Honestly, it's really refreshing and nice when the trash takes itself out. At least he's up front about letting everyone know he's a total douche nozzle.
The grammar is actually the least offensive thing about this. If he was nice and dumb at least he would be tolerable. This dude is mean and dumb. An idiot AND a bigot.
This brings to mind my favorite story from deployment. I'm walking through the DFAC with my favorite Staff Sergeant. Some rando walks up to me and asks me what my nationality is. My sergeant and I are just looking at each other. I tell him it's American.
He gets irritated and asks me again. I tell him again that my nationality is American. Rinse, repeat twice more. Finally, because I'm hungry, I ask if he wants to know my ethnicity. He is adamant that he wants to know my nationality. At this point my sergeant loses his shit on the rando and sends him scurrying.
So my unit spent the rest of the time asking me what my nationality was. 🤦🏽♀️🙄🤣
It definitely should be least of worries spelling and grammar matters a lot all the best to him still though
Edit-reminder: This is a joke. A joke is something someone use to make people laugh (look up "stand-up" to get a better idea how these are used in practice). Sometimes a joke is so niche and obscure that not many people would get it and that is fair. This is NOT such an occurrence. This joke was played in response to a comment pointing out the lack of proper grammar in the guy's Tinder (a dating platform) bio by sharing a comment with exact same syntax errors.
I wonder this every day too.... 😂.
Na, in all seriousness I'm not long out of a 10 year relationship so I'm just in self improvement mode for a while. I don't use online dating as it seems to be universally toxic where I'm from. I just enjoy this sub. The original reply post made me smile as did your reply so thank you 😊
Society shames people who are older and single
Being older AND single is actually a jackpot of sorts- because its a chance to recalibrate and pivot rather than just settling
Plus wisdom is a great thing my friend.
100%. I see a lot of people giving themselves trauma whiplash with the speed they try and rebound at. It very rarely ever ends well for anyone. I learned a long time ago not to do it myself.
There are many completely valid reasons to be over 40 and single (maybe they’re all just unfuckable? /s), but flipping off the camera in your online dating profile is one that reveals a little bit too much about yourself and your lack of personality
Yep! I’m in my mid-40s and I’ve been married for 20 years, and after seeing this subreddit, dating sounds like an absolute hellscape. Zero desire to get divorced. 🤣
Next photo was the tongue out, top off mirror selfie. 3rd Here is an animal I shot cos I am the Big Daddy 4th pic of truck loaded with beer (freshly washed). Final pic sat in truck, shades, cap, big fat joint.
In the bar with his homies Fri night be like: Man, no idea why I'm single cos I'm Alpha AF.
ER Know your audience maybe?
No, don't tell men not to do this. Then they'll learn that we actually look at their profiles and use that info to weed out the trashy/misogynistic oned so we don't have to waste our time or risk our safety actually talking to them.
Yeah don’t tell us not to do this. Tell us not to *BE* this. Every red flag here is a choice this dude made and he should both experience the consequences and understand the connection.
Thank them… the finger and inability to differentiate between your and you’re (let alone the transphobia) are best viewed up front
Saves time. Granted, he has also posted on this sub “why am I not getting matches?”
As a comment I saw a while back put it (and I'm paraphrasing), "Why would someone be telling their potential candidate for a date to fuck off? What exactly is appealing or attractive about that?"
Gotta laugh when guys like this are so focussed on people who are trans. Trans people are less than 1% of the population, but this guy obviously devotes a large portion of his time and attention thinking about them. He could be talking about the type of girls he likes but instead he talks about how he *totally* doesn’t want to match with a trans girl.
I think it’s totally backwards that the apps doesn’t have a filter for that. Some people aren’t into trans people and trans people should be able to only see people who are. Just like I don’t want to see men on my tinder, because I’m not gay. It just saves heart break and misunderstandings. Rejection is a gut blow for anyone
i also wish i could filter things i dont like. sometimes when i or my friends are trying to date women, we get cis men. it’s the most annoying thing. a lot of them always think they can “turn us” 🤮🤮🤮
In my family it’s how we say goodbye and hello. It’s just a stupid little things humans do. I honestly can’t believe people still take the finger as anything more than a joke at this point. In most cases it’s just a dumb edgy fun thing for a photo like saying cheese or doing a funny face. This guy tho I think he thinks he looks badass lol but who knows
He gives the finger for the same reason he votes for Trump, has zero grammar skills, and looks like a red neck … immaturity.
