What’s really fucked up is that she said she’s from Miami, so the ship probably left out of there, and any cruise that has a key west stop, usually key west is the first stop for the cruise ship, so this fucker ruined the whole cruise at the very beginning of it.
You’re probably right but I would be pretty freaked out if my stupid husband got arrested and I got stranded. That really sucks. I hope she leaves his ass.
Take it as a learning experience, maybe you have a shitty taste in men who can't control themselves when they drink EVEN when multiple police officers arrive and tell you you're going to jail if you don't shut up.
Part of the psychology abusive men use is they purposely cut off their partners from their family and friends, and teach them that they'll never be able to function without them. It's hard for a woman to unlearn what is possibly years of abusive brainwashing, that's probably why she feels so terrified.
I felt bad for her. She did not resist etc. ID asked, gave them her ID. Did not hold her phone up and start filming, did not get in between police and the man. She may have been loud, but she was desperate to make him shut up and cooperate in that very situation.
I really hope she finds a better person.
They didn't even make out of the state! Lmao. I also love how she's like "what do I do". Drive a couple of hours North? She makes it sound like she's on the other side of the world lol
Mam we have given you the perfect oportunity, go back to the ship pack up his shit, order a drink enjoy the rest of the cruise when you hit port go to his place, drop off his stuff pack up anything of yours and get away.
Those cops just saved people on that cruise from having to deal with that asshole. He was 100% going to get into a fight at some point on that vacation. I don't like cruises anymore than the next person but people paying money for an experience shouldn't have to have it ruined because of someone who didn't get therapy.
She likes (or liked) him because he’s a real man, a bro, he’s a macho tattooed guy that drives a giant truck with a trailer hitch that has never been used.
She needs to leave is ass, but she wont. Seen this too many times, he's a absolute prick, she gets all crying when he is doing his stupid shit, he drags her down, over and over, but she wont leave him, and he wont change.
> She knows what he is. And she's still there defending him.
If she didn't he would abuse her too. This is the "peace keeper", she puts out all his fires and smooths everything over so no one can be mad. 100% abusive relationship stuff.
Yeah but new people are scarier than the one she already knows maybe. There are parts of her who love parts of him a lot but she exhausts herself constantly being with him. She probably has her own issues and it's why she is sticking around too. Adults who were abused as children will sometimes seek out spouses who will abuse them in the same way because that is "normal" to them. Its super sad all around.
I mean, did you see how she was acting when her bf was literally pinning the guy to the wall? She almost smiled. She seems like kind of a trash heap herself.
The gut reaction is to say she’s stupid for not leaving earlier, but the reality is that he’s probably abusive(judging by what we see in the video alone). Leaving an abuser is incredibly difficult, as they physically dominate you and emotionally control you. I honestly feel bad for the girl.
Super frustrating to witness her despair over being left alone, which could have been a blessing and a beginning to an awesome vacation, but she’s lost her sense of self and autonomy and is mired in extreme codependency. You’re absolutely right though, abuse screws up a person so thoroughly
Flip the script - she knows he becomes belligerent when he drinks and she wants to enjoy the cruise, so she got him drinking (“we’re on vacation, a drink or two won’t hurt”) and egged him into picking a fight with the cook full well aware that he’ll escalate when law enforcement is called. Now she can enjoy the cruise in peace. Brilliant!
Classic case of seeing a hothead asshole as a strong protector that makes them feel safe. In reality, when do they really need to be protected? Probably after they've both made several unsafe and unwise life choices that lead them to stupid situations that seem to require physical violence to solve. Somehow, I just don't get into these situations where being violent and intimidating is the best solution..
Yeah, her saying that she’s the only one who can calm him down when he gets like this—seems like this guy goes around causing physical violence on the regular.
My favorite alcohol induced activity is probably meeting new friends in the bathroom. There’s a certain je ne sais quoi quality about a ladies bathroom when everyone’s drinking and it’s late at night. Like, booze allows collective conscious to break through and it brings a vibe of old friends coming back together. 😅
The cops should've never given him a pass in the 1st place, he still assaulted the cook.
Thankfully he was too much of an idiot and forced the cops hand.
