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eli74372

The math for the tip isnt mathing lol. Dude probably only had your ass on his mind


ObviousCollection_

She is a lot to think about. Lmao!


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mac_0728

Bro, what the fuck?


ObviousCollection_

He blocked me. So I can’t even see any longer


mac_0728

Probably for the better unless you were planning on attending therapy


ObviousCollection_

I can tell he is sad enough that it doesn’t phase me. He’s just ignorant and in his own little world all alone and needing distractions.


Dilectus3010

What did he say?!


RingCard

😝 fair


ObviousCollection_

Not really. Makes him a bitch


caulpain

🫡🤌🫵😘☝️🥸


Canegang4

Checked profile, understand the shot attempt


whoisthismuaddib

Holy guacamole


ObviousCollection_

Yeah because so did the client right


OkJelly300

You're a pawg you will always get attention for your ass


ObviousCollection_

True, I guess I’m not mad about that! I grew it myself after all. Lol, you can always buy titties, you don’t always get to buy a nice ass! Lmao


Thin-Connection-4082

Fr fr 🤤


Chuggles1

Shameless self promo for her OF and other BS. Downvote the garbage


traebucketsfor3

HAHAHAHAHHAAH 336 is Winston Salem so not surprised at all. Went to ECU and the 336 boys be kuntry as hell


ObviousCollection_

Omg yes you are correct! It was a group of 8 very “kuntry” young men. Well, young men that were entirely TOO GROWN to behave the way they did. One of the guys didn’t tip me at all because I didn’t a have a snap chat and couldn’t “see how the vibes went”


traebucketsfor3

I’m sorry for that but damn I see it right now — I went to school w tons of kids like that and they are definitely a special breed


fri9875

Nothing to add really. Just go pirates


lolatheshowkitty

Omg that is awful. I’m also in the triad, we don’t claim these men!!


ObviousCollection_

I am located in the Sarasota area in Florida. We tend get to people from all over


jeopardy_loser

Sincerest condolences 💐


PuritanBaptist

Sorry you went through that, idk why people gotta be so weird about speaking to women they find attractive these days. Just talk to them like a person, respectfully shoot your shot and if she says no wish them a good day and carry on. I’m ugly as crap so I really can’t give good advice but it’s appalling how dumb people are sometimes.


ObviousCollection_

Someone with a good personality that genuinely makes me laugh goes further than good looks sometimes. I’ll at least be friendly with nice people. Arrogance gets you nowhere with me.


yirium

I grew up in the 336. Was not for the weak of heart.


maker__guy

Triad representttt 👊


jeopardy_loser

Well damn, I grew up in hicktown AL and I don’t remember anyone ever spelling “phat” that way. Two Americas


Goodgamings

Drop 20% before laying out out the phat ass comment fam. At least is was phat with the ph that's way more respectful!


netinept

They probably went off the suggested tip calculation at the bottom, which indicates this is more than 20%. I wonder why that tip suggestion is wrong.


ObviousCollection_

It’s the before tax amount on the suggested. It’s quite annoying. His math was still wrong because the total is only indicting the $10. Unfortunately I still would only get about $7 at the end; the way our tips get divided.


mr_purpleyeti

Wait, can you explain to me like I'm five? Why did he need to give more than the suggested amount?


EczemaMunster

why would he tip you on tax. makes no sense


ObviousCollection_

I pay out taxes, tipshare, and still 9/10 don’t receive a paycheck with not getting anything on a tax return. Considering I came from corporate America and used to pay in stupid but get back something this is insane. If a table doesn’t tip me- I still have to pay more taxes than I did before and tip out the rest of the staff and I have no choice about how much that is. So there is a chance I have to pay to take that table if you’re a pos and tip like garbage.


iAmAmbr

Don't know why you got downvoted for this. I wish more people would understand that if they don't tip, more than likely that server just had to pay to serve them.


ObviousCollection_

Exactly.


iAmAmbr

Some people know and still don't gaf. They're like "take it up with your employer! I shouldn't have to subsidize your wages" but if they really cared they'd tip or not go out to eat. People like that are the worst kind of people. I refuse to have anything to do with someone if I find out they don't tip.


