Let go of the concept of your forever person.
There are plenty of people who will love you in your life in different ways, for different time periods and reasons.
Even the person you think you will be together with forever can leave you unexpectedly. Instead, enjoy every connection you make in the moment and love them in the present.
Well this is a Reddit, probably none of us will end up forever with anyone. If I ever do though I can't wait for them to show me all the cool memes they're seeing rn c:
This is exactly what my husband does, just tells me all about the funny stuff he sees on reddit. I have encouraged him to start giving some upvotes instead
One moment you'll think about her doing precisely that out of a feeling of homesickness because you're separated.
Every moment you spend together is a memory to be had. They aren't a finite resource.
So look down at her, and smile.
It is what it is at the end I mean, it's just we need to find that right one for us and then we will have the best type of time of our life, that's what we want for real.
Just accepting such things in our lives man, that's kinda going to happen and we don't need to pretend that it's not going to happen, that's all I could say about the thing.
For real man, we all know that sometimes we are going to be in such conditions and that's gonna arrive really really soon in our lives, that's just how it goes for us.
That’s assuming there’s someone for everyone, which isn’t true.
It sucks when you realize you may be one of those people but it’s still possible to be happy in other ways
Idk if I want them to tell me those things. They could be really bad things that could destroy my perception of them. So hopefully they leave it in the past and not tell me.
"Honey, did I ever tell you about that time in October 13th, 2023, where I filled a burlap sack with puppies, lit it on fire, placed it on a catapult, and shot it out of the air? Good times"
I think this is a really weird take. Everyone has a past. A lot of things happen that you can't control. Part of growing up is using those experiences to change. They won't be who they were. That aside, you probably wouldn't end up with them if you were bothered by their past.
My first wife could not help herself but mention all the guys she slept with before me, it was like some strange compulsion of hers. Really spoiled things. My second wife does not because she knows I would much rather not hear about it. It was pretty refreshing to meet someone who considered my feelings for once .
Yeah that's the stuff I'd rather not hear. It's not a bad thing that they had fun cause I certainly did but I'd rather not think about the person I'm with, with a lot of others. Like one of my exes hearing about her with multiple guys at once. Glad she got to have fun but I'd just rather not hear of it.
I have a great life and expect that to continue for a while to come :) thanks for the sentiment, but you should know, not spending life with another person isn’t something to be pitied - it’s still fulfilling :)
I hope you’re planning a good life too🙂
That's kinda hitting me really really hard right now man, I don't know why I always feel like I could be that person for a person, really waiting for my time for real.
I believe the one lady I promised myself to has been trying to communicate with me by the use of Music, which is something she knows and I knows I do. I also believe she's setting me up online to learn more about me. I know who she is ;) She knows who I am.
I do believe I made her pregnant and didn't really know it. But I'm glad it was her and her only when I look back at it.
Other things she will only get to know in person. She and others are free to ask questions I may or may not have the answers to, but she will have to take the good with the bad. She'll have to also understand so long as I don't lose her from being an idiot again in life, then I'm always going to want her in my life until the abyss do I run. I told her I was going to marry her YEARS ago and I did. I am stricken and can't let her go, simple as that, including my kids.
Nuh uh— because the person I’ll be with forever is already alseep in bed next to me 😎
EDIT: LMAO I love that I’m getting downvoted for being in a happy marriage lol
News flash: There is more than one person in existence they you could end up with forever. Just depends on where you are and who you encounter and meet in life.
So there are probably thousands of people who you could spend your life with doing things now that they could eventually tell you about later.
That's right man but I don't know why I am having some panic shit just by reading the way you wrote it lol, I just gotta say that I am always going to feel this shit.
I gotta say that keep waiting and be with the best person in your life because at the end of the day, such persons will matter a lot for you, that's what we want.
I gotta say that not everyone would get what you are saying right now but I have to say that I am getting this thing almost 100% right now because it's really factual.
That's kinda obvious for me I guess, it's just me who is waiting for that person actually, let's hope if I am going to get that person in the coming time or not man.
Don’t do that… Don’t give me hope
I count this as an absolute win
Don't let the Absolute Win! Unless you're on the evil playthrough.
Let go of the concept of your forever person. There are plenty of people who will love you in your life in different ways, for different time periods and reasons. Even the person you think you will be together with forever can leave you unexpectedly. Instead, enjoy every connection you make in the moment and love them in the present.
It’s me ….
Well this is a Reddit, probably none of us will end up forever with anyone. If I ever do though I can't wait for them to show me all the cool memes they're seeing rn c:
This is exactly what my husband does, just tells me all about the funny stuff he sees on reddit. I have encouraged him to start giving some upvotes instead
Happy cake day!
