"If you get pregnant, there's an abortion". Said so confidently, as if men don't have the "way out" of simply walking away and having nothing to do with the woman they impregnated, whether she gives birth to the child or not.
Oh, she knows. She’s just playing her audience. Not sure what her gain is, but probably some kind of pyramid scheme or exclusive membership community or something will come.
Who is this woman and who else does this interview involve? (Interview/podcast maybe?) Is it some conservative/republican thing and they’re representing what they agree with? Or is this something totally different than that and they just happened to have a dumb woman on to show how dumb these people are
I have a feeling we haven’t reached the bottom and the next 2 years are going to be nasty with the house trying to pass a national ban. It’s on their roadmap.
Only 44% of parents receive the full amount of child supporting a day or so much for your . The overwhelming majority pays none or a fraction
Of course the kid still needs 100% of its meals 3 time's up the sheer amount to a year ago I don't know what you want to add poor and middle a day day or so much for your help a ,among many many many other things the custodial parent is left to try to provide
The overwhelming majority of custodialparent are women, because the overwhelming majority of men do not care to apply for it
If men do apply for custodialparent, they usually get it even if there is abuse from said father
"research shows fathers are favored over mothers in child custody battles, even when they've been accused of or found guilty of abuse."
https://www.census.gov/newsroom/press-releases/2018/cb18-tps03.html
https://wamu.org/story/19/08/19/fathers-are-favored-in-child-custody-battles-even-when-abuse-is-alleged/
To respond to the below justification on why it isn't that bad when non custodial (men) don't pay child support, because they won't let me respond to them, seems they fully understand a*hole "argument" is irrational a*hole argument after all
Ah so kids only need food and housing and clothes sometimes and only when convenient for the non custodial parent. As for the custodial parent, well we will just blame her if there is not enough food or housing or clothes because that b*tch should take some responsibility.
Never mind that custodial parents (overwhelmingly single moms and their kids) are the largest segment of the population living in poverty, what about the poor menz is your concern
12-15 million kids a year struggle with hunger in the usa
In comparison only 8.6 million adults are.
Edit and of course the whataboutism and desperate pointing at other countries comes out of the wood work, and the blocking responses because they are well aware their "arguments" are complete sh*te. Of course never mind originating post being from the usa
Yeah, let's just ignore the originating post was in the USA when that invalidates your poor menz bs
> only 44% of parents receive the full amount of child support.
Only one sentence in and that's already fucked up. That's less than half, like holy hell. Like, I get not having a well paying job, but aren't you legally required to pay the full amount? Couldn't the person be taken to court? Or is there exceptions?
That is very interesting, we are always taught as a society that women are favored in custody battles.
As far as child support goes, their are deadbeats of both genders- my oldest child’s mother owes approximately $22,000 and has had not so much as a slap on the wrist. And what’s worse is the government knows about this, as it is supposed to be collected through our state’s dhs.
This story was corrected to reflect that when mothers are accused of alienation, they are twice as likely to lose custody than when they are not and to note that Joan Meier’s research will be published later in 2019, not in 2020. The story was also corrected to reflect that an estimated 58,000 children are placed in the custody, or with unsupervised contact with, an abusive parent. A clarification was made to address that the type of abuse claimed in court that is substantiated for one in 51 children when parental alienation is invoked by the father is child sexual abuse. The story was further clarified to note that there are no instances in which a court credited both parental alienation and child abuse.
Ya know, this used to be my thought.
But then I see my relatives with custody over their grandkid, and neither actual parent paying the child support they've both been court ordered to.
Some of the stuff like that she's absolutely off base but otherwise she's not entirely wrong. I know I'm gonna get downvoted for this but I honestly don't care. My ex abused, manipulated, and habitually cheated on me for over three years and yet people still say that she should get custody of our daughter (who has made significant improvements since her mother left). People still ask what I did wrong to make her treat me that way and the truth is I didn't do anything to her. For the first two years I didn't even defend myself. I let her hit me and scream at me and tell me that she wished I would die all while spending my money and my family's money and sleeping around while I was earning it. Yet there is still a very real possibility that when the current temporary custody agreement is up that I will lose my daughter simply because she's the mother and I'm "s worthless evil man".
I am terribly sorry for that. No one deserves something like that.
Personally, I also consider that a form of sexism, putting women in the “caretaker” role and men in the “provider” role. In the caretaker role, mother can do no wrong and MUST be perfect virtuous beings. Men, as the Providers and as “Males” are, for some unholy reason, unable to do those ‘girly things’ like taking care of children or being decent human beings, because ‘men are fierce and angry and have no emotional intelligence’ and some shit. And since “Moms, who represent the virtues of womanhood” can do no wrong, then the father must be doing something wrong! Which is, of course, complete bullshit.
That’s just misogyny used in the favor of the abuser. Completely disgusting. We all now no human is perfect, and that someone can be a piece of shit regard,es of gender.
You shouldn’t be downvoted for speaking the truth. Misogyny will always affect Men than not conform to the stereotype of what a “True Male” should be. Is not just women who suffer from this injustice.
I wish you a wonderful life with your child, who sounds that was lucky enough to get one caring parent! I bet you’re her hope and light, and she must be really proud of being your daughter :)
Fuck yeah Home hubby for the win...
Id happily pack lunches, clean the house and manage the house hold if I could.
Like It sounds Amazing to me... Wifes at work getting some bread, I'm at home with a smoker going for some tender ass dinner BBQ, white new balance on and a lawn mower cranking.
Then there is all the extra time to knock out the home DIY projects that generally get confined to the weekends. All the hardware stores are open, all deliveries can be taken.. It honestly sounds amazing...
I'm sorry that happened to you and that you had to go through that. One of the few areas that women get preferential treatment is child-rearing. But that doesn't mean they have it easier. And guess what? It's because this patriarchal society see women as responsible for child-rearing. Because society doesn't see men and women as the same. That there's women's work and there's men's work. That's what feminism is trying to undo. So that shit like that doesn't happen. That men and women can be equal and equitable, that men can be seen as capable of taking care of children and cases like these get handled without bias.
Thing is we see the benefits others get and we compare that to the shit that we get, without seeing the bad stuff they go through and undermined the good stuff we get. That's no way to make a comparison but that's what we do. We have such a hard time giving ourselves credit and seeing what we have exactly because we are aware of our bad shit. But we don't see the bad shit of others.
Like we might someone who's well-dressed, attractive and/or clean. We see them hanging out with friends, or in possession of a sweet car, or something else we covet. We don't know that maybe they are going home to a mother with alzheimer's or am abusive spouse. Or maybe they have an std they can't get rid of because they were raped. But we sure as hell see the injustices we experience.
That's why we gotta look at the facts, the numbers, why we gotta listen to each other instead of trying to one-up each other.
Women do not actually get preferential treatment in child custody. Primary Carers used to get some preference because continuity for the kids is a priority. Now the default is split custody 50/50 unless there's a clear good reason for something else, or the lesser party agrees to it.
A lot of men agree to less than 50% custody because they're not really that interested in parenting their own kids.
Why do I see this exact same write up invading women's spaces whenever they have discourse regarding marriage, pregnancy, birth control etc ???
I am a man myself and I am honestly telling you this feels you're trying to justify the statement said in the post video by thrusting the emotional nerve of women here, so that their eyes get blurred with tears reading your tragedy tale and nobody talks about the video.
RIGHT? Like I have a tumor and it's still incredibly hard to receive any kind of aid. No one is hee to save me or help me. I have to do everything on my own.
People like her piss me the fuck off.
This bitch never once applied for food stamps if she thinks the government is just handing out fucking money. Halloween was yesterday, it's the one day a year you get a handout.
I blame fucking Reagan and the erroneous concept of a welfare queen. People have no idea how fucking hard it is to qualify for and receive welfare.
Yeah, I would also like to know about this supposed easy mode I keep hearing incels, PUAs, and pick mes talking about.
Cause I'm gonna level with ya, I transitioned from presenting male to living as a super femme trans woman, and it really feels like the training wheels came off. I understood what all the ladies in my life had been telling me, but I got to experience a very stark contrast when I was living it personally. I just love being cat-called on the street, creeped by guys on social media, having to watch my drink at the club, being talked over by men at work, getting worse medical care, being taken serious less often, and have men regularly feel entitled to my time or to enter my personal space. It's fucking rad and makes my day so much easier and better.
