I dont understand these terms.
I envy you
Removed by reddit. 1984 all over. Dude wasnt even offensive
I think it was because of the specific word he used to address trans people. If he hadn't said that the post would still be here.
Had no intention of spreading hate lmao, he just had opinions
r/catboys I better because I post there, it’s trans inclusive but you won’t see any pussy
It's literally cats though.
what if I dont want trans ppl
Then you're normal
ty
This sub feels like a bunch of shitposts now.