Happy cake day
I mean, she’s sat 3 feet away from me on the couch watching videos on her phone. Not sure if that counts as making memories…
I'm in the same spot as you, but she's using me as a leg rest.
I am sitting next to my wife as well
Mine is in her bed in the other room.
You ended up with your Sister?
Do we have to do the “everyone on Reddit is a 15 year old virgin” bit every single time?
As a Reddit user for 11 years - yes, I'm 15 and deprived
This shit's been going on since forums in the 90s.
It was probably statistically more likely to be true in those days. Now those single 15 year olds have grown up, are 41 and have a wife and two kids!
Statistically, sure. But it was still stupid and tiresome even then.
One moment you'll think about her doing precisely that out of a feeling of homesickness because you're separated. Every moment you spend together is a memory to be had. They aren't a finite resource. So look down at her, and smile.
Oh you old romantic - I like it!
I hope I made your morning!
Lol, this exactly.
thats a sweet thought
Sweet and fucked up to ever think at the same time.
Bold of you to assume I'm worth anyone's time.
I knew there would be at least one comment that said “bold of you to assume blah blah blah”
It is what it is at the end I mean, it's just we need to find that right one for us and then we will have the best type of time of our life, that's what we want for real.
Just accepting such things in our lives man, that's kinda going to happen and we don't need to pretend that it's not going to happen, that's all I could say about the thing.
For real man, we all know that sometimes we are going to be in such conditions and that's gonna arrive really really soon in our lives, that's just how it goes for us.
That’s assuming there’s someone for everyone, which isn’t true. It sucks when you realize you may be one of those people but it’s still possible to be happy in other ways
Just don't be a dummy and ruin the best relationship you'll ever have like I did. Shit sucks.
Third wife’s the charm.
There will be another
Idk if I want them to tell me those things. They could be really bad things that could destroy my perception of them. So hopefully they leave it in the past and not tell me.
"Honey, did I ever tell you about that time in October 13th, 2023, where I filled a burlap sack with puppies, lit it on fire, placed it on a catapult, and shot it out of the air? Good times"
A catapult? A mother FUCKING CATAPULT? You know god damn well this is a trebuchet household and always will be.
If I launched it from a trebuchet, I wouldn't be able to shoot it out of the sky. Trebuchet too powerful
I think this is a really weird take. Everyone has a past. A lot of things happen that you can't control. Part of growing up is using those experiences to change. They won't be who they were. That aside, you probably wouldn't end up with them if you were bothered by their past.
My first wife could not help herself but mention all the guys she slept with before me, it was like some strange compulsion of hers. Really spoiled things. My second wife does not because she knows I would much rather not hear about it. It was pretty refreshing to meet someone who considered my feelings for once .
Yeah that's the stuff I'd rather not hear. It's not a bad thing that they had fun cause I certainly did but I'd rather not think about the person I'm with, with a lot of others. Like one of my exes hearing about her with multiple guys at once. Glad she got to have fun but I'd just rather not hear of it.
As I’m ending up alone, this is unlikely.
That's kinda sad man, still hoping for a good life for you.
I have a great life and expect that to continue for a while to come :) thanks for the sentiment, but you should know, not spending life with another person isn’t something to be pitied - it’s still fulfilling :) I hope you’re planning a good life too🙂
HA!!! Funny you think I'll end up with someone 😂😂 Someone please kill me.
You just need a person who can kiss you all the time.
Yes I know......... But it appears no one wants to. 😭😂
Speak for yourself, I plan to get a divorce at 65 and get a 20 year old gf. (I’m just kidding that’s fucking gross)
Go for at least 26-27
That's not gross grandpa, I know you just want to be with a 20 year old.
That's kinda hitting me really really hard right now man, I don't know why I always feel like I could be that person for a person, really waiting for my time for real.
You will probably never meet anyone you will be with forever.
Yeah I mean for a start there's death..
For some people, forever is a myth.
They just want it right now or they just don't want it lol.
They may be happy for 10 years, but not everything lasts.
Nah, that time passed long ago. Now we’re in the ‘forever’ part, and have been for 27 years.
Unless they haven’t been born yet.
That's kinda bold man, you are being real right now XD.
thought I met my forever...
It could happen man, just don't lose up for this one right now.
Bold of you to assume redditors will find a life long partner...
They are just going to be stuck here for no reason right?
There’s plenty of 30 year olds that will marry a 20 year old when they are 60
This is another kinda fact and I am not going to say that it's bad.
I will definitely want to marry a 20 year old when I am 60
I really doubt he going to tell me what he’s doing on his phone in the bathroom rn
He is just watching some videos on TikTok and nothing more than that.