Hey Sis!
Didn't you watch the video? Your life is in easy mode. Now just wait for your government check and don't worry about anything/s.
Seriously, it sucks that this is part of our experiences but I hope that you are enjoying all the great parts of it (there are a lot) and assholes aren't robbing you of your joy.
Nah, I am living my best life. Experiencing the world as the person I want to be and am happy about it. I also have a pretty significant level of privilege that makes the scarier parts much less scary. I feel weird about it, but my significant luck is not lost on me.
Still waiting on that government check though, seems like my pussy pass benefits are taking a while to kick in. Also do I need to claim that free income on my taxes or do I just not do my taxes cause "I'm just a girl and math is hard?" /s
Taxes?!? I haven't filed any since 2013, you know because if I make terrible decisions someone will bail me out. If that doesn't work I'll just become a baby mama and profit.... God I lost brain cells just writing that 😂. I can't imagine how she spews this bullshit out regularly.
It’s so interesting that all her bad decision examples are framed around men. When I make a bad decision, say financially or physically I bail myself out. No one can help me there.
People who think of women’s lives only in terms of their position in a romantic relationship are so one dimensional.
I was also going to add that she’s completely wrong about the government assistance part. My dad completely abandoned our family when he remarried, and although my mom was supporting 3 kids on her own with non-existent child support (my dad quit his job and started working for his new wife who paid him cash,) her $50k salary disqualified her from help (this was 2002.) We struggled. You can’t always go to the “government” when you need help.
Good god. What about social security? In Australia there’s a government payment for single parents? A healthcare card so you don’t pay anything to take kids to the doctor? And a payment for assistance with rent? It’s not amazing money but you won’t starve?
Nope! We went a few years without healthcare because it can be very costly in the US (no visits to the dentist, etc) and you can’t apply for social security in the US until retirement. To qualify for welfare (public assistance) the government wants you as close to poverty as possible. My mom was told to quit her job or find a lower paying job if she wanted assistance.
>she says so bravely
I watched a video talking about this lady and in her other videos after making a statement she'll look around for a few seconds to see if everyone's approving of what she said. She's a female Andrew Tate in terms of misogyny.
She isn't dumb, she's grifting.
Same as Shapiro, Peterson, Carlson, Doc Oz and Trump. They are all constantly running scams. Their scams just happen to be conservative and make the country less safe overall.
She’s also making the classic mistake of equating HER experience with EVERYONES experience. This women has had an easy life and has been “bailed” out for all of her poor decisions, mistakes etc and therefore believes everyone has. I can’t understand how limited peoples ability to empathize with others experiences and how willingly ignorant and blind they can be when bad systems benefit them.
And to cater to lonely men that are used to women not putting up with their bullshit and are just desperate to see and hear a conventionally attractive woman agree with their asinine opinions.
Not to be a total asshole but she's barely even conventionally attractive, especially by incel/redpill standards. I guarantee if she stepped out of line just once and said something not totally misogynistic all the men saying "protect her at all costs!" would switch up in a millisecond and start tearing into her looks. I'm sure she knows she's on thin ice at all times but this grift must pay well.
Yep, you're right. Those dudes would be calling her all kinds of fugly if she stopped spewing that crap. In fact, some are so unstable they might just start even if she keeps agreeing with them.
Oh no you’re right. She isn’t attractive at all. I think apart from the grift, she’s saying this stuff because she wants attention from men, even if it means other women can’t stand her. Because free thinking independent women realise she’s a joke, normal functioning men do as well….and the sewer incels and their gross ‘queen’ can dwell together at the bottom. Losers
Hey it makes an interesting thought experiment if nothing else.
Would you rather shill for incels as a whatever she is? Or would you rather have an only fans? Same world, same stalkers to worry about I bet. Say you get compensated the same amount a month for either, enough above average you can live very comfortably(imagination! magic!), but you have to pick one. Which one would you rather have to put yourself together for everyday?
I see what you’re saying, but not quite. Personally, if I had to choose only between those 2 options, I would choose OF. What she is doing is spreading false information for her own benefit, which is detrimental to other women and other people in general. At least with OF, I would still stick to my morals and not spew hatred.
“Women live life on easy mode” all these actions and consequences she is listing are literally even easier for men. They can just block you and walk away like it never happened. Women HAVE to have their own back and take contraception and be sure not to get pregnant if they don’t want to. I don’t see how that’s “easier”
Privledge is variable. A non disabled, conventionally attractive rich women with a good family and financial support is gonna have it easier than a disabled black man from a poor unsupportive family but more or less privledge doesn't negate their struggles.
The thing is both women and men have issues but in general women tend to take the brunt of things especially in lower income situations. Even higher income women have lots of struggles. Women are expected to go on birth control with terrible side effects while men complain about putting on a condom, my guy we don't even cum from sex much of the time. Women are pressured into getting abortions which can be truamatic to those who dont want them, than of they do keep them they're blamed for giving their kids a bad life because they couldn't go through an abortion. Women are still expected to work, do the majority of the Childcare and chores than get critized for putting their kids on daycare. Women deal with internal misogyny from other women and psudeo science medical communities.
Definitely! There are soo many things that go into play when talking about privledge people ignore like appearance, health and mental disorders. It's bad to dismiss someone's issues because someone has it worse ofc but it's silly to ignore who the majority of people who are rich and in charge are versus the historically disadvantaged.
So because of birth control and abortion, suddenly WE have it easy? Men DONT get pregnant plus they have condoms! Bitch sounds like WE got the short end of the stick having to WORRY about getting preggo in first place!
Not to mention birth control and abortions are not just “easy or fun!” Abortion is a whole fucking *procedure* to your body and birth control could have some fucked up effects. Neither is easy.
Right! It’s not like either option is simple! They certainly aren’t a “bail out” as she’s claiming. I fail to understand her logic that we somehow are escaping consequences when men aren’t the ones literally trapped by their own bodies and faced with these difficult decisions!
Tbh, I only disagree with you about the "Poor woman" part. She's not dumb or suffering from internalized misogyny, she's lying. She's lying because she is an influencer with an audience who want to hear her say things like that and she has no problem lying and spouting misogyny to make money. She isn't the only one doing this either as there are other influencers who preach similar nonsense because it's profitable.
In the video Chad chad did on her, Chadx2 said that as soon as this girl says something, she stops and looks around for approval.
CAN NOT UNSEE THAT NOW
Don’t listen to this idiot, she’s a major pick me trying to be a female Andrew Taint because she lost some weight and now thinks she’s better than all women. Idk where she gets her high horse cause damn
Men don’t need birth control to not grow babies ✅
Men literally can’t get pregnant and need abortions (which are illegal in many places) ✅
Women can also be the wealthier one in the relationship and have half of their money taken ✅
Men can also get welfare and food stamps ✅
Men and women can both cheat ✅
She had no points.
Someone needs to go after this witch. Verbally of course. I want to see her debate with an actual feminist, rather than just spouting bullshit in an echo chamber.
I saw this person the other day when I scrolling through YouTube shorts its just pure rage bait I feel, I said don't recommend this channel. Whatever I can do to destabilize her platform I guess...
The thing about all of these talks about who has it easier is that it never considers everything. "Women have so much leeway with this thing, this thing and this thing." While completely ignoring every other advantage and disadvantage of being a man or a woman has in life.
Do these people just not believe in male privilege or the patriarchy or like…literally the society we exist in? How do you wander around your whole life without understanding something so basic?
That system hurts men just as much as it hurts women. Many of the areas where women have an advantage are areas where women have just made the system work in their favor.
Many men see women as weaker or inferior. Women have an advantage in certain areas purely *because* of this. This is why male victims of rape and domestic violence from women aren’t taken seriously; because “he could obviously have stopped her if he wanted to. Women are weak.”
The idea that “women are only valued for their bodies” is what gave rise to sex work in the first place. The only reason women can *do* it is because men objectify them to begin with. That’s the cost of “living life on easy mode”. You become complicit in your own dehumanization. It’s empowering for some people, and it’s a method of reclaiming one’s sexuality in some cases; but at the end of the day, that is what you are doing.