For some girls, that’ll be their thing. For women, not so much.
Urh! So cringe.
When I see people giving the finger in their profile or whatnots, I instinctively think of quoting McReady in the horror movie The Thing:
"Yeah, fuck you too!".
Except I dont have a molotov cocktail to throw at it. 😅
Instant swipe left .. no need to even look at the profile or the rest of the pics. 42 flipping me off with their friend. Grow tf up.
This pic = them saying “my bathroom and bedroom is dirty because I don’t like cleaning - I don’t see the dirt anyway, I have roommates, I cant keep a job, have a DUI so I cant drive, my conversational skills involve single word replies, I will disappoint you in the bedroom”
And they wonder why everyone is choosing the bear over the man… Also the grammar really goes to show you his level of intelligence, and paired with the transphobic comment it just makes the flags get redder and redder.
Girls who post pics flipping off the camera is an automatic no for me, dawg. Odds are most guys who are about to swipe on a single mother of two kids see that middle finger and think "childish" or "immature". Having kids doesn't automatically make you a mature adult. Your actions within your own situation does. This applies to the picture above as well..
Come'on folks, put the fingers down and just take normal photos lol
Cancer sun, Pisces mood and leo rising honestly sounds like this guy would have the worst personality. Needy judgy and self absorbed, this guy's astrology makes him seem like the type of guy who will insult you and call it a joke, but will get super offended if you make an actual joke towards him. This pic of flipping the bird to future matches checks out, based on his chart placements I would expect more of similar behavior from him.
How do so many red flags fit in one screenshot?
I don't know, I went into a seizure a few words into reading it.
It’s embarrassing how long it took to descipher
7 grammatical errors and i still dont know wtf he’s talking about…
Well where do I start first..
You need to stand out between so much competition.
You really just need to stand up 😂
42yo giving the finger, transphobic and has cancer 💀
How rude, how dare he have a cancer
But he also has two fish and a lion!
Honestly, it's really refreshing and nice when the trash takes itself out. At least he's up front about letting everyone know he's a total douche nozzle.
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Why is this person worried about the middle finger?? I’m concerned that they would have been interested if he had not flipped off the camera.
Oh, come on 🙄I would never ever ever ever ever in a million years be interested in someone with that in their bio even if they looked like Brad Pitt.
My bad
He listened to Icona Pop “I don’t care” too many times.
Listen, it's my *comfort song and I can't help that I've had it on repeat for the last twelve years!* 😭😭😭 😂😂
That should be the least of your worries. Man is dumb. Look at that grammar. He probably tells people to speak American.
That’s not grammar it’s grammer
I don’t want to go to Kelsey
Oh no, it does not move me
The grammar is actually the least offensive thing about this. If he was nice and dumb at least he would be tolerable. This dude is mean and dumb. An idiot AND a bigot.
He probably tells people to speak American 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This brings to mind my favorite story from deployment. I'm walking through the DFAC with my favorite Staff Sergeant. Some rando walks up to me and asks me what my nationality is. My sergeant and I are just looking at each other. I tell him it's American. He gets irritated and asks me again. I tell him again that my nationality is American. Rinse, repeat twice more. Finally, because I'm hungry, I ask if he wants to know my ethnicity. He is adamant that he wants to know my nationality. At this point my sergeant loses his shit on the rando and sends him scurrying. So my unit spent the rest of the time asking me what my nationality was. 🤦🏽♀️🙄🤣
It definitely should be least of worries spelling and grammar matters a lot all the best to him still though Edit-reminder: This is a joke. A joke is something someone use to make people laugh (look up "stand-up" to get a better idea how these are used in practice). Sometimes a joke is so niche and obscure that not many people would get it and that is fair. This is NOT such an occurrence. This joke was played in response to a comment pointing out the lack of proper grammar in the guy's Tinder (a dating platform) bio by sharing a comment with exact same syntax errors.
Yet you used zero punctuation, making your sentence difficult to decipher lol.
That's the joke. (Going by their previous posts and comments, this person is clearly able to use punctuation, but _chose_ not to do it this time)
Oh I never use punctuation why use more characters when fewer do trick
Agreed. Its also a great example of irony 😂
That's the fucking joke. Jesus Christ some dry biscuits in here.