I wonder if they were never giving him a pass…
They were waiting on the one cop to see the security camera footage.
Once he saw it? He was like: “Yep. Grab him.”
You can hear the one cop saying "what else can we get him on?"
Disorderly is nothing. They let him froth his mouth up to felony resisting and felony battery.
Poor girl may be drunk, but she’s trying to get her loser boyfriend to stay out of jail, which he seems pretty keen to visit
Also if this is a “Bahamas cruise” - why are these key west cops?
Yup - She did a damn good job, she had it all settled and they could have walked out of there if he had have kept his mouth shut.... but no, he had to be an angry asshole for some reason.
She should go back to the ship and enjoy her vacation away from him. When my ex got arrested while we were in Paris I went back to the hotel and ordered a fancy dinner and a nice bottle of champagne on his card and enjoyed my final night there alone
I suspect that KWPD officers have more experience dealing with drunk idiots than any PD in the country, save for Vegas. This guy REALLY needs a few good thrashings.
The lady that owned the restaurant said he was going to beat on his lady. He then was going to fight the employees. His girl talked the police into letting him go and the knucklehead talked himself into the arrest. Real winner there.
Go finish the cruise and pack up his stuff.
I’m from Miami and I have seen that 1,000 times. That’s the main reason why I stopped going to clubs and bars. Idiots like that with a chip on their shoulder that can’t hold their drink.
She's absolutely in denial.
"I can't believe it". Homegirl, you absolutely can. You KNOW what kind of dirtbag he is. You know he's an angry drunk. You make excuses for other people making him angry when he has a short fuse. "What do I do?" You leave his ass.
Police were reasonable, arguably may be too reasonable knowing that he had put his hands on the cook, but they still gave him a possible way out. The perp was too far gone to fully appreciate it. I feel bad for her to be honest. Her significant other is a complete and total idiot. And now he will miss a possible tour of the ship's engine room, the only reason in my view to take a cruise.
She squeals like a pig.
Edit: I have no patience for this. I would never continue in a relationship with someone who acted like this. Clearly there have been warning signs that she ignored for years
Edit2:she should just go back and enjoy the cruise. Make a decision about him after she gets home
Yeah, I have to admit when he pushed his face into the cruiser's hood and told him in no uncertain terms that he was NOT IN CHARGE, I kind of cheered inside.
100% of the time these videos are real life versions of the Ron White tater salad bit, “ I had the right to remain silent but I did not have the ability to remain silent. “
So many people would get a warning and released if they’d just shut. The. Fuck. Up. For 30 seconds.
Damn I actually feel for her as I’ve been there with drunk friends when they won’t listen to anything you say and get in trouble (usually bouncers not police).
I feel bad for that girl. I really hope she dumped his ass. I would be panicking getting stuck alone on vacation too. Maybe not screaming but that’s just me. But still yeah, I’m an anxious person. This shit looks miserable.
Credit to her for trying to stop him and successfully negotiating with the cops to get him an opportunity to leave. Now that he’s done this shit she needs to leave his ass and find someone more coherentz
Some people can’t handle alcohol a their inner absolute asshole comes out. You can’t do shit about it while they’re drunk. This guy either needs to stop drinking or faces the consequences.
He had so many chances. The D must’ve been THAT good. She doesn’t get it. There’s more to life than the D. I’ve been drunk but damn, what a narcissist. Enjoy life, THIS is not the way
she’s desperate for him, for whatever reason WTH
This guy has some serious mental issues to behave like this. Being drunk is no excuse. He’s a self centered man child and she needs to leave him. I feel bad for the bar employees, cops, and his girl.
I don’t see the big deal, it’s the same Florida. She should have ignored him, had him arrested and he could have grabbed the bus home once he posts bail by himself. It would have been worse off if it was Cancun or any other foreign country. She should be glad it happened sooner than later.
I watched this with my bf, looked at him and said “I would go back to that cruise a single lady” I’m loyal, but never to a grown man who can’t handle his liquor. No thanks, better off with that mess.