“Women should just be at home raising kids” is another prevalent idea. This is why stay at home dads aren’t taken seriously, and why paternity leave is rare while maternity leave is not. It’s also why women are much more likely to gain custody of the kids during divorce proceedings.
“Women are so emotional” is another one that’s thrown around. This idiotic thinking is why men are told to be tough and to never show emotion, lest they become too girly and feminine, and therefore weak. So men’s suicide rate is four times higher than women’s, because their mental health isn’t taken seriously.
Like seriously guys…saying “well men are actually discriminated against too” is silly. Yes, we know. The same misogynistic bullshit that hurts women also hurts men. This knife cuts both ways. Dismantling the system would actually really help men just as much as it helps women. Equality is the name of the game, people.
I don’t know why so many people see feminism as “women good, men bad” when really it’s just about dismantling all the harmful and misogynistic ideas that our society runs on, which would help *everyone*.
And what's funny is how they'll deadass say straight to your face that they'd prefer a patriarchy over a matriarchy. They attribute motherly aspects to women, and would it just be better in general to have a society that cares for all citizens and everything around it instead of a society that's fighting all the freaking time? Sorry if I didn't get the message across, I'm not good at organizing my thoughts.
I want to upvote this comment 100 times. Your comment basically the real issue you highlighted. The patriarchy hurts men and women. It's outdated and needs to go now!
She doesn’t even realize that she just outed herself as being extremely privileged and entitled. She just admitted that she’s been bailed out of every mistake she’s ever made. That’s why she assumes all women’s lives are like that. If she had been held accountable and forced to grow up like the vast majority of us(male and female) she would know that not all women’s lives are like that. She’s not describing women- she’s describing overly privileged, insanely entitled, and disgustingly lazy people. She just has to lie to herself that she’s that way due to her gender, and not as a byproduct of her own negative behavior. If she admits that then she would have to put in the effort to change, and she’s way too lazy and entitled to work for something. She just needs to believe that it’s all women this… or all men that… Then she doesn’t have to take any blame for the fact that she personally is severely flawed and quite honestly too immature to function successfully in the real world. This way she can just say it’s all women, and not have to take any accountability for the disturbing things she’s done due to her privilege and entitlement.
She has nothing to do at all, so she sits there shitting on people and women, like the misogyny is not enough these days, she likes to rub salt on people's wounds.
Who tf is this woman and why is this the second bad-take video I’ve seen from her in the last couple weeks?
Is she trying to get Red-Pill famous or something? A “pick-me” girl on the rise??
Jesus, this trash…
I'm gonna be mean but it likely won't be for her. Knowing the guys she's marketing to they're gonna say she's too fat and doesn't wear enough makeup.
Not critizing her appearance, just saying what they'd likely say since they're hypercritical of women's appearance. Something she as a pick me supports.
I love how whenever someone brings up “women have it easier than men” it’s either about sex or jail.
Because there is nothing else in this world except for shooting someone or shooting in someone
If you get pregnant you can just have an abortion. This is easy mode? Men don't get pregnant in the first place and they can just walk away and leave the woman to make that hard choice of keeping it or not without any support!
Men have the easy the route they can just walk away like nothing happened.
Also men can also claim benefits with or without having children, you don't need children to get government support. So I didn't even understand that argument.
"You have financial problems there's the women's shelter" Oh yes because being homeless is EASY? WTF??!! Being a homeless puts anyone in very a vulnerable situation! Especially if you're a woman due to the risks of being raped! Also like to add that people don't just end homeless due to money problems but it can also be because relationship issues I know someone who has a job but was homeless because their Dad kicked them out for being trans, another friend of mine was homeless because she wanted to get away from her alcoholic and abusive mother. These shelters are there to protect and help vulnerable people who need help and it's one of the hardest situations to be in and get out of!
Also there are homeless shelters for men as well but again that isn't an easy situation to be in and is far from fun.
She sounds privileged and ignorant as fuck!
Edit: As for divorce, a friend of mine recently got divorced the house was sold, he cheated on her before the divorce so she left him. He managed to find a new place with his new gf while my friend ended up having to go back to her parents place with their 2 children. Later on we found out he was also being controlling with money, over her social life and would also gaslight and manipulate her tell her how she's a bad mum if she wanted to go out and see friends she'd be abandoning her kids for example and so on.
She left not only because of the affair but she couldn't take anymore abuse. That isn't easy!
I know each divorce case is different but it's not always 50/50. And even if we ignore the money factors, it's still a break up, a relationship you thought that was for life is ending no matter reason that is never easy (doesn't matter on your gender we're all still human and break ups are hard for everyone) and if you have children involved that's makes it more difficult and complicated.
Consistently amazed at how misogynistic rhetoric takes sex between **two** people and completely brushes over how both parties are complicit in these "bad decisions." It's *women* who are to blame, or who are getting the "pass."
It's almost impossible to quantify the advantages and disadvantages each sex has because of how distinctively different each sex is judged or treated in different context.
Men have the privilege of feeling more safe walking alone in places.
Women have the privilege of being allowed in establishments for free while men have to pay an emtry fee.
It would be incredibly lengthy to continue providing more examples, but you get the point. Each sex has different experiences.
I was hoping you would bring up “free entry”. That’s not a privilege. That’s based on misogyny. It makes women the product. Clubs and bars want women in so men will spend money on them
Yep. I'd rather feel safe walking down the street at night than get in free to some sleazy club I don't even want to go to. (And I'm aware that men can get attacked walking down the street at night too.)
I've always felt like privledged should be judged on a individual basis. But I general some groups are way more likely to be less privledged than others.
Also if you're referring to clubs. It's not really much of a privledged. Clubs do that to keep their rich male clients happy with a large amount of pretty lady patrons. Not to mention the large amount of druggings.
the funny thing about women being let into bars/clubs for free is that it’s a direct result of men’s wants/actions. when men go to the bar/club, they want there to be a bunch of available women there so they can hit on them (and they end up spending more money on drinks and stuff). so yeah, getting as many women in there makes the most sense for the business. so it is funny seeing men complain about it because it’s a response to their actions and behavior lol. women are let in for free to help cater to men’s sexuality.
I agree women have some advantages as a sex, but the example you said doesn’t help your point. The reason women get free entry into clubs and bars is because they are the product being sold, if women go to clubs men are more likely to go and more likely to spend more money, to the point that it is better business to let women in without a cover charge.
If by these people’s logic men are more powerful and “the stronger sex”, why the fuck do they keep insisting women “live life on easy mode” and have more power?
I hate how she smiles after every “point” she makes. Isolate anything she says and you can spend five minutes refuting it. She is basically a traitor to women all so men will like her. The irony is gross
Y'all ever wonder why the women commenting on how we need to bring back traditional femininity are almost always childless unmarried harlots showing off their shoulders and ankles?
This also belongs on r/notlikeothergirls because this woman’s internalized misogyny is off of the charts. Yeah! Sure! Women can get abortions and they are able to hook up freely while still finding men who are able to marry them afterwards! It’s not like men are also involved in the hook up (assuming she’s solely talking about straight women) and it’s not like men hook up with a bunch of people before settling down! Nope! Never!
And it’s not like bigotry, mistreatment, abuse, and discrimination permeates through every single society, religion, and culture on Earth. It’s not like 1/4 women will be raped in their lifetimes and that 97% of women REPORT (report is the keyword) sexual harassment. It’s not like every single woman that I know, including myself, has a story that starts with “I told him no but he…” and ends with “so now I’m in therapy but I know that nothing can undo what he did to me”. It’s not like there are tutorials plastered all over the internet for makeshift weapons (keys in fingers, checking under your car before you get in, shining a flashlight into the back seats before you get in, checking for weird objects on your car handle in case you’ve been marked to be trafficked, etc.) in case a man tries to assault them. It’s not like an incredible amount of women have stories about how they were molested by family members, neighbors, and family friends. It’s not like women have to cut loved ones out and fight tooth and nail to be respected in a world that sees them the same way that this woman sees herself. It’s not like women have to fight around the world every single day to prove that we deserve to be respected as much as a man does.