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Except voice to text autocorrects grammar
No wonder the fine gentleman is single and 42.
was thinking the same thing. Its unattractive for most ages imo but at least understandable when they are 20 lol
I personally think 20 is way too old. Kids below 15 doing that trying to appear edgy ok... anyone older is just pathetic
I'm single and 42 💀 😂
What’s wrong with you, even hitler had a girlfriend!
I wonder this every day too.... 😂. Na, in all seriousness I'm not long out of a 10 year relationship so I'm just in self improvement mode for a while. I don't use online dating as it seems to be universally toxic where I'm from. I just enjoy this sub. The original reply post made me smile as did your reply so thank you 😊
Jokes aside it’s good to take your time.
Society shames people who are older and single Being older AND single is actually a jackpot of sorts- because its a chance to recalibrate and pivot rather than just settling Plus wisdom is a great thing my friend.
100%. I see a lot of people giving themselves trauma whiplash with the speed they try and rebound at. It very rarely ever ends well for anyone. I learned a long time ago not to do it myself.
Who was his first cousin? If I remember right????
Hitler had a cute dog, code name was “chick magnet”.
If you don’t post profile pictures of yourself, flipping off the camera, then you’re in better shape than this guy
Hey you’re just shooting strays at all the people in this thread over 40 and single ☹️🤣
There are many completely valid reasons to be over 40 and single (maybe they’re all just unfuckable? /s), but flipping off the camera in your online dating profile is one that reveals a little bit too much about yourself and your lack of personality
I’m starting to see that a lot of these older men who are single tend to be single for a reason 🌝
Yep! I’m in my mid-40s and I’ve been married for 20 years, and after seeing this subreddit, dating sounds like an absolute hellscape. Zero desire to get divorced. 🤣
Same reason that a lot of older woman are single. They haven't been able to find anyone willing to put up with them.:)
“Bro, we look so fucking alpha in this photo!” Also love the lack of punctuation and spelling (I guess that’s not alpha).
“FUCK YOU!” Hahaha but seriously….I’m looking for a relationship.
Haha!! Hilarious.
Always reminds me of things like https://i.pinimg.com/originals/84/b5/f1/84b5f1bff7a3739ed71980a8fa9430ab.png
But which one is THE alpha though?
clearly they should fight to the death in the battledome for the title
Next photo was the tongue out, top off mirror selfie. 3rd Here is an animal I shot cos I am the Big Daddy 4th pic of truck loaded with beer (freshly washed). Final pic sat in truck, shades, cap, big fat joint. In the bar with his homies Fri night be like: Man, no idea why I'm single cos I'm Alpha AF. ER Know your audience maybe?
Damn I didn't even scroll for the additional pics. Rookie mistake!
I reckon there was a photo of him holding a fish too
With a 'No Fat Chicks' decal on the back of the truck
“Cos I’m the Big Daddy”😭😭😭😭
"cancer" - probably not referring to his sign lol
No, don't tell men not to do this. Then they'll learn that we actually look at their profiles and use that info to weed out the trashy/misogynistic oned so we don't have to waste our time or risk our safety actually talking to them.
Yeah don’t tell us not to do this. Tell us not to *BE* this. Every red flag here is a choice this dude made and he should both experience the consequences and understand the connection.
"Hope your a woman, these days you can't tell" luckily it's bumble his inbox must be hella empty
42 and giving the finger in a pic on a dating app
Just winning at life
Thank them… the finger and inability to differentiate between your and you’re (let alone the transphobia) are best viewed up front Saves time. Granted, he has also posted on this sub “why am I not getting matches?”
It's so true. I couldn't swipe left fast enough which is why I didn't even see the horrors that were probably waiting for me in the other pics 🤣
You had one job to do - grab screenshots of the entire profile for OUR benefit - and you failed…. 🤣🤣🤣
Bro his bio is priceless. Trash, I mean. No monetary or any value whatsoever.
Isn't it '''i love you'' when your thumb is out? Source: Jeremy from 4th grade
Thumb in: “fuck you.” Thumb out: “I want to fuck you.”
he's giving cancer, that's for sure
This exists a lot of the lesbian side of Her and Taimi too :( like stop flipping me off
The middle finger look is never attractive for a man or woman.
So women do this too? I wasn't sure 😁
100%. Personally, I don’t find it attractive at all.
