When he said I still love her that really pulled at my heartstrings. That's absolutely beautiful, he's overwhelmed with emotion. What a special and precious moment for him.
Because with all the terrible shit we’re inundated with daily it’s nice to see that there’s a lot of good and love in the world. Fuck off back to your cave.
Reminds me of this quote about grief.
“Grief is really just love. It’s all the love you want to give, but cannot. All that unspent love gathers up in the corners of your eyes, the lump in your throat, and in that hollow part of your chest. Grief is just love with no place to go.”
-Jamie Anderson
Another good one on this topic is Ram Das:
“I encourage you to make peace with death. To see it as the culminating adventure of this adventure called life. It is not an error. It is not a failure. It is taking off a tight shoe which you have worn well. But those that find the way in the morning can gladly die in the evening, it is said in the mystical literature.”
And this one by Ghandi reminds me to:
“Whatever you do in life will be insignificant but it is very important that you do it because you can't know. You can't ever really know the meaning of your life. And you don't need to. Every life has a meaning, whether it lasts one hundred years or one hundred seconds. Every life, and every death, changes the world in its own way. You can't know. So don't take it for granted. But don't take it too seriously. Don't postpone what you want. Don't leave anything misunderstood. Make sure the people you care about know. Make sure they know how you really feel. Because just like that...It could end.”
And the one that breaks my heart the most and reminds me to take more pictures is Rose in the movie Titanic:
“I don't even have a picture of him. He exists now only in my memory”
My parents were married 53 years. When my father passed away I soon came to realize there was a hole in my mother's life that would never be filled. 3 days before he died he told me mom's watch band was broken and if I could get it fixed because he could not do it. He knew he was on his way out but he still wanted to be useful for his wife. He kind of gets me everytime I think about it and that was 25 years ago.
When I was younger, a friend of mine’s 94 year old great grandmother told me that the one thing she didn’t expect about staying healthy and getting old was the tremendous amount of loss you have to endure towards the end as you lose all of your friends, siblings... I felt like that shook me, and videos like this remind me of that conversation.
I was just talking to my husband about something like this. My great-grandmother made it to 98, but she ended up with stomach ulcers. She told the doctors she just wanted to be made comfortable, that she was ready to go. My great-gpa passed away in the 80's so she had already been without him for over 20 years, I 100% understood her decision.
My grandfather died 40 years ago, and on every holiday morning, my grandmother goes into a room that has his picture on the wall to be alone for 3-4 hours.
My mom is 89 and she’s almost the only one left. Her only sister, her cousins, most of her friends, they’re all gone… I feel so bad for her, especially because mentally she’s still very sharp. :(
I help take care of my grandma and it’s been eerie as all of her friends have died this year. Every morning I use to walk to the bathroom hearing her and her friend having their daily phone call. Then it just suddenly ended
My Dad never really recovered after Mum passed away. He couldn’t process the grief and other things he went through. It ended up making him weaker. He passed away five and a half years ago.
If it happens to you, please just talk about it to people? Process whatever it is. I am now in my early 40’s without both parents and my kids will never know what it’s like to have grand parents on my side. I miss them.
Dude, you and me both. I do not think I could live without her. And not because she does everything, we are an awesome team and both do a lot around the house and with work and the kids. But I would just not be able to function, she's like my ultimate security blanket. What a horrendous nightmare that would be.
I hear you but I don’t want her to suffer from us being apart…if she dies first she won’t have to. I’d rather suffer than have her suffer. Best case: we die together peacefully holding hands.
Both options are tragic. Copying with the death of your best friend and wife or let your best friend and wife handle it.
I just try to see it as a great adventure that has to come to end some day. Best series, movies, games and books have to end somehow. They wouldn't be that great without the last period at the very end.
My wife passed away 5 1/2 years ago. 20 year relationship really great marriage, and her death was very very unexpected. It also happened incredibly quickly, in a matter of days, and neither one of us had any time to prepare for it.