But hey, what about women who casually have hookups? AND NO DONT BRING MEN BEING THE COUNTERPART OF THESE HOOKUPS INTO THIS! Yeah, women bad. Women sluts. Women horrible creatures. I said the right things, right? Right?! Please see me as a superior creature because these women are SO beneath me lol. Seriously. Please see me as superior. I’m nOt LiKE OtHeR GiRLSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!
Easy life of women 101 :
1) Your male relative raped you. He didn't get punish coz your family thinks it was consensual and you also probably seduced him.
2) Your teacher raped you and school management just erased you from their records and your parents got broke fighting your case for years without justice (late justice is not justice).
3) Your local pastor raped you and the whole ass church brainwashed you and filled your dad's pocket with cash, so that he could ensure your silence.
4) You can't walk freely on the road after sunset and before sunrise because you can either get raped or some neighbour will spread rumours that you're going out at late night for some " business" which would end getting you grounded by your family for months.
When I see women like her talk like that, I immediately want to investigate the abuse they've been raised in. This is the behavioral pattern and look of a brainwashed, abused and broken person.
it just rubs me the wrong way that a privileged white girl thinks she can speak for ALL women. she clearly has no idea about the experiences of POC women and has never lived a day in another persons culture. sorry but america is not the center of the universe. women have it fking terrible in all parts of the world and this is not something that needs to be disputed. there is a different type of misogyny wherever you go.
Who's gonna tell her that abortions are now a thing of the past. And that birth control will also be a thing of the past. And men can simply walk away. Which is actually easier to do because we don't have to make a decision on killing a human or not. We just get up and walk away never to look back unless that kid becomes a LeBron James, Tom Brady, Or Spike Lee for those who aren't gifted athletically.
Never got around to how that's easier than for men. As far as I know, there are shelters and condoms for us guys. We can also file for child support. What is her point, really ?... 🤦
As I always say when I hear this women speak those boys in the room will never actually see her as an equal to them. She simply exists to boost their egos that's all they need her for nothing more nothing less I'd find it sad if she hasn't said the most vile shit imaginable and has agreed with most vile shit imaginable for misogynistic validation.
Funny how she's saying cheating is bad here considering in another video she said when men cheat its okay cause "it's like a handshake"
Whatever the fuck that means, she just says shit, looks around for approval and than doesn't elaborate.
In my country the male can just not acknowledge the kid as his if he doesn't want to. Doesn't need to pay child support, so am I told tho. Women can abort and men can opt out. It's not the same thing, but gives some freedom for men if they didn't want a kid in the first place and it accidentally happens.
I cannot stress this enough…
I hate this person with an absolute passion. Her handle as “just the pearly things” is like this ever so ironic lipstick on a pig metaphor. She needs to be deplatformed but she won’t be because Andrew Taint worshippers pick her.
As a child born of an accidental pregnancy, this kind of worldview always infuriates me.
It’s an insult to the single mothers that worked their ass off to give their children what they needed. My mother struggled constantly. Children are expensive, child support and a job still didn’t stop the struggle. My own grandmother basically shunned her for the first few years because it was so shameful to be born out of marriage. I also find it disgusting to view kind men as “simps”. I eventually got a stepdad and he is one of the nicest people and also works hard for my siblings.
This woman is just so off base and must come from wealth cause it’s so narrow minded and classist.
Contraceptive doesn’t work on every woman. Some can’t take it due to severe side effects. Abortion is not legal everywhere. In my country it was only just made legal and it’s still not very accessible. I don’t know about the US but government support barely covers rent here anymore.
Women definitely don’t bail out of everything compared to men. The amount of men who have committed rape, murder, and much worse shit have been able to bail out. Women who have done the same aren’t, unless they have high connections.
Oh I know that woman. She makes low effort content aimed squarely at incels and that’s it. And when I say low effort I’m not joking. Doesn’t even do basic editing to her videos and shit.
“Bailed out by going to a women’s shelter…” Yes, shelters are luxurious places ! Obviously she’s never been abused & needed immediate refuge.
She’s a scumbag
Birth control and abortion arnt regularly available in some countries and isnt accepted in some cultures. You will be very harshly and unjustly judged for stopping "god's creation".
If you cheat your a Cheater. People will know. You likely won't get another decent partner who will love you for you. You will probably cheat again and never be able to have a long lasting healthy and loving relationship.
If your a single mother most men immediately take you off the table as a dating option and the ones who do chose to date you will likely leave and you will not have a long term relationship as the man will not want the responsability of your child, in most situations.
Like any of those are fun and easy options. 🤔 Like living at a women's shelter is the high life, there are no emotional/health consequences to pregnancy and abortion, and taking care of a man child for the menial support they provide is easy! What a bunch of shit options to survive.
You know what, she's definitely a man but bitch is wearing a realistic costume bet. 🧍🏻♀️
I'm tired of this bitch.
She talks so weirdly like she's having ton of bullshit in her mouth.
So… what were the immediate consequences men were facing for sleeping around? Did I miss that?
"If you get pregnant, there's an abortion". Said so confidently, as if men don't have the "way out" of simply walking away and having nothing to do with the woman they impregnated, whether she gives birth to the child or not.
" there's an abortion "... * cries laughing in polish * :)
I mean, she’s American and that’s just not true in all states anymore. It’s almost like she not preoccupied with being truthful or factual 🤷🏽♀️
long story short; that girl is fucking dumb :)
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Oh, she knows. She’s just playing her audience. Not sure what her gain is, but probably some kind of pyramid scheme or exclusive membership community or something will come.
She makes money doing YouTube videos. And pandering to the incel/mgtow/he-man-woman-haters crowd is her jam
They’re already writing manifestos and shooting us/running us down with trucks, but she riles them up for YouTube money.
Yeah she’s a scumbag. No doubt.
Who is this woman and who else does this interview involve? (Interview/podcast maybe?) Is it some conservative/republican thing and they’re representing what they agree with? Or is this something totally different than that and they just happened to have a dumb woman on to show how dumb these people are
I have a feeling we haven’t reached the bottom and the next 2 years are going to be nasty with the house trying to pass a national ban. It’s on their roadmap.
Hehe child support just waiting for the man back at his home.
Only 44% of parents receive the full amount of child supporting a day or so much for your . The overwhelming majority pays none or a fraction Of course the kid still needs 100% of its meals 3 time's up the sheer amount to a year ago I don't know what you want to add poor and middle a day day or so much for your help a ,among many many many other things the custodial parent is left to try to provide The overwhelming majority of custodialparent are women, because the overwhelming majority of men do not care to apply for it If men do apply for custodialparent, they usually get it even if there is abuse from said father "research shows fathers are favored over mothers in child custody battles, even when they've been accused of or found guilty of abuse." https://www.census.gov/newsroom/press-releases/2018/cb18-tps03.html https://wamu.org/story/19/08/19/fathers-are-favored-in-child-custody-battles-even-when-abuse-is-alleged/ To respond to the below justification on why it isn't that bad when non custodial (men) don't pay child support, because they won't let me respond to them, seems they fully understand a*hole "argument" is irrational a*hole argument after all Ah so kids only need food and housing and clothes sometimes and only when convenient for the non custodial parent. As for the custodial parent, well we will just blame her if there is not enough food or housing or clothes because that b*tch should take some responsibility. Never mind that custodial parents (overwhelmingly single moms and their kids) are the largest segment of the population living in poverty, what about the poor menz is your concern 12-15 million kids a year struggle with hunger in the usa In comparison only 8.6 million adults are. Edit and of course the whataboutism and desperate pointing at other countries comes out of the wood work, and the blocking responses because they are well aware their "arguments" are complete sh*te. Of course never mind originating post being from the usa Yeah, let's just ignore the originating post was in the USA when that invalidates your poor menz bs
> only 44% of parents receive the full amount of child support. Only one sentence in and that's already fucked up. That's less than half, like holy hell. Like, I get not having a well paying job, but aren't you legally required to pay the full amount? Couldn't the person be taken to court? Or is there exceptions?
Law enforcement doesn't really care, neither does the state in most cases. The mom will just make due
In my case, when I was a kid my father would work under-the-table jobs and go on long stints of assistance so he wouldn't have to pay my mother.
