Going to a club is a really good way to take a look and have fun without swapping or pressure when you are with another couple.
You can hang out, chat and watch others have sex, then go to a room and have fun yourselves. If you want others to watch, then have sex in one of the public rooms, if someone asks to join, a simple no thank you is all you have to say.
Google has them listed, just search your area or where you want to go.
I am in MT and there are none in the entire state, so it all depends on where you are.
You might try voyeur/exhibitionist subs. Start sharing vids on those and watching others. Develop a relationship that both couples, or whatever you’re into, feel comfortable with, and move on from there. Or you could ask people you know, who you have an attraction for if they’d be interested. It’s just another human interaction. Ask and maybe it happens. Don’t ask, and it won’t. But it kind of makes me wonder why you find it so difficult?
Find out if there is a LS club in your city and just go to watch, dance, and maybe play with each other. See how you feel in the atmosphere without having to commit to anything or feel pressured.
As a beginner. Make notes on profiles that responded and left you uncomfortable.
The club visit first is the best option, imho.
Next would be to make it blatantly clear what you are looking for and modify it as you move on to a different desire.
We are in the same boat. We started this weekend. We didn’t switch but my girlfriend wanted me to have another girl. It was definitely nice watching other couples and couples watching us. I’ll definitely be tracking your post as we have the same questions. Our community seems dead so we are willing to travel
That’s totally us! We aren’t into swapping, just watching/being watched and maybe some kissing/touching if things really click. There’s lots of us out here :)
Watching and being watched isn't swinging and you are likely posting in subs where swingers are. Most people aren't going to meet you to watch or be watched, they want to fuck.
Go to a lifestyle club. In a club you don't have to have sex with anyone else and it will be easy to find others who also want to just watch/be watched. Clubs are full of newbies (especially if they have a newbies night or event) who will want the same.
Any in Orange County CA that any of you may know of?
Me and my boyfriend are so interested. I am 27 and my boyfriend is 30. Would prefer to watch first or be watched. And go from there
Going to a club is a really good way to take a look and have fun without swapping or pressure when you are with another couple. You can hang out, chat and watch others have sex, then go to a room and have fun yourselves. If you want others to watch, then have sex in one of the public rooms, if someone asks to join, a simple no thank you is all you have to say.
Where can we locate a club
Google has them listed, just search your area or where you want to go. I am in MT and there are none in the entire state, so it all depends on where you are.
You might try voyeur/exhibitionist subs. Start sharing vids on those and watching others. Develop a relationship that both couples, or whatever you’re into, feel comfortable with, and move on from there. Or you could ask people you know, who you have an attraction for if they’d be interested. It’s just another human interaction. Ask and maybe it happens. Don’t ask, and it won’t. But it kind of makes me wonder why you find it so difficult?
Find out if there is a LS club in your city and just go to watch, dance, and maybe play with each other. See how you feel in the atmosphere without having to commit to anything or feel pressured.
As a beginner. Make notes on profiles that responded and left you uncomfortable. The club visit first is the best option, imho. Next would be to make it blatantly clear what you are looking for and modify it as you move on to a different desire.
We are in the same boat. We started this weekend. We didn’t switch but my girlfriend wanted me to have another girl. It was definitely nice watching other couples and couples watching us. I’ll definitely be tracking your post as we have the same questions. Our community seems dead so we are willing to travel
That’s totally us! We aren’t into swapping, just watching/being watched and maybe some kissing/touching if things really click. There’s lots of us out here :)
We’re in the same boat! We’re just looking for friends to talk to and then potentially moving from there.
EastTx
Watching and being watched isn't swinging and you are likely posting in subs where swingers are. Most people aren't going to meet you to watch or be watched, they want to fuck. Go to a lifestyle club. In a club you don't have to have sex with anyone else and it will be easy to find others who also want to just watch/be watched. Clubs are full of newbies (especially if they have a newbies night or event) who will want the same.
Go to a club and go through at your own pace. Don't deviate from your comfort level. East Texas would be the pendulum club or Colette
Any in Orange County CA that any of you may know of? Me and my boyfriend are so interested. I am 27 and my boyfriend is 30. Would prefer to watch first or be watched. And go from there
Msg me. My lady and I are looking for a couple to watch us fuck too