It’s like every three women’s profiles have at least one middle finger. It’s everywhere. It’s so off putting.
As a comment I saw a while back put it (and I'm paraphrasing), "Why would someone be telling their potential candidate for a date to fuck off? What exactly is appealing or attractive about that?"
When it's women flipping the bird, it's very often accompanied by the duck face. Two in one avian red flags.
it's dry humor, like edgy suicidal people who say fuck life I don't care, it's not meant to insult anyone
Ouuuu and the casual transphobia in the bio, fucking spicy one here girls
Gotta laugh when guys like this are so focussed on people who are trans. Trans people are less than 1% of the population, but this guy obviously devotes a large portion of his time and attention thinking about them. He could be talking about the type of girls he likes but instead he talks about how he *totally* doesn’t want to match with a trans girl.
If they spend all they’re time thinking about us then it means He’s got a crush on us 
🥹Adorable af. You'll get yours but it ain't trailer park Biff Tannen up there. You got this!
I think it’s totally backwards that the apps doesn’t have a filter for that. Some people aren’t into trans people and trans people should be able to only see people who are. Just like I don’t want to see men on my tinder, because I’m not gay. It just saves heart break and misunderstandings. Rejection is a gut blow for anyone
i also wish i could filter things i dont like. sometimes when i or my friends are trying to date women, we get cis men. it’s the most annoying thing. a lot of them always think they can “turn us” 🤮🤮🤮
Yeah I included that for shits 😜
Some photoshop artist shoud retouch the picture - add a little dab of shit on their fingers, as if they just fingered each other.
No. Don’t give them advice! They’re weeding themselves out making things easier for respectable people! 🤣
Where do you start? How about with some punctuation
For me this and sticking out your tongue were just instant left swipes.
He should probably start with some punctuation.
It's such a turn off
The bio is OOC smh I’m not even surprised that was his bio also *you’re
And he’s wondering why he’s not getting any matches…
The middle finger is the least problematic thing with this idiot lol.
If you identify as a woman, you’re a woman. Seems pretty straightforward to me.
The bio is embarrassing, also which one of them am I supposed to be dating ??? Lol
When you order Fred durst from wish
I don’t get giving the finger when you are the one taking the photo of yourself. Who are you flipping off?
In my family it’s how we say goodbye and hello. It’s just a stupid little things humans do. I honestly can’t believe people still take the finger as anything more than a joke at this point. In most cases it’s just a dumb edgy fun thing for a photo like saying cheese or doing a funny face. This guy tho I think he thinks he looks badass lol but who knows
“Your a woman” - obsessed with trans people, can’t spell, still takes middle finger pics as a middle aged man. Hard pass on all accounts.
Why? Makes it easier to root out the weirdos
He gives the finger for the same reason he votes for Trump, has zero grammar skills, and looks like a red neck … immaturity. For some girls, that’ll be their thing. For women, not so much.
True. Canada, but still tracks.
lol. The number of Canadians that call Trump “their President” is astounding. I’m in Winnipeg and I hear it all the time.
From the trailer park
No, fuck ‘em 🖕🤣
Is this a package deal?
Cancer men are a scourge upon humanity.
LMAO 🤣
Swoon Prince Charming 🤮
I like a bratty girl with some attitude, but if she's going to flip me off before we even meet that's an instant left swipe.
Profanity was always a left swipe for me. You are supposed to be showing your best. People need to do better.
I’m shocked he didn’t type “a women”
This is a great way to show that you actually trim your nails.
With that opening sentence, why would you want this to be a match? 😂
Just showing their IQ and lack of spelling ability.
The middle finger in pictures in general is stupid.
Give him a break. He's trying to get rid of that virginity
God, thank you. I don’t know why men don’t get that this is an instant turn off. Immediate swipe left for a middle finger picture
It's an alpha thing. You wouldn't understand....
This man is a 42 year old adult
His bio kinda cracked me up 😂 So gd simple
"Well at least it's easy to tell you're not a man."
This is an automatic “no” for me. I don’t find disrespect for the general populace attractive in any way.
Urh! So cringe. When I see people giving the finger in their profile or whatnots, I instinctively think of quoting McReady in the horror movie The Thing: "Yeah, fuck you too!". Except I dont have a molotov cocktail to throw at it. 😅
A lot of female profiles have the finger up too, instant no. It's childish and I'm in my 30's and people still do it.