The average child support payment in the US is currently $450 per month. Its a pittance really.
That might be the amount ordered but the average amount actually received, according to the 2019 census, was $287/month.
Id believe that.
Dang thats even sadder than I thought it'd be.
That is very interesting, we are always taught as a society that women are favored in custody battles. As far as child support goes, their are deadbeats of both genders- my oldest child’s mother owes approximately $22,000 and has had not so much as a slap on the wrist. And what’s worse is the government knows about this, as it is supposed to be collected through our state’s dhs.
This story was corrected to reflect that when mothers are accused of alienation, they are twice as likely to lose custody than when they are not and to note that Joan Meier’s research will be published later in 2019, not in 2020. The story was also corrected to reflect that an estimated 58,000 children are placed in the custody, or with unsupervised contact with, an abusive parent. A clarification was made to address that the type of abuse claimed in court that is substantiated for one in 51 children when parental alienation is invoked by the father is child sexual abuse. The story was further clarified to note that there are no instances in which a court credited both parental alienation and child abuse.
Sigh, not really what it says but any excuse to blame women for the choices men make will do
Ya know, this used to be my thought. But then I see my relatives with custody over their grandkid, and neither actual parent paying the child support they've both been court ordered to.
We have to move far away to dodge responsibility. Do you know how much of an inconvenience that is? It's pure tyranny!
How dare you suggest that men have no problems!!! *Screeches*
Contraceptives work for both men and women. Does she not know what condoms are?
That’s what you stuck on?
I didn’t make it much past that, TBH.
You didn’t miss much. It was a pretty flimsy argument.
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Some of the stuff like that she's absolutely off base but otherwise she's not entirely wrong. I know I'm gonna get downvoted for this but I honestly don't care. My ex abused, manipulated, and habitually cheated on me for over three years and yet people still say that she should get custody of our daughter (who has made significant improvements since her mother left). People still ask what I did wrong to make her treat me that way and the truth is I didn't do anything to her. For the first two years I didn't even defend myself. I let her hit me and scream at me and tell me that she wished I would die all while spending my money and my family's money and sleeping around while I was earning it. Yet there is still a very real possibility that when the current temporary custody agreement is up that I will lose my daughter simply because she's the mother and I'm "s worthless evil man".
I am terribly sorry for that. No one deserves something like that. Personally, I also consider that a form of sexism, putting women in the “caretaker” role and men in the “provider” role. In the caretaker role, mother can do no wrong and MUST be perfect virtuous beings. Men, as the Providers and as “Males” are, for some unholy reason, unable to do those ‘girly things’ like taking care of children or being decent human beings, because ‘men are fierce and angry and have no emotional intelligence’ and some shit. And since “Moms, who represent the virtues of womanhood” can do no wrong, then the father must be doing something wrong! Which is, of course, complete bullshit. That’s just misogyny used in the favor of the abuser. Completely disgusting. We all now no human is perfect, and that someone can be a piece of shit regard,es of gender. You shouldn’t be downvoted for speaking the truth. Misogyny will always affect Men than not conform to the stereotype of what a “True Male” should be. Is not just women who suffer from this injustice.
Thank you. I really appreciate your kind words. Honestly I'd be happy to take on either role. I just whoever I'm with to treat me like a partner.
I wish you a wonderful life with your child, who sounds that was lucky enough to get one caring parent! I bet you’re her hope and light, and she must be really proud of being your daughter :)
I hope so. More than anything I want her to be happy and safe.
Fuck yeah Home hubby for the win... Id happily pack lunches, clean the house and manage the house hold if I could. Like It sounds Amazing to me... Wifes at work getting some bread, I'm at home with a smoker going for some tender ass dinner BBQ, white new balance on and a lawn mower cranking. Then there is all the extra time to knock out the home DIY projects that generally get confined to the weekends. All the hardware stores are open, all deliveries can be taken.. It honestly sounds amazing...
I'm sorry that happened to you and that you had to go through that. One of the few areas that women get preferential treatment is child-rearing. But that doesn't mean they have it easier. And guess what? It's because this patriarchal society see women as responsible for child-rearing. Because society doesn't see men and women as the same. That there's women's work and there's men's work. That's what feminism is trying to undo. So that shit like that doesn't happen. That men and women can be equal and equitable, that men can be seen as capable of taking care of children and cases like these get handled without bias. Thing is we see the benefits others get and we compare that to the shit that we get, without seeing the bad stuff they go through and undermined the good stuff we get. That's no way to make a comparison but that's what we do. We have such a hard time giving ourselves credit and seeing what we have exactly because we are aware of our bad shit. But we don't see the bad shit of others. Like we might someone who's well-dressed, attractive and/or clean. We see them hanging out with friends, or in possession of a sweet car, or something else we covet. We don't know that maybe they are going home to a mother with alzheimer's or am abusive spouse. Or maybe they have an std they can't get rid of because they were raped. But we sure as hell see the injustices we experience. That's why we gotta look at the facts, the numbers, why we gotta listen to each other instead of trying to one-up each other.
Women do not actually get preferential treatment in child custody. Primary Carers used to get some preference because continuity for the kids is a priority. Now the default is split custody 50/50 unless there's a clear good reason for something else, or the lesser party agrees to it. A lot of men agree to less than 50% custody because they're not really that interested in parenting their own kids.
Ah! Thanks for the facts!
Why do I see this exact same write up invading women's spaces whenever they have discourse regarding marriage, pregnancy, birth control etc ??? I am a man myself and I am honestly telling you this feels you're trying to justify the statement said in the post video by thrusting the emotional nerve of women here, so that their eyes get blurred with tears reading your tragedy tale and nobody talks about the video.
i am sorry you had such awful experience. What you described is abuse and you should cut of the people defending the abuser.
In most states custody does not default to the mother. If you have proof of her being abusive I would suggest your lawyer use it in court.
I want to know where this easy life is????? SOMEONE, PLEASE TELL ME????
Same, girl. Can I just sleep in and not go to work tomorrow? According to this video, someone will surely just cover my shift and pay my rent, right?
RIGHT? Like I have a tumor and it's still incredibly hard to receive any kind of aid. No one is hee to save me or help me. I have to do everything on my own. People like her piss me the fuck off.
This bitch never once applied for food stamps if she thinks the government is just handing out fucking money. Halloween was yesterday, it's the one day a year you get a handout. I blame fucking Reagan and the erroneous concept of a welfare queen. People have no idea how fucking hard it is to qualify for and receive welfare.
Yeah, I would also like to know about this supposed easy mode I keep hearing incels, PUAs, and pick mes talking about. Cause I'm gonna level with ya, I transitioned from presenting male to living as a super femme trans woman, and it really feels like the training wheels came off. I understood what all the ladies in my life had been telling me, but I got to experience a very stark contrast when I was living it personally. I just love being cat-called on the street, creeped by guys on social media, having to watch my drink at the club, being talked over by men at work, getting worse medical care, being taken serious less often, and have men regularly feel entitled to my time or to enter my personal space. It's fucking rad and makes my day so much easier and better.
Hey Sis! Didn't you watch the video? Your life is in easy mode. Now just wait for your government check and don't worry about anything/s. Seriously, it sucks that this is part of our experiences but I hope that you are enjoying all the great parts of it (there are a lot) and assholes aren't robbing you of your joy.
Nah, I am living my best life. Experiencing the world as the person I want to be and am happy about it. I also have a pretty significant level of privilege that makes the scarier parts much less scary. I feel weird about it, but my significant luck is not lost on me. Still waiting on that government check though, seems like my pussy pass benefits are taking a while to kick in. Also do I need to claim that free income on my taxes or do I just not do my taxes cause "I'm just a girl and math is hard?" /s
Taxes?!? I haven't filed any since 2013, you know because if I make terrible decisions someone will bail me out. If that doesn't work I'll just become a baby mama and profit.... God I lost brain cells just writing that 😂. I can't imagine how she spews this bullshit out regularly.
It’s so interesting that all her bad decision examples are framed around men. When I make a bad decision, say financially or physically I bail myself out. No one can help me there. People who think of women’s lives only in terms of their position in a romantic relationship are so one dimensional.
