You’re right. They’re completely different things.
I was just trying to emphasis how easy it is for gay men to have sex with each other without even knowing a single thing about each other, so it doesn’t surprise me that they didn’t communicate beforehand.
To give you an idea as to how easy it is to get laid as a gay guy, when I was gay, I almost hooked up with a guy in the Las Vegas airport bathroom during my layover once. He was an airport staff member, and the only reason I didn’t hook up with him was because 1) I didn’t want to end up on a “no fly” list, and 2) his lunch break ended. Otherwise, I would’ve done it for the experience.
Haha, I still like men, but “gay” no longer reflects my experiences anymore (I’m trans).
If I showed up to a gay orgy today, a lot of gay men would question why I’m there. 😅
I agree that it is indeed often something that is in the culture but it is also what you make of it yourself you know... I bet enough gay guys (including me) wouldn't mind or even enjoy a bit of lighthearted conversation around their hook-ups, no matter how big the sexgroup is or if it's just a duet. It's nice to feel human.
Something I've heard before is that older lgbt people are much more promiscuous (don't mean negative connotation, don't know which other word to use) than younger lgbt.
Like that it was a thing for boomer and partially for millennial gays that a lot of them would do a bunch of sleeping around, but that later generations of gays are basically as awkward and forever alone as straights
Don't know if that's actually true, but if it is I think any older lgbt person will have the same impression this guy has
Maybe there was some confirmation bias, in so far as that people that could admit to themselves and their environment when it was much less socially acceptable to do so, are the people more likely to have a bunch of sex with a lot of people.
This is just me guessing though
In a threesome however with two strangers, i find it odd to talk . If the trio progresses , sexy talk can be entertained.
One on one feels more personal, so i talk more in that setup.
My lover and I are so used to each other that we have silent sex. We're completely glued to each other so I guess our bodies do the talking. The only time we say anything is for interruptions. "Oh wait my boss is calling me I got to take this." There is the occasional "where's the lube?" or "do you want to order Chinese food later?"
What's yalls definition of 'silent sex'? I feel like a lot of posters are saying it literally. Sex itself is a form of communication, the body language, the erection(s), the butt juices, the responses to it all. Fuck, I need to sit on John Cenas face...
Bisexual weighing in, who’s had 3 ways with other bisexuals (men and women)
I can confirm we do know how to have spontaneous fun :) tho I do fear for the heteros.
Ace here. Heteros suuuuuck...
They're too shy in general to do anything new or exciting.
You wanna go bowling? Nah.
Pool? Nah.
Dodgeball? Nah....
What do you wanna do? Drinking.
Bruh.
These are the types of people who think anal is a new potato chip flavor that they'll eventually try.
'We spoke in wingdings that night'
Took me out, feels like such a niche joke. You dont have to be an expert to get it, but not quite everyone gonna get the joke.
I feel like verbalization would only really be necessary if someone is new and has no idea what they're doing and needs a little direction.
People with experience know what they like and can probably start doing it without even having to think about it, let alone talk about it.
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You assume that it was silent or that it was gay?
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Gay people don't have communicative threesomes?
No. You can literally show up to an orgy and have sex with five people without exchanging more than ten words with them.
Well that's not fair cause orgies and threesomes are 100% apples and oranges, but I agree about the orgies lol
You’re right. They’re completely different things. I was just trying to emphasis how easy it is for gay men to have sex with each other without even knowing a single thing about each other, so it doesn’t surprise me that they didn’t communicate beforehand. To give you an idea as to how easy it is to get laid as a gay guy, when I was gay, I almost hooked up with a guy in the Las Vegas airport bathroom during my layover once. He was an airport staff member, and the only reason I didn’t hook up with him was because 1) I didn’t want to end up on a “no fly” list, and 2) his lunch break ended. Otherwise, I would’ve done it for the experience.
"Was"? Sure jan 🤥🤥🤥🤥
Haha, I still like men, but “gay” no longer reflects my experiences anymore (I’m trans). If I showed up to a gay orgy today, a lot of gay men would question why I’m there. 😅
I agree that it is indeed often something that is in the culture but it is also what you make of it yourself you know... I bet enough gay guys (including me) wouldn't mind or even enjoy a bit of lighthearted conversation around their hook-ups, no matter how big the sexgroup is or if it's just a duet. It's nice to feel human.
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So that s like 4some to me every single Mon-Sun/s
BYE
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Hello
Amen
Something like half of gay men have had a threesome. It's like 1/10th of the straight male population. So much more common on our side of the fence.
Only half? I would say 99% /s
I'm the other 1%
***We're*** the other 1%
Agreed. Oh hey! We’re exactly 3..
Fourth here reporting in 🫡
“Hey dudes wanna start a foursome?”
*Me with the recording device for Men.com📹📹📹
So like a Hungry Hungry Hippos where everyone is a bottom fighting fearlessly over a bag of dildos? /s
Basically
Fifth one me 🙋🏻♂️
If im bi does that means i have a 50%+10% chance?
