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eunicethapossum

What quality dress is $7?


AcademicBoat9033

I saw that and immediately thought of Shein’s “quality” 💀


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nin10donly

Shein is pretty much evil, so don't buy from there. Though to be fair, most clothing brands are about as evil, just better in quality


Elastic_Discussion_

NOT FOR ME, I bought tons of clothes on shein, washed several times and still in good quality


OneSparedToTheSea

The previous commenter was most likely talking about Shein’s track record of slave labour and pollution, not merely its quality. https://brightly.eco/blog/shein-sustainability https://www.glamourmagazine.co.uk/article/untold-inside-the-shein-machine-documentary


Significant-Trash632

What makes it even worse is that it's all slave labor, the majority being women, making their clothes.


Thanmandrathor

It has to be, there’s no other way you can sell a shirt for $5.12 and not use slave labor and other unethical practices.


ShrugSmug

Hmm would be terrible if reputed brands sold the same shit made by slave labour for 10x the price by just slapping a logo. Wait they already do


Significant-Trash632

Both versions are evil.


Icuvtgs

I don’t remember what exactly it was but I remember hearing about a loophole that foreign countries are able to take advantage of that allows them to sell things cheaper in the us on top of the cost saveing of sweatshops


CthulhuLovesMemes

Isn’t there now that Temu crap that’s even cheaper? My cousin keeps promoting it so she can get freebies and ignored me with how bad it is.


KhaimeraFTW

Also all returns go to a landfill


Significant-Trash632

Where they will sit for many human lifetimes because they're made of plastics.


starrpamph

What was the reaction? I’m raising daughters and I’m terrified for what the future holds


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lilousme9

My mom hated my « pseudo goth phase » when I was 15 so I used to bring a change of clothes and change at the train station before going to school, and back into my other clothes on the train coming back. It’s not by stopping her to buy and or wear what she wants that you’ll make a change. You have to explain to her why it’s inappropriate, and what harm could come to her. Share your worries. Otherwise, she will just do stuff behind your back and may resent you for not letting her have her own « tastes ». I don’t have a teenage daughter but I used to be one long ago and I know it was super annoying to me that my mom would try to control what I wore. You do your best, you got it ;)


Thanmandrathor

I had, and still have tbh, the goth phase. She can wear quite a bit of what she likes, and fairly weird stuff too. I just object to the bare bellies, tops so tight it could be an anatomical model, cold shoulder and cleavage and tits out stuff. It’s not appropriate for school, and I don’t feel comfortable sending her out in stuff that makes gross men sexualize her. She’s barely 15, and I have issues with the clothes that are sexualizing and objectifying, especially in a school setting.


lilousme9

I completely understand, it must be so hard to draw the line! Tbh I don’t really like bare bellies and sexualizing clothes for kids. I actually quite hate it. I understand it can be empowering but it’s also very hard not to worry about the « provocation » it could be to sick individuals. I honestly have no idea how you do it, I would not know where to start raising a 15 years old in this day and age. You seem like a very cool mom though!


Thanmandrathor

I feel like raising a teen girl means I feel like an asshole a lot 🤣 but we also know we’re parents and it isn’t about being their friend, it’s about having their back and making sure they become decent adults who can manage life. That said, she does usually tell us when we impose rules that she understands why, even if she isn’t excited about it.


Icuvtgs

I’m curious what the list was, obviously you don’t have to share but I haven’t ever actually looked on shein so idk what kinda stuff it is exactly. I have, or we’ll, more so had a friend who used shein (I assume because it’s cheap and none of us teens are very flexible when it comes to large amounts of money) and unless they usually just bought accessories or whatever all of it seemed decent. Idk any of the specific items they got and I have never worn them obviously but I’m just curious is all.


yeetingthisaccount01

I'm all for not shaming girls for what they wear, because that's counterproductive and also hurtful. but there's something to be said about how tiktok, instagram and places like shein are promoting overly sexualised looks for kids as young as 13. a girl wearing a knee skirt isn't sexual, but when you're encouraging them to wear crop tops with half the cleavage out, yeah that gets a raised eyebrow from me. had to tell my cousin when she was 14 that her wanting to "look like jailbait" was not a good thing. it's not the kids' fault, but instead the fault of those who promote looking older than you are in a sexual manner.