I was also going to add that she’s completely wrong about the government assistance part. My dad completely abandoned our family when he remarried, and although my mom was supporting 3 kids on her own with non-existent child support (my dad quit his job and started working for his new wife who paid him cash,) her $50k salary disqualified her from help (this was 2002.) We struggled. You can’t always go to the “government” when you need help.
Good god. What about social security? In Australia there’s a government payment for single parents? A healthcare card so you don’t pay anything to take kids to the doctor? And a payment for assistance with rent? It’s not amazing money but you won’t starve?
Nope! We went a few years without healthcare because it can be very costly in the US (no visits to the dentist, etc) and you can’t apply for social security in the US until retirement. To qualify for welfare (public assistance) the government wants you as close to poverty as possible. My mom was told to quit her job or find a lower paying job if she wanted assistance.
Cool, sexism AND classism! How dare people be poor, she says so bravely.
Well anyone can go on a incel podcast to make a dollar on the side... right? You just got to disrespect yourself.
>she says so bravely I watched a video talking about this lady and in her other videos after making a statement she'll look around for a few seconds to see if everyone's approving of what she said. She's a female Andrew Tate in terms of misogyny.
Don't forget racism! She snuck in the Baby Mama welfare queen trope in there because that's the cherry on top of this shit sundae.
Being this dumb should be a mental illness.
She isn't dumb, she's grifting. Same as Shapiro, Peterson, Carlson, Doc Oz and Trump. They are all constantly running scams. Their scams just happen to be conservative and make the country less safe overall.
She’s also making the classic mistake of equating HER experience with EVERYONES experience. This women has had an easy life and has been “bailed” out for all of her poor decisions, mistakes etc and therefore believes everyone has. I can’t understand how limited peoples ability to empathize with others experiences and how willingly ignorant and blind they can be when bad systems benefit them.
Grifting
Good catch, fixed.
She’s not dumb. She knows she’s lying. It’s a grift.
Yeah, her whole schtick is to be as controversial as possible and to outrage people.
And to cater to lonely men that are used to women not putting up with their bullshit and are just desperate to see and hear a conventionally attractive woman agree with their asinine opinions.
Not to be a total asshole but she's barely even conventionally attractive, especially by incel/redpill standards. I guarantee if she stepped out of line just once and said something not totally misogynistic all the men saying "protect her at all costs!" would switch up in a millisecond and start tearing into her looks. I'm sure she knows she's on thin ice at all times but this grift must pay well.
Yep, you're right. Those dudes would be calling her all kinds of fugly if she stopped spewing that crap. In fact, some are so unstable they might just start even if she keeps agreeing with them.
Oh no you’re right. She isn’t attractive at all. I think apart from the grift, she’s saying this stuff because she wants attention from men, even if it means other women can’t stand her. Because free thinking independent women realise she’s a joke, normal functioning men do as well….and the sewer incels and their gross ‘queen’ can dwell together at the bottom. Losers
She's one of the good women until she isn't. Then she's a whore or something.
Yep! No talent needed! Just parrot incel talking points and profit!
JFC this has got to be one of the worst ways to make money
Hey it makes an interesting thought experiment if nothing else. Would you rather shill for incels as a whatever she is? Or would you rather have an only fans? Same world, same stalkers to worry about I bet. Say you get compensated the same amount a month for either, enough above average you can live very comfortably(imagination! magic!), but you have to pick one. Which one would you rather have to put yourself together for everyday?
I see what you’re saying, but not quite. Personally, if I had to choose only between those 2 options, I would choose OF. What she is doing is spreading false information for her own benefit, which is detrimental to other women and other people in general. At least with OF, I would still stick to my morals and not spew hatred.
I wonder if they’ve picked her yet.
She’s a scammer fleecing the rubes.
“Women live life on easy mode” all these actions and consequences she is listing are literally even easier for men. They can just block you and walk away like it never happened. Women HAVE to have their own back and take contraception and be sure not to get pregnant if they don’t want to. I don’t see how that’s “easier”
Right?? Like hi having an abortion is not an easy out, it can be really emotional and traumatic. She is unhinged!
Privledge is variable. A non disabled, conventionally attractive rich women with a good family and financial support is gonna have it easier than a disabled black man from a poor unsupportive family but more or less privledge doesn't negate their struggles. The thing is both women and men have issues but in general women tend to take the brunt of things especially in lower income situations. Even higher income women have lots of struggles. Women are expected to go on birth control with terrible side effects while men complain about putting on a condom, my guy we don't even cum from sex much of the time. Women are pressured into getting abortions which can be truamatic to those who dont want them, than of they do keep them they're blamed for giving their kids a bad life because they couldn't go through an abortion. Women are still expected to work, do the majority of the Childcare and chores than get critized for putting their kids on daycare. Women deal with internal misogyny from other women and psudeo science medical communities.
That’s why intersectionality is so important
Definitely! There are soo many things that go into play when talking about privledge people ignore like appearance, health and mental disorders. It's bad to dismiss someone's issues because someone has it worse ofc but it's silly to ignore who the majority of people who are rich and in charge are versus the historically disadvantaged.
So because of birth control and abortion, suddenly WE have it easy? Men DONT get pregnant plus they have condoms! Bitch sounds like WE got the short end of the stick having to WORRY about getting preggo in first place!
Not to mention birth control and abortions are not just “easy or fun!” Abortion is a whole fucking *procedure* to your body and birth control could have some fucked up effects. Neither is easy.
Right! It’s not like either option is simple! They certainly aren’t a “bail out” as she’s claiming. I fail to understand her logic that we somehow are escaping consequences when men aren’t the ones literally trapped by their own bodies and faced with these difficult decisions!
Not to mention rape and difficulties with abortion, such as it being ILLEGAL in many states.
Exactly!!!
Yes bc only women get government assistance…💀
Same with men who argue against child support. You know men can get child support, there's no law preventing that...
Such a shit video my god. Poor woman and her internalized misogyny. Help her soul. And take away her mic.
Tbh, I only disagree with you about the "Poor woman" part. She's not dumb or suffering from internalized misogyny, she's lying. She's lying because she is an influencer with an audience who want to hear her say things like that and she has no problem lying and spouting misogyny to make money. She isn't the only one doing this either as there are other influencers who preach similar nonsense because it's profitable.
You’re not wrong at all.
In the video Chad chad did on her, Chadx2 said that as soon as this girl says something, she stops and looks around for approval. CAN NOT UNSEE THAT NOW
Don’t listen to this idiot, she’s a major pick me trying to be a female Andrew Taint because she lost some weight and now thinks she’s better than all women. Idk where she gets her high horse cause damn
Money is easy when you got no morals
Chillax everyone. She’s “one of the guys”.
I hope she gets picked because the desperation is lingering in the air.
Yes women’s shelters are for women…. with terrible financial literacy…?
And women's shelters are notoriously easy to get a spot in. Not to mention how luxurious they are... /s
Men don’t need birth control to not grow babies ✅ Men literally can’t get pregnant and need abortions (which are illegal in many places) ✅ Women can also be the wealthier one in the relationship and have half of their money taken ✅ Men can also get welfare and food stamps ✅ Men and women can both cheat ✅ She had no points.
Someone needs to go after this witch. Verbally of course. I want to see her debate with an actual feminist, rather than just spouting bullshit in an echo chamber.
she'll do the same thing all these types do and just yell over them and interrupt them. There is no having a conversation with this type of person.
Exactly. The only way to win is to not engage with these types at all.
I'm offended on behalf of witches that you called her that. 😆
I wish someone just pick her already so she can shut up…
For real. This is seriously the epitome of the “pick me” shit!
I saw this person the other day when I scrolling through YouTube shorts its just pure rage bait I feel, I said don't recommend this channel. Whatever I can do to destabilize her platform I guess...
I agree. can we stop giving her free publicity by reposting her shit?
The thing about all of these talks about who has it easier is that it never considers everything. "Women have so much leeway with this thing, this thing and this thing." While completely ignoring every other advantage and disadvantage of being a man or a woman has in life.