What’s really fucked up is that she said she’s from Miami, so the ship probably left out of there, and any cruise that has a key west stop, usually key west is the first stop for the cruise ship, so this fucker ruined the whole cruise at the very beginning of it.
Guarantee she’d have a better time without him.
Maybe she'll meet a nice man and come back a changed woman.
Tonight, on Lifetime
It's now a singles cruise for her.
Maybe she’ll meet a nice woman and come back a changed man. We can’t be sure.
Except she'd never go without him. You can tell she's terrified to do anything on her own.
You’re probably right but I would be pretty freaked out if my stupid husband got arrested and I got stranded. That really sucks. I hope she leaves his ass.
This ain't the first time her husband has been arrested. She should be a pro at this by now.
Take it as a learning experience, maybe you have a shitty taste in men who can't control themselves when they drink EVEN when multiple police officers arrive and tell you you're going to jail if you don't shut up.
Part of the psychology abusive men use is they purposely cut off their partners from their family and friends, and teach them that they'll never be able to function without them. It's hard for a woman to unlearn what is possibly years of abusive brainwashing, that's probably why she feels so terrified.
The hardest drug to kick, sometimes, is another person.
Let's be honest. This guy has ruined his life and hers (and their kids lives) already. He got drunk and went looking for someone to beat up.
I felt bad for her. She did not resist etc. ID asked, gave them her ID. Did not hold her phone up and start filming, did not get in between police and the man. She may have been loud, but she was desperate to make him shut up and cooperate in that very situation. I really hope she finds a better person.
They didn't even make out of the state! Lmao. I also love how she's like "what do I do". Drive a couple of hours North? She makes it sound like she's on the other side of the world lol
She forgot to leave one of the kids with her parents.
My first thought: “oh cool this super level headed guy has kids. They’ll probably grow up to be totally normal functioning adults like him”
Well don’t write them off yet, plenty of us well adjusted people walking around that had parents that may as well have been children.
Where's Kevin?
“What are you gonna do?! Arrest me?!” - man who was arrested and didn’t go on his cruise
Mam we have given you the perfect oportunity, go back to the ship pack up his shit, order a drink enjoy the rest of the cruise when you hit port go to his place, drop off his stuff pack up anything of yours and get away.
Staaaaaahp
*Ma’am
Damn girl get back on the ship and find a new dude.
![gif](giphy|9AzkkMZHLZqy1ILYOf) She got the Dee Reynolds/Bo Derek special hair do and everything
I was thinking Monica Geller but I am also old lol.
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Instead of "STOP" What she should have said was... "GET ON THE BOAT YOU FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT FAT ASS!!!" Thar probably would have worked.
LMAO
Those cops just saved people on that cruise from having to deal with that asshole. He was 100% going to get into a fight at some point on that vacation. I don't like cruises anymore than the next person but people paying money for an experience shouldn't have to have it ruined because of someone who didn't get therapy.
Completely horrifying that they have kids…
She told him to stop but he would not listen so now they have kids.
No shit. What a horrible father/step father those kids have to grow up with.
I wonder if “watching your boyfriend get frog-marched down the street” was in the itinerary.
WE’RE ON A CRUISE
STAHP!
RAHN STAHP
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The first night at bed....
22 stahps and i quit the video
She should have told the cops that. It probably would have changed their minds.
The kids are back home with the grandparents too!!
She married the alcoholic abuser who peaked in high school
Expensive port excursion.
I would have left his ass. And at least they were still in Florida.
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She likes (or liked) him because he’s a real man, a bro, he’s a macho tattooed guy that drives a giant truck with a trailer hitch that has never been used.
It was scheduled right after the wine tasting seminar.
You have to pay extra for that shore excursion.
Shore excursions always cost extra!
She should have told him to stop.
BABE
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Doesn't he know they're on a cruuuuuuze?
STAHP STAHP STAHP BABE PLEASEEEEE
Maybe remind him they’re on a cruise
She did. Like a hundred times. Edit: might have been a whoosh on my part.
whoosh
Lol. Ya think?
Wow you're really good at reading jokes man
Lmao
Yikesssssss
She needs to leave is ass, but she wont. Seen this too many times, he's a absolute prick, she gets all crying when he is doing his stupid shit, he drags her down, over and over, but she wont leave him, and he wont change.