I wasn’t suicidal, except for perhaps one or two very low points in the first year, but to this day I will tell friends and therapists “I just wish we had gone together. It seems fair, and correct, that it would’ve happened that way“.
I’ve always been a worrier and my wife was not. When I would bring this topic up she’d say “we’re both going to be in some nursing home laying in two separate beds next to each other… One of us is going to die and they’re going to wheel that person out of the room and whoever’s left won’t even notice”!
So it’s a tough question to answer, is it better to go first or not. It doesn’t really matter what you think because you don’t have that control, but I believe that my wife would have handled my passing in a much more healthy way than I handled her passing. Still, the thought of her being alone just destroys me. I’m grateful that she didn’t suffer, and selfishly I’m grateful that I didn’t have to sit by her bedside for months or years watching a slow decline. That would’ve been really difficult on both of us of course.
Women like Lola?
Did you know her?
No.
Have you spoken to this man to know what it was he loved about her or what her traits were?
No.
How do you know women like Lola are rare?
You don't. Because you don't actually spend much time talking to or meeting people.
I'm sure she was, the love this man has for her is so evident of that!
I only took issue with saying that such women (but people in general) and such love is rare. They aren't and it isn't, it just has be built over a lifetime together of understanding, compromise, care and patience.
Just gotta head back in time to when you had less rights and basically zero visibility into the broader world, creating a lived experience where you are socially pressured to marry young and taught that divorce is a sin making you forced to work through all the hard times together instead of just splitting up.
They probably are. You know why? Because they are capable of more than surface level thinking.
Unlike yourself, repeating a decade old dig because you lack originality.
It is gruesome to me this is posted for the world to see, can nobody have a personal and private moment anymore without some clown putting it on social media?
Cool technology, happy for him. But man fuck this shit.
His reaction is lovely, and I’m glad they were able to do this for him, but I really hope they asked him for permission to do this before showing it to him.
Suddenly seeing an image that’s only ever been a still photograph of someone so loved, right in front of you moving as if in a video and “alive” could be an overwhelming shock to someone of his advanced years.
Boy you ARE cynical.. I doubt it was done solely for "social media clout".. Is it so hard to believe that some family member did this simply because they loved their grandfather??
It always gets me when they take off the glasses to cry.
The concept of being widowed is so fucked.
Fuck death. Fuck this human existence.
But also, lovely video.
Black Mirror hit on some mind-blowing concepts that I'd never thought of regarding what people in the future will be able to do after losing loved ones. Some of my favorite episodes.
Sometimes tech just goes too far, like when you see people walking around in public with a VR headset or they have one on while doing chores.
Edit: plus AI is a slippery and dangerous slope anyway.
I did it with my mothers’ picture. You know it’s hard, sometimes I remember it:
“You, dead, are so much better than anyone else alive.” – Richard Feynman
https://youtu.be/kVIx7luyuJw?si=q9m_CfjXa_rtoXnK
Coming from a man, that feeling is the best feeling in the world. You can't match that feeling. That type of love is eternal and shall remain unbreakable. I'd be lying if I didn't say that it brought tears to my eyes. It has touched emotions you never thought existed within yourself. The way he looked at that photograph is the same way I look at my wife. I wouldn't know what to do with myself had I lost her in any manner. It's beautiful and sad at the same time. Damn it, I promised myself I wouldn't cry. 😥
Horrifying. As kind a gesture as this may appear, all it's done is animate a still frame. Creating an illusion of humanity for a temporary moment of bliss, before the reminder that they're gone crashes down. Those we've lost deserve better than this cold puppetry.
You’re shaming people for experiencing normal emotions. What you’re talking about is a phrase called “after laughter”, & it means you can’t have eternal happiness/sadness.
I know precisely how he feels.. I lost my wife of 35 years to Covid in 2020. Not a day goes by that I don't miss her, even though I KNOW she is in a FAR FAR better place AND that I WILL be with her again when I leave this world. I know where you can generate a moving picture from a still picture like that, and I'm going to do one of my wife.. God Bless the WW2 vet!!!