Do these people just not believe in male privilege or the patriarchy or like…literally the society we exist in? How do you wander around your whole life without understanding something so basic? That system hurts men just as much as it hurts women. Many of the areas where women have an advantage are areas where women have just made the system work in their favor. Many men see women as weaker or inferior. Women have an advantage in certain areas purely *because* of this. This is why male victims of rape and domestic violence from women aren’t taken seriously; because “he could obviously have stopped her if he wanted to. Women are weak.” The idea that “women are only valued for their bodies” is what gave rise to sex work in the first place. The only reason women can *do* it is because men objectify them to begin with. That’s the cost of “living life on easy mode”. You become complicit in your own dehumanization. It’s empowering for some people, and it’s a method of reclaiming one’s sexuality in some cases; but at the end of the day, that is what you are doing. “Women should just be at home raising kids” is another prevalent idea. This is why stay at home dads aren’t taken seriously, and why paternity leave is rare while maternity leave is not. It’s also why women are much more likely to gain custody of the kids during divorce proceedings. “Women are so emotional” is another one that’s thrown around. This idiotic thinking is why men are told to be tough and to never show emotion, lest they become too girly and feminine, and therefore weak. So men’s suicide rate is four times higher than women’s, because their mental health isn’t taken seriously. Like seriously guys…saying “well men are actually discriminated against too” is silly. Yes, we know. The same misogynistic bullshit that hurts women also hurts men. This knife cuts both ways. Dismantling the system would actually really help men just as much as it helps women. Equality is the name of the game, people. I don’t know why so many people see feminism as “women good, men bad” when really it’s just about dismantling all the harmful and misogynistic ideas that our society runs on, which would help *everyone*.
And what's funny is how they'll deadass say straight to your face that they'd prefer a patriarchy over a matriarchy. They attribute motherly aspects to women, and would it just be better in general to have a society that cares for all citizens and everything around it instead of a society that's fighting all the freaking time? Sorry if I didn't get the message across, I'm not good at organizing my thoughts.
I want to upvote this comment 100 times. Your comment basically the real issue you highlighted. The patriarchy hurts men and women. It's outdated and needs to go now!
This is an awful person
She doesn’t even realize that she just outed herself as being extremely privileged and entitled. She just admitted that she’s been bailed out of every mistake she’s ever made. That’s why she assumes all women’s lives are like that. If she had been held accountable and forced to grow up like the vast majority of us(male and female) she would know that not all women’s lives are like that. She’s not describing women- she’s describing overly privileged, insanely entitled, and disgustingly lazy people. She just has to lie to herself that she’s that way due to her gender, and not as a byproduct of her own negative behavior. If she admits that then she would have to put in the effort to change, and she’s way too lazy and entitled to work for something. She just needs to believe that it’s all women this… or all men that… Then she doesn’t have to take any blame for the fact that she personally is severely flawed and quite honestly too immature to function successfully in the real world. This way she can just say it’s all women, and not have to take any accountability for the disturbing things she’s done due to her privilege and entitlement.
She has nothing to do at all, so she sits there shitting on people and women, like the misogyny is not enough these days, she likes to rub salt on people's wounds.
Who tf is this woman and why is this the second bad-take video I’ve seen from her in the last couple weeks? Is she trying to get Red-Pill famous or something? A “pick-me” girl on the rise?? Jesus, this trash…
I must be extremely dumb to have a difficult life.
found the Pick Me Girl. Hope the payout is worth it.
I'm gonna be mean but it likely won't be for her. Knowing the guys she's marketing to they're gonna say she's too fat and doesn't wear enough makeup. Not critizing her appearance, just saying what they'd likely say since they're hypercritical of women's appearance. Something she as a pick me supports.
They already do. They have literally debated if she’s a two or a three
She should just write doormat on her forehead and lay down so men can walk all over her like she wants
She just wants the $ that comes from pretending. She'd probably tell the dude to fuck off.
I love how whenever someone brings up “women have it easier than men” it’s either about sex or jail. Because there is nothing else in this world except for shooting someone or shooting in someone
Cool, does that mean we can have our abortion rights back now ya shithead????
If you get pregnant you can just have an abortion. This is easy mode? Men don't get pregnant in the first place and they can just walk away and leave the woman to make that hard choice of keeping it or not without any support! Men have the easy the route they can just walk away like nothing happened. Also men can also claim benefits with or without having children, you don't need children to get government support. So I didn't even understand that argument. "You have financial problems there's the women's shelter" Oh yes because being homeless is EASY? WTF??!! Being a homeless puts anyone in very a vulnerable situation! Especially if you're a woman due to the risks of being raped! Also like to add that people don't just end homeless due to money problems but it can also be because relationship issues I know someone who has a job but was homeless because their Dad kicked them out for being trans, another friend of mine was homeless because she wanted to get away from her alcoholic and abusive mother. These shelters are there to protect and help vulnerable people who need help and it's one of the hardest situations to be in and get out of! Also there are homeless shelters for men as well but again that isn't an easy situation to be in and is far from fun. She sounds privileged and ignorant as fuck! Edit: As for divorce, a friend of mine recently got divorced the house was sold, he cheated on her before the divorce so she left him. He managed to find a new place with his new gf while my friend ended up having to go back to her parents place with their 2 children. Later on we found out he was also being controlling with money, over her social life and would also gaslight and manipulate her tell her how she's a bad mum if she wanted to go out and see friends she'd be abandoning her kids for example and so on. She left not only because of the affair but she couldn't take anymore abuse. That isn't easy! I know each divorce case is different but it's not always 50/50. And even if we ignore the money factors, it's still a break up, a relationship you thought that was for life is ending no matter reason that is never easy (doesn't matter on your gender we're all still human and break ups are hard for everyone) and if you have children involved that's makes it more difficult and complicated.
Consistently amazed at how misogynistic rhetoric takes sex between **two** people and completely brushes over how both parties are complicit in these "bad decisions." It's *women* who are to blame, or who are getting the "pass."
You're right. Women are expected to carry the problem.
look how excited she is to get the mens' attention. Look at her flap her little flippers so happily. It would be cute if she weren't so disgusting.
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It's almost impossible to quantify the advantages and disadvantages each sex has because of how distinctively different each sex is judged or treated in different context. Men have the privilege of feeling more safe walking alone in places. Women have the privilege of being allowed in establishments for free while men have to pay an emtry fee. It would be incredibly lengthy to continue providing more examples, but you get the point. Each sex has different experiences.
I was hoping you would bring up “free entry”. That’s not a privilege. That’s based on misogyny. It makes women the product. Clubs and bars want women in so men will spend money on them
Yep. I'd rather feel safe walking down the street at night than get in free to some sleazy club I don't even want to go to. (And I'm aware that men can get attacked walking down the street at night too.)
I've always felt like privledged should be judged on a individual basis. But I general some groups are way more likely to be less privledged than others. Also if you're referring to clubs. It's not really much of a privledged. Clubs do that to keep their rich male clients happy with a large amount of pretty lady patrons. Not to mention the large amount of druggings.
the funny thing about women being let into bars/clubs for free is that it’s a direct result of men’s wants/actions. when men go to the bar/club, they want there to be a bunch of available women there so they can hit on them (and they end up spending more money on drinks and stuff). so yeah, getting as many women in there makes the most sense for the business. so it is funny seeing men complain about it because it’s a response to their actions and behavior lol. women are let in for free to help cater to men’s sexuality.
Also I'm fat so I've never gotten into a club or bar for free lol
I agree women have some advantages as a sex, but the example you said doesn’t help your point. The reason women get free entry into clubs and bars is because they are the product being sold, if women go to clubs men are more likely to go and more likely to spend more money, to the point that it is better business to let women in without a cover charge.
yep!
The pick me queen herself
What a friggin idiot
If by these people’s logic men are more powerful and “the stronger sex”, why the fuck do they keep insisting women “live life on easy mode” and have more power?
The worst part was being homeless and being told in r/homeless that my experiences is so easy, by men 🙃
I love the "women can get abortions" like uh yeah, what did you expect the men to get one?
she didn't give a single example of women "getting bailed out", those were all just women solving their own problems
I hate how she smiles after every “point” she makes. Isolate anything she says and you can spend five minutes refuting it. She is basically a traitor to women all so men will like her. The irony is gross
Did he pick you sis…
What a stupid piece of shit lmao
Yeah. When men sleep around, they have to face the immediate consequences of getting pregnant :(
I have discovered the ancient prophecy ye old pick me girl
She’s trying to get picked by guys with mommy issues based on the outfit
Checks out
Y'all ever wonder why the women commenting on how we need to bring back traditional femininity are almost always childless unmarried harlots showing off their shoulders and ankles?