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And she said "This is why you don't drink". This isn't a surprise to her.
He couldn't shut his mouth to save *her* life.
I’m guess pub crawl on vacation isn’t a great idea for an angry childish drunk. Girl just can’t enjoy her vacation braids and a margarita in peace.
And yet he’s drunk and she’s not surprised by what he’s like *because he drinks.*
This is the exact reason I don't drink, I come from a family of alcoholics and don't even wanna find out.
But she can't believe this
Right? I've seen 2 minutes and I believe it fully.
> She knows what he is. And she's still there defending him. If she didn't he would abuse her too. This is the "peace keeper", she puts out all his fires and smooths everything over so no one can be mad. 100% abusive relationship stuff.
She’s wasting her life being with him.
Yeah but new people are scarier than the one she already knows maybe. There are parts of her who love parts of him a lot but she exhausts herself constantly being with him. She probably has her own issues and it's why she is sticking around too. Adults who were abused as children will sometimes seek out spouses who will abuse them in the same way because that is "normal" to them. Its super sad all around.
Yeah but how dare the cook brush his hand away when all dude wanted was to fight? That’d set anybody off
I mean, did you see how she was acting when her bf was literally pinning the guy to the wall? She almost smiled. She seems like kind of a trash heap herself.
Can't find a better man...
She dreams in color, she dreams in red
So true. Great song and certainly fits this scenario.
The gut reaction is to say she’s stupid for not leaving earlier, but the reality is that he’s probably abusive(judging by what we see in the video alone). Leaving an abuser is incredibly difficult, as they physically dominate you and emotionally control you. I honestly feel bad for the girl.
Super frustrating to witness her despair over being left alone, which could have been a blessing and a beginning to an awesome vacation, but she’s lost her sense of self and autonomy and is mired in extreme codependency. You’re absolutely right though, abuse screws up a person so thoroughly
Flip the script - she knows he becomes belligerent when he drinks and she wants to enjoy the cruise, so she got him drinking (“we’re on vacation, a drink or two won’t hurt”) and egged him into picking a fight with the cook full well aware that he’ll escalate when law enforcement is called. Now she can enjoy the cruise in peace. Brilliant!
Classic case of seeing a hothead asshole as a strong protector that makes them feel safe. In reality, when do they really need to be protected? Probably after they've both made several unsafe and unwise life choices that lead them to stupid situations that seem to require physical violence to solve. Somehow, I just don't get into these situations where being violent and intimidating is the best solution..
He had the right to remain silent, but he did not have the ability.
They hurled his ass out of that bar
Are you … Tater Salad?
Did he say he’s gonna break his back, pelvis and eyebrows?
And tongue.
But first he has to pee.
I GOTTA PEEEEE is the best after all that shit talking
Those cruisers are designed for hosing out. They let that dude pee himself. Wish it made the cut.
Jersey shore vibes Staaahhhp it raaahn
He obviously has the same temperament as Ronny.
That couple are like a Bahama vacation cliché. Puka beads in her hair and everything. Hilarious.
It's pretty sad when someone measures their value by whether or not they can beat someone in a fight.
Have this small inkling feeling that she's an abuse victim of some sort
Yeah, her saying that she’s the only one who can calm him down when he gets like this—seems like this guy goes around causing physical violence on the regular.
In Vino Veritas. If alcohol makes you act like this, alcohol is not the only problem.
“This is why you shouldn’t drink!” Five minutes later “I can’t believe this!!!!!!” This first is a truth, the second a lie!
Some people just can't handle alcohol and this guy is definitely one.
There’s different kinds of not being able to handle alcohol, and the guy who gets drunk and wants to fight everyone is my least favorite.
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My favorite alcohol induced activity is probably meeting new friends in the bathroom. There’s a certain je ne sais quoi quality about a ladies bathroom when everyone’s drinking and it’s late at night. Like, booze allows collective conscious to break through and it brings a vibe of old friends coming back together. 😅
“Blame it on the alcohol” Sure it brought out the worst in him, but I’m pretty sure he’s awful sober too
I’m pretty sure that they must have paid for the unlimited drinks package on the cruise.