I might be involved in those memories, since I feel like I'm with him now Or maybe not, who knows. Currently no plans on trading him for anyone else
RemindMe! 5 years “show my husband”
Lol that's gonna be so freaking lovely for you in coming time.
Right! I have been waiting and waiting and waiting.
Assuredly presumptuous of you to assume I'll ever get to be with someone forever. I hope so but statistically speaking the odds are against me.
What if I already married her
Then you are good to go man, this post is not about you.
I believe the one lady I promised myself to has been trying to communicate with me by the use of Music, which is something she knows and I knows I do. I also believe she's setting me up online to learn more about me. I know who she is ;) She knows who I am. I do believe I made her pregnant and didn't really know it. But I'm glad it was her and her only when I look back at it. Other things she will only get to know in person. She and others are free to ask questions I may or may not have the answers to, but she will have to take the good with the bad. She'll have to also understand so long as I don't lose her from being an idiot again in life, then I'm always going to want her in my life until the abyss do I run. I told her I was going to marry her YEARS ago and I did. I am stricken and can't let her go, simple as that, including my kids.
Unless you don’t end up with anyone
It's high possibility that we can end up with some people.
Imagine wanting to end up with someone forever
r/pfpchecksout
I am literally just Aromantic
So is bill
Only if I find someone to spend my life with. Which is unlikely.
Well you can find in coming time, that's what I could say.
This shower thought makes a LOT of assumptions. I showed my wife and she has some questions.
You've made the presumption that your relationship will last.
I have indeed. How quaint!
Nuh uh— because the person I’ll be with forever is already alseep in bed next to me 😎 EDIT: LMAO I love that I’m getting downvoted for being in a happy marriage lol
Maybe that's right but maybe that could be really wrong.
You could say that about literally anyone you’re with until the day you die lmao. I prefer not to be a doomer about my marriage though lol
My forever person is over there and I know what he does, and most of what he’s done for the past quarter of a century. (We can’t know everything…)
Well you just can't know everything and that's a fact.
Don't tell my wife that...
Why though? I just don't understand this mentality man.
As in this is a shower tight for teenagers, not for people who’ve met spouses.
This is a nice theory, but the amount of divorces, single people, etc. it's just not likely for maybe half of the population.
Well if i meet her after amnisia then she wont tell me shit bout her past
My wife is going to be so upset when I tell her.
Well trust me, she would just be normal with this shit.
This is the mindset that kept me alive long enough to give me something worth living for, that being my bf who I love
She's in the living room arguing with people on TikTok. I highly doubt that we are going to talk about it years in the future
I mean nah I am not going to date a person like that lol
You can't anyways, she's dating me already
Haha, such a bullshit...
Bullshit for many people but some people would understand.
They're also doing a lot of things rn that they won't tell you...ever...
They are not gonna tell about the fucking they did actually.
News flash: There is more than one person in existence they you could end up with forever. Just depends on where you are and who you encounter and meet in life. So there are probably thousands of people who you could spend your life with doing things now that they could eventually tell you about later.
Yo, can I have some of what you're smoking?
I want the best quality of stuff from the OP for this one.
Why the fuck would I care about that
Because that's why we created this subreddit at the end.
I mean, not for a pedophile
They gonna have some different kinda fantasies with it.
For that matter, it might be the person I'm with right now, fingers crossed.
40 years old now. Still looking.
Good luck with the coming time of your life, you will find her.
I never denied that I existed, always knew that cause I was always in there whenever I needed myself.
I still deny that I existed and I know that I just don't now.
Trust me. They don't yet
So that means we don't need to keep waiting or something?
They're not born yet
Stop giving me a fantasy to dream about. I do t have the social ability to form that kind of bond
This is cool. Definitely gonna share this with my wife.
Yeah man, we all really felt such things at the end for real.
Bold of you to assume I'm gonna marry someone born earlier than 2024. - Leonardo Dicaprio, probably.
Keep up with the list and add drake there too man haha.
There's probably more single folk than there is couples. Unfortunately I'm in the single category, and probably for life
Maybe she is just getting pounded by someone right now.
nah, im 47 and the person ill be with forever isnt born yet
That's right man but I don't know why I am having some panic shit just by reading the way you wrote it lol, I just gotta say that I am always going to feel this shit.
The person I will be with forever is taking a dump rn
That’s a very sweet thought. I hope it turns out to be true. 🥲
Why does that make me feel happy and hopeful for some reason? :) Hehehe.
I gotta say that keep waiting and be with the best person in your life because at the end of the day, such persons will matter a lot for you, that's what we want.
I gotta say that not everyone would get what you are saying right now but I have to say that I am getting this thing almost 100% right now because it's really factual.
That's kinda obvious for me I guess, it's just me who is waiting for that person actually, let's hope if I am going to get that person in the coming time or not man.