Thanmandrathor

Yeah. A lot of the Shein stuff is cleavage and tits out, bare shoulders, cropped, super tight. She’d want to wear it to school. She’s barely 15, I’m sorry, it isn’t appropriate, and it is definitely sexualized. And half the models on Shein have large fake boobs, and it’s all overfilled lips and they just look like call girls.


ScarletRedReader

They also seem to have no advertising compunctions about letting underage girls market their products


Thanmandrathor

I find it hard to gauge age these days, especially with filters, fillers and what have you. Some of the models could be 16 or 26. But the tone of the clothing doesn’t give me great vibes, that’s for sure.


throwawayeas989

even shein’s dresses are at least $14 lol


SyderoAlena

That's what I'm saying, almost the most infuriating part


SpontaneousNubs

What kind of child support is 324$/month???


[deleted]

It’s largely dependent on what the parent paying support is capable of making. It’s lower for someone with a GED who works at McDonalds vs an electrical engineer who makes 100k a year.


SpontaneousNubs

Point is, the guys going out here rawdogging can't really afford the kids they're making


Binx_da_gay_cat

r/theydidthemath


Charleypieohwhy

I know loads of parents that would be happy with £324 child support


SpontaneousNubs

324 doesn't begin to cover a kid. The rent increase alone is more than that


nomoreorangedrink

The same quality as the people who made this meme, i suppose 🤷🏼‍♀️


nin10donly

Lucky thrift store find? Idk I don't wear dresses.


gogonzogo1005

Resale. I have some very nice dresses for that cost. I joke minus my matching underwear sets and some of my shoes. My entire outfit is under 25...never more than 50. That includes accesories.


Undari

Yeah I had the same question until I remembered that Shein exists


Significant-Dog-4362

Rainbow quality


Bmiller445

Forget the dress. Only 70K? That’s a solid deal compared to what I’m paying to raise mine and I’m married. I guess go for it.


UncleKeyPax

The one in the joke with Einstein?


DieHardAmerican95

I don’t think we should use the word “quality” in the instance.


malYca

None, even the wish dresses are more expensive


mjrenburg

any item of clothing that is new that costs $7 is the result of some kind of hardship and lack of fairness from where ever it came.


lizziegal79

Even thrift stores don’t go this low.


Thirdwhirly

The quality of clothing produced for people who live near these sentiments.


TheMatt561

They're good things in a thrift shop


Alarming_Ad8005

What dress costs $7?


eunicethapossum

A poorly made one, I guess?


Alarming_Ad8005

Even a potato sack costs more than $7


NotoriusF_A_G

One that'll be getting ripped off the same night it's worn 🤤


thesnarkypotatohead

Don't let a $12-$40\* pack of condoms cost you $70,000 in child support this this summer. ​ \*the price will obv range based on brand and how many you buy etc etc


Fe2O3yshackleford

Since the price range is pretty big, especially over the period of an entire summer, I took the liberty of doing some in-depth calculations based on median sexual activity for that meme creator's demographic, average condom cost for both latex, and non-latex options. Here are the results: Average cost of 36 count brand name condoms... $17 Number of days in summer season... 94 Assuming the user is always wearing protection, correctly estimating the amount of sex he'll have this summer, and buying bulk quantity in advance, he will spend a total of $0.00 Edit: obligatory Thanks For the Award u/thesnarkypotatohead Edit: two whole awards?! I'm honored, idk that I've even gotten one award before today.


thesnarkypotatohead

Flawless finish. 10/10. No notes.