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They should not be showing old people this kind of stuff. They can’t comprehend it and it causes them more damage than it does their grandkids good by posting this for likes.
This may be a bold assumption on my part; but I think she was the happiest woman when she's with her husband.
We all need someone like him in our lives.
And who tf is cutting onions here!
my maternal grandmother lost her first born daughter when she was 14 years old. My grandmother is a little over 80. We did this and she couldnt stop crying and laughing at the same time. I get an indescribable feeling just typing this out.
When he said I still love her that really pulled at my heartstrings. That's absolutely beautiful, he's overwhelmed with emotion. What a special and precious moment for him.
ahhww gosh, I think my heart got broken and felt happy at the same time by reading this..
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This is a tear jerker
His statement, "I still love her," truly touched my emotions. That is really lovely.
I would count myself so fucking fortunate if I found a man that loved me as much a he loves her. So so sweet.
That's when the tears came for me.
I was not planning on cutting onions today 😢
Why do people record and post this type of stuff online?
Because with all the terrible shit we’re inundated with daily it’s nice to see that there’s a lot of good and love in the world. Fuck off back to your cave.
>Fuck off back to your cave Said the wizard as he cast his spell. Make a roll.
19 initiative!
Successful roll!
wait I thought we were rolling initiative...
To be fair as much as I consume a lot of DnD content, I never played it myself.
That's a stunningly critical failure to D&D.
That doesn’t seem like an appropriate reaction.
Bit weird for someone to be negative online isn't it
If you don't want to read it, you don't have to.. Some of us like these kind of posts..
Time for you to change name to *notrelatable* 😂
Exploiting people’s emotions for likes isn’t relatable
Definitely going to be some jerkin
It's painful to see that you can only see your wife through a mere picture or ai generated picture.
Reminds me of this quote about grief. “Grief is really just love. It’s all the love you want to give, but cannot. All that unspent love gathers up in the corners of your eyes, the lump in your throat, and in that hollow part of your chest. Grief is just love with no place to go.” -Jamie Anderson Another good one on this topic is Ram Das: “I encourage you to make peace with death. To see it as the culminating adventure of this adventure called life. It is not an error. It is not a failure. It is taking off a tight shoe which you have worn well. But those that find the way in the morning can gladly die in the evening, it is said in the mystical literature.” And this one by Ghandi reminds me to: “Whatever you do in life will be insignificant but it is very important that you do it because you can't know. You can't ever really know the meaning of your life. And you don't need to. Every life has a meaning, whether it lasts one hundred years or one hundred seconds. Every life, and every death, changes the world in its own way. You can't know. So don't take it for granted. But don't take it too seriously. Don't postpone what you want. Don't leave anything misunderstood. Make sure the people you care about know. Make sure they know how you really feel. Because just like that...It could end.” And the one that breaks my heart the most and reminds me to take more pictures is Rose in the movie Titanic: “I don't even have a picture of him. He exists now only in my memory”
I didn't want to cry before bed but dammit. You're good
"What is grief if not love persevering?"
This is one of my favorites. 🥲
I was just thinking this, too. The writer of that line in that marvel movie should be proud. That one will be quoted for a long time.
*Stands outside in the rain* Brah, why’re you crying? Me: I’m not crying; I’m deep moisturizing!
Thank you for posting this. Grief honors anyone or any pet you have lost.
Your response made me cry
I needed this desperately, thank you friend. Grief aches.
Thanks for taking the time to share these quotes!
I'm gonna save your comment in case of my existential crisis knocking at my door again.
He'll see her again in Heaven. 😇
Yes indeed!
"I still love her..." 😭
OMG so sweet but heartbreaking how much he must miss her... "I still love her"
My parents were married 53 years. When my father passed away I soon came to realize there was a hole in my mother's life that would never be filled. 3 days before he died he told me mom's watch band was broken and if I could get it fixed because he could not do it. He knew he was on his way out but he still wanted to be useful for his wife. He kind of gets me everytime I think about it and that was 25 years ago.
