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sir-rant-alot

How do you convince your parents for stuff like this?


aqib23723

I just said I have Anxiety disorder and when he said 'aisa kuch nhi hota' I just kept going to his place of work and kept repeating it and said my elder bro told me to go (I am a middle child so I had to use him). tldr, exert pressure they would yield. also my mum don't know about it so try to convince the more liberal(comparatively) one of your Parents.


Imaginary-Ad246

Same 😭😭😭


Imaginary-Ad246

Even though I want to confirm it with a specialist, I can't convince my parents Many people diagnosed with adhd have told me, that I have it. Also did you get Adderal in India?


aqib23723

Try to exert pressure on your parents your health is important for them and try to say you have Anxiety or some common mental health problem not ADHD/ADD. No Adderal is banned in India(as per I heard) I have Ritalin(the next best thing). try to convince the parent whose more open minded in this regard.(my mum don't know about any of this).


Imaginary-Ad246

I will still have consequences even if I put pressure on them man, I am just waiting to move out for college, then I can get a diagnosis. How much would it cost?


aqib23723

That's also an option. up until now I have visited them thrice 1st visit 1200 2nd visit was the one where they assess and try to find symptoms of ADHD it was expensive 6000 3rd one was today (for result my dad says they said in previous visit they don't take money for this session but they did it anyway and he forgot about it so he would talk to them about it and this is where they give the medication) 1548 Total- 8748/-


Imaginary-Ad246

Wow so it's expensive, I have to keep saving money for that, thanks for the info.


aqib23723

no problem.


Imaginary-Ad246

Bro please share any tips they might have shared to manage it, boht badi help hogi 🙏🙏


aqib23723

Nah they haven't. I have 9/9 for inattentiveness and 8/9 for hyperactivity only meds work at this level 😢😢


Imaginary-Ad246

Woah I see, all the best man, de it will get better


aqib23723

Thanks man🧡🧡🧡 Hope you would be able to convince your parents or at the very least be able to save enough so you could go to the doc yourself.


Amie_28

You could always go to a government hospital, they have great facilities. One of my cousins didn't get better via a renowned private hospital so he went to a government one and he's in really good health now


Imaginary-Ad246

Yeah that's what I will do once I am out of my house, thanks a lot for that advice, but I feel it's hard to find government psychiatrists who give treatment for ADHD, I may be wrong.


PowerfulAndBig_PP

Bhai Adderall dealer bnega mera?


aqib23723

Bhai ban hai Adderall India mai Ritanil chahiye to bol.


PowerfulAndBig_PP

Le to lunga but https://preview.redd.it/epmhn5z0ow7d1.jpeg?width=877&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=ab7ca1365778ee9d4d5cf8caa62d58fdb7746e91


aqib23723

rukh phir bhej ta hu.


Ramu_panwala

Maine jab apne Dad se bola iske bare mein to he said ''ajeebo gareeb bimari ka bahana mat banao'' Idk once I get into a college ,phir kuch bahana karke mai bhi specialist ke pas jaungi


aqib23723

Dang same as my Dad. I had to cloak behind Anxiety Disorder and having an almost twin elder brother who is somewhat successful helps.


Ramu_panwala

bhai lucky you .. mai to khud sabse bari hu to mujhe har chiz compromise karna parta hai warna they say ki mai apne bhai behen ko galat tarike se influence kar rhi hu


aqib23723

I mean my brother is only 1 year, 1 month, 1 week and a single day elder than me we're practically twins but yeah vo galat tarike se influence wali baat to suni thi usne but vo tu Kerala mai hai internship pe use kya. well I guess I was lucky that there was a moment that was created for me by the universe and I seize it (It would've been nice of Universe if it hadn't given me ADHD in the first place).


Ramu_panwala

[🫂🫂](https://emojipedia.org/people-hugging)


aqib23723

Thanks🧡🧡🧡 Hope you would able to convince your parents.🫂🫂🫂


Ramu_panwala

Thanks I hope things will work out for you from now on


aqib23723

Thanks man🫂🫂


12tTanmayGuptay34

Yayyy🥳🥳🥳🕺


aqib23723

lets goooooo 🎉🎉🎉💥💥💥💥


12tTanmayGuptay34

You slayyyyy🎉


aqib23723

🧡🧡🧡


12tTanmayGuptay34

Party kaha hai meri?


aqib23723

Aaja bhai bohut mutton rakha hai eid se tujhe mutton biryani aur kheer ki Party de dunga Sprite bhi rakhi hai np tum aane wale bano.


aqib23723

Agar non-veg ho tu abhi Veg bola tu meri maa ne meri bhi qurbani kar deni hai.


12tTanmayGuptay34

RIP


12tTanmayGuptay34

me vegetarian hu


aqib23723

koi ni kabhi baad mai veg khila denge.


Rainbow_rider12

What were the symptoms you faced which led you to go to a psychiatrist!? Hope you feel well and all the best for NEET.


aqib23723

Your avg ADHD/ADD symptoms nothing out of ordinary. Thanks🧡🧡 and btw happy Pride month hope the stigma around this vanishes and you can live a happy and normal life.


Artistic-Trade3630

bhai what medication have u been prescribed (ofc asking for a friend)


aqib23723

Wait its in my mum's room (She don't know about it its a tight secret between every men in the house) will give you the name later but its prescription medicine so you won't be able to buy it tho.


Artistic-Trade3630

ya bro but do lmk when u do also congrats on the diagnosis /hope life gets better for you


aqib23723

Thanks man🫂


Erwins_right_hand

How was the process of diagnosis? I 200% have MDD (checkout r/Maladaptivedreaming) and I know for sure I have adhd too. But a little wary about the diagnosis process as I have social anxiety on top of that so speaking to a stranger is a deadly task for me unless they are anonymous like here on Reddit. Would seriously appreciate some advice.


aqib23723

Are you my alt account???


Erwins_right_hand

Wait you have MDD too!?


aqib23723

Almost everyone with ADHD/ADD have it. I even presented it as a symptom to the doctor so yeah.


Erwins_right_hand

Oh my god I feel so happy to know that I’m not alone because I was terrified to open up about MDD( which I had since childhood btw ) to my best friend or hell even my sister who is a literal doctor herself, none of them could comprehend what I’m saying and was baffled. During my prep I use to MDD 12 hours per day not even kidding. How was the doctor’s response to MDD I’m aware most people don’t know about this nor do they consider this under clinical terms. What was your approach towards explaining this phenomenon?


aqib23723

He looked at me like I was not taking this thing seriously and what not. sry for late reply something urgent came up.


Erwins_right_hand

No worries thank you so much for replying, I was also planning to get an official diagnosis so now Atleast Ik what to expect


aqib23723

Oh Best of Luck for the Diagnosis, don't hesitate to tell him anything and be yourself.


aqib23723

Well I explained it twice on this thread so you can find it on here.


Erwins_right_hand

Sure no worries thank you.


aqib23723

Thanks guys for the love and support. sub ke ghar pe eak eak Adderall ya Ritalin ka daba pahuchaya jayega. https://preview.redd.it/8hmr90bq7x7d1.jpeg?width=622&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=df2c0e49184bc67299c4c147016ff7fbada489fc