Fe2O3yshackleford

Ty, ty. I briefly considered referencing national studies on average penis length and using major condom manufacturers' itemized sales reports to really narrow down the price point, but i found my commitment to the bit declining drastically when I realized that I was using my personal Amazon account to essentially shop for condoms for some random incel.


emusmakemehungry

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Whspers12

Planned Parenthood gives free condoms :3


Fe2O3yshackleford

The demographic in question doesn't support such unsavory places. No sir/ma'am/appropriate-gender-neutral-honorific, they'll get their quadrennial emergency condom from the $0.75 truck stop bathroom vending machine like any self respecting American.


Pos3odon08

In Norway at least you can order some pretty good ones completely for free and funded from tax money


OhtareEldarian

Condoms are notoriously unreliable. How about just leave us alone?!?


saltine_soup

ah yes a 80% and higher success rate is totally unreliable, and let’s not forget the 80% is user error and if you use it/put it on properly they’re about 99% effective. but hey have fun with the pullout me this cuz that’s totally more reliable than condoms.


Icuvtgs

Disagree with the first half, agree with the second.


Icuvtgs

I don’t need to buy condoms, I abstain from sex B)


[deleted]

I'm not sure never been good in math but I think condom still a lot less expensive than child support


Fe2O3yshackleford

It's okay, common core has confused a lot of us who grew up without it. If you just plot the costs on a number line, you'll have graphic evidence that 75 cents>absolving yourself of responsibility and dodging subpoenas.


Anne_Nonymouse

Seriously!? Have these guys never heard of condoms! 🙄


AltruisticFinger9246

Alpha and sigma men don't use condom, I think you should know that, duh /s


Dnoxl

A true sigma rejects women, duh


Slyfer60

Well technically sigma personalities are sociopaths with very little empathy for other people. So they probably wouldn't.


Boba_Zombie13

Alpha male here, we actually just get vasectomies.


nomoreorangedrink

Also, aren't all women baby-killing sluts anyways? 🙄 /s


Hot_Context_1393

Don't forget the man hating femcels. It's one or the other /s


igotmoneynow

the key is to only sleep with them 4 months before their birthday. that way they'll keep the baby to get bigger boobs for their birthday photo shoot but then casually abort it after. everyone knows this.


onlynatural639

Or just keeping it in your pants


BadgleyMischka

B-but biology!!! Don't wear those kinda clothes then my peepee can't handle it!!!11


titanicboi1

Dude that literally will break my bank that's so expensive


Anne_Nonymouse

I guess celibacy is the cheapest option. 😏


MageLocusta

Honey, you can actually just go to ANY college campus and go to the clinics & student unions. Both buildings literally have bowls full of 'em in the reception area. Or better yet, go to your local Planned Parenthood. They also offer free condoms. They make sure that they use tested and FDA-approved condoms. Seriously, they sometimes even provide [femidoms](https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control/internal-condom) if your date wants to try one (though do note that femidoms are easier to slip off, but with practice and care--they absolutely do work. I myself use them all the time and was able to get a free one from Planned Parenthood when I asked about them as a naive 21 year old).


Infinite-Big-6225

But look at that lady.. ugh


bigmikemcbeth756

No we don't like to use those


[deleted]

To big for your weewee I assume?


saltine_soup

every time someone complains about condoms it makes me think of how liberty got pregnant in degrassi, your comment just doubles down on that thinking lmao.


iiKitii

Ahahah I wasn’t expecting a Degrassi reference here😭😭rip JT


bigmikemcbeth756

Noooo


old_soul1999

I'm hoping you intended a /j or /s?


bigmikemcbeth756

I'll nut all in her hope shes on pills


old_soul1999

Okay, so no, you're just a dick, got it


Lyntri

Well tough shit


AValentineSolutions

For real, guys. Great advice. Leave her the fuck alone. Let her go about her day without dealing with you. I am totally behind that.