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ObviousCollection_

I pay out taxes, tipshare, and still 9/10 don’t receive a paycheck with not getting anything on a tax return. Considering I came from corporate America and used to pay in stupid but get back something this is insane. If a table doesn’t tip me- I still have to pay more taxes than I did before and tip out the rest of the staff and I have no choice about how much that is. So there is a chance I have to pay to take that table if you’re a pos and tip like garbage.


Shreddersaurusrex

Why do you only get $7?


ObviousCollection_

We have to divide our tips up as a tipshare. It’s not super an issue, but it’s automatically calculated by the check total. It’s fair to me as we all work together, however if someone lets say doesn’t tip me anything at all- a tipshare still comes out of my other tips from that table and I potentially just paid to take care of really rude & obnoxious people.


Psychological_Box805

People that aren't industry should do a swap with us. As smart as they think they are , I think a lot would sink.


bacondev

Yeah, the term “tip share” is a misnomer. I have to pay for each table even if they all stiff me. It's more like “help the company save on taxes at the servers' expenses.” But I suppose that that doesn't have the same ring to it.


ObviousCollection_

Exactly. My bar shifts I don’t tip out at all nor management


thctacos

Yeah 20% would of been $12 so he stiffed you and gave you a chance to get to know him, a wonderful gentleman. You should be grateful to be graced by him /s


everydayguy20

He tipped 20% pretax tip is stiffing now? This is getting insane


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Is that what stiffed means now? Less than 20%? 🤣🤷‍♂️


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Sexual harassment costs extra.


JackPenrod

It’s so annoying! And it would be so easy to make it calculate the after tax amount


JackPenrod

It’s so annoying! I started to think it’s just another way for owners/management to shaft servers and bartenders because it would be so easy to make it the after tax amount


nicklor

Definitely tax but even that seems off


Jacoby_Jackson_14

He tipped more than 20%. You are NOT suppose to tip on tax… that is for taxes.


Motiv8-2-Gr8

Have you seen her profile? I doubt they were in the wrong here


ObviousCollection_

Agreed!!


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CareerMother1264

The person tipped 20%. Can you not read?


RandJitsu

20% would have been $12.50. For those arguing you don’t tip on tax, you’re wrong. The gross sales (post tax) are used to calculate both your tip out percentage to SAs/bartenders and to calculate the minimum tips you must claim for IRS purposes. Tipping is calculated on the full bill, not the subtotal.


CareerMother1264

No. Why should a customer tip on tax? Does not make sense. You don’t tip on tax. That sounds like a restaurant issue not a customer one. That person tipped 20%.


JJJaxMax

You’re correct. It’s just another way to shift labor costs from the business owner to the patron and the fact that anyone is saying “stiffed” when being tipped enough they have time argue about tax to get 20% says alot about out the culture. that’s exactly what the business wants. They want their employee thinking it’s the customers duty to take care of them. My ten years in the industry has shown there is a ton of nuance and situations vary, but in my experience the industry is broken and should have a fixed hourly wage thats is livavle just like any other, with option for tips. Anyone that made good tips on average like myself before would be happy with 15 an hour, because I’d earn more. Hard to have it both ways though.


CivillyCrass

Do you though


ObviousCollection_

I do. She deserved more than that. Lol!


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Why do you keep referring to yourself in the third person 🤔


spotthedifferenc

she’s referring to her ass not herself as a person


AllastorTrenton

(She's talking about her ass :p)


BranDaMan16

Damn that’s so rude isn’t it? My dms are open if you ever need to talk about this.


not_an_mistake

Homie checked her profile


Merakul_47

Why are your suggested tips incorrect?? The math isn’t mathing ANYWHERE in this photo


ObviousCollection_

Oh I know! It’s the before tax amount apparently as the suggested. Plus we have to split tips a certain percentage. So I realistically made $7 off of him.


LiveByThyGuN

I remember a person not tipping me at all but leaving their Instagram handle saying to follow...


Notorious_Degen

Take the number and send it to a bunch of spam companies that will keep calling him 🤣😂🤣 my cousin she did that from a bar she worked out. The tipped like shit and she’s like well this is going to be fun. Like for Jehovah’s Witnesses, and shit like that hahah


ObviousCollection_

Love that for her! That energy is just ~chef’s kiss~


Notorious_Degen

That guy never showed his face there again haha


ObviousCollection_

Don’t you tease me with a good time


Chemical_Party7735

And this is why men don't approach women anymore...