As a bi woman, unicorn hunters throw themselves at you
And when the straight cis guy you're dating falls in the 1/10th, your chances fall in the 1/10th as well. (from experience) (sad noises)
I'm bi. I've had 2 that were a dude and a chick, and 1 that was 2 chicks. Do with that information what you will.
I'm a trans guy and I've been in FFF, FMF, AND MFM threesomes so I just need an MMM threesome to get my hoe EGOT
i prefer it tbh. so i can tap out when im tired or need a break
I've had 5-somes. Once I was really drunk and high and was in a 9-some! Damn the things you do in your twenties.
After 5 I’m pretty sure it’s just an orgy.
Well, I’m clearly in the wrong half.
What kind of fucked up perception do u have
Something I've heard before is that older lgbt people are much more promiscuous (don't mean negative connotation, don't know which other word to use) than younger lgbt. Like that it was a thing for boomer and partially for millennial gays that a lot of them would do a bunch of sleeping around, but that later generations of gays are basically as awkward and forever alone as straights Don't know if that's actually true, but if it is I think any older lgbt person will have the same impression this guy has Maybe there was some confirmation bias, in so far as that people that could admit to themselves and their environment when it was much less socially acceptable to do so, are the people more likely to have a bunch of sex with a lot of people. This is just me guessing though
Pretty sure it’s been reported that Gen Z doesn’t have much sex.
I mean we have streaming services and video games, who has the time for sex?
There’s also streaming services and video games FOR sex. So it’s all taken care of at home lol
As someone from gen z, that makes sense
Yeah, Gen Z has anxiety, instead.
Kinda seems like he didn’t know where to go with it.
“Enough said”
Either that or that was funny enough on its own to not need more
I cannot comprehend silent sex, like that sounds boring. But maybe I just have a conversation fetish.
In a threesome however with two strangers, i find it odd to talk . If the trio progresses , sexy talk can be entertained. One on one feels more personal, so i talk more in that setup.
My lover and I are so used to each other that we have silent sex. We're completely glued to each other so I guess our bodies do the talking. The only time we say anything is for interruptions. "Oh wait my boss is calling me I got to take this." There is the occasional "where's the lube?" or "do you want to order Chinese food later?"
That last question would make me cum so hard
What's yalls definition of 'silent sex'? I feel like a lot of posters are saying it literally. Sex itself is a form of communication, the body language, the erection(s), the butt juices, the responses to it all. Fuck, I need to sit on John Cenas face...
Butt juices
FUuuuhCK yea
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Oh FUUUU7CK yea broooh. Like that? Lol
Conversation during sex? No.
how was your day? *pound *pound *pound
Bit of a pain in the ass
BYE 🤣🤣🤣
green text at the end threw me off
whos this guy
Who is this comedian? I need to follow him!
I knew he was straight. All the gay men I have ever known call it a "three-way." Only straights call it a "threesome."
Then here is one gay man who still calls it a threesome :P
Lol same. I've never called it a three-way lol. However i prefer even numbers.
Had only one foursome so far, prefer the threesomes for now tbh. Was a bit overloaded
Eh there's always one that you're into more and you have to divide your attention a lot, but with 4... Just think of all the combinations! Lol
I find the problem you described becoming more pronounced not less the more people are added.
Okie that's life. It's our differences that make us interesting.
I volunteer as tribute
Lmao enough said 😭
wingdings......SL
Another heterosexual tacitly explaining that men and women have no idea how to have spontaneous, organic fun
I disagree, I think talking about sex leads to better sex. It's not less organic because you say words.
Sometimes that's very true
Bisexual weighing in, who’s had 3 ways with other bisexuals (men and women) I can confirm we do know how to have spontaneous fun :) tho I do fear for the heteros.
Ace here. Heteros suuuuuck... They're too shy in general to do anything new or exciting. You wanna go bowling? Nah. Pool? Nah. Dodgeball? Nah.... What do you wanna do? Drinking. Bruh. These are the types of people who think anal is a new potato chip flavor that they'll eventually try.
that last sentence was brilliant lmao 🏅
Ima give him a mouthful
Flawless crowd work.
Who has a conversation about it? Ok, I'm going to stand here and you're going to suck my dick while your bf rims me. What? No. Well, yes, but no.
'We spoke in wingdings that night' Took me out, feels like such a niche joke. You dont have to be an expert to get it, but not quite everyone gonna get the joke.
I feel like verbalization would only really be necessary if someone is new and has no idea what they're doing and needs a little direction. People with experience know what they like and can probably start doing it without even having to think about it, let alone talk about it.
u/taylortiki who is this/what’s the source?
Awww sorry, i forgot where I got it from from instagram
His name is Zach Russell. Here’s his YouTube link https://youtube.com/@ZachRussellComedy
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