I swipe left on anyone giving the finger or holding dead animals. It's not cute.
Oh yeah, that's another one! I guess they are catering to "an" audience...
not the type of dude i’d imagine gives a shit about astrology 💀
Half the guys in New Zealand do this- I don't get it.
I’m disappointed that this isn’t satire
What if, and hear me out. He is giving up on the app and is prefering to stay single on purpose?
I will settle on this answer, for my mental health (and pretend the bio didn't exist)
Imagine being 42 flipping off the camera
Tell me I’m an anti covid vaccine maga 🤡 without saying so lol
I like it, I really shows you all you need to know. Swipe left ✅
I know, I don’t get it. Why would any decent woman be interested in a guy with that in his profile pic? So weird.
Instant swipe left .. no need to even look at the profile or the rest of the pics. 42 flipping me off with their friend. Grow tf up. This pic = them saying “my bathroom and bedroom is dirty because I don’t like cleaning - I don’t see the dirt anyway, I have roommates, I cant keep a job, have a DUI so I cant drive, my conversational skills involve single word replies, I will disappoint you in the bedroom”
And they wonder why everyone is choosing the bear over the man… Also the grammar really goes to show you his level of intelligence, and paired with the transphobic comment it just makes the flags get redder and redder.
“I hope **your** a woman” dear god he sounds literally inbred
Cancer. For sure.
I only like being flicked off during or after sex also
It definitely says a lot about him that he's behaving like this at 42...
Girls who post pics flipping off the camera is an automatic no for me, dawg. Odds are most guys who are about to swipe on a single mother of two kids see that middle finger and think "childish" or "immature". Having kids doesn't automatically make you a mature adult. Your actions within your own situation does. This applies to the picture above as well.. Come'on folks, put the fingers down and just take normal photos lol
His bio is also top notch. A tru keeper <3
That's the finger he's gonna finger you with.
Cancer sun, Pisces mood and leo rising honestly sounds like this guy would have the worst personality. Needy judgy and self absorbed, this guy's astrology makes him seem like the type of guy who will insult you and call it a joke, but will get super offended if you make an actual joke towards him. This pic of flipping the bird to future matches checks out, based on his chart placements I would expect more of similar behavior from him.
Next!
He probably thought he looked so cool in that pic too
I care less about that than the blatant transphobia that’s on his profile.
Bio made me laugh He’s going to slay it
The finger is the least of his problems smh 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
"I just wanna be a gangsta."
Its always an automatic swipe left for me.
Definitely has a “don’t tread on me” sticker across the back window of his F-150
But the boys told me it looks badass AF !
And they have a cabin in the woods ..
He looks like he walks around with armor for his butthole. Imagine being that scared of trans people 😂
Idiots
No... let them show you who they are.
Brokeback mountain boys
I saw this too. It's just fucked up.
He gave you the finger.. maybe he will add a ring to it later
1 out of 3 profiles I swipe through have this. Ontario, Canada for you 😭🙈
Why does he have 3 astrological signs?
42 and using the wrong your is outrageous
He looks like he would beat on any partner that's unfortunate enough to match with him.
Bro is 42 doing this
Both ugly af.
Yessss!!! Thank you for posting this bc I was wondering if I’m being too prudish or something! So many grown men posting pictures like this 🤦♀️
It's soooo frequent. Maybe 1/15 profiles I look at are flipping the bird at me.
And at 42? a lot of these older men on dating apps are absolutely single for a reason…
Back when I was still on tinder this was an instant left for me. You have a middle finger pic? Bye. Just trash that I want no part of.
What about my a woman?
Everytime I see someone giving the finger in one of their pics, it's an immediate turn off for me.
And, yet, men like this are still wondering why women aren't attracted to them?
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He seems nice
i hope when I'm 42 I'll be able to afford to pay prostitutes so i don't have to go on tinder
That’s just what unintelligent people do to feel cool
Never understood the flipping the bird at nothing
You like fingers bag
Sad thing is he's probably still getting more matches than me
Don’t dead open inside
Grown ass men🌚
Not one working brain cell in that photo.
I beg he's rolling in the pussy
This is a GOOD thing. They're showing you who they are before ever even engaging with them.
Oh, I think look like a wonderful match … Dumb and Dumber. 
He doesn't know the diff between "your" and "you're " ... RUN