Notorious_Degen

There’s being nice and actually being a decent person and then you have this receipt….


Chemical_Party7735

Being a nice decent person NEVER works. Come on now. You know this


Notorious_Degen

And being a clown and saying you got a phat ass works?…. Maybe in high school


Chemical_Party7735

Man... You'd be surprised at some of the lines I've seen work (I bartend).


Notorious_Degen

Same I have bartended and I worked at a brewery. I’ve heard it all.


Chemical_Party7735

So you know exactly what I'm talking about.


Notorious_Degen

Yea doesn’t mean it right lol. I had a woman hit on me and I’m clearly married and her response was simple “yea and i have a husband at home, we can have some fun just no one needs to know” I’m like o boy…..


jef98

I can’t believe the comments below you, these people act like they’re gods gift to earth


bioxkitty

Ah yes a bar, where people are on their best behavior and have clear head.


WillingShilling_20

There are far nicer ways of approaching someone


KidLurk

But you do tho


CoolerThan0K

I was gonna downvote you, then looked at her post history. Mans just telling the truth. I live and bartend in the 336 too though, so I can understand the general frustration nonetheless.


Kimsbabydaddy08

Bruh same lol… I was like “ this dude is something else haven’t even seen her “ the. I looked and I was like oh shit


ObviousCollection_

Honestly, facts. Lol


abbstractassassin

Does he expect you text him being like “hey it’s phat ass girl, when you taking me out to dinner with your less than 20% tip?” Like what


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Paid-Not-Payed-Bot

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Chemical_Party7735

Thx bot


The-Hand-of-Midas

I prefer to imagine he *was* speaking nautically.


abbstractassassin

Well I am a lesbian so I wouldn’t go on a date with any men lol. But no, the phat ass part is even worse than the tip


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abbstractassassin

Honestly not a horrible tip. But if you’re gonna give someone your number, at least tip 20%


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abbstractassassin

You’re annoying lol


Omega777Eve

not all men* just the ones like you :)


ishwari10

You should tip everyone at least 20%


Usernames__are__Hard

Nah, just if you’re going to trap someone in their place of work and then act like they wanted to talk to you the whole time.


TheNewPoetLawyerette

If you're going to hit on a service worker (you shouldn't, see below), you should at least endeavor to show them that you respect their job and their hard work by leaving a good tip. Same as leaving a good tip for the service worker when you are on a date with someone else. It's one of those finer details of early courtship where it only costs a couple of dollars to demonstrate to your date whether you are a kind and generous person who treats others well, even when they are in a subservient position to you, or whether you're a cheap asshole who likes to complain about tipping service workers. Re: hitting on service workers, it's gauche to take advantage of the power imbalance between a guest and a service worker to hit on one while you are a paying customer. The fact that you control their pay and livelihood and it is their job to please you for money puts them in a position where there are few polite or socially acceptable ways to turn down unwanted advances. But also just based on your attitude toward tipping and service workers in this thread, I also mean that you, specifically, should never hit on service workers. You'll only end up the subject of ridicule in a thread like this one.


jamesjulius1970

I hear what you're saying, but does it really apply in this case? She's didn't even have to turn him down to his face. Just turn in the receipt at the end of the night and she'll never see I again. He already paid the tip too so it's not like it's a quid problem quo situation here. Whats wrong with it exactly?


TheNewPoetLawyerette

See the first part of my comment about showing you respect her job


jamesjulius1970

You said it wS taking advantage of a power imbalance. I could see your point if they did it while seated, but it was after the dude had already left that the waitress got the message. Where is the power imbalance there? The tip had already been rendered amd was not contingent on her response. Aren't they just two citizens after that?


Important_Public_101

this nigga broke your honor 😟☝🏾


MustardButter

Dude had his mind on 57ing with you.


Squalor_Victoria42

Bravo!


444bri

every single time i’ve received a phone number it was on a receipt tipping less than 20%. you want to impress me, tip 100% 😘


AllastorTrenton

Yeah, if you're gonna make a move, you GOTTA out the money out there too lmao


lifesabeachandthenu

How I met your father.


ObviousCollection_

That man would need to be Gerald butler hot to pull this off 😹


Alright_Art

That’s not even the right math..


Alright_Art

No rizz and stupid. life has to be hard for him.