AkaiAshu

imagine being a father that doesn't want to support their child


ifbowshadcrosshairs

That's not a father. That's a sperm donor.


mothlord420

As if women’s clothes are that cheap smh


TimeDue2994

Time for this again Not even half (only 44%) of all custodial parents receive the child support they are entitled too https://www.census.gov/newsroom/press-releases/2018/cb18-tps03.html The average of the annual amount paid in child support is 3.5K (good luck keeping a kid fed, housed, clothed, medical care, books, school supplies etc on just that, clearly mom puts in way more than her half) https://www.census.gov/newsroom/press-releases/2018/cb18-tps03.html parents can expect to pay between $15,438 and $17,375 a year raising a child. https://mint.intuit.com/blog/planning/how-much-does-it-cost-to-raise-a-child/#:~:text=As%20they%20grow%20up%2C%20you,region%20and%20household%20income%20level. Mom are overwhelmingly the custodial parent because father dearest cant be bothered and the courts are not in the habit of awarding custody you did not ask for and do not want. Only 6% of fathers ask and those who do overwhelmingly (90+%) are awarded primary custody https://www.dadsdivorcelaw.com/blog/fathers-and-mothers-child-custody-myths But sure, ah like this should just stay far far away


Tmlrmak

Saving this just in case


JaneAustinAstronaut

$70,000 over 18 years is only $324.07 per month, which is jackshit in child support. These guys not only hate women, but they don't want to help them adequately raise their own children.


joy3111

Plot twist: It's $70,000 over the summer and hoo boy


Low_Egg_7606

Men who will never have the chance to marry a woman are so obsessed with child support


allmightyglowcloud

It won't cost them a dime. They've never looked a woman in the eye, let alone had sex with one


Sheila_Monarch

Couldn’t help but notice they picked an actual porn star to make the meme with. I mean Riley Reid is hot, but she’s definitely never going to fuck you, loser. Much less birth any of your progeny for a cut of your not-shit.


Sad-Guarantee-4678

Blaming women for your own lack of ability to control your degenerate impulses is like robbing your neighbor's house and saying it's his own damn fault for not latching his windows shut.


OneSexyHoundoom

Am I overthinking or does this sound kinda rapey?


Sinsyxx

The meme is implying that women are buying sundresses to lure them in and then trapping them with a child.


LambNotica

I mean, I think they're talking about how sundresses are "easy access" and "oh no; men can't control urges; ruh roh!" Atleast, I think that's it... 🤢


Infinite-Big-6225

The woman in the picture is trying to seduce the man but we gotta stay strong. So no rapeys


OctaviaBlake100

7$ for a sundress? Where are they shopping that a dress is 7$?


AuthentoBlossoms

shein


Confident_Fortune_32

7 dollars wouldn't buy the fabric!


old_soul1999

My bi ass over here goin "damn, she's hot tho"


Might_Of_Michael

Unironically good advice. Don't do dumb shit cos of a sundress that makes u horny.


Technical-Doubt2076

If that's what protects some poor girls from those manly men children, than spread this meme like wildfire.


emusmakemehungry

Man, I miss loving sun dresses


starsandcamoflague

“Hey fellas, all of us here love to engage in activities thoughtlessly with no regard for anyone but ourselves, right? Well actually, we don’t even care about our future selves! So of course we wouldn’t care about any future children, right? So much so that should we neglect to wrap it before we tap it, and it results in a pregnancy that either ourselves or the woman unfortunate enough to come into contact with our genitals refuses to abort, we’d just neglect her and the offspring! We don’t want to be fathers here at Playboys R Us! That would require being responsible, and we don’t want that, we just want to be boys forever while the whole world caters to us. Of course, should we ever have kids and neglect them, we’d still expect them to respect and worship us, we’re their fathers! And we are the best fathers! Any trauma they have from our abandonment is unacceptable!”


Namasteinbed87

My exes mom posted this 🤢🤮


FrostyCartographer13

Dis a reverse image search and found matching dresses from $35-$50. $7 dress, sure.


diaperpop

Yes. Bypassing the entire 9 months of pregnancy and its health effects and possible complications for the mom, at least two decades of child care for a child in whose life, dreams, accomplishments etc I assume those being addressed want no involvement in…the irreversible life, body and health changes brought by motherhood to the woman in question…but naaaah …let’s just focus on the tight dress and how much it will cost to ejaculate into her. Because that’s all that matters, right fellas?/s


teebalicious

Luckily, I’ve had a vasectomy AND I have a face that could curdle milk, so tho isn’t going to be a problem. Also, I’m a grown ass adult in control of my actions. So I got that going for me, which is nice. Jfc, these dudes are the worst.