Imagine being married to that wanker. What a terrible life that poor woman and their children must have
She chose a mate poorly.
‘If you just sit down and shut up we will let you go on your way’ *gets up* “Hey FUCK YOU!” 👏
The cops should've never given him a pass in the 1st place, he still assaulted the cook. Thankfully he was too much of an idiot and forced the cops hand.
I wonder if they were never giving him a pass… They were waiting on the one cop to see the security camera footage. Once he saw it? He was like: “Yep. Grab him.”
You can hear the one cop saying "what else can we get him on?" Disorderly is nothing. They let him froth his mouth up to felony resisting and felony battery.
Sad, so much self sabotage. Fucker could not control himself. It’s almost as if he wanted to put himself away.
Poor girl may be drunk, but she’s trying to get her loser boyfriend to stay out of jail, which he seems pretty keen to visit Also if this is a “Bahamas cruise” - why are these key west cops?
It’s a cruise to the Bahamas with a stop on the way in key west
Guy didn’t even make it past where bridges go on his cruise.
She was completely reasonable and sweet talked them into letting him go, but he just couldn’t sit still for five minutes.
Say thank you say thank you
Yup - She did a damn good job, she had it all settled and they could have walked out of there if he had have kept his mouth shut.... but no, he had to be an angry asshole for some reason.
Because it's like the first stop out of Miami lol. They still had like the entire rest of their cruise to go.
Stop. It's fine. Leave him alone. Stop. It's fine.
that “i’m the only one who can calm him down” shit is fun until the cops show up.
Sun’s settin’ reeeal low, big guy
It looked like Mr. Bedregal had pooped his pants when they were walking him out.
She should go back to the ship and enjoy her vacation away from him. When my ex got arrested while we were in Paris I went back to the hotel and ordered a fancy dinner and a nice bottle of champagne on his card and enjoyed my final night there alone
I’m so glad you got to do that. I hope she does too.
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I suspect that KWPD officers have more experience dealing with drunk idiots than any PD in the country, save for Vegas. This guy REALLY needs a few good thrashings.
You should see NOPD work Mardi Gras on horseback.
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Bars in Key West close at 4AM, so, yeah.
Lesson : Stop Running Mouth when your girl is trying to help you.
You think this guy learns lessons?
Lesson: Don’t go on a pub crawl during the first stop of a cruise when you’re a violent alcoholic.
What a scumbag.
Holy shit. This is the greatest public freakout I’ve ever seen in my life. Not joking.
The lady that owned the restaurant said he was going to beat on his lady. He then was going to fight the employees. His girl talked the police into letting him go and the knucklehead talked himself into the arrest. Real winner there. Go finish the cruise and pack up his stuff.
I’m from Miami and I have seen that 1,000 times. That’s the main reason why I stopped going to clubs and bars. Idiots like that with a chip on their shoulder that can’t hold their drink.
just another deadbeat drunk loser.... Nobody gives a fuck... next!!!!
For fuck sake this guy can't ever shut up is he??
Bro probably didn’t remember a thing when he woke up.
Tammy Wynette wrote a song that applies here [D-I-V-O-R-C-E](https://youtu.be/7kVgb5aPhDQ?si=grBKod6sRDPVa4Uf)
That is going to be one hell of a wake up for him.
Hopefully, more for her, she needs to get away from him. The dude is unbalanced.
This guy needed to listen to his girl... Just shut up.
He’s quite a catch
I saw this video on TikTok. Correct me if I'm wrong, didn't she say he wants to fight because he's from Peru? Did I miss something about Peruvians?
Cook is from Peru I’m thinking. Freak guy is just a bigot who wants to fight immigrants.
Thanks for correcting me.
She's absolutely in denial. "I can't believe it". Homegirl, you absolutely can. You KNOW what kind of dirtbag he is. You know he's an angry drunk. You make excuses for other people making him angry when he has a short fuse. "What do I do?" You leave his ass.
Instant asshole - just add alcohol.
I cannot imagine he is a nice person sober either.