TheSexyGrape

Who said that chivalry was dead 😄


Scooby_D00bie420

If he really thought she has a and I quote "phat ass" you'd think he'd leave a bigger tip if he was trying to get lucky leaving his number like she really gonna call his ass


Fr4nzJosef

I mean, it can work, one of my better relationships when I was younger came about because I left my number for the new, very friendly waitress at a place where I was a regular. I **kind of** thought she was interested as well but as oblivious as I usually am figured it was 50/50 she was just being nice. But I also left a 100% tip because I figure being a cheap ass would NOT have helped my case and if I was wrong, well, at least she got a nice tip to make up for her customer being a dork. First and only time that actually worked out for me though. *Edit for GD autowreck.


Psychological_Box805

Well. If math and articulation are his strong suites..we're doomed. Not even a good tip if it did add up properly..


Double_0_Spoopy

I had one pull the "do you serve milkshakes" thing. His friends kept telling him to stop and apologised after but they were still laughing. I didn't know what they were doing because i don't have tiktok. It was annoying because it was busy and i had more important things to do. I didn't hear him the first time because it was loud and they kept laughing.


ObviousCollection_

I do not do the TikTok either. Same lol


dboy120

That math ain’t matching either


christinambowers

couldn't tip 20% OR add his shitty tip correctly 🚩


reggie_kush

what a coincidence, the note mentions a “phat ass” and her post history is all /r/phatasswhitegirls guess he must have checked her Reddit account before tipping


SavingsBoss1451

exactly, this shit is fake and cringe as hell


ObviousCollection_

Yes I generally greet my guests with a link to Reddit account instead of my name. Doesn’t everyone ?


WolfyBeats_

He isn’t wrong darling. You do indeed have a phat ass. About to sub


Serious_Dooty

Lol i grew up in the same area code. NC mfs smh


PhattiesRus

How much more money is needed on the tip for this to be acceptable? Asking for a male server that can’t relate lmaoooooo


yirium

THIS IS WHERE IM FROM HAHAHAHAHA shoutout to the 336


rayshoestrings

9797? (Edit) *8797


DaysofThe_Weak

Well he ain't wrong got DAMN


DasBeefcat

You working at Hooters and thinking this is craY


AllastorTrenton

He is speaking facts, but he needs to tip way more to say it


Numerous-Ad4240

Why would you leave that note. That as a man made me gag. And it’s also an unreal level of confidence. But not in a good way.


ObviousCollection_

The level of confidence some men have had at work, (when hitting on me) does make me question myself at times. Lol.


TheRealJehler

“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take” Wayne Gretzky, I took this to heart when I was a single man in my 20’s lol


ObviousCollection_

I’m sure you would tip 20% at least to get their attention.


TheRealJehler

If I couldn’t afford to tip at least 25% I wouldn’t have gone out to eat. Kids these days…


ObviousCollection_

Unfortunately he was young, but entirely too grown to be acting like we’re teenagers.


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jelleym

Just because someone makes spicier content doesn’t mean they just stop being a human who should be respected. She’s allowed to complain when people are shitty to her still. She shouldn’t have to deal with *harassment* from a man who’s objectifying her at her work.


ObviousCollection_

“What’s the best drink to have while doing lines” ??? fuck on outta here my guy. Lol. You’re bold too.


TheNewPoetLawyerette

That guy must be really miserable to need to try so hard to insult you lol


ObviousCollection_

At first it was sad, now it’s just alarming. Yet they wonder why people are so scared of males these days.


TheNewPoetLawyerette

Girl I get you. It's always sad and alarming in threads like this. Trolls LOVE hanging out in this sub just so they can piss off waitresses like us for both the tip aspect and the being a woman aspect. I try to think about it like yeah they're just trolling. But I also know that we are dealing with men like this daily in person. I love the photos you've posted of yourself. Please don't ever feel like posting lovely photos of yourself like those online makes you a lesser person. You're a hot and empowered woman and it doesn't justify the sexist treatment or the misogynistic trolling. Love you, doll.


ObviousCollection_

You are just too sweet beautiful, I’m so glad I was graced by your presence today ❤️


TheNewPoetLawyerette

Mutually! 💜 I loved your post and seeing your replies to assholes in this thread.


