We implemented a day of the week that we agree we were toing to "connect" no matter what else was happening (ie: sex-sunday). So, even when the kids activities kept us away all week and we were exhausted.... we knew we better clean up and be ready when we went to bed. Plus, it kept us connected and looking for any additional sessions we could find time for during the week.
Ya, there was no mystery, no spontaneity, and many times.... it was mediocre on "sex Sunday" - but after 30 years of marriage, now that we are empty nesters, we have all the heat and excitement that we can handle.
We hit this stage too, and we increased mutual masturbation. It’s intimate, erotic, and sometimes easier and quicker way to get off. Doing it with lots of body contact keeps that sexual “connection” going!
Schedule it. Have both of you look at priorities and figure where it fits and then plan accordingly. What are you doing that’s less important than being intimate with your wife?
When you're a business owner, fucking at work is an option. You may also need to cut down on gym time. If you are lifting, you'll be surprised how infrequently you have to go in order to maintain where you are at. Then when you have more free time, you can go back to building more muscle.
I've posted about this before. I recommend scheduling a "date night" (or afternoon" and getting a hotel. Having some time away from home really helps in my experience.
We have this problem also. It's hard to squeeze that time in. At least one night a week I just forfeit the chance at a full night's sleep. We also will start foreplay early mentally and with covert touches so not as much time is needed to get the engines going. During the week, we just go with whatever is quickest whenever that's just a BJ for him one night and then the next night is oral for me. We save the longer sessions for the weekend.
Stop falling asleep in your recliners and go to bed together. Sleep naked. Hold each other in bed. It doesn't have to be sexy, just be close. You'll still get the same amount of sleep but you might also get the added bonus of some lazy, end of the day, it's going to help us fall asleep sex every once in a while. Even if you're not having sex, you'll still be building intimacy.
We implemented a day of the week that we agree we were toing to "connect" no matter what else was happening (ie: sex-sunday). So, even when the kids activities kept us away all week and we were exhausted.... we knew we better clean up and be ready when we went to bed. Plus, it kept us connected and looking for any additional sessions we could find time for during the week. Ya, there was no mystery, no spontaneity, and many times.... it was mediocre on "sex Sunday" - but after 30 years of marriage, now that we are empty nesters, we have all the heat and excitement that we can handle.
We hit this stage too, and we increased mutual masturbation. It’s intimate, erotic, and sometimes easier and quicker way to get off. Doing it with lots of body contact keeps that sexual “connection” going!
Schedule it. Have both of you look at priorities and figure where it fits and then plan accordingly. What are you doing that’s less important than being intimate with your wife?
When you're a business owner, fucking at work is an option. You may also need to cut down on gym time. If you are lifting, you'll be surprised how infrequently you have to go in order to maintain where you are at. Then when you have more free time, you can go back to building more muscle.
Start making time….make yourself a priority in your schedule.
I've posted about this before. I recommend scheduling a "date night" (or afternoon" and getting a hotel. Having some time away from home really helps in my experience.
We have this problem also. It's hard to squeeze that time in. At least one night a week I just forfeit the chance at a full night's sleep. We also will start foreplay early mentally and with covert touches so not as much time is needed to get the engines going. During the week, we just go with whatever is quickest whenever that's just a BJ for him one night and then the next night is oral for me. We save the longer sessions for the weekend.
Weekends are your friend. Sometimes during the week just isn’t possible.
Stop falling asleep in your recliners and go to bed together. Sleep naked. Hold each other in bed. It doesn't have to be sexy, just be close. You'll still get the same amount of sleep but you might also get the added bonus of some lazy, end of the day, it's going to help us fall asleep sex every once in a while. Even if you're not having sex, you'll still be building intimacy.
I like this, very wholesome
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