Poor lady he does not deserve this woman
what an absolute moron.
And his nickname was, Double Down
Police were reasonable, arguably may be too reasonable knowing that he had put his hands on the cook, but they still gave him a possible way out. The perp was too far gone to fully appreciate it. I feel bad for her to be honest. Her significant other is a complete and total idiot. And now he will miss a possible tour of the ship's engine room, the only reason in my view to take a cruise.
Mr Bedregal will now be on the internet forever… genuinely sad mental state. How he finds some humility and gets help
She squeals like a pig. Edit: I have no patience for this. I would never continue in a relationship with someone who acted like this. Clearly there have been warning signs that she ignored for years Edit2:she should just go back and enjoy the cruise. Make a decision about him after she gets home
I can’t believe I think a little more police brutality was in order.
Yeah, I have to admit when he pushed his face into the cruiser's hood and told him in no uncertain terms that he was NOT IN CHARGE, I kind of cheered inside.
Alright. We done. I gotta pee.
Seen this story too many times. She won’t leave him, they will have a kid or two and a fucked up family
I’m confused. Are they on a cruise? Does she want him to staaahhp?
She chose to spend the rest of her life with this guy.
“What are you gonna do huh?!”
I might as well get the drink package.
"the guy set him off". FF. Never his fault, right?
This seems like an everyday occurrence with this guy.
100% of the time these videos are real life versions of the Ron White tater salad bit, “ I had the right to remain silent but I did not have the ability to remain silent. “ So many people would get a warning and released if they’d just shut. The. Fuck. Up. For 30 seconds.
She def should have just gone back to the boat with out the drama and enjoyed her time with other people looking to enjoy it the same way.
Damn I actually feel for her as I’ve been there with drunk friends when they won’t listen to anything you say and get in trouble (usually bouncers not police).
I feel bad for that girl. I really hope she dumped his ass. I would be panicking getting stuck alone on vacation too. Maybe not screaming but that’s just me. But still yeah, I’m an anxious person. This shit looks miserable.
I truly hope she left him.
Voted most divorceable man.
“THIS IS WHY YOU DON’T DRINK!!!”
STAHP
Credit to her for trying to stop him and successfully negotiating with the cops to get him an opportunity to leave. Now that he’s done this shit she needs to leave his ass and find someone more coherentz
![gif](giphy|U3PCMfHEVfJWk0i8A9|downsized) Later that day …..
Why can’t people “not believe this “with their inside voice?
came for vacation, left on probation ☀️😎🌴🌅🏝️
Missing ships movement is a serious offense!
Some people can’t handle alcohol a their inner absolute asshole comes out. You can’t do shit about it while they’re drunk. This guy either needs to stop drinking or faces the consequences.
The cook set this all up to get him, she said this, let’s all beat up the cook!! /s
Alcohol.... Yet, we can't get weed is some states legally.... But Alcohol, something that makes you feel 100 foot and bulletproof.. no problem.
What an idiot, good job dude. Now your girl is gonna be alone.
Looks like he got the fight he was looking for.
I couldn't see this video because of all the red flags
That’s Key West police. Probably just started their cruise. Didn’t waste any time I guess.
My god, stop screeching you harpy, Jesus Christ.
She better leave his dumbass right now
What a fucking idiot.
Omg we need to get back to a place where we can just publicly beat people who act like this
He had so many chances. The D must’ve been THAT good. She doesn’t get it. There’s more to life than the D. I’ve been drunk but damn, what a narcissist. Enjoy life, THIS is not the way she’s desperate for him, for whatever reason WTH
This guy has some serious mental issues to behave like this. Being drunk is no excuse. He’s a self centered man child and she needs to leave him. I feel bad for the bar employees, cops, and his girl.
I don’t see the big deal, it’s the same Florida. She should have ignored him, had him arrested and he could have grabbed the bus home once he posts bail by himself. It would have been worse off if it was Cancun or any other foreign country. She should be glad it happened sooner than later.
I watched this with my bf, looked at him and said “I would go back to that cruise a single lady” I’m loyal, but never to a grown man who can’t handle his liquor. No thanks, better off with that mess.