Morning1980

Is this a new safe sex psa?


loadthespaceship

I’ll look on the bright side and be happy that men are encouraged to maintain some self control.


HotSauceRainfall

Seriously. The bar is in hell. And you know, it would take so little effort to turn it into a “be smart, wrap it up.”


crkspid3r

No, hold on, this one makes sense. There’s an old law in Georgia that states if you buy a $7 dress from this woman, you have to legally pay $70,000 in child support to Canadian Prime Minister Justin Trudeau only during the summer.


530SSState

You couldn't even buy the FABRIC for $7.


werew0lfsushi

Seeing men banter over shit like this will never not weird me out


I_am_recaptcha

Well duh. The child support isn’t something you pay *this* summer. It’s paid over the next 18-19 years!


KingOfTheLifeNewbs

Any excuse needed to hide the fact you can't get laid amiright?


pimpinspice

$7 dress? From where?


BuckyBear1917

Yes because MEN are the real victims here! /s


UsualAnybody1807

I guess some parents don't know how to have "the talk" with their sons, and rely on this?


SpinninDaWebb96

*don’t let your gross penis make bad decisions for you. Gosh men are awful


Alarming_Ad8005

*sigh* sure, because that's the only reason women ever wear summer dresses. 😕


[deleted]

She ain’t wearing the dress for you, ya clearly have no idea how hot we can feel especially when it’s that time of month


AvsWon33

JFC women are just predatory blow-up dolls to men like this.


22Pastafarian22

The fact that so many men think it’s an injustice to them to demand money to take care of a child that they co-created enrages me. And they act as if they get the short end of the stick while the woman is raising a kid by herself for at least 18 years?!


mitchy93

So they haven't heard of condoms?


Shouko-

who is paying $70K in support over 3 months


grasscrest1

Not only weird but self report they’re going to be shitty fathers.


nomoreorangedrink

No! Women bad! Women fault! Get pregnant on purpose for $money$! >:(


grasscrest1

Hahaha I’m a man so I can’t really complain but god damn my fellow men are weird as fuck dude.


[deleted]

Yes, don't see a woman wearing a sundress as an excuse to be creepy.


CthulhuLovesMemes

Once again, many men thinking we just exist to be considered attractive or sexualized by them. Awesome.


Bigboidiablo

7 dollars for a sundress? Where? Goodwill? Cuz i aint ever seen a dress for less than 20 bucks at almost all the stores ive been to


harrietelderberry

I saw the spoilered picture and thought this was going to be some "dress for the body you have, not the body you want" crap. Worse. This is worse.


NaturalNine84

Wow you’d have a miserable existence being so sensitive


[deleted]

I love my husband, I do, but if I hadn’t married him at 21, he probably would have let a $7 dollar sun dress cost him $70,000 in child support. I love him, but nobody loves anybody like that man loves a sun dress 🤣


ccaffeinatedtrashcan

True. Leave us alone. The prettier she is the farther you walk lmao think of the money you’ll save obviously yes think of the money


Altruistic_Ad5517

Tough to resist, females are so sexy. lol 2 divorces al ready, not learning.


BitchWitDaAfro

God's speed


[deleted]

Sometimes I wonder if people have a sense of humour. This was kinda funny and it’s pretty obviously a joke and not to be taken seriously. Yes it’s a stupid joke but still


slack710

She may be attractive but somebody somewhere is sick of her shit


Spare_Bad_6558

so um sauce or do we not do that here?


AltruisticFinger9246

What do you think?


Spare_Bad_6558

yes?


MiloHelmes

Riley Reid


Spare_Bad_6558

thanks king/queen 👍


NotShort-NvrSweet

You’re just proud of your depravity aren’t ya little fella? Read the room and go sit your deviant behind in a corner somewhere. Seriously, try thinking with the OTHER head sometime.


Spare_Bad_6558

i think with all three heads thanks