This also belongs on r/notlikeothergirls because this woman’s internalized misogyny is off of the charts. Yeah! Sure! Women can get abortions and they are able to hook up freely while still finding men who are able to marry them afterwards! It’s not like men are also involved in the hook up (assuming she’s solely talking about straight women) and it’s not like men hook up with a bunch of people before settling down! Nope! Never! And it’s not like bigotry, mistreatment, abuse, and discrimination permeates through every single society, religion, and culture on Earth. It’s not like 1/4 women will be raped in their lifetimes and that 97% of women REPORT (report is the keyword) sexual harassment. It’s not like every single woman that I know, including myself, has a story that starts with “I told him no but he…” and ends with “so now I’m in therapy but I know that nothing can undo what he did to me”. It’s not like there are tutorials plastered all over the internet for makeshift weapons (keys in fingers, checking under your car before you get in, shining a flashlight into the back seats before you get in, checking for weird objects on your car handle in case you’ve been marked to be trafficked, etc.) in case a man tries to assault them. It’s not like an incredible amount of women have stories about how they were molested by family members, neighbors, and family friends. It’s not like women have to cut loved ones out and fight tooth and nail to be respected in a world that sees them the same way that this woman sees herself. It’s not like women have to fight around the world every single day to prove that we deserve to be respected as much as a man does. But hey, what about women who casually have hookups? AND NO DONT BRING MEN BEING THE COUNTERPART OF THESE HOOKUPS INTO THIS! Yeah, women bad. Women sluts. Women horrible creatures. I said the right things, right? Right?! Please see me as a superior creature because these women are SO beneath me lol. Seriously. Please see me as superior. I’m nOt LiKE OtHeR GiRLSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!
Easy life of women 101 : 1) Your male relative raped you. He didn't get punish coz your family thinks it was consensual and you also probably seduced him. 2) Your teacher raped you and school management just erased you from their records and your parents got broke fighting your case for years without justice (late justice is not justice). 3) Your local pastor raped you and the whole ass church brainwashed you and filled your dad's pocket with cash, so that he could ensure your silence. 4) You can't walk freely on the road after sunset and before sunrise because you can either get raped or some neighbour will spread rumours that you're going out at late night for some " business" which would end getting you grounded by your family for months.
As someone who works in a women's shelter for victims of Modern Slavery and Trafficking, this is wildly untrue.
I see her face, I know whatever she says will pander to her incel Fanbase.
If your homeless buy a house. That’s what this reminds of. 🤡🌎
If you were treated like a princess your whole entire life, just say that! Your experience doesn't negate every other woman's hardships.
When I see women like her talk like that, I immediately want to investigate the abuse they've been raised in. This is the behavioral pattern and look of a brainwashed, abused and broken person.
it just rubs me the wrong way that a privileged white girl thinks she can speak for ALL women. she clearly has no idea about the experiences of POC women and has never lived a day in another persons culture. sorry but america is not the center of the universe. women have it fking terrible in all parts of the world and this is not something that needs to be disputed. there is a different type of misogyny wherever you go.
Me, living in Italy where they are trying to pass an anti abortion law: ah yes, totally easy
Getting an abortion and raising a child, literally so easy /s
She has no idea what she's talking about. You don't even need context to tell.
Who's gonna tell her that abortions are now a thing of the past. And that birth control will also be a thing of the past. And men can simply walk away. Which is actually easier to do because we don't have to make a decision on killing a human or not. We just get up and walk away never to look back unless that kid becomes a LeBron James, Tom Brady, Or Spike Lee for those who aren't gifted athletically.
wtaf is this
I saw Chad Chad talk about this girl I think. Ugh idk these types of people irritate me a lot
Wow what a piece of shit
Never got around to how that's easier than for men. As far as I know, there are shelters and condoms for us guys. We can also file for child support. What is her point, really ?... 🤦
As I always say when I hear this women speak those boys in the room will never actually see her as an equal to them. She simply exists to boost their egos that's all they need her for nothing more nothing less I'd find it sad if she hasn't said the most vile shit imaginable and has agreed with most vile shit imaginable for misogynistic validation.
Oh honey who hurt you
But I mean they’re taking away abortion rights… and possibly birth control so…. Not quite easy mode for women
Who the fuck is this asshole?
Just another pick me girl with no real opinions of her own
Funny how she's saying cheating is bad here considering in another video she said when men cheat its okay cause "it's like a handshake" Whatever the fuck that means, she just says shit, looks around for approval and than doesn't elaborate.
I could literally feel my IQ dropping as I watched that
desperate to be 'one of the good ones' i guess
Ah yes, Femdrew Tate. Definitely of the dumbest girls to have graced us.
In my country the male can just not acknowledge the kid as his if he doesn't want to. Doesn't need to pay child support, so am I told tho. Women can abort and men can opt out. It's not the same thing, but gives some freedom for men if they didn't want a kid in the first place and it accidentally happens.
I cannot stress this enough… I hate this person with an absolute passion. Her handle as “just the pearly things” is like this ever so ironic lipstick on a pig metaphor. She needs to be deplatformed but she won’t be because Andrew Taint worshippers pick her.
As a child born of an accidental pregnancy, this kind of worldview always infuriates me. It’s an insult to the single mothers that worked their ass off to give their children what they needed. My mother struggled constantly. Children are expensive, child support and a job still didn’t stop the struggle. My own grandmother basically shunned her for the first few years because it was so shameful to be born out of marriage. I also find it disgusting to view kind men as “simps”. I eventually got a stepdad and he is one of the nicest people and also works hard for my siblings. This woman is just so off base and must come from wealth cause it’s so narrow minded and classist. Contraceptive doesn’t work on every woman. Some can’t take it due to severe side effects. Abortion is not legal everywhere. In my country it was only just made legal and it’s still not very accessible. I don’t know about the US but government support barely covers rent here anymore.
Women definitely don’t bail out of everything compared to men. The amount of men who have committed rape, murder, and much worse shit have been able to bail out. Women who have done the same aren’t, unless they have high connections.
Oh I know that woman. She makes low effort content aimed squarely at incels and that’s it. And when I say low effort I’m not joking. Doesn’t even do basic editing to her videos and shit.
“Bailed out by going to a women’s shelter…” Yes, shelters are luxurious places ! Obviously she’s never been abused & needed immediate refuge. She’s a scumbag
What universe do these people live in? What the fuck?
"if youre the fifth baby mama you can go to the goverment and they'll pay you" sounds like the guy is getting bailed out my dude
White privileged women thinking every other woman in the world is a white privileged woman.
Birth control and abortion arnt regularly available in some countries and isnt accepted in some cultures. You will be very harshly and unjustly judged for stopping "god's creation". If you cheat your a Cheater. People will know. You likely won't get another decent partner who will love you for you. You will probably cheat again and never be able to have a long lasting healthy and loving relationship. If your a single mother most men immediately take you off the table as a dating option and the ones who do chose to date you will likely leave and you will not have a long term relationship as the man will not want the responsability of your child, in most situations.
“Pick me! Pick me! r/pickmegirls!!” 🤢
This woman is so fundamentally wrong on so many levels wtf?
Like any of those are fun and easy options. 🤔 Like living at a women's shelter is the high life, there are no emotional/health consequences to pregnancy and abortion, and taking care of a man child for the menial support they provide is easy! What a bunch of shit options to survive.
omg not this chick again
You forgot, you get raped and no one cares.
if she wants to suck up to woman hating men for whatever reason she can go right on & do that. see how that works out for her. makes me no difference
You know what, she's definitely a man but bitch is wearing a realistic costume bet. 🧍🏻♀️ I'm tired of this bitch. She talks so weirdly like she's having ton of bullshit in her mouth.
Not to mention, abortions are oftentimes extremely painful
This is like some Incel Ideology. Women go through similar hardships to Men.
Pick me behavior
What parallel universe do these people in? and how can I make sure I don't end up there?
Who is this idiot?