When I was younger, a friend of mine’s 94 year old great grandmother told me that the one thing she didn’t expect about staying healthy and getting old was the tremendous amount of loss you have to endure towards the end as you lose all of your friends, siblings... I felt like that shook me, and videos like this remind me of that conversation.
I was just talking to my husband about something like this. My great-grandmother made it to 98, but she ended up with stomach ulcers. She told the doctors she just wanted to be made comfortable, that she was ready to go. My great-gpa passed away in the 80's so she had already been without him for over 20 years, I 100% understood her decision.
My grandfather died 40 years ago, and on every holiday morning, my grandmother goes into a room that has his picture on the wall to be alone for 3-4 hours.
My mom is 89 and she’s almost the only one left. Her only sister, her cousins, most of her friends, they’re all gone… I feel so bad for her, especially because mentally she’s still very sharp. :(
I help take care of my grandma and it’s been eerie as all of her friends have died this year. Every morning I use to walk to the bathroom hearing her and her friend having their daily phone call. Then it just suddenly ended
My wife is my best friend too. I can only hope I die first.
This is my biggest fear…my wife passing before I do.
My Dad never really recovered after Mum passed away. He couldn’t process the grief and other things he went through. It ended up making him weaker. He passed away five and a half years ago. If it happens to you, please just talk about it to people? Process whatever it is. I am now in my early 40’s without both parents and my kids will never know what it’s like to have grand parents on my side. I miss them.
Dude, you and me both. I do not think I could live without her. And not because she does everything, we are an awesome team and both do a lot around the house and with work and the kids. But I would just not be able to function, she's like my ultimate security blanket. What a horrendous nightmare that would be.
I hear you but I don’t want her to suffer from us being apart…if she dies first she won’t have to. I’d rather suffer than have her suffer. Best case: we die together peacefully holding hands.
Both options are tragic. Copying with the death of your best friend and wife or let your best friend and wife handle it. I just try to see it as a great adventure that has to come to end some day. Best series, movies, games and books have to end somehow. They wouldn't be that great without the last period at the very end.
I sent my wife a ss of this conversation and she replied "we are going to die at the same time." Lol
My wife passed away 5 1/2 years ago. 20 year relationship really great marriage, and her death was very very unexpected. It also happened incredibly quickly, in a matter of days, and neither one of us had any time to prepare for it. I wasn’t suicidal, except for perhaps one or two very low points in the first year, but to this day I will tell friends and therapists “I just wish we had gone together. It seems fair, and correct, that it would’ve happened that way“. I’ve always been a worrier and my wife was not. When I would bring this topic up she’d say “we’re both going to be in some nursing home laying in two separate beds next to each other… One of us is going to die and they’re going to wheel that person out of the room and whoever’s left won’t even notice”! So it’s a tough question to answer, is it better to go first or not. It doesn’t really matter what you think because you don’t have that control, but I believe that my wife would have handled my passing in a much more healthy way than I handled her passing. Still, the thought of her being alone just destroys me. I’m grateful that she didn’t suffer, and selfishly I’m grateful that I didn’t have to sit by her bedside for months or years watching a slow decline. That would’ve been really difficult on both of us of course.
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You just have to be the type of wife Lola was.
Others might see this as a diss, but that’s actually some good advice.
It wasn't meant to be, but women like Lola seemed to be are extremely rare nowadays.
There it is
lmao
We almost had it.
Women like Lola? Did you know her? No. Have you spoken to this man to know what it was he loved about her or what her traits were? No. How do you know women like Lola are rare? You don't. Because you don't actually spend much time talking to or meeting people.
LOLA WAS A GODDESS YOU FIEND
I'm sure she was, the love this man has for her is so evident of that! I only took issue with saying that such women (but people in general) and such love is rare. They aren't and it isn't, it just has be built over a lifetime together of understanding, compromise, care and patience.