ObviousCollection_

Didn’t find a good drink to mix with lines I guess. Lmao


Serverlife-ModTeam

BNBR


Revolutionary-Turn-4

I wouldn’t say thats bold


konjo666

Now we gotta see what the fuss is about.


KatAttackThatAss

Not gonna lie, my ego was huge when I was serving and bartending 😅 especially since my hubby isn’t too into sex, or compliments… so like… I’d go to work and feel great about myself 😂 our marriage is perfect. I’m just hyper sexual while he rarely needs sex. So it was a nice little boost in self esteem when I was bartending especially. SAHM now and it’s … challenging to get the esteem boost I crave. Never intent to cheat or anything but random dudes who compliment and tip well made my day.


ObviousCollection_

Omg, I Love your handle


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Shout out Winston-Salem


Psychological_Box805

Wow. At the end of the day. Servers make as much as McDonald's workers most of the time. If you can't afford to go out and tip someone who is giving you and expierience, not just a drive through, or if you think tipping is so out of range for you're expierience, take 20% off the top right away wheN The cooks get payed more. We set up. We serve. We clean We put up with bs. If you're service is absolute shyte, don't tip. Don't go out if you expect a McDonald's expierience. We're serVERS , not SERVANTS. ✌


True-Solid-4298

Just curious, how much would one need to tip for this to actually work? 🤔


Omega777Eve

100%


True-Solid-4298

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KollinPorkChop

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TC986D

Congrats on the tushy game and not getting totally stiffed on the tip.


BoredCheese

Oh, good, you have his number! Sign him up for every political and religious group you can think of. Make fake Craigslist ads.


ObviousCollection_

Honestly, this one wasn’t as bad as some others that made me genuinely think about it. Lol.


Ishyfishy123

Can confirm Ass is indeed phat 🤣


sean8917

Damn looking at your profile dudes not wrong. Gotta drop at least a 50% tip if you're gonna write that tho


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Haha this dude is like “I don’t get why girls don’t like me! It must be Taylor Swifts fault!”


Seaking405

I would have to see this phat ass first to make a decision.


Cheap-Insurance-1338

You have great nails too! Would that have gotten you to call him?


TrySumSnax

Well was he lyin?


blakNbold

I had an incline to visit to profile and yeah my math would be fucked up too if that was in close proximity to me. I actually forgot what I was originally going to write after peeping. But yeah still very bold of a person to say and even bolder to say it alongside a tip under 20%


Fun-Building-1922

Unfortunately, young idiots think that working at Hooters means you're fair game.


AThousandWayz

As a server, this tip is fine... Are you not used to tourists giving 0 to 10% every time? Since the service system is flawed in America and we are profiting off of it most of the time, we should probably not be so entitled


FlatSession8085

Bruh not even 20% what a dumbass


DaDoggo13

Bloody pervs


Technical-Dentist-84

Too bad you weren't visited the Master


Slimetasticslat

Let’s see that ass now …


musiclockzkeys13

Thought that was a 330 number


jnewman9253

WADDUP 336


Affectionate-Cut-858

I don’t know how dudes think that’ll work. Lmfaooo


mklinger23

Hey call me *17% tip*


akdubz112

The percentages at the bottom are making me angry


Huns26

Since when is 57 plus 57 zero


Huns26

I read this as bald young male guests at first and I was like whoa I didn’t realise bald guys were all a certain way? Makes a lot more sense now that I read it again


ObviousCollection_

I once had a bald man say to me out-loud, and I quote: “I’d like to tongue punch your fart box”…at my full bar 🙃


t00thpac04

Well, hopefully they were attractive because they obviously cannot do simple math


BamBam-BamBam

You should have said, "It's worth 25% gratuity, playa!"


RewardBroad8716

336? Boy doing Winston Salem, NC proud. 🤦‍♂️


Gorz2

Free lesson on how to fail at pickup lines


ubernik

Next time dramatically squint at the check and say "sorry you couldn't afford me." I'd do it.


No_Exam_7918

Math is hard too.


elmaki2014

put his contact number on every toilet wall in your city....for a good time call...


ChicagoStyle1

And can’t math…


twisterbklol

These ads are getting smarter.


DyingRats

Hooters in Greensboro?


ObviousCollection_

No, Sarasota, Florida


Rusty_Bojangles

OP suggested 20% tip at the bottom is $10.01. He tipped you more. What’s with the “tip better buddy” remark?