Nope that's why I said "seemed to be." I'm basing this on the way he seems to think about her.
incel always comes out lol
Woah, calm down there partner
sadly that’s not always true
Is the position open ? 👀
Just gotta head back in time to when you had less rights and basically zero visibility into the broader world, creating a lived experience where you are socially pressured to marry young and taught that divorce is a sin making you forced to work through all the hard times together instead of just splitting up.
You must be fun at parties
They probably are. You know why? Because they are capable of more than surface level thinking. Unlike yourself, repeating a decade old dig because you lack originality.
Appreciate the realist take! Glad someone see's the past for what it was.
Sees*. Past tense of a verb, no apostrophe. Dumbass.
Mirror of Erised
Damn, this reference hurt me.
My heart 😭❤️
Love this, but hate that the daughter is recording the reaction for content
If you ever lost someone you love, you know how incredibly painful this is. I personally would not want this. Doesn’t seem healthy
Better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all.
"Try it." ~K
Than you never lost someone because you have no idea how much something like this could help them.
“I still love her.” My heart.
This didn’t make me smile. No way. I can only Imagine how much he misses her and how sad he is that she’s not with him anymore
Me too, I’m sad now
It is gruesome to me this is posted for the world to see, can nobody have a personal and private moment anymore without some clown putting it on social media? Cool technology, happy for him. But man fuck this shit.
I think this is torture.
His reaction is lovely, and I’m glad they were able to do this for him, but I really hope they asked him for permission to do this before showing it to him. Suddenly seeing an image that’s only ever been a still photograph of someone so loved, right in front of you moving as if in a video and “alive” could be an overwhelming shock to someone of his advanced years.
I've seen this episode of Black Mirror. It does not end well
Man, idk how I feel about this. I feel like he lost her twice now.
No thanks. Don’t want this.
This is litteraly a black mirror episode I was so sure reddit was gonna be ontop of it. instead people are... loving it?
Not sure about this, not sure at all.Spooky.
It makes you wonder if that's a good thing to do. I don't think so given how shook he got.
I would say this was a nice moment, except that it was done for social media clout. "Can you cry a bit more gramps? People are gonna love this"
Boy you ARE cynical.. I doubt it was done solely for "social media clout".. Is it so hard to believe that some family member did this simply because they loved their grandfather??
No, it's not, but if that were the case, then I wonder why we"re seeing it? You're right though, I am horribly cynical.
I don’t know what’s more disconcerting..the implications of such tech or that only one person had a critical response to this..
Reading everyone's sweet comments makes this doubly heartbreaking
Seems like a weird, cruel thing to do. REMEMBER YOUR DEAD WIFE!!
It always gets me when they take off the glasses to cry. The concept of being widowed is so fucked. Fuck death. Fuck this human existence. But also, lovely video.
Bittersweet
Black Mirror hit on some mind-blowing concepts that I'd never thought of regarding what people in the future will be able to do after losing loved ones. Some of my favorite episodes.
For a sub called made me smile you guys make me cry a lot.
[This vet landed on Omaha beach.](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=et44pdDmwyU)
I love when humans use technology to bring joy like this!
Extremely dystopian.
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Down votes don't affect my quality of life or my finances so I really don't give a shit. I do not like the fact that we have such easy access to AI.
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Sometimes tech just goes too far, like when you see people walking around in public with a VR headset or they have one on while doing chores. Edit: plus AI is a slippery and dangerous slope anyway.
Ah yes very happy you filmed and shared to the world this extremely personal video of an older man reacting to his dead wife. So good. Well done.
*dame da ne*
when my first son was born, he said "you guys are so lucky that you can take video and pics of your kids all the time, they grow up so fast"
I think the tech is cool but it reminds me of the Mirror of Erised from Harry Potter.
That’s Jake, he lives in my town in NorCal!
I did it with my mothers’ picture. You know it’s hard, sometimes I remember it: “You, dead, are so much better than anyone else alive.” – Richard Feynman https://youtu.be/kVIx7luyuJw?si=q9m_CfjXa_rtoXnK
The Greatest Generation.
Why does it matter that he is a ww2 veteran?
Coming from a man, that feeling is the best feeling in the world. You can't match that feeling. That type of love is eternal and shall remain unbreakable. I'd be lying if I didn't say that it brought tears to my eyes. It has touched emotions you never thought existed within yourself. The way he looked at that photograph is the same way I look at my wife. I wouldn't know what to do with myself had I lost her in any manner. It's beautiful and sad at the same time. Damn it, I promised myself I wouldn't cry. 😥
Why does it matter if he's a veteran or not?
That is cruel
Only 1% of the WW2 vets are left. They were the greatest generation to ever lived for me
This is evil
Nonononononononononoooooo This is horrible!
Horrifying. As kind a gesture as this may appear, all it's done is animate a still frame. Creating an illusion of humanity for a temporary moment of bliss, before the reminder that they're gone crashes down. Those we've lost deserve better than this cold puppetry.
You’re shaming people for experiencing normal emotions. What you’re talking about is a phrase called “after laughter”, & it means you can’t have eternal happiness/sadness.
I know precisely how he feels.. I lost my wife of 35 years to Covid in 2020. Not a day goes by that I don't miss her, even though I KNOW she is in a FAR FAR better place AND that I WILL be with her again when I leave this world. I know where you can generate a moving picture from a still picture like that, and I'm going to do one of my wife.. God Bless the WW2 vet!!!
Oh God bless him. This is just so amazing. Beautiful.
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They should not be showing old people this kind of stuff. They can’t comprehend it and it causes them more damage than it does their grandkids good by posting this for likes.
Who’s cutting onions? 😢
Oh to find a love like this 🥹🥺
Hey, screw you for making me ugly cry! Also, I love this.
That brought tears to my eyes.... men really do love....
Holy smokes, grandpas packin!
This may be a bold assumption on my part; but I think she was the happiest woman when she's with her husband. We all need someone like him in our lives. And who tf is cutting onions here!
Someday he might be able to strap on some AI goggles and bang her.
I also chose this guys dead wife!
Now add chat gpt interface and a remote controlled fleshlight
Aww Papa Jake
This made me cry wtf
😬
That is beautiful. ❤️
This is a very sweet video. What AI animator is making this happen?
This is love ♥️
Goddamnit. This sub is mademesmile not mademecry 😭
Ok, I'm gonna go cry now.
I want to grow old with someone, and never fall out of love, just experience a different kind as time moves us.
As for my wife and I? She dips I dip, no place for me here without her. Bless his heart but I never wanna be him.
I would cry too! I’m crying now
Who's cutting onions
Made me SMILE??! More like made me CRY
How sweet and sad
Video is horribly blurry for some reason, will check back later when I’m not at work.
Oh god this is what scares me about marriage or settling down with your love once..
Protect this man at all costs! 
All I ever wanted in life was to love and be loved in this way, I tried…
Looks like Gerry Scotti
Wonderful story. Love a good friend.
i see dead people
Beautiful beyond words ❤️
Please say me what software is used to do this?
I'm not crying but I'm leaking profusely 😭
Now do one where she sings Limp Bizkit
IM NOT CRYING YUR CRYING
I felt that heartache through the phone’s screen.
What’s this software called?
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It's kind of terrifying if you have read 1984
my maternal grandmother lost her first born daughter when she was 14 years old. My grandmother is a little over 80. We did this and she couldnt stop crying and laughing at the same time. I get an indescribable feeling just typing this out.
AI can do good things as well
Cute old people are the best
I am not crying . It's the smoke outside
God bless him 👍
What ai is this? I’d like to do this to my grandpa pics
Awww! Beautiful 🥹🥹🥹
❤️
How absolutely beautiful
Black Mirror wasn't fiction.
What’s the app called?
Alright, I will slightly less dislike AI work.
Nothing like sticking a cell phone camera in your grandpa’s face during this timeless moment.
Tecromancy
Aww that is so cool and SIR thank you very much for your service to our country 🇺🇸✌
What pure love they will